the fact that a woman goes to bed with you, but she somehow, well, as if she doesn’t really want to. ugh you feel it. well, you can definitely define it somehow. maybe we 're not idiots, really. what's happening? yes? what's happened? why is everything like this with us? and then there is some kind of contact, and then. well, and then the prelude of arousal and closer relationships are born, if it is with people, each person has his own, this is an absolutely normal experiment, which is carried out by various institutes that study sexual behavior of a person, and a certain number of couples take an example ; men are asked a question and asked to mark them on their bodies. e, means a felt-tip pen or some device that leaves traces of the main erogenous zones. what do you think what appointed a man. i suspect that the

penis and you are not mistaken. but if you count, then the number of designated erogenous zones on the body of a man is known to be such a starry sky for clouds, that is, there is practically nothing there when a similar question was asked women and asked them to mark the erogenous zones on their bodies. it was a real starry sky on a clear night, because every woman has a certain path that a man who loves his woman must overcome in order to somehow prepare everything for sexual intimacy. nobody cancels. e spontaneous sex. he is present, he has a place to be, but the sexual constitution of a man and a woman is different and sexual. time to get horny, wait, no, no, wait shy. please wait how much do you need time to make it interesting?

what men and you, too, to this list, i lead to the fact that women and men very often do not understand each other and blame one of the parties. if people don't understand how to have sex, we can't. how much time do you need to have some kind of ritual to get you excited, what should your man do. well, i generally love ears ears. that is, he should buzz something pleasant in your ears. what is the amount of time minute 2 5, 20? well, five is not enough, well, 20 minutes, let it buzz well, but we'll be back. to your phrase that male beings are sensitive. yes, and if you are a degree, yes, if you go to bed with your woman and feel that this is not borscht water. how did you say it yourself? what will you do? you feel it doesn't. well, look, we can

figure it out in the moment, of course. you can ask if you have a headache. tell leg. can this be done? can we look, in general , at the sexuality of men and women, here are the statistics, according to which men satisfy women more than women than men. we will get to that with you so about sexuality, if now e our viewers, e men ask a question. how much time does he need? here are the moments when he thought about sex until the moment when he was ready to engage in it, there are some seconds and minutes for a woman, such options are possible in rare cases, but most often a woman needs preparation when a man comes from afar and sends love sms glasses meet from work. or maybe she will wash the dishes, that is, it will create conditions in which a woman will feel not only an object, thanks to which you can satisfied, but also the person's personality, you know? i then have another question. do you know

how many women are engaged in freedom satisfaction? it seems to me about eighty eighty percent, when i ask you a question. how can a man find out that his wife is secretly engaged in some kind of quirks? and he can't satisfy her. this is a very cool question because it is the most difficult question. after all, he goes into depth and intimacy in this pair, in general, intimacy in pairs. well, a little yes, on the example of my clients, on the example of those stories that i i read on the blog, there and everywhere, that people very rarely talk to each other. and it depends not only on the woman or on the man. it depends on how people build their relationships, how ready they are for vulnerability in general. after all, this is a vulnerability to say what you want, in fact, this is already about sexual intelligence. this is when one partner

can trust another to tell about their desires. i'll even give you an example. a woman comes and says. you know, i stopped feeling pleasure in bed with my a man the question is why, and i want that during sexual intimacy, he grabbed me by the throat and called me dirty words. we will not express how many such words there were and er, so that occasionally. he also hit me with his hand, so he beat me, and somewhere in the side with his palm and continued to scold me, and once when we came from a party. i was under a lung, which means closet. i hinted to him about my desire, in response, i heard that you were a prostitute. yes, you are not normal. yes, you need to heal your head. and she has such need. uh, a man also come often complaining that he can not realize with his woman, but his dreams. why because

she does not perceive herself as a woman, but such a frivolous one? she accepts herself as a woman, but as a prostitute, that is, in her understanding. uh, so it's enough that she just gets into bed with him doesn't want to just get into bed with him, but he wants to, of course, of course, many studies show that a couple who live together or are in a relationship who do not know each other absolutely uh , almost nothing sexual intimacy. and that's about sexual intelligence. this , of course, is a very good opportunity to pump it, and you can pump it when there is trust once in a couple, and when the person himself is able to put everything that interests him into this pair. well, now, then tell me, please, at what moment? what do you think people need to indicate their sexual desires, so that

later they may not spend 2 years. in vain and in the end to find out that the wife is not ready for some reason, or maybe, don’t look for something, you come on a date with a man. at the very first day you will not ask him for the details of his sexual life, but it is no secret to anyone that a man goes on a date with a woman in order to seduce her as quickly as possible, but a man does not come on a date for other reasons, a woman understands this very well, and uh, without creating. uh, most of the women who go on a date with a man wear lipstick and put on a nice dress. this is a woman who, in her thoughts, has already admitted the possibility of intimacy with this man. let not on the first date, but so, then on the second on the third or on the twentieth, but she has already approved his appearance in her intimate space. and a man sooner or later begins to hint at a woman. let's go to me, or somewhere else, while she tells him about her in this

budgerigar in childhood, and he thinks where to take her and the mistake that women make is one of the indicators that there is . uh immaturity, sexual there is undeveloped sexual intelligence. a woman perceives this as a threat starts at the fact that i'm sleeping. only after marriage you have to change and deserve something else there something else. although in fact no one canceled the usual conversation on this topic. and when a woman begins to develop, start a conversation with a man on a sexual topic. that is, she does not refuse him does not say. listen no, i don't want you, because i kind of don't mind. and how it will be, and how do you imagine it, and how would you like, and if you want, i 'll tell you how i would like at this moment comes practically. silence, why because people are used to having sex estimated

opinions, they are not ready to receive feedback that will emphasize his incapacity of the bed, or it does not suit anyone, so people just have sex, but do not discuss this topic, and just for this reason, sex very often occurs in the family, how much this longing you do not answer my question specifically asked the question is when people tell each other their sexual preferences, so as not to waste 2 years. in vain, for example, and eventually discover that they do not fit, the most good period is, of course, the period of falling in love. one day

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abilities, accomplished in various professions and for whom singing is a hobby, not a job. this is a sex in the light podcast. i'm mark barto for today. our guest is lina dianova, we continue our fascinating dialogue with you lina. what do you think of jealousy? or maybe u encourage a man to change with me, and there was a client of a man who changed his wife on purpose for several years. she bullied him. she spoke. i know you're with your secretary and he cheated at work, but he did it just for that he spoke. i'm tired of being guilty. now ask him if he liked it. no, i didn't like it, but he did. well, he began

to rejoice, what now, when she tells him? well, now it's well deserved. you understand that pathological jealousy. she can really force another partner who does not give any reason to turn to the left and the percentage of that this will happen is probably 80. of course, because here there is already betrayal, as a factor stabilizing the psyche, there is certainly. you know i had in practice, cases when a man was perverted. hmm, that means in sexual intimacy with his mistress, but not the form itself, but the intercourse was perverted from the way it was all organized. he had a pathologically jealous wife and at some point in time. he was an absolutely faithful man. so the main scandal happened when they were there at some kind of party, too, and she saw that some woman had approached him and invited him to dance, but he looked around and saw his woman refused her. well, she tied

that like you refused, because only i was there, if it wasn’t, you would have danced with her, and then you would have slept with her. and so he says at that moment something happened in me, and i found myself a mistress in a neighboring house. the change took place in the following way. he was taking a cigarette bin and talking to his wife. i’m going to throw out the garbage and smoke, my wife knew how much the cigarette was smoldering , she was so pathologically jealous, she always watched him, but naturally. she looks out the window, her husband comes out with a trash can throws garbage to the trash can. comes back comes comes to the entrance lights a cigarette at that moment opens the door to the entrance goes under the stairs, where his mistress is waiting for him from the next house while the cigarette is smoldering. the two of them have sex. sometimes they don't even make it. achieve some kind of pleasure to orgasm. she is so accurate and here on this

wave of adrenaline. he comes home. and these stories can tell a lot. and by the way, you once called me a sexist in one of your videos, that i am very often like that, so what this is an explanation of how you think different or the reasons for adultery in men in women. this is what sexism is. sexism. of course, what did you take? well, i'll explain to you from the fact that there are people in general, yes, and there are people with different nervous systems. there are melancholic men. there are women you fly men and women, phlegmatic. there are different personality types. and all these people are very different and they change because of different reasons. and you seem to share all the men change here are the reasons, because women are all melancholic and phlegmatic. and not there are only two hemispheres of the brain.

so, and there are two more hemispheres of a semi-pedia, you know, that's what they call them, so someone thinks. by the pope, but someone thinks with his head and i think you are aware that genetically from birth there are people who have one of the hemispheres dominant to one degree or another, but the point is not that the point is that everyone humans have analytical skills. yes, and of course, any factor of betrayal is, uh, capable of being accompanied by some kind of dialogue when there is a certain degree of satisfaction man woman sit down and talk to each other. and the fact that the nature of treason is completely different. it certainly is. the fact is there are men who cheat because he has problems. uh, with his self-esteem, there are women who cheat, because yes, but you understand that this is sex for a man. this is most often the usual physiology, when a man goes to the left, he can sleep with different women, and

in rare cases, experience some feelings towards those. to the women he sleeps with, he can feel absolute sincere love for his woman. well, the so-called sincere. yes, it is clear that there will be no betrayal of real love, but he thinks so when a woman begins to sleep with a man. she does it emotionally. she does it sensual, but as soon as such a woman steps over. eh, the threshold of a psychotherapist after a session after one second, or a third, she understands that behind this plumpness, but not sexual desire is hidden, her anxiety is hidden and her fear of rejection. and it's easier to invent yourself the legend that i live in the modern world and sleep. with whom i want. rather than admit to herself that no one needs her and confirmation of her fear is the fact that none of the men with whom she sleeps claim

her as a person. or maybe the woman has. high sexual constitution but she sits so sits so miserable. there are not several types of sexual constitution - this is low high and medium yes, the obvious thing is that if a woman has a high sexual constitution, this means that she wants have sex three or more times a week. this is already considered high, then she can limit herself because of social attitudes, that oh well, it will be somehow awkward there, for example, her husband does not provide her with such an amount, but she wants to have sex not because she does not respect herself, she doesn’t appreciate anything else, because she just wants sex well, but it’s impossible to try to resolve the issue with her husband. i think that it is impossible, if a man has a low sexual constitution, then they do not fit together here. they better tell. you think that if uh means a woman is not

satisfied in a sexual relationship with a man, it's okay to go left. well, for me , uh, as for a psychologist? yes, if a woman came to me and said, i am not satisfied in my relationship. so i'll tell you now, what i say, i would start to investigate. how did it happen that, well, in the first place, does the husband know? is that the first question? yes? if he doesn't know, then he should know about it. well, that would be nice, i'm fine with it. and then i would have already explored with this woman what she wants. tell me, please, do you have a young man? husband no not anymore, how do you generally react to compliments? it is very nice. i liked it nicely from your man when the appearance is praised and when the intellect and well , you can just say, well, not compliments,

some warm words are also cool. how to answer? why answer anything? do you accept? yes, i say thank you. very nice, hug him. no, well, i can hug. you see, and now you and i are talking about positive sexism. you know there is, uh, the negative system. yes a is positive sex, and i'll explain why so many supporters of sexism. there are ardent feminists, opponents and fighters, which means that there is for the rights between a man and a woman. they don’t distinguish at all where there are rights, and where there are some sexist sentiments, so, they even very often attribute the complimentary form of communication between men and women to sexism, believing that this is a form of manipulation and a desire to lull a woman’s vigilance in a relationship

in order to she, god forbid, did not pretend to e, something more in a relationship with a man. we are definitely behind the ears with you. anything is possible i like to draw to say, you are sexists, not a sexist, but sexism itself is such a perverted form that allows, or rather does not allow, even a normal, but an intellectually developed person, and even a psychotherapist of this person. yes, to call for some kind of prudence, because absolutely any traumatist. e not recognizing, for example, non-positive criticism is not negative criticism. he is generally like a hedgehog here are ardent sexists. they will try like hedgehogs and make a compliment to a woman. yes, and he is not needed, because she does not need it, you know, the ideal model. increasingly, i actually meet her on social networks, as if a woman does not need anything and compliments are not needed and

an assessment of her appearance. well, if you say something you look cool, then i don’t need it either, but this, of course, you know, there is such a cool experiment, uh, with feminists. gathered feminists, means to argue with uh men in one room, and there were 20 feminists. moreover, they were all very harsh and 20 men who, according to the script, were supposed to something to oppose to the arguments that feminists, therefore, express, but since it was an experiment. uh, a very unexpected moment in the room where the feminists were , these men ran in several people with weapons and asked the woman to leave the room, all the feminists were blown away and they ran away. uh at the door. so quickly that none of them had time, even some kind of argument, but to state by saying, do you hear there, the man you are giving away. come here. on what

basis did you work? naturally, the natural, constituent woman admitted herself a woman and gone experimenting so much listening how about it's basic security? if men were told there, you four, get out, equal rights, if feminists are fighting for us to recognize them as equal, no one is the most interesting if you listen to feminists, the whole scenario of their life and everything that they broadcast is sheer antagonism . it's a rivalry, you know, and uh, when, for example, i express some thoughts about men and women. i spoke about the form of agreement, but antagonism is wrong. let's go to change. do you have recommendations specific want you to say that normal changes. i don't know, i think it's normal. first, i did not say that it is normal to change, but such a form of being exists. she might as well say it is not. but if we

are talking about recommendations, that is, he, for example, here is a very convenient position, to blame will always change less again, not so there is a situation where one person is to blame. and there are situations when both partners are to blame. i will now explain when one person is an adrenaline addict. this is for example when a person has a neurotic need to be guilty for him too, well, when he is guilty, he is directly excited, well, for his partner, for example, low self-esteem. and this is a random factor when a person, well, a corporate party, as we know, yes, men cheat more often, like uh, statistics show and this person makes a choice that yes, it happens by chance, it's surprising what the random factor means at a corporate party, uh, let's say

e. i have been to many corporates as they usually pass people. they rest and have fun dancing, drinking, some cocktails. well, that's not happening. in the presence of everyone , this is necessary. it will, yes, retire , for this you need to come up with some kind of alibi. if you have a relationship, for this you need to create some conditions, if it's not at the level of animals, listen, it's very easy. i now imagine, for example, a room in which there are many people and then everyone left. you two stayed all uh, which means there were no self-service waiters. and now two people were already pretty drunk, and this is the factor of chance, but why one person is to blame, not two factors of chance is impossible, if a person is not an animal, if we take here i am just in the previous simple example we all have. eh, if you imagine such a scale, on the one hand, there are animal instincts, on the other hand, a person immediately has.

yes there are there are people in whom reason prevail. and if, moreover, there is a relationship , a person understands, i am ready to put everything that i have now on the line thoughtless and run home with bulging eyes. maybe even looked at the statistics , someone admits to this a small amount a small amount. yes, i talked about the fact that people have the benefit of thinking that there is always one person to blame, but there are cases when both partners are to blame. what do you think, in what cases are guilty both different cases can be, well, by and large, it's all one thing is a problem in communication, when people are not interested in each other. they can't discuss problems together this is a big question. i think, that they within a couple can serve many

needs, one of them is this unwillingness to admit that no one needs me. or no one wants me anymore. there is such a form, for example, deficit. sexuality yes, when a person unconsciously represses any opportunity to get intimate with his partner. that is, he may not even be aware of this, neither a man nor a woman, but during the period of falling in love, as a rule, deficient sexuality does not manifest itself . why because, in any case, we are faced with an attack of hormones on the body, and we imagine, it's just that a stupid collective farm example is produced in your body without falling in love. here is such a small glass, which means dofamilial endorphins and everything else, you fall in love and there is such a bottle of you there, and you are together and at first it seems to you that wow, how cool, because listen, the world

health organization recognized. e, means, the period of falling in love with a mild mental disorder. we are not able to be adequate even in this inadequate period. well , overlooking it. what's in in the future, e will affect relationships, and now this period has calmed down, calmed down and a man is in front of me, for example, if i am a woman in front of me is a man who is in deficient sexuality. that is, he does not even understand why he avoids contact with me. he quarrels with me. he himself is angry with me, he shows aggression all so that the moment does not come when we approach each other and get closer, and only in moments of crisis for himself, when he himself can no longer endure, he can make such a contact , there are such both men and women, that is, uh in my opinion, a person who goes into a relationship should study himself very well. if

you produce a summary of your conversation with you. i think that the audience will be interested, after all , to hear some recommendations, what to look for, to avoid betrayal, either in the present or in the future. let's do it. the first is to pay attention to your sexual constitution and in general it is very important to know yourself ; the second point is to honestly and openly talk with your partner about yourself , not about how to teach him something about yourself through i i want, probably, the third is not to be afraid to hear what the partner wants. i agree with you. i'll add one more. i can add a lot more, but i will add one more very important point, but before this question. you know uh hmm where is your sexual brake located where what should affect? whose man man good sexy gas? yes , this is appearance and realization, so i

will add to your list another very important point for our viewers. let them study their sexual constitution from the position of sexual activity, when a woman is found with a woman is in the state where the brake is active. yes, there may be different reasons, stress, physical fatigue, that is, when she really does not want intimacy, but go to bed, if this happens sooner or later, such a woman will form a rejection of sexual intimacy with a man. she will not want to do this and will naturally affect the desire of the man himself and study the gas factor, understanding due to what external circumstances of the internal states of the foreplay, she is able to disperse her sexual desire. and here is a very simple hint every month a woman begins to ovulate. during this period, whether you like it or not , the degree of a woman manifests itself in a sexual need to approach a man. it is from this point that men and women

should start from this topic, they will not study the statistics of infidelity will increase, and we will meet with you and with other specialists and try to solve this problem. that's how they won't do anything. thank you so much. yes, after all, we wish our viewers to know, and each other with different sides, because sex without relationship and relationship without sex. basically, they are not. maybe it was a sex in the light podcast on first me mark burton lina dianova thank you for everything and be happy. hello dear friends. this is an anthropology podcast on channel one, its host dmitry dibrov, as, probably, our dear viewer. you have already figured it out. in

this new incarnation of anthropology, we are trying to show different musical genres, constantly expanding the genre palette of our meetings with you. but somehow it remained so far, uh, overboard of our attention, such a colossal terrible thing , what not to say until recently, an influential stream called a bard song author 's songs, you ask where are the new okudzhavas and where are the new vizbor and where are the new valleys veronika arkadievich well, how many of them are new? i don’t know for sure there is one in moscow, all the horror stories they love terribly appreciate, they go, as they once did, uh, running on a vibrosk concerts at the concerts of vasily uriyavsky, dear friends. this is a theater actor. for vasya's gifts, well, before we get into a conversation. someone needs to give a credential letter, perhaps someone else does not know who

you do not understand. why does everyone here love him so much? maybe then we'll sing something for a start, and then we'll go and say exactly for such a case, i have such a song. my life my life kindergarten we chew porridge and snot the teacher asks a question drowning out the cries. children, when they grow up, who will be dictated by a teacher, a builder, a doctor, and i will be a clown. i am a daring bold gambler from

an early age. i didn't think much. standard. i ran and beat everyone with a rubber mallet. every day i had that not a day, then a sitcom to me spoke. vasya is not good for behaving like that. and i took off my shorts and showed my buttocks. i broke the rules and didn't follow the rules. outrageous. dunce antonov but internally i was always used, i was a dwarf parsley bunny. yes, yes, the audience greeted me with delight. this is how my life began. appreciated the art of my life, and already when i was a high school student. i wanted to be like yarmolnik or like ugolnikov, i climbed onto the desk with a smile on my feet. i sang , danced, cursed, hooligans or showed a creative nature. isn't that how i played everyone

school performances, there was no physical or moral torment , i knew for sure that the theater was waiting for me . we tried together, because after all, we really need this profession, but so everything is right to the end and we didn’t weigh it, but do we need requests? i would hardly believe it, but the fact is, i work in a children's theater and my shoes run out.

i argue with the director, i see that he is not interested in my advice. you are his advice. where can i get mine shove hints that he didn’t become me, than in the school class they were in plain text that i was an actor so-so to which i answer. excuse me please. i put a statement and a bolt on your table, so we quickly changed the landmark and left it behind. temple, mi changed life. yu with the art of the actor, what are the prospects for wedding anniversary corporate parties? well, dear friends, our dance floor is sad without you. yes friends, this is a profitable business. no, friends. i didn't want to play. let's bring this up friends. hope everyone has a summer. no, that you, i didn’t want to act in this movie, where more fun in the corridor of the bride. he is my baggage

, my creativity, sang , drank, smoked, danced, arranging miraculously in order, angry , i go where my curve leads me, clogs the gaps between musical words. i 'm sitting right here in front of you right now, with a guitar and a microphone. and where are you flying. my life with non-wax is my life. stop everything my life , art, my life hangs in the balance, my life hangs in the balance, my life with her, say please

basically, no, somehow i was always interested in crossing. i'm just so i like different kinds of music, that i want to do something like this, where here, so that everything that i like is there. in particular, i had to master the guitar in terms of fingerstyle. yes, oh, i don’t know , probably works a lot, between not such a fan. well, if it turns out, yes, i don't aspire. well, there are definitely people like that. take romario for example. eh, they love this technique very much, and it works very painstakingly. i know about every song, so that every note is everything, but i have more jokes, lord they are

very not so painstaking, the main thing, but the reaction, which you achieve is laughter. this is my main weapon. yes, we are now looking into music. but revsky has such a thing that you heard. that's where the main thing i often hear a song in english, for example. i really like it in language, it's a very cool song, but if you listen to the text, it's most often banal and how would you think, well , you even need such a banal text, but the song is still cool, but if you sing in russian, then that's it this is a dead song. that's her. that's not how it works. and so, that is, we hear this we speak the language, we understand it, and therefore, if you are writing a song in this language, then be kind, you need to write it like well , somehow, so that it was some kind of wow. that's what i heard in the author's song, of course. now. let's go with the audience. we will say. wow, when we listen to the next song.