together, but the girl and the girl do not like it, now it is simpler. don't you think that if you say that directly to the children, uh, they will be offended for life, and when they won't talk to you for a while. explain will shock. but maybe they just need to reason. how to say from room to room periodically over 10 years of living, they just moved, yes, since you have already taken on the role of a man, then take the role of a man in this too, but in the one where you have not gone it all your life. you can already begin to become with the woman back. when you take it in energy with do you do it with care? no, here we have everything somehow. well, everything that concerns, well, in principle , upset. i don't bother anyone. that is , there are such everyday conflicts there, who washes there for a long time or someone is the most absent. that is, no one interferes here. someone left in the morning. it just happened when the pandemic and imagine we all settled in a common space, and everyone still has distance

learning. and i just managed to fix it all. imagine would like to. sorry for the kids. can they watch, talk about the man, then let's go to the kids maria, here's what you need to do in your apartment now, if you imagine that in a week you will meet a new wonderful interesting man and your relationship will develop rapidly harmoniously and so to speak, and you will already be ready to invite this man to invite your big apartment. well, in our time it's perfect. what do you need to do in an apartment in a house and your way of life so that this new man does not run away, as the previous one i will immediately answer. do not invite him to the apartment is not necessary, that is, leave four-room apartment for children to own children gradually. i understand these are harsh statements. but it's really time to gradually start moving out of

the nest, because it's normal for babies to fly out of the nest. yes, they sometimes fly out and hurt them, but this is also normal. but you don’t need to put another man on your hump. if you want to live with a man, let him call you to his apartment, you understand, and as for the children, i don’t know where to say where to tell the children dear, wonderful wonderful. sea children. mother you don't owe. she can give you and she will give and she has given a lot, but her duties are the same. no. here, watch this show, please, mom will come home. you are on your knees in front of her. stand up , kiss her shoes and say, mommy. forgive us, please, dear, you are our mother, beloved. thank you for everything. he did something for us. we will try our best to help you love and protect you. guys,

it's true, when you grow up, you will have your own children, well, or we just have a little life will beat, and life always beats. you will see the feat that your mother performed for you in a completely different way. the main thing is not to be late. that's always good. remember that everything we are fixable while we are alive, so that it is not too late, well, you ask that we address you directly, but it seems to me that the situation is worth it. it was a podcast of the psyche. my name is natalya loseva i am a journalist and my co-host clinical psychologist mikhail khors analyzed a difficult situation, but very vital maria please be happy thank you very much i will try.

hi this is a free program podcast. i am maxim trankov and my today's interlocutor is the beautiful anzhelika krylova . well, in general, how would i spend my youth here at the age of 21. i left and this, as it were , was completely different. i was in the role of an athlete when we left and i became interested in how it works here as a coach, and i came and tried and learned a lot. this is a great experience for me i know, but everything seems to be different here, but the system itself and the preparation, the way i cook, the way i cooked the americans, that's how i cook the russians. well, maybe a little harder, because here you can. well, not because it's possible here,

because they need it here so soon, because they are so used to it. they have been brought up this way since childhood, coaches have been preparing them. in what system a slightly raised tone a little more rigidity of the parent requires the same, so they need it, because when i arrived, i sort of started training there for the first year couples according to that system and with how it was set up, i think that it didn’t work. i had to settle here, but they did not relax. they did not perceive it, because here it comes, as it were, more from the coach. this message goes there more than these athletes, because they pay every hour they work. yes, there is a very high price of crazy juice, therefore, probably, there are not so many athletes who are not so many parents who can bring and voice it professionally,

at least, approximately how much it costs, well plus or minus there depending on the coach. i know, but how much does it cost, for example, an hour, or how much does an hour cost, so that our parents don’t hear about the cost. eh, well, from 100 dollars there to 160-180. so you still need to take the hall, you still need to take the choreography, you still need to take the acrobats. it's not just ice. did it all go down when she came back or not? yes, of course, of course, yes, but i kind of. that it was interesting, i myself am such a risky person and, well, it’s important for me, something for myself, how to extract from it get some experience to learn something new. you knew where you were going. i mean, what will the skating rink school be like. it was necessary to start all over again to open your own club. or how it all works now. not well

, it's clear that i didn't come anywhere. well , there was ice, everyone was interested. i had a very big on the planet of children. even many coaches, probably offended that they came to me, but here i didn’t call anyone like that, i didn’t call anyone, i didn’t invite anyone. they were interested in how it works. for some it worked. for someone it did not work in one of the interviews. you said that the coach of this universal profession will start raising children until i don't know any professional moments. i uh, in principle, i educate them from the beginning so that they are people, this is the first victory already. yes of course, i nurture in them. well, i don't know the spirit of the sport, i don't know from experience. how should you train, how should you approach training, how should you perform? how

to prepare yourself? as if in one or another situation, but to show oneself how to speak in interview? what should you wear? there are a lot of nuances that i have to tell them how to look. parents react normally , parents are only glad that it seems to me that they have such a situation when you educate an athlete one thing, and at home parents educate another and parents together. naturally. this communication with parents is endless, especially when little couples are younger. and the role of parents in figure skating is, in general, colossal. and how without it everything starts with the parents? just when there are two more parents in a couple, when single parents coach here comes, and here it turns out parents, uh, a couple and the coach here turns out to be a lot of two parents.

it hurts, sometimes parents do not help. they interfere, and i have to call my parents to communicate with them. everything is set up in the right way. and i don’t want the couple to break up, because the couple looks good, and the parents contribute to conflicts in the couple. i don’t need it, as it were, but how can parents interfere. they can interfere with the fact that for each parent there is a child. he is better and they see the best they time yeah i don't know what to do. and why is the partner there or the partner not good enough to do it. and why there, for example, an error can occur there at the competition. vaniyah there or somewhere for a year , accusations begin, then they come. oh, girl, i made a mistake, maybe we should change our partner, we didn't have to change her and that's what happens. i kind of just work with the younger group. she is very heavy. it’s just that it ’s also easier to interact with the parents with the older group, as if it were smaller.

conversations and less pressure from the parents, they kind of trust the coach more. i'm interested to know where this line is, how much the athletes can get closer to the coach. well, in general, i am a very caring person, as if initially without even talking about coaching. well , you can just sometimes a little too much, but they are still small young and how i feel that i should take care of them. and yes, but sometimes, maybe you don’t want to go too far. i would like to give them freedom too so that they learn how to act in this or that situation, how to resolve some topic, which they went wrong with, how do they come to dance. how are dance duets created, how does it all happen? well, now the station is very young, as it were, when i skated, the dancing began. so i myself, probably, came about 13 years old. so, 14, well

, then it was necessary, as it were, in a solitary then they didn’t even take it. it seems to me that there was no first category, there were candidate masters of sports and masters of sports. well, there's more. now the dances are already beginning, they can begin from ten years from 9:00. i have a couple riding, as if small. well me it very interesting. i would like to create such a dance school in general, many people really ask if there is a children's school. it seems to me that this is only a condition to remind you that today is my interlocutor. this is the beautiful anzhelika krylova, two-time olympic silver world champion and successful. now an ice dance coach. how, by the way, the stars from star disease, and now i want to praise them so much. directly in the fan chat to write what are you finishing? i want to close it all with the dates i met. even earlier than you

thanks to ice age kids. here i am i saw her right away. there are talents, everything else, but here i am it seems to me that they pay too much attention to these particular prayer speeches, because at such a young age. it must be dangerous to deal with it. well, how to fight hard we are burning. well , it's good that they listen, and as if sometimes it's just very hard. well, in general, they have such a fate. not very successful, because when they practically became number one in the world in juniors and could win several world championships, and there was a pandemic, then with the situation in the world, and they are in this state are already almost 3 years is obtained, how does this affect the two? yes, how does it affect motivation, how do they find strength or and in general, how do you find yourself in them to inspire this desire to work? no. well, we just love what we do.

this is probably the first thing that love and, as it were, dedication to our work , in spite of everything, naturally, we believe that this day will come when we will be able to perform on the international arena. don't know how to develop them interesting to develop them interesting to look for just like to me, probably, in this we found a common core of our team in general. and it works for them. i hope this continues. we are at dancing on ice. i mean, russian athletes always. well , they were in the lead ahead of the rest, that is, two pairs per 500 olympic games. what happened why in dancing on ice? are we that far behind now? that is, with the departure of sinitsyna , the kacellapovannye do not lag behind. it’s just that we don’t play in the international arena right now. it's hard to say that we're behind.

there was just no way to compare them. we only got bronze vancouver then we had bronze with difficulty, obtained there in sochi and in the eighteenth year without a medal at all. i don't know , failures happen. it apparently was such a failure starting out. uh, with us, most likely because of an injury. i had to, as it were, leave the sport. although nobody expected this and thought that we would skate for another 4 years, did we have strong hopes that we would go out in 2002? of course, this gave such a failure, because no one else was on the willow, and he had to become the first couple and immediately quickly join it. and this failure and success uh, igor shpilman, you and marina, and here they are, just picked up and there were changes in the rules in general, changes in the dances, so this is what happened. i don't know why

it took so long, but at that time it was like 2002, and you had a very dramatic story in nagano at the 1998 olympics, then a career of second place. after many years, you somehow look at it now, that is, a situation where well, they didn’t give it, you can say to win there, well, why didn’t they let us have a very honest and equal fight. with oksana goryachuk and evgeny platov naturally , it was very difficult to fight with the olympic champions , and of course, they had more experience and more titles and we had no opportunity to win. they have more than one championship, two olympic games, of course, we hoped, well , they worked very hard, but that's how fate decreed. well, maybe we were kept so that we would not leave after this olympiad and

continue, but because of my injury it turned out differently and no one was destined. it's just fate yes, why is it considered that you won the olympic games and that you will leave? that is , you can hold the athlete so that he becomes the second for the next one. well, that's four more years. it's very hard. why is it so considered that people really can't. there, three times become four times, there we have about a plus. i do not know this athletes depends. maybe he keeps himself in good shape in shape from an athlete from a coach. and first of all, from the athlete’s health, because both injuries and psychological ones . it is very difficult and the new young generation grows up and new favorites during this time , i don’t know how the athlete should feel from the situation that he can withstand another 4 years of such a big stress for a very long

time. we had in dancing on ice straight and such unattractive leaders. well, in recent years, i mean, yes, there charlie and measured and then get caught, he and now there is someone and why these couples managed to be like this, well, an almost invincible leader, that is , it would be impossible for them to be generally a unique couple like that i want to say how they started juniors, and they immediately spoke to them, but this talent is theirs. as if the combination in a couple is their relationship to some kind of magical, so to speak, it affects people. not even to mention the technique of performing elements. yes, they were looking for a lot of interesting things, but this harmony is theirs. she, of course, was very captivating, because no one could fight them. but, and then a get caught zaron.

naturally, their jump was generally huge. which no one expected, because the right programs and the right choice image and program and style selection. and that also had a big impact. they chose their own style, which was not like the others, then they all began to imitate them. but it was already boring. just for the audience. i want to clarify that tessa virchu exodus moira is a two-time olympic champion. and from canada yes, and charlie and meryl. this is meryl david charlie white , the olympic champion from sochi 2014 from america well, of course, he designed the french, who trains in canada well , charlie meryl and tessa with scott they trained russian russian coaches. this founded school, as it were, and techniques and systems. you can say that in general all this success is from the american north.

schools of figure skating, this one thanks to russian specialists, because when you all went there and started training there, that is, you raised this one, i mean, the third russian you raised this kind of usa, this may be due to the failure of us, because you did not have. here you were there. eh well, maybe, but at that time there was perestroika damn, there were a lot of difficulties. and in principle, there were many undersports at that time, so many russians the coaches left, probably almost all of them, except for elena anatolyevich chaikovskaya malinin thursday. axel jumps, but this is also the boy's talent. this is how they are born, probably, not even everyone can want everyone and everyone trains and many train. the same coach, but not everyone can do it. from talent , from the nature of the child, the genome depends on what the child should have.

i don’t know what platform was laid down in childhood in order to become, for example, a successful dancer. or with what it’s better not to come right away, for example, curly skating, but it is very important for me that the child hears the music, feels the music and can interpret it. but this is probably the first thing, as it were, that i see emotionality in children. well, on the skate there, around it, you can teach landing some details. and of course, so that the child likes it, so that he has a sporty character , so that he can and wants to overcome himself, because it is very difficult, as it were, for children to train and spend so much time on the ice, especially in dancing, because dancing , it's boring with children initially doing base, and bases to deal with children, no matter how interesting it is for them, boring and hard. here, someone can also stand it, someone can’t stand it , but there must be a sporty character, what

is a sporty character, well, a sporty character is that you have to overcome yourself to overcome some difficulties. this is already laid down from childhood to the child. yes, but he must be interested. interestingly, i try to do the process. they are involved in the process, there choice of music choice. that's what we want to work on today. there naturally participate. well, what to work out. today we are going to support, only support. they want to twist there, for example, trizly. not well practically from me. it all comes out. they trust me i plan my workouts. sometimes i don't. sometimes it happens to me spontaneously when i feel, depending on the state in which they came and quickly they need to train slowly, they roll large pieces, but it’s from them how it happens i don’t know how a simple spectator can watch dancing on ice, because he has singles it’s not clear fell

people fall. ah, jumping. uh, pair skating also amplitude elements. some extreme. but dancing, how to interest the audience in dancing, what is fascinating about them? well, firstly, dancing, of course, is emotional, this is emotionality, but brightness. uh, feelings of partnership. i don’t know, some kind of fusion is very difficult. yes, yes, these are years, these are years of work, of course, a lot depends on the coach, to feel it, to feel exactly what the couple is, maybe it’s better not to drive everything under one. right now it’s fashionable, as it were , slowly and themes, or such a style is fashionable, but to understand, what is the personality of this or that a different pair of vasilisa and valera, they are just very

different. they themselves are very different. he's more explosive. he is such a hurry, but the locomotives rush forward. it’s like they can’t say who their leader is good about them, each on their own, what i ’m working on the most now. all these years, as i put them, they need to be united in order to connect them, because here is the most difficult thing for me to connect them, so that they feel each other and can communicate normally, and because there are a lot of all sorts of nuances in the training process, when it happens there some chicks there are some between each other, then the leader think there is jealousy. here i am trying to jinx it. they don't support each other. and if something went wrong,

yes, of course, that is, if we assume, well, that is , there is no such thing that we lost because of you , you fell there. no, they are very supportive of each other. and this is good. i'm a secretary. hello come on. can you imagine valentine, we

mixed up the bags at the airport so easily, step aside , you need someone to be nearby. why do you want to live? you have two extremes, or a level god or a worm for pregnancy new series from monday on first what are we burning? today we are talking about figure skating with anzhelika wing, two-time world champion , olympic medalist and coach of the russian national team, stronger than figure skating. well, it's drawn. it seems to me, a little, then why should angelica have a stopwatch in her hands. well now, according to the rules, how would we have such supports, which should be a certain time before they were 6 seconds. now

they asked jesus to do 7 seconds, because there isn't enough time. there you need complex entrances and exits , a lot of simple nuances that the audience does not know and how, but all this beauty and smoothness and ease of execution. it is not so simple, so to speak , whether it was or not, yes, our subjective sport is figure skating, and there is such a thing in it. now the lobby is very strong. yes, this is american, how to deal with it, especially since now we are generally excommunicated there and let through. and when we return, which will be, unfortunately. nothing special, i hope they are waiting for us it will be interesting for them to compete with us in nothing, in principle, in one group, and students and countries, and a lot of politics, because the judges sit from all countries, and these

countries skate clearly, which gives priority. well, there's just a lot of politics. we have a subjective sport in dancing since . this is the other side of the coin about this. we will never eat strategy. how to overcome it? how to deal with this all skating has passed, first of all, do something of your own, try not to copy. but, in another sense to go in the spirit with the time with the choice of music from the style to understand what you like, what you don’t like, because they are watching us, as if they were watching the championships of russia they are watching our dances. how would they also send me a lot of all sorts of comments there recovery, that they like what i do. it pleases me there is no such thing that oh , we will not watch you, because this is in russia no, they support me and i like the couples that work for me what i do.

well, i don’t know, it will be very difficult in the beginning , it will be very difficult because of what you missed there. for a while because of politics because of everything. i hope that they will, ah, loyal and professionally react to this and will look not from the outside, as it were, but from politicians, but from the side of athletes and from the side of what needs to be judged, well, now it’s hard to say about this, but i i do what i do, i just do what i like, what i think needs to be done and move forward, and it’s their job to follow me and i am very grateful to this couple, namely valera and vasilisa, that they follow what i tell them, they believe in ideas, which i would say to them. i tell them what to do so this is not always the case. some couples resist. they think we can't do it. well, you understand them. i see it in advance. do we have

small children in general or are there nurras? i mean, of course, dancing on ice, our reserve can be some kind of gold and there are very good ones, in general there are a lot of juniors, and a pairs are usually much more common than in adults, because moving into an adult. i don't know , they begin to end up somehow disperse. well, the neners are very good athletes. and there ten, junior good. i think it's a potentially good couple that needs to be nurtured. but the main thing is that there are competitions. the main thing is to have some kind of financial reinforcement from the federation to keep them in good shape and train them, because there are a lot of athletes now. they do not see the point in this and begin to roll up begin to train. they want to train everything, starting from the age of 16-17. continuation then of this topic in this force majeure situation. well, the federation organized and tournaments and raised. and there is, and

there is something else that our federation can improve not only in this situation , but in general, so that our dances develop something else, or maybe something was done wrong, maybe something needs to be eaten. then the criticism of the situation that has developed they did the maximum, they just made the maximum effort to make the grand prix, to make a good prize money, to organize everything and i don’t even have words, because it was all very fast and spontaneous and uh, here, but for children's disputes for children's dances. i believe that's what we are used to talk about the children's school. eh, i kind of see how the process should be. and if they gave me such an opportunity to organize a children's school, i would be happy to do it. you just need to develop children

's dances, because in general there is no such thing. there are groups of dancers who come to single skaters, but all different schools don't have such integrity. i'm only interested in myself from a region originally from a glorious city, perm, where pair skating has been developing very well for many years, but dancing on ice is moscow moscow region. and, in principle, everything , that is, in st. petersburg there, for now, i also know that they have conditions. no, if the condition were to be done, so that in the regions there are just 50 skating rinks. i even looked specifically. there are so many skating rinks in moscow and you still need to create conditions for at least one skating rink, where there would be collected hockey, as before, the main problem of figure skating and very bringing good money,

therefore, we even need to remove the ice for team hockey players. much easier than collecting in pairs and paying, even if you say commercial or which costs a lot of money here, it costs even more than in america in moscow, 13.000 per hour up to 25 to 30 even depending on which ice rink. or yes, no longer, it’s all sold out, even trying to find something there just for a children who are after school, who study at school, and kind of want to come, there from 4:00 to 6:00 or there until 6: 00 to 8:00, then there is nowhere, because many commercial schools many commercial schools are very single. well, i wish these

singles schools weren't just physical education schools, and to bring up children for results, so that something is done, because parents believe that some kind of commercial schools. there they give, many commercial schools - it's just about nothing here , i see, well, this is a mask i have with my wife of a commercial school. it's just a mass sport. but it doesn't have to be combined. well, i think not. although many who come to the commercial school. it's just that the kids want to ride for health. this is fine. i would also bring my children to ride for health, because i don’t want my the kids were great. athletes, but we need to allocate time for sports schools. we need young specialists who want to work, who need to be supported financially , of course, because the work of a coach is colossal. first of all, you must have a calling, have a talent, have a desire

to do it, but you just won’t do it. how much does a young coach get paid now? what job? at school, yes, it’s hard for me to say that i’m not very young anymore, i can answer this question, because i recently graduated from sports went to work 12,000 rubles. yes, no, maybe i earn this on television. no. well, in fact, yes, indeed , i started it for the catholics 20,000 rubles. it is clear and on the floor to take up dancing, but the mandatory program includes ice dancing modern modern. naturally. i'm doing this. i invite specialists depending. what rhythmic dance is addicted to? what is the topic, and we are given the following year to roll according to the rhythm and train. yes, we call with sleeping bags, but in general it

is so much easier with this here. here in moscow it's right for me i like it, creativity is in support. indeed, in the previous dances it is very interesting, we invite you. there are a lot of professional opportunities here. just invite the sea. you just need to know who you are inviting and and who, as it were, in the subject of the rules to pay these specialists. the federation should help, but the federation does help, it gives money to collections for choreography for production. she gives money for costumes. thank you very much. this is a big help, because it costs a lot of money. at what point does the return occur? that is investing investing parents investing return, when there is simply an aesthetic result, the result of the concept is loose, that is, for someone there is a so-called bs staff there, but getting your best score is already a result. this is for someone only.