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rescuers 5011 fires were assigned an increased rank of complexity. at the moment , the fire has succeeded and that's it. see you. here is an example i have one friend he goes to the gym once every two weeks. but his videos are recorded for this entire period. yes, for 14 days. he uploads something from the gym every day, but it happens there once every 2 weeks. we don't know exactly how your girlfriend is. maybe she really did more success than you. but here, tatiana, it is very important to remember that if you have less money than someone else, this does not mean that there is little less money and little is different things,

so when we evaluate something ourselves, for example , yes, and in the absolute characteristics a little bad, poor hard. we actually, uh, as if for our psyche for our unconscious we lay down in the coffin. the lid covered everything badly. yes. but when we start comparing, we say, yes, i have less than veronica but more than petr ivanovich let's try to talk about roots. why do we start comparing? why does a person begin to compare and normal? you just need to compare the two sides, you know, if we compare only there. we create something worse for ourselves. yes, some are worse off, some are poorer, some are less successful that way. well , from your group. uh, everyone has achieved what you have achieved, far from all, far from all

, not even in the same essence in this, because you forget. well, how would you determine your exact location. understand when you compare only with her. are you in pain compare with that and with that it is easier to look at the positive, we look in order to take an example from someone, but we also look back in order to understand how it happens. please tell us a little about what happened before you said you started. i heard that in the hostel, that is, you are not a muscovite, no. where are you from? i said that it's a pity in the kaluga region, yes. and can i immediately put a tick in your head here? you are a girl and a rescued woman in the kaluga region, who today works in moscow, yes, but in fact i have achieved, and so many. well, that is, i am now inviting me to teach at a university because, in general, i am a great specialist - this is something

that i have no doubt about. and there were even cases when this girl, who earns more, turned to me with questions about clients and consulted for free. well, yes, well, we already thought, yes, yes, that is, we are just discussing the issue, and dad and mom are proud of you now. yes, probably yes , you probably don’t know for sure, but how they say that they are proud, but this is a very correct phrase. yes, they tell me not to i know what's inside them, in general, the phrase daughter. i'm proud of you, i sounded quite often, your childhood, rather not. e in our family is so accepted, that it’s better not to overpraise. and, of course, this was not enough. that is , parents, of course, teach us. yes, during their upbringing, they teach us. uh, including noticing your own achievements. that's when

we can't. and it’s like we open our eyes every day and we have to start a little from scratch. yes, because we deny our achievements. we say it's a little absolutely not. and this is a start from scratch. well , of course, it motivates. now what is important, you are already a 27-year-old girl, yes, yes, maybe you missed this from your parents. yes, but now who can give you this? well, i myself, of course, and this training is a topic to train yourself to notice your achievements. look at what we are seeing now, we are skins with you. two adults with some baggage of knowledge are trying to solve tatyana's problem somehow, you need to come to you with a problem. and in response we get such a very sluggish monosyllabic such. there's something right there

barely spoken and i can't figure out, no, the motivation. there is no energy to solve the problem, maybe you need to rummage here. ah, it's great for natalya to share these two concepts of energy motivation, because there is motivation. here is the motivation - this is the answer to the question. why and the second question? why? i want something in this life to do both of those things. if you ask, you are on them for sure. answer, yes , and why and why? but energy is some kind of our resource, it may not be enough, where does the energy go. the energy of your personality is not your body, but personality forces it is very good to think that they leave these forces and go into negative emotions. but negative experiences fear, anxiety, dissatisfaction with oneself, irritation, feelings of resentment, guilt, that's the whole spectrum of negative

emotions overloads our nervous system and biochemically, we feel the same tiredness, as if we plowed for 3 days and did not sleep there. well, yes, and therefore i, in general, after watching these stories, lie down right in apathy for a while. what turns you on? well, tell me something straight story, when you are direct and so that we can see that with you, michael, i will be in a completely different context. yes, really, what situation can give you strength so that you don’t open your own courses. yes, but it appeared there, i don’t know, anger is some kind of healthy question. he is generally the wrong approach here is this. let's, if we have a person without energy, let's fill him with something, actually ask what situations there were, what, uh, they gave her energy, that is, they are resources for her. your colleagues are creating, and i'll tell you what now she will feel, she will think. well, i

had such situations, which means i have to generate them again, but i can’t, which means i’m bad. again, i will not be god energy from the uh studio and we will dissect it with you here. you see, without it. here we decompose tatyana's personality into an atom, which means that somehow we compose a secret for her. come on, you have come . your chance is sitting, by the way, a cool psychologist is sitting. let's get the maximum competence out of a hors colleague. let's extract the answer to the question from our wonderful tatyana why do people experience negative emotions? or you tell me why people experience negative emotions that take away their strength. well, there may be a lot of reasons, so help, let's no , because this is already and i don’t know, then the usual answer is - this is why i feel so negative. judging by the fact that there is a certain life situation. and now she creates pain for me, in which i do not agree. for example, i don’t agree about it and

the protest is already on our side. yes understand your negative emotions. tatyana is not a consequence of the situation in which you are a consequence of the opinion that this situation is wrong once the opinion. and the second thing is that this situation should be different right away. yes? and it’s not even a fact that i want to live the same way as she does me, in general, some of my goals, uh, my tasks, my ideas in general about who i want to become, and while watching, i forget about these some of my goals and well, how would you envy, or what? ah honestly, that this envy jealousy. it's definitely not jealousy. and what is this envy? yes, and in some disorder. well upset about me, that is, i don’t want her to be somehow different or that she didn’t have this. well, yes, it turns out that i want to have it there, or even

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if they give me 100.000 200.000 million. this will not improve the situation in any way. i want to find a way how to fix this flow? yes, how to get it? how to sell your services? how can you search, and what is needed to seek strength, and you spend your strength on what you are experiencing, that you cannot find it right now. just not now. but why because you think it should be right now. yes? this is some kind of child just in all areas of life so in his personal life, how is it with you? but no, it’s not so far in all areas, but, but i’ve begun to work it out right now, probably for the last two or three years, for example, in sports it’s not so, that is, everything cannot be all at once. yes, gradually, each workout with men is also

not everything and not everything at once, that is, there you are, but the fact that the fashionable word is tolerant, yes, accept this world and here such as it is, such a gradual world. yes, but to yourself in this regard in your personal life , you have everything here. you also compare your young people with your girlfriends, and in some situation no no, because i mean, they are with each other of your young people about your young man with a young man. i compare more. relations at some points yes , here, uh, the man took care and filed in a fugue. he didn't give me a jacket. that is, it hurts you, it hurts you leave such a note to yourself. yes, i am frustrated somewhere. i get upset. and what are you saying? it's trying to talk to a young man, i'm not trying to change him, but now

i don't have a young man. no, we recently broke up with my past boyfriend. together 11 years and 11 years. yes, we just grew up. well, yes, they grew up and just went in different directions, that is, they went in different directions, but i began to delve into the feeling of vkontakte. when i began to deal with children, it turned out that when i accept them, when i give them voice, but everything goes . well, the correction is going much faster. so i, accordingly, began to develop it in myself. and my boyfriend is from the same system. in general, that, well, that, that in the villages, that feeling, well, no, places of life. there is no place to just always work work work and work.

well, here, here, and at some point you began to be ashamed of him, probably, yes, but we were together and never went to friends, that is, i didn’t go to what he just didn’t go, because you always have to work. i celebrated all my birthdays when i was alone with friends, that is, he did not go, because he didn't have time for tatiana and her friends to do that. i don't know. once there was a case when i gathered the guys in order to introduce them. in general, then with him we were going to go together and he said, now to go out. i'm already talking gum, i'm not going. yeah, i won't go, yes, that's all, but you can't make a person go. i went alone, of course i was upset. that is, it is some kind of betrayal in some sense. yes, because i collected it is for this that i think, why? i didn't

go, but he talked about what it was waste of time. and these were the guys who achieved, uh, success in business in various areas. but these were from a certain company and he said, what, well, what will i show them? well, that is, i went to communicate, but i was shy. i feel like myself, myself. he was embarrassed now, perhaps because tatyana was also broadcasting in some way consciously subconsciously verbally non-verbally. that's a successful success, right? maybe by successful i mean that when they got together, they were just like them they were just hanging out. i don't know whether they played table games and computer games or they had a lot of talk about who achieved what, who went where, such a grant got no, there were no such conversations. these were the guys and these were already adults, the guys. and we

met them at the same master class. in general, they liked that i was just alive. we've been meeting for a while. sasha was in the army at that moment, and at some point we were going to play board games. i smoothed them over, and they have the director of the bakery there , the leaders are e well, that is, this already held and they are not about showing some achievements. they are about life and them. that is, what i was about life, about playing, about somehow talking, laughing, that is, in this regard, i am so light and lively, and sasha well, here’s something else and it turns out that i couldn’t pull him into life, but he i was able to close our conversations into this material world, until now they have taken it out. yes, i

endured that when it begins. this comparison needs to be grounded and returned. that's just to the goals of the plans and move away from it children's magical thinking. ugh, here it is. what the young man with whom you broke up is doing now, i don’t know, but rather. yes, i do not want, as it were, completed and completed. well, okay. in general , i don’t know and don’t climb. and here you are all the time talking about your goals. and what are the goals? the fact is that as soon as i try to set them for myself somehow. and i have the same situation, like this, when i compare myself with uh girlfriend and this usually happens when the goals are too ambitious, you know, the psyche works that way. i set myself this

goal. yes, i understand that i achieve it. in the short term, i can’t, and for this i get upset and leave. down again, i don’t try to put it down, not even a small one, because immediately my energy merges . such an assumption, when do you get into this state? yes, that's what throws you home motivates this apathetic one. yes, you blame yourself for it. do you have something like this. why am i such a fool here? why am i a specialist here, oh, and myself like this myself felt. do you have this self-criticism? well , to be honest, i didn’t notice it right in this format. i rather go to bed and get very upset, and at some point i just fall asleep, because the energy drops right to zero and there are such dialogues. uh-huh no in my head. look after yourself, because there is. uh, here

is the so-called two-story structure of negative emotions. yes, the emotion itself and then the dissatisfaction of this emotion. here's to working with the emotion itself. it is necessary to remove dissatisfaction with her, that is, yes, i envy. okay, i'm a living person, i have the right to envy, because if it goes well with you, i envy and scold myself for being envious. this is directly overloading the psyche and feeling. ra- such a bessist is a very interesting story. we will now discuss in more detail. and this is a podcast of the psyche, where i am journalist natalya loseva and clinical psychologist mikhail khors we analyze various complex configurations of our psychological problems. so what do you just need to allow yourself to envy praise yourself for it or how to allow yourself to accept? uh, even those u know, mental and personality traits that u are considered to be negative and

unpleasant, for example, but accept them as the norm, actually? yes, because after all, our psyche is the world as a whole, it is generally multi-colored. and here is an attempt to assemble, as it were, a puzzle only from beautiful bright and interesting pieces, yes, and throw it away. there, all black gray colorless leads to the fact that the puzzle becomes full of holes. and now, as if through these holes, all the power leaves us, on the contrary, when we begin to rely on all facets of our personality. here i am jealous. and here i am, on the contrary, i am happy for my friend. here. i'm probably kicking myself for that i'm not happy for my girlfriend. wow, that means, let's stop scolding ourselves for the beginning for being a man. article right now aloud to me, please tell me, i'm a man. i have the right not to be happy for my friend. i am a person, i have the right, and i have the right not to be happy for my girlfriend, right? you feel something now, but you even want to

cry a little. and well, how is it? yes? she is my friend. that is, it's like a betrayal on my part man. i have the right to betray other people. i am human, and i have the right to betray other people. does not mean, that i will do it. yes? naturally, i would say that you have such an opportunity. you know, sometimes it happens. it turned out like this, if we gnaw at ourselves all our lives, we will not do better to anyone for this. therefore, what is happening now is what i ask you, now it is called what to pronounce. what is the word affirmation forgiveness forgiveness of oneself. yes, you know, in any book it says that you need to forgive yourself? yes,

it is written in any. it's just not written how to do it. now i'm telling you how to forgive yourself, take a piece of paper, write the word forgiveness on it and add it in front of this word. the letter of simplification forgiveness - this is a simplification of the attitude towards oneself is an attitude. here is not some complicated, far-fetched, not some requirements that we cannot translate into reality. yes and it’s simpler i’m a person i don’t have some shoals in my life, and i scold someone, sometimes i envy someone, i don’t love or betray. well, it happens, i'm a man and i simplify my attitude towards myself simpler. that's when we do it and life gets easier. and we have more strength, because we

stop them in hatred of ourselves, yes, to spend, but the word hate comes from what word see, yes, not to see, that is, hatred - what is it? i don't see myself or the other person. here it is. and i say, you shouldn't have something like that. you have to be different, this is hatred, you understand, and how else can you fight envy, because after all, the most filthy feeling, because it can be white motivating and so that it motivates it is very important to answer the question. and why here why do you need money? and what is the glory of the impact of security way to adjust this flow of finances? why this sense of security? no, i don't feel right now. you see, it

's also a wrong financial cushion inside me - it's always actually part of our sense of security, but a request for complete security. it is also an infantile world, generally a dangerous and dangerous place. yes, and you will not get rid of it. will there be more money ? will there be more fear that this money will be taken from you? honestly. believe how the state. can i ask a question with such a limit honesty answer to it would you like this friend to envy you now? it seems to me that then the relationship will collapse, because i compare myself with her and , accordingly, and i don’t want her, well, bad things and when she envy me. it will look exactly the same in my head, she will lie down and she will run out of energy and she will feel bad. i don’t

want her to feel bad, because you are talking about her, she will emphasize differently. yes, healthy anger. yes well, therefore once again directly find the answer to a question. why do you need this stream? so far you don't have an answer to the question. you are not formalized. you understand this target motivation, you are trying to run away now, as if from some kind of pain, right? that's bad for me. i 'm trying to escape from this pain somewhere, but it's better to run towards the goal. i saw a post from this same friend, she took a picture with her phone, and wrote. here's my new office for cash. i thought how good it is that i don’t need it, that is, these direct finances. here is the amount of money financial things. this is not quite what i need here is the money. to me i need some way to get this money. and

if it is, and if it is a wealthy man who says, tribute, stay at home, please. here's your money, here's your resources, here's your resources, here's your opportunity, stay at home to give birth to children. i love you. herself. you don’t understand, i’m wondering that it’s as if i didn’t become an adult then, that is. here, probably, i'm just looking for this. well, how are adults with you, an adult woman 's wife, for example, a rich man is well-off , housekeeping to a great achievement. it is still necessary for this man, it means to find and to keep it all with a lot of work is a serious investment. it's like i can't stand on my own feet. so we broke up as a young man, and he paid for the apartment, and he also paid for food. so i basically spent my money on education and invested in

development. well, that's how it was. and now it turns out that the money that went to me for my development, i, uh, i don’t rent an apartment. welcome adulthood. this is development. by the way, yes, yes. yes, the refrigerator will not fill itself, but i understand. well, i want while i need money. even honest i need money, what to whom why why do i need money, it 's some kind of shame with my mother so they taught, probably, yes, that money wants money, it's something like that. well, not more interesting. yes oh, money is evil. even money electricity is evil , you can say electricity can kill a person. can you warm up breakfast? yes, electricity is a tool, the same with money, gasoline for a car. you do not pray for gasoline. well , why don't i pray for money, that is, i say,

as if they would give me money, that's cool. in a sense, this will simplify this life, well, it is determined for a certain period. uh, no one will give money. wait to pick up, you know, but in this position, well, my money is not important. well, i’m like this, it’s important not to take money again, once i’ve already changed my shoes in the air. let's be honest, the money is needed as a flow. this is the main goal, then money is not important money. this is a general success. well, success is always money not always. well, it seems to me that somewhere here you need it. yes, that's envy, i think in general, you can? but i think that envy is, you know, what kind of motivator is it that turns on when all the others have burned out. she calls. i just have apathy, that's the whole problem. well, let's give you your

opinion that if you envy someone, then you are bad use envy as a tool, go ahead. in general, envy in moderation, think about yourself and let all your motivations be positive secrets we hope that you will find this energy, but do our homework, yes and it’s easier, of course, to yourself and easier to yourself. it was a podcast psyche, where i am a journalist, natalya loseva and my advice, leading clinical psychologist, candidate of psychological sciences mikhail ors, are sorting out quite complex problems here, but the problem is precisely that, here is a specific local, that is , i cannot say that i am not successful, quite a bit. who will win the car. well, you didn't even say so. you won a car, but it's the same. what, what is this? well , some was, well, so-so, when was the last time the car, yes, last week, i

feel, of course, devalue myself achievement. yes there is now you are in some kind of fact, this is called a crisis. don't try to jump out of it. allow yourself to get out of it gradually. uh-huh yes, this is such a professional personal crisis now. by the way, he is quite common among young people. just now, closer to 30 and 27-28-27 you start, what is still needed and not needed early. well, it's only been 4 months, so we'll figure it out. well, the girl is young, pretty. everything will be fine with personal relationships, it is important to get out and allow me to get out of the crisis, because i it seems that you broke up. it's here too. added you a crisis, on the contrary, a way out. well, it seems to me that this is a dead end, which hmm yes , the crisis, she added, well, yes, both families were waiting. waiting to get married. yes, everything is already

, it seems to me that they were not expecting anything, because for 11 years. you can already save several times, it turns out. you had one single man in your whole life, yes, yes. this, of course, find yourself an older man something good, interesting. do not listen, please sell yourself, please, such a social. why should he man in his 40s? why did she say 35-40 that's what it will be. i think you're just talking. i communicate a lot. i'm just very happy to flirt with them. no, flirt flirt. what followed was interesting. that's what was on the face now, that's it, it's so personal. yes? it's the same world to give me young unmarried girls

to flirt with. oh god, don't say no. i 'll explain to you, it's just that flirting is, let's say, a hint of sex. yes, first of all, no. why not? well, hint, but don't let go. what, and why deceive then, and everything should be honest in of your life. listen , there is nothing more interesting than this subtle game of smart people, even when they understood one person. i don't know how to flirt with anyone. that's why father, of course. this podcast is a must read. today we will talk about the dark alleys of bunin as the pinnacle of an erotic rose. i

am aglaya na batnikova, director, writer, host of the podcast, my guest today is marina stern, a neurologist, head of the neurorehabilitation department, candidate of medical sciences, and sergey izotov, poet, journalist specialist in the white guard movement. you can imagine that why i chose the dark alleys because it seems to me that bunin, uh, has reached the pinnacle of his skill in this collection of stories. it is also interesting to me that these stories were written during the second world war in exile, and, uh, it was a kind of destroying the world, that is, we already understand that bunin was an emigrant from the russian empire. and he didn't agree. with the revolution , he refused to return to russia, but, nevertheless, the basis of his work was

the memories of this russian noble life and uh, i wonder why bunin turned, let's say, to the topic of erotica, because she was quite innovative for e high literature and why he did it so successfully, and marina dark alleys actually reveal before us this world e everyday aristocratic environment. uh, where e people of noble birth had love demons well, let's just say, yes bunin's in the dark alleys. eh, a lot of it is about real-life erotic flat relationships that aristocrats developed in the main. e s christian women with slave girls and some orphans who lived in the house. there is in this. it seems to me, some. well, such a duality that breaks the psyche.

that, relatively speaking, love is one thing for you, but sex is completely different for you, and it’s like a gap between love and erotica, as it seems to you, if there is some kind of value gap in this and whether it prevents a person from being happy. and i think that this is primarily due to the attitudes that society dictated at that time, and the aristocratic environment in russia this is an orthodox environment. orthodox values. they are still always. well denial- if not denied, then let's say so concealed, but all these flat pleasures they were perceived as a sin. ah, respectively, this is from childhood. first, the little aristocrats had great examples in the form of their parents. yes, that is, these are values ​​that have been formed over several centuries, yet in this way, by the twentieth century, a fairly clear one was formed. well, let's say a binary value system. yes, you have. uh, what society dictates. you must

comply with the rules, uh, which are, well, such scripts by and large, and yet, yes, the scripts by which he lives and is obliged to implement, he is obliged to receive there by inheritance and, accordingly, uh, continue the family line. well , no one has canceled the needs of young men in the process, let's say, maturation is in the process, and they are growing up in some way. i think they weren't satisfied with poetry, so of course that's all. case exit. that is, if you have a need to implement, this implement it in the way that is available to you. in this case , these are the same more accessible women, available from the social system. yes. uh, still, the fates of these girls were destroyed, that is, we know that they, uh, then could not lead a normal life. after seducing them. oh yes, some kind

of borchuk, for example, and this resulted in some unpleasant stories and even the main story of the dark alley cycle, dark alley. he is just about such a meeting, when the barin meets with an eye, when you are with him, and a woman later. uh, lots years. yes, it’s even there and she’s already a natural age, but he also remembers her beauty and then she enters into a conversation with him and says that her heart was broken. she was very unhappy that he ruined her life, that she still loves him, and in general, it pops up in his memory, right? this is an adventure and he is at the end, when he is walking in a carriage. hmm, remembering, he understands that it was still a misalliance, and she would never have been able to become a mother, his children and other exits were not unpleasant for him. yes , when you meet, uh, tempted when there women started, says, you ruined my whole life. and i agree that, but here is also the moment

that the peasant community was even more religious of course, such girls. they were stigmatized in a big way, and they weren't free anymore, and they were trapped in a big way, because , well, what a dream girl. yes , that's the one, if we are talking about the script, yes , the same cinderella script well, it's eternal by and large, they all dreamed of getting married. you know they're all represented by that love won stand, anyone will win, but unfortunately, no, this is not so. for them , by and large, it is a psychological trauma, and if we look from the point of view of medicine, yes offensive things, then this is post-traumatic stress syndrome. the sad fate of peasant women before the vein of serfdom, yes or how, and this is not only before the abolition of serfdom, this is after yes, this is after, because if we

consider the period that bunin describes, this is the very beginning of the 20th century. at that point in time, probably before the twenties nevertheless. it seems to me that psychology has remained , that is, uh, slavery was abolished, but the psychology has still remained of this social hierarchy, that is, you have abolished slavery, and dishonest people have maintained relationships. uh-huh seryozha tell me please, in principle, among the people who migrated about these white officers about this environment, the representative who was bunin and some of her features. because it is clear that this is both orthodoxy and a monarchy. yes , some features of the psychological social. tell us more about it, please, to us, well, combine it, perhaps, possible only by the fact that they were forced to flee. this is the first and second. this is a general understanding rather than such nostalgia. it was expressed in completely different ways among different representatives of this society, but because they were driven there to certain cities. the same, that is, there is

paris, but there is no money, what is the same at the same time were there, young conditional migrants. there are also borispoplavskys, who earned money there by carting, and wrote at night, there are only rescues, which then returned and wanted to sparkle. uh, the communist system, but also at the same time, gippius was considered a close friend , budding or writers. they lived in the past, roughly speaking, they tried through this past. yes, through this past bring hope for the future, and they lived very introverted and believed their ideas. well, here it is, somehow it can be saved and continued. the tradition that they took with them was taken away from this atlantis by drowning forever, because there was no more this aristocracy, there was no this social order, there was nothing from their past. yes, at the same time, again, if we take bunin conditionally, then this is a representative of such a hardened immigration, that is, he is not exactly the same. well , roughly speaking, such a post, turgenev's vibe. you know, when you're about to eat and so on, you're already

leaving with a name. you don’t leave, like many others, you don’t leave for the regions as an author, when he warmed up he was a famous author, by the way, yes, he received his first fame and all the pushkin prizes, as for this the translator flirted with the symbolists and perhaps it was his perception of poetry that shaped his prose, but, because especially dark alleys they by density concentration. yes, here, for example, take a beauty. i mean, well, it's not there. yes, there really is no plot, there is what the poet does, roughly speaking, he dissolves some kind of reality and collects it. from the symbols, here is a very dense, very compressed something, and you already, while reading it, understand that there is another fable behind this. what, uh, how can one characterize this white guard idea? they wanted to bring real russia as they imagined it. here, but they wanted the past, or try to fit it into these small mugs with the hope that they will return there, or

somehow modernize it. and from all these attempts at games, with the past, they all repelled, and here there were several exits, and there was a very mesotherapeutic exit to score everything there and try, as it were, to call for the destruction of the universe, as ivanov did in some verses, then there is such cynicism isotropism. and there was a way out to try to come to terms with this and return here, too, to national bolshevism, which then arose. it is also a reaction to this loss of soil. yes, you were someone, but everything you're trying. yes, there the ustryalov is trying to offend, the smenakhites are trying to unite. here are some stories. uh, the narrative is the logic of the development of imperial russia and soviet russia and see this as one big project, and many tried to return and returned to the same one, vertinsky, for example, as far as i know , bunin was offered to return, but he refused and this, by the way, is the most curious and this curious and in the spirit of his work of these dark alleys, because bunin this man of such timelessness, who was lost in him in

well, yes, that is, what, in principle, they present him basically that you haven't created any image to cling to. you don't have your own schismatic. you don’t have tolstoy’s characters, yes , who are dying looking at the sky, but sagittarius agrees that he managed to create the image of russia, the image of the motherland that is, maybe there is no one character, but this is the world. eh, here is the noble life. there are many scriptures there. you are their moments. he outlined his condition. that is precisely because he poetizes prose. he's a man not a state, not a narrative and uh, this is the worst, because when you don’t have this, roughly speaking, an ideological core or even hatred there is strong. here is some kind of central cynicism that is so towards women, i don’t even know in relation to reality rather. well, you kind of see that he's just describing it in brush strokes, and that

's probably why he refused to immigrate. that is, as if vichy france, you mean yes, yes, yes, in vichy france, what is it, where he wrote in the dark time an underoccupied state, it is not clear who controlled it is not clear that you live in such a piece of timelessness. that is why, in order to gain at least some understanding of time, he turns to the past. he also began to write this life arseniy you also emigrate the life of arseny in the novel of the kayan and well, by the way, the most probably in terms of emotion is a beetle, because he wrote it on his word, but in dark alleys, it seems to me he explores precisely the topic of relationships and completely different from it layers. that is , relatively speaking, he runs away. it seems to me from e some problems. just when you find yourself in timelessness. you know, here like a man from the underground of dostaevsky. you have nothing but a description of yourself of these states, and then you can’t even return, because he said, in my opinion, well, well, as it were, and who am i? well, i'm

used to living in france something i don't feel like everyone is already dead. yes, leave me alone , and at the same time, it’s like such a journey again, he even has the image of the road, the image of the fact that it is the sphere of love that supports him. that is , it turns out he still has an ax and he cannot find it. this is evidence of his, roughly speaking , such a defeat, including, because all these relationships end either with regret about something gone, or with the fact that some emancipated girls cruelly abandoned him, because there, i kind of got it. oh, what did she get. i'd rather think about a beautiful peasant woman, as it were. well, what a pity that we are not together. it seems to me that this is a matter of perception of the environment , that is, people moved from well from their usual environment to a completely different one, and for obvious reasons, they really took some shreds of the past and they served as a support for their subsequent development. just one of them managed to adapt. yes, and go further there,

pasternak, and someone just got stuck. as you rightly said, it was in that part of the environment that they brought, and they could not simply integrate it into the environment that was at that moment in time, because the epoch is changing. it's not only they get bad changes, and then there are military operations. yes, one way or another, this is, well, a rather stressful situation and a person, of course , clings to what he understands is familiar and he does not want to leave this, it can be often invented world is often tied to some. the dark realm, because, well, it's one of the most real, yes , situations when the world changes, when the world changes, uh, a person looks inside himself trying to find support. and so, if we are talking about poets on this, as people who described the space feeling and feeling the state.

this mixed sensory environment, this is their fulcrum by and large, therefore, in the fact that it leaves as soon as you create one work, as if, if experience is not turned into text, it does not even becomes the past, as i read, the repertoire of glory of the cpsu and you have some dense concentration. but bunina it always ends with some kind of defeat , roughly speaking erotic, including those connected with his first, in my opinion, any, that here is the story of this story. what did he have? and the love that came to him, but it could not stand the craving of everyday life, as far as i remember, yes and no, this is also connected with his first work in the oryol province. yes, she will not stand it said e dear. i'm leaving to live normally in life. here it is, like the first experience always leaves an imprint. yes, such an imprinting , by and large, is assimilated and projected onto all subsequent relationships, but at another

time such a work could have developed in a different historical context with such a longing for the motherland for beautiful russian women. it seems that her longing for the motherland is not tied to time. it has a connection to the person to the situation. yes, to the situation. is it possible to say like this? for example. uh, there's a lot of criticism right now. i hear in the direction of the artists that why you do not reflect the current situation? why are you on what is happening, here it seems to me, bunin and dark. this is just a wonderful example of how a person, when there really are some historical cataclysms around, he takes and writes erotic prose completely without time, and time and people who no longer exist and never this world will not return and it becomes hmm a work of reference erotic and we are still. uh, we focus

on this. hmm, on this request. and it turned out that this is a very successful example of an artist who does not pay attention at all, because going around so to speak. yes, e does something of his own completely in counterpoint to the situation, and he succeeds, and he wins over those who can be, e, somehow more focused on the current situation, he would if you did not, if time forced him to turn to it, it seems to me, that is, you know, history played a role here. she pushed him out and thereby forced him to pay attention to it. ah here, of course, as would analogy with demons. i have uh asking for dostoevsky there is, as it were, a conditional verkhovensky, who is obsessed with political ideas, and stavrags , to whom he says let's go to kontonuri, as it were, and i answer him there with you we will look at a big spider that descends from the roof. damn, i found my big spider and my office of time, it seems marina a. i

wanted to talk, that's what we mentioned, that's it. e dostoevsky is a wonderful example, after all, dostoevsky we have two. this one here agrees. what is there that the book is ready psychopathology. this is a podcast must-read. today we are talking about bunin and dark alleys, as in the pinnacle of erotic prose. my guest is marina stern, a neurologist, head of the department of neurorehabilitation, candidate of medical sciences, and poet sergey izotov and glaiana. batnikova director writer, podcast host. do you agree marina? it seems to me that bunin is a very healthy person, and he has a very healthy sexuality. and this is reflected in the dark alleys. that is, if we compare, for example, with dostoevsky, i heard men tell me many times that after reading the image of dostoevsky's woman forever broke their psyche of relationships with women. well

, it seems to me that this is connected precisely with the image of a woman. and bunin's let's say it. so erotic plast he is plast healthy person. can i say so. yes, i think so, because, despite the fact that the sad look yes on women is some kind of reflection of sad experience, as a rule, this is a reality, yes, that is, it does not give those colors that usually characterize a certain plaque the ninth does not give negative colors to psychopathology. ah. here are the negative positive. that is, it doesn't matter. these are extremes. these are extremes. these are sharp corners. these are the words that we describe the image of a woman, because one way or another from dostoevsky bunin we look at women with male eyes. well, yes, and accordingly, he describes how he perceived them. he describes their thoughts, describes first of all his thoughts, and not women's thoughts. well, are

the thoughts of these women really worthy of what they write down, right? let's stick with the male look, but uh, it's good in dark alleys regardless. well, let's just say global out an alliance that is constantly present in these love stories, as a red thread. e, after all, there is, er, a respectful admiring attitude towards a woman, and i didn’t see e anywhere. here uh, let's say some kind of e deceit, yes or some kind of narcissistic song that is amazing among all this whole bacchanalia and it touched me so much . i realized that, well, this is such a beautiful soul person, and i really want to get to know him, he is real, as if well, i left the factory and immediately

called him myself, because i was not let go to their concert. my dad says what kind of pet music is this. though, though, he's a rock musician himself. in general, i did not expect from him. well, well, well, i had to call myself, i was not afraid of anything. everyone is so surprised. and why well, how are you? well, what is it? in general, i was a simple girl who answered the phone and called, let's meet, otherwise we were on tour with your factory, then a bunch of tours were something endless. it was summer, as i remember now, but before that, of course, i said goodbye to my previous young man, who wrote to me at the factory anyway, probably not. i just realized that he was absolutely not my person, because he was all so correct, and i changed so much at the factory, that is, i spoiled it dramatically, well, yes, girls of hooligans, a girl, yulechka became just an alternative one. here's

a break. well, that's all, and we immediately met somehow and away we go. listen, do you know that this year a selfie was invented which was 2005? well, this, in my opinion, paris hilton britney spears first took a picture of herself. yes, it's all bullshit, really. selfies have been around for a long time invented back in the days of the king of peas, when people took pictures, so they took real cameras to change teams. yes, show me a photo where the hand is visible and it is clear that the person himself had such pictures that the person himself was not. but no, before they did it differently with themselves, before there was this one, as if a reference camera was inserted into this one. his hymens got him up, yes. and for sure, by the way, in well, wait a minute, it was also, in my opinion, where the wolf is there, yes, who invented the selfie wolf, as it were, wait a minute. listen, let's

move on to the movies, what we got out there this year. listen to me in general, when they ask about zero. i usually answer. i don't remember zero. why? well, because he was rarely ahead. own kinoksik, well, i was i was intoxicated by the events that took place in my life and it was then to watch movies that's all, like him, i also had tours with the factory, then my tours, yes, i 'll name a couple of films. you will now understand that they still did not pass by. well, first of all, brokeback mountain oh god, god forgive me. yes, i tried to look, but my my fiber is my souls cannot calmly perceive, as a man of wool, where they tried us with all sorts of films , the most alternative version of akira, kurasana tried us with japanese cinema , spanish cinema, and i know that sometimes you need to watch films at the end and there will be an easter egg at the end, in the end you will understand, that it was not

in vain that these 3 hours of torment, when a japanese climbs a mountain, then another hour and a half back here. i watched to the end, and then i didn’t know that there was a subpoena and their uh-huh, but then i understood why all this was a viperko, by the way, about, and then the film films and the world of kusturica were popular, and do you know why? by the way, yes, we didn’t just insert prokusturitsy initially in kusturica’s song there was no mention of the bush at all, it was called she is a wet chicken. and there, that is, and you, after kusturica's film, there was no such phrase. so, uh, i remember, leni came up to us, said, listen, well, the song is cool, and let's put on something fashionable, so that the locals, this is the local beau monde, here is the moscow one, so that it will be rubbed. let's put here's the kusturis well with chicken rhymes. i say let's go they put it in because he was jealous, and then we had such an interesting story to me, then the guys told the music stores that worked in samara included

such a hefty man, because the people in the general mass, of course, did not know such kusturica, this is still a little sophisticated movie dasha and he enters so hefty. the man says, listen, let me tinker about. and i don't know what kusturica is. well, the song is cool. i think you yourself, he was also a hefty bearded world, and the world of maratovich knows that that in russia there is just like that, if he likes it, that is, barge haulers came up with the idea of ​​​​inserting a kusturitsa after all. yes, he said that he was very much a peach in cinema and from time to time he threw some quotes from the cinema to us, and here is kusturica if you wish. yes, in the same year , a completely chic remake of christopher nolan's batman began with christian bale. gorgeous christian bale who after the machinist where he weighed there 40 kg. he brought himself to exhaustion in seven months, was swung up to batman and in my opinion. this the best batman of all time was christian nolanovsky. do you remember,

i remember this one, where he was thin and very strong. this is a family, it was like watching, yes, a little maniac, but here he is batman, he is cool, this is the atmosphere. she is very trushnaya, that is, not comic-like like tim burton's, but she is very straight. well, everything, right for the truth, right , very cool. in the same year, another version of pride prejudice charlie and the chocolate factory came out. in the same year , our relatives came out. the kids were watching this charlie and the chocolate factory. i almost know it by heart i already knew from the joke of this film, where all the children died. this is how i understand it, it's good that i did not look. i would also not stand in a children's audience clearly. the images are so bright you are not a sweet tooth. yes, i have a sweet tooth. of course, i have cakes. doing it myself would like a factory. oh, i don’t know, it’s necessary then to quit show business, e music and generally do it. only with this, they already

hinted to me that it was not necessary to somehow get there. and it's half better to quit right away or do something. well, i mostly like to make hmm mousse cakes. they are enough complex. eh, the chronicles of narnia came out long, but incredibly tender and tasty, you remember climbing, and there was snow, yes, i watched this strange one. yes, i still don’t understand, but match point scarlett johant looks like a chic film , too, i remember you dream it or portman it’s anti-steels, domestic hmm film market e didn’t leave the state councilor came out two whole films about fandorin this is the state councilor with oleg menserina and uh, with nikita mikhalkov and the turkish gambit hmm i watched this for the ninth year, by the way, i didn’t

like this film that much. by the way, the films master and margarita series mi lost this m-m, like cops. yes, yes, yes master and margarita with abdulov svashvili, just this is amazing 2005 or 2006. i remember watching it from star wars. episode three months of the sith. wow, i stopped watching star wars. everything is not, nor yours, the more they were good. here are the very ones, because then some kind of farce already went on, by the way, about music. i 'm now also raising the archives in 2005 there was an r&b boom, some such fifty-cent shot, by the way, from his candy show. ta-ra-tam vidal then it was very powerful on the wave, by the way, these artists appeared and then there was no hip-hop, as comprehensive as it became here a little later, well, then it was still

popular, again, rock music according to professional music, because these are the same artists, for example, with whom we performed at maxim, this and france, ferdinand this and kaiser, these are pure britons, all these are many of these groups, which are now almost inaudible. yes , but these groups were on the wave then. so we remember then, i compose a lot of my songs they adopted a lot of their arrangements, tried to adopt from them. well, that is, they learned from them. but then it was still popular. yes , they were going to the gorilla stadium, by the way , they organized, in my opinion, this is a daimonalburn. soloist blair, came up with a cartoon project such yes, yes. confession on the dance floor, and from our dima bilan you should have been there. uh, zhanna friske, by the way, began a solo career, then la-la-la and i remember the episode of zhanna friske e

in the context of the program uh about africa on channel one was a reality show program the heart of africa was called or the last hero. they were supposed to live in a place with a tribe led by domogarov, in my opinion, and friske was there , just ira tony would have been there and many, many others. eh, people didn’t invite you to this project here, the guests were on a project in africa south africa, but i don’t remember what it ’s called, it’s probably like sleeping, eating there for 3 days on earth with them, to get caught. it was tough, that is, in the last hero and in the heart of africa , it still doesn’t fit in my head, like the project of channel one, sort of like everyone the artist should be on the bus, like a separate trailer. they really all slept on the floor there , or karenina really was. i saw the ocean for the first time in my life. then i

remember the indian ocean. i saw such emotions. i didn't understand. it's scary and on the other hand it's so amazing. well, now, in principle, our wonderful podcast is coming to an end, although , of course, he doesn’t want to remember, yes, well, it seems to me that they managed to remember everything important, if just something important from your memories of 2005 remained in my grip, well 2005 is the brightest, perhaps, the year, probably, in my youth. this was my youth, after all, then this one, this one , this one, the popularization of our work was so explosive. i would even say, that is, we ceased to be places of the samara group of local importance, they became the all-russian group, and so on. well, here it is, yes. it was certainly encouraging. here. well, and here began a new new life, my 2005, and so i have in 2005 a. it turns out that the second wind opened.

which artist yulia savicheva because 2003 - it was a factory and high with ships. eh, this is the first breath when they would recognize me, now the country has fallen in love. and here, second wind began with a song, if love lives in the heart from the series don’t be born beautiful, and then it just bombed, and all these hits went on, just nastya maximova about that i told you, and then already in 2006 in 2007 i was going to the stadium at the presentation of this album. here. eh, magnitka, yes, yes, we were invited too. yes, we were sitting somewhere on the arbat somewhere in a casino. yes, we were sitting there was just a presentation, where in the clip of a small car. yes, yes, two small cars, this is one of my favorite clicks in general, well, the third wind of cakes. what a third cake there is, a third wind, i have already gone with the song moscow-vladivostok. after

that period, maksimova's tackles are no longer zero. as i understand it, no, this is already 10 loaves, then in the tenth year. uh, max wrote moscow-vladivostok, and that's it, and the third wind started. and now for the fourth time. ah. write in the comments. i really have everything my music career is so bad right now that i switched to cakes nearby. she should know what i did, you know the donalion story when he retired and started growing tomatoes. so this is actually cake. it will be really the biggest truth, 50. years, of course, were not the same. and now, and now, the fourth wind , which means it began when i continued my journey on my own without a production center and the first successful song love will find e

further on the album, which was released not so long ago the element where the songs entered. well, uh, yellow taxi. well, in general, if you remember what successful releases before that were separate. yes , this is everest. this is a real standing song, and weather forecasters. uh, well, in general, some really successful stories that now continue to happen early. i say in 60 seconds 60. today we are remembering 2005. my guest is yuri savicheva and konstantin burdaev the brothers grimm, and maybe, until yulia switched to cakes, until i'm the sixtieth furis, they sing such things. anything oh, of course. your

god me you are not alone forever together do not forget. flame of fire where are you and i?

to the sky behind the star high quiet flight high quiet flight

do not forget. my songs forever with you. at night where are you and i?

i don't know. high quiet flight to the sky for pussy high

quiet sings it's easy.

finally, we found a moment for ourselves, and for a reason, my friend yana, a psychologist, and i fell apart on the floor of the fireplace for a reason. we will teach you now, people said that there is a child inside of us, there is an adult inside of us. we have parents inside of us. and this is how the child wants to spend the weekend, what do the children want? what do they want kids comb their hair brush their teeth get out of pajamas and watch all day. yes, they want to come, so that there is attention, well , so that they share attention while they want and leave it alone. that is. we must leave ourselves alone, as our inner child. give him a chance. and

we also say this some of the time, too . the child should be left alone. let it go wild. let it sit and when you plan the weekend, we need to allocate time and conditions for this to have fun and win. how do you like this option? here we are now with you bastard. but what adults want, in general, an adult likes to work, make decisions, be responsible, but if he does it all the time. he is like a car that you know, they started it and forgot to stop, you need to rest, devote time to yourself, time to yourself and just so consciously sleep. well, not because laziness is put out of bed, because you need the strength of the body. let's say i want to sleep, let's say yes, there is not i know to take a shower here with pleasure, for example, go to the gym or, for example, for a massage with benefit, it turns out eight, but for an adult this time should be beneficial for yourself. well, the mask book. yes, we still have

parents, what do people do parents control? in planning to manage, so that everything is on the shelves. and you imagine that there are parents inside of us, inside of us there is once again an adult child and a parent, and all these three people should rest on the weekend. and when we start planning that we need to go shopping, we need to clean up. necessary start washing. we have to pay all the bills and so on, then we give space only for parents. he himself was tired of straining everyone, but time has passed. not in vain. and the court is so meaningfully conscious, and so on, so the parent is also sometimes given the opportunity to fulfill his parental function to summarize the results of the past week, which has already been completed, when we, as parents, rejoice, we have arrived. children say, mom, i will do my homework. yes, that’s why you, like a parent, look and say that week i either managed, i then managed, i then managed to rest or parents, he never plans new tasks all the time. and when he looks, what has he already

done? he succeeded, and then he says, everything will exhale, i can rest. and it is important in what sequence we behave like this on a day off, first as a child, then as an adult, then as a parent, or vice versa , first as a parent, then as an adult, then to the parents in the first place, then it’s enough for me, neither the adult nor the child will take the place of the parent the whole place. thank you very much, and i would tell my parents to leave for a snack. and so, well, you can start, let's say the morning, like a child, and then give space to an adult. it is necessary to give a rest to all children and adults and parents. in order not to gain extra weight, many women eat only cereals on the water.

this is the wrong approach, meat, fish, eggs and cottage cheese contain all the substances we need , while the body spends almost half of the calories that it has on the breakdown of animal protein, but it is important not to rush to extremes, proteins are digested for a long time and cause intestinal racks, to this to avoid. they need to be combined with fiber proportions. about one to two. that is, to digest 100 g of meat. you need to add 200 g of vegetable salad, mix chopped cabbage, carrots, and chopped greens. we put flax seeds or pumpkin seeds. it is an excellent source of natural food hair seasoned with vegetable oil. after such a breakfast, you will feel full until lunch, and at the same time, there is no fat on the sides.