envy someone, then you are bad use envy as a tool, go ahead. in general, envy in moderation, think about yourself and let all your motivations be positive . we hope that you will find this energy, but also do our homework. yes and easier, of course, to yourself and easier to yourself. it was a hint from the psyche, where i am a journalist, natalya loseva and my co-host clinical psychologist , ph.d. i can say that i am not successful, actually a little. who will win the car, but you didn't even say so. you have won a car. but it's the same. what, what is this? well, there was some, well, so-so. that's the last time the car, yes, last week, i feel, of course, devalue yourself

an achievement. yes, you are now in some kind of fact, this is called a crisis. don't try to jump out of it. allow yourself to get out of it gradually. uh-huh yes, this is such a professionally personal now crisis. by the way, it is quite common. youth. just now, closer to thirty and 27-28, you begin to sow, which is still needed early . not needed. well, it's only been 4 months. i still say i live, so it will figure it out. he is a young, pretty girl. everything will be fine with personal relationships, it is important to come out and allow you to leave. if out of crisis, because it seems to me that you broke up. it's here too. added you a crisis, on the contrary, a way out. well, it seems to me that this dead end, which hmm yes added, well , both families gave, they were waiting to get married. yes all i don't think they were expecting anything. well

, in 11 years, you can already save several times, it turns out. you have had only one man in your entire life for 11 years, yes, yes. this, of course, find yourself an older man, something good, interesting, don't listen, please, don't sell yourself, please, as a stratum, do you understand such a social one? why does he need a man for 40 years? why did she say 35-40 that's what it will be. i think you're just talking. i communicate a lot. i'm just very happy to flirt with them. no, flirt flirt. then the strem began to be interesting. that's what was on the face now, that's it, it's so personal. yes, it's the same myrtle me young unmarried girls flirt. oh god no nicolas. i'll explain to you, just a flirt is

let's say for sex. yes, firstly, why not hint? but don't let go, what, why cheat then everything should be honest in your life. listen, there is nothing more interesting than this subtle game of smart people, they don’t even understand. look, i can't flirt. that's why father. good night dear friends. with you valery syutkin and my podcast, which will be called stories of my life. it's not about

me. this is against a meeting about those stories about the impressions that catapulted me and which i want to share with you, my dear viewers. i don’t think that after the programs people come out somehow different, but if they cheer someone up, er, help overcome life’s difficulties, i will be very pleased and i will start with a poem. the fleeting counter of life turns back again, an unkilled pilot soars again, as once at 25 he floats over himself the world is full of the meanings of ideas, he works as an idol of warm lamp people, and the anti-aircraft gunner and gunner are now higher than the stars because the not shot down pilot forgot about them for a long time he floats over the world full of meanings of ideas he works as an idol

of warm lamp people. it was very pleasant for me to read from my poem, as it is called to the youth somgreter, a person who wrote very good ones for me. i would even say good songs romario roma thank you. so he sees me from the side, as i see myself from the inside. i will try with you share. we all come from childhood, so a small biographical note. i was born on march 22, 1958 in the city of moscow at the intersection of pokrovsky and yauzsky boulevards from vorontsovoy street, for some time it was called obukha street, but now historical justice has triumphed vorontsovo field, how did it determine? oh my future life. well, just straight and right

. because my dad was a teacher at the kuibyshev military engineering academy, which is right at this crossroads opposite the house, where they brought me from the hospital. excuse me for such a rhyme, but, and my mother worked nearby in mirti, an abbreviation. moscow research radio engineering institute. they met with a dance club. and after a while he was born. i am a future dude from moscow my very first impression. is that me, together with my dad with a flag in my hands greetings yuri alekseevich gagarin in the sixty-first year i was three years old. the second thing i remember is how they took me to a kindergarten, which is right in the courtyard of our house, where the general's mansion stands. such a cunning surname and well, those who read

gilyarovsky know that this area in moscow is called khitrovka which i was born in such an area with uh, a strong reputation a lot of people from this area. the unfaithful went the way of life. and rock and roll saved me. so, i came to kindergarten. and the first vivid impression that i remember is the cubes from which the boys made the ship, and in the bow of the ship there is, as they say, we have criminal circles, a showdown , a showdown, who will be the captain from this there , this is a fight, in fact, the boys are fighting for the right to be the captain of this group of boys is separated by the tallest one, who runs up to me and says the new one. i say yes, you want to be a captain too. i sober beyond my capacity. i, in principle, have always had a physique. and the body is a subtraction. i said no. i want to check the tickets of the girls

who will be going on the ship, sly boy. that's how we met this guy. his name is stanislav this, my friend is the closest throughout. here are all these sixty subsequent years. we communicate today very closely. and he is very role played in my life, but more on that later so here to expect you in this podcast of stories that have influenced. the person who is talking to you right now. you are very strongly so to music. i came thanks to a television program called america in the lens and was led by valentin dawn. uh, paul mccartney's john lennon song, love can't be bought, was used as the background music. i didn't know it was the beatles, but when i watched the program and heard this tune behind the scenes, i got this

here goosebumps ran through the body. you know, she ran through, then the consequences, when i heard the song of alexandrina or led zeppelin performed by the songwriters of the ensemble pesnyary, or heard muslim magomaev with a song that alexander pakhmutov wrote to the verses of nikolai dobronravov that you live from the fact that you hear and feel it. this is the feeling that comes up. i would call rock, so i came to music, thanks to the melody i heard, i wanted to learn how to play this song on guitar. and my first chord, which i learned, was not this one, but this one . this one gives a reason to sing the song further

, impressed the girls in the yard and my friends. they said i wasn't hopeless. i saw it in their eyes and it served as a colossal springboard to start training day and night, but the seats were all taken. there were many guitarists who told me. if you want to play in a band, there is a place for a drummer, so there were hatboxes. uh, cans of indian instant coffee. here they were honed first skill. and it helped me to choose the right path here. i want to say that in many ways i am very grateful for my choice, because it saved me from going down the wrong path, because all my peers, well, most of them. well, someone went through places of deprivation of liberty, someone

went into the national economy and rushed about and searched all the time, where would be better to earn. this is a completely natural desire for everyone. here in front of you is a man who is 64 years old, but he still dreams of making money. how are you, so this is actually nothing shameful, but for me this choice of music was very important, because in the future my fate. no matter what professions they took away, there were a lot of them, but i firmly knew that i dreamed of earning money by writing songs, and the process is the greatest pleasure for me. uh, playing the guitar and singing songs. over the whole soul. my opinion is that the best artists are not the best vocalists. and those who strike low high notes very accurately have a great

range. namely, those who know how to tell this song well, because the song is what you wanted to tell the viewer from the bottom of your heart, so, in my opinion, both frank sinatra and carusa are, first of all, besides the fact that they are, of course, brilliant vocalists. they are amazing storytellers, otherwise there would be others, so to young people. i always say it is very important to be able to tell the story of the song to the very last row, so that the viewer on the last row feels that it is telling to him, and now my first day, i immediately jump from the presentation of his childhood. my first day on stage as a pro. which in many ways determined the right attitude not only to the profession, but also to life, to say that we were worried is to say nothing. hands just shook me knowing how we will

sing it. this is the kirov philharmonic. we were um. we were entrusted with e to work a concert in vyatskiye polyany in the second part from the first before us, the ballet rhythm of the planet , already a renowned experienced dancer, worked. we are a big dressing room we are worried and the girls are with us, having received instructions from the head of the team from the administrators, let's say that the first dance will be russian, they began to change into kokoshniks. they all smoked such snow maidens, smoked, and so on. all smoke rocker. we worry girls changed clothes. we so involuntarily averted our eyes. although they did not hide from us the moment of changing clothes. and at this moment of the highest point of excitement , the door opens. and a very important man in

a jacket in such a staged voice. he says, comrade artists, a moment of attention, the third secretary of the windows of the komsomol of the city of vyatka will be present at the concert glades on that the head of the ballet is a woman with a white sea in the teeth of a bandator and a hat in such a fur sleeveless jacket. well, you know, such an image of 900 years of show business, she answered this man with a lingering white sea, what do you say, the third secretary and referring to the corpse. the girls said. today we have a semi-governmental concert working in pantyhose. you know at that moment i didn't laugh? i just have these vise, these brakes. they just loosened up instantly. i felt relieved and understood how to live in a world of nascent domestic show business. you have to live with self-irony, and everything will work out. we tried to pay it off in

a performance that we wouldn't say was perfect, but it helped a lot, then afterwards. i've seen a lot of hmm responses say an older man instrument a guitar in hard coffee, and the caucasian tour boys were in the caucasus kicking his guitar. so he says, uncle, that you have a balalaika here, and he answered the children with dignity. you don't have to touch it. i eat this. and this is a very precise attitude. the irony is that she saves the premiere at the first place. well your song is gone. i had no idea how this song can be sung in a different way, it would be unreliable at all. here they will drink. you are so deeply and

precisely in the genre that nowhere have you conquered your soul for the spring wind with a friendly orchestra, the arrangement of the situation is a cradle, and in a very correct way you held the baby, as a doctor, dear viewers, we reveal the talents of talented people. three chords new season tomorrow after the evening news dear viewers i don't have any playlist or clue i'm from the tube generation of the generation i loved free of charge and considered in the mind, therefore, no speech. this is absolute improvisation. by the way, the names. not so long ago, a young man gave me a wonderful interpretation of one

of my works, in which i participated, as the author of the text, he approached. thank you very much for your songs. i quickly recalled in my memory all the moments of my life and realized that i had never collaborated in any way with the mentioned party movement. to which the young man, seeing my misunderstanding , says, well, how is it love girls simple romantics abbreviation ldpr thank you very much. so let's continue. the first concert tour brought a lot of understanding, a lot, but, firstly, we had an administrator with us. he is an artist who performed in the program, or rather, he was supposed to perform with the program

as a tightrope walker on a failure. well, actually a tightrope walker, but his name was stanislav gvoz. he took such a uh, a carry and a small one. as young people say, this was a slander for a polish or yugoslav artist. although he was from our native mariupol this is stanislav gvoz, in addition to being an administrator at the very first concert, he approached the director of the 20th culture and said, sorry, you are two directors of the palace of culture. yes , what is your name? olga mikhailovna olga mikhailovna i am an artist, uh, in addition to being an administrator there will be a number on the wire , a dance number and 4 minutes. it lasts. i need to install a chain hoist a good word for a woman for the director of the palace of culture. she says that to forgive, he says, well, make a pulley block. and he says all this,

holding a huge hand drill in his hands. like this forgives here revolves. it's a drill, he says. i need to drill 12 holes and stretch the policy. she i beg you. you don't need to drill anything. we have romanian parquet. he. well, i don't know, i have an art number 4 minutes on a wire. she doesn't have to do anything. i'll put in a report for you to work out your equili number either, but just don't drill. 120 concerts first tour our first tour 120 concerts stanislav gvozd never worked his number and in every city the drill performed an excellent function bait and convinced that the number works no need for a genius. it's called guys the happiness of labor, ironic, of course. this is in the sense that the happiness of work is when you are drinking tea in

a cozy podcast studio, and someone is blocking it behind the tv screen. the dam in severe bad weather waist-deep in icy water. that's about the happiness of work experienced by my colleague stanislav gvozd. i will jump to different topics. i would like to tell you that in each of my programs, in each podcast, i will definitely start to give time to one person who influenced me, whom i consider my teacher. and of course, first of all, this is my guru that's how i think, michal mikhail zhvanetsky we each have our own zhelansky someone who loves, appreciates and recognized this writer, and thanks to the cassette culture, thanks to

the performances of ilchenko's karts in the corpses. arkady raikin, but for me, of course, the beginning was like this, but then we, as colleagues in price, began to meet often in various concerts to call mikhail mikhailovich a friend would be. wrong. well, anyway, i i was definitely not his close friend, but we knew each other well. and i especially appreciate that when i turned 60 and i asked him to come, so that my mother would be pleased, because she and my mother are absolutely not the same age. mom is a year older than mikhail mikhailovich and he influenced me a lot, because i love everything short. he told me so for 60 years and said, son. you're not all short concert performance. a book a course of treatment that's why i appreciate

a short focused story on the topic so mikhail mikhailovich was mine remains mine guru but was mine. as a fellow traveler, we flew from odessa after the golden duke, the festival sat together in an armchair. pioneers came to us. i call it that, as faina ranevskaya from the economy class , the pioneers came for an autograph. i sat on the edge, so the first one got under them. influence they did with me what they wanted within 10-15 minutes. an autograph for memory of a joint photo, when i ceased to interest them as a creative unit. they pushed me away looking for mikhail mikhailovich became a newspaper at that moment. he folded it up and said you're sorry, but i need to fly further. he continued reading and feeling with his spinal

cord that they were still standing. he rolled up the papers and said it was a pity you were finally leaving. after all, an absolute genius in his own direction, here is mikhail mikhailovich. he wished me very wise things for 60 years, which i would like to share with you now. he said, so love, everything is short. sleep little or much. there is a lot of work or it does not work drink until the state of molding do not drink do not multiply. and most importantly, don't say what you don't know. do not say what do you know. don't judge or discuss. it

helps a lot. today helps a lot, because it is better to remain silent and look like an idiot. how to speak and completely dispel all doubts on this matter? thank you uncle mish for being with us for your invaluable advice for your sparkling odessa humor. thank you i was at a party with friends and heard a brilliant story there. which i really liked. all in all, it was a very pleasant evening. my family was at that very moment in jurmala and the schedule was drawn up, so every day concerts travel performances. only here is one single day off in the form of such a two-day

respite, it is pointless to fly for such a short period. it seemed to me back in jurmala, so i relieved tension in the company of friends. everyone told anecdotes stories and one friend told the next one. we are returning from fishing from the city of kandalaksha, murmansk region to st. petersburg and we have three hours before the train to st. petersburg in kandalaksha in this one, and in order to somehow pass the time, we go to central square, the only restaurant. he, probably, during the day, as in the dining room at night, maybe this is a nightclub, that is , the only point of cultural life in the city , we go to this restaurant. the four of us climb the stairs, we go in and see the following picture. in the center, the barmaid aunt masha with a large bust about this in odessa, in the homeland of my grandmother

, they say a heart on her chest. aunt masha on her right, men in tracksuits with extreme hostile expressions are so anxious, and on the left of the women, their faces also do not radiate kindness, because in the city for some time do not pay salary delay. there is some kind of financial failure. you remember, it was at the beginning of the 2000s, this is the picture, and therefore the dialogue and contacts between them without libations are not carried out sad picture of the mother-in-law. masha in the center, my friends silently, accompanied by hostile looks, come up to the counter and tell us, please, four vodka doubles and four tomato juices by the stove. from you 118 rubles. 14 kop.

they grinned at one of my comrades, you understand that m-m some kind of mistake in general education, says you are us woman vodka too count and then 4 double vodkas four juices are only 118 rubles. she is aunt masha. hey, smart guy. you are money in the beginning. show me then you'll be wisecracking. he pulls out of his pocket, separating one banknote of 1,000 rubles from the entire large bundle. that these hostile ones didn’t attack him alone and put her on the aunt’s counter. masha remove this thousand. here in the bins, he says, the surrender will be next thursday. my comrade, and god is with her creator. and how would it be intelligent to spend 3 hours before the train. why aunt masha as a kindergarten teacher calmly, but authoritatively, he says, get out of here.

this is referring to those, uh, hostile men and women, get out of here and everything is obedient, as the children in the kindergarten for daytime sleep begin to move away ; i mean grams and, accordingly, the mood rises they feel master of the situation. suddenly he realizes that among them some stranger, some homeless man with a black eye, apparently, put those who went under his eye, he somehow it turns out that they already feel that it is they who control everything that happens in this space of power. they say, so a second, man, what do you need? he, to be honest guys. i really want to drink, they pour him a full glass. he drinks it in one gulp on his face , the bliss of such generosity from fellow citizens. he has not

seen since birth, his face spreads in a smile , they say, well, that's it, he drank everything and went to the exit. he guys and you from here further where they are . we are in st. petersburg, he is this bum, i am with you. well, the people's equivalent of the answer sounded. for what we need you like this simpler guys? what is this one for? homeless empty glass in hand said guys. i'm with you because i'm here in kandalaksha to be honest. holds nothing. you see, i returned home under the impression of this story. my head was spinning all the time. nothing keeps me here. indeed, a funny witty story. i entered the apartment

having previously opened the door and turned on channel one on the tv remote control and there i saw a ringastar in the frame on the screen. it was a film, as i found out later martin scorsese about georgie harrison. well, he didn't know anything. i see ringa old. i'm used to ringa always speaking with humor when asked what the beatles of ringa always proudly said to you, these are four butts that i saw for eight or more years there. hmm because the drum is visible to the ensemble exactly, well, the back or the front. here is ringo starball in the frame, it's spinning in my head. i have nothing to hold here and suddenly a question. right on tv ringa and when did you last see george nu ringa says a few days before leaving.

i just sat silently with george. he held his hand next to him. he was very bad. he was covered in tubes, droppers, and so on. and so i sat silently, and then i said george well, hold on old man, i have to go my daughter is sick. you know kids, it's always a problem and took a step already to go away george caught my hand and told ringa that well, if you want, i'll go with you took out these tubes i was looking for. do you want me to go with you? and the end credits rolled. who is the director of the film well, as it always happens? when did the credits roll? i have there is an eye, tears came. i could not manage this process. it's impossible to contain. and you know at that moment i realized that i didn't go to sleep. i went to the airport, took a ticket and

only flew for half a day. to those who hold me on this earth who holds me at this moment? this is very well understood. we are now in the first days of the new year together with you and taking this opportunity. i mean, call your parents. while our parents are alive , someone stands between us and eternity. that's when we lose them, then we already begin to understand, therefore do it. guys i really want to wish you in the coming year and wish you good news for yourself, they are very lacking. well, so that health, of course, does not distract from them. what is the new year? you know, it seems to me

that music is the best guardian of memory. here older people will remember. we knocked out a check from the cashier and the cashier stabbed it on such a metal rod. this is how all our impressions are strung on a melody. here you hear a song and remember everything that happened to you down to the smells and the smallest details. this song new year's andriachaya to the verses of evgenia yevtushenko is an absolutely new year for me. this, of course, when i hear her black and white picture on tv, the record is real tangerines . there were simply no other toys then. such cars of the matchmakers are such a boy riding on a sled. dad, mom, grandmother and on tv the film is the career of dima

gorin and there is this brilliant melody in a dream it is coming, and it is snowing and everything around is waiting for something. i want to say three of all my most important person. take a look at this snow with me. he clean, how is he? what am i silent about, what can i say? i want a good santa claus when i look out the window with you thank you

in my destiny, thank you snow. thank you snow. thank you for being with us in these first days of the first night of the new year 2023. watch our podcasts at first and live with hope for the best. everything will work out for us syutkinga from moscow the history of my life.