absolutely all successes from soviet figure skating and russian figure skating. tell me what are the advantages of our training system and what can be the disadvantages of a couple of cons? i don’t want them not, but plus and everything plus our main strength is that this is an amazing training system, that is, we did not switch to the american system for 15 minutes. and go for a walk, and we are working, the way we worked in the soviet union, the system is serious and gives very good results, because in girls we are generally ahead, in my opinion, the planet is not that there is someone stunning absolutely breakthrough loss gorgeous just a pleiades of whole children who are trained they trained themselves early childhood. that's the meaning of what i took there at the age of 15 and will

train. no, it's all here. what is her success? she is probably now the most recognizable coach of the new generation of coach, of course i say, all families are absolutely a. competently built, and for each athlete, she has built a training system for different athletes. this is very important for her athletes, in general for an athlete our russian fame comes, after all, quite early. now so the sport has become a very young figure skating. and this is good. this is fame at such an early age , or maybe it's this fire, water and copper pipes, it would be better if it came later honestly, then i'll tell you everything. it's like you say, it sucks. it's better that it comes, yes, at your age, when people

understand what they deserve. they lived it , they created it, because these kids are bouncing wonderfully talented, but they can't appreciate it. eh, everything, the power of this success and what life has given them. here 's a chance, you know? this also needs to be evaluated and understood and used further, how to live with it and where to go, i can’t help but ask about the most probably high-profile story of recent years in figure skating, that is, the story of camila not allowing us to compete. this is one of the steps. how would we remove a very convenient stage. here is such a notion of some kind of microdoses of something that does not give anything and believe in our very best girls. not that

someone was holding it there. after the european championship it was known and whether so why didn’t you immediately announce at europe took away the medals and nothing like that waited for the olympics, everything was done a tricky move, but to be honest, no one was expecting this. and in general, this is hooliganism. and now i have to be very persistent, especially i need to feed myself. i felt like a person against whom such a big political game is being played. if she understands this, she will pass it, and everything will be fine, she is 16 years old. so i say that it is difficult for her. yes, if a person is an adult, he can understand this, and it’s difficult here, so support is very important, but it supports, everything is everything for me. it's hmm doping story. well

, not that unpleasant, she's just outrageous. here, i'll tell you honestly. it shouldn't be like this , they shouldn't hit athletes, especially girls. no, it is necessary to go through patience just now we talked about it, yes, but it is such a global patience. this is something that athletes and coaches have to live through. and so do i, by the way. right now in the press, especially often somehow confrontations between coaching staffs between athletes are exaggerated and inflated, and so on. what do you think, is it normal now that there is such a press, that it would be better if it did not exist at all, because what they write, first of all, they come up with all the time. there is nothing to say, really, no. secondly, all my life we ​​have had me compete with the beetle all the time , no confrontations. no, on the contrary. this

gave tamara moskvina, on the other hand, in pairs , the same thing threw new students onto the mountain. it's normal, thank you. god does not there may be one coach he will die. he needs to know all the time that someone is near or near the border, there with a friend, of course, of course, competition and that's it. this is interesting, you have not yet been asked about some such dubious ones, for sure. well, you see, that’s why something now at first constantly got into some now, i either just don’t answer, or i find some kind of answers that they don’t print, because the water is absolutely correct. yes, i do the same. i don't give any interviews. go ahead, don't mind what is there behind they say that in your opinion, there is not enough world figure skating or russian figure skating. where to direct

the look forward what is not enough to pay attention to? borders that we would go beyond and win everything that could be. world figure skating lacks, uh, either a system, or statehood, where it was, so that it was serious, there is a very good coach, but there is no system. they themselves work at the expense of their parents or even sometimes at their own expense. you see with an athlete good, but you won't jump out on it. it should be like this for us, an amazing training system, amazing, i wish them all, by the way, china at one time we sent our pair skating coaches there. they completely took over our system. don't send

more trainers there. this is my main square. there aren't any like that at the time. i'm sorry , i always coached the italian national team in three types, with pairs of dances and singles. poland is my all poles, there are dances. this is all mine . i coached the canadian team. by the way, those who are now in montreal school they skated romance showed because it was introduced at that time. i mean, i mean, i coached a lot, there were exchanges, but i was always exchanged on ski coaches. there was another coach on the exchange. it was terrible, because suddenly they call me in the summer, and we have only one month. uh, it's the end of june to relax or do something. you 're flying to canada tomorrow. i don't want to. fly out, so there were exchanges like this, they were very

good. by the way, i still have all these connections and relationships with those times. and now it's all stopped with coaches abroad, i communicate with them. they call me, and all relations remain the same, but this exchange of knowledge with ideas by some kind of training processes is no longer there, yes, but they ended with those who just joined us. i remind you that we are visiting. a great person in figure skating or natalia chaikovskaya sometimes you train a person, somewhere in the national team at night you think, my god. well, what is it? what is it? why is it not going and all the insight will no longer be able to. everything has already been worked out. everything and this is for the coach. here is for me. this is the most difficult discovery that gorky made, because you are still looking for trying everything, and

then you are late. the very top, well, this is coaching , coaching in general. why don't they go yet and at night you lie thinking? you do not live your own life, here you pull it and that's it. but nevertheless, come everyone to the training, they will work soon. yes? well, it's very good that you and i are talking about this topic, but i'm still such a sore subject that very few of you people have come to coaching. i have task to attract you. i understand that ballet on ice is all different, so to speak, financial matters. well, it would be great if you caught fire. with this development here, with

what you saw, what you picked up. that's like a child of a freak. you raised him, maybe you will tell me who you would like to see as a coach from the athletes who please, i wanted to see you like a school right at school. i don't understand why it doesn't work. your partner's wife. mostly in the hospital i have yes pleasant. i would like to see from what now, if there are greenhouses, why don't tarasova go there with frost, finishing there in how many years? they could they could, you know. i think that vova would definitely be able to, of course, well. i can't understand where yagudin is, why he's between heaven and earth, it's like that's the artist. that's the point. i am

happy that zhenya came, happy because there was a period when no one came at all. we had a complete failure in 2006, here we are. yes , because there was an ice show of earnings, others, please, a very big deal for athletes, but anyway, it will someday end in 2006. this is also very difficult. you have to find yourself, how will you teach? well, now you come on, take a couple, then we'll see. as

a head coach, i demand. yes please, because i'm very interested i'm very interested in you. you are young. you are full of energy full of energy. you are full of ideas. let's all start. see, you asked what the head coach does with this. great. now i know, i ran to execute. thanks a lot, to be honest most of. i was really worried, to be honest, before this interview, because i didn’t know how to go talk to you at all, but it turned out very cool. thank you, you are very kind. i have emphasized a lot of you worth a lot. thanks i was afraid. don't be afraid, i've found a job, i'll definitely support you. thank you. i'm very glad . thank you.

this is a podcast triggers, and i'm sergey with you, he is a practicing psychologist and psychotherapist tatyana krasnovskaya, a family psychologist, and our guest today is lola tell vova about in a nutshell and what is the request? i am 35 years old. i myself work fitness. -coach, and my request is like, how i work with people, but i can do it. that is, i noticed such moments that, while i communicate with a person. we seem to be fine. and after a while it all ends, either with some kind of quarrels, or communication comes to naught. and now it's easy for me, if

i analyze it like this and i don't have any girlfriends at all. that is, i always hear that someone, well, it seems to me, there are normal people. uh, there's a best friend, but i don't have one. i don’t even have better acquaintances, such neighbors, whom i could turn to with some kind of problem. there at one in the morning at two there are no such people, that is, i can’t attack anyone. rely. i think it's a little bit . it shouldn't be. and how are you? see what's the reason? ah well, of course, i do not exclude, what did you do in me, but i cannot understand this problem in myself. wait, if you say so, don't i exclude that the matter is in me, that is, in your opinion, the matter is also in the universe in which there are already seven billion people who do not want to have a close relationship with you. so what? no, i'm on the universe

somehow. no, i also think that out of eight billion, you should, in theory, find a couple of people who would be able to withstand your character, your temperament, uh mood and everything else. oh well, otherwise we'll just have to talk about the universe works for me. so i don't want to be imposed, not with me. is there something wrong no, something is wrong with me. yes, i understand this, but what works for me more is that i do not want to be imposed. well, for example, i have, if you take one friend, she is a friend, then at first we succeeded. so we were united by one common problem. so from now on, we

began to communicate with her, correspond a couple of times , even met there, went to a restaurant, and then, again, i began to observe and this, well, constantly. that is, i began to observe that it is repeated from time to time, that i begin to write to a person, after a while human. oh, i have things to do with me, then i write, i write the second, the third time, and then i understand this. well, why is it imposed, as if, well, if a person, if you want, writes himself, and how would it all end there, as far as i know, are you married, but your husband? i have a close relationship with my husband. the only person i can say that is always next to me is my husband. that is, i can tell him secretly there is something that worries me. only i can tell him how to open up. here is your

request in what you would like this the circle was wider so that you had other relationships, that is, friends, as people think that it’s still not possible to tell everything to your husband there. and it's kind of weird, and that's why i 've always been like that. i don’t know if we take college, if we take school, then at school i, for example, had one girlfriend, and then we were paid by the fact that we lived in the same house. we sort of met together, came to school together, came back together, and sort of college. there were also some problems, but in terms of communication with other fellow students. yes, they were somehow aggressive. this there were some harmless taunts.

how can they be harmless. now i am analyzing that it was still harmless 15 and at 15 it was for you, of course, it was on the part of many people or one person manifested itself in relation to you. here, if you take i myself visitors. well, it’s like where i’m from and often taken away, and for 2 months for cotton picking cotton you are from uzbekistan yes, i myself yes, samarkand, that’s how it turns out. so, when i arrive, well, he arrives there, everything is there, as it were. i'm not some kind of collective, and i've always been like one, it's always been like that and two there were girls who were such laughter, and in principle, i liked them so much hmm because they were so light, well, as if it were always fun with them. well, even among

themselves they were, but it was fun to see. and so they teased me a little. i was angry, of course i didn't talk to them. i walked alone. yes, by the way, i like to be offended. tell us a little about your story, about your childhood, about your family of origin. i was raised by my mother alone. dad was not like that. well, that is, i don't remember him and i used to thought how

you feel now? this is important, so do not calm down, but on the contrary, try to speak from this feeling. so here it will be just okay, oh, why will you cry. we are talking about childhood right away, because it was not entirely joyful for me.

i don’t remember my left father, how my mother told me that he just left, left us and that’s it. and me always. when did i see? other of their girlfriends, who addressed their dad there to their dad. i could never say this word to anyone. i never uttered dad. try to talk now. this is just tell me that dad didn’t leave you, but with mom, and you specifically me. what do you feel when you say it?

it doesn't bother me that much. why do you think? i don't know, because half of your bitter and dramatic memories are related to what your mother said. maybe you took on just as much of her pain that her father left her because it was humiliating. it was a loss for her, as a woman, and not having coped with these feelings herself. she transferred some of these emotions to you. and when you say, dad left us, i was a little surprised by this phrase. i would understand if they told him, my father left me, when i was two , i honestly left me, when i was 15 years old, my father left me when i was a year old, but when an adult woman says, dad left us. but after all, you didn’t even see him, that is , it turns out that you took part of your mother’s

experiences onto yourself, not your own. well, yes, mom said that well, she told a lot, and she cried there. it was the conversations were not really, yes, and she had a serious problem. she lived in samarkand a abandoned woman with a child. this is culture, logically a big problem. it's an emotionally big problem, but it's not your problem. it turns out that then parts of this dramatic and painful story are removed from your life. yes , you need to digest a little more, of course. but i already know. where is it? which way to think

and about what? you can have a happy childhood. to do this, you just need to go back there and understand that your childhood was conditionally normal. so what it was it gave you the opportunity to grow above the daring opportunity to be a healthy interesting woman, but for some reason you chose for yourself the role of the daughter of an abandoned wife. dad left you your dad was not your dad for your mother. he was her husband and of course, the tragedy of an abandoned woman in samarkand is much higher. than the tragedy of a child whose father left. children grow up without fathers. and this is generally, in principle, he will reveal a secret in nature is normal. because men don't have the same instincts as women. well, we weren't friends. well, at some

point in my life it was so that i was offended. a month or two to ignore hard to ignore together, right? and this, by the way, was transferred to my personal life, where i also take offense. i am also silent, i do not communicate with my husband. then i am offended that he is silent about his relationship with his mother. you and your mother were with arcande. you lived together correctly, there was no one else. no, it appeared at first we lived together, not a very

cheerful laugh now was. until the age of 14, we lived, but together, i tried to help my mother in every possible way in terms of the fact that she always worked. i was responsible there for the house for the household there, well, we usually live in an apartment, but we lived. there , i started cutting salads early, there, then it came to cooking. and then he appeared, and the man in her life, he began to visit us. and i immediately did not like this man, but no one asked me, as it were, especially. about my feelings there, yes. well, at least there is no objection. i was a stranger. in our apartment, he somehow

interfered in your life. and how is it, can you, for example, slept in your bed, ate from your plate, as masha and the bears sat on your chair, you can assume that he somehow visited uh on your mother's half. well, that's why i'm asking, that is, he did not interfere in your life , did not educate you, did not try to teach life. no, there was no such thing. that is, you had a fairly distant relationship. he had a relationship with his mother. you were there because you initially showed this distance and still know how. i just understand that this is the border, right? and

be able to withstand the boundaries of an adult man for a 14-year-old girl, this is a rather serious step and an internal skill. which, in general, was forgotten. lol because now , it seems to me, i don’t have this skill, i can say, i was confused with other people. so for some reason you don't use it. it's the same as riding a bike. if you have learned once, then you can. uh-huh. to this, we will come now. channel one is launching a new project in every corner of our vast country. there are innovators and genius. master engineer or designer and not just about to launch your startup. do you have a business no, a ready-made production or an advanced technology project.

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into the street. other guys but for me, you know this is a friend, this is how i had an example , again from school there was a girl with whom i went to school and back together with her, and there was an older sister and a second girl from our house had the same were two sisters, and i saw their relationship with each other, how they yes, yes, how they communicate with each other and no, i wanted to take the sisters. yes, it's understandable. so maybe you are then like that mammoth that is looking for a mother for a sister or brother, and they are friends and comrades. now i'm not looking, but

i'm looking for my sister in the room, well, my friend, i'm just limiting these, it seems that you are merging these two concepts, because you are looking. i tell you at your place, that is, you had friends. you talk to me friend and began to describe sisterly relationship. that is, for me, a friend. this is a sister. that is, i mean, i show the second person with some of my behavior that how this can manifest itself in my behavior, for now. i just want to see you. look, when i ask you, you tell, you say, and i was with other guys. i say, that is, friends, after all, they were. you say, no, this is not exactly what i would like, of course, it would be great to run away from home with my sister. well, there was no sister. okay , let's be right, the relationship should be like this gap. there must be a lot of intimacy,

but you ran away from home, what happened? well, i either left, yes, or i locked myself in my room and it happened, so it didn’t work out. for days at all from the room. bye. and there it could. to begin to continue to end, because everything starts immediately and i did not want to see all this. and then it happened, so apparently, my mother fell in love very much. uh-huh, and the plague went on a leash, which offered to sell our three-room apartment and move in with him, but in a one-room apartment and she

sold the only thing we managed to do correctly is to register in this apartment. and so, when they ran out, well, they also continued to drink. naturally, and when the money ran out, and at night he directly said to their faces that i conditionally did not want to see you here in my apartment. i will get you out of here, only physically. i won’t touch you, but i’ll destroy you morally, and he didn’t touch, because he knew that we could report to the police there, that is, again everything is in order about the border. if your person can physically touch, but at the same time you say, because he knew, you didn’t say, he didn’t physically touch us, because he was a noble man of blue blood, brought up educated, you said differently. it's just that he

said it himself. it doesn't matter. what he said is important, how you describe it. that is, he did not touch you, just one more remark that everything is in order with the borders. in the end, he kicked you out. well, how did you get out? he already started to drink on his own without his mother , he severely insulted you with all sorts of words, and he insulted you and your mother or mother, so i tried protect yourself and your mother. mom always pulled me up, burned, keep quiet, there will be even more scandal. be quiet. and this is visible. and so, when i was already, when i was able to leave on my own, i left, well, to moscow

from him. here my mother stayed with him, how did your life in moscow develop ? and even this , well, as if it did not push me to the idea of ​​​​returning. here's an hour you remembered how you spent the night on the street there was something happening. just spent the night on the street in summer, in winter, somewhere in the entrance of a rooming house or right on the street, how long did it last. i was not alone. came with me, the same girl with the same problem. she also had a lot. due to the fact

that we are at home, that she had that i had such a situation, no matter how we never had the thought of returning or what? so you decided that you will survive at any cost? well, it just seemed to me at that moment that it was even better here than there at the entrance here it is better than there, sochi mom with mom. and it looks like you did it. and do you really understand that almost all success stories are heard. read memoirs of successful people. i came to america with one dollar in my pocket. i came to moscow with a knapsack with things. i arrived there and spent the night on the street and i arrived and worked, and i took out the garbage from the restaurant, that is, almost any story.