organs, where they hurt, where they tried to touch later, if the child is taught, he will really come and tell. you know, i remember too, i guess everyone at school had started talking now, and i actually kind of, well, never told this story to anyone. at my school, too, probably, everyone at school had me there, they don’t remember anymore. what kind of teacher was it, physics or mathematics, and somehow i remember that somehow he somehow touched me, and what is it? like a child, i don't understand. what it is? i'm not even that tell someone. i didn't understand it at all. it's not normal at all , that it's terrible more than that, yes, i often hear this argument that before in the soviet union, under the union, everything was not like that, everyone lived there, they respected each other. everything was visible , of course, after that there was nothing even about it. even think about it like that, that is, we were so unaware. in fact, that we didn’t even understand what it meant, as if in general, in principle, i don’t understand, in general, what can i tell you that i went to the usual soviet moscow kindergarten. i saved my sisters twice. once, apparently, dofils, who tried to lead him all over the island behind the house somewhere in the yards, failing her with candy, she was the second time. in broad daylight in the tram there are

other people of the inhibitionist. well, in fact , he took out his penis and tried to wipe himself off and all his sister. i was seven years old. i somehow settled down in my head that with other people's uncles. yes, what is it that it is something dangerous, i felt that it was something dangerous. yes, mom herself never spoke to us. just gotta figure it out parents. for example, i have never, to be honest, for three children, i have never talked. that's how you say, you need to sit down with the child and somehow start talking about it, that is, it was not like this in your thoughts, and somehow all this. i never know. mm, that is, you need to need to put the child on and somehow tell everything about it, which is very convenient to take a book, for example, for children, there are now many excellent books translated into russian. and there i have, probably, about everything. uh-huh my daughter chooses which one she wants to read and honestly, when she was younger, we skipped some topics for which she was not yet mature enough. and what directly to read the book or how? yes, and there are bags in these books. it's not just about sex there. yes, that's a big

misconception that it's all about sex. you are straight stubborn shows to children no there about intimate places. there’s direct hygiene there about what, and no one needs with everyone in a row. they spin in salavat to hug and touch. yes, and you are exactly the same, if you want to hug someone, ask permission, that is, such very banal things about e-socialization about the fact that the internet, yes, and how would i have never had. i believe, i believe, i bring up my children with such freedom and no limits. that is, they watch whatever they want. and in general, as with this, to be honest, it’s scary to me that just now we were talking about the older guys. uh , that they can climb on any site, yes, and see something that is for the child's psyche, in general, uh, well, it's scary. i can't imagine seeing this, i don't know there, uh, at such an unmature age. i can't imagine what would happen to me. how much you need to limit the chinese ban, or then it’s all the same, all these bans always, then they’ll see it somewhere, because we live in the same modern world, you can’t get away from this. and how to deal with it in general. when i think about it, i feel really scared. i

know that they, of course, climb there. and how they cope with it is not clear. look, i agree with you. we live in a digital world. yes, and our children at one, two or three can already eliminate blockages and it is necessary to put a ban on the child, or still, of course, there, where you can you need to protect the child. yes , especially repulsive material. well, to protect. you know, i had an example too. here in my youth there i was friends with such a girlfriend, and she lived there with me in the neighborhood. she studied music all day long, and everything was forbidden to her. her parents did not go anywhere so strictly and raised her, then she grew up and turned 16 years old there. she went down in general in all serious, that is, it is not necessary to protect until sixteen 16 is already too late. it's late. i mean 5 years there. so i need nothing right they banned it there. yes, my dad, i don’t know , asked me there, at the age of 12, we’ll go there, smoke, there, more precisely, he says, dad, i don’t smoke. he says, come on, we'll stop, let's go smoke , dad, i don't smoke, they don't do it there. it’s like, really, i was never forbidden anything of the kind and they didn’t talk to me about it, but i didn’t do some things, i just didn’t do it, and everything, as it were, maybe because i had such freedom, that is, these are

it is also not clear how to deal with this. how much better anyway. well, look, first of all, what principles? yes key i agree with you that raising children is in the spirit. freedom - it's good to educate them so that it 's freedom, well limited, where there is a danger to children and educate them so that children and so on are somehow dangerous. you don't know what he's watching. yes, maybe he climbed up there on some site, i don’t know what died there, for sure, he will see it. yes, violent porn is simple, because ever since internet porn content has also grown, it’s just growing exponentially and now it’s my friends contact me, whose sons accidentally stumbled on the roots, because dad left something there or there, i myself came across the earliest already at the age of four or six, and the boys accidentally stumbled upon when they saw sexual intercourse. uh, in some kind of porn material and this, well, firstly, i want to reassure my parents that someone wouldn’t be

alone, and secondly, yes, obedience, it’s clear that they are watching all this, and that’s it. it sees and it is clear that she stumbled. that's so difficult. stuck, then the point is that apparently, probably, as i think, as a mother, too , as if my intuitive is, as i think, that here i am. the main task of parents is to teach how to separate, like grains from pleev. yes, to teach a child to see to hear, probably, yes, that is, it is probably brought up somehow, probably, we should start with this. well, before yes , the child's idea of ​​what is a healthy sexuality, what is not, then it is clear that this is laying some foundation. probably first yes before talking, and then maybe, that's how i think, then maybe you don't have to be and talk. that's what it's all about, you know? no, if you somehow laid it down, he himself understands that he doesn’t need this, that it’s not for him, yes, because you won’t talk about the concept with the five-year-old. yes, you have an older son, who is 15. and about contraception, it has long been with him, as they say. yes, they are smarter than us all the time, it's funny how i will

talk to him. i told you at the beginning to tell you, well , tell me, there, you still fell in love, that he is looking at me mom. mom, and like hello, garage, i know for sure with you, so mom i i understand more about this than you understand what you called sex. so it was, a runny nose. i saw my son somehow there on the phone. i saw that he was subscribed to some telegram channel. uh, about sex or some bunch of these channels, and he subscribed there to the very thing that he reads and studies and it’s clearly not from the reaction that it’s already, as it were, at what age in general now children begin this, when they generally, in fact , they do it. tell me, please, i'm about to fall, so i don't need to. i do not want it. i i do not want to know this, because, well, somehow in our time. at what age does e occur in children. eh, somehow you are called taite, i'm afraid this word depends on the children. what do we

know? we know what is where it is. the yes comprehensive sexuality education program for children starts having sex later. one of the common fears of conservative parents, that we will now begin to lead sex education and all our children will blossom, will begin there. i do not know sadoma gomorrah wedding sin. and here are all these the horrors of pregnancy infection and so on, in fact exactly the opposite. and what do they say there? it’s interesting to learn such lessons just like this, well, they tell the appropriate age, what knowledge they should be given . in general, it’s time to look for balance, because sex. same. well, not only pleasure, it is also a responsibility. and it's more and more talking to children. in fact, not only with children and adults it is necessary to learn to talk more , to discuss some things in general, in principle, it seems to me that we all have such a big problem that we can be offended. we can shut up. we can somehow hide something, but

this is to sit down and talk, in general, this is the most important thing that can be between people, in general , people should talk to each other and say some things. yes, i absolutely agree with you, as a sexologist, as a psychotherapist often. i see couples where, well, just the whole idea. yes, they are best friends. they can talk about everything absolutely, but sex - this is such a sphere, only for them sensitive quivering. i never discussed the most basic issues. sex is bad sex is terrible it can lead to needing, of course, this is basically it can, it's ninety it's very sad to go percent of families in general. this is generally, in principle, not discussed in any way, but by and large . it's an important part of life. yes, this is, well , one of the most key parts, so the couple break up because they don’t discuss. it's all some kind of forbidden topic no one. as a result, having lived there, i don’t know, with my wife for 25 years and doesn't know why she really likes me, and how she er, and it's scary, of course, and because of this, because of this, and children. well, that is, we kind of just all grew up in all this, and we somehow became people after all, that is , also in some incomprehensible way. then you know what happens very often people are embarrassed to talk about sex. for example

, men come to me, and he is convinced that his wife, she doesn’t want sex, doesn’t like sex. in general, she would even be offended by raising her, so to speak. the question he decides for himself. well different people decide differently for themselves , let's say, how they cope with being unsatisfied sexually. who's masturbating there? someone goes, so to speak, to the side. uh, some people take lovers, some people go to prostitutes and think it's, well, safer for the family because there's no emotional connection. yes, there are no children on the side. and this is also part of the problem. yes , because even now in the evening it is distributed in heterosexual couples. here is about among ours with you a more balanced and very often story, when the wife first finds out, because that ah, that she has hiv when she is already pregnant, her husband infected her, who is like that, cattle and money for using, not using a condom, because he looked at her skin is good clean or is it some kind of - sometime i don't know a colleague and a neighboring case, and he doesn't

admit what she might be, unhealthy. and this, too, yes, if he had a sex light at school, he would already have known there at the age of 10 12 years. what, well, sex only with a condom. well, well, first of all, he said what abstinence is, can absolutely guarantee allow nothing. again, there is an opinion that the sex-enlightenment will tell you everything , that here is our generation of our parents, who have lived there all their lives, and in fact, there may be even more such strong marriages some kind of long and it seems to us, that there they had such love and people lived there together for 50 years. now this does not exist at all and they did not have any sex clearance. that is, this is such a question, which, as i understand it, is very acute. uh, you need to enter. e to school. is this lesson this gap or not? or somehow before we managed without it and it was somehow better, but now we are doing it this is a sex gap and will be in general and in general, in short, the nightmare will be complete even worse than now, when everything has become so accessible now, in general, now no one needs to take a girl to restaurant there something to talk to her there. something there is now everything so simply turned off the internet. i ’m all these things are somehow called, when the relationship is on

video, this is all sex on video, she does everything you say. no need to eat anywhere. no need for conversation. she is nothing so easily accessible. nowadays, our children have less sex. what is our generation with you. so here it is terrible that someone is scared. i actually think about it too. yes, later they start later. still, they start later. even we will now return to this issue, when this happens, that very intercourse in children. at what age now is this the average age, i have two boys 13-15 years old. i don't know, to be honest with you. now i’ll repeat to you that i don’t know if they had this way of thinking about this question. by the way, but as we statistics know , the earlier the kids start, the better the chance that it was a story about strength. it was not about consent, therefore, and in many ways it was stop, please wait. no, wait. well, i mean, like, well, they can't fall in love at 15, and like 15 from 15 , let's say everything below 14 is already a very, very serious, red flag 15 child. may fall in love. well, this teenager

is already 15 years old. yes, if they have a difference there for a couple of years it's ok if she is 15 he is 25 and he is there i don't know to teach a huge red flag and they say that this is already history well, illegal, and if there are 16, we agree the age is 16, yes, that is, in general , allow here, as if, if, let’s say, my son says, here’s my mother, my girlfriend is there and he is 13 years old. for example, i know that here is my thirteen-year-old son. here he is with a girl. and i'm a girl. how much is right? yes , look, when children are the same age there is a higher chance that there is no abuse. from no side. i understand this, just in general, here, in principle, if they meet like me should behave just like this, how i should do everything, as it were, oh, my friends. that's how good you bought ice cream there, or how such an idiot asks you to color, yes, from paint i don't know or what exactly is normal, how it should be somehow he brought the girl home, let's say. i need to behave, what they are like, well, for sure they have something very much the child will tell. yes i am, so i did it

along with every seed decides for itself. yes, i would have met the parents of this girl , i would have known whether or not this relationship was in the know. yes, that is, for this age. i'm probably already. i would discuss hmm contraception, this is the same age when children have what problems they have, their bodies change, they start together. wait, you know how , if they meet, how are they such adults, this girl doesn’t know, he sent me a photo there, the girl is just like that, you just understand, she’s just like that, we were like that, another 13 years. actually 13 years old. they're just such a girl on kabbah already all with boobs so the whole girl is already serious, you know? i really hope that no. i really hope that no one is romantically involved, but to be sure. yes, yes, i must understand myself about the age of consent, yes, and about contraception and about consent what is consent yes, when there is no such, i have such a wonderful son, who is very very i don’t know, i’m just wondering, they already have, as it were, me how to deal with it, you know? how already how. uh, actually, just an older one.

in general, i, who is bored older there, in general , is already an adult man, you know, yes, another important point is that he, too, may not ready. that is, it's okay, but he himself must understand himself. i know that sex is a responsibility. yes, and that there are some, well , somehow teach the child so that he understands what it is. well, how cool it is, how would he be prepared, as soon as he has to talk about it, for this he should get a positive experience. there at least should see these models. yes, if you can’t talk about it there, there must be someone in my life who can talk to him about it, maybe a podcast can be some. i don't know blogger. yes, they can be friends. yes, it is best if it is a specialist. yes, what kind of someone from the outside yes, not a teacher, well, not a teacher at school, because it will be difficult for children. and someone i'm sorry, somehow often happens. yes, specifically some sexater who comes so that they can anonymously ask a question, yes , about everything that worries them and talk to the network changers about how this first time happens. what to do? where to stay? how to understand if he wants pants or not? how to understand

ready or not? how to put on a condom correctly? the first time is a very important problem there, you know, i can't, i'll be honest. here i am, i can explain to my child when somewhere there is a condom for sure, that's why we need sex clearance, yes, if it will be someone, yes, some neutral person, neutral, who will come. yes, and plus everything, children will have access to condoms, because a pack of condoms is now more expensive than i don’t know, that is, let’s still say that we are with you, here we are two women, having children, as it were, yes, we believe that after all, the sex gap is there, because you were discussed, yes, discussed by mothers discussed with someone in some chats i know and a lot was said about this, that we are still for the fact that there was a sex light, of course, and not only as a mother. i'm also like a doctor in this case, like a doctor, right? channel one is launching a new project in every corner of our vast country. have your innovators engineer or

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i'm reminded of this sex by the light podcast. i'm at the banshchikov, we are talking in the studio with amina nazar aliyeva's sexologist, we are discussing the sexual education of children. how to prepare can be here is a child, if he meets girls, so that he somehow doesn’t screw up, so that he somehow, well, so that he doesn’t feel uncomfortable after the first sexual experience and then he doesn’t get scared and doesn’t look for some kind of maybe be a more experienced woman there, an adult who would teach him how he screwed up. is that what you invested in? what somehow? here they have something going on there and somehow he doesn’t know how,

and somehow he doesn’t know an erection or he. well, i don't know, this is it. i don't know, maybe it's gone. she disappears so much. yes, yes, three years and from what is called. well, i really like english. i will now quote in the original in all there was a performance, that is, it was not quite correctly translated into russian, but there is a meaning in this performance. yes, there is everything, yes, there must be this is close and clear. yes, how will i perform, yes, as it were, i think that for a boy. it's very very exciting and scary, how does it happen? i remember my childhood there. that she kissed in the entrance there with the boys, and then he kissed there, something with us and then suddenly they ran away from him, for example, yes, i keep thinking, why don’t i run away some strange ones, what where are they running to? what's happened? did you learn to kiss on tomatoes or oranges? oh, it means you didn’t learn the words. how do you know she know, either or yeah well, this building is such an actress, consider it like that's how to become an actress. i believe that it is impossible to teach this, either you feel it or not. that's all. you are

my opinion, so uh, that's why i'm so ironic about how this can be taught. but, probably, a young man is a boy. it’s just that i, as it were, recently also began to think, like, that my son somehow felt like a man, whatever it was. here's some such fears he has, so about it. yes, see this here too sex enlightenment - this also addresses, because it’s closer to this age and begins to discuss relationships. what is a good healthy relationship, what is an unhealthy relationship, including discussing? these gender stereotypes, for example, very often men learn that here i should always be, finally. i have to have steel in every situation. it doesn't matter, i want to. i don't want this woman, but i slept. have i been satisfactorily there for the past few days or not, in good health or not? and very often men's self-esteem is tied. yes on this one sexual performance. so let's call it, well, imposed, of course. everything, in general, losing stereotypes, how they imposed on the girls that she should be there, so and so at the same time

innocent, yes, and socially attractive, which everyone wants, but at the same time she wants only after the wedding and her husband and uh, in general, yes, and radiate sexuality so that her husband went crazy from her and everyone around her wanted it, so a lot of contradictory these attitudes, although sexuality is male and female. it is very similar arranged in general sexuality. same any at all. hey, it's the brain. how the human brain is arranged. yes, that is , these are young girls, i think, yes, there, i know, there are many girls there who will redo everything. i don’t know those there, some crazy eyelashes, boobs are inserted there. uh, these lips are not about sexuality, in general, sexuality is some kind of other thing altogether, and a man in general , in fact. so i just can say for sure that they don’t notice all these things, i generally notice, only your energy. in general , sex is masculine, it is through the brain. it's not even not through here is this perception. that's how uh let's tell the girls it's true. this is exactly what i want. somehow i take this opportunity, because we are talking with you, which is true. this is generally about something else love is it is not connected. uh, the size of your breast eyelashes.

there are stupid. it's about something completely different. it's about individuality for a while. yes , because the color - it should draw as well. you know what's important, i think it 's very important why, by the way, sex is very important, to girls for girls here the body absolutely accepted its individuality, the more you respond, on the contrary, you differ from another girl, who may be, do you think, there are better for some parameters. this has nothing to do with the fact that you will love and will want you and you will have. love is very important to convey. that's it for little girls, of course even. here is my petty looks, some imposed. you know there are such youtube that turns on, and at any second you turn on a soviet cartoon there as soon as you go somewhere it ended crocodile gena and there are some. so the girls tell my little child there about some kind of wait, even in soviet cartoons they remembered what kind of princesses there are. with such yes, almost all blondes are very exacting. and this is not only about sexual self-doubt, but women

in general have a worse sexual experience than men , largely because of this anxiety that i am somehow not like that. yes, they can not relax the bed, yes, plus these here, yes. this is a very stereotyped setup. this is very scary, because these girls. it seems to me that in bed they look like they look like this and take parallel selfies. not at all , well, how would it be, it seems to me, it is today, imposed in today's these masteriotypes. it's creepy. generally scary. tell me if women or parents looked at us right now. hmm, and they decided, yes, we will educate our child, as it were. here we want. with enlightenment, yes, lead, if this subject is not at school, who can you turn to at all, how is it to look for a sexologist like you or how in general who it is will do? well, look, i think that yes, we need to look for some specialists yes, teachers. i would recommend looking for books, yes, from childhood to accustom yourself. yes, this is to start reading and talking about it. that is. this first time is terribly embarrassing and difficult. here is the second time a little less embarrassing difficult, but the thirty-third time. you

will speak calmly and easily, there i don’t know the penis, vul, that’s how i say it. well, the penis fell out, after all, somehow you know very well so literary. it sounds, of course, i can’t imagine myself becoming my child say there masha is a vulva. well somehow i generally i can't have me. well, we need some kind of was, yes, and at the same time, so that it is not sexy, very charging. but it's very somehow you know very well how it is, like how your actor is, they say it's very kind of literary. it's very hard to apply to life, you know? how is it all hmm i think in what sense it's even good, because it allows you to keep this distance, so that it doesn't happen. i promise you, but i don't know how it is. here. i just want to try it myself after our conversation, because i have never done this again now. when they are already they will tell you that there are no friends. there they will have their love relationship. it is clear that they will use something else and there is a vulva for me. what is it to say? well, mom, i like it, said it’s okay, and then mom’s mom will come to the kindergarten, some other mom who knows that

she will look at me, as if confident that your child has some , yes? it's more of a question to educate because the children are playing doctors in the kindergarten. they see it all. i now remembered the story. we recently filmed as a short film, and such a small short film is a small short film like that. i played there hmm a woman who came to a sex shop for the first time, which is the first time she's ever been alone there. she came in to buy. what was filmed in the sex shop? in short, we spent the whole day just in a huge sex shop. it's just that we were filming and the whole film crew was in this huge sex shop. a clear the point is that i’m talking about an actress, i can’t go into a sex shop, but, as it were, i’ll find out everything there, you will be wildly embarrassing for me. in general, i have never been there in my life, almost once about it, it was still quite her at a young age, and here we were all day. i mean, we filmed there all day, and that's it. could be considered. in general, we laughed so much there that for some reason i didn’t understand, i understood that life. just in vain, just honestly, yes, i went,

because do you know what it is? it's just that i had the right to ask, because i'm kind of there just like accidentally. i'm filming a movie. i just turned out, i'm so in the quality of interest. i don't really know what it is. don't say things. i realized that my god, lord and we laughed there with mine, well, also with my collections with girls, that we just realized that life was lived in vain. why am i naturally like? well, because, well, as soon as i arrive, so then you say there that this is it, well, and there we look at it, and it turns out, everything goes there, fuck you say, it means you love sex. but this is also this such from childhood that i can't have sex when you don't talk about anything. yes, we did not talk about sex in general. we seem to have learned that sex is a shame, although sex is one of the best things that nature has come up with thanks to sex, it generally exists. yes, how is it that couples and couples are formed children thanks to the children were born to be in time, to put it simply, sex shops, sex shops, best friends, and women of men are not

competitors for this. these are the companions, because sometimes people managed without it all their lives, without it, without it. no, you get it, it's real. we so everything is clear. you have to start over all over again. well, look, i, as a sexologist, very often see couples who love each other, yes , who have lived a lot together with their children in general. they are best friends. they want to keep the family. well, everything in sex has died a long time ago. and they are still living people 40 45 50, 35. here, too , a sex shop very often has some kind of toys , some kind of variety. this is what helps these families to keep going on, sometimes most women do not experience orgasm. only, well, without clitoral stimulation, for example, and the sex shop sells things that help, which are very comfortable to hold and stimulate the clitoris during intercourse. and now they are happy. in short, i also want to say, because here, that is, you should not be ashamed of this to go to a sex shop. i'm just telling you a specific head with pride and how dads swim there. and tell me what is simple, we

still return to the children. mm the question is, if you watch too, i very often with the children some kind of film. yes, now all children watch, in principle, adult films and all together and there a scene begins. hmm, they kiss there, or even something else. yes, and you, as if i always sit like that and every time i look like that. i'm not asking, i'm squeezing the couch. i'm sitting like this, like i'm sitting like this, nothing happens. i don't know how to behave. well, ideally, of course, take care. yes, there is something to understand. this film, so that it does not turn out that you are watching a film together, well, which is still too early for a child to show, but very often, in fact , very often now. it seems to me that all parents watch with their children. e films that are together they are also watching this, but the good news is that this one, let's say, is traumatized. yes, here are some porn scenes or erotic scenes there that the child accidentally saw. and this is a relatively rare story. yes, and more often it concerns girls, that is, boys. very often, even with enthusiasm, this is perceived here is your reaction to ignore. this is one of the options. well, that's a good reaction. let's just say a good reaction there, yes, if you do not need to emphasize, yes, if a very small child had time to encounter this, and he

did not understand, he asks a question. we always need answer the child's question for within the framework of the given one, if it is more understandable, but the question. and if you just watch with the child, there is constant violence or constant infliction. it must be addressed to something, it must be said so. listen, it's there what you just saw, what you feel. okay, ask to talk. yes, that is, an adult would say this. you feel, mom listens. they are so, well, how is it all too literary, what are you, what do you feel mom? little little or don't you understand that when they grow up after 10 years with him it won't be like that anymore, what do you feel. they are already so mature. they close you right away, you know? they did not think about it, that you noticed you just now, how in general, they will tell? okay, well , another very important question. by the way, about the fact that they should know, they say that it is very important for children's upbringing that dad and mom close in the room and have sex, the child should know this if the child understands that parents also have sex. they have a sex life. it's okay more. if he has there are some questions. likely to

ask questions. yes? it's okay to search. this is intimate, we do not discuss it with you. this is our life necessarily, of course i mean that the child should hear how the parents have sex. yes, this is a violation of the border. moreover, they should see it. no, hear to see more clearly. i don't have to know that mom and dad are closing. and there they can understand it. yes, they do not need to hide it, what to expect there? while all the children fell asleep there, you know there on the sly. there or some kind of child's access the bedroom is endless, when it happens that the child is sleeping, by the way, this is also an important issue for sexual education. the child sleeps with the parents. yes, it's very common. mm. like, yes, yes, this, like with this, like this, i actually also have this question and i ’m here my children there until what age slept with me and we kind of work all the time and they uh-huh were very bored, and i didn’t feel ashamed of this, that there the child sleeps with me, for example, we sleep with him there in an embrace. there, up to what there is up to 7 years, even up to some you can it or not, at all. here, in general, it is better to move the children to your room as early as possible, and the mother and the girl can sleep. that's

how at the age of five, six, if a child is bored and comes to you, i want to sleep with you in an embrace. and if the boy is here, how about this on this. i think that they are faced with children, then from the third it is necessary to understand that the boys already begin to compete early enough, even. well, children have erogenous zones and such. and they start early enough. we trumpet. that is here to save. tell ae well healthy borders, yes, so that, well, it doesn’t happen that children accidentally, well, parents will contact genitals, yes , to ensure hmm, and reliable borders are better to move children, so to speak, to another room, as early as possible, while there are a lot of cultures where co-sleeping is practiced, there are a lot of families where it's just, well, living conditions do not allow it . well, after all, parents parents, of course, have a lot of questions. here, i also have there, for example, when the boys were already big enough. i

breastfed masha. yes, they saw it, as if, that is, it is difficult to hide, as if it is also like that, as if, when they see a mother, as if feeding, for example, that is, how does this affect the child? it is also so very so many of these subtle things that we do not know. personally, i find it easier to sexualize breasts, and what a breast and such a refrigerator for a child, that is, that is, a source of nourishment for a normal woman. well, okay, what interest. baby baby, and here in priority. yes, a woman should be able to feed her child. e at any time when a child is needed, is it necessary to hide from older children, who are still very small, it is better to hide. yes? if not, but there are some special ones there, well, maybe in paid shifts, if you already have two boys like that, right? as if, well, a teenager, it’s better in general all the time so that they don’t keep these boundaries, but there are families. there are cultures where to live no problems. how does this affect the future? just not clear to a child. so look, i am not here, and there are no unequivocal studies that

if a child sees a naked parent, this is all razlozhsky. no, there are a lot of much more terrible things that children can see and experience and this does not destroy their psyche. come on at the end of our conversation. we will summarize so briefly. at what age? what are some important things to say to a child, so that at least in a nutshell we outline some points, and so that it's easier to start somewhere. they are very small, yes, anatomy is hygiene. yes, there, how, how to wash these and so on, who can touch your panties at two, in fact, i say , it starts earlier and later, and any situation that arises from the outside well, for example, i don’t know, a neighbor is pregnant, questions about the tummy begin. what is there, where? children are taken? yes, that’s all, they are children who start early enough and ask if we are allowed to run. the main thing in the apartment. and if everyone is same-sex there, well, if it’s some kind of, well, it’s normal there, as a given culture, if everything the rest of the rest, and so to speak, issues related to sexuality, the boundaries are clear. yes,

a small one, too, here are older children. she changes clothes with them. it's possible. well, it is better to wean on the sly further. until what age will you have time, so that later you will not be told, mom, everything is fine. until what age to have time to ten to have time to tell the boys there like that, so that in a good one you need to start already from two to three, well, in two he still wo n’t understand such such almost a youth, but should start about 3-5 years before we expect any events. yes, at 10 years old. maybe we can tell the exact proportions. yes, what is coming for boys at this age already means that she wanted to prepare for change. i wanted such a child. you're getting so hairy, uncle hairy. so you can think of your child. oh this is my little boy, weight, hairy mood changes do not fall in love. that is , that's all they need to prepare for this. yes , everything that happens there begins. yes

in human terms, they should know about this and masturbation, the interests of falling in love. in short, you need to have time to discuss this later. well, a little bit, a little bit, carefully, well , look what is comfortable to discuss what is not. what the child is talking about. yes, it is better, of course, to put it up for auction. yes, and the child will be easier for you or not easier. yes? for this we need again. we need the whole system we need the system. in general, i want to summarize again. our conversation is to say that in general we need to start talking to each other more to talk with children. in general, about everything, but in everything is not only about sex and about sex too, and then somehow we will slowly approach the fact that sex exists, but it should also be that it is beautiful, and in general, so that our children are ready for this. it was a sex by the light podcast. i am anna banshchikova and my friend is a sexologist. amina she zaralieva we talked about the sexual education of children. for me, this

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