friends, hello this is a sex in the light podcast. i am anna banshchikova, i will talk today with a sexologist, a beautiful beautiful woman, my friend, and dear nazar aliyeva, we will talk about such an important topic about the sexual education of children. i had a situation where i have three children, my eldest 15-13 has two boys 13-15. you know my daughter is five years old and somehow i was there, i don’t know there, let’s say my daughter saw mine there, and the eldest son washes in the shower, this team ran in horror , this team runs. mom, did you see what he had? he hurts. you know, there are some we just and you , as it were, she was very small, she was 3 years old. and you, but in such rasstelinnosti. you know what in general, how and what to say there, you start to somehow say that there he is a boy. there you are a girl, she in the sense, and what does he have there at all? mom is what it is like, that is, all these questions or there, and some even small children. e, you know , there mom, and here you have sisi and when i have

sisi, you start, like a fool, that you are little, here you grow up there, and you they will also be, in short, and here and every time this is a stopper, in fact, absolutely this is for all parents. and what can we say about children who are adults? well, yes, and actually i was going to tell you about it, that it is very important that the information that we give the child corresponds to his age and the situation that happened to your daughter. yes, when she saw her brother's penis and was afraid of this word. here i specifically emphasize that who is this? we need to speak directly, daughter, not a cockerel, there is a penis, well, somehow it is sounds strange when you start explaining to a child where his eyes are. i swear like girls. it's somehow she somehow they all understood where the ears are, mom, look, this is it . show your eyes. here are the eyes. but this is the spout, and here are the handles and suddenly some kind of zone. yes, a in the zone yes does not study it is strange. yes , if a child doesn’t know from childhood, it’s not called a vulva and it’s called a cookie, because it can go to tell, yes, that i’m

sad today because my dad ate it. eating my cookies again is a true story. it's so in the garden incest was not recognized as a sexual abuse that could have been stopped earlier. if a child called a spade a spade, that is, a girl called things so simply and therefore said so, that is, so that they could m-m name what they have there with their organs, where they hurt, where they tried to touch, then, if teach the child, he will come and tell the truth. you know, i remember too, i guess everyone at school started telling you, and i actually kind of, well, never told this story to anyone. at my school, too, probably everyone at school had it there i don’t remember any teacher, there was physics or mathematics. and how do i remember that somehow he somehow touched me, and what is it? like a child, i don't understand what it is? i don't even have to tell anyone. i don't understand at all, okay. it's not normal at all, what it is it's awful more out there. yes, i often hear this argument that earlier in the soviet union , under the union, everything was not like that, everyone lived there, they respected each other. everything was clean , it was visible, of course, that is, there was nothing even about it. even think about it, that is, we

were so ignorant. in fact, we didn’t even understand what it meant, as if in general, in principle, i didn’t understand , i can tell you that i went to an ordinary soviet moscow kindergarten, and i saved my sisters twice. once, apparently, she finished her, who tried to lead him all the island behind the house somewhere in the yards, enticing her with candy. she is the second time in broad daylight, the tram in the presence of other people is an anti-hibitionist. well, actually took out his penis and tried to wipe off his sister. i was years old seven. i somehow settled down in my head that with other people's uncles. yes, what is it that it is something dangerous, i felt that it was something dangerous. yes, mom herself never spoke to us. just need to understand the parents. for example, i never. honestly, i have three children, i have never talked. that's how you say, you need to sit down with the child and somehow start talking about it, that is, it was not like this in your thoughts, and somehow all this. i never know. mm, that is , you need to need to put the child on and somehow tell about it everything that it is very convenient to take a book, for example, a children's book;

now there are many excellent books translated into russian. and there i have, probably, about everything. uh-huh my daughter chooses which one she wants to read and honestly, when i was younger, we skipped some topics for which she had not yet reached. and what directly to read the book or how? yes, and there are drawings in these books. it's not just about sex there. yes, here is a big misconception that it's all about sex right porn shows for children no there about intimate places. there's hygiene right there about what, and no one needs with everyone in a row. spend kiss hug and touch. yes, and you are exactly the same, if you want to hug someone, ask permission, that is, such very banal things about e-socialization about the fact that the internet, yes, and as if i never had it. i believe, i believe, i bring up my children with such freedom and no limits. that is, they watch whatever they want. and in general, as with this, to be honest, it’s scary to me that just now we were talking about the older guys. what can they climb on any site, yes, and to see something that is for the child's psyche, in general, uh, well, it's scary. i

can’t imagine what i saw there, i don’t know, but at such an unripe age. i can't imagine what it would be like with me. how much it is necessary to limit chinese bans, or then it’s all the same, all these bans always, then they will see somewhere, because we live in such a modern world , you can’t get away from this. and how to deal with it in general. i, when i think about it, i'm just scared, and i know that they, of course, they get in there. and how they cope with it is not clear. look, i agree with you. we live in a digital world. yes, and our children at one, two or three. you see, the blockages can already be eliminated and a ban should be placed on the child, or still , of course, where you can, you need to protect the child. yes, especially repulsive material. well, you know, citizens, i also had an example. here in my youth there i was friends with such a girlfriend, and she lived there with me in the neighborhood. she studied music all day long, and everything was forbidden to her. she didn’t go anywhere. her parents walked so strictly and raised her, then she grew up and there she turned 16 years old. she went down in general in all serious, that is, it is not necessary to protect until 16 16 is already too late. it's late. i mean 5 years there. so it is necessary,

for example, nothing was forbidden to me there. yes, my dad asked there, i don’t know, i’ve been there for 12 years , let’s go there for a smoke, there, more precisely, he says, dad, i didn’t smoke. he says, come on, let's stop, let's go smoke, dad, i don't smoke, they don't do it there. it’s like, really, nothing like that has ever been forbidden to me and never they talked to me about it, but i didn’t do some things, i just didn’t do it, and that ’s it, it’s like maybe because i had such freedom, that is, it’s also not clear what to do with it. how better. look, first of all, what are the key principles yes, the key ones agree with you that raising children is in the spirit. freedom is good. well , they need to be educated in such a way that it is freedom, well, it is limited, where there is a danger to children, and educate them in such a way that they know the danger. you don't know what he's watching. yes maybe he got on some site there , i don’t know what he died at all, for sure, he will see. yes, violent porn is simple, because ever since internet porn content has also grown, it’s just exponentially roses, and now my friends,

whose sons accidentally stumbled upon a time, are contacting me . not because dad left something there or there , i faced the earliest already in four-six years. ah, the boys stumbled upon when they saw sexual intercourse. uh, uh, in some porno material and it's the same, well, firstly, i want to reassure my parents that someone would not have happened alone. secondly, they didn’t see everything, but obedience, it’s clear that they are watching all this, and they see all this , and it’s clear that they stumbled. that's so difficult. the thing to stumble upon here is that apparently, probably, as i think, as a mother, too , as if my intuitive is, as i think, that here i am. the main task of parents is to teach how to separate, like grains from pleev. yes, to teach a child to see to hear, probably, yes, that is, it’s probably brought up somehow, probably, it’s necessary from this start off. well, before absolutely. yes , the child's idea of ​​what is healthy sexuality, what is not, that is, they lay some foundation. probably at first yes , before we talk, and then maybe, that's how i think, then maybe

we won't have to talk. that's the question, you know? no, if you somehow pawned, he himself understands that he doesn’t need this, that it’s not his there, yes, because you won’t talk about contraception with a five-year-old. yes, you have an older son who 15 and about contraception, you should have talked to him a long time ago. yes, they told me at the moment when it’s funny all the time, how will i talk to him, i still tell them you at the beginning, well , tell me, there, you still fell in love that he is looking at me mom. mom, like, hello, garage, i know for sure, so mom's face is mom, i understand about it more than you understand what you called sex. so it was, a runny nose. i saw my son somehow there on the phone. i saw that he was subscribed to some telegram channel about sex or some a bunch of these channels, and he subscribed to the very thing that he reads and studies there and it’s clearly not from the reaction that it’s already, as it were, at what age in general , children begin to do this, when they generally, in fact, do it. tell me, please, i'm about to fall,

so i don't need to. i do not want it. i don't want to know, because, well, somehow in our time. at what age do children e happen. eh, what is your word called? depends on the kids. yes, what do we know, we know that where there is a program, yes, an integrated sex education. children start having sex later. it's where it 's at. it's been proven that this is already three well-known one of the common fears of conservative parents, that now we'll start uh-huh to lead sex education. and all our children, our blossoms will start with this. i do not know sadoma gomorrah wedding sin. and all these horrors of pregnancy, infection, and so on, in fact, exactly the opposite. and what do they say there? it is interesting in such lessons just like this, well, they tell the appropriate age, what knowledge gives them you must not miss it, while, it seems, the child is small, like, still unhappy, and then

once again he says, mom, that is , it is necessary somehow in general to find a balance in time, because sex. same. well, not only pleasure, it is also a responsibility. and it's more and more talking to children. in fact, it is not only with children and adults that we need to learn how to talk more, to discuss some things in general, in principle, it seems to me that we all have such a big problem that we can be offended. we can shut up. can to hide something somehow, but this is to sit down and talk, in general, this is the most important thing that can be between people, in general, people should talk to each other and say some things. yes, i absolutely agree with you, as a sexologist, as a psychotherapist often. i see couples in which, well, just a full week. yes, they are best friends. they can talk about absolutely everything, but sex is such a sphere, only for them it is sensitive and quivering. i never discussed the most basic issues. sex is bad, sex is terrible, it can lead to needing, of course, it's basically it can it's 90. i'm very sad about five percent of families in general. in general, in principle, they are not discussed in any way, but by and large. it's an important part of life. yes, this is, well, one of the most key parts, so the couple break up

because they don’t discuss. this is generally some kind of forbidden topic no one. as a result, having lived there, i don’t know with my wife for 25 years and doesn’t know what i really like and how scary she is, of course, and because of this because of this and the children. well, that is, we kind of just all grew up in all this, and we somehow became all the same people, that is, also in some incomprehensible way. then you know what happens very often people are embarrassed to talk about sex. for example , men come to me, and he is convinced that his wife, she doesn’t want sex, doesn’t like sex. in general, she would even be offended by raising her, so to speak. the question he decides for himself. well, different people decide differently for themselves, let's say, the way they cope with the fact that they are not satisfied sexually. who's masturbating there? someone goes, so to speak, to the side, someone gets mistresses, someone goes to prostitutes and thinks that it's, well, safer for the family because there's no emotional connection. yes, there are no children on the side and and this is also part of the problem. yes , because even now in the evening it is distributed in heterosexual couples. that's about

among ours with you more balanced and very often the story, when the wife first finds out. and that she has hiv when she is already pregnant, her husband infected her, who, like this, sent her money for using, not using a condom, because he looked at her skin is good clean or is it some kind of me i know a colleague and a neighboring case, and he does not admit that she may be unwell. and this is also, yes, if he had a sex enlightenment at school, he would have known there for 10 years 12 years. what, well, sex only with a condom. well, well, first of all, he knew what abstinence was, maybe there would be absolutely no guarantee of anything. again, there is an opinion that i’ll tell you more about sex enlightenment, that here is our generation of our parents, who have lived there all their lives, and in fact , there may be even more such strong marriages for a long time, and it seems to us that they had such love there and people lived there together for 50 years. now this does not exist at all and they did not have any sex clearance. that is, this is such a question, which, as i understand it, is very acute. uh, you need to introduce, but is this lesson with a gap in the school or not?

or somehow they managed without it before and somehow everything was better, but now we are leading this sex of the gap. in general, in general, in short, the nightmare will be complete even worse than now, when everything has become so accessible now in general now, in fact, no one needs to take a girl to a restaurant there to talk to her about something. something is now all so simply turned off the internet. i ’m all these things are somehow called, when relationships on video , this is all sex on video, she does everything you say, sometimes you don’t have to have dinner anywhere. no need to talk. you don't need anything. just so easily accessible now our kids are having less sex. what is our generation with you. so where are you terribly when you're terrifying? i actually think about it too. yes, they start later. still, they start later. even we will now return to this issue, when this happens, that very intercourse in children. at what age now is this the average age, i have two boys 13 and 15 years old. i don't know, to be honest with you. now i’ll repeat to you that i don’t know, did they have the way you think to answer this question, but we know the statistics that the earlier the children start, the better

the chance that it was a story about russia it was not about consent, therefore, and in many ways stop, please wait. no, wait. well, i mean, like, well, they can't fall in love at 15, and like 15 from 15 , let's say everything below 14 is already a very, very serious, red flag 15 child. may fall in love. well, this teenager is already 15 years old. yes, if they have a difference there for a couple of years, it's ok if she is 15, he is 25, and he is there, i don't know, the teacher is a huge red flag. they tell me that this is already history well, illegal, and if she is 16, we agree that age is 16, yes, in general, allow it , as it were, if, let’s say, my son says, and so my girlfriend is my 13 years old. for example , i know that my thirteen-year-old son is from me now. here he is with a girl. and i girls. how many odnoklassniki yes? well, look, when children are the same age there is a higher chance that there is no abuse. from no side. i understand this, just in general, here, in principle, if they meet here, how should i behave , just how should i do something, as it were

oh, friend. did such people buy ice cream well there or how will the coloring pages go to you? yes, with paint i don't know or what it’s just normal, as it should, somehow he brought the girl home, let’s say. i need to behave, what they are like, well, they certainly have something. here, yes, i am, so i did this along with the seed decides for myself. yes, i would have met the parents of this girl , i would have known whether or not this relationship was in the know. yes, that is, for this age. i'm probably already. hmm would judge contraception is the very age when children have what problems they have, their bodies change, they start together. wait, how do they meet? how are they here such adults this girl does not know, they came to me. no, he sent me a photo. there is such a girl already, you just understand, she’s just like that in general, we were like that, another 13 years. actually 13 years old. they're just girls on drops already all over with boobs so the whole girl is already serious, you know? i really hope

not. i really hope that no one is romantically involved, but to be sure. yes, yes, i must understand myself about the age of consent, yes, and about contraception and about consent, because what is consent? yes, i have such a wonderful son, who is very very i don't know understands, that is, i'm wondering, they already have how would i feel about this, you know? how already how. eh, in general, just about the elder. in general, i, who needs to be 2 years older there, is already an adult man, you know, yes, another important point is that he, too, may not be ready. that is, it's okay, but he himself must understand himself. yes that sex is a responsibility? yes, and that there are some, well , somehow learn a child so that he understands what it is. well, how cool it is, how would he as if he was prepared, as soon as you talk about it, for this he must get a positive experience. yes, he should at least see these models. yes, if you can’t talk about it there, someone must be in his life who can talk about it with him. maybe it could be some kind of podcast. i don't know blogger. yes, they can be friends. yes, it is best if it is a specialist. yes, what kind of someone from the outside yes, not

a teacher, well, not a teacher at school, because it will be difficult for children. someone sorry somehow often happens. yes, specifically some sex ikeer who comes so that they can anonymously ask a question, yes , about everything that worries them and talk to the network changers about how this first time happens. what to do? where to stay? how to understand yes dick pants or not, as a method or not? how to put on a condom correctly? the first time is a very important problem there, you know, i can't, i'll be honest. here i am i can explain to my child when somewhere there is a condom for sure, that's why we need sex clearance, yes, if it will be someone, yes, neutral some person, neutral, who will come. yes, and plus everything, children will have access to condoms, because a pack of condoms is now more expensive than i don’t know, that is, let’s still say that we are with you, here you and i are two women who have children, as it were , yes, we think that it’s still sex enlightenment, because it was discussed, yes, it was discussed by mothers discussed with someone in some chats i know and a lot was said about this, that we are still for having sex - light, of course, and not

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the translation into russian was not quite correct, but there is meaning in this performance. yes , it’s like hanging there, yes, it should be close and clear, yes, how did i perform? yes, i'll do it. i think for a boy. it's very, very exciting. does it matter how it happens? for example, i remember my childhood there, i remember that i kissed in the entrance there with the boys, and then there he kissed, what do we have there and then a friend ran away once, for example, yes, i keep thinking, why don’t i run away some strange ones, what where do they run? what happened everything on tomatoes or did you learn to kiss on what? oh, it means you didn’t learn the words. as you know, she knows, or something at once. yes, but you know that, as an actress. i think like that's how to become an actress. i believe that it is impossible to teach this, either you feel it or not. that's all. you are my opinion, that's why, uh, i'm so ironic about how it is can be taught. well, probably a young man is a boy. it’s just that i, as it were, recently began to think that my son somehow felt like a man that he didn’t exist. that's some kind of fear he has,

so about it. yes, look here, this is also sx-clearance. this also addresses, because they teach like this. yes, closer to this age begins to discuss the relationship. what is a good healthy relationship? what is an unhealthy attitude, including these gender stereotypes are discussed, for example, very often men learn that i should always be on horseback, yes, and rex i should have steel in any situation. it doesn't matter, i want to. i don't want this woman, but i slept. i've been there satisfactorily for the past few days or not, whether i'm healthy or not. and very often men's self-esteem is tied. yes on this sexy performance. so let's call him. here imposed, of course, generally lose. it's like hanging on girls. it should be there so-and-so it is necessary at the same time innocent, yes , socially attracted. she wants what they want, but at the same time she wants only after the wedding and her husband and, in general, and radiate sexuality so that the husband went crazy from him and everyone around her wanted, that is, a bunch of contradictory these attitudes, although

sexuality. well, male and female. she looks a lot like a slender general sexy. it's something in general. hey, it's the brain. how the human brain works. yes? that is, these are young girls, i think yes, i know, there are a lot of girls going there, they will redo everything there, i don’t know, some crazy eyelashes, boobs are inserted there. uh, these lips are not about sexuality, in general, sexuality already some kind of other thing and a man in general, in fact. so i can just really say that they don’t notice all these things, i generally notice. only your energy. and in general, sex is a monster, it is through the brain. it's not even not through. that's the perception. that's how uh let's tell the girls it's true. this is exactly what i want. today i take this opportunity, because we are talking with you, which is true. it's about something else. love - it's not connected. uh, the size of your breast eyelashes. there are stupid. it's about something completely different. it's about some supports individuality, because color - it should also draw. you know what is important, it seems to me that this is very important for which, by the way, sex is very important , so that girls it seems to me that they were accepted by girls, because the body of absolutely small selves accepted their

individuality, the more you differ from, on the contrary, differ from another girl, who may be, do you think there is better than you in some respects. it has nothing to do with what you have. they love and will want you and you will have love. this is very important to convey. that's it for little girls, of course even. here is my petty looks some imposed. well, there is youtube that turns on, and any second you turn on a soviet cartoon there, you just go somewhere, it ended crocodile gena and there are already some. so, the girls tell my little child there about some kind of wait, even in soviet cartoons i remember what kind of princesses there are. here with such waists. yes, almost all blondes are sure to exact a lot. and this is not only about sexual self-doubt, and women in general have a worse sexual experience than men in many respects because of this anxiety that i am somehow not like that. yes, they can not relax the bed, yes, plus these here, yes. these are very stop stereotypes. it's very scary, because these girls. i think in bed. they look like they look like this and take selfies in parallel , nothing at all. well, as it were, it seems to me

that today is an imposed today. these are the stereotypes. it's creepy. generally scary. tell me if women have looked at us now or there are parents hmm and decided to go home. how to educate our child, so we want sex enlightenment where to lead, if this subject is not available at school, who can i turn to at all, how is it to look for a sexologist? here is someone like you or how in general, who will do it? well, look, i think that yes, we need to look for some specialists yes, teachers. i would recommend looking for books, yes, from childhood to accustom yourself. yes, this is to start reading and talking about it. that is. this is the first time terribly embarrassing and difficult. here is the second time a little less embarrassing difficult, but the thirty- third time. you will speak calmly and easily, there i don’t know the penis of the vulva. that 's how i say it, well, i did not deign, after all, somehow you know very well so literary. it sounds, of course. i didn’t write that i started talking about my child there masha is the vulva. well somehow i do i can't have me not well, we need some kind of word. yes, and at the same time, so that it is not sexual, it is very charging.

but it's very somehow very you know how like that your actor, they say it's very kind of literary. it's very difficult to apply to life, you know? how is it all. i think. in what sense even it is good, because it allows here it. yes, save everything so that it is not completely different. i promise you today, but i don't know how it is. here. i just want to try it myself after our conversation, because i have never done it again now, then you understand, when they are already they will tell you that they are not friends. there they will have their love relationship. it is clear that they will use another because i have a vulva. and what is it when my mother mom told me normally, and then my mother will come to uh , some other mother will come to the kindergarten, a children's matinee, who will know that she will look at me, how are you sure that your child is you have several, right? it's more of a question to educate, because children play doctors in kindergarten. they see it all. i now remembered the story. we recently filmed a short film. uh, so small

a short meter is a small short movie like that. i played there hmm a woman who came to a sex shop for the first time, which is the first time she's ever been alone there. to buy something for myself in a sex shop and filmed. in short, we spent the whole day just in a huge sex shop. it's just that we were filming and the whole film crew was in this huge sex shop. and it’s clear that i’m, for example, an actress, i can’t go into a sex shop, but how would i know everything there, and i would be wildly embarrassed there. i've never lived there at all was almost once, when there was still quite her voluminous age, and here we were all day. i mean, we filmed there all day, and that's it. could be considered. in general, we laughed so much there that for some reason i understood, i understood that life. it's just in vain , just honestly, i wanted to look, which means, and what is it you know? it's just that i had the right to ask, because i'm kind of just like there. by chance. i'm shooting a movie. i just found myself so interested in quality. i'm so it's not telling some things. i realized that my god, lord, and we they laughed with mine. well, also with my colleague girls here. we just realized that life is lived in vain. why am i naturally

like? well, because, well, as soon as i arrive, so then i’ll say that that’s what she is, well, and there we look at her, and she turns out to be everything she wants to go there. well. that's enough too. you love sex. i love you free. but this, too , this is also such from childhood that i can’t imagine that’s when what you don’t talk about. yes, we did not talk about sex in general. we seem to have learned that sex is a shame, although sex is this is one of the best things that nature has come up with through sex, in general, there is. yes? naturally, how couples and couples are formed thanks to sex, children were born to be in time, if we talk about sex shops, sex shops are best friends, and women of men are not competitors for this. these are companions because sometimes people manage without it. just do not understand, really we are, well, everything is clear. you have to start over all over again. well, look, as a sexologist, i often see couples who love each other, yes who live together a lot, they generally have

children. they are best friends. they want to keep the family. well, everything in sex has died a long time ago. and they are still living people 40 45 50, 35. here, too , a sex shop very often has some kind of toys , some kind of variety. this is what helps these families to keep going on, sometimes most women do not experience orgasms. only well, without clitoral stimulation, for example, and the sex shop sells things that help, which are very convenient to hold in your hands and stimulate the clitoris during intercourse. now. in short, i also want to say, because here, that is, you don’t have to be embarrassed to come in, and that’s it. i'm just telling you a specific head with pride and how peacocks swim there. a tell me what is simple we will still return to the children . hmm the question is, if you watch, too, i very often have some kind of film with the children. yes, now all the children are watching, in principle, adult films and all together, and some kind of scene begins there. hmm, they kiss there, or even something else. yes , and you, as if i always sit like that every time. that's how i see it and did it. i squeeze into the sofa.

i'm sitting like this, like i'm sitting like this, nothing happens. i don't know how to behave. well, ideally, of course, take care. yes, there is something to understand. this film, so that it does not turn out that you are watching a film together, well, which is still too early for a child to show, but very often, in fact, very often now. it seems to me that all parents watch with their children. e films that are watching this together, but the good news is that this one, let's say, is traumatized, but from some kind of porn with or there erotic scenes that the child accidentally saw. and this relatively rare story. yes, and more often it concerns girls, that is, boys. very often, even with enthusiasm, this is perceived here is your reaction to ignore. this is one of the options. well, that's a good response. let's just say it's a good response. yes, if you do not need to emphasize, yes, if a very small child has encountered this, and he did not understand, he asks a question. well, you always need to answer the child's question for within the framework of the garden, if you have more, i understand the question. if you just watch with a child, there is constant violence, violence you need to draw something, you need to say so. listen it's there what you just saw that you feel good to talk to ask. yes, such an adult will say, you feel, mom

is listening. they are so, well, how is it also literary, that is, what do you feel, he will say mom little little or you don’t understand that when they grow up after 10 years you won’t be with him like that anymore, you feel, they are already so grown up, they you immediately, well, as if closed, you know? they didn't think about it, what do you notice now you, as in general, i do not want to talk about it. okay, well, another very important question. by the way, about the fact that they should know, they say that it is very important for children's upbringing that dad and mom close in the room and have sex, the child should know this if the child understands that parents also have sex. they have a sex life. it's okay more. if he has any questions. most likely, you can ask questions. yes? it's okay to look, look, it's intimate we're it we do not discuss. there, it's our life necessarily, of course, i mean that the child must hear how the parents have sex. yes, this is a violation of the boundaries. moreover, they should see it. no you hear see understandable. i have you should know that mum and dad are closed. and

there they can understand it. yes, they do not need to hide it, what to expect there? while everyone is asleep. the children there know the psychoanalyst there. there , or some kind of access of the child to the bedroom is endless, when it happens that the child is sleeping, by the way, this is also an important question for sex education. the child sleeps with the parents. yes, it's very common. mm. like yes, yes, like this, like with this like like this, i actually also this is a question and i am my children there until a certain age slept with me, and we kind of work all the time and they uh-huh very we were bored, and i didn’t seem to be embarrassed that there was a child sleeping with me, for example, we were sleeping with him there in an embrace. there, up to what there is up to 7 years, even up to some it is possible or not, in general. so, in general, it’s better to move the children to your place as early as possible. room, and the mother and the girl can sleep. that's how at the age of 5, six, if a child is bored and comes to you, he wants to sleep with you in an embrace. and if the boy is like this, well, i think that they are faced with children, then from the third one must understand that boys already have erections quite early. that is , it is even necessary, well, children have erogenous zones and

such and they begin to rub quite random 100 rubles. that is here to save. tell eh, healthy boundaries, yes, so that, well , it doesn’t happen that by chance children, well, parents will contact with their genitals, yes, to hmm ensure, and it is better to move the children to a different room, so to speak, as early as possible, while there are a lot of cultures where co-sleeping is practiced, there are a lot of families where it’s just, well, living conditions do not allow to do this and then we need to think about how to reduce these kinds of risks, that is, well, there, so that everyone is in pajamas, for example, if, uh, well , after all, parents parents, of course, there are a lot of questions. here, i also have it there, for example, when the boys were already big enough. i breastfed masha. yes, they saw it, as if, that is, it is difficult to hide, as if it is also like that, as if, when they see a mother, as if feeding, for example, that is, how does this affect the child? this is also so very so many of these subtle things that we don’t know. personally, i am against sexualizing breasts,

and what a breast and such a refrigerator for a child, that is, a source of nutrition for a normal and a woman. well, it is clear that the interest. baby baby, and here in priority. yes, a woman should have opportunity to feed your child. e at any time when a child is needed, is it necessary to hide from older children, who are still very small, such an opportunity is better to hide. yes? if not, well, there are some special ones. well, maybe there is a fee if you already have two boys like that, right? as if, well, a teenager, it’s better in general all the time so that they don’t keep these boundaries, but there are families. there is a culture where there are problems. how does this affect the future? it's just not clear on the child and i’m not here, but there are no unambiguous studies that if a child sees a naked parent, this is all razlozhsky. no, there are a lot of much more terrible things that children can see and experience and this does not destroy their psyche. come on at the end of our conversation. we will summarize so briefly. at what age? what are some important things to say to a child, so that

at least in a nutshell we outline some points, and to make it easier to start somewhere. they are very small, yes, anatomy is hygiene. yes there, how, how to wash these and so on, who can touch you the rules of panties in two in two, in fact, i say, earlier it starts and then, and any situation that arises from the outside well, for example, i don’t know, a neighbor is pregnant, questions about the tummy begin . what is there, where? children are taken? yes, that's all, they are children, they start early enough, they ask them all sorts of permissions to run waves around the apartment. and if everyone there is same-sex, well, if it's some kind of, well, it's normal there, as a given culture, if everyone else is different. and so say issues related to sexuality boundaries clearly. yes, a small one, too, here are older children. she changes clothes with them. it's possible. well, it is better to wean on the sly further. until what age will you have time, so that later you will not be told, mom, everything is fine. until what age to have time to ten to have time to tell the boys there like that, so that in a good one you need to start already from two to three, well, in two

he will not understand yet, he has never fallen in love, when to be in time, here again somehow he already well, he is such such an almost young man, but we should start about 3-5 years before we expect any events. yes, at 10 years old. maybe we can tell the exact proportions. yes, what is coming for boys at this age has already, therefore, flown off to prepare for change. who is all hairy becomes uncle hairy. so you can think of your child. oh this is my little boy, weight, hairy mood changes do not fall in love. that is, this is all they need to prepare for this. yes , everything that happens there begins. yes , polarity, they should know about it and masturbation, the interests are already falling in love. in short, you need to have time to discuss this later. well, a little bit, a little bit carefully, well , see what is comfortable to discuss, what is not. what the child is talking about. yes, it is better, of course, to put it up for auction. yes, and the child

will be easier for you or easier, yes, for this we need again. we need a system, we need this system, and i would like to summarize once again. our conversation is to say that in general we need to start talking to each other more to talk with children. in general, about everything, and in everything, not only about sex, and about sex, too, that’s then somehow we will slowly come closer to the fact that there is sex, and it should be that it is beautiful, and in general, so that our children will be this year. it was a sex by the light podcast. i am anna banshchikova and my friend is a sexologist. amina nazaralieva. we talked about the sex education of children. a novelty in the artra line of cream arthroxicam , a three-component composition contributes to the accelerated penetration of components at the beginning of modern anesthetics , the maximum concentration of arthroxicam for accelerated penetration into the focus of pain with products. prostokvashino shrovetide is tastier because they are 100% natural, so pancakes,

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