transport routes for the transfer of weapons and equipment of nationalists, calibers are being improved, the traditions laid down by pavel ivanovich with a stone will be continued commissioner for human rights tatyana moskalkova met with two families from the lpr, reunited after a long separation nastya and tolya studied to live in the person of a boarding school. from where, in early march, the ukrainian authorities took them to austria without the permission of their parents. now, after long negotiations and agreements, their mother's children are together in russia. the guys say that many of them have been taken abroad. including without parental consent. mom quite clearly and categorically said that they object to the forced removal of children and the separation of their families, but nevertheless this took place, we resolved the issue through their embassy and with

the assistance of the european ombudsman institute most of russia remains in the zone of extreme cold frosty, the weather is in no hurry to give up a position like this in vologda and cheboksary, about -30 is a couple of degrees warmer in yaroslavl due to cold weather. school holidays were extended there, as, however, we are in a number of districts of the vladimir region in ryazan, where -22 e eliminated, the municipal accident, which left several microdistricts of the city without heating, heat returns to the houses of his father in veliky ustyug santa claus enveloped in ice cold at night under 40, the record of 1987 was broken, and in moscow, due to abnormal frosts , the orange level of weather danger was extended, but there is in the padas and their pluses during the day. the inhabitants of the capital could again observe the optical phenomenon of the voice, the light is refracted in ice crystals, creating bewitching pictures, but it is not long to observe them.

today the temperature will begin to rise gradually during the day just minus eleven. this is the merit of the approaching atlantic cyclone. and the next few days the thermometer will return to the usual value for january such news by this minute. see you soon. and how old? you have been together for 3 years 3 years during this time three years this is the time when people are already slightly declining, let's say the first such spontaneous attraction from the fact that novelty excites people greatly, yes, and uh , it shows how much they have learned to create relationships friendship with a friend take an interest in each other. we try very hard, it turns out already tired of those character traits that seem unacceptable left. i want to say that this adds

more constant stress, and because of which , more precisely, from which we demolished, we can get out in the first place. as a man, he can't. uh, our family is easy to pick up and pull out, because , well, it can't go on like this for long. i'm talking about the fact that i'm not inspired for some reason, maybe it's because you don't need to accept my goals space. this is even a house in which we can build there for a while. something i do because i do everything around the house. i'm repairing something there, well, there the windows are being changed, i'm insulating. i love doing everything myself. and it annoys you too, by the way, i’m leaving for the basement, for example. this is the last time we listened. i went to the basement and i hear there again the bays there all this, as it were, we disperse, in fact, and we live in a summer house. in the summer period, it is very

insulated. it is very cold, just at the time of the extension there were no such materials. and, of course, there is somewhere hungry, it is heated with firewood so that you understand, and in the shower it is impossible to wash there for a long time tinted hair. i washed. on the water, and then i lay down and fell asleep like that, because it was very cold in the house and i had to heat it with firewood. can you imagine in our time, and also with such a child with whom you constantly need to travel to the city and i still work. i did not stop working when i was not pregnant, nor when i gave birth, and not only am i in this situation , because i love this person, oddly enough, yes, although i already have degrees. it's cold 20 outside the city. it is very difficult for me physically and mentally, but i live with this person because i want to save my family. i want my son to have a dad, especially for our son. this is

very important and this person chose this person. they are just like that, because there are so many positive qualities in it. i love him for nothing, as i should. i'd like to mend the relationship, but he needs to understand these things that a change is not my inspiration to you, you know? i can not to inspire you to make a serious masculine decision. whatever decision you would like him to make first . solution - this has the intention of solving this problem. this is the most important thing, everything else is the reasons and excuses. i think moms have some problems there, i don’t want to rent an apartment and something else is all this. i'll just clarify the problem to solve. what so that you do not live in the house with his mother, his mother, it does not matter to me in fact. where to live? i want to solve problems to clarify so that we have our own way of life i only wanted to be in an apartment with you. we lived with

you in an apartment in one other lived in the city , uh, we also gathered there, something didn’t like it. why didn't you like it? because a person leaves for a dacha for 2 weeks, because the house needs to be heated, and every other day he leaves for the garage. he has his own space. i like there something to do me. baby for 2 weeks, when we fight with no money and well, without even a connection, well, block me and leave. well, like this, well, you have your parents who always financially support your dad, mom and daughter, and you and you all turn out. here is your family, and i feel, yes, what are you there anyway, you are all for you, and your parents absolutely do not interfere. even when vasily has no one to turn to. so you say, she says to her mother, yes, and who else should i call if i have well , in principle, right now, yes, uh hmm midlife crisis , yes, all friends, the way it fell off. i'm still fond of the fact that

i, uh, lead a healthy lifestyle. and it turned out in our time that it’s not very, uh, cool, because all the friends fell off. we have no common interests now. well, how to have a drink, have a bite to go to the bathhouse, and so on. that is, i now go to a bathhouse and everywhere. well, in general, i have no one. call yes, a psychologist, of course, it is also expensive there at the moment. i need to feed my family. i need a child. i need to go there for a car at home and so on. and of course, when the apartment, and in - in this crisis, which go on and it’s as if the business has already been killed, and that ’s it, and i’m already bankrupt and so on. well, how hard. what turns out, turns out you e are connected by close and best feelings with each other for 3 years. together you are quite often a problem in families, uh, in moscow, the choice of where to live, how to live with whom to live in moscow

or in the moscow region, especially when there is a choice - this creates a lot of difficulties, when people have no choice, then they somehow the situation they have. they decide as far as they can. yes, and try e somehow not to quarrel, and somehow keep the peace among themselves. yes, and when there is a choice. here you can have a one-room apartment here in paradise, but there you can, and without raev but in a big house and this creates options in which people already. it becomes not so important, what others feel. what matters is what are my interests? yes, vasily has an interest in fulfilling his mother's instructions to keep the house in proper condition. it's not only her assignment to me, as it were, uh, well, i myself want to do a lot,

because i spent there, well, a normal most of my life. yes, from the very beginning. it was a family nest lived. i am with my grandmother and mother. well, there for some time there was a stepfather for 3 years, but, as it were, everything that i i can. i learned everything there. well, i like it too. i'm going down to the basement, that when i'm going down the basement you say, stop messing around there, that is what i'm on. i feel what i feel. by the way, as a psychologist, i feel, but i don’t feel some kind of irritation, but i don’t feel guilty, blissful calmness when i do, let’s say, something with a car or there, well, some garbage with cauldron, it doesn't matter what are you doing with your hands? yes, men will understand me. i do it myself in my garage. she doesn't understand it. she starts. why are you there for so long, that's the cause guilt and i feel, and i feel this guilt since the first, so i will explain to you now from the first marriage, because the first brother caused me a colossal drama. yes

, but it all comes from there, because the first wife forbade going to her mother, called names to her mother and directly clearly spoke, if you cursed, she said that we should all die. she said, if you go to the country, i will destroy you right away. that is, when i came, uh, there once a month to help mother's grass, well, how to help mother again sergey felt guilty, i think he had already enough information. i think i understand that you believe that you have some kind of inferiority complex imposed on you by your first wife. well, most likely, yes, because before that i remember myself that no matter how there were no problems. hmm tell me, when does vasily go down to your basement? like some kind of anxiety? no, i'm just saying, you fill it up again. at least a little bit, that is, you need his attention all the time. and it is my lifestyle. that

's different looks perfect i would like it differently here. here is the big difference. here in this ideal way of life. yes yes. please tell us about your ideal lifestyle. well, firstly, i would like to take care of my health, which we already have with vasily's backs and so on, the little child of nerva, i think, is making itself felt, and so on. we don't get to work. just basic health. you take care of your health, from about morning to evening. no, why don't you study about the ideal in an ideal world at all? yes, at least it doesn’t matter at all not that the basement itself annoys me something. yes, it just already follows from the fact that the house constantly requires pumping water to pump out the septic tank. now the electricity doesn't work at all. we just saw wires in both of us like this everywhere, well, no matter how small we almost

got lost, of course, but nearby we returned, because he constantly climbed into the basement, came out and brought something. i got difficult conditions for life with closed, requiring requiring certain. labor here is your spouse and for this every day, in the end, do not mind doing this labor, which leads to some harmonization. yes, we can repair this situation for a nursery for 2 years, there is nothing to do there. there, just like that, everything in such a room is standing, the instrument and everything in the world. this is what it calls. i can’t understand to go and do this repair myself, vasily doesn’t want to hire, because he wants to do everything with his own hands and the electrician and it turned out terribly painted, which i myself transitions. we wouldn't have done anything on our own. really very badly done. although they

called through the application and that's it. created. there just need it was to paint the walls of the lining, which is already intended for other purposes for the bow. they are for painting. what emotion do you develop this situation? i'm in a desperate situation. just understand, i now understand what i have to endure. yes, i feel this feeling every day, and i have almost come to terms with the fact that i choose to stay in a family with this person, and save my family and endure, let's say, be in this house , endure waiting for everything to get better, but the most important thing is even aggravating. this is the expectation spring is coming. he will come, mom, that's all m-m. you understand me, so that we still leave, come in, we are going, in the sense of planning. well, it's still hard to plan. we have no idea how your life should be organized. well, ideally, how would i

work, let's take the next weekend, true well , let's assume that this is the most ordinary damn right? here's the weekend all weekend. i work. well, i work - what are they doing? well, i work, where they pay there. i work for me, as it were, i made money. i feel i feel confidently happy when, as it were, they fell, there on a map or in my pocket. yes, i have money. i can afford to buy something for my wife and it's free yes and uh, it's nice to go home there. it is clear that he came and made such, let's say some homework, do the floor of the house, that is, there is. work, then you will work or will work on weekends, it doesn't matter. these are the ones that work a lot. it was like that in the summer. i, well, kind of work all the time. have us summer this the main, too, earnings. uh, there was always sergei . it seems to me that the guys are worried, not that they are talking now. so far i can't

get to the bottom of it. i feel great sympathy for these people simply because you are great workers, this is what is generally justified and redeems a lot. i will say that i did not force myself to take a break to go to sochi on the spot. you are worried about something deep down and you are not getting to the bottom of it. here your mother-in-law appears, it means, something else , uh, some kind of range sergey that they are helpless, the wife doesn’t care, honestly doesn’t trigger, she absolutely sees guys, let’s, i’m see what you see already, of course, of course. miss my first wife i think it's important mine i mean, but olga i don't have absolutely. no, it's not good that you lack love. here is your spouse. you expected more. you expected that you would be at the center of his life, but also but i expected, let's say, a completely

different gift, understand, i don’t even ask him for anything. yes, he is a gift to me. if i would endure like this, that's all, because i really have. i may look so good. maybe i don't seem so tired, in fact, i have a very big pain inside. i can cry now, but i don't want to be very beautiful. yes, understand, this is my real pain. i'm not spoiled. it just might look like i'm such a spoiled bitch. pardon the expression. yes? no guys. i'm ready to drive with this man in a six. well, the truth is, with this one, you see, i'm ready. i sold the apartment so that he would close the loan for the car. can you imagine. it says something. we are together, we are one and a half

i gave a million, sold an apartment in a small one in the krasnodar territory and gave him the money, so that because i was very worried, how he was worried that they would take away his car. it is the machine that feeds us. this is our bread. it 's simple. well, at least a small act says that i love this person. and that i don’t need anything from him in terms of some kind of self-interest, and what i need, i want peace of mind, you understand? i want us to have a family, our life is small. let a rented apartment. i want comfort cleanliness and peace. i i'm tired of this cleaning. we have a small child, she always has enough of cleaning this life, but you see, maybe for me, it's understandable. i love aesthetics, i love beauty. i want comfort i have a libido. sorry , it's already gone. because i don't feel myself, i can't realize myself as a woman. i need beauty. i am a makeup artist to inspire a man. yes, as for e, the balance of energy

a woman must herself be inspired, otherwise, where will i take this energy? from what from the dirty floor, i note it down and lie down with you mounted inside sergey why vasily can't hear? i want. i can even rent an apartment myself. i offered him, let me pay for the apartment. i will withdraw money from her myself, no question. you guys can't hear each other. yes, we do not hear each other money is not an issue. you yourself this money. he says, i'm not a man, you want to be a man again. you yourself yes, it's not about that. i just want to step forward every day. you see, do they really stand still and skid and do some bullshit in the basements. but what basil is doing isn't moving up the weekend rummaged in the garage in the car in the basement even on the ceiling you walk there? what

do you want to do? get inspired. i say go with the guys where you want to relax, he doesn't want that. he wants to be with me all the time . i don't force him. he himself wants to be with me, and he wants to be with you, so i want. i'm talking like a man in a basement, please.

some kind of door i'm ready to smash everything, to be honest, i'm ready to smash everything. well, really, that's such a desire, because we don't know, we've heard it already. well, we just heard. let's get back. that's what let's talk about, but what are you together for? maybe it didn’t turn out, yes, it’s somehow strange, maybe you won’t believe it, but it happens so much with us everything is fine. we often have such moments when everything is fine with us, but at the same time, as you know, it goes up sharply and down, that is, the amplitude. not like this, yes, but like this up, well, not too good bad. good bad i sometimes go crazy. such emotional reactivity. it's hard to be happy emotional plus k

to that, uh-huh and maybe both of them have some problems. i do not miss, god forbid, if our emotionality is directed against someone. yes, a person simply destroys. let's start with something generally speaking. good emotional self-regulation will not hurt each of you and this should be learned, because you have difficulties in hearing each other and in order to realize one of the most important callings of your life, which is to give love to a loved one, it is clear that you love each other, but here's the line, in fact, probably to make the other person happy, of course, her. as a matter of fact, you somehow lack your own interests; everyone insists on his own. and there are difficulties in making another person happy. tell me, i'm sacrificing my comfort for

this person. yes, i endure what gives me terrible discomfort, in order to be with this person, it seems that vasily is also taking a step. and here's the next step none of you do. you understand what's the point. and what could be the next step is that you work through those the problems that arise between you, that is, look, in fact, life in the country is not some kind of completely apocalyptic scenario and life in the city is not something completely impossible. here life with mother there something irritates.