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news to this minute see you soon. have you ever told them how hard it was for you when you got divorced, when you bought an apartment , you bought it yourself. well, just here. yes, you once shared with them you told some episodes when it was very, very hard for you, when you were just exhausted, exhausted, why didn’t you see and don’t feel it seems to me that all this with them is about this spoke. what did you say and how many times? now i'm trying to say they they say, come on, everything is fine with the episode

that you tried to convey to them. that's when it was quite difficult. and you would really like your children to know and understand. and so that they sit down with you, your girls, and cry. because the heart could not be broken from that. to have them submit to you at some point. i had to deal with their illnesses. with their failures at school with a husband, whom i understand, you could not tear yourself away from the sofa, an unthinkable responsibility, which is actually women's fragile shoulders, but we must bear you told them something like that. well, i told them. well, somehow tell us no, well, here, i remember when the sixth is the sixth of april, yes, 2007, when i gave birth to my fifth child. i got up in the morning, took me with contractions

, drove the high school to sokol, then returned home to the kindergarten for two. excuse me, but the man who was sitting on the couch at that time was sleeping, mom, he just woke up, but in general, that's all that concerned. he says, well, you yourself want, why do you need a school with a spanish bias no at this moment, what he is doing at home. all he woke up and left and left. yes, he woke up and left. he even went to work there. he went from his mother, that is, his mother lived in a neighboring house. well, that is, he woke up, that's one, well, according to a certain regimen, and clearly went to his home there to his mother. and from there. he was already returning. and you yourself in this , in this whole story, what you felt. well, this was so hard for me, that is, further. i went to kindergarten alone. yes, one, that is , this. well, then i went to give birth. no more. not yet, then came back and took and

so, yes, and the garden was taken to preparatory courses. they told me that they urgently need a card. so i went to this fight. it didn’t draw me in, but i already knew what it was like to go to a tuberculosis dispensary. there some one had to take a certificate brought this certificate. just met with a friend. i say, i 'll probably take the subway, because i had to go. well, certain uh, the center there is family planning. so it's a completely different county. yes she says are you crazy or what? i say, well, how are the traffic jams? i don't i'll get there. well, on the subway. i'm fine, but i had to take me home. well, i took it home. understood? what all? well, and here i say, then good. i called him, he came, how would we get there and it turned out that i just gave birth and in 10 minutes you told this story in your children. well , here is the eldest, but she knows, because she was told or not, the lions told. this is how you tell us. well, specifically no why? well

, because we had no time, when we are at home, we only have conversations on sweat topics, who went where and who does what mom robot mom. and for some reason, yes , the most offensive, yes, that is, they don’t understand what i need in general, that i even want to sleep, yes, that is, i come home. what did you do at home today? but after all, you can have some kind of personal life, right? well, i'm not allowed to do this. i no longer speak there. well, because you have a little kid talking. only to whom the older children speak. who will you leave him with? well, as a matter of fact, i can date my girlfriend. yes, only during the day because here i was taken to school and at 6:00. i need to pick her up, how small again your child is small. well, well, that is, to our school, well, to the second grade, yes, that is, not near the house. and here is the child, who is the second one from the end, how old is he, 15-15 years old with him , i can specifically agree with him, but you can still train with him, yes, well, he is watching,

he too. and why am i here and why i have and the problem now is that as with these two. they'll grow up like that too i generally what to do, most likely, such. if you do not change, then i have stopped working a lot now. yes? well, well, anyway , oh-oh-oh, this is not that change in the refusal of the psyche. my name is natalya losva. i am a journalist. and my co-host clinical psychologist, candidate of psychological sciences mikhail khors and our heroine maria with a very difficult situation with children. i would even say a wonderful heroine, and we admire you. but now, answer me, please, maria to the question. who do you think shows our children? an example of how to we care how they can find out that mom needs to be protected, that mom needs help, that when you eat in this house you need

to pay for this food. well, the answer is society as a whole is correct, but more specifically, who exactly is in this society? well, i think that i , as it were, should set an example, yes, that is , no. you should set an example of what? well , i don’t care about my mother or how. there is no way to learn, you see, you are not here at all. you once gave them the opportunity. they said maybe they were little ones to take care of themselves. well, for example, you said there their eldest children when they were five or six years old married their eldest daughter. where is the independence of the eldest daughter, even if she is even married at the age of 27? well, that's what parents say. okay, so, because, well, i have them quite independent. they even talk to me now, they say, well, you’re raw together, but with your daughter and your little one, you

yourself would have left somewhere. and here we are without you , this is called independent. yes? let's go back anyway. that's the question of who can show them an example of what is possible about you take care of your parents, for example. well, somehow i don't. well, we live separately. my mother lives separately, in my opinion, with my mother yes, my father died. wait you take care of your mom. well, only she has two brothers. well, it means that she lives with her brother. i'm at the post office. just as much as i can, dear. maria, you take care of yourself. about yourself. yes, i want to, but now, only i don’t have the opportunity to take care, but only now, i probably realized that i need to take care of myself too. and what i think is wild, sorry, right? but what you described to us. it is the sacrifice of sacrificing yourself to these children. and they can’t take an example from anywhere, you understand the children treat us the way we ourselves treat someone and you don’t treat children to yourself.

well, you know what kind of problem i had, that is, when well, i myself, but relax, that is, i have, and my mother never worked. and that is, there were three of us, you thought she did. and accordingly, we are there for an extended period. oh, for this, on a five-day week, we were in the camp for three shifts. i mean, i took care of myself. here i am mine mom wait five days. this is when well, in kindergarten, when your mother took you to kindergarten on monday and for 5 days of blockage, yes, that is, i also have this protest, you understand? that is, i felt so bad myself, so i remember my childhood here and , accordingly, when i had my children, yes, that is, there were also not three of them anymore to behave differently and left. extreme, you know, so what should i do to start not yet. and how is it now that i have to

either leave, which one is not to leave, yes, you put your life on this apartment, and now you see yes, and i also assume that the children, probably, can be hinted at. he probably changes. yes , it hints. yes, yes, class, you will change very well, no. i believe i said that this is our very home. that is, they were justified. you see, please, well, it means that since we are all together, that is, the family nest, as it were, yes. well, that is, that we will not change this apartment, but the legal one of this apartment, in general , only your legal apartments. this is yours, right? do you have a bedroom there bedroom? do you have your own? well, we have four rooms. here now just e. well, i'm with my little daughter. you don’t have your own space in the room, that is, you have your own corner. no, the kitchen is on i understand your kitchen, well, it's also a public place. well, i don’t know, but once again, you asked a few rapso-times a question. what to do? are you still not sure what to do?

i don't know how to implement it. yes? that is, as soon as i start caring. how do you talk about yourself. yes, for example, i say, i’ll go to the theater today with natalia and my friend, she tells me, and ira, and i don’t have anyone leave. what does it mean there is no one, firstly, ira has ira on the air for 8 years and the world , could, yes, listen, do not repeat the crude mistake that you made with the elder ugu ira for eight years, in principle, the evening can be alone, especially since it's not alone. there in the apartment. there are other people close to her. yes, i don't now. now i'm trying this, when, well, literally, i had a situation recently. yes, i went and immediately turn off the phone for me the theater, i'm returning there. well, understandable. yes, it all ends at 10:00. a there are a lot of calls. where are you? well then, where am i, and why did you leave her. why are you even answering these questions? you read

heart of a dog heart of a dog looked, maybe, but there is, well, remember to read this is what i don’t want to buy and magazines for the benefit of the children of germany. 50 kop. it's a pity, no children, do not sympathize sympathize? why do not buy do not want. and you have everything and you make excuses, somehow. well, how is this our family nest, so we will not sell it. and i should learn to say i don't want to. you have on it right? i went to the cinema and left ira at home because i want to. why are you afraid to do? so you're sure, it's obvious forever really. yes, why do you excuse michael because children are sacred, they are angels an angel. is it possible to refuse? and why were you afraid that some disgusting mother would tell you, that's what these people say, whom you raised, fed, gave them an education, ensured a normal life

in a four-room apartment, working two or three jobs. they say about him that you are a disgusting mother, well, not disgusting, that why are you dissatisfied with the exit from the adult children gathered at the exit and went to argue with us. i would argue now, i don’t argue with mikhail yes, and if you like living here , then there are certain procedures here once a week you sit once a week you once a week you clean everything together in turn, we throw off 25% of the salary for a communal apartment, and rare know what happened here men were not. mikhail gives rather strict instructions, but i just wrote it down directly. now as an algorithm for many many of those who are not yet in this studio. this podcast psyche. i am a journalist, natalia loseva , and my co-host is a clinical psychologist. mikhail khors is looking into maria's situation and it seems to me that maybe we

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it works, because they are 100% natural magnet buys cheaper. you see all this you are masculine. and you would take on the function of a man. well, it happens. well , what to do, yes, when a woman starts, and to be a man, too, for her children for her family , our percentage of divorces and single-parent families. so, but you took it, but you didn’t take it completely, i mean, i’m a horse and i’ll be you as a man and as a woman together, but pull the masculine on myself. yes, but you didn’t bring strictness to your family? i don't like conflict at all. don't love. you are afraid of them as in the summer i am afraid. yes, i don’t like conflicts and i’m afraid they are different things, like

i would say that i am afraid of tangerines. yes, i don't like them, but i'm afraid. but somehow. yes, it sounds strange. in fact, once again you are afraid of conflicts, because you think that there should be no conflicts, because you think that conflicts are bad. and the conflict is not good and not good conflict - this is a normal part of life, including family and it will not work to live life without conflicts. well, for some reason mikhail thought that maybe this had something to do with maria’s childhood, when she was a child, and when she probably waited for these five days of meeting with parents. mom, you were so cold and you wanted to be a good girl, so that she could be more with her mother, maybe she was affectionate, but she just sent me somewhere all the time. well, here it is not a verb. no, she, well, she called me, marisha. yes, it's not there. and here. well, yes, but she is all the time, that is, as if in different rooms, that

is, there was no kind of heat. not that is, to my grandmother or well, that's either for a five-day week or for three shifts. this is what i remember with horror. yes, this camp. yes, even when well, here's the shift. we didn't go home. that is, we went, i don’t know my girlfriends there. that is something like this, look. i wanted my children to be exactly the opposite. and now, in fact, when i have so much already, well, a worthy worthy age. now i can understand my mother. why, she simply could not go to extremes there. mom didn’t give herself to you mikhail she gave birth to those people who she didn’t like in this little girl who is sitting they compensate for what she didn’t receive to compensate, but they don’t compensate, because they did not accustom. and how could she teach, if she did not receive it, on the one hand, she saw mom,

the extreme was gone. it’s just that maria went to the other extreme, you know, from one extreme she threw you into another, they tried to drown her children in this giving, understanding, caring love. well, i really love them, yes, but love no , well, i gave everything that i wanted to be to me and in fact. all great. happened. that is, i gave me an excellent education in children there. yes, that is, and everything that's all, that's because there are a lot of them. yes , i have one diplomat there, the other is an ecologist, yes, that is, everything that i wanted myself. and it didn’t work out for me, of course, it happens. two, like, you see, what you gave to children is love, giving, tender and caring, but there is also a second kind of love. this is called strict. now, if strict love does not compensate for unbalanced, caring giver, then the construction of relationships is curved just like

vice versa, if only strict, like mom, yes , there, well, arisha named it, and everything else. yes, each other is another crooked design. but a harmonious construction is a relationship where strict love is balanced, surrendering. well, let there be a giver a little more a few. yes, but when that alone leads to what you've got now. and this thing is fixed and pretty quickly. if you learn to give to your children, not only giving love to show, well, strict, limiting out of love for them too. and for this you need to understand that conflicts that will definitely begin to arise when you show your strict love for them that conflict is not bad. it's just a normal part of life. she is a possible part of life.

yes, it would be better if there were no conflicts, but they exist, and if you are afraid of them in a panic and do everything that if only there was no conflict, then this is again extreme michael, and relations with men can change with mary if she turns the tide and relations here the scheme, the model that she has developed in her relationship with children. well, as a man there , too, you should make more demands , you know, because you need to kick men, well, i not so, of course, but uh, less of this acceptance that a man's husband is a smaller saint. oh, kids, w-dad went to bed, what is it, in general , you don’t close the future for me in the past, a spectacular beautiful woman. you are also told to meet and meet. maybe you can find more, of course. let's get some specific, maybe, give advice or homework for maria so that she understands that now you and i

won’t be able to build your whole life forward for several years, because you have relationships with children, most likely to fix more than one year. also, of course, yes, some three or four homework assignments that maria will take and just work on. well, the first task. and you stop supplying this family with food. let there be an empty refrigerator, you understand, but eight-year-olds please, maybe you yourself, that is, i shouldn’t eat at home or i shouldn’t cook food on myself, but you change it for a girl for e, then, okay, for a 15-year-old teenager, if he is for you helped feed the three. in the refrigerator is empty but these conflicts you ate mine, you are a fish, this is cottage cheese. you are at all not yours. let them decide. they are adults. let them yell at each other. sorry like

monkeys with something. yes, that's all there. let them solve his problems themselves. these are adults . and that's when you stop feeding them. that's when the value of what you are doing may be. they will increase, and they may not begin to demand from you, but politely kindly ask. and here, your second task in relation to your wonderful children is wonderful. i'm sure just a little spoiled. and maybe a lot of spoiled. yes, and it is clear who so, the second is to stop them in russia about what, for example. oh, please. please sit down with my what should i do to demand? change places, now they demand from you. and you ask them. well, they will say, it seems to me, no, they said they learned to speak from their mother. they are not when and further psychological further punishment. it is possible to punish sexually mature earners , you are discharged to an apartment, they will not

discharge all the dishes themselves. leave them. if you don't follow my rules, i'll release you. by the way, i imagine that this is a monstrosity. now it sounds to you and most likely it contradicts. i somehow even know how, until i can. he can't even contain himself. this is even news, you understand with this thought, you have handed over to them all the bait of the locomotive. i don't know all the resources, you understand, you gave children an education. they work. they can rent an apartment for two, and there they share in this room's horns to get married, as they like. you have given them just beyond measure. and your relationship, well, just believe it will only improve. if you're all parrying now, and you have every right, moreover, you are obliged to do this, you know why you have at least two more children who are watching, who

are looking at this and who can become your support your loving friends michael i say, now worldly, but you understand that this is not a contradiction. our psychologists do not contradict. let's if there is a question for children. yes, they will say that we will not go. we are registered here again, but in reality, yes, there are no problems. and now they do it pretty quickly, but for mary michael's thought itself sits down with his children. this is simply unacceptable. and admit once again it is a concern for them. this is love for them , because you brought them up in some kind of greenhouse greenhouse condition, where mom, in any snap of their finger, runs and does everything, but reality is arranged differently. can i offer a softer option, maybe maria somehow expand her physical space in the apartment. to which he has every right, because as i understand it, you are a responsible apartment renter of your daughter from the room, check in with other children for

teenager boy, for example, or for your daughter, do not know together e girl and girl do not like. now he's better there. you do not think that if you say so directly to the children, you will be offended for life and will never talk to you for some time of the announcement. for them it will be a shock. well , maybe they just need to reason about how to tell the rooms periodically over 10 years of residence. they were just moving, yes, since you have already taken on the role of a peasant, then in this, too , take the role of a peasant, but in the one where you ate all own life. can you already start to become with women, do you have only one bath room? when you take it into the energy sector, do you do it with care? no, here we have everything somehow. well, everything that concerns, well, in principle , upset. i don't bother anyone. that is , there are such everyday conflicts there, who washes there for a long time or someone is the most absent. that is, no one interferes here. someone left in the morning. this is just what happened when

you introduce the pandemic to everyone from the settlement. in a common space and everyone has distance learning. and i just could adjust. imagine would like to. sorry for the kids. maybe they will watch, let's talk about a man, then let's go to the kids maria, here 's what you need to do in your apartment now. if you imagine that in a week you will meet a new wonderful interesting man and your relationship will develop rapidly harmonious, so to speak , mutually, and you will already be ready for this man to invite your large apartment. well, in our time it's perfect. what do you need to do in an apartment in a house and your way of life so that this new the man did not run away, like the previous month, do not invite him to the apartment, that is , leave the four-room apartment to the children for your own children gradually. i understand these are harsh

statements. but it's really time to gradually start moving out of the nest, because it's normal for babies to fly out of the nest. yes, they sometimes fly out and hurt them, but this is also normal. but you don’t need to put another man on your hump. if you want to live with a man, let him call you to his apartment, too, right, you know, and what as for the children, i don’t know where it is where to say to the children dear wonderful beautiful. sea children. mom doesn't owe you. she can give you and gives and will give and gave a lot, but she has such duties. no. here, watch this show, please, mom will come home. you are on your knees in front of her. stand up, kiss her shoes and say, mommy. forgive us, please, dear, you are our mother, beloved. thank you for everything. he did something for us. we

will try our best to help you love you. and protect. guys, it's true, when you grow up, you will have your own children, well, or just life will beat you a little, and life always beats. you will see the feat that your mother performed for you in a completely different way. the main thing is not to be late. it's always good to remember that everything we can fix while we're alive, so that it's not too late, okay, you ask that we address you directly, but it seems to me that the situation is worth it. it was a podcast of the psyche. my name is natalia loseva i am a journalist and my co-host clinical psychologist mikhail khors sorted out a difficult situation, but very vital maria be happy, please. thank you very much i will try.

hi all. this is a podcast of memories 20 years later, in which i am host konstantin mikhailov my star guests, let's discuss 2005 this time, which songs were at the peak of the charts, which television project started on channel one today as a guest? i have yulia savicheva, a beautiful girlfriend, a talented singer, a participant in the tv projects star factory 2 and the eurovision song contest 2004. well, plus 2005. there was a series with the participation of her song, do not be born beautiful. yes, i called him do not be born gadziy. but konstantin burdaev did not name either. he is kostya green hello kostyanovich of the group of brothers. yes, i remember the lead singer of the brothers grimm in 2005. just you participated in maksidom 2005. i

participated in maksidom, we participated in the film don't be born godzilla. still, they say, too, everything was then we had something in common in this film you did, and in this film we sang the song heart in one episode there, yes there, yes, i was sitting at the piano, i was a young hairy still here, uh, played soulful sang this song. that was the thing. yes, i listen to the serial history is a very, very profitable thing. we recently met with gennifikas. the end of the film, how popped, uh, his team after he had time in the song for the series soldiers television great power great power, especially when this song for the tv series and yulia's song i myself remember, i dragged myself along hmm thank you, but on the one hand, but series yes , it’s clear every day it eats into the head, but it still matters the song itself, what kind of song it is, after all, all sorts of things are still done on it remakes remixes young people are dragging from her, what

is surprising, i did not think that there would be such a continuation of the banquet - this is for a song, if love lives in the heart, and it has become my calling card. well, there is another song high, of course, with which i started uh my big way, uh, and it is also one of my title songs. but now, if all this is love - this is something separate, this is some kind of separate planet that i think will outlive us. tell everyone, but on the song the wind you filmed the video on a chromac, because you are standing there against the backdrop of the theater, whether big, but high. interestingly, no one has ever called her like that. this is a freudian mistake, because we recently spoke with monokini with the singer. they just remembered that moment at the factory she once sang with her. call me, call me yes, call me the wind, the wind, just the wind, and we remember what it was. well, almost like that. here you are, you are still such

a girl, compared to a child. yes, you're doing well, with your voice, but for freedom of communication, maybe with the public mona of course she was already more experienced. of course, how do you feel? somehow oh, i generally remember that factory period, and for me this is on the one hand. it’s even extremely difficult, but on the other hand it’s so interesting, and there we were growing up, my growing up in front of everyone in the whole country. ah, it saved me, maybe my youth is just like that. that's even childishness and rose-colored glasses on the eyes. here it helped. for me, you immediately appeared. i caught this about avril. well, you know, then it was fashionable, and for some reason i fell in love then

truly alternative music is a turning point. it happened to me after the song high and everything started. well, plus uh, that's natural hair. i have straight lines. well, actually there is a similarity in the face. i even have my child anya, when she sees the clip of avril lavigne oh, mom, she says, went so really there is some kind of similarity. i know that the girl is so whole, that is, if you are engaged in creativity, you have only creativity. uh, those, there's no one in the factory that's like clean like uh, like a boy oh well, there was such a pershalava who went around kissing everyone. i know, listen, he's just so wide, so hospitable, as it were, it's clear i had a boyfriend, but that period was waiting for me.