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tv   PODKAST  1TV  January 7, 2023 1:15am-5:51am MSK

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this christmas message of patriarch kirill is announced by the son in all the churches of the russian orthodox church. meanwhile, the communion of miriam begins in the church, the royal doors open. for the first time during today's divine service, the king of those who reign and the lord, who reign invisibly, but really, pass through them, present in his holy gifts, these we are explained by the names of the main entrance to the altar royal. i will tell cats and owls the truth, christ is the son of the living god, who came into the world to save sin. from them, the first one is the mass still i believe in a way. your most pure body shines. the most honest blood. yours i pray to both of you have mercy on me and forgive me my sins my free involuntary. i'm the word. i am the deed, i am the
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knowledge and ignorance and likeness. they are condemned to partake of your most pure sacraments for the remission of my sins and in eternal life in the evening. your secret has not treated god's communicant by communicants. oh, do not accept the secret of your enemy, do not kiss these ladies like judas, but i just oh, without confessing, remember the name, lord, in your father's, let not the communion of your saints be in judgment or excitation mysteries, lord, but you are the healing of the soul. and the body of amen vladyka zion recited a prayer before communion the chant of the body of christ sounds, accept the source of the immortal taster. approach the holy cup, realizing your unworthiness. and believing that the
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true body and true blood of christ abide in it, the solemn christmas service comes to an end. for two millennia, announcing to people the good news of the coming into the world of the lord and the savior, the church tirelessly calls people to believe in christ and become heirs of eternal life. and for to do this, you need to learn to live according to your conscience, do good deeds, work hard for the benefit of the country and your neighbors. if we really follow the gospel precepts, embodied in the holy scriptures and carefully preserved by the church, then many things will change and in us and around our eyes life will acquire a genuine deep meaning and
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no one and nothing, according to the word of the holy apostle. paul cannot separate us from love. god let us calmly and confidently with faith and hope walk along the path of life. creates good and multiplying love, i rejoice in everyone to the new day and thanks to god, for everything his husband deserves all glory, honor and worship of the ages. on this i nikolay derzhavin say goodbye to you. merry christmas to all of you
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well, i propose to talk about christmas today, actually something else, because , by the way, i was surprised to recently take an exam in the history of religion, a girl, she says, christianity arose there and something there again with dates. i say, listen, it's a simple question. he says, well, yes, simple, help. i say what year it is 2022 a why and for the first few seconds a person has a dead end, yes, then and exactly stirrups semyonovich well , listen, really, because the events
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divided the entire history of mankind into before and after. i turned to you these slept, i think we still need to introduce you, what if someone confuses you with father pavel florensky, as i often do? well, of course, we are very well acquainted, we will start with the clergy. pavel velikanov is a professor at the moscow oven, which means you will be a professor. philologist philosopher culturologist of the institute, i am very glad to see you, dear friends, the more we will return tonight. yes , events have divided human history, it is necessary and
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after it is how. well, i guess i think the most important thing here is that for the first time god announced himself so clearly, what? everything turned upside down. there are a lot of people who thought about god and, probably, there was no such period when people would not imagine god in a terminal way, and then something completely wrong happens obliquely. and, well, from any point of view, you can't say that this is what, in general, people expected expected. here, well thus god shows what is primary for him, what is secondary for him, what is primary for him. you know for me this year it's somehow christmas but it opens in such a perspective, going wild hmm for me i don't know why this year
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before, as i didn't think about it. what , relatively speaking, to imagine there in the place of the mother of god, uh, some modern girl? here, well, somehow i think everything would be very complicated and there is no place in the hotel, and some kind of bread and a full name and everything else, yes, yes, yes, that is, everything somehow everything somehow. well, not as we would like, and now it turns out that call the manager. yes? yes, yes, yes, and where is your book of complaint, yes, and so on, but it turns out that in this way god wants to enter this world, uh, at the same time. that's what shocks me so far in some kind of plunges. and what do we know about god the son of god , he incarnates only once, that is, there will be no other format of incarnation for him. he
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won't be able to replay it with some computer game. and let's take this option, and let's go to this scenario, that is, it turns out that for him this is not some kind of accident, this is extremely important. that's to enter into people's lives in this way, absolutely crooked, absolutely wrong, absolutely not pretentious. yes, uh, without a chariot at all, accompanied sideways sideways sideways. and you know this before. well, it wasn't noticeable to me. i did not see it, did not feel it, but this year i do not know what it is connected with. well, somehow this, in my opinion, is already expected. it is somehow lived in a special way. here, maybe this is related. do you know what can be connected with the fact that this christmas it passes. well, in a difficult situation, when a lot of people were thrown
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out of their usual apartments, houses, what is this pain, this suffering, this tension, this is the destruction of some, well, the usual normal images of the way of life. here it hangs somewhere in the air, maybe someone begins to somehow resonate, that god does not just come into this cattle. e yard in these mangers. where is the food, actually for the animals, as it were, i want to say that this is the phrase that we we remember every year. yes, they did not even find a place in the hotel. she sounds to you today. here, that is, it's not an accident, it's something you have in it. what are your impressions? well, i must say that i have a feeling that christmas created an amazingly beautiful legend, an amazingly beautiful story that excites both children and
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adults, because, well, abstracting from whether there was a place in the hotel or not, but this story itself. here the woman appears the baby and the shepherds and magi come first. this is a story that really amazes. how much for a poem was written on this topic. how much is written for each wire. i'm like a writer of this point of view. how many pictures , how many and the music is a wonderful, inspiring story, and i somehow recently caught myself thinking that, in fact, the magi and the shepherds could not come at the same time, that's for sure, therefore, it simply wasn't, because in fact you came to you much later, not at all did not come to the cave. yes, they came, as we know, because after christmas there was the circumcision of the lord, then there was the meeting lord's. only many months. well , maybe a little, well, some amount of time. after that they came, and the magi and then, so, in a dream, joseph was given an indication that herod wanted to kill and they went to egypt, and yet in our minds, all the same magi and
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shepherds. eh, they match and this is such a mythological legendary. uh, the idea of ​​this story, it defeats some kind of logical factual basis, and i think it's wonderful. and it seems to me, really, that it's very cool that it happened and here, by the way, if we talk about such literary coverage, and this story, though a lot has been written, but i remember that when i studied spanish as a teenager, we read a story that was not translated, but to my mind, still into russian by a fairly well-known spanish writer surin a. the story, which is called the first miracle, and the plot of this story is as follows. which means there's some glitter somewhere. well, a rich house is not rich. well, in general, the house and the owner of the house. scary angry angry irritable man who swears at his family, who are already tired of him insanely, he is tired of them and of his own passions. here is such a person, and
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suddenly to him. he is a diligent owner and comes to him every day to tell him what and how. one day they tell him that some strange people came into the bread that belongs to him and did something there. he is terribly indignant and goes into this bread, and everyone is already waiting. what does it mean that he is ready to smash them all then, and he goes to the window of this bread and sees something. after which he returns to the house is completely different and he talks softly to people. here is a story called the first miracle, such a transfiguration that happened to this man. and why is this story even more interesting, because it is evangelical. well, to us, as far as i understand in the gospel of matthew in the gospel of luke, we know, yes, this is the story of christmas. and the evangelists tell us that they read the right message to whom the bread belonged. well , probably for the gospel this is a very important detail. but here is precisely the role of art. yes, art that adds which says, which fills with sensations some fantasies, conjectures , thoughts, what other corresponding to the
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gospel texture or not corresponding to the fact that in fact he is then this owner. if this story ends, and he tells everyone that he saw three kings there. well, this is such a catholic story. yes , it was blood, in any case, he says well done three kings well done three kings, that is, his roof goes from the fact that there were three in him, and the king and, well, this is not in the gospel, but in world art it is and here is the feeling that the gospel and it is the christmas story that he challenges every writer every composer every artist hmm but what do you think about it. a? that's what you believe in it to ignore, he can't turn away and say nothing, he couldn't think. listen here, that's it for everyone, here's brodsky e, christmas is all a little magi and then some kind of halva someone is fighting, and kings and camels. and it's all mixed up like a completely christmas ending
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. yes, this is the feeling of christmas bach and arises. do you know what else my father wanted to understand? he said about literature, he would very much like to return, but now about the main meanings. yes, father said that god is coming. that's how they accelerated, modestly. yes, but the question is , what kind of god. come on, they left in different ways, and here, after all, own is god transcendent. and that is, it is god who is generally outside the world of the world, like the space of time, he created this world, and again the world, like space and time, that is, for us there is. this is the time before our meeting. here we are now talking about the present and then it will end, it will be a future that we do not know when we say that god knows the future. we do not mean that he now knows how everything will end, but for him there is none, in general, this time he is out of time and here i am remembering the territory, about which we are often reproached and reproached. well, pulling out one phrase from his reflections. i believe because
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it's absurd. yes credo is absurd. but why does he speak absurdly, he says god this is god, he incarnated became a man, and this does not fit in my human head, therefore, i can only bow my head reverently before this miracle. this is what has always amazed me. here you can even tougher question to stand. and remember the poor man, as a miracle of the altar, where eternally becomes food, this image of a baby washed down and lying in a manger. that is, in fact, why in gokonography? well, somewhere around the 6-7th century appears. uh, if not just somewhere on the floor, they suddenly find themselves on the throne. thus showing that he is not born in order to live. that is, friends are already a symbol. this is already a symbol of the victim. yes, that is god comes here in order to die and
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really become food to become food to become the one who will again pump this new blood about all of humanity. and this, of course, well, it’s also a completely different angle. yes, you and i are still born first , then we live. and then you see a story or another, the son of god is always and he already exists and here he is. passes into birth in order not to live so that he can be killed, so that he can be sacrificed and thereby destroy this wall between humanity and god, we need to talk about the wall, because it seems to me that many people don’t understand either. yes, for some reason, that is, he did n’t incarnate because there was nothing to do, he wanted to incarnate, yes, that is, we can’t do without talking about adam and eve here . yes, because there was this great universal joy that we find in christmas it is, but it became necessary, because
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once there was a great universal catastrophe, and it is not like this, i also say to students, but read. it’s true, now they don’t say that they read it, but that’s all equals. well, what is there, right? yes, eva knows everything, yes, and it always comes down to this one, that this is not the story of the life of one family, so that there was a peasant when his aunt ate something euro, or god, he took it and got angry there and kicked him out. and this is a global catastrophe. man has lost touch with the creator. well, not even that lost losses of the same consequence. yes, here a person made his such an existential choice - a choice. strictly speaking, after all, the prohibition of eating the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. uh, he was deeper than just obedience obedience. why is there not some tree of obedience, for example, was, yes, namely the knowledge of good and evil, and here everything is very elementary, because a person makes this choice, thereby
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asserting himself as the only criterion of good and evil. that is, he refused. yes, it gives birth to evil, in a sense, in this. yes, you can say, yes, from that moment on, god, he no longer determines what is good, and what is evil, man himself has determined what is good and evil. this is indeed a universal tragedy. this the emergence of a person's complete autonomy, which was laid down as a potentiality, as an opportunity, but was not actualized before the master. and if a person can say absolutely no to god , then the question arises. and if it doesn’t have such hmm power, a twisting spiral, which you know, pulled it, i remember indulging in childhood. you know how he dismantled the old clock and then there were still such mechanical watches. and there has always been such a spring. and here she is so seductive so you always want to pull it out just a little, but it's worth pulling it back
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you will never be able to shove it, because he had a special tool for this, he wanted to ask, what is the actual tragedy, well, he does it himself. well, the fact is that you have the image of god there. well, you can keep the identity of this similarity to god only while you are. here in this in this, how rapidly a person degrades. yes, he hid from god hid. yes, then this one is my favorite, of course. adam you didn't eat from the tree. yes, which wife you gave me, this is how i say, standard behavior men in a critical situation. god is to blame, the wife is to blame. i'm a knight in white, nothing to do with it. well, because he lost himself, because at that moment he lost respect for himself , so he needs to make excuses and saw a stranger in another person for the first time. yes, they saw that they were not ashamed of their legs. i saw it here. so they did, they hid, and there eve is hiding from each other, in my opinion, you know,
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because there are such words that, and animals, when they saw how adam did not sleep, that's divine glory. they turned their backs on him ceased to see him as their master and master, they began to treat him as a threat. that is, while they saw that he was reflecting divinity, they obeyed him. of course, they treated him differently, because this was the irritation of the scale of the catastrophe - it generally affected the relationship of man and god, man and man, man and the world. but if we talk about culture, it’s still true. here you have set such an interesting vector. how many meanings are gradually unfolding in a culture? here we are talking today, childhood childhood culture, but was not in the ancient world. the culture of childhood, well, it wasn’t, but look, and the christmas holiday appeared quite late. as far as i understand, yes, but at first it would have been a phenomenon, yes, that is, like christmas and epiphany, although chronologically, again, it separates many, many years. they are expenses, in general, at first it was easter
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, then it would be yes, yes, in the gospel, christmas is described as a patronymic. the later life of jesus remains unbracketed. this is also some kind of big mystery, but this is something over what. i don't even know, that's art to intervene in this situation, art must complete these plots. as far as i understand, there is not much of it. challenges. well , that's exactly what i mean, this is what this segment, which is not described in any way in the gospel. actually, as far as i understand, well, in the world of art, too, not so many stories come to my mind that there are these, as if they are infantile plots, but these are one more thing. i remember incredible. the impression that this client temple made on me, yes, in the police yes, because they showed us there. here is an icon to look at, the smiling mother of god you will not find anywhere else. mother of god to make her smile. yes
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, because more grief is already everywhere, already the knowledge of what will happen next. and here is the first minute, when he was just born, she holds him, and she smiles. it is, of course, exactly like that. and the amazing feeling that you experience in this city. and so i say, this is amazing. you believe in it. so, when you look at this, you understand that it really happened, and when you see, these shards are there babies that herod ordered to be killed. yes, you also understand that this is not some kind of artifact, not something invented. and this, this, it was . it's called the holy land. why , that's exactly where you understand that all this was and the flight into egypt was and nazareth was. well, there were debts, and, of course, there were, yes, that's all. this service and shrovetide mountain, but bethlehem began. and all since christmas and read somewhere else such an interesting thing. i don’t know, of course, you are more experts, than me. actually. why did christmas appear
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later than other holidays, because for the first christians really. no, it was important. here is the lord after the god of manifestation. that's when he appeared and traveled through, uh, palestine, through judea, like the lord, and then when all sorts of, uh, heresies arose, gnostic, yes, when some idea arose. and what, maybe there was no god as a person, but there was some kind of substance , there was some kind of symbol, there was some kind of knowledge. that's when it was important. no he was and here he is was born. this is how it should be remembered. it is necessary to celebrate this, and precisely all these circumstances connected with the fact that there was no place at the party and the child was in the manger and the shepherds came, that's all, this is the most important part of christian history, and it seems to me that this is the work of a huge number of people, christians. so, i'm just sure that when people thought about it, when they imagined it, when they told it to their children, then it has such an effect on, uh, psyche on
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consciousness. what do you understand? yes? so it was, that is, this is the same case when the gospel becomes a work of art, how much does the whole system have here at once? i just want with academic tediousness. forces a deal. we started talking. yes, there would be no god of the incarnation, if there was no fall, yes, in fact, so that the corner of the incarnation did. why does boxing become a man? the question is, as we said, is it a mystery, it is incomprehensible, how, in general, is the main thing in religion? yes, we really can only bow our heads before her, but because, in fact, the meaning of e not e is not in the fact that christ was crucified and suffered with to all that he was resurrected yes, that there is no death, naturally yes, but that there is no death, that death is not the end, there is the life path of every person. yes, that is a person. he cannot, like a baron munhaus, take it for himself and pull it out. e for the hair. and here it is after the loss of dema here it immediately begins, again, the plot of world culture longing for uh, yes, all all paradise lost. and here is a man trying to jump. here, he tries to pull himself out. here, he bashkov draws everything.
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here are all kinds of animals and everything, not that and everything, not that and but, because you can’t pull it out yourself and that time and continuous projections to yourself, right? 60 he comes to so-so recognition. wait, well, not well, well, certainly god. so it cannot come. that's guaranteed, yes 100%, yes? god won't come like that, yes, yes, and god can't really die like that. yes, it was, of course. yes, it's convenient, as if two stories have something in common, the beginning and the end. and here, by the way, let's talk about culture, this famous concept. i just recently had a lot of talk with ivan andreevich, yesaulov, yes, but he has e he i understand, he thinks this category of what is, but the culture of easter and christmas, yes, so i want to say right away that there is no theological component here, because once someone said that know when
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it comes to the primitive level. we are there orthodox for us. the main easter for catholics christmas is nonsense, nonsense for any believing christian easter i understand. yes, but indeed in the culture there is something that can be called christmas cultures, which focuses on the fact that god has come, which means that the world has been transformed by this coming. yes, something has changed, and those who say, but the main thing is that he has risen and what will happen to us later. yes, and as i understand it, within the framework of this concept, we are talking about the fact that, uh, western christians are more accurate than western cultures christian countries. but more precisely, what is it, this is not a theological concept. they are so christmasy. well, i'm not talking about what it was expressed in. yes, already there in the sale there it is a separate big one. theme and i think, on such a wonderful night, we probably won't be very interested. but there is an easter aspiration there, and therefore here somehow we are not very interested in this world. how do you feel about this concept. it is clear that like any intelligent design. yes, it is not
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a reflection of reality, but an attempt to comprehend it. better worse. there really are some. she's productive, that's the idea. well, probably, it is productive somewhere in order to ask ourselves again the question, if we are not a christmas culture, this is mine, if in our life is something russian yes, well, here are the professors. and what exactly is our culture, if what is directly penetrating the way of life, first of all, these people’s lifestyle, what has echoes associated with easter? this is a good question. not ready, but without this, everything else will be. well , of course, interesting designs are mental, but how they respond. yes, as i understand it, when we say that we explain easter by this rather, why do we have underdevelopment, there is no emphasis on social transformations, because we understand that this. well, here it is on the economic structure of
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russian life. yes, yes, what, you know, it seems to me that here a slightly different, different view was offered. oh good. and what is the christmas culture christmas or is it a culture? uh, the key figure of the modern european christmas is not at all the christ of the modern there klaus, listen , no, in the form in which he is presented today. it's not always even frost. it's not even santa claus well, somewhere, maybe nothing good, as it were, well, at least as they draw and not have the slightest relations to be recorded in the protocol for the back. it has nothing to do with christ christ is not there. there is no christ in this christmas. that's the problem. wait, and in which there is not, where there is no life in everyday life i am interested in the everyday life of human life. in this everyday life , christ is somewhere outside the brackets, because even now congratulations are christmas. the christmas tree is a holiday. there are
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holidays and so on. well, actually, what makes christmas christmas is still christ if christ were not there christmas was not there either and that's all. the rest, of course, is yes. this ten has a gradual meaning and here. i think there is a stronger tension. this is not the tension between a easter and christmas, but the tension between christ inside christmas and anti christ to those who are likened, as if to christ yes, because the antichrist, this place changes, like christ yes, klaus himself is replaced by wallpaper. which should be in the center, which is in the manger, and to which the eyes are riveted. this is realizing that here the siagne lies in order to become the source of your life, one american orthodox priest told in ninety there, the third somewhere in the year ninety-two, he was called for christmas to come to some there, they say. so the shopping
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center is big, there, he says, there will be children. well , there, yes it is, and he yes. well, okay, of course, i ’ll just come and say, three conditions cannot be pronounced with them, not jesus christ, which means you can’t talk about god and generally emphasize the religious nature of the holiday. he says, what should i do? then? we are talking about culture. look, what an interesting thing, it seems that i still somehow understand internally, this is easter culture, christmas yes. but fyodor, our dear mikhailovich dostoevsky , writes a boy near christ on a christmas tree, which, according to some, is dostoevsky. the vedas are generally the quintessence of fyodor mikhailovich's christianity, and this, i'm sorry, so to speak, is a christmas story. and how to explain this? well actually, see really the tradition of the christmas story. it seems to me that it is so much stronger and richer than the tradition of the easter story, because it
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seems to me that it’s still possible to fit in the head in the mind. here is this easter culture. exactly, what, how it is, it seems to me, it is a little, as it were, higher than culture, yes, more and more complicated than culture, having spilled christmas back there, but still christmas is a more intelligible speech, mmm, and therefore it seems to me that here uh, well, any artist is somehow more clear what and how to do, but you are right and the story of e. dostoevsky and by the way, here i would just say that you can find common ground between european and russian culture , because our writers and european writers often associated christmas with such blatant, but criticism of social foundations. yes , how terribly life is arranged, that this saint is. in principle, the night is suffering children, freezing and starving. now remember anderson da deakins match girl. you can remember, you can remember. eh, kuprin
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, he has such a story, the poor prince, you can remember the marvelous story of leonid andreev, an angel. yes, remember there is a boy when you would like. well, everything, they are all wonderful writers, they can be reproached for something, but, but this cool work was immediately remembered. it's just cool as a boy. so i saw this angel, how he changed, and how he brings this angel home, hangs it near the stove, and the wax angel melts, well, it's just super, yes, and so i 'm talking here, here we see what exactly christmas causes artists. this is the feeling of the wretchedness of our life, what is life? well , this is such a terrible appeal to people, but remember, but here around you, yes, as it were, do not close around your christmas geese around yours that is, remember contentment where the lord really was born. think of the poor poor sires. and this is prompted. yes, in life she called to life. these are
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such wonderful works. and, of course, in dostoevsky it is a boy near christ on the christmas tree. winter. it is also very important here that christmas is the contrast between winter cold, cold blizzards and warm houses with fire and comfort. they can all be there as a writer. he feel it. yes, not everything is this universal cold, which also challenges and which also appeals to our conscience. easter is completely different here, a completely different story, so you can’t say that there is a christmas culture. this is lower culture, easter was not in it. they are just different, like these two different events. and when there was a pandemic, we all sat at home, and i tried to read to the children. e. well, actually. i read christ to the boy, but i got it. everything is here. and i didn’t get it that way, apparently, with age you become sentimental. do you agree that this
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is really hmm well, if i understand correctly, someone i read that this is almost the quintessence, here is dostoevsky's christianity that it is, roughly speaking, to understand dostoevsky you do not need the brothers karamazov. well , more precisely, the brothers of course. but the boy of christ on the christmas tree. here is his philosophical, religious philosophical, theological, whatever, i would not argue this and would not argue with this, because in others you can also find a director. well, maybe this is really a very cool story, after all, dostoevsky bridge, as a novelist, we perceive it. yes, and here, concentrated in the story, it turned out about something that's interesting. here is the christmas tree this, in general, is not quite, as it were, a christian thing. yes, they didn’t originally have christmas trees, christmas trees appeared there somewhere, which means in the damned west, well, that’s what it is. probably, the responsiveness of a russian person took this christmas tree and became it is a religious symbol and yet this is religion. it assumes, like the culture of the moment of enrichment, the moment of assimilation,
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therefore, uh, i understand that there may be a bad santa claus there. i don’t know, well, santa claus, i wouldn’t give a good one like that either, and we’ll take the snow maiden. they are not anti, they really are too. uh, part of that culture and again. i think it's attractive. this is what attracts christianity to this holiday. and let some inquisitive child think through santa claus. and what's next, and who goes where, how it all sinks into his soul. no, if santa claus will be a stepping stone to christ well, how does he stand opposite? i don't know, maybe not for all kids. but this petka came and saw, an angel, too. well, what kind of angel is there, some kind of susal. yes, there, and yet in the heart of a child. something somehow moved so with santa claus, maybe the snow maiden is beautiful, but this is, again, a question of culture. it's like for many of our
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contemporaries, yes master and margarita is absolutely absolutely not canonical religious forgiveness. yes, forgive me great e, that means bulgakov for a great novel, indeed, great brilliant but with a religiously quite simple such a flattened primitive, eat his truth that you have a headache psychotherapist. it's better for me to explain than yes, but jesus christ superstar well, not at all canonical, but here thought. gratitude is kept in the heart, and i will tell you more. here i studied at the soviet school. yes, i am the growth of the soviet gospel family in the house. no, there was not at all, there was nowhere to buy it. yes and so i heard with my hand the first jesus christ - superstar and she had such an effect on me and the music and the hero and the plot. there is an english special school, i somehow began to listen to understand, and i really that's it through this rock opera. i found out who christ pilate is there mary magdalene apostles. let them be completely different than in gospels. but it's really a step.
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as you say, therefore, for many people for many people, including my dear teacher and channel one host yuri pavlovich vyazemsky, jesus christ superstar and master and margarita are also understandably expensive. eh, the images of the heart and that's why i have, by the way, to say, sometimes a little bit strange, when today this struggle begins, don't understand anything incomprehensible. why does no one claim that this is some kind of canonical version. yes, what is it that you can read there instead of the gospel well, how step? yes, anything is possible. can become? and now the kingdom of heaven eduard artemiev has just died, yes, he watched several programs there when he had an anniversary. he said a very interesting thing, that when he heard the beatles somehow he seemed to him in our doorway also explosive on the guitar. i here i adore the beatles but he said that's when he heard jesus christ - superstar ruper. he could n't do anything for a year. yes, and he is still a guru. he is a master. yes, that is, this musical richness. it can't. it's musical take wealth. there is nowhere, of course, that what is talented, somehow feeds on
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some kind of good energy, like me and so on. you know, now you remembered nikolayevich and here is my impression. e, now at once here at me all has stirred up. we also talked to him. and here is his genius, and i don't know it. well, he's such a evangelical child. by the way, this is also the question. yes, and bogoslovsky and culture. why am i describing it this way now, yes, because i can’t write it any other way. is that be like a child? i don't listen. yes there, yes, but absolutely. children's open soul, you know, i was completely shocked. and when i invited him, uh, well, that means to interview him in parsi, yes, yes, i couldn’t get through to him. well, that is, the editor called there and that's it and he says to me, call yourself, well, i called, he does not answer. then i watch the call. he calls me back and says, but we don't know each other. he says, hello. e, this is the army, so i'm fucked. hello. he says, i'm sorry, i'm in intensive care. they just tell me they
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just had surgery. i'm moving away from anesthesia. i see that you called me, i'm sitting thinking, lord in our time, when the standard answers. i am not familiar calls. he doesn’t have mine from anyone at all, he calls me back and apologizes for the trouble. here you are looking for me. this. well, by the way, you know this, for me personally, it’s still from the series that christianity brought to the world. yes, i 'm trying to say as a student. it may seem to you that some categories that i was operated on today. good heart, there in the relationship of the elders to the children that they were always was not they always were not and that 's it. yes, when well, we are talking about christmas today, but when it was said on the cross, forgive them, because they don’t know what they are doing, but then the era of mercy began, so to speak, and mercy, as gleb zheglov convinces us, explained the priestly word . it's
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true, as much as a priest. the ancient world does not know such an attitude. yes, this topic since childhood , of course, it is also very interesting, very difficult, because on the one hand. today we are talking about the cult of childhood, but on the other hand, this is not a cult of childhood. how is that once some kind of infantilism, this is a cult of such a phenomenon as sophistry, when they try to create an absolutely safe living environment around a person in order to designate all triggers, all painful points and so that he cannot stumble anywhere, experience spiritual discomfort and so on. and this is a terrible thing , precisely because it destroys at the very foundation the principle of life that we grow only by overcoming ourselves, just breaking through pain through death, a person becomes a full-fledged person. and just
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maxim the confessor says that the most important thing is what christ brought to earth. this is a victory or over the fear of pain before death, that by the nativity of christ crucified by the resurrection of death becomes tamed, it ceases to be the main problem of human life. to interact with this conditional security at 60 years old but this is not absolute anti-christianity, it is bizarrely connected with a real desire to get away from the topic of death in general, of course, yes or turn it into this very attraction, either here, or now, too such a topic as
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overcoming death through the pelvis humanism is gaining momentum. yes , yes. yes. i know that you love this topic in general, well people more often brilliant idea that no one can confirm and no one can confirm , and transhumanism scares you. how here philosophical ours is such uh, well, what is the natural development of science. it will inevitably lead to the fact that we will be able to transfer human consciousness to such carriers that will no longer be subject to artificial intelligence, such as, of course, these are also different variations, or we transfer our mind into some technical devices, which can, accordingly, reproduce endlessly. themselves or a person is frozen after death in the hope that some amount of time will pass now we are talking about the horrors of the man hop, well, the way mr. makli's escape with vysotsky by napoleon. it was
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such a film, i don’t know. for me, all the same, all this is at the level of science fiction, there are scientific not scientific. i don't take it all seriously. although on the other hand. of course you can object. who would here came to mind. there, some number of years ago, what will happen, this is what eco yes , artificial insemination, nevertheless. it has already become a fact of our lives. so god knows, but here the point is that after all, sunday is christ's. this is not just a return to the same life in the same capacity. why is the easter theme for us so much, as it were , we approach it, well, we don’t understand with awe. how can you be resurrected in the body, while this body, can eat food. while passing there disappear through the walls to appear in the book. eh, the apocalypse that there will be no more time, if we also talk about the time to get out of here, and nothing is clear at all, but it is clear. here it is clear that there is only one who has become so and, accordingly, each of us. maybe
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in moderation to be like in general, that's interesting. this is once again the word mystery yes, i will pronounce it, but how much but how a modern person reacts to a mystery is scared, scared, of course, scared. in general, we have a lot of such inner tensions. uh, rather most of all, psychological. and even stronger existential nature, when something does not happen the way we want, we again return to the same story with one we are eve each of us plans a safe environment. here they are planning what should be in my life so so so, so, as it is just beginning to collapse. we are indignant, frustration begins, yes, dissatisfaction with a murmur is your request, so that you do not leave, paying unsatisfied, yes, but in fact we have come specialists again, but in fact, this is also an escape from the most powerful tool of growth, because
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faith overcomes this tension of uncertainty, when a person has a god, when a person has a relationship with god, then, accordingly, he can afford such a space of uncertainty , which otherwise, you will simply break, you will understand, and what can i rely on at all? and who else has interesting twists here, like, who has it from the greats. there was an idea that god is not surprised by the scale our requests, and their petty, well, in my opinion, yes, no, no, yes, what? so that the lord, he says, i'm here for you ask what you want, we say, maybe an apartment, well, brand new, or here's a newer typewriter. yes, it's sad, of course . i'm getting back to the cultural echoes of christmas. here's some more, uh, cinematic stuff. yes , uh, well, let's say egg wanda fu, life uh,
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it's a wonderful life. franco drops. yes, even such a classic classic christmas story. yes, a person decides, but end it, because everything is bad life suicide. everything is terrible there. there, an angel appears to him in the form of what kind of drunkards are there, if they don’t confuse anything, well, that ’s all too interesting, after all. how long does it live in culture. it's actually the forty-sixth year, in my opinion, or the forty-eighth of the last century . yes, it is not necessarily present, it is already much further, but it is still there. well, a person can't live without a miracle, really ca n't. and it is precisely the word miracle that is associated merry christmas starting. by the way, of course, uh, starting with the uh history of the seed. yes, after all, this is what simeon yes heard when he was copying. yes, this is a well-known story, but at the heart of the candlemas lies the holiday of the candlemas. yes, a virgin will give birth. yes and so he thought there he corrected or wanted to correct and it was
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sent to him. this is longevity. yes and so he lived to this day, when the mother of god came with the baby in this game i remember very well. e, i was at the sermon of father dmitry smirnov e about the holiday. he says just imagine imagine huge from this jerusalem temple. here they come, so, uh, the mother of god from the coin. there are many people there, no one sees her, and no one, and no one knows, a woman with a child came. you never know there comes not only two people. here is semyon who has been for many, many years. yes, she lives for centuries, and therefore, a widow, who is an honest widow there, who, too, is just now they saw with their hearts. yes, with spiritual eyes, they saw her ; that is, here in this story. after all, what is striking about christmas is that and also the annunciation, yes, that is, how is it all, how is it all prepared? it's amazing how it all fits together. here. why am i saying that the charge is a miracle, which is
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embedded in this story? it would seem that. pretty simple. well, well, she came, but she gave birth. well, how everything is crushed, but such, as it were, an absolutely natural thing, yes, but the most this great miracle occurs, never there have any aliens taken off from the sky. and when you are familiar with things and something is clear to everyone happens, which is wonderful and here and there art here art and just feels introduced and longs to react to it. yes, that is, and the gospel is a provocation, in fact , in such a cultural sense. yes, but here she is , she is abandoned, yes, in the world she does not here leave us calm. we interpret it differently and react differently to it. but it's really such an eternal holiday. here the bolsheviks wanted to ban it there, but still they are impossible. yes, well, replace replace, but anyway, i remember there was a soviet atheistic child, but still a miracle, and anyway, the feeling that some kind of miracle will happen, yes, the christmas tree is a miracle santa claus, a miracle is still
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a star. oh well, it would seem the kremlin star then. she's not a kremlin star, guys. it 's a different star, but it's still a star. that's what's cool, right? here is how it is all this atheistic pancake weakness, how it is conquered by this evangelical light. i wanted to say something else that's also an interesting thing, you see, uh, i'm all about the ancient world. birthdays were not celebrated, and i did not check, as far as i understand, the tradition of celebrating a birthday. she, apparently, is also associated with the nativity of the gospel, there is also a romantic type of salami, the head of the baptist. they also celebrated his birthday as a gift. yes, well, it means already, yes, he says, it’s rare, after all, they really didn’t celebrate, because we know the dates of death there. well, when they were born there, no one ever wrote it down, but i think for a christian it's still hmm your birthday. he immediately inevitable. yes, you do . you understand very well that the very date of christmas it also refers, of course, primarily to the essence
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happening to the fact that it was not winter. yes, this is a transition. here is the most. the main thing, this is the most, of course, from here the date of the annunciation and the fathers has already appeared. there were different incomprehensible. yes, don't go that way. yes , maybe even. it should be, too, in fact. it is very strong that god comes into this world, yes, like light, here god comes into the world, how light there is light, there is darkness, and what can not be in power? and it's not easy. well, some kind of visual. a beautiful image, this is actually a visualization of the main commandment about love for enemies that do not overcome evil with evil evil. yes, and be defeated by evil, and defeat evil with good, do not try to eradicate the darkness. uh, in some other way than bringing a light source in there, uh, and so, this is uh themed light motif
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in christmas starting with the christmas star. and ending here, uh, i don’t even know how to end. he, here he is, all christmas, it is bright from vyatka, the light of holiness, but in the slavic language and in other languages. these are also same-root concepts, but holiness is holy-light. and here, alexei nikolaevich, i really i like your thoughts that the gospel is like a provocation for the artist. and then what the artist wants to do with it. here he is, he responds to this, too, probably, maybe in different ways. maybe to somehow show this color, yes. or perhaps there is no other way. well, this person is already dependent. everyone has their own, as it were, personal story. everyone has their own attitude. yes, that is, god gives us a supply. we must directly accept the rebounds. you could say god gives you a coin there. you can bury it, or maybe
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some invest from it somewhere? yes, there is a book written about it. so, that's why i think, maybe there are completely different things here, but there is something else i thought. but look, so we really have a period from christmas to e. the appearance of god, this baptism is called svetka. yes, and at the same time. we are talking about something read somewhere, maybe it's not very theological, he is such an overclocking force, and then only when god's appearance. it means that everything is already pure force to be silent, all sorts of years there . well, pushkin remembered, yes, the classic eugene onegin, yes, that is it turns out that this is still an e period, when e the lord is a child and before the appearance of god, although here i say, well, too, an interesting time is moving, yes, that is, in earthly life. it 's been almost 30 years, and in the gospel, well, in our calendar, there are 12 days, uh, and it's very interesting that it's 12 days on one side. this is continuous time there without fasting. yes, that is, we rejoice, we walk there along the
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strictly forbidden excellent formulate excellent, lord, but it is strictly forbidden, but on the other hand, we can be naughty like children? yes we can afford what we are, that is, i want to say that christmas gives an impetus to some kind of incredible freedom of the human spirit of mood, and all sorts of carnivals, these masquerades, i also loved so much and there the noble tour also -these reacted in their own way. and at christmas there was caroling, rather such a folk tradition was all sorts of noble balls and so on, and these balls were important. they met there, future married couples formed there. that is, really. uh, christmas is here and life and culture, uh, and politics and a lot of things and a lot of things, therefore, that's it, of course, the earthly projection of this holiday. why it is very important, because the same thing about the light tit after easter yes, let's say, yes, everything will be completely different there, but now, returning to this topic of our conversation about the cultures of
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bread, he also added that the rhythm of the rhythm of life is of great importance here. yes, exactly what , uh, after all, uh, the life of a russian person. it was woven in the liturgical room there, and behold, he set certain such periods of extreme tension. here was christmas post anyway. well, i'm sorry , even if it's just more than a month. it is too. well , this is serious. the last weeks is a mount for the orthodox right? well, listen. they don’t fast, well, catholics are a little different there, they also have their own, as the catholics would say, there are other ways of serving. yes, yes, here, and then a deep breath. here is an exhalation from vyatka. the vyatkas have just ended, and here the preparatory work for this is already beginning. it’s just that we’re slowly starting to breathe in, breathe in, extreme tension, passionate week. deep breath. easter segments everything and the understanding of this rhythm. uh, you know, i
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remember with great gratitude the years of study at the moscow theological academy, when, well, they could fall out, we just couldn’t go home, it was so organic. and look forward to the next few moments. you are already living. you don’t even know what is more important for you what is happening now or the fact that this is close approaching. you don't know why you're more excited about the coming one, it's built through fasting. walking easter here it so fills life with something else. well, i don’t know about vibrations, or something, before church life. it's not even close to understand them, never expect to sleep in the top, but very interesting. i've been honored to participate here, so remember the jury and the competition last year. you and i were oratory . but wait, i came to the academy and you know what we celebrated last year, it seems, either it didn’t happen, or we are now, uh, that there are 10 finalists talking on a free topic of the competition
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skill, and we sat with fellow judges. and noted that this is standard well, this is the standard, this is me to the question. but these walls of the seminary academy, they seem to be in a completely different world, but they came out at the end and share their impressions. well, they are great guys, very cool. the guys don't have to walk around to keep the audience. and yes, it doesn't have to be intonation. and now, it seems that there is a rhythm, they live and that's it. but i don’t have a phone with me, but this little thing, it all destroyed all the barriers uh-huh, because they too it's all the same there. it's clear. they are normal , good, excellent seminarians, but this cultural and historical environment and atmosphere. what will scare you? no, it doesn't scare me. i'm just sorry, i have a nasty culturologist in me. is it like an observation? yes, this is a very important observation, because it says that it is so, but no, i can
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say that it is so and it is wonderful, because it says that the church is alive, if the church were dead, it would be a hard boundary between body brothers enemies. yes, i now think that there is something good and correct understatement. i mean, let's, so let's dwell on some innuendo. perhaps and they will gather us and go to talk. friends bless happy holidays thank you all merry christmas coming. yes, we haven't seen you for a long time. i have been
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working for a long time, a participant in space flights came to the conference. i, too, have not been there for a long time at this conference for a moment on our memories. i want to introduce you to the hero of russia pilot 17 alexander ivanovich lazutkin must introduce you to anton anton nikolaevich kaplerov pilot cosmonaut, a very experienced cosmonaut. a very good astronaut. today we will talk about how the new
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year is celebrated in space. i'm lucky. i was in space four times and met the new year four times after the new year i flew and landed before the new year, so i did not succeed. when did you prepare to fly? i think it's interesting to visit here for the new year. some holidays to fly in space. well, that's understandable, everyone's going to a birthday party. yes? well it somehow here is such an ordinary event, and here is the new year, which is walking around the planet. and so i will fly there, fly here, fly here, and fly here and meet him so purely emotionally. here, uh, i really wanted to, but uh, i didn’t get it. well, tell me, of course, i flew when the station had been flying for 10 years. than it was such a period, uh,
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a person is constantly present practically, here is the new year. there they celebrated, remember photos of previous crews. new year and put on weightless ties like this like this like this, well, it was a christmas tree. at least i climbed the whole station, there were no trees in my flight , but again, according to the stories from the photograph, the trees were sad. you can put such a big christmas tree, but there are opportunities. and why did it stand somewhere once on the walls on one , somewhere else it hung in the air? the toys
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surprised me. it was already with toys, like a modern christmas tree. i would say, such a modern was in the style, modern or some other name, but i saw a christmas tree. with shiny tools there are wrenches yeah why are they like that? well, where are the big ones, where are small? so they were so attached to this tree. well, it all actually looked so interesting, because the christmas tree, small instruments are interesting, but when they are all like this in different positions in the air on the ground, it’s even hard to imagine that they don’t fall. well, of course, it doesn’t fall there or else i saw it somewhere. i saw it all there so calla went. now, probably, of course, we also have a christmas tree. by the way, it is also small. i think it 's somewhere around this size is constantly
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present. well, yes, well, that is, when you flew, you saw the same christmas tree all the time, yes, yes, the same christmas tree, and even that bag, which is 10 uh, under it he made a new one himself signed his felt-tip pen. and now i was at the last new year for the same bear, they even stayed, they didn’t even change it, and, uh, the christmas tree doesn’t stand in any particular place with us. i don’t know where on the desktop, or where we don’t eat when the celebration itself is coming, of course we put e at the head of the table, then we collect delicious food and prepare for well, everyone takes out the most delicious, what he has, what is prepared for the new year , this and various drinks, sweets , some delicacies. here even, well, usually black caviar is passed to us. uh, usually a ship crosses on new year's eve, you know the black circle well, yes, that's it, officially the ship of the previous ones arrives. yes, he brings us.
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ah, fresh fruit must be eaten tangerines. and in general, we are trying to decorate the new year's table, also m-m. and in general , spend the whole holiday, as we do it. e on the ground. that is, this is our attribute. naturally, tangerines. uh, it's soviet champagne, but yes, we understand that there is no champagne and newspapers. and generally it's alcohol, which is forbidden at the station . unrevealing cross. well, i think it's such a secret that it will be interesting to know, uh, i usually ask or the support group or someone close to me there to send me. uh, photos of the label of this our soviet champagne. uh, i print out juices on a printer, they ask who will drink what during different new years and directly glued them on them and even took photographs and put them up and many people from earth through social networks really ask that
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you really drink champagne. although, it hangs more closely to read there somewhere lemonade is written somewhere there e coffee juice and when it flew away. you knew that there would be a new year. you took something with you, so, uh, surprise, that is, you somehow prepared for this event. yes, and i was preparing, uh, to take some gifts, but i knew for sure that the earth or a support group. e to deliver to us with some kind of cargo ship, or if this saw comes right before the new year. uh, just packages, uh, which will need to be hidden on new year you know is usually written to open the thirty-first of december or january 1st. we know exactly what the package is. should be opened for new years. and when you open it, there are, uh, gifts, not just for you personally. here my wife cooked, for example, they put on a t-shirt, uh, on which there was such a collage of our entire crew, which was at the station six people, we are all in such new year's caps. well, here's a keepsake, then
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everyone took it for himself. well, what is there? i saw, then, there are, of course, here are gifts from the family from the group support hmm were. well, we prepared ourselves. and here is the new year, which was the past, which was celebrated in orbit. uh, i received the same package and began to open it and found it in it. uh, a small box of chocolates. well, i’ll immediately feel bad about it, because i don’t like sweet things in my life at all. and my wife knows, my relatives know that i have candy, too . freedom may need to be distributed to friends, probably, but some were not unusual and have already opened the packaging itself and the box. i realized that these are sweets, in which in each candy is different. sort of like liquor. well, that is, a little alcohol and somehow these sweets missed uh, a special group that is responsible for delivering groceries. well,
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i thought in such a small amount. this will not greatly affect my such psychological masterpieces of our confectionery factory. how can you not miss something like uh, even i have the video. e, how i consume these sweets with my family, that is, my family is at home, gathered by relatives , which means that they have champagne in their hands, and i take one of these candies, and i read, even they were not interested. i say, well, there's some liquor here. well, here, like happy new year greetings and here they are drinking champagne, but this candy, well , it was fun and good. so i can show you. just at home, a big tv hides this sweetie of mine, just my relatives are sitting at the table with champagne.
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in addition to what is happening on earth, and we even managed to make salads a couple of times. the first time is with alexander not surkin. we decided to make our traditional, and
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the complexity was not only in the cooking, that is, cut because well, the same, for example, the onion is all, well, i understand, we begin to cut the cube strongly, it all scatters, so i had to, uh, a little bit . uh, the fantasy we took is, yeah, well, a pretty big bag of e-ziploc. and that's where , uh, sticks it in. yes, and we begin to cut we did. here is olivier and i have a video of how we made a herring under a fur coat for the second time the next year. well, always the most difficult, the most difficult is to find the ingredients at the station. that is, we had to e to go through not only ours, our russian e, food, well, to our colleagues to the americans to the europeans to the japanese and ask what is. well, for example, for a fur coat, we needed, of course, onions, fish, and mayonnaise, uh,
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beets, which we also have already prepared glass. well, there, in my opinion, there should still be potatoes, they found boiled potatoes , boiled from where, and there are canned food. uh, potatoes with meat. they removed it for meat, and boiled potatoes. yes and just like that hmm even peter, hmm he made a shape in order to it turned out not just some kind of cough. well, allergies, it was clear after all, a fur coat, it is layered. and here we have done it all . e. and then with such pleasure they ate everything. i mean, not only we are russians, but in our career all the time . everyone stays, because it's unusual to just eat canned food and separately. it was already a real salad. just like it 's itching to start some new show about how to cook delicious healthy food in space. yes, yes, of course
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well, what else were we missing there, what we could n’t do, for example, well, we didn’t have enough snow, but uh, once i received such a funny photo on which it was written, well, there was a photograph of snow, it was written, it’s cosmic, snow somehow and uh, to add snow to the table were tangerines, i decided to make a snowman out of them and so that he would also traditionally be next to us, so i have, uh, an image of this snowman made of fruits. well, at the ranch you get, yes, orange. they also added for beauty, yes, well, it was first, something to do somehow psychologically. uh, to entertain and relax, because doing experiments all the time is one thing, but still, sometimes you need to, uh, relieve stress. and here it is, working as a little child doing some funny things, and then this photo
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was put up. uh, his social networks turned out to be very. uh, hmm such a good healthy interest. yes , my subscribers read or everyone began to send their own snow, it turns out that not all people need to make snowmen. and snow. everything is the same as we are stations from something improvised and there a whole collection of very beautiful amazing languages ​​​​started such a process. flashmob what do we have? a? well, naturally, we watch our uh, traditionally there will be dolphins. this is the irony of fate. with light steam and usually i run it, well we run it. uh, around 10:00 am 31 more working days. well , the only thing that we have a little relief is not such serious experiments we have, where you can. well, not in a hurry to do something and look at this film with one eye, but we have it all day long. because periodically to us
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our colleagues fly in. eh, they smell that the new year will soon be a holiday and see this film. they heard that we traditionally watch this film every year. um, they're certainly interested to know what the movie is about. why do we watch it on new year's eve? well, of course, that is, the plot takes place on the new year itself. in general, we are trying to explain that here are our two big cities, moscow and st. environment and most importantly, when they are in russia, they themselves go to the banya , they understand that they are in a banya. we are not only a guy, everyone and so, if you sit a little yes, a little, e strongly, after you take a steam bath, then in principle a person can be like this with friends and put on the wrong plane, well, before that, perhaps, it would have been all this, in principle,
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of course, invented, but i think it's realistic. well, yes, he got out. uh, well, this news that i'm just in my life there is sometimes told that something similar happened when there was a person in such a state, when the plane takes out, it is only left there in another place. well, it's so holidays in the first place crows and tell me how you are where you where tomorrow said, i don't like the population more than anyone. love me
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every day premiere russian christmas russia i believe in your strength. tomorrow in the first world, what time is it to celebrate the new year? according to moscow, we have the same under suppopovsky. so, as we 16 minds fly around our earth, that is, then for sure the new year. it is celebrated 16 times. so it turns out for four flights - this is 64 new years for me. although i can't to say that we met uh 64 times, that is, 16 16 e cue balls, that is, they sat at the
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table, yes, but usually we met the new year uh in the time zone that came uh, at one of the members the crew is here. if, for example, there was a japanese, we started with him, when in japan, uh, it's a difference of 8-9 hours there, it's good from moscow, but there would be no japanese. we wouldn’t have met a japanese there, we met, when at all, well, we decided to celebrate it, when in general the first new year on earth is some kind of island there new things, somewhere. it is shorter there, when we fly over it and now, well, have we gathered what to drink? well, here is the first new year on earth. in general, we meet further in moscow, and at the station we live according to the time, the zero meridian of greenwich mean time, that is, the time that is now in london, so we will definitely meet and almost always europeans flew with me. that is, this is their new year too. uh, well,
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unfortunately our colleagues are americans. they have them, well, the year comes when we our space. ah have us such already deep morning. well, that is, we just morning them already congratulations for a long time, congratulations guys, that you also received the new year for a long time in the new year and we are tired of meeting, we have the opportunity to chat with family from relatives. uh, and so, uh, when we celebrate the new year in moscow, well, i know for sure that my family is at the table. everyone has his own, each astronaut has his own satellite phone there. and now we can call e. well, at any time, in this case, for the new year without restrictions , you can speak for free, as you like, and we are online. we try to meet it. how lucky you are, but, well, we have the internet there, it's all modern. i know for sure
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that there was no internet in the world, because it even appeared when i started flying, it's been here for 10 years not so long ago. it was like the internet. i say, u, we had an amateur radio connection. here it is now at the station, it is now, yes, and for the sake of us there are amateurs from all over the planet. well , they disappeared. probably if they follow the station and try. go out with her there, yes, to talk to the station, such competitions suit, then more and more was made, that is, they take this one anyway. headset you get in touch and you can talk there, but for the sake of lovers, huh? and now they probably love us too. e, they arranged for us there for sending all sorts of messages. it's like here's a type of sms, that is, they have developed with us, there , somewhere in the computer, you can send
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a photo. kiss through the amateur radio connection. then it started photography. we couldn't yet. and there were some texts there, and that's why you open this amateur radio box there are a bunch of these text messages messages. uh, they sent us, well, besides the fact that there are guys. tell us how you are there, what you have there interesting, they also sent us all sorts of messages about what we were interested in there, that this is happening in the world, yes on the globe, yes and uh, and that she is sleeping? that was interesting, and here are all sorts of little notes from different gases from around the world. uh-huh when we have a little one now, we were sitting. at the station we drink coffee, music plays such a good mood and vasily is the commander. there he flies
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up to this computer, climbs into it and says oh men. do you want to know what they write about us, right? here it was a message from some australian newspaper. and they write there now . the international crew of the mir station is in a depressed state, exhausted by all these states that are failing there. they cannot heat their own food. they don't have a toilet. so vasily read it . returning michael, an american astronaut was sitting opposite me. he drank coffee with chocolate. his favorite drinks are coffee and
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chocolate. well, for example, stations in our diet , coffee, too, here he drinks. a i says sasha it's good that they don't see us, what 's really going on here. it was at this moment that i thought. yes, then they would all be disappointed by those who wrote your heroic profession, yes, that's why we did n't have the internet. i just remember that, well, on earth, it already somehow began. it wasn't, well , they didn't suffer from it, they suffered more because of their connections with the earth. no, it was a video call. uh, you hang out with your family on the weekends, right? no family needs
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to travel. no, well, it was, but here it is also interesting. uh, well, on the one hand there you are waiting for this meeting and a week, yes once a week on the weekend. yes, you are waiting for the commander is waiting, uh, and another member. the crew is also waiting. and here we are sitting a short communication session, and there all three families have gathered so yes, and here we see, we welcome them there well, well, sometimes we manage to talk, but, and sometimes just, uh, here they are all sitting. after all, they give a microphone there to someone. and then the man speaks. hello vasily. how are you? he starts to tell how you are doing each microphone gives another. here, too, this vasily sees for the first time. well, how are you there? he begins to tell how you are there and until it comes here will bypass everyone. well, in general, it all ends, but nevertheless we were happy about it. in fact. this is how it works. for a short period of time,
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i want to say something, especially to hear something. and well, yes, you will hear something here, maybe there is something private there and that's fine. well, we just, uh, very often, u didn't have these communication sessions due to breakdowns. there's something else. that is, you could not talk for two weeks. well, it could have been three, but they suited us. uh, phone calls. well, through the soup all the connections go out there. there you they say, so now let's reunite. yes, you start talking. and that was great. it was unusually technical there it was like that, and i spoke, and after some kind of word there and i begin to hear myself what i said echo, that is, such an eh, yes, i remember, it was creepy you start to say the word. and then you hear him with a slight delay. it
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is superimposed on this word and from this the nerve cells generally go to hell. i remember that i just took the headphones, filmed, spoke into this microphone, there is something here, then applied uh, these headphones and listened to what they would answer me, but this is the beginning. the technological progress that now has short opportunities to call someone. well, they must have called and played a prank on someone. yes, well, we also dial a phone number through this for the sake of amateur communication, well, we enter the telephone network and could also call any subscriber whose phone is. we know it doesn't matter. this is the soviet union or abroad. overseas, i don't know. i remember i called my brother. but completely out of my head. that i called them at 2:00 at night. well i don't have something
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slept. i'm flying over the bright side of the earth. uh, oh, called him, he didn't expect. i did n't warn him. he didn't choose the word. here are some sounds he made. well, i realized that all the conversation will not succeed, and then on the ground he tells me when you flew. someone called me at night. if nothing was determined by the number, yes, what well , someone called me an ordinary phone. i say i heard a voice. hello vitya, and he has such a metallic voice. at night , some kind of robot calls, that is, not a person, yes, there are some echoes there, like
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affairs? that is, he did not recognize, did not recognize, then he did not sleep until the morning. but this was my prank. this is not a gamble. this i tried more. i, in my opinion, did not try to call, because it was hard, but valery korzun, here we flew in just to change this crew, and he told us when he flew. and there friends odnoklassniki classmates, in general, got together somewhere. gathering classmates there well they all knew he was in space. called, they say, you listen to this. in space, he says, what are you guys? i have already arrived, i will come to you. this is what is possible was to play, and we, of course, have access.
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now the free internet is clear, so you can chat and send photos and videos to send letters. there is a satellite phone that calls exactly abroad. wherever you want, call, in general there is no delay, the voice is very similar, not necessarily that, but several times i had such a feeling that god almighty told me, take a call home. i called home and got into such situations when there were some domestic problems at home or something from the car. one time the wife called, it was already dark. cold, winter drove the car into the garage. well , she can’t close the garage, well, they say that such an ordinary cooperative is not near the house, and she stands with this key, i can understand how to close everything to whom to turn darkness. i say don't worry. she says i didn't know how, because a only one way connection. only we can call who well, yes, no one can call us, only write a message, but it must, of course, be read at this moment. well, either
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you read there in the evening, and so i told you. uh, how to go. here is this liquid. take wd-40 and splash it. e through the keyhole of the garage, and she closed the garage. this is a good plot for a movie, the husband calls from the station and tells what needs to be done there, yes, there were such things in the car. there she broke down to ask the way. she stopped not knowing what to do. well, she's just just flown. they didn’t even have a thought to ask what the cars should do, and then i call and say. how are things there? is everything alright. he says you are not afraid. i'm standing in the middle of the road in a car and they don't know what's wrong with it going on, and there was like a conflict. uh, with some computer. well, i knew this trick, like a little bit, but it was already pretty hard, so i called. i tell a colleague to a friend. come, there it is, the wife with the car. once you climb in there, you will do the right thing as an engineer
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, the car will start. and let her go further , so, probably, this uh people are already getting used to it in such that you can call. i just now told you, and i remember we well, it's time for an amateur connection. that's how it was in carving. and in principle, we need to fly somewhere, in my opinion, i need south africa and i don’t remember where now. in general, somewhere in a good place. well, yes, on the same america and there truckers they each have this trick, of course, yes, well, they go. they just talk to each other . eh, and they don't like it when someone wedges in. yes, i understand, they wedged in here quite by accident. well, nothing to talk about, and you start talking to them. they uh send you to hell. here, then it begins to threaten. you tell them, listen, we
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are astronauts, we are flying here. they are for you send further. here, well, by virtue of the fact that they love, uh, here. well, sometimes you find there, it's when they already reach them there that but they believed that it was an astronaut calling from space, yes. it was me. random, our guys also flew to the iss, probably already, but on the iss i made such a program for children who put up a mailbox. uh, a big box, or rather, wrote in this museum. ask an astronaut a question. well, the children there wrote questions on pieces of paper. they threw it into this box, but it was written there that in addition to the question you need to write who you are and how to contact you, as a rule, they indicated an email there. so we selected the questions,
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scanned the good ones and sent them to the guys. one question sounded to me like this. hello . i have a friend. there is no other in the friend class . his birthday will be on such a date. it would be great if you congratulate him. so i sent then mikhail kornienko flew, just i say just come on here. and i remember that i lost my birthday. misha made the first call, the mother of that child picked up the phone. i believed that the astronaut was calling. well what a mother believe that the astronaut is calling? she said
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that this is what misha cardienko has to do with it. why is there no bear? but how did he introduce himself? i don't know, but i know she's there. first she beat it all off, then she beat it again. well. he says, is it from the fourth? i only proved to her that i got through and proved that it was really from outer space that he wants to invite. this is my story. e, so we need to dial nine zero eleven from space to earth, then seven is russia and then the phone and it happens to be zero, it doesn’t breaks through, well , we’ll call 911 through the keyboard and it’s direct, because we call through houston directly, you get to the police. well, the service, well, well, the police department, and they ask. what a problem you say, oh sorry, i'm just an astronaut. i'm at
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the iss station and there are those that are sold. and yes, you know such a thing, it happens that it's okay. i wish you good fingers. so, well, we are discussing with you just about how it was, how it is now. eh, the whole world. how big do you think he was? how many modules he had a system of modules he had , that is, rather big ones. well, not small. yes, not small, but, by the way, he was so compact now. i think that the iss is now a module of such a kind of train, where you can run a hundred meters, yes, 70 m, yes, but with us they were docked like that, everything is there to the base unit, docked mods are not particularly run away. but to find the module that you need to fly to right away, that is , you won’t find it right away, because you get to this intersection, where the road goes down to one module to the right, second module. here the third
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here is the fourth, and there somewhere else there, here is the fifth sixth. it was great there, but i liked it. this is the design, firstly, what is close, when you know everything, somewhere that you are right away once and you are in the module once it is in this module, when we crashed. well, the ship, but we got into the spectrum, we isolated this module, and the whole station is working. yeah, that's what she was comfortable with, there, of course i was preparing. me: well, this one was just the beginning. even here these were not football fields, well, yes, it turns out that now the iss is really the area, well, the size, like a football field, the volume. like a big boeing himself. that is, you can fly for a very long time, by the way, you can fly through the station and never meet the one you are. well, you want, therefore, after the telecommunication, you call there and let's meet somewhere. the patient is there at the central
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post, because it is so huge now, and it is increasing. literally this year. uh, only roscosmos added two new modules. that is, to us. yes, that is, even though she is already over 20 years old. and by the way, the world is ours flew in. 15 15 yes, launched at five. yes? well, yes, it should have flown 15, here the iss was launched. it seems to me at 15, but has already flown more than twenty. and as soon as new modules appeared, therefore, i think that the station has great prospects. well, actually great that they took the time to come to meet. we really have not seen each other for a long time there is something to talk about, it turns out. i hope that we will find time to meet again and talk about other topics. well, of course, about space and i will always be glad to see you, i want to thank you personally. thank you very much. take care of yourself.
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thank you very much, let's talk. there is still something to talk about, or there is too little time to tell a lot of people, and it would be possible to tell. new year is a cozy holiday. this is a family holiday. these are traditions. this association is magic this is a family
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we have a tradition when the chimes strike. we have a tradition in our family, when the chimes strike, we all leave the room where there is a christmas tree before leaving. dad opens the window so that santa claus can fly in. that's we all leave. now since we are celebrating the new year in the village with our parents with our big family. we leave to watch salute and when we return, santa claus has already brought you gifts. that is, we have such a magic tradition that we observe every year. i can say that the
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most important thing, my desire and the most precious gift is just the same meeting of the whole family at the same table in the same territory. this is my most cherished and most long-awaited gift for each new year. if it's cozy in the house, then it's always cozy there regardless of the new year or a weekday, but comfort is a feeling of this energy. this is not a room, just some room or house
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is a self-portrait of the person you come to visit. ah, and it can be created only when a person somehow got to know himself. i mean, it's probably the most, uh, interesting trip. uh and like that. uh, a healthy goal in life to get to know yourself to understand who i am, what i want. eh, and where am i going and there already when these answers are formulated inside a person, then this visual external self-portrait also develops, because you can call a bunch of designers. uh, hmm, they 'll come up with something, but it won't be yours. and their therefore, we are not talking about repairs, not about a. we’ll tell you something else, not about some tricks of how you can definitely do it, they are there, but when we come up with something, let’s call it a
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concept, but some kind of idea. uh, it is precisely in the pro comfort that we proceed. e from the person to whom we came to visit, so that there was not some kind of self-expression, namely. e, such a cool help for a person so that he can look at himself. e, through your interior through your room and get to know yourself in this way, so about comfort is first of all about a person, about people, but about the values ​​of the family and life itself. well, in general, this applies not only to the new year, it applies to every day of god, because
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the question of formulation is, in principle, very important, the way we formulate our desire, our aspiration. uh, that's what we get in the end , because we can hear very well, and the question is clear and accurate are we hmm formulate, so eh? i don't want to work so hard. e, for example, if e is such a desire, then be prepared for the fact that some kind of flu will come or something else, some circumstances that are actually not very cool, but i want to do a job that i love this , just leads us to some meaningful and important thing for the person himself, but a to the formative way, and, of course, no desires will
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come true. if you do not go to them, do not work on these on this implementation. a cozy person is probably a person with an open heart a person who moves through trust through life, but probably a person who could. a-a work out your ego, a and is not aimed at receiving a is aimed at sharing, because when we share, uh, we actually get a lot in return, that is, you really need to be able to give and be able to to take, that is, there are people who have the task of learning to take. they give, they give, they don't know how to take. e to the bottom to study.
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if people who all the time want to take everything, but give nothing. well, there are these polarity, e. and on them, probably, the life path is built in order to eventually come to some kind of harmony inside and to balance . hmm, so i really wish everyone hmm harmonization of the internal state and focus. well, the new testament says it all. the bible also says everything, there is no need to reinvent the wheel, and i will not be able to discover any truth. you just need to want to start doing it, because the energy of wanting is desire. it's very powerful, just what do you want? what do you want, huh? we are all very interconnected, and if i meet a person who is very
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annoying. and then it's very cool, because in fact this way. when the lord gives such a meeting, he gives an opportunity. you will grow up on your own if, uh, you begin to perceive this annoying person as a teacher, and not as some kind of object that i want to quickly. delete. ah, and wonder why this annoys me. what exactly? maybe because it is this quality that is in me and this is the quality that needs to be transformed into a plus and so that it ceases to be a minus. maybe i'm like this way, too, i behave with some person. and if there is such a cool expression, a finger on yourself, when something infuriates , irritates, does not suit, does not satisfy. here are the fingers on yourself, which means that somewhere hmm something. hmm maybe we got it mixed up. i'm very
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demanding. i'm a perfectionist. hmm. i really wanted to and i'm doing this to learn. it is easier to relate easier, but to perceive, uh, someone else's weakness and strangers. it may seem like a mistake to me, but in fact it's all also made so that hmm i go through this or that experience. and that is to be less irritable uh, and uh be easier, that's what i want. well, there is such a healthy
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practice of blindfolding a person and there are two leading him, they don’t touch him, they don’t lead by the hand, they don’t do anything. they are just nearby and they watch, and in which case, so that the person is not injured. and here you are walking for 15 minutes with your eyes closed, and it could be anywhere in the forest. uh, beach whatever whatever you want is such a great exercise in trust. and uh, after going through this exercise i tried it very clearly it becomes clear. how do you move in this world if you you go through trust, uh, there you can stumble, well, you don't stop breathing in fear, what's wrong with you now? is something like this going to happen? haha. well, okay, and you go on and take the next step. here, uh, through this
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exercise, you can understand, how do you move through trust or through disbelief? mm and understand accordingly. if you suddenly realized that you are not going through trust. and what should be done. well, this is a city, damn it, of training, it’s, well, to open the heart - if it’s closed, then there really needs such a good study and diving into childhood, because a in fact, we are formed precisely in childhood precisely on the basis of the environment from the example that is before our eyes from the situation that developed with us in one way or another, because life circumstances are very different for everyone, but hmm there is not a single person who does not there would be some kind of painful inner story that could work to make the heart close and
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trust, uh, went into reserve somewhere. and not trust came to the fore. again, we come to the conclusion that e here you have to want it when you want it. uh, hmm grow up grow up take responsibility, then, and uh, the lord universe hears you, as you please, but also gives you circumstances that eventually e lead you to this light beautifully. well, that is, there is a desire, the key thing is to want, and i also said the word of responsibility. e. and a , the meaning of this word was revealed to me not so long ago, because responsibility usually shrinks the body so a little. even the body knows everything. uh, when the truth or untruth is said, the body immediately reads also about hearing oneself, a very important thing, in short, responsibility
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- this is that, uh, those circumstances that lead you to an answer for which you are already ready - this is not some kind of heavy burden. and this is new. eh, well, a new opportunity e of knowing the world of yourself in this world and life as such. every event of each person in one way or another forms him, that is, there are a million of them. this is such a heap of magical pollen that together it is impossible to characterize with something in one memory. i have a favorite book that my parents uh recommended to me. e to the east - this demo is worth it and it is so multi-paged roman a, in which, thanks to which i
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had, my favorite word is timshal tim went - this is ancient hebrew and it is translated as choice. and there is a character in this one in this novel. hey old man? the chinese, but the sage, who uh, somewhere already in the final closer to the final. e, he talks just on the topic of timshil and in one reading it says that you can dominate in another, but it says that you must . and every second we can make this choice, but from thought to action, that is, every moment of our lives. and we have the possibility of this
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choice to turn left, to the right to get nasty and thank you, hug, hit, and that’s all. this is very interconnected every time we can go into the light towards the light or go towards the darkness. hmm. here's a story, something i got lost. and i believe in a mission, that every person has this or that mission, and the opportunity and the path to it is unique, maybe anything, and again we we come to this choice, that is, based on the choice. eh, and this path is taking shape and,
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probably, i believe that every person in life gets what he wants again, questions of formulation. it will be very modest, but i really do with all my heart and with all my soul. i advise you to watch all the series about comfort, because uh in these stories it is uh all series - this is a story. like some kind of family of some individual, but they are all very filled with inspiration for you for for the viewer and there is a lot of useful stuff there branches. uh, you can even see, uh, some person who does what you love to actually do and start doing it. hmm, here's my advice to look. e. it’s hard for me to give any more advice, because
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that’s it, and the past tense i just did to create these stories. about cozy and little did not look at all anymore. if you want to read something to be filled and inspired, then i advise you to read the book of joy, this is one of my favorite books. uh, this is a conversation between the dalai lama and the archbishop. tutu a buddhist and a christian a and two best friends and archbishop tutu came to the dalami for his birthday and stayed with him for 7 days and this book it consists of a dialogue of direct speech. as a matter of fact, these two wonderful powerful people are talking about joy, that's why it is called the book of joy, and there are just a lot of
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all kinds of magic keys scattered on these pages, which you can carefully put everything in your heart and start hmm trying. they taste. here is ah. i think maybe even this one book is enough for now. a lot of things are being done now, a lot of things are being done, the resources of the earth are being spent and what was done a long time ago and what can already be. feels tired, it can be transformed very easily and simply due to just paint, if you paint an old nightstand, which, uh. with cracked varnish and
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already as if sad and nothing. if it doesn’t feel joyful, then you can give this bedside table some. for example , such a raspberry, and the color and it will play in a completely different way, you can change the handle, now there is a huge number of all sorts of furniture handles, i don’t want to choose directly, and it will already be another completely bedside table, carrying a completely different energy, the plus is that you can unite with the whole family and take repaint the wardrobe and the old wardrobe that annoyed will become your favorite wardrobe . and if it is some kind of wall, soviet for example, bulky, which presses , it presses very hard according to sensations and takes up a lot of its space. if you paint it in some light color, then it will become airy. uh, example. uh, you can see how, just in the first series with my precious ones, and with marina and alina, we repainted the old soviet wardrobe,
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which is so big monumental brown, we repainted it in blue with thyme elements, hmm colors, and now it immediately became such a center, because people have invested in it. e your energy of strength, and as a result, love and a object transformed. and this is how it is all e with each other and each other are built. i probably don't have a favorite color. here, so that for life and everything, i have my favorite color changes seasonally, probably now my favorite color is orange. and it ’s also interesting about colors, because each color has its own definition and meaning and energy, for example, orange. i read it when i realized that there is a lot of orange around me. it has already
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become orange, which means that this one speaks of something, and orange - this turns out to be, and the color of aspiration and movement and some hmm victories of some active active path. it’s so interesting to shift it onto yourself and see that it’s probably really somehow so for now. i go god forbid, and i will go further, and the green color is also green. frost, because , for example, in the series about the concierge, the room was there, just the entrance was painted green, but this is such a hospital green that only does what it depresses. and if you choose the right shade of green, so grassy, ​​well, a little deeper, otherwise this color, which relieves, uh, energy psychological stress. that is, if you just look at it, otherwise the
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internal state is evened out, i advised me in fact. i found out about it. and thanks to leni, my favorite artist, but because my eye was twitching on the set. uh, probably for a month and a half my eye was twitching and at some point i shared with her that he was twitching all the time, and he said, sit down and look at the grass, thank god then the green grass was spring was hmm i sat down to look at i sat on the grass, probably, well, for about 30 minutes my eye stopped twitching. that is, it's about and the fact that it's not just some kind of slovakia invented by someone, it's really, and so works. the first thing that came to my mind. this is , uh, the combination of red and black is, of course, dad, and love immediately changes and the fire burns. i don't know about other colors. there
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are three christmas trees on my balcony at my house now, because all the introductions and the unifying line of our stories about comfort are filmed in my apartment with my beautiful favorite gang about comfort, so for uh these shootings. uh, trees were needed, so i have three trees on my balcony. by the way, cool life hack if you have a balcony, and if, uh, it doesn’t clutter, what's great, if you need slush in order for new energy to come, uh, and if it's free, then you can buy our beautiful russian christmas tree, which is fragrant and generally very beautiful and put it on the balcony, then it will never. well, she's falling for you. eh, does it not crumble with you, or is it only there when the heat comes? that is, you will have a christmas tree standing, but on the street, but it will be visible,
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it will burn with lights. uh, and you won't have needles all over the floor either. this is me, probably, 3 years ago somehow this one came to me idea, and i put a christmas tree on the balcony. since then, i always have a christmas tree on the balcony, so that it is fragrant, and the smell was, uh, barely, then you can put spruce branches. and so i have all sorts. uh, wooden christmas trees with bells, which, well, in general, garlands are our everything. i realized that there are never too many garlands. eh, but the main thing is that these should not be cold garlands, as if lighting, if well, just pay attention, please, but there is warm lighting. there is cold lighting. provides warm lighting. e, this is just the same feeling of comfort, and even if just one replace a light bulb with these e, energy-saving ones or whatever they are called hmm replace with edison edison these are warm real incandescent bulbs, then this is immediately
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another another atmosphere will be in the house. here are the garlands, too, warm light, my favorite ones are those little lights on the wires , thin ones you can’t really see them, but they can very beautifully decorate the new year’s table . and in general, they give mood. and if we talk about garlands that are so woven with balls, this is generally year-round, the story is not only about new year's me all year round garlands lie. here. i think that there are no colors that kill comfort except for. uh the colors that uh people choose. uh, for porches. i directly firmly believe that
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they will finally begin to select noble, deep, beautiful colors comfortable for life for walls in porches, because it is very easy to do. hmm, but i don’t really understand why it hasn’t been done everywhere yet. here , probably, everything lies again in childhood, because my mother she is the princess of comfort and always regardless, wherever we are hotel rooms or some room, it is not clear where a or something else is always out of everything. mom transformed the space into e and made it feel like home. uh, then i found out that it turns out my grandmother. uh, also uh created a cozy atmosphere with a flick of a finger, that is, a magic wand. hmm, this is some kind of family story, apparently, and at some
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point i have a close friend, my friend lera dergileva. uh, and i wanted to surprise her and called all of her friends who i did not know, but after one handshake. i found out all the phone numbers and called everyone to arrange a birthday surprise for lera and called everyone to my house, where we did everything from decorating. well, i did, a and lera didn’t know she came home and all her friends were there a and when each of these beautiful women came into my house. in my apartment each said. and wow wow how cozy wow and i realized that the environment is familiar to me. it's not like that everywhere, uh, but everyone
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wants it. well, what a prank, you can’t succeed to believe in the impossible - said alice. it's just that you have very little experience. noticed the queen at your age. i devoted 30 minutes to this case every day, i came to one. she did something to another, she came to do something, and the idea was born to open a bureau, comfort, architecture, uh, design sensations, so orders began to rush and it became a business. and then this story arose, so somehow this is not by itself. eh, what came is if you look back, then here is every event again, and feedback from other people. one way or another, she brought me to the point at which to the chair in which i am now sitting. in general, in principle,
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a woman is the keeper of the hearth and inside every woman is. this is the magical power of creating an atmosphere. uh, sometimes you just need to fill up a resource sometimes. eh, gone somewhere. and for this you need to fill it internally, and we fill the internal one when we accept ourselves and when this love for yourself hmm triumphs, because, uh, it is also said in the holy scripture that you love your neighbor cosmo as yourself. ah, and here you are. uh, the main task is to love yourself and get to know yourself, because in fact, it turns out that m-th is the very characteristic of love, uh, it is written by the apostle paul and
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few people know how to love, because they are not in their eyes with themselves love yourself and then in general magic will happen everywhere, she is just waiting to start blooming these magical flowers. and everywhere, m-m, it remains to take a step towards and wave your magic wands. firstly, we live in a modern world, when you can perfectly peep, where you pleasure they give you the opportunity to have a lot of resources of all sorts of different ones, even here you are watching some, for example, uh, there is some kind of feature film . uh, there is an interior everywhere, and which, uh, you might like, and then you can
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try to apply uh, and introduce some kind of feature into your home. and this is how learning to learn, in general, there is nothing wrong with borrowing, because everything is created e and created yes us e. it's just that when you take something, at the same time you add, uh, a piece of yourself, it already becomes completely different. but at the same time well, well that is interesting to try. just do not be afraid of inspiration everywhere, well, or about the combination of colors, but you can just look at any flower. uh, alstroemeria rose, i don't know anything, and there 's just a whole palette, combined into one of various colors. and i think that uh hmm very many or paintings look at the paintings on the mane on matisse. it
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would seem very bold combinations of colors, but they look very harmonious in the company of each other, that is, inspiration is everywhere everywhere in paintings in nature in colors in music in movie. uh, hmm everywhere. questions again desire. if you want to be inspired, do it. go to the pushkin museum. and type on the internet in the search engine logs and hmm, here it is, here it is, here it is, the movement, if you want comfort, or beauty, together towards beauty and inspired, that's why we have a motto. uh, our gang is pro cozy getting inspired to inspire. that is how we live. life inspires me life has
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many different aspects. this is music too. these are people. this is nature. these are my roots. my clan my family, and i myself because inside everyone absolutely everyone there are no exceptions within each person there is god's spark questions of the degree of burning, if it goes out you can ignite it, if it burns, then thank god, but from the sermon. and i forgot who well, it doesn't matter. i’m ending with just these words, the 13th new year’s series, that if at least one candle burns, then absolutely darkness is already impossible, therefore, if each person carefully a-a keeps this magical god’s candle inside himself
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and gives it the opportunity to burn , then everything will be just great, here. hi all. i am ruslan polyakov and a participant in the show for most of the new year holidays, cooks on wheels are a reason to go somewhere, but for us chefs who are already traveling all over the country , this is a reason to stay if they are visiting their friends , and just the same, i am now going to my friend andrey shmakov. hi ruslan how are your holidays? we work actively class class have you been to my restaurant with a child?
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ruslan our restaurant was built in 2015, but a very interesting fact at the beginning of the 20th century. this place was the first american bar, and all of russia knew that the metropolis has an american bar where guests can be served behind the counter. uh, it was a novelty then at the time, but of course, we did not play in a bar. after all, our restaurant already has a historically created interior, it was difficult to change it. here are the columns. those beautiful paintings that are on the ceilings. we decided to just highlight them and add
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some modern design furniture and this restaurant started to live. you could say it's a second life. we now have a lot of guests, and interesting guests, that is, guests. who still come for family holidays. here, you know, sometimes they come, mother, grandmother granddaughter, and now, when you go out into the hall and see, these family gatherings are a family meeting. yes it is, great. in my heart, immediately and directly, i really love it when they sit in our hall. that's right, families. and when the children even run around the restaurant. although i used to be very angry at the fact that the children went to a restaurant and made noise, but now this is a completely different kind of incentive and happiness, let's go to the second floor. i have a small kitchen there. you haven't been there yet at the bolshoi, you've been in the small kitchen. i have everything arranged like at home, that is, just a stovetop oven. and i think that you will be interested with me there while we go to cook. please tell me what new year's holidays are for you in general , because for me new year's holidays are new year's eve itself - it's spending time with family. this is
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necessarily a taboo and this is not disputed in any way, by anyone, as if it were always parents, family, children. well, in principle, i have the same thing, because we spend so much time at work, and there are so many interesting requests from guests. here i have for example, on new year's eve these holidays there are a lot of guests who, it seems to me, have not even eaten enough, olivier is at home. they go to a restaurant. they still order olivier, uh, there are those people who come in the morning, well, at the opening of the restaurant. we open at 12:00. they are already ordering borscht or sauerkraut soup. well, basically it was like this our people. they are all the same on holidays, especially on new year's, when it snows outside the window. they still want something like that classic jelly dumplings, some hangovers, these soups, i even think more. they always want us to go to restaurants, eat very complex food, interesting food, but in our hearts we want to eat, olivier meat
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in french vinaigrette, and everything else that we always ate in childhood. you know, in my childhood, the same thing, when the new year came or came, or this new year's fuss was so cool all the time, because in the kitchen everything was always boiling grandma, something was in the jew's harp. and well, here's the simplest, here's the most vivid memory of my childhood - it's cheese with garlic. i don't know, why it was, but when the new year came, i ask my grandmother all the time. show me more than just cheese with garlic. i don’t know what they bought, they just rubbed the cheese, and they added garlic to it, and here it is for me for the child. it was probably the most amazing dish. plus, i asked. you know, uh potato salad, well, like olivier, only with smoked fish. smoked cod instead of meat and instead of peas. well, that is, peas were excluded, and smoked fish was added there. and now, uh, the same mayonnaise. that's the story it was too some, but today i'm not super at all. i cook classics, of course, uh, stewed
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cabbage and duck is a classic dish, but i changed the recipe a little. well, because you're the boss. i want your receptors to play in a completely different way. and today i will cook duck breast for you, i have a duck breast with a little refinement, that is, this duck breast. we hang it in the aging chamber for 5 days so that you can see it already has a crust and such a brutal taste plus cabbage cabbage, i won’t start from scratch now cook, because it's a long one and a half hours, but i'll show it to you. there is prunes here. there is an onion here. there is some red wine here. and the whole thing evaporates, it turns out very, very tasty, but i hope that you will definitely try it, but we will definitely try it, and what about citrus fruits? i have everything as usual, so who knows, i'm the easiest. i guess i don't like complex recipes. i love it to be quick and to have everything on hand it will just be a salad you have hot. i have a great salon. let's start with the salad. means,
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yes, i will have a light salad, where there will be citrus darinka citrus, and miss salad, cucumbers and feta cheese o class. i really love brands. listen, look, and you cook at home, look for 30 years, as i have been in the kitchen and every time everyone asks me, journalists, everything is fine. who cooks for you at home? hey, i'll tell you a secret. or maybe not. i cook at home for my kids because i'm at work so long and often that the kids don't always eat my food because i'm away just at home but when i come home. everyone always asks for something to cook. that is, if uh dad at home, so we will have duck cabbage, so we will have olive oil, so i will make a fur coat. well, well, children don’t eat a fur coat, jelly, when you tell children about jelly. it is said that it is that meat in jelly? well, that is, in general, but in my childhood. of course, i ate jelly. uh, i ate in general, i did. yes, i, too, in childhood. we ate
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everything that was on the table. that is, i don’t eat it, in my opinion, we never had anything like that, right? and it was necessary to finish everything ruslana . you cook at home. well not as often as we would be 24/7 practically on work, so when i have a day off, i cook. well, accordingly, it will be such a big dinner. it will be meat. i love grill. that is, as a rule, it is at the parents' house outside the city and, well, it's gucci fish meat class all through the grill. therefore, yes, if you set up a snowy grill for some day and these smokes, you just built such a small corner of yours, there is no one there, and it doesn’t matter where i sit. this is winter. summer autumn, as if you were sitting on the roof drinking, uh, tangerine tangerine drinks are class and that's it. the rest and how you sit calmly frying, as if this is a buzz, where you have no timing, nothing. you
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just stand and calmly cook. it 's great. it seems to me that any chef has such a corner at home, or it is always built. somewhere there is such a corner where he can safely cook so that no one interferes with me at home the same thing. i have a grill corner in which kazan stands. if necessary, i just go there and make some kind of pilaf or some kind of dum lama, but the most simple dishes and, uh, at that moment no one touches me at all . i can sit enjoy the silence and cooking, i cook duck and i will tell you how to cook duck properly at home. if you have, duck breast, you must put the pan on the stove, do not turn on the stove, put this duck breast, but you must grate it already, put salt and a little pepper on a cold pan, then turn it on to slow heat and the pan starts to warm up the breast begins to fry, due to which fat comes out of it, and then it will be crispy, it will be crispy, and the meat will be like that. here
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very, very tender, so the cold frying pan put the breast on the side of the skin and turned on then only the stove heats up the skin. and fat is fried in fat, the word is generally ugly, but uh, on the other hand, it’s very tasty. do you like duck in general, otherwise i'm cooking duck for you today. maybe you treat her i'm neutral. that is, as if i do not like and hate catching and hate. so let's try it today and then say, suddenly you say, it 's impossible to eat it at all, but we buy whole ducks, we always cut out the breast and hang it up her legs mature. we're getting candy right now. you know, they put it in fat, put it in the oven at 80 ° for 12 hours, they are ready, and all the frames. i have borscht. and i have borscht with duck and cherries, and here are all the carcasses and all the wings. we just go to the rich broth so it turns out, that is, my duck was born so that all parts can use it calmly, and we stuff chinese down jackets with feathers. listen, i was when
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you had someone olivier a year ago, as if i was directly delighted. he kept me he, but uh, that one olivier which i do in the restaurant. it's different from the olivier that i make at home, because here i have it like this with crayfish necks with crab and baked chicken. everything is very beautiful, but at home we are still used to eating a little later with our tongue. there is no tongue there, yes, and there is a tongue there, or if there is no tongue, then i also like to add smoked chicken. well, in general, of course, it’s not olivier, but peas are definitely from a can. and plus i add a green apple there. here it is from childhood. my grandmother has apple opponents. i don't like these sweet and salty ones. yes, and i'm very and i still know what the topic is when you put two spoons of mazik there, and one spoon of sour cream. here, sour cream should be slightly diluted, here is this tart taste of mayonnaise, but mayonnaise. i never do this by hand. but this is for those guys who advertise these mayonnaises on tv. we
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will not talk about them, but everyone has their own favorite taste manager. i always add mayonnaise or lemon zest or a little bit of lemon. juice, to give him a little life andrey just let it be. and where at you have oil oil? i've got an olive here, here's an avocado, choose one i have, look at the breast fried hear how crispy it is right now. now i just need to put it on parchment paper. and i've got mustard, honey, and pepper mix here. i will grease a little more and put in the oven for 5 minutes and it will be ready. what a fantastic listen, i'll make my salad dressing for the time being, and i'll just have to chop the cucumber leaves, break, uh, cheese, and fill the class with you and me today, in general, some kind of quick. well listen, you and i are professional quick cookers. yes, how old are you?
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you are engaged in this wonderful profession of ours. no, 32 from the age of 15. can you imagine, and this year in september i will be 30 years old, as i am in the kitchen, when i first came to the kitchen. it was exactly 30 years ago when you start to cut through the years. yes, when you start thinking about it. you think you're very, very old, and uh, in my, for example, career, there were probably four times when i completely wanted to give up my job as a cook and do something else. but, unfortunately, when i started doing something else. you realize that you have dedicated your life. yes , you know what you can't do anything else, funny story. i had a house when uh i have uh, my father went on vacation, and my mother began to make repairs, and not with my mother. he went on vacation, and it turned out that the whole apartment was already ready, like the wallpaper was pasted, but you need to screw it off or turn off the sockets , he says, andryush can come, just turn it off or with sockets? i say of course, well i'm into electricity like uh
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pork oranges, that is, nothing from the word. i say, of course, they will come, yes, and i came. when i was shocked on the fourth outlet for the eighth time, i just realized that this is really not mine, that i’d better go now to make some kind of banquet to earn money on this give the electrician come and screw it, that is, it seems to me that every person should mind your own business. yes, and what he likes. now, if i don’t like twisting sockets, then i probably shouldn’t do it. and after 30 years, i understand that i am still in my place. here this is the most important thing for me ruslan i have a duck. now it’s 5-7 minutes in the oven, plus i’m heating cabbage for you. i'm free, can i help you with something? i've got a super fresh salad, like super light super fresh, so i'm waiting for you. let's. wait, and what can i take cucumbers from you? yes, let's
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just clean them up. uh, and chop rings well, and what else did you work, besides a cook for someone else, uh, you know, i really, i just wanted to change my life in my head differently, but uh at 13 years old, when my mom asked me what i want to become in this life. acid, yes acid is good. here's the sweetness, maybe add a little. look, i have honey left. do you want to be fine just a little bit in general, 13 years old, when my mother asked me, whom i want to become, and i had three ideas, who i would like to become in general in my life is not an astronaut, not a pilot and not a firefighter. the first one i wanted to be, uh, a clown, like yuri nikulin because it was my idol yuri kulin, uh, she smiled and said, okay, then, second. i said what i want to be. uh, the same actor as andrei mironov, because i also really liked it. andrei mironov , she also smiled and the third. she asked, let's have your third wish. i said i
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want to be a chef. she told the chef why did i say i want to be a chef. on a passenger ship, a handsome one in a white apron and a white liner, my mother said fine, but she said that i'm afraid for you, my friend, because you will definitely be fat as a cook, plus you will be put in jail. you know why because obhss will come. check your invoices and check your item. you definitely won’t have something and they’ll put you in jail, because in the eighty-sixth year this could happen, and my mother said that the word ship is interesting and better. it will be the tallinn naval school, where, uh, they will knock out all this nonsense of your clown acting and everything else . can you imagine i was supposed to be
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a mechanic in life. but uh, the very situation in the country made it so that i turned out to be a cook. i can drop there. well, i look foolishly they didn’t knock themselves out. yes, this is not nonsense, it is called. i call this wisdom, so, well, i always, uh, i always did everything with humor and positively, i like it, because uh, i don’t understand at all how a chef can work in a bad mood, or there you understand that, if you are in a bad mood, then the dish is not quite tasty. yes, and there is no positive energy in it. tell us how you became a chef. this is also interesting. probably the most popular the question is, do you cook at home, and how did you become a chef? everything, just like for me, you know this concept. uh, i have to understand what i
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did in general, if i don't understand what i'm doing , it's all very difficult for me. uh, i passed out on a marketer. first course. and come on, you weren't the same at all, but i was nothing. i always wanted it, i cooked at home somehow, well, not hard, i liked it. i got high on this, but the marketer, i'm from dagestan, as it were, so imagine, the dagestan marketer already sounds no, well, how would ideas go to work as a cook. honestly, cooks are immediately taboo because, well, somehow the boy is a cook. i trained as a marketer. i had these water activities. i did not understand at all what i would do, in general, what is my goal in this world, what would i do? i didn’t understand, but according to the results in the second year, when you are already going to a certain specialty, my father and i went and transferred, i unlearned. uh, commodity technical school is an expert chef, that's why i came to this. well, i changed. i changed something else i wanted to become. i didn't want to become
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a cook in any case, but there are culinary nuances from him. when this didn’t bother me , how much i wanted something more and i changed my profession, but i had enough for 2 weeks for 3 weeks. so i went back to the kitchen. it was very hard when you are 12 hours, rushing about like this, and then the manager puts you like that, and then the keyboard is here, the phone is all that you remember your first restaurant. yes, but do you remember the coolest mistake that was in your life or a funny mistake. here in the first restaurant hmm the first restaurant is like this a restaurant is when you walk around, clapping your eyes like that, as if you don’t understand anything. eh, it's easy to bring pd, and already when you go to some serious restaurant , you are already waiting for some kind of restaurant to work. yes, and i had a you know what a cool case. well, first of all, uh, i always check myself for weak ability. i do it or not? and when i was e i was how much i'll take yours yes
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please, when i was 20 years old, i came to a restaurant in a hotel i didn't ask me, uh, we don't need a cook, but we need a butcher , you can, uh . you know how to carve meat. i i say, of course, butcher the meat, lord, i have already redistributed so much ink. although i didn’t even understand what we were talking about and my first day, my first day, they bring me, uh, 30 liters of pig blood and they say, i need to make blood sausages, since i myself live in estonia, it’s very popular to make blood sausage for christmas, what it is? this is blood barley a little bit of meat, how the blood is brewed, then a very tasty thing is boiled into these intestines, but i have not eaten it since then. eh, i'll tell you now. in general, they brought me 30 liters of blood. these here are for these local sausages. they said andrey had to mix everything up. i will ask, of course, how to knead with your hands, or what? speak? no no, there is a big big planetary mixer. he stands in the confectionery shop, you have to go. and that's where it's all mixed up. i
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come with two buckets of blood, then i came with two more buckets. here is the minced planetary mixer. you know what a big one is. in which, like bread, it kneads. here, with such a large whisk, it stands in the middle. the confectionery shop in the middle at this time plays christmas music. i know that further down in white, women in white are making little marshmallows, and everyone has their backs to me. this is the thing, the nuclear machine is in the middle. i put in 30 liters. i add blood there, minced meat. there is such a little thing about switching speeds - there is a maximum there is a minimum. yes, and there are two buttons on and off, the key is to turn it on and off, when i poured all this blood, they looked at me like that and turned around to continue making their marshmallows. i pressed the button, it's okay, i didn't remove it. in general, a hand from there, because the big finger immediately pressed the off button. he pressed not to the point that it was not because i wanted to press quickly. something just splashed in my eyes. i
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pressed off and at that moment i saw that i was covered in blood. then i looked at the hall and saw that the women. that's what it means a woman will cover everything with her breasts, here a woman with her breasts, they covered their marshmallows. all their backs were covered in blood, the entire confectionery shop was covered in blood. uh , i just didn’t notice that this thing here was at the maximum. that is, when she just started getting in the way. that's all 30 liters of blood. they are common. that is, except there was no dj at all. here in this one i was covered in the blood of a woman, they just raised it like that, and the christmas music continued to play, because the tape recorder still remained. they are gone. i washed this confectionery shop alone for eight hours. i'll never forget this in my life, and i've hated black pudding ever since, but now you gently turn it on. and now i do n't turn you on even now. i just give it to all the cooks and say, go ahead and knead it. i
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i won't even go there. god forbid i'll be sucked in there for you. so she’s ready, literally she needs to rest for 3-5 minutes to lie down while she lies. let me spread the salad. come on, tell me, please, do your children love to cook in general, or do they just eat what dad has cooked, because they love to eat. ah. regarding the eldest, he is 7 years old and will cook. that is, it’s already like he’s there to cook fried eggs in fried omelettes for himself. well, you know, with tastes, he has a very good taste, even something, at 5 years. he uh came to my restaurant there. i will be something like that, he was very fond of the sea with fish. he knows more fish than i even and he is such an octopus. it's that klass klass . it's great, how i like it when children do cooking. here. e, this is a wonderful pandemic time, when everyone was at home, i have three daughters and the
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youngest, then it was e 9 years old and we just cooked with her and it was very cool. uh, when a child instead of just being dumb or watching tv there or watching or play some computer games. even though she 's not a fan of mine. we cooked this with her and every time she asked, dad, what are we going to cook today? and when she threw some recipes there it was so great, the child perked up. there you even just know, you don't know what to do with a child. you just give him three, uh, cloves of garlic and tell him to peel. and here she is, so diligent, peeling this garlic with a crochet knife. and it's already great. and in general, when children and their parents cook for kitchen. i think it's very cool. it 's so family. eh, such warmth and some kind of friendship between parents and a child immediately arises and i remember my childhood. for example, i was sick very often in my childhood, that is, i was engaged in either spoilage or was sick. i only had two things. and when i was sick, i sat at home with my grandmother all the time. and since the
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tv did not show, because at 2:00 in the afternoon the tv turned off. television turned on only at 6:00 no youtube cartoons , nothing. well, either a book or kitchen? and so my grandmother and i cooked all the time in the kitchen, maybe because of this i wanted to, then to be a cook, because i saw that my grandmother had it on the stove there , there were six pots, something was being cooked there, bubbling here she sculpted dumplings. here the dough for belyashi was suitable. and it was so cool, and at the same time i didn't know what to do. she says so to me in white. let's mix the stuffing. here's an onion for you. here come on and i neighed this with my hands. it was very cool, so when until now i was a soccer player. yes, i am football and athletics. that's why i run now, at least i started playing football. but when my legs were beaten off twice, i realized that andrey, you do n’t need more than forty already. it will just kill you in the end , that's why i'm running now. ruslan, i made a duck for you and cooked it medium plus or medium well perfectly, because someone likes a completely fried duck. i don't like
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fully fried duck. it becomes very dry and also, for example, when the french eat duck and order its medium french medium. it is very different from what we eat. that is, it is almost raw like this, so that i still made it more in the russian style for you. a.a. when you already make, for example, the legs of a candy, they are already stewed until cooked, and there is no longer any degree of roasting, it only touches the breast. and you and your children also cook ruslan, and if they have a desire, then we cook, so no matter how it should be from the heart, you don’t force them. like, come here. i i don’t force him, but he cooks some dishes on his own. he is from you. so we constantly prepare some kind of milkshakes, that is, of such a plan. listen many people think that we eat very exquisitely because we have a duck at home. ah, parma and everything,
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like, if the meat, then only it's ribeye, like , let's dispel all these myths. what are you doing? me at home? just in time for agra duck parma i really love to uh, boo and eat delicious food. no, first of all, first of all, chefs don't eat at all. we eat at 23:30. we have the worst begins. before that, we don’t eat, just in the morning, we drink either tea or coffee, maybe there are some muesli and yogurt. that's it, in the afternoon there is no 23:30 your inner voice, says, throw me something and it doesn’t matter what, what, what comes to hand, cucumber, cucumber, after cucumber, honey is excellent tangerines are excellent chocolate sweets, that is, we score ourselves to well, i'm talking about myself now. i don’t know, you can say to yourself, that’s all i have, and then somewhere i understand half the first. andrew what are you? piglet? why did you ruin your whole day anyway. here, and in the morning i thought, fitness there is a
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salad. no, after you have eaten, you can’t even look at this food. and yes, but you ca n’t watch this food exactly until 22:30 the next day, because it comes again. uh, the night and the mafia wakes up. that's all in this manner and guys don't think that we eat very well at home and our children. uh, they just think, when we make them soufflé, no, no, our children eat the same thing that we eat, that is, what is in the refrigerator and when my daughter opens the refrigerator, she says, dad hanged herself in the refrigerator. mouse, i said that i would cook her a fried mouse fillet today. look, i’m ready for you. oh, we have portaki right today, as if it’s 23:30 now, and now 23:30 is not ruslan, but there is another stereotype that when we cook, we always eat up. we cut off a piece of meat there, we try, well, nonsense is true. yes, i have the maximum i salt, that is, when they give me
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sauce, i have a spoon with which i try. that is, i, as it were, with this spoon, when the sauce i'm pouring this part here. i just dip it in there and try a little for salt, nothing else or the taste of this sauce, and then i pour it further with a spoon even so that i don’t wash the spoon twice, yes, it turns out that you lick it? and you put it, what is it? here's an interesting story, but we don't get enough. we don't eat and today is good. you came in the evening. time after 22:30 can be chopped. m what is it? i generally love yes , a little bit of salt and generally love cottage cheese, and with citrus from a crispy salad. well, how would night salad. i'm afraid that my fishing rod will already be. morning, not night, you piled
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so many tables here, although, for example, i didn’t eat anything again today. it's the same salad. all is well. ruslan is here. oranges and tangerines. and what is there, you still had oranges with tangerine and lemon gave just acid, in theory, you can do absolutely anything, you can add grapefruit. then it will be a starter, then it will be the main thing for dessert. i will also return there, because you can still catch dessert oranges anyway. and i have already eaten it 1.533 times. you have it in restaurant such a dish? no, i cooked it for you. roast we have you yes, you already have roast lol. yes, i had a lot of experience. i worked on a german ship for 4 years. so my chef is a german chef, and,
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of course, he cooked only german food in mine. uh, i took part in cooking cabbage every week. i stewed cabbage. we had 250 passengers and 30, in my opinion, five crew members, that is, a team of 230 people, four cooks. we fed every day four times a day. mine was cabbage, and i this i stewed cabbage with such a large oar in such a large vat. and who veined? it 's sauerkraut. she already came in large buckets, that is, she is already ready. you just have to cut it. uh, each time there are 10 kg of onions 12 kg, carrots, 4 liters of red wine. i still remember it all, there is half a kilo sarah, 350 grams of salt. and it's all the same. yes, this is cabbage, therefore cabbage. eh, you know, as they say, i ate the way of salt. i ate under the cabbage, because yes, i understand,
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even separately is it good? yes, what a joke. what cabbage separately, because the duck turned out to be some kind of fantastic, that is, she and mustard. you have them crispy, and these peppers have given their own. well, that is, this is such a new year's winter dish, which contributes to the adoption of a cool mood, what is right now some kind of new year's holidays. uh, lights and everything, the rest and presents. and here are the tangerines. that's it. i don't really want to eat this in the summer . you would like to eat it in the summer. i wo n't tell you, it's delicious and probably, yes, well, in the summer we will meet and talk. it’s good to cook this for me in the summer. and i really liked your salad because, in principle, you can cook it all year round. that's what cheese is, there is always citrus, there is always the only thing? well, i didn't see
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tangerines in the summer, but, but grapefruit orange can play very cool, there's also pomelo, so you can change it every year. friends, if you are inspired by our recipes, of course, you need to cook it. excuse me for chewing on this very, very tasty. i suggest you wake up first thing in the morning look in the refrigerator. if you do not have these ingredients, drive to the store to buy and cook. and even if they are not available, cook what you yourself like. i think that in general the new year holidays should be celebrated tasty and beautiful and healthy and healthy. for more inspiration, watch chefs on wheels. we wish you a wonderful , tasty, cheerful and harmonious new year friends happy new year.
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as you know, we understand everything in sports in medicine, and in politics everyone understands this, there is one more area, which is used by everyone, but no one understands what is at stake. this is the very area in which i am in love and which has now become my second life, my second destiny, for the rest of my life, and there we all strive to do something better, something more beautiful and something higher. let's try. meet me in the cockpit today will be such a familiarization introductory flight, i will show you the landing of the aircraft, in some amazingly strange weather conditions at different airports at night during the day in the fog, from this we will start talking about
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what happens to us at that very delightful moment when we rise into the air ahead of me. a 65 135 allow launch five allow, dear citizens 12:34 training flight, we are pleasantly surprised that you agreed to participate with us. on this training flight. have a nice trip. we are always ready to help you enjoy your flight. in order to take off, you need
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these two handles of the engine control handle, firstly, set the flaps. the first position in order for us to be it is more convenient and easier to take off, then we carefully add engine speed. here i am doing it. the car moved uphill. it should be noted that now we are flying in ideal conditions in a professional language. it's called a lump of visibility, a million on a million. the weather is beautiful. there is no wind, no turbulence . we quite calmly enjoy the fact that we are with you in the air, like birds of 5 degrees. closures
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release 30 135 landing permit our sixth central wind near the earth 80 degrees 5 m/s, gusts, 12. let's say if it's raining, thunderstorms and wind. but
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not to be. and the locking pilot is obliged to follow this cross and this square is obliged to be exactly everything will be fine, so that this does not happen easily. but nevertheless. landing gear flaps spoilers ready for landing. a little more difficult, but still. it's
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possible, now let's try to land the plane. when visibility is poor, let's say fog , i practically won't see anything. difficult. it is necessary to study, my only guideline. this is a device that does not need to be held in front of me. this little black square is right in the center of christ, if i do this, everything will be fine. flaps flaps 30 sheremetyevo 135 ready for landing 0.6 central wind near the earth 80°, 5 m/s gusts, 12 and we will show, now one of
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the most difficult landings. one of the most difficult lanes is located in the mountains for landing at the bhutan airport i 'm talking about now. it is necessary to obtain a special license for people who have received such a license in the world, only about 20 people all. there.
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well, we have shown you some familiarization take-offs and landings. i hope that we will show you everything as soon as possible, but i can only talk about aviation about the work of design pilots. fighter tankers testers great cause people living in the sky we continue our conversation about aviation. today we will touch on the topic of surprising little, to whom we know we will talk about psychology. our guest is julia valentina slavinskaya. and valentina hello how do i introduce you? with whom am i talking to a medical
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psychologist today? uh, phd in psychology associate professor, you are related to aviation, for example, to people who are trying to enter aviation, people who entered some aviation educational institution or people who, for example, leave military aviation and go to civil aviation, you touch this category of people. yes that's right. here are all the three categories you listed - these are the aviation personnel who undergo an assessment of their health, including mental health in the vlog of doctors by an expert commission. the psychologist is being tested e. well, here, if very briefly laconically, the first part is the minimum part consists of two blocks. this is an assessment of the personality of the mental state of the individual, the type of response, the prevailing and so on. and
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of course nervous mental stability and the second block - this is already the highest mental function - cognitive functions, that is, roughly speaking, the professionally important qualities of the pvk will be a specialist doctor. well, nevertheless, do you have a non-kayphobia with me? some feeling. what do you decide, because fate is unconditional, well, as an honored pilot, and he has nothing but the sky, nothing else at all. and you now it is necessary to pass sentences to say or just write in person, hardly, but still write not fit for cell work. how is the psychologist in itself an export to me, that is, let's immediately clarify this point. i don't write in my conclusion, i'm good-good to do flight work. i write about whether and has or does not have contraindications. in my opinion, from the side of psychology and psychological characteristics to perform their professional duties. the psychologist works with the neurologist and psychiatrist and
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makes expert final decisions. neurologist. it's always this all over the country. there are certain criteria. this is a very long conversation, there is a whole manual written down. well, for years, when hmm, a number of features may indicate that his professional duties are a person, even with a high level of experience. can cope with what it may be due to atherosclerosis of the brain age-related changes in blood flow brain nutrition and quality of work it is clear that up to 40-45 the compensatory capabilities of the human brain are very high, as a rule, even some areas of the brain are working. let's just say not very much. e, effective qualitative compensation. however, over the years this quality may decrease. excuse me, you work with pilots, after all, civil aviation is unambiguous. this is civil aviation. these are the pilots of the dispatcher, earlier the flight attendants also passed us by testimonies. e had either relationships with people who, say
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, entered e, some educational institutions of the aviation profile. first, the student. always passes professional psychological selection. always without it it is impossible that someone enters a flight school and does not go through a psychologist. that doesn't happen. this is the first . the next stage, when he meets with a psychologist, is of course. flight practice before the start of real flights, that is, when the drainage theoretical training ends, flight practice begins, and then, naturally, when he was employed in the company, he came to the airline, and he sat down as a co-pilot, so on the right cup and at that second behind him. 100 200 300 passengers this is it a feeling of what it means in terms of psychological stress, what does it mean for a person in general, how obvious is it or is it different for everyone? first, everyone is very individual. secondly, you understand, i’ll say such a moment right away so that something
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is clear. it’s clear, but i don’t work in the examination as consulting. this is to a counseling psychologist of a person who shares his experiences, feelings, and so on to us. they come with one deepest installation to say that everything is fine with him. it is perfectly adapted wonderfully, socialized no nervous mental instability. even answering questions. here is the leader in the main questionnaire, for example, let's say the work is given to me at the cost of considerable effort. the majority answers in the negative, that is, there is no tension. kaif pleasure. super. here is my most favorite, such a component of life, and so on and so forth. although when you start talking, naturally they do not understand what is at stake. that is, as tension as mobilization. of course, takeoff and landing, well, it would be strange not to understand this. it happened before for example, about the immaturity of the psyche. if a person did not give himself a report on this. we had a case when a pilates girl was the second pilot. that's it, after retraining for a new type of aviation equipment, she refused at the level
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of psychological selection and the psychiatrist is not mine. that's exactly what you were talking about, that is, realizing that this is not a light aircraft. and that's all she's risking her own life with. well, the cost of the aircraft. yes, very cynical. here , realizing that this is hmm a huge board and a big the number of passengers for the life of which she is responsible will even be a co-pilot. she said that's what she came up with. she feels it’s not mine that she met with this, but only a few. here are just a few, i met more cases when a person tries to deny. this is the fear. there was a case of a second year flight school. i won't name specifics. here you also know yourself, when he had a literally panic attack on board, with all the classic vegetative manifestations, blanching , dizziness, nausea, fear. loss of consciousness rapid breathing hard to sit on piloted further by the instructors.
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naturally. he landed the plane and literally in the arms of this boy pulled out of the cockpit leaned against a tree and after all this, despite the fact that the instructor was completely a witness to this whole situation. i have this young man denied saying that the instructor all this seemed to the psychology of men and women. i'm asking this from the point of view of people, of course, who don't know anything about it at all. well, here's what the pilots, or rather the pilot's instructor, tell me. and what girls even, probably, somehow more maturely more consciously more qualitatively more somehow so scrupulously and responsibly approaches precisely theoretical training pilots more cautiously well it’s that traditional it may be closer to a male profession, but i just want to say that girls they enter this profession with such, you know, a steel rod, that is, this component is closer to the male type of response in almost all of them. and how widespread is the phobia of fear of
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flying. i mean in terms of professions, let's say flying and from the point of view of passengers. uh, this phobia is a very common fear of flying. well, we are all in terms of acceleration, rhythm and so on loads. but this disturbance of sleep and wakefulness is not healthier, therefore, and any phobia is the same disorder based on the nervous system, therefore people are prone to an anxious type of reaction to depressive reactions. here you can even bring down a little bit. no, well, the alarm is just to drown it out, how can you drown it out. this is working with a psychotherapist from working as a specialist. can to drown it out with medication, that is, to dull its manifestation. well, as if in everyday life, namely to get rid of anxiety. she is not subject. this is what you know besvoda just worries me. i'm just afraid of this feeling and
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rational fear of fear of some events, the possibility of some kind of offensive that might happen. something bad, something terrible. this is anxiety in its purest form. well, fear is always subjective. so i'm afraid of spiders. not me, i mean, i'm not afraid of them. this is what i mean in general. here is the fear public speaking. yes, that is, fear has an object. i know what i'm afraid of, but anxiety is not anxiety - she is more than that age, this is what i'm afraid of is understandable. e question. why am i afraid of this? but with this you need to work on specific fears. that is, for example, there is the same phobia of flight. yes, we're going out on m-m. here, again, this is with a psychotherapist working with a psychologist. and when you need to subject your fears to understand why? you are specifically afraid, then get your memories of associations. here uh, dig into your so let's say conscious and unconscious, by the way, speaking, also here to find the reason from where this fear was born and then you just
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survive to live understand? i think that, that is, it is known. i came up with the idea that a person is afraid of what he does not know, or this is one of this, probably one of the parties. in that sense, for example, let's say, again. uh, phobia is irrational and uncontrollable. this is a larger global feeling of specific fear, when a person knows what he is afraid of. yes, this is where the lack of information comes into play when we get to know our fear, we understand what are the risks? how much what are the possible consequences? how to avoid them? let's say the fear of the first flight can be formulated as follows, but this is not a phobia, this is fear. that is, it is a normal reasonable such an internal barometer. here is an understanding that some outcomes follow my actions. and i have to understand what i should do in what situation to avoid these risks. fear and phobia, you say that these are different things. what is the difference phobia is a disorder. this is a mental disorder. this disease is a disease that already belongs to
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psychiatry, not to psychology. phobia, it is irrational without a subject. that is, there is a general understanding of what i am afraid of there, the fear of a closed space, that is, a person is not in a closed space, but he knows that he is afraid to be there. and perhaps, let's say the most er, understandable, er, the criterion of phobia is avoidance behavior. that is, ah, if a person is afraid of something at the level of a phobia, he will avoid facing this situation. well, well, for example, claustrophobia. yes, i'm afraid to ride in an elevator. here i will walk to the tenth floor. even when there is no time at all, but i will not be in the elevator at all, that is, by any means. i understand this, i had several acquaintances who were so afraid of flying that they refused any even very profitable offers. yes, they agreed. only if he let, even much, longer, he will go by train. uh, sail on ships and so on, as long as you don’t fly in any case to get sick on the day of departure. it's so nauseating that
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all of a sudden it's really bad. suddenly i was poisoned by a wonderful occasion. but if we're talking about it started talking, then suppose you need to fly for work, well, accessories for life are simple, well, you need to fly and the more he flies probably this fear should be extinguished. but it is not extinguished, if the phobia is, if we speak bluntly, it is very terminology, then there will be such a manifestation of the runaway behavior that it is unlikely that he will rise even if necessary. and one more thing is clear that it is possible to work with psychotherapists, by the way, hypnosis, they say, works very well. they call there. uh, so let's say, well, programming for amnesia. it is this feeling of fear just before the flight that fixes and motivates you for the benefit that you get from this flight. well, the speed of moving is the solution to your questions to be there on vacation, in the place where this accident was going to. well, they say psychotherapists work. let's say they
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work in gestalt. well, it's completely different there. there is precisely a collision with one's fear of experiencing his understanding. here is his irrationality collision with him. well, as if face to face experiences, again, he retreats. these are the things of presentation. that is, i was convinced there for many years that this was right, but suppose you drink 100 g before a flight and pay yourself back here, you know. well, from the point of view, as a specialist, of course, i can’t advise this, because altitude is hypoxia stress. that is, you are already tense here, even the amount of alcohol you are used to, and well, as if understanding how you experience drinking this kind of alcohol there in such a volume there at a height can give out a slightly different unexpected reaction. not the fact that it will be a relaxation of getting pleasure back off. tell me from the point of view of a psychologist, is it easy to determine among the huge number of passengers among 100-150-200 people
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who are afraid to fly, who are not, because you will agree that the worst thing that can be is a panic on board, this can happen during turbulence. during some evolutions of the aircraft, unpredictable for the organism. he can suddenly give an explosive reaction and provoke others to it, you can determine who is afraid to fly, then not. it's easy in general. well, here, probably, only those external signs, like this the tension is holding on to the armrests, the contracted postures are such a look, she is directly glassing at one point. passengers often approach flight attendants. and for the time when i had some opportunity to orient myself, well, because that's what can rub? i also do this, some requests, they just flew by about it, they say they fit and say you know. i'm afraid, i'm afraid i'm going to have a panic attack. i have never had this. here i am, right here and here, i didn’t sleep well and i’m very worried, i’m worried, this happens and well it’s just that the flight attendant has this mind from the point of view of a psychiatrist or from the point of view of a person
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in people, even with hypnosis, or in any case , a trained person can at least be predicted from his point of view. how to extinguish this reaction, or maybe not give it away. let's, you know, let's break down the concepts - there is the concept of panic, and there is the concept of a panic attack, a panic attack is experienced subjectively and individually, so i felt that i was sweating paler. i'm dizzy. i 'm afraid i'll vomit there. i got squeezed breathing or breathing there, in general, the fear of this sudden death, and so on and so forth, does not infect a person with this. that's the person you need to approach the flight attendant. in general, as i understand it in different companies. this is done in different volumes, but as part of the training for the human factor, they are given such training, that is, from a warm cup of tea to a blanket, to, well , warm up, this is some kind of feeling of security to directly working specifically with panic attack. i can't tell you how much they own these
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things, but techniques, of course, exist for earthing, that is, to start talking with a person. feel your hands. feel your legs won't. now it's all in detail. yes, there to even out breathing. it doesn’t even matter how many directly clear breathing techniques make sense there, not even in this. the main thing is that he hears. what is he doing? as he breathes and began to breathe deeply, yes, the contact is to speak here to pronounce it all to return him so that he begins to feel his body. well, basically the techniques of physicality are now preparing flight attendants for this. that there is this makes airlines at the level of flight attendant training. they have theoretical and practical training on the human factor. them. medicine is given there, it is given there. this is anti-terrorist training, because now there are a lot of problems, as it were, well, also try to see, let's say, possible risks. well, i did not go deep into this topic. i know that i'm sorry for god's sake, interrupt, we will touch on this topic with people. who have a professional
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skill, uh, this is the security service, but i remembered from the word that a person is afraid what he doesn’t know and knocks on for the reason that in many airlines of the world there is a monitor in front of the standing chair, the fpv camera works, and during takeoff , during landing, during some kind of evolution, the brain. that's how a person is made. i see what's happening. i'm all set for it and i'm less so. well, to put it mildly, in quotation marks, my body was frightened to a lesser degree. suddenly suddenly finds himself in a strange unusual situation, because i already psychologically, i suddenly saw what was going to happen. if this coursework it was clear to the camera that evolution was about to take place. there, let's say 30° to the right or 15° to the left, if it would be a second suddenly to me. they would have shown it already in the
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picture, just the nose sank into the plane. and now i'm already ready for this, and already even people who are afraid to fly. i think they will worry about this to a lesser extent , i'm wrong. well, here for me as a diagnostic, of course there is. this is the moment that people with a predominance of different types of reactions perceive this kind of information differently. here and this one the question is about the volume of this information and how much it calms them down or vice versa raises a number of questions that follow some information about which they do not understand, so here hmm definitely, probably hard to say, here but for most, even psychotherapists advise before by flight to find out as much as possible, and the company has some reviews for passengers. secondly, take a lot on yourself. i mean, let's say some. well, they didn’t give something, now they are trying to give out some opportunities for watching a movie on board. here is our the brain is rarely focused. maybe in parallel
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on two tasks, so i became interested in the plot, the fear of myself doing something receded. for me, for example, flights. eh, i love to fly. here. well, if, perhaps, just sit and think hard. possible outcomes, probably, and i would probably be able to get scared, my laptop friend. i always take some work with me. here in that volume, and there is a chic word for work and a table and an armchair, comfortable, and i’m talking about this and it follows from this that the amount of other information, which is definitely distracting. yes yes even when panic attacks are taken out, the main moment there is to make contact with a person who heard you at the beginning to react to your words and began to give some kind of response. now this is already returning to uh distract yes distract from what frightens him, including getting him out of the state; the main thing is to get him out of the state. by the way, we raised questions about diluting a panic attack and panic. that's about a panic attack. we talked such a sudden, coming effective state anxiety. that's what a
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person usually fears in a panic attack. well, this is the fear of sudden death, and panic is already hmm a term from social psychology. it's like the reaction of the crowd this is one something. he shouted into space there, let's say, well, he had some doubts, something appeared to him there, it seemed to him that someone else picked it up by plane. well, there, in the middle of the plane, they didn’t really figure it out, but they also got excited and began to say something. children from these conversations, flight attendants began to cry. we ran around the cabin more actively, so that who is most excited there to come up somehow to calm down. and now it's all picked up, picked up by this reaction of the crowd. this is panic, not panic like that, but panic. well , honestly, i can say, no matter how much i flew, i really didn’t see this. it's some sort of social mechanism. tell me at all. uh, a lot of people are outraged, and rightly so, by the way, or many are still worried about the children on board. the behavior of children on board well, here you can say this, again, take responsibility for yourself, as
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psychotherapists say, that is, try yourself set yourself up for a flight and occupy yourself with some kind of business, in order, as it were, to abstract as much as possible from possible, so to speak , unpleasant moments, and from the point of view of the profession, it means that you probably need to somehow distract the children, you also need to imagine some toys are some entertainment items on board to somehow children. uh, busy with something. maybe, of course, the responsibility, by the way, speaking, the first pilot bears for the child on board. if, for example, let's say the parents are not with him, but there are parents responsible, well, in general there is such a thing. yes if, for example, one child is sent on a flight, well, such a need, parents can not fly with him, then up to, in my opinion , the age of majority or up to 16 years old here. unfortunately, i can't say for sure right now. here he flies under the responsibility of the first pilot, well, the first pilot of his duties. well, of course, flight attendants. naturally. well, as if not in personal contact, the responsibility of the ship's commander is always absolute and 100% on board
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until the toughest decisions are made, but probably a prayer that flies alone without parents. it was a responsibility, after all. this, of course, i think, but in general it is the responsibility of the parents. naturally, as if, well, parents should somehow be able to make contact with their own child. um, wait, i'm going to ask you a question that has nothing to do with you personally, of course it doesn't. but here we are passengers with you. yes, we both love to fly. we are food passengers on board. it's also distracting, the truth is definitely, so, uh, this food should be, well, the quality is understandable, but it should wipe so varied and in a way different from earthly nutrition, so that my interest in it is the one that distracts from my phobia from my fears of flying. well, somehow i switch, otherwise look, what's interesting, you looked on board, what an interesting thing. well,
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including, but in general, counting and logical organisms begin to do this work, that is, the method of processing. this is already a distraction, at least reducing the concentration on your fear. after all, what i'm talking about is gaining a mass it would seem trifles. which will distract from what we are talking, the packaging of even food itself is the mold of this food newspapers magazines in front, standing camera, uh, which broadcasts let's say evolution or let's say, in general. what are the flight parameters all together and will lead to , or should lead to, god forbid, it will not cause this panic on board, it will bring down the voltage initially and lead to the very setting that everyone should set initially. i'm not flying. i came to enjoy. after all, this is something that is deprived
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on earth and i just need to look out the window. i i see something that i will never see in alignment. so, on the one hand. yes, on the other hand. here's from my experience. here someone loves to fly, right now he loves to fly, and someone flies, well, by necessity without panic, without panic attacks, without any kind of diet. behavior on board or inappropriate but not enjoying here is an example of my three children. if there is time, the elder son, the first flight at the age of 9, gave such a panicky reaction the day before, his mother will definitely go. we will break, i'm afraid to fly. let's not go, i say, come on, say okay? take it away, you understand? let's make a deal then. we board the plane. we sit down in a chair. if you really feel like you can't. you and i are returning to the rapport building, everything, dad will fly to egypt as we planned to leave. well, i think, here and now he rises a set, of course, the whole ball, shrunk 9 years old he was we go into the salon. somehow it is located. that's all there is tension. well , i waited until there is very little time
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left to say. well, what are we going to go out? or else they say the engines will already start. we need to make a decision. here. well, i see, somehow he is the same. well, i don't think it will . here the proposal to leave was not followed by a flight back, already in pleasure, it was already born in the cabin. everything is there. that's what you could see everything, walked, tried the middle daughter under 18 years old. i put it, she is such a coward with us. here, until the age of 18, i flew only because it was very necessary, right here, tears came into the plane right in my eyes. out of fear, then she commented on what she said, i just calm down, suddenly he announced, what speed what is the height of the first pilot me again here is this return to reality, well, there was no panic attack. just here is a normal reasonable voltage. first experience situation. indeed, as if non-standard in general, uh, a feeling of anxiety and fear is normal, a guardian reaction of a person. this must be understood as normal fear in a normal way, as if the volume of the formed feeling of anxiety is a normal reaction. this is a protective reaction of the body. so i'm not protected. i'm on top, it's normal to be afraid of another step and
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you will break. something natural. so, any quality of it can be sort of, well, as we psychologists do it, but decomposed, well, at least on a three-point scale, the deficient amount of this quality is the norm and is already hypertrophied expressed. well, as always , good in the golden mean. that is, any quality must be formed and developed so that a person can use it, as if in the process of his adaptation of socialization, etc. underdeveloped. here 's a reasonable risk. this is where i live for the adrenaline. i'm here for vivid impressions. uh, fearlessly. this person is not for me. this is about not quite awareness about immaturity, it is possible about some kind of infantilism, mentally, and so on. here is the fearless man. eh, in general, this is the concept itself, but i don’t really like a brave person, that is, understanding the possible risks of taking responsibility, understanding what could be, what could be the outcome of certain consequences, this is one thing. well, it is clear that a hypertrophied level of anxiety is up to free, floating
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anxiety. that is, again, irrational which are not substantiated. it's just scary for the possibility that something bad might happen, that is, it's scary from nothing. specifically, it's scary, of course, such people. this is the biggest risk, and the thing that has ever been. perhaps you will agree with me, that is, it is obvious. i banned it at the legislative level. we need to stop writing about the terrible. the number of publications about where what happened in the air, where did someone crash with whom else, the rest is unimaginable, nothing like this has ever happened. if you start writing today. how many car accidents accidents happen on the roads of the country, then people will simply stop driving, because it will simply be scary. here i recently held for students of the faculty of extreme psychology. there was a master class and we gave statistics. just think about 2000 years 10 years, and such figures lead to eight thousand dead 300,300
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episodes. air accidents. here is a plane crash such a household concept, no matter how represented the level. here are the accidents. naturally, the growth of eight thousand dead means dead, and if we take 20 the first year, here, just 21 years with statistics under an accident of 133,000 accidents and 15,000 deaths, you can imagine, there are 10 years and 8,000, and here 1 year, but the author’s movement is somehow more here, well, you know, it is associated with the surface of the earth. why does the spanish attacks display? feel your legs first , feel your back. feel your hands grounding. this is the normal state of a person. he walks the earth. he is not a bird, he does not fly, he walks, therefore, someone needs this separation. this is the desire to tear off something traditional some kind of superiority technique there, there is aerodynamics dermatism, in the end, but someone doesn’t need it at all. here and here they
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are, well, either they dump all the fabic experiences, or they just do it with maximum tension within the framework, as it were, of the norm. yes, there, without manifestations of some such extreme e manifestations, well, you don’t get pleasure from it. naturally. i say again, this injection leads i agree one of the factors, in general, phobias arise, this is either a personally negative experience, or in the means mass media getting acquainted with some that's because when a person is described as a disaster, this, of course, is, well , somehow everything is prohibitive, tragic. well, in general , go deep, so yes, redundant information , it is here, of course. let's say it contributes to the development, thank you very much, the conversation is wonderful, i'm just warning you and our viewers that we, of course, will continue this conversation. we will delve into the psychology of the work of pilots. that is, those who sit in
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the cockpit. uh, flight attendant psychology and psychology. especially the passengers. uh, because which, as you correctly noted, is worse than panic on board. there is nothing. it is necessary to do everything possible to avoid it you huge. thank you. uh, let's meet, and i hope our conversation didn't bother you in some way. it was interesting for me to talk to you at a party. eh julia slavinskaya psychologist. all the best until next time.
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hello vasily, hello, natalia, hello. i want to introduce you to sergei martynov, this is the most famous psychologist and psychotherapist, who is just a great master unravel the most complex tangled. well, at first glance, unresolved tangles and charades and relationships between people. well, and our internal problems, but my name is natalya loseva. i am a journalist and i will be such a translator from human to psychological and vice versa in our conversation. hello, i'll be glad to help you. hello. yes, reveal what brought you there. well, it brought us. uh, the problem is with my mom. i'm a little son, as they call my wife, and the former and that's actually the current one, and everything is fine. yes yes
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stuck, here it is and a is such as it were. the problem is that i myself cannot find a common language with my mother, and a son who cannot find a common language with his mother. yes, and your wives reproach you for what it is that you are a sissy or that you cannot find a language, in general, i succeed. uh, maybe traumatized it all went from the first marriage. and, as it were, maybe some kind of hatred even for the mother. here planted the first wife. vasily was going to come himself, but i could not send him alone, because this is really our big problem with editors. yes, but she sat right on my knees, and so i also want to add and bring in such clarity, because after all, it’s on my part. i also think it is necessary to listen to how circumstances took the risk of allowing vasily alone to do what they
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risked. it's just that i would like to solve our problem, which really exists. how do you formulate this problem? we almost got divorced this summer, which is why i would call this problem not a problem with my mother, but a problem, and between us, because yes, a problem. eh, this all the people of the mother, there friends can all be bad, extreme, but the essence of it lies in the fact that we cannot among ourselves, but to improve relations and gave away those who interfere with us a little in this too. yes, fast borders, that is, the shadow of your mother, vasily, your mother-in-law. it is still present in the problem in which, as you see it. yes, i wouldn't have your problem. olig specifically. this is for my mother-in-law, i respect her, but i would like to observe these boundaries of each other. vasily said that you, too, sometimes you call him a sissy, in what situation do you see he was fired, in fact? yes , i agree, i would like to decide that i don’t have to, and i don’t feel like that, but that
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i want to call like that. give an example when you are in the hearts or maybe in a cold head, for example, there is, for example, when we swear, and vasily a turns to his mother for help, and also turns to my parents for help. tell vasily what kind of help from your mother or from natalia's parents do you need to sort things out with him a little, yes, they look. or maybe help? yes, which means that we live in mine, as if in our house yes, in which, uh, my mother and i , which we built with my mother, it turns out, well, a family family house, but due to circumstances it so happened that well, we are now forced to stay there, that we previously rented an apartment. here, ah, that is, and this is a house in this house. you live with your mother. no. no, we live separately for six months. we live with my mother, because this summer she seems to be
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coming, but she still comes. she i say. come for the weekend, but she comes there with you, of course, builds her own rules. and this is my mother-in-law's house, you understand? that is, you feel there, how terrible it is to visit. i say, i, too, have lived there all my life, and also in order for this to be my mother's house, of course, it is framed, but i have been there all my life, i also built it. i built it too. and i'm there, and even when i'm there, let's say it was alone and without a relationship, i lived there in the winter and well, in the summer he lives there, mom. yes, i work in the summer , i live and live in moscow, and somewhere why are we a sword something else, and even more so to rent someone else's, if he has, as if by inheritance, a hereditary apartment. why well now you have something else to understand? that i have nothing but what i have every day. this is what our space suffers from. yes, there is no our space. she does not feel like
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a hostess there, and so she says help, what if we quarrel? and let's say in the summer we had a big quarrel over there, well, household items, mugs, i left there for a couple of hours with the child and returned. she took the mugs herself. yes, i removed the mugs there, well, beer mugs. yes, although we do not use nothing simple, which i was going to all there is strange, yes, the world's greatest tragedy begins here with such trifles as a mug. well, as if we had a scandal due to the fact that natalya started, as it were, also raising tons on me. we are in these tones and with uh, strangers who were in the house, too, it all happened to my mother and she came from moscow called my mother after you started badly behaving yourself, namely, you raised the balcony door, broke the balcony door. yes, she is very impulsive. yes, you can do this to my feelings of inner damia. and so she broke the
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minimum to complain about no no, i already, when i was already leaving, because i couldn’t be around, because then natasha, as if something could fly to me and, uh, the main thing is that the child does not happen. yes, that is, well, let's say we go outside there, or i went out. i understand that i need to leave, and i call, of course, i say to my mother, come here, as if i were leaving natalya and i went, let's say fishing, she packed up and left, then again they, of course. mom came and did not find a common language with her. here is the last time. we last time i called my neighbor sergei, you understand, right? what does the magic look like in my women's eyes? yes, it means, and you quarreled, uh, brought to the waist to the broken door. i didn't bring her up. she herself was actually correctly given the power to smash the door. after that, you call your mom. say
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come, calm down, this one comes here with this one. what do you understand about fishing here? yes yes to give a psychologist, i really really want more about reality. yes, maybe a little more texture, and i'm very interested in how the door was broken than yes, i just beat everything, because we have all the doors to our room. she is already holding on like that, because there is an old balcony door that we have gathered. uh-huh, i slammed it and there, out of two glasses, one cracked you about this, i had to explain myself to my mother, vasily. well, she arrived. she started me. naturally. so with such pleasure. you know, a man known even with a crown love. she
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didn’t accept me from the very beginning, she didn’t accept me yet , right? please, as a daughter-in-law and so we have such a pleasure to interfere. you know, a wise woman would probably tell me this, you know that your son is 40 years old. is it your wife. this is your choice. understand yourself. i think so. it 's our mom and mom problems, because that 's exactly what she didn't accept, and she doesn't accept, no matter how my choice she starts. yes, she says, here she is, all the time, she begins to convince me herself. and i don't talk? then let's say without raising that this is your choice. you stepped on a rake there again. here, how would you suffer now, this is a rake, oh, and you gave birth to the wrong child and he himself got into trouble. yes, a child. yes, we have a syndrome. yes , we have a child, so we suffered another shock. we have a lot of workload, of course, yes. it seems to me that we cannot give this factor after all, well, what we must take into account all the stresses before this stressful
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situation with my mother and my daughter also figured when we reunited with my daughter, so we collected from another region. moscow took. that is, we also had there. problems, that is, the stress was constantly not only focused, however. yes, because 3 years. and this time of stress has already been three years for sergey, this is the time when people in people are already a little reduced. let's put it this way, the first such spontaneous investment from the fact that the novelty e, greatly excites people, yes, and e , it is manifested how much they have learned to create relationships with each other, friendship, take an interest in each other, we try, but it turns out very hard. i'm sorry, but this is already accumulating fatigue from those character traits that seem unacceptable left. i mean it adds
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more stress. because of which, more precisely, of which vasily and i cannot be in the first place. he, like a man, cannot, and just take our family and pull it out, because, well, it cannot go on for so long. no, not guilty. i'm just telling you. i say that i have no inspiration. maybe it 's because it doesn't just need space. this is even the house in which we we can build there. something i do because i do everything around the house. i'm repairing something there, well, there i cling to everything, i like to do it myself too. and it annoys you too, by the way. what happens, it turns out that you are connected by close and best feelings to each other for 3 years together, a fairly common problem in families. uh, in moscow, the choice of
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where to live, how to live with whom to live in moscow or in the moscow region, especially when there is a choice, this creates many difficulties, when people have no choice, then they are somehow in that situation, which they have. they decide as far as they can. yes, and try e somehow not to quarrel, and somehow keep the peace among themselves. yes, and when there is a choice. here you can have a one-room apartment here in paradise, there you can, and without raev, but in a big house, and this creates options in which people already have. it becomes not so important, what others feel. and it is important, what are my interests, yes, vasily, the interest is to fulfill the instructions of my mother to maintain the house in proper condition. it's not
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only her assignment to me, like, uh, well, i myself want to do a lot, because and i spent there, well, a normal most of my life. yes, from the very beginning. it was a family nest lived. i am with my grandmother and mother. well , there for some time there was a stepfather for 3 years, but, as it were, everything that i can do. i learned everything there. well, i like it too. i'm going down to the basement, that when i'm going down the basement you say stop messing around there, that is on so it's me i feel what i feel. by the way, as a psychologist, i feel some kind of irritation, but i don’t feel guilty, getting high peace of mind when i'm doing, let's say, something with a car or there, well, some bullshit with a boiler, it doesn't matter what do you do with your hands? yes, men will understand me. i do it myself there in my garage, and she does not understand this. well, why are you there for so long? this is to cause a feeling of guilt and i feel, and i have this feeling of guilt since the first, so i will explain to you
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now from the first marriage, because the first marriage caused me a colossal drama. well, it all comes from there, because the first wife forbade going to her mother, she called names to her mother and directly clearly spoke, if you cursed, she said that we all died. she said, if you go to the country, i will destroy you right away. that is, when i came, uh, there once a month to help mother's grass. well, how to help sergei's mother feel guilty again, it seems to me that he already has enough information. i think i understand that you believe that you have some kind of inferiority complex imposed on you by your first wife. well, most likely, yes, because before that i remember myself that no matter how there were no problems. hmm, tell me. and here, when vasily goes down to the basement do you have some kind of feeling of anxiety? no, i'm just saying you. again at the post office, that is, you need constantly his attention, that paul let's say
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every day . here is the big difference. here's to this ideal lifestyle. yes, yes, please tell us about your lifestyle. well, firstly, i would like to take care of my health, which we already have with vasily's back, and so on, a small child of nerva, i think it makes itself felt and so further. we don't get to work. just basic health. you take care of your health, from about morning to evening. no why at all about the ideal in an ideal world. yes, at least it doesn’t matter at all not that the basement itself irritates me. yes, it just already follows from the fact that the house constantly requires pumping water to pump out the septic tank. now the electricity doesn't work at all. we just saw wires in both of us
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like this everywhere, well, no matter how small we almost got lost, of course, but nearby, because he constantly climbed into the basement, came out and brought something. has taken out difficult living conditions closed, requiring requiring certain. labor here is your spouse. and every day, in the end, it is not against doing this work, which leads to some kind of harmonization. yes, we can repair this situation for a nursery for 2 years. there, you do the exercises there , just like that, everything in such a room stands, tools and everything in the world. i ca n’t understand, i can’t go and do this repair myself, vasily doesn’t want to hire, because he wants to do everything with his own hands, not an electrician and it turned out terribly painted, which i myself repaint. and we wouldn't
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have done anything on our own. really very badly done. although already through the application they called everything by cellular, everything is fine. there, it was simply necessary to paint the walls of the lining, which is already intended for other purposes for the nose. they are for painting. what emotion do you call this situation? i 'm in a desperate situation. just understand, i now understand what i have to endure. yes, i experience this feeling every day, and i have almost come to terms with the fact that i choose to stay in the family with this person, yes to save the family and endure, let's say, to be in this house endure to wait for everything to work out, but the most important thing is still aggravating. this is the expectation that spring is coming soon. he will come, mom, that's all. you understand me, so that we still leave, come in, we were driving. i mean, we are planning. well, it's still hard to plan. we have no idea how your life should be organized. well
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, well, ideally, as i'll take it next weekend, however, let's assume that this is the most common weekend all weekend. i am working. well, i work what they do. well i work where they pay there. i work for me, as if i made money. i feel confident happy when, as it were, they fell, there on the map or in my pocket. yes, i have money. i can afford to buy something for my wife and freely. yes, and uh, it’s nice to go home and it’s understandable, and i came and did such, for example, some household chores, my floor at home, that is. work, then you will work or will work on weekends, it doesn't matter. these are the ones that work a lot. it was like that in the summer. i, well, kind of work all the time. we have in the summer this is the main also income. eh, always has been. it seems to me that the guys are worried, not what they are saying
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now. so far i can't get to the bottom of it. i felt great sympathy for these people. simply, because you are great workers, we have been working for a long time. this is what is generally justified redeems a lot. i will say that i forced myself to take a break to go to sochi for a month. you're bothering you, something's deep inside and you're not getting to the bottom of it. so your mother-in-law appears, which means, something else , uh, some kind of range sergey that their worries? yes, he doesn’t care honestly, if he doesn’t trigger, absolutely, maybe sergey will see guys, let me, i see what you see already, of course, of course. missing your first wife is my point. i mean, olga i don't absolutely feel good that you don't have enough love from your spouse. you expected more. you
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expected that you would be at the center of his life, but i expected, let's say, quite different gifts, understand, i don’t even ask him for anything. yes, he is a gift to me. i would endure so much. that's all, because i have really. i may look so good. maybe i don't seem so tired, in fact, i have a lot of pain inside. i can cry now, but i don't want to be very beautiful. yes, understand, this is my real pain. i'm not spoiled. it just might look like i'm such a spoiled bitch. pardon the expression. yes? no guys. i'm ready to drive with this man in a six. well, really, with this i want peace of mind, you understand? i want us to have a family, our life is small, let it be
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rented apartment. i want comfort cleanliness and peace. i'm tired of this cleaning. we have a small child of hers, and so there is always enough cleaning of this life, but you see, maybe for me, it’s understandable. i love aesthetics. i love beauty. i want comfort i have a libido. excuse me, it disappeared completely already, because i don’t feel myself. i cannot realize myself as a woman. i need beauty. i am a makeup artist to inspire a man. yes, as for e, the balance of energy a woman must herself be inspired, otherwise, where will i take this energy? from what from the dirty floor we think of a video i mount, what is it also from work and mount your video shoot a video three sergey why is vasily not audible? i want. i can even rent an apartment myself. i offered him. i will pay for the apartment. i will withdraw money from her myself, no question. you do not know, yes, we do not hear each other's money is not an issue. i
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will earn this money myself, and he says that i am not a man. you want to be a man again. you yourself yes, it's not about that. i just want to step forward every day , you know, and they stand still, skidding is not some kind of bullshit doing really bullshit in the basements. well, what vasily does is not moving up on weekends, rummaging around in the garage in the car in the basement, at least on the ceiling, go there, whatever you want to do get inspired. i say go with the guys where you want to relax, he doesn't want that. he wants to be with me all the time. i do n't force him. he himself wants to find me and and he wants to be with you. so i wish we are. i say please. you need to go to the dacha for the weekend by phone sometimes, when we call up, and natasha is there, for example, alone at home, it was in the apartment. the
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same. you can quarrel with you, even on the phone with my daughter. it was very difficult. we quarreled about the fact that we were together in the same space, the topic of parents. if so, then natasha's parents supported her, as if they weren't listening to her daughter, and now they are already 17, no matter how i tried to convey, how to raise you a little child with a syndrome. down, which also requires special attention of passion. me too restless, maybe all the time corny exhausted. i think she's just exhausted now depressive. i'm not the right word. you can't even imagine what i already have. what door is there? i'm ready to blow everything, to be honest, i'm ready to blow everything. well, really, this is my desire, because i don’t know how they heard me already. well, just heard back. that's what let's
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talk about what you're together for. yes , some strange, maybe you won’t believe it, but it happens so much with us. everything is fine. we often have moments like this. when everything is fine with us, but at the same time, as you know, it goes up sharply down, that is, the amplitude. not like this, yes, he's like this, not too good, bad. i get crazy sometimes so emotionally reactive it's hard to be happy emotional plus besides, uh-huh . i do not miss, god forbid, if it is our emotionality directed against someone. yes, we are, as it were, a person simply destroys. let's start with what, generally speaking, is good, emotional self-regulation. it will not hurt each of you and this should be learned, because you have difficulties in hearing each other and in order to realize one of the most important callings of your life, which is to give love to
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a loved one, it is clear that you love each other, but this one edge. as a matter of fact, probably, the main thing is to make the other person happy, of course, hers. as a matter of fact, you somehow do not have enough. each of us sees his own interests, each insists on his own. it's about making someone else happy a person has difficulties. tell me, sacrificing my comfort, i do for this person that i endure what gives me terrible discomfort, in order to be with this person, it seems that vasily is also taking a step. and here's the next step none of you do. you understand what's the point. and what could be the next step is that you work through the problems that arise between you, that is, look, in fact, life in the country is not some kind of completely apocalyptic
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scenario and life in the city is not something absolutely impossible. life with your mother there is something annoying my mother as parents it turns out your mother gets along fine when you don't interfere. here, and my mother turns me on just like this, that is, the neighbors can explode, because i can yell and that's it. we can't seem to get along with her , because she's very tough. she she still talks like that all the time baby. that is, if i'm somewhere there, and talk in elevated to a man and me, uh, stand behind the fence, somewhere she will come up, quietly, quiet, quiet, and he says, come on, let's get it out of here. that is, she humiliates me, she does not understand, and i'm talking about it, yes. and here is the same thing, probably, we have some kind of transfer, or something, completely, but here it’s the same as in this transfer with mom. there are also ambivalent tendencies. let's see how it
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goes with mom. that is, you are in such a strained relationship with her. yes, you often, but hmm you tell her complaints, but at the same time you call your mother to come, when your beloved, wife is just as an example, why is this once? that's why i called? did you call your neighbor? yes, because you needed to calm down. natasha came neighbor. he told me something there, i say there, you know that the neighbor where he was there, go to your wife there, tell, you know, what is the neighbor to my husband. you know, sometimes you have to beat them so that they are here, i do not agree. i don’t know that now i have only one piece of advice for you guys now. you need to realize that you are already grown up as an adult, and not your mother, yes, who are adults and yours are not there either, natasha your
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men are interfering. mine just never interfere. no, well, you always say, well, mom will help there, here are my parents, money, money and so on, you understand? maybe somehow you told me that it's okay, it's your parents who will support you because now there is no money. i just got told. well , as if natasha says that i am sitting there without money. i know that a she always has money. i know that both from me and from dad, who translates and the same thing happens there. that's what my daughter and i are, and again , parents, we were already like parents, yes, a natasha's daughter she's like a teenager, here again grandfather indulges the problem with parents. i say, no need to spoil, because she buys cigarettes, there are energy. these, like, planted their stomach. i say no, let her, if she wants, i give her a job, but no kids. hello grandpa. translate that's why it's from there and you get the same. he
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spoiled you in the same way, as if constantly. you probably feel a man, it turns out that vasily's wife is spoiled. you are absolutely not spared. i am independent. since childhood, me it seems that i gave birth to a daughter at the age of 19 and katerina, we are a wonderfully beloved daughter and went to work at the age of 20 and were already dressing for ourselves. so let's not, let's go back to sergey, use the precious minutes that yes, which can help you. let's see what is the way out of that is the situation in which you have entered. in fact, here you need to re- evaluate the values ​​\u200b\u200bthat unite you. this is, first of all, your idea of ​​a happy family that you create. yes, these are the ideas you and i need. correct in such a way that you find their articulation, in which you can
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realize the common project of a happy family. as long as they make you different, i absolutely agree. and i understand that katya was from your family, never found. here is their place in this happiness and they intersect very rarely, and so on. this is an example of how they could not solve these difficulties that arose between you and in order for this project to take place now for your son, but for natalya and for you vasily, you need to work on it, so that you have a single idea of ​​what you can give up for the sake of the happiness of another loved one? and what can't you give up? because this is the most important thing for you, i have already entered. i think i live where i am absolutely uncomfortable. you can ask, if you lived in the city, but would come, for example, at the same time in the country, your relationship was there, would it be different to go with her, of ​​course, like visiting your mother. yes, and
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it turns out, i'm here, i'm not going anywhere. we don't have conflicts there because we don't we can deal with it causes a feeling of guilt all the time and so on. they they quarrel among themselves, and i tolerate it, firstly, these extra nerves are useless to me. every time i get nervous, vasily can talk very sharply with his mother, very sharply, to which i scold him, he also says, this is sergey’s mother, i have a feeling that vasily is in a constant inner state. i wanted to say the dialogue is actually in a showdown with my mother with natalia and so on down the list. maybe the problem is that vasily does not have some kind of peace of acceptance of some kind of balance, you understand, i see it in such a way at the everyday level. i see it so basil what is the problem? yours and everything in the world you understand everything with this world. yes
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, everyone is blamed. yes, indeed, this happens with people who tend to such projective identifications. that is, when we look outside for the cause of our difficulties, it is very difficult to take responsibility and it is not clear. why take it? because there are always uh, external circumstances that are to blame and the difference is that the person is really, who takes responsibility. it grows under pressure. when we are looking for who is to blame outside, then, unfortunately, we do not grow, the scale of personality does not grow, the scale of our deeds does not grow. and in the end we have to keep looking. and who is to blame for the fact that we have difficulties in such a strategy. difficulties are overcome only through what a person
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says, stop. yes, today i solve those problems that i have, and i decide that this is my golden responsibility. so let's start simple, yes, you have a beautiful wife, whom you love and i hear that she is ready to live with you in the country. she lives, doesn't she? and yet she is ready. to harmonize the situation that exists. it seems to me that if you take responsibility for this situation, you will not avoid relations with her, but spend, say, there are weekends for the upcoming holidays, organizing some wires, some things in the children's room in this way, it seems that you have all the resources for this and it is also amazing that you are a very gifted and creative person and
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physically, yes, and mentally, and you can create all the conditions for natalya to be generally happy, you will continue to live there or go to the city. and it will be just for you some kind of opportunity. come, sometimes for the weekend. uh, together or by level. this is already the second question, but it seems to me that some efforts that you will make together. eh, hmm will definitely come back to you. in the form of admiration and gratitude to your wife if not so, and there will be inspiration. over the edge i paid attention. with what warmth and pride genuinely says, natalya told us that vasily knows how to do everything with his own hands. i admire, though you still have to know the micron effort. it's just that what she loves you wants, listen, you'll find it. yes do, that's what she likes. make you this room in the country. so she came in and was just
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stunned, you know, she will cry, i assure you, she is like an emotional girl. she will cry from this delight from overflowing love from gratitude to you, you understand, she is ready, well , that's all. see what else is happening, natalia it's not the same with you either. it’s just that i didn’t doubt vasily a, generally speaking, works in your uh hmm videographers as a driver, which costs a lot of money, generally speaking, while you consume all these resources and instead of giving him admiration and gratitude, you constantly find some other reasons for not giving yourself entirely to him, but all the time, as it were, holding back your love for some hour, you know when he will finally do everything for you, return you to a beautiful apartment in moscow and you will
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happy here. i also try to give myself completely, even through i don’t want to. and i have no meaning in all, but i have meaning in all, because you know very well, you mean, i don’t want to through it. just feeds. she 's got something low right now. i understand perfectly what the psychologist is talking about. i'm not that stupid. how can be it seems at first glance. and if you do not change, then each of you will not change your part of the situation or or will not change radically. you are ready to leave. well , i already thought about it, but i'm honestly not ready. morally, i am so exhausted for this; materially, i am ready for this financially, i am not afraid of anything. then i achieve everything in my life so well and i am not afraid of this already in august. basically, we parted ways. yes, i already
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wanted to file for divorce already, if the lawyer, well, the lawyer, as it were, she says, i got sick. i wanted to end the relationship and naturally and hold me and the baby because , well, we both love the baby so much and you're getting started. by the way, sometimes manipulate a child. you say you won't see him in the west with a child. i raised my daughter alone or they left me a child then to me, i think to you now, you see, it seems to me that lazy lawyers saved more than seven than brilliant psychologists. that's for sure. so what are their chances? honestly, i think it's inevitable. it's just that you just inevitably have to become happy people, after all. well, as it were, well, every time it threatens not with a divorce, that i am also disappointed with nothing. every time
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the door when it starts, thank you for being what what he is right. the truth is not, gratitude to the family, if all the reins of government were with you. and physically move solve everything. this is not a question for me. as much as i could planned, i suggested, come on and we will settle in an apartment, and you will go to your dacha. how do you like it, perhaps at the moment, right today, money, but this is not a reason, this is not a reason. here, uh, at the moment it's to earn, you probably see, well , guys, we won't decide everything again. let's listen to sergey well, at least uh, in which direction do you row what you need to row, i am absolutely convinced, because i still see that you love each other, and you
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, in your own way, worry about each other somewhere, maybe. could have been more mature. or maybe it could have been a little more rational. i see that you have become very. you are really an exhausted person and exhausted by the conflict with each other, because all your other difficulties are together. you have overcome were easy and confident. and look at what the task is to see with you. why did you let these problems go? between you squeeze already wife. you reported solve all the problems since mom slipped i don't think they said okay? yes? they said if we unite against someone. you they themselves said it. so come on, unite against all these external problems against lack of money, lack of housing , the need to, uh, strengthen and improve the rehabilitation of your baby, but unite. listen to sergei, he says, exhausted conflicts with each other. it drains you. yes, everything else you can easily overcome. you are
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both people with a very strong temperament, it shows. well, strong. but to be honest, now this force is directed. suddenly this is a friend, just the same i tell him, we are all, uh, your problem in your marriage is that you and hmm vasily are not took full responsibility for everything that happens, and natalya, seeing that you do not take responsibility, began to claim the role of the head of the family. you are now fighting for this leadership, because you do not want to be henpecked, and natalya does not trust you, as they say, simply. nyashechki no each other stop fighting with each other. shoot from outside. yes, they agree with each other. for any conflicts with each other,
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your mother will be a completely external story for you as soon as you stop her between you, she just loves all the time, like a child we listen to a story and a wonderful story about how, well, an adult son says, mom, why are you covering me with a blanket all night? how can son, so that you feel warm mom? well, you're exposing my wife. so let's get on that note, shall we? it seems to me that you and i are still about the direction, no problem. we get out we signified that you can get out. for example, i am convinced of this, of course. in fact , it seems to me that here is your strength, uh, that you spend on making each other prove that you are the head of the family, and even a tenth of these forces is enough
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to make the family happy just direct the solution of the problems that arise in the other direction, well, i will decide yes, well we will root for you. yes, we are happy to help you. thank you nikolaevich let's explain to those people who turned us on and will now hear about alexander ovechkin about the fact that he is going for a big record, what does this mean for sports? well, this is bad. this is the epoch, this is probably the peak that, probably, the most difficult uh in the world of hockey, because those numbers are those uh on achievement, which the warriors
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restored. eh, it's pretty long. uh is, let’s say, ahead, so, and in order to come to and how to say get ahead of it, it requires, of course, colossal work , colossal, probably, attitude towards work to the profession towards oneself and, of course, uh, amazing health, therefore, in this plan for ours, let's say a sport for ours for our game. this is very pleasant that alexander is moving. eh, to that series. eh, who peak, which before him is not far off? and so i'm very glad that, uh, for many years and many seasons, he continues to churn out goals. uh, whatever they are, but these are goals that are probably the greatest sniper in the
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history of hockey, so, so it will be nice if he achieves this. moscow dynamo and became the size of north america. so i'm very proud that i know him and i'm glad i was happy for him somehow to congratulate, when he broke the record. hall for now. well, you know, i usually congratulate you when already starting from the second one. in our understanding , this is not the first, so you always understand that yes, this is a high high achievement to become the second, but i have no doubt that you want to be the first, so i'll wait. uh, until the moment when it will be when you played this top, these goals are walnuts. eh, what was that? was it some kind of landmark, or was it such a goal enough, ghostly she is in the books of records, and in general, she lives there and already
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covered quietly the second, when we played this was not the case, let's say. uh, first of all, uh, originally you, uh, playing in north america didn't pay much attention to what was going on. uh, around you it did things that you had to do here and now, that is, to adapt to the system to play the tongue and so on, so all the statistics that it has been keeping for many years in north america started it here, therefore e for us then in e, in principle , did not play a special role, because we are first, we have been there for 30 years. so you understand that we played against buckwheat. er, and win more often than lose, so in that regard, we didn't have that, let's say aspirations. get ahead of someone, because first of all, all the years that you spent. uh, soyuz uh cska team there is a chemist and so on. here are those records. eh, well,
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you can’t even return those years, you know, so for us then it’s clear, so that you understand how much. as far as the player we are talking about now about vngsk, how talented he was. so you understand how talented team, with whom he played in those combinations. uh, if you look at him, let's say, the story, uh, walnuts, with whom he played, but what were the partners, do you understand, uh, what? with his playing with his coming with his mean unpredictability , improvisation with creativity with his mean partners, with whom he played, and it was all real. here, well, and at the same time, of course, i understand that an extraordinary player. and here is the player who, uh, gave uh the opportunity for people to enjoy, uh, the game process with those of his masterpieces that he did from the game to game, so uh, today we are talking about the fact that sasha ovechkin is practically not far away.
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yeah, let's say historical achievement. here are five of these to say that this is our guy, as if, if now we used the imagination, how would you look advisers. there now how dramatically the game has changed for all time. well the game has changed in fact, because over the years e 2004 . the red line has been removed, the game has become faster, much more dynamic, and the league has taken big steps forward in terms of making the game became cleaner. below the dirt, there are still crayfish. yes, but there are not so many of them, but today, uh, probably, uh, the whole emphasis is on still being higher productive because because people are interested in when goals are scored, when there is attack after attack, when uh -e masters, who, let's say, young players coming to the league could realize themselves, could show themselves to give a performance that, uh, uh, will make this game more and more popular, because the
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children's parents come to the match. e watch means hockey. that's the way the game is sold to a large audience, so today hockey was very different before. here. and if we start comparing again, it will take a long time and you will understand that it was much tougher and more difficult, but in terms of a vivin game. e to uh, let's say the arrival of young players who today play evonchal. so, in this regard, here today, of course, it’s easier to realize yourself, because you understand that the e screen has become more dynamic, let’s say, it is aimed at scoring goals, that’s natural. do you see how today, for example, a management, let's say, this or that team, a is trying to build, let's say a team around. oh superstars. we are talking about ovechkin kuznetsov backstrom carlson votshi, that is,
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people who are on their own. ah, great players. and uh, very strong masters. we're taking today a new generation of mcdaevin to drizel. they're hopkin bound colossus lange. the brand in colorado is these people who are uh the face of the league today here, so in that regard, of course, uh dramatic changes in the game here the game has become faster uh, the guys have become more let's say fast. uh more let's say technical. uh, because uh, youtube is available today showing different tricks. the boys are training and playing. here are a couple of things that used to talk about lacrosse goals. hey, don't you know what that is? yes, today practically scores these goals at any funeral, too, the greek, we, uh, called our podcast. uh, hockey hockey is not football, there are a
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lot of parallels in these games. well, that's why hockey is not football, how would they answer this question. well, first of all, it's a game sport. here he is, these two sports give opportunity for people. uh, some script that's impossible. predict uh, this is probably exactly uh. let's say the connection between the two games that enables people to return, er, to the stadiums. uh, it means to give an evening game or wait for a night game there of the world cup or hockey or the olympics or either your favorite teams in the khl or in the nhl so uh, these two games attract people because they carry, let's say, such a small one. uh, let's say a piece of uh, that secret that or the unpredictability that may be today , therefore, let's say going out to e for the match e we are now talking about football, for example, although on the masts. uh, let's say messi who knows
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what he has, uh, today is the last chance to win the world championship there. he knows that he has everything in this career, everything that he could, therefore, achieve. here and uh, you understand, uh, how uh the range of its action. uh, just play you them, as far as he can, in that situation, leaving all the analysts. and that means, and e of all the assessments that journalists can give, specialists and so on. here he does things that are difficult to predict. these are the things that attract the game. do you think your generation found even a professional relationship football in the summer in hockey, in the winter my generation found us playing in the yard now it seems that this is no longer the case. it's good or bad. well, let me tell you, a lot of things have changed. eh, they've changed. eh, for a simple reason. ah, technology. here today e in the hands of gadgets and so on, that is, the school. many people have
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stopped communicating communicate through sms through message and so on. here. e, if before, let's say, we had a school. there were lessons, there was a playground, there was cottage cheese, somewhere you could play your favorite game without coaches, that is, it is precisely many things that do so, try and i know that they will scold you, that is, there was no criticism from the coach there , then today it’s practically, and to a greater extent this is excluded, because we have uh, well, it has become less, so it’s this one, let’s say yard uh, football or hockey, where the boys can just drag skill, that is, to become outstanding players. that's why, uh, well, it's probably due to the fact that life itself has changed. that and then, well, many things that we say today. uh, let's say, now they were talking about ovechkin ovechkin uh, now uh, almost every day on the page for publication.
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here parents see in their price ovechkin there are other videos of messi and so on. uh and do not understand that uh is a unit. so let's start getting into these boots of messi or ovechkin, this is a disgustingly crazy way. here you want everything at once. yes, yes, i want him and immediately today. yes, so this is very important. uh, i guess i don't know, here , probably, first of all it depends on the tradition. as they see it, let's say the development of their child, the upbringing of the child so that he , uh, gradually and all stress and all pressure. uh, enjoying the game he plays. and at the same time, give him support for the child, so that out of three years it’s not out of three to put on skates. wait whatever he wants, yes, yes, well, unfortunately, today we got on skates at 6 years. it's already late. well, i don't, i don't understand why, yes, but somehow, in this way, we have created such a trend that the sooner the
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better. ugh no questions. can you stand like this? yes, you should not, at the age of 5, call this job now. here is your biography to an amazing page in the moscow football championship. it 's like that, in general, the moscow region, how is this even possible, well, firstly, we played. uh, we had a short season, we were finishing. uh, finished at the end of march. just after spring break, they immediately switched to football, that's why all the hockey teams all i resurrection in the chemist we played football on resell. and so it went, that means, uh, until the end of august, the beginning of september, that is, in this respect, you move, let's say, uh, with one playground, if ledovoy is on a football field. but the concept and principle of the game remains the same, this is what it is, that this is a collective player team game. here, naturally, you get, uh, colossal,
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so, uh, experience of exactly what you can use your skills to the best of your ability. yes , let's assume our gaming intelligence. plus more job. kicking with a sword, and this is kicking , uh, a puck, when you get an uncomfortable groove on the court. you know how to take it here, that is, these things that intersect with each other and you use them in that particular game. uh, found a calling somewhere, that is, in hockey. your son says that you combine, uh, both the style of lightning and the style of the bug. and there is something from pep. which of the football coaches is closer to you. uh, it's very difficult to draw a parallel here now. it is clear that yes, i like it , so ip here, uh, and uh, and the bug. but, probably, and my probably, hockey and football education began with johan cruyff. here it is
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. so, probably, many things turned upside down in me in terms of how much the game is not only dynamic, how much the game can develop, it is very interesting in terms of when everyone, uh, the whole team, all, say, 10 people, plus the goalkeeper, are involved in the process. here, probably from there went exactly the direction that my let's do the guys who play with me to do better, that is. uh, let's say to be a playmaker, to do things on the court, let's say. so they enjoyed not only hunger, but also transfers from those actions that you create here, therefore, in today's football, for example, for me. eh, i read a lot. e, anti, beginning, er, bedbug. ep conte e tottenham who mancini who
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won europe two guys i mean these things i'm wondering in terms of what something take this. uh, exactly uh, what i don’t know, maybe or or maybe, i do some things, but i do it spontaneously, that is, in this way i try to take, the experience that uh, these guys also went through. i forgot to mention him. here, uh, ferguson understands. yes, this is a slightly different generation. yes, it is, thus. uh, using the experience of these guys, these coaches in their work. here. now you had an absolutely paradoxical story for our sport, because the football coach vitalik oleshan came to you for an internship. here are your impressions of such, firstly, such a move, and secondly, you learned something new for yourself, from his visit. well, here, first of all, uh! what was the goal, so they told me that a
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football coach was coming. i say with pleasure we will open all the doors, which means a collection of training videos, conversations of the halls and so on. this was done, because, let's say, they did it for me in england. uh, when you yourself passed, when i came to chelsea, damn it, liverpool and online in the south hampton unit, then eat this way. uh, because you understand that if a person wants to learn, you have to let them learn. there are no secrets here, in general the game is today. uh, well, let's say. hmm, it's open, 'cause i don't understand those people who close the doors, they let the boys in there to watch practice. there 's someone else there. for me, it's not clear. because the game should be a game for the viewer, the game should mean be accessible to boys who want to study here, so returning means to zhenya, coaches of the football team. well, uh, she had a lot of questions. there are a lot of questions that he was asking at the same
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time, uh, we introduced, let's say, such, well, long conversations, because before training after training. he came to our coaching. so , uh, if a guy wants to take something for himself on his team, then i only please this one with some things that are acceptable, and and he has some ideas of his own. we are ready to listen to them. let's say we use e in our team. that is, this is an exchange of experience that we need today, because today we turned out to be more complicated than a difficult situation. let's say. yes, you can live the hardest crazy world that today uh we understand, uh, what's happening on the political state here, so uh stand on four. and nod that everything is bad and that's it, and we were left in isolation. yes, but this is a way to nowhere, so you need to develop right away, you need to in fact. we are isolated. and as you can see, the development is in isolation, because we understand the penetration of hockey into cultures, how it happens among themselves when we were matches there in the seventy-second year, as far as
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it had an impact on the whole game in general, plus big games. it doesn't matter there. at this level or at another, but in any case, international tournaments. they move hockey. how it develops in isolation, i absolutely agree in terms of the fact that without tournaments without uh games, uh against the best teams, of course, it is very difficult, but you are somewhere on the world stage to understand. this is definitely. yes, but on the other hand, we don’t have, let’s say, a landmark, for example, i’m talking now e from torpedo tam they are a torpedo we have our own path that we see, we have boys who are doing today, uh, quickly transitioning from the age of the boys , the age means the masters, so uh, in this regard, relying on my experience, which i acquired in the union, as player and beyond as a player. eh, everything is equal. you start putting them together. here and and to give what you have acquired back in europe, let's say. e football.
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that is, these things that today, despite the fact that we do not play today, are not the world championship e, not the olympiad, but not the jurassic world championship. they are youthful. here is but nevertheless increasingly would still purely continues. and you have to give back. uh, hockey itself is what you bought in order for these guys they to feel, which means uh the changes that are happening today in life, because well, set low standards. no, it doesn't make sense, so you always go to, uh, where you want to be, that is, you want to be there, uh, that's what the top is called, as we started talking in lamb, but also in walnut. yes, the second one is good. yes, he usually remembers the first ones, therefore, in this regard, we, e, are going in such a way that the guys develop, so that they have an interest, and so that we push them up, but they do not consider what is, well, yes, here.
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eh, now let's wait two or three years, when we again. uh, let's say they let us play an international match or we don't have time. yes, that's why it's the job that you, er, that you enjoy giving to the boys. e opportunities to develop grow. here and here. eh, naturally. uh, the gap has to be, let's say , always there, that is, you can't calm down. that is, it's all the same, uh, let's say, uh, considering. after the nhl game, you'll pick up some things for yourself. uh, coming, let's say detroit in november for two matches, uh, for the game of washington a and detroit in general and detroit yorkalendres. e in the game i looked next to the katein with the kateg with me, so the president of toront gave my partner detroitto. uh, with the siverman. so i caught myself thinking that these two matches. eh, i didn't really like it. in terms of in terms
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of exactly. ah, the structure of the game. here, i counted that uh, in principle, you know which one is more interesting. here, for example, what we are doing now torpedo, he is more interesting. let him episodes. here. well, he gives an opportunity. eh, something like that. uh, it means, well, to give a part, let's say of the game that we played. let's go to these guys, the guys are already passing on to those fans who come to the games in nizhny. that's why watching these. those two matches. i realized that they are not so bad actually and yes, we are not playing now. uh, there are cool matches there, north america there and there. world championships, there are olympiads and so on. but uh, the game is still evolving. and so it develops. let it be in that hurry, where we are now. don't get out of it. yes , but on the other side. you understand, you give the boys the opportunity to understand that no matter how it is. we can't control it, we do what we can do today. here, how do you feel about and
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generally brings it closer, if where does e lead, the history of the continental hockey league, which has now come up with limit legionnaires here there's been a lot of discussions, and they're still going on, uh, i have my own concept, so the plan in this regard, so i'd like to know. yes, yes, legionnaires today. eh, in my understanding. let's say i tell a story, for example, in my opinion, you did not tell her, and my house. which is located in the country of america , uh, was bought by the president of the mls team. who won this year, then mls. it's uh football league yeah football club that oprah winpree tony robbins that's when he told me that literally in 2 days we'll announce about the signing, it means the kylinia from juventus, yeah,
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here, and after 5 days the volume of the signing. so harry it was from real madrid. so i say such people, i need in the torpedo that can come, these are legionnaires. i say, i say a legionnaire who can pass on his championship model experience to young guys, people of the world winning. that's it, we know it in cyrillic. eh, europe the world. uh, the champions league was four or five. uh, the champions league, these are the people who are called legionnaires who can give it to themselves the way we were lay down. with slava fetisov in detroit who could give e youth, e give that victorious experience. it means those little details of the game that will enable the guys to grow up much faster. here is a legionnaire yes , take legionnaires who are unknown to me. well
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, the meaning is i'm taking a place, let's say he takes our young russian kid and gives a place in which legionnaire, who on the second day, after the end of the season, takes takes takes flies back to himself without speaking, not in russian anything. well, no, it’s not clear, that’s why i’m not a supporter, which means limits on the other sides. give me kirina, give me bail i would take today. uh, let's say there's makina from colorado. i'd take today, uh. who are already there 30 years old, to help, let's say, uh, i don’t know the young player torpedo there, there fedotov there or, uh, anasov, uh, or ingrizhanovsky there, to become better here , take players whom i don’t know, whom does not know which even the commentators of canadian and american television at the olympics do not know drunkards. when the olympics were in korea, they did not know the players. who plays for team canada for team america, these legionnaires came from the khl well, the point is we then we just
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kill the league, the average level. we're just diluting the league with average players. so we are taking a place from those boys who can become better. yeah, that's how i see it, that is, really. this is a limit of three legionnaires. this contributes to the development of youth hockey , you think, i’m generally on the side, if i’m pioneers yes, only if you have these levels, then it’s a top level. here, let it be there. three at least let there be at least one there will be 20 legionnaires. we don't have business here today. we don't have a business. that's the thing. there is in general. i'm talking about hockey now, yes, so if you take, let's say, pay, there, uh, there is 150 million euros there for mbappe, let's say with psg e to real madrid and he sells there for 2 months there 4 million t-shirts, which you get that money back, it 's pretty fast there. here is one. yes
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, we don’t have this, we don’t want to name the names of the legionnaires who play hal, this is for me. well, it's super, average player level. so you don’t want to, so, uh, let’s say. just dilute this level. well, that's why this is such a painful topic for me, yes, that's why, in principle, it goes against the principles that we are talking about, because today we spend our money on those people who, well, clearly, they let them score their goals there, yes, well, to say that they will do better than someone, and therefore we get mid-level players who are trained for such legionnaires who play in the khl today. now for quite a long time you have been working in continental hockey. do you have a feeling that hockey in our country can still bring in money, that it can become part of the business? well, today, let's say, we're talking about torpedo again, uh, today, uh, in our team, uh, there, let's say, there are
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four or five players who have reached a new level. here. here, uh. and the question is that, uh, after the end of the season, uh, well, there will be clubs that want to buy them, in principle, i am very, well, as we say, it will be a pity and a shame to me. if we assume, someone will pick us up on a call there the governor, for example, they will call and say, it is necessary to pick it up. you have to give up the person. we pay there for some money money to the team, like uh, we have a small budget. here we take it, that is, to allow such a possibility, they absolutely allow it, yes, and this can happen. yes, but this is the real of our life today. that's why in the khl, but on the other hand , you understand that the work has been done, the guys have grown up. here are other guys for this place, here, who will also ask ahead, just time to start everything from scratch start everything instead of building, uh, sculpt the team correctly, let's say, so
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gradually, so it means, let's say there are 3-4 players. you look at positions. by human qualities, by character, by game intelligence, and you begin to build a team. and then you, uh, can put in big tasks. here but if someone wants to buy players, after all, if a player wants to go after the money, then another team for god's sake for god's sake therefore, here in this plan. you can make money, you can make money, yes, but uh, we're playing today about income, let's say. uh, like north america there are 20,000. uh, us at the matches. yes, a full stadium. here is the match, yes, indeed, when it comes, the fans spend a lot of money, he, uh, beer with its king-river paraphernalia is sold a lot of money in the parking lot. uh, crazy prices means more board sponsorship. uh, eating sausages, popcorn, it's all coming downloaded by the team. here, uh, coming, let's say
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popular, then, uh, i don't want to offend anyone. you just come to the popular cities of our country. where is hockey popular? so you see, there, uh, up to 1/3 filled with spectators. this one is braided at 9:00. uh-huh 9 hours to play hockey uh vladivostok in khabarovsk in the stands of 2.000 people. well, what a crazy amount of money he spent, then fly 7 hours, and the difference in time, uh, here are some things they understood social projects, how some things still need to be tightened up to do it right. here we cannot stand still and live. uh, previous merit there, previous memories there, and so on. that's why here there are masses of things that are here today at this time that we have today, uh, ban on everything, do things that should be different. we can't gather people today, uh, july 15 or july 1, to
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train, we can't pay big money to those guys either. they must prepare themselves, they must be collected, probably, most likely, on september 5, when so all the children, let's say, go to school. uh, parents are finishing their holidays. so we start playing, uh, a season that lasts until the end, let's say. there may, there the beginning of june. uh-huh, we have to try it, because we have today, uh, there is a possibility, and we still fall for the rules that were before. e. well, you see, it's quite an interesting story, because a lot of urine was talking to the fans in vladivostok now in the continental league in the regular season and when you have three games a week, the fans already choose. which team to go to, this time and on which day to go on wednesday is inconvenient. on monday, not very, therefore, on saturday it will be found. see how it turns? well it
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's nice that if a full house is a full house yes it is nice. yes, but uh, no matter how it was, it's all the same in these cities. er, well, there should be much more interest. yes, hockey, because there is no other sport. there may be a big sport. maybe i don’t fully understand, yes, but you understand that let’s have an e team in khabarovsk and have a team in vladivostok and fill, let’s say , a palace that can accommodate six there or there 7,000 e for a city that how many people live in khabarovsk well, there is a millionaire, in my opinion, a million, right? well, this is a small small amount. that's how popular you saw in nizhny u hockey. uh, the good thing is that every match is completely to the eyeballs. uh people, well, the tradition is definitely there forty- sixth year. here are the glorious traditions and players of generations of players. this is it, of course. eh, well, a big plus of the fact that hockey still
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lives in the city in the region. that's what you propose, let's say today. uh, interesting hockey is interesting, means uh pastime for people. so they got into what we do. that's a colossal interest. that's what pleases. yes, that's why in this regard i i say we are in the right place. where, uh, there is the support of the governor, who watches the games and so on, which means, uh, he writes that we don’t have the best majority, at least the fourth one, well , nothing, the main thing is that it’s interesting, yes, interesting, yes, and we are all these things. uh, we discuss, we talk, yes, and we do, uh, every match is a performance, because people came and enjoyed themselves. games, so we will do it even better, because the guys are growing and uh, and this thing is progressing. the main thing is getting back to your creative working method. the same kaleshin said that you do not raise your voice, he has never seen this. this is such a principle. you think so it's
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only yours again. you don't raise your voice, you don't change your intonation much. this is your principle of work, you think that other trainers can use it. raise your voice. you will show your weakness. uh, here, that is, uh, dialogue is always better than conflict. that's what criticism means, uh, and in some things that you can express to the guys, but today they don't work with them either. well, with them you need talk. that's because i understand that many e come e guys who today in the team they went through. eh, their stages, it means becoming there are different schools, where they were hit on the head with a club, uh, and so on. here you need to e let's say i scolded, where they criticized where they offended, where they humiliated and so on, this is all you get. uh, how boris is already on the way out. here, too, it is important, uh, that the player who is in the torpedoes in the torpedo team understand that they will listen to him here.
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yes, they will give him the opportunity, so the right to error. i already spoke about it. yes, on the other hand, it means some things, when you can calmly approach the match campaign, let's say tell the player. well any player that even has experience, but this is not the kind of hockey that you can play. you can play differently. that's all that was in the previous segment of the error. you can't get all this back. yes , move on. get out of your head playing hockey, so these things work best why did i have the experience that was here, uh, in russia, that was there, here i am, these experiences are these two careers. a box of tools and try to get out of it. from this box, this or that means tools and operate. thanks for the time. thank you

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