only you don't know what he's watching. yes, maybe he climbed there on some site, i don’t know what is there in general, he will probably see it. yes, violent porn is simple, because since the internet porn content has also grown exponentially, and now my friends, whose sons accidentally stumbled upon a time, are contacting me . not because dad left something there or there, i myself came across the earliest as early as four or six years old, and the boys accidentally stumbled upon uh-huh when they saw sexual intercourse. e in some kind of porn material and this, well, firstly, i want to reassure my parents something happened to someone. you are not alone. secondly, they saw, yes, obedience, it is clear that they are watching all this, and they see all this, and it is clear that they stumbled. it’s so hard to stumble, the fact is that apparently, probably, as i think, like a mother too, as if my intuitive such as i think that i am the main task of parents is to teach how to separate, how to peel off the grains, yes, to teach to see the child to hear, probably, yes? something,

probably, somehow it is brought up like that, probably, it is necessary to start with this. well, before yes , the child's idea of ​​what is healthy sexuality, what is not, that is, to lay some foundations. probably at first. yes, before you talk, and then maybe, that's how i think, then, maybe, you won't have to talk. that's the question, you know? no, if you somehow pawned, he already understands that he doesn’t need this, that it’s not his there, yes, since you won’t talk about it with a five-year-old contraception. yes, you have an older son who is 15. and you should have talked to him about contraception for a long time. yes? they are smarter than us all the time it's funny how i won't say it. i told him at the beginning of you, well , tell me, there, you still fell in love, that he was looking at me, mom. mom, well, like, hello, garage, i know for sure with you, so mom, i understand about it more than you understand what you called sex. so it was, a runny nose. i saw my son somehow there on the phone. i saw that he was subscribed to some telegram channel. uh, about sex or some bunch

these channels, and he subscribed to the very thing that he reads and studies there, and the reaction is clearly visible that already, as it were, at what age do children begin now, this is when they generally, in fact, do it. tell me, please, it's me who will fall, therefore, i don't need it. i don't want. i don't want to know, because, well, somehow in our times. at what age does e occur in children. uh, what is your name for sexual intercourse or how do you have these intercourse, i'm afraid this word depends on the children. what do we know? we we know what is where. program yes of comprehensive sexuality education children start having sex later. one of the common fears of conservative parents, that now we will start, uh- huh, sex education and all our children will bloom, will begin there. i do not know sadoma gomorrah boiled sin. and all

these horrors of pregnancy, infection, and so on, in fact, exactly the opposite. and what do they say there? it is interesting in such lessons , just like this one, well, they tell the appropriate age, what knowledge gives them you must not miss it, while, it seems, the child is small, like, still unhappy, and then once again he says, mom, that is , it is necessary somehow in general to find a balance in time, because sex. same. well, not only pleasure, it is also a responsibility. and it's more and more talking to children. in fact, it is not only with children and adults that we need to learn how to talk more, to discuss some things in general, in principle, it seems to me that we all have such a big problem that we can be offended. we can shut up. can to hide something somehow, but this is to sit down and talk, in general, this is the most important thing that can be between people, in general, people should talk to each other and say some things. yes, i absolutely agree with you, as a sexologist, as a psychotherapist often. i see couples where, well, just the whole idea. yes, they are best friends. they can talk about absolutely everything, but sex is such a sphere, only for them it is sensitive and quivering and they never discussed the most basic issues. sex is bad sex is terrible it

can lead to well discussed of course, that's basically what it is in ninety it's very sad and five percent of families in general. this is generally, in principle, not discussed in any way, but by and large. it's an important part of life. yes, this is, well, one of the most key parts, so the couple break up because they don’t discuss. it's all some kind of forbidden topic no one. as a result, having lived there, i don’t know with my wife of 25 years and doesn’t know what i really like, and how she is uh, and it’s, of course, scary and because of this because of this and the children. well, that is, we are, as it were, simply everyone grew up in all this, and we somehow became people after all, that is, also in some incomprehensible way. then you know what happens very often people are embarrassed to talk about sex. for example , men come to me, and he is convinced that his wife is here . hmm, she doesn’t want sex, she doesn’t like sex. and in general, it would even offend her to raise, so to speak. the question he decides for himself. well , different people decide differently for themselves , let's say, how they cope with the fact that they are not satisfied sexually, someone masturbates, someone goes, so to speak. on the other hand, someone takes lovers, someone goes to

prostitutes and thinks that it is, well, safer for the family, because there is no emotional connection. yes, there are no children on the side. and this is also part of the problem. yes , because even now in the evening it is distributed in heterosexual couples. that's about among ours with you, and very often the story is more balanced, when the wife knows for the first time. and that he has hiv when she is already pregnant, her husband infected her, who, like this, went to her money for using, not to use condom. that is, he looked at her skin, good clean, or is it some kind of colleague and neighboring business, i don’t know, and he doesn’t allow it. on what it can be, not healthy, and this too. yes, if he had a sex enlightenment at school, he would have known there for 10 years 12 years. what, well, sex only with a condom. well , well. with such a knowledge of what abstinence is, it can absolutely guarantee nothing dissatisfaction. again, there is an opinion that sex enlightenment will tell you everything, that here is our generation of our parents there, who are there they have lived all their lives, and in fact

, there may even be more such strong marriages, some long ones, and it seems to us that they had such love there and people lived there together for 50 years. now this does not exist at all and they did not have any sex clearance. that is, this is such a question, which, as i understand it, is very acute. uh, you need to enter. e to school. this lesson, by the way, is it clear or not? or somehow they managed without it before and somehow everything was better, but now we are conducting this sex clearance and it will be in general and in general, in short, the nightmare will be complete even worse than er. now, when in general everything has become so accessible now in general now, in fact, no one needs to take a girl to a restaurant there to talk to her about something. something there is now everything so simply turned on the internet. i ’m all these are somehow called, when the relationship is on video , this is all sex on video, she does everything you say, and you don’t have to have dinner anywhere. no need for conversation. she is nothing at all so easily available now has less sex. what is our generation with you. so here it is it's terrible, this is terrible. i actually think about it too. yes, later they start later. still, they start later. even we will now return to this issue, when this happens, that very intercourse in children. at what age now is this

the average age, i have two boys 13-15 years old. i don't know, to be honest with you. now i'll repeat to you that i don't know, did they have it like you think, this is a question. yes , they will answer me, but we know the statistics that the earlier the children start, the better the chance that it was a story about violence. it wasn't about consent therefore and in many respects just stop, please wait. no, wait. well, i mean, like, well, they can't fall in love at 15, and like 15 from 15 , let's say everything below 14 is already very very this serious red flag 15, a child can fall in love. well, this teenager is already 15 years old. yes, if they have a difference there for a couple of years, it's ok if she's 15 he's 25, and he's there i don't know to teach a huge red fact, not to mention that this is already history well, illegal, and if 16, we agree on age 16 years old, yes, but in general, allow here, as if, let's say my son tells me. here is my girl. this is mine he is 13 years old. for example , i know that here is my

thirteen-year-old son. here he is friends with a girl here. and i'm a girl. how many classmates? yes, look, when children are the same age there is a higher chance that there is no abuse. from no side. i understand this, just in general, here, in principle, if they meet here, how should i behave, just how should i pretend everything is like oh, you are friends, that's how you bought ice cream there or how they ask for such idiotic paints for you, yes, from paints i don’t know or what exactly is normal, how it should be somehow he brought the girl home, for example. i need to behave, what they like and well , for sure, they have something. here, yes, i am, so i did it along with every seed decides for itself. yes, i would meet the parents of this girl and find out whether or not this relationship is in the know. yes, if by this age, i'm most likely already a. hmm contraception would be judged by this very age when children have what problems they have, their bodies change they start together. wait. you know, how if they don’t meet it, how

are they such adults, this girl they don’t know no, he came to me with a photo there, the girl is already just like that, you just understand, she’s just like that, we were like that, another 13 years. actually 13 years old. they're just such a girl in heels already all with boobs so the whole girl is already serious, you know? i really hope not. i really hope that they only have a romantic relationship, but to be sure. yes, yes, i have to understand myself and agree about age, yes, and about contraception and about consent, because such consent yes, this is it. i have such a beautiful son, who is very, very i don't know , understands, because i wonder if they already have how i feel about it, you know? as already as in general, who are 2 years older there? well, in general, already an adult man, you understand, yes, another important point is that he, too , may not be ready. that is, it's okay, but he himself must understand himself. the price that sex is a responsibility? yes, and that there are some, well, somehow learn a child so that he understands what is this. well, how cool it is, how would he be prepared, like this, if he has to talk about it, for this

he should get a positive experience. yes , he should at least see these models. yes, if you can’t talk about it there, someone must be in his life who can talk about it with him. maybe it could be some kind of podcast. i don't know blogger. yes, they can be friends. yes, it is best if it is a specialist. yes, what kind of someone from the outside yes, not a teacher, well, not a teacher at school, because that it will be difficult for children. and someone i'm sorry, somehow often happens. yes, especially some sex-caker who comes so that they can ask a question, yes, about everything that worries them and talk to the changing aunt about how this first time happens. what to do? where to stay? how to understand yes dick pants or not? how to understand ready or not? how to put on a condom correctly? the first time is a very important problem there, you know, i can't , i'll be honest. here i am , i can explain to my child when there is a condom somewhere, for sure, therefore, we need a sex gap, yes, if it will be someone, yes, some neutral person, neutral, who will come. yes, and plus everything, children will have access to condoms, because

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megafon stores if you like scooter chips, then you can do it differently, because you will want to try their author's recipe. well, or so, because their crunch makes itself felt. i'm reminded of this sex by the light podcast. i'm at the banshchikov, we are talking in the studio with amina's sexologist. nazar aliyeva, we are discussing the sexual education of children. how to prepare can be here is a child, if he meets girls, so that he somehow doesn’t screw up , so that he somehow, well, so that he doesn’t feel uncomfortable after the first sexual experience and then he doesn’t get scared and doesn’t look for some maybe more experienced woman there an adult who would teach him how he screwed up. what are you putting into it? i mean that somehow they have something going on there and somehow he doesn’t know, just like he somehow doesn’t know. well, i

don't know, this is it. i don't know if it can fail. she goes missing very often. yes, yes, and from what is called. well, i really like english. i have now laid down a performance in the original, that is, it was not quite correctly translated into russian, but there the meaning is in this performance. yes, there is any crisis. yes , this should be close and understandable, yes, how i speak. yes, i think it's for a boy. this is very very exciting and scary somehow happens. i remember my childhood there. it kissed in the entrance there with the boys, and then there he kissed, what do we have there and then suddenly they once you ran away, for example, yes, i think to everyone, why don't i run away some strange want, where do they run? what happened everything on tomatoes or blue learned to kiss, on what? oh you know the salad. i didn't study like you know, she know either yes but this building. it's like an actress. i think like that's how to become an actress. i believe that it is impossible to teach this, either you feel it or not. that's all. you're my opinion, so uh, i'm

so ironic about how it can be taught. well, probably a young man is a boy. i'm just like this recently, something that began to think, like that, that my son somehow behaved like this. hmm, the man felt that there was not. here is some such he has, but fear, therefore, an occasion. yes, look here, this is also sx-clearance. this also addresses, because they teach. as it is closer to this age , and begins to discuss relationships. what is a good healthy relationship, what is an unhealthy relationship, including discussing? these gender stereotypes, for example, very often men learn that i should always be on horseback. uh huh, i have an erection should be steel in any situation. it doesn't matter, i want to. i don't want this woman, but i slept. i've been there satisfactorily for the last few days or not, whether i'm healthy or not. and very often men's self-esteem is tied. yes on this sexy performance. so let's call it, well, clear, of course, everything, in general, products are stereotypes, as you impose on girls. it should be there, so-and-so at the same time innocent, that is, socially

attractive. she wants what they want, but at the same time she wants only after the wedding and her husband, and, in general, they radiate sexuality in such a way, so that her husband would go crazy with him and everyone around her wanted, that is, a bunch of contradictory these attitudes, although sexuality is male and female. she looks a lot like a slender general sexy. it's something in general. eh, this is the brain, like the human brain. yes, that is, these are young girls, i think, yes, there, i know, there are many girls who will remake themselves there. i don’t know those there, some crazy eyelashes, boobs are inserted there. uh, these lips are not about sexuality, in general, sexuality is somehow different thing and a man in general, in fact. so i can just say for sure that they don’t notice all these things, i generally notice. only your energy. and in general sex can do it, it's through the brain. it's not even not through. that's the perception. that's how uh let's tell the girls it's true. this is exactly what i want. today i take this opportunity, because we are talking with you, which is true. it's about something else. love - it's not connected. uh, the size of your breast eyelashes. there are stupid. it's

about something completely different. it's about some time individuality. yes, because the color - it should draw, among other things, you know, it seems to me that this is very important for which, by the way, sex is very important, so that the girls it seems to me that they were taken right by the girls. maybe the body absolutely accepted its individuality, the more you differ from the other way around, different from the other girl, who may be, as you think, there is a better you for some parameters. this has nothing to do with the fact that you will love and will want you and you will have. love is very important to convey. that's it for little girls, of course even. here is my little one watching, you know some imposed youtube that turns on, and any second you turn on the soviet cartoon there, you just go somewhere, it ended crocodile gena and there are already some. so, the girls tell my little child there about some kind of wait, even in soviet cartoons i remember what kind of princesses there are. here with such waists. yes, almost all blondes are sure to exact a lot. and this is not only about sexual self-confidence, but for women in

in general, the sexual experience is worse than that of men , largely because of this anxiety that i am somehow not like that. yes, they can not relax in bed. yes, plus these here, yes, these are stereotypes of a stop. it's very scary, because these girls. i think in bed. they look like they look like this and take selfies in parallel. not at all, well, how would it be, it seems to me, this is today's imposed by today's these mastiotypes. it's creepy. generally scary. tell me if women have looked at us now or there are parents hmm and decided now, yes, we will educate our child, as it were. here we want. enlightenment, yes, lead, if this subject is not at school, who can i turn to at all? how is it to look for a sexologist just like you or how in general, who will do it? well, look, i think that yes, we need to look for some specialists yes, teachers. i would recommend looking for books, yes, from childhood to accustom yourself. yes, this is to start reading and talking about it. that is. this first time is terribly embarrassing and difficult. here the second time is a little less embarrassing and difficult, but in thirty third time. you will speak calmly and with ease, i don’t know

the penis there, vul, that’s how i say it, well, i deigned to sing, after all, you somehow know it very well in a literary way. it sounds, of course. i did not write that i began to speak with my child there. masha pour it out somehow. i can't at all. i have them, well, we need some word. it is possible, as it were, for us, yes, and at the same time, so that it is not sexual, very charging. but it's very somehow you know very well, like like your actor, they say it's very kind literature. it's very hard to apply to life, you know? how is it all hmm i think in what sense it’s even good, because it allows you to keep this distance so that it doesn’t happen. don't take it, i promise you, but i don't know how it is. here. i just want to try it myself after our conversation, because i have never done it again now. hmm, when they will already tell them to their friends, there they will have their own love relationships. it is clear that they will use something else because i have a vulva. a what is it when mommy mom told me normally, and then mommy mom will come to uh, some other mom who knows that she will

look at me, how are you sure that your child is to pour out all of myself a few, huh? it's more of an educational question, because the kids are playing doctors in the kindergarten. they see it all. i now remembered the story. we recently filmed as a short film. uh, such a small short film is a small short movie like that. i played there hmm the woman who came to the sex shop for the first time, which is the first time she's ever been there, she's lonely. she came in to buy something. hmm. what was filmed in the sex shop? in short , we spent the whole day just in a huge sex shop. it's just that we were filming and the whole film crew was in this huge sex shop. it's clear that i'm, for example, an actress, i can't go into a sex shop. well , as it were, i will find out everything there, and i will be wildly awkward there. in general, i have never been there in my life almost once, when i was still there at a very young age, and here we were all day. i mean, we filmed there all day, and that's it. could be considered. in general, we laughed so much there that i understood women, i understood that life. it's just in vain, just honestly, i wanted to look, which means, and what is it

you know? it's just that i had the right to ask, because i'm kind of just like there. by chance . i'm shooting a movie. i just turned out and so as an interest. i so know what it's like not to tell some things. i realized that my god, lord and we laughed there with mine. well, also with my fellow girls, which is simple we realized that life is lived in vain. why am i naturally like? well, because, well, as soon as i arrive, so then you will say there that that's what it is, well, and we'll watch it there. it turns out that everything went there. well, what does it say, so you love sex. i love it too. but this , too, this is also such from childhood that i can’t imagine that’s when what you don’t talk about. yes , we did not talk about sex in general. we seem to have learned that sex is a shame, although sex is one of the best things that nature has come up with thanks to sex, in general exists. yes? naturally, how pairs and pairs are formed in this way. children, thanks to sex , children were able to keep up with sex. simply put , sex shops sex shops are best friends, and women are men's competitors. these are the companions, because

sometimes they coped all their lives without it all their lives, without it. just don't get it, really. we are so clear. you have to start over all over again. well, look, i, as a sexologist, very often see couples who love each other, yes, who have lived a lot together with their children in general. they are best friends. they want to save the family, but everything in sex has long since died. and they are still living people 40 45 50, 35. here, too, a sex shop very often has some kind of toys, some kind of variety. this is what helps these families to keep going on , sometimes most women do not experience orgasm. only well, without clitoral stimulation, for example, and the sex shop sells things that help, which are very convenient to hold in your hands and stimulate the clitoris during intercourse. now. in short, i also want to say, because here, that is, you should not be ashamed of this to go to a sex shop. i'm just telling you a specific head in pride and how dad swims there. and tell me what is simple, we still return to the children. mm the question is,

if you watch too, i very often with the children some kind of film. yes, now all the children are watching, in principle, adult films and all together, and some kind of scene begins there. hmm, they kiss there , or even something else. yes, and you, as if i always sit like this and every time i look like that, i understand, i squeeze into the sofa. i'm sitting like that, sitting like this, nothing happens. i don't know how to behave. well, ideally, of course, take care. yes, there is something to understand. this film, so that it does not turn out that you are watching a film together, well, which is still too early for a child to show, but very often in fact now very often they tell me, all parents watch with their children. e films that are watching this together, but the good news is that this one, let's say, is traumatized, but from some kind of porn scene or erotic scenes that the child accidentally saw. and this is a relatively rare story. yes, and more often it concerns girls, that is, boys. very often even enthusiastically perceive this is your reaction to ignore. this is one of the options. well, that's a good response. let's just say it's a good response. yes, if you do not need to emphasize, yes, if the child is very small, you are faced with this, and he did not understand, he asks a question. we always have to

answer the child's question within the gardens, if it will be more, i understand the question. and if you just watch along with the child, here comes the constantly applied or, for example, it must be addressed to something, it must be said so. listen it's there what you now saw that you feel good to talk to ask. yes, an adult will tell you how you feel. mom listens. well, they are. well, how is it all , how is it also literary, what do you feel, he say mom you don’t understand that when they grow up after 10 years, it won’t be like that with him, what do you feel. they are already so mature. they close you right away, you know? they didn't think about it that you now noticed you. as a matter of fact, i don't want to talk about it. okay, well, another very important question. by the way, about whether we should they say that it is very important for children's upbringing that dad and mom close in the room and have sex , the child should know this if the child understands, yes, that parents also have sex. they have a sex life. it's okay more. if he has any questions. most likely, you can ask questions. yes, is it okay to say? look

, it's intimate, we don't discuss it with you. this is our life necessarily, of course i mean that the child should hear how the parents have sex. yes, it's already border violation. moreover, they should see it. no you hear see, understandable. i don't have to know what mom and dad are to close. and there they can understand it. yes, they don’t have to hide it there , wait until all the children fell asleep there, you know, there is a psychoanalyst. there, or some kind of access of the child to the bedroom is endless, when it happens that the child is sleeping, by the way, is also an important issue for sexual education. the child sleeps with the parents. yes, it's very common. mm. how would yes, yes, that's it, how's that how's that, i'm actually also that's the question and i my children there slept with me until a certain age, we, as it were, work all the time and they uh-huh were very bored, and i didn’t seem to be embarrassed that there was a child sleeping with me, for example, we sleep a hug there. there until any until 7 years. even up to some it is possible or not, in general. here, in general, it is better to move the children to your room as early as possible, and the mother and the girl can sleep. that's

how at the age of five, six, if a child is bored and comes to you, i want to sleep with you in an embrace. and if the boy, that's how children face it, then met the need it is necessary to understand that in boys it is even necessary to begin early enough. well, kids have erogenous zones and stuff. and they start early enough. we're turbocharged. that is here to save. so to speak, eh well healthy borders. yes, so that, well, it doesn’t happen that by chance the children, well, the parents will contact the genitals , yes, to ensure hmm, and it’s better to move the children to secure boundaries, so to speak, to another room, as early as possible, while there are a lot of cultures where they sleep together practiced there are a lot of families where just, well, living conditions they don’t allow it. and here we have to think about how to reduce these kinds of risks, that is, well, there, so that everyone is in their pajamas, for example, if uh. well, of course, there are a lot of questions. here, i also have it there, for example, when the boys were already big enough. i breastfed masha.

yes, they saw it, as it were, that is, it is difficult to hide, as if this is also the same, as if, when they do not see their mother, as if feeding, for example, that is, how it affects the life of the child. this is also so very so so much these subtle things that we do not know. i personally find it easier to sexualize breasts. yes, the fact that the chest is such a refrigerator for a child, that is, that is, very nourishing for a normal woman. well, it is clear that the interest. with a baby baby, and here in priority. yes, a woman should be able to feed her child. e at any time when the child is needed. is it possible to hide from older children, who are still very small, it is better to hide. if not, but there are special ones out there. well and in terms of, in principle, if you already have two boys like that, yes, it’s better, well, a teenager at that time, so that they don’t keep these boundaries, but there are families. there are cultures where i have problems. how does this affect the future? just not clear to a child. so here i am not, and there are no unambiguous studies that if a child sees a naked

parent, it ruined everything that he does not have. there are a lot of much more terrible things that children can see and experience and this does not destroy their psyche. come on at the end of our conversations. we will summarize so briefly. at what age? what are some important things to say to a child, so that at least in a nutshell we outline some points, and to make it easier to start somewhere. they are very small, yes, anatomy is hygiene. yes, there, how, how to wash these things and so on, who can touch you the rules of panties in two, in fact, i say, they start earlier. and then, and any situation that arises from the outside well, for example, i don’t know, a neighbor is pregnant, questions about the tummy begin. what where from? children are taken? yes, that’s all, they are children who start early enough and ask if we are allowed to run. the main thing in the apartment. and if everyone there is same-sex, well, if it's some kind of, well, it's normal there, as a given culture, if everyone else is different. and so to speak, issues related to sexuality are strictly observed by the border, too, here are older

children. she changes clothes with them. it is possible. until what age will you have time, so that later you will not be told, mom, everything is fine. until what to reach the age of ten to have time to tell the boys there like this, in order to be good you need to start already from two to three, well, from two he will not understand yet, he has never fallen in love, when to be in time somehow he is already well, he is such such an almost young man , but should start about 3-5 years before we expect any events. yes, at 10 years old. maybe we can definitely talk about the counterattack. yes, what is coming for boys at this age already, it means that such a child wanted to prepare for changes, then he becomes so hairy, uncle hairy. so you can think of your child. oh this is my little boy, weight, hairy mood changes do not fall in love. that is , this is all they need to prepare for this. yes , everything that happens there begins. yes , in human terms, they should know about it for them

to masturbate. interests are already love. in short, you need to have time to discuss this, then already. well, a little bit, a little bit, carefully look, well, look what is comfortable to discuss, what is not. what the child is talking about . yes, it is better, of course, to outsource it. yes, and the child will be easier on you. yes, for this we need again. we need a system. in general, i want to recap. our conversation with quality in general, we need to start talking to each other more, talk more with children in general, about everything, and in everything, not only about sex and about sex, too , and then somehow we will slowly go over to the fact that there is sex, but there should be and in the fact that it is beautiful, and in general, so that our children are ready for this. it was a sex by the light podcast. i am anna banshchikova and my friend is a sexologist. amina nazaralieva. we talked about sexual education of children.

psychic podcast, my name is natalya loseva i am a journalist and my co-host clinical psychologist phd in psychology mikhail khors and our guest maria filatov maria what happened you know, i will immediately start with the problems that i have i am the mother of six children 27-25 23 20 15 and eight we now live in a big nice apartment, and my problem is that my adult children are riding me, that is, they don’t want me at all, let alone help with something. yes, although we are normal relationship, if i'm one on one with someone, yes, that is, for example, with my eldest daughter. yes, that is, it is now we, i married her a wonderful relationship now in october. yes, she got out. and how many children live in the apartment

now there are five and you have a problem with whom with adult children? ah, two daughters and a son, that is the problem, what is the problem is that everyone wants me to be as before, i practically raised them alone, yes, that is, i worked all the time, took me to school in kindergarten in a manger for distant lands. i wanted to give them everything the best. what is the problem? the problem is that they are not something that they can't do to me, well, they don't do anything around the house. and even now, when they have already studied and received a good education, and they are all with a profession now, well, practically, yes, that is, they would all finish the kolyvryat work. and i'm not talking about the material. what are you asking? yes , i don’t know how to pay for the joint there, i don’t participate financially in any way, because it starts. why me? yes, that is , why should i give ?

the school doesn't help you either. well , maybe they somehow compensate for this by participating there with younger sitters. that's just the problem, that nothing is cleaning, no help with the younger ones, right? that is, i again drive the school myself and there are still problems that i suddenly began to work little, yes, when i was eight six, four two. i also went to two more jobs. ah here is, but me then was not so years. how much they have now grown up and want me to again do only household chores. that is, i cooked more for everyone else pickles, because someone doesn’t eat, onions, someone doesn’t eat carrots, this is fried, this is steamed, and even with all this, i should not have any personal life at all maria, i understand correctly that everyone eats at home and cook , basically i'll take it out. yes, everything is not. of course they can eat lunch. i

don’t understand at all now who returns when and who goes where, wait for the food in the refrigerator, i just put the food in and buy it. i, because no one goes to my store on their own , you have to go to the store with your own money to see refrigerator, everyone who uses the refrigerator, but of course, they may not eat, they may not dine. for example, if i cook something a lot. for example borscht. yes, they ate it, only on the first day on the second on the third. i flush it down the toilet. sorry further. why are you cooking borscht? whole pan, you know, i'm now and in complete confusion this is my problem. i do not understand, yes, how should i behave in this situation, what should i do, but sign the products or what? yes? or like, what's the problem? well, that is, touching the refrigerator someone brought. i don't know who brought, for example, cottage cheese. yes, another daughter got up in the morning and ate this cottage cheese. and so, who bought it, she gets up a little later and says. and where is my cottage cheese, then his?