[000:00:00;00] but no, with the exception of the use of special stage effects with enhanced fire safety measures, at the same time, the requirements for installing barbecue grills in the country have become more lenient, if earlier they had to be located 20 meters from the house, now you can burn the foliage from five a distance of 15 m, as for drivers who allow themselves to drive while intoxicated, now inspectors will be able to check a motorist for alcohol using video filming without witnesses one of the laws concerns social guarantees for residents new territories of our country will now receive pensions in the donbass, kherson, zaporozhye regions. social benefits benefits, as in all other regions of russia, the fanady system for attending premier league football matches is expanding its geography from march 3 , a fan card will be needed in seven more cities in moscow , khimki and st. system,

as in the capital, the whole procedure takes literally seconds; the reader must recognize the qr-code, both electronically and in paper form, the rules will be valid for attending matches of all clubs for both adults and children. to apply for a fan card, you need to submit an application on the public services portal, and then 450,000 russians have already issued a passport to the mfc. what do you have, cheerleader? hello , the russian chess federation has moved from europe to asia, now our game masters will be able to participate in international tournaments and play without restrictions, the decision taken in abu dhabi , the delegates of the asian federation, which includes more than fifty countries voted for admission to our federation, and it took almost a year to transfer from the european chess union freight train and

caught fire from the way. three wagons left the local media, according to less than six dead and dozens of injured, some passengers cannot get out of the wagons , ambulance firefighters arrived at the scene of the accident. that's all for the meeting. did you play some kind of women's party or did you immediately start playing men's there , it wouldn't have worked out very well, probably, after all, it was some kind of women's party, because it was a man. well, who to say? probably i can say stronger, probably, or i was dependent on him there. yes, it's sickening. here. well, i fell in love there, yes, at that moment you had feelings, there i was in him, he was in me, as it

were, but at first everything was so beautifully good, then somehow it went a little more complicated, there and all that, but at some point , well, actually, yes, it depends, well depending on, that is, there was such a certain one, after all, i am another collision with the fact that if you are a woman, then you are, accordingly, in danger, because if you play this female part, then, accordingly, you will become a hostage of a man on whom you depend . hmm devaluation devaluation of you yes as a person, but as a person, as a woman? well, the man walked for a while, he was right at that, it was practically. well, that is , everyone knew, many knew. well, you continued to stay in that relationship. so i'm talking about this and saying that it was addicted, most likely, as if hostage to the behavior of this

here tomboy, when you changed her to a softer, or something female position , failure lay in wait here. yes, there was suppression here. that's how a person would like to crush me under him, so that i do. that's just exactly everything that he wants, and he will do what he wants. well, that's what he wants , in fact. we just now discovered several stages, at each of which you were faced with being a woman, well , such a story is a so-so story, in general somehow, in general, it is tailored to men according to their request, and being a woman often means simply serving the interests of a man. yes, in general , i do not agree with this somehow i do not agree with this. it's just culturally the way it looks now. i'm not saying that this is correct, but often women seem to find themselves in positions in which they have to serve the interests

of a man. a man gets something. many people don't get anything. they just lie on the couch, but still continue to wash themselves. uh, to the ruler of the world, getters will be getters there number. yes, and a woman, accordingly, she somehow owes something all the time in this sense, a man also has a lot of debts and his cockroaches there, too. but judging by the way you tell you several times. e , at the moment of initiating the transition of you, just this female state, girls, girls , women, yes, every time you are faced with the fact that this is not a very pleasant position. yes, she seems to be returning a little. and there is such a hypothesis. say there is if it seems to be true that at the moment when your brother left, and he was sent to his grandmother, and you stayed with dad, dad, who was expecting a son, and he had a lot of expectations about it. yes.

and as if there was no lot left, even then, in order to please dad , in order to be next to him, it is necessary, as if to replace not only himself in the role of a non-vanilla girl, but also to replace his brother, very similar to this. well, that is, this is the position , it is more convenient, it is more familiar and there is a result from it, and we are psychologists sergey on ourselves tatyana krasnovskaya, and marina is our guest with whom we are discussing nature today femininity. what is the key fear now to become this woman, because i said that i hate vanilla women, but to support you, but at the same time, it was a kind of trick on my part, which consists in the fact that those images that you reject in many ways they carry a danger to you, which means marina has become a vanilla woman? so let's imagine once marina is a vanilla

woman and what will happen in this world? well , you know who will die, who will be upset, who will cry? who will be disappointed? well, let's to think that means no one at all. well, whoever dies no one dies from this, right. well, if marina suddenly takes it tomorrow, of course, another marina you want to say, vulnerability will come out with weakness, that is, here, but hmm sensuality is there, probably, that's why i ask what will happen in the world along with the fact that one marina will die and will not wake up, this vanilla will wake up. so grabbed, it’s very difficult for her to even imagine somehow this marina, probably it’s hard for me to even imagine how it will be

will somehow be different anyway there. yes, this is probably what i strive for, what i want to see for myself, and get out of myself. you're scary somehow even scary. what's frightening there? well, here, that i can’t accept this for 5 minutes, who will be disappointed, who will be upset? who? i don’t accept myself , it turns out that you don’t accept this part . of course, marina will come, as alice frank’s office romance of the second series comes in a completely different role. well, you come to work. completely different. here in some other femininity in some another hypostasis. your employees will stop listening to you no, our colleagues will stop talking to you. no, your partners will stop

communicating with you. will they react now , they are faced with marina, who aggressively herself there and she can do it herself and thus also devalues ​​the male experience of relationships. you are trying to become not up to a man, but at least in front of a woman. why did i say that when a boy is born a man is born? because in this world, which is absolutely in our head, the idea of that women are not quite a person, as if not quite deserving. and all that is possible, but the mistake is that many women begin to enter into this

confrontation, and in an attempt to level out very often they lose just themselves. and we are simply different, that is, men - this is a man, a woman is a woman, and we are just different, and here it is very important to allow yourself to be a woman, and allow men to be a man, without trying to remake anyone, because any remake is an attempt at castration. it is, in general, your castration. if i were a freudian of the brain of bones i would now say that it is your envy of the penis that is expressed in this way. maybe freddie was also not just a bastard to sew. yes , he understood, what was at stake, but at the same time with everything, and it is clear that this is laid right in the very early childhood in games with boys. in the realization that i am not a boy, and there all this is laid and laid. the same envy, but it is important to learn how to work with this envy. and how can we work with envy, only realizing that you have your life

i have my own life, and when we begin to enjoy our own life, our own body, our own elements of manifestations, but our own perception, then we begin to get our own life. and here it is very important that they just let it go and let them do nothing on purpose, but let this femininity flourish. i could ask, why is this part, which, of course? yes, you have it, it is femininity. this is vanilla even in the most hypertrophied manifestation. it's still there somewhere. yes, it's important find some balance, but now that you feel it's worth discovering, worth picking up? yes, and somehow show more that it will give. why is this, perhaps, i want to answer. so e my masculine behavior, it blocks my relationship with a man. that's it, well that is me being afraid they don't suit me either. well, maybe i'm unpleasant.

it’s just that even in such a manifestation it’s somehow too harsh. yes, when i put on men and, accordingly, they begin to somehow measure themselves with them. ah hmm i want attention like any woman i want attention i want normal attention, no language, so that it is not there, let's say, yes, so that it passes by there, right? and i want. yes, i want attention damn, yes, attention is attention, there are questions about your reaction to this attention. well , perhaps, for you, the attention of a man scares you. then you a priori will put on this protection that you didn’t look like that. by the way, that's why i said, there will be no bad questions here. i wonder if it already exists? why is it dangerous? what is dangerous to admit and allow him to yourself? let's imagine such a situation. here you are, there is a man who is interesting to you, and he begins to show his attention to you

, his care, why is this dangerous? what happens to you any other male taxi driver salesman, there, i don't know, loader director. uh, oligarch, whatever. here is a man, they still show attention. the first experience is most likely a relationship. but these, yes, which will be the first right here. well, the first one is long. well, this is the bios, well, you are not considered a person, i do what i want, this even somewhere raising a hand, yes, physically impacting. well, this is scary, but i don’t know , it seems to me that i have already somehow learned how to defend the borders with me so it’s impossible. well , that is, you can do whatever you want. if i have enough strength, i will beat you and drive around. and whatever i will do, the question lies in the other, it is important for you now in order for this femininity to be found, which you are looking for you

are looking not where you lost, where it is light. and if you want her to be found, then the question is that you should be a attentive to the attention that is shown, but at the same time, for all that, you do not need to marry them, sleep with them, build relationships with them. it's just to allow this attention to be, and in this attention it will begin to unfold, just the same , your femininity must be accepted. because there is an idea, as if that as soon as this attention is shown towards you. you need to quickly, quickly put up this protective barrier, because between you and this barrier, as if there is actually an empty space there and very quickly ah. this dangerous human. yes , it will approach you and you don’t know how to be there further, even now there is a feeling, as if there hmm, this is a barrier being placed, and as if i owe something. if you do not show attention, then i seem to have to give something

in return. something i must do right now. well, nothing should, so i say, learn to just take this attention and be in it and that's it. i understood. yes, i didn’t look here, what i’m leaving with. here, with understanding, all understanding, which i firstly, we found these moments and honestly somehow i didn’t even realize it, i didn’t understand that it’s very valuable for me that we call these moments of my initiation. so i also saw them, that they were very important on well, as on my formation, as a woman it’s cool. and, accordingly, that i do not owe anything to anyone in fact. and just this moment when , mmm, well, i just realized that i'm not where i need to be yet. i came here with this, but now there is still a moment that m-m. just accept, just enjoy, just be. well, simply yes , it will simply be normal to open up with him. itself to you you won't have to do anything for it. this is not a forced procedure. yes found that you

just have to be it seems. yes, it just sounds like a word there. yes, it's not always clear how to do it. that is, how it manifests itself, in fact, but i have, but an understanding of how to do it? he yes it is. i can just write this state, as i understand it, how i feel it, how to just be when you are in the moment, and you don’t have extraneous thoughts in your head. are you thinking of something in the future that i need to do? you are not in the past. pace digesting a situation. my aunt lyusya stepped on my foot 2 hours ago, how painful it was, what kind of bastard is she? excuse me. yes, but you are here. you see some manifestations of a person. and, you know, a state of some kind of silence, i don’t know, inner silence, and you are in observation. you spoke very beautifully about the future, about the past, about the future. this is when the surrounding men show attention to you. and you don’t make plans, the truth was to give your torments the past, respectively,

you don’t return the future is to remove this i owe some position there, and i have already built everything there, yes, but i can’t drag the past. here is the baggage from the past. here is the experience of the past man present. yes, there is just a person, how to let him be like this, to remove this importance. this is the importance of attention approaching you because you , unlike the baby of the girl who had this initiation. you are an adult woman who is actually able to withstand this borderline and let you in and approach you as far as you comfortable such even it is pleasant correct good game. and just like that , there is bliss in this, yes, the class is super. it's good, in general. thank you very much. thank you,

it was podcasteregers with you. we are sergei on our own. he is tatyana krasnovskaya, psychology psychotherapist, and marina was our guest with whom we talked about nature and her femininity. roman pockets elena kiper yes, we have jazz musicians igor butman as our guest oleg akuratov i wanted to beg igor to introduce oleg akuratov, as he does it on stage when he introduces his musicians. this is a separate part of the usual concert, absolutely brilliant and better than e. butman - no one will do it. this is a unique unique talented, unique, educated, well-mannered and very pleasant person, oleg

neat, whom i first saw. eh, well, we saw each other where we saw each other. first time. i went to your club to see me, yes, and you were very small, yes, well, not quite small. it was 2000 the fifth year. i was 0 years old 14 or 15 or 16 already here. i was walking i didn’t even have time to understand anything, and then there was an international competition of the world, jazz in rostov-on-don, the dialect was one of the contestants. naturally, as soon as he started playing, it was clear that this grand prix would immediately go to oleg akkuratov, nikolai yanovsky and i, a wonderful pianist, an outstanding composer, fattener, shed a man ’s tear, because we, because when you see such talent, you just wow touches. you know, when this athlete from zakoska won the olympic games, in my opinion, in 2004. and when he overtook

everyone, so to speak, all the people in the world. uh, at that time the best ones, who are also so proud of this pride, you always have such tears of joy, as they said a famous hero , so that's the same thing, we saw oleg. we both have this. if there is a trace, then, of course, the musician who sings knows great music the history of music plays classical music. he knows folk songs and sings in all languages ​​of the world, so it’s impossible to imagine him differently than i imagine her , which means you met. i'm just here to come to you to a living legend of jazz. can you meet? this is me for those who want to approach, but there are such talents as collectors in general, you can not even say hello. well, this is an appeal to catalently people by and large, since we are talking about the creative industry. you have to be proactive and not be afraid that you will not be seen or understood if you are talented . he is such a country that