[000:00:00;00] that is, men, this is a man, a woman is a woman, and we are just different, and here it is very important to allow yourself to be a woman, and allow men to be men, without trying to remake anyone, because any remake is an attempt to castrate your masculinity. this is, in general, your castration. if i were a freudian on the brain of bones, i would now say that it is your envy of the penis that is expressed in this way. maybe freddie was also not just a bastard to sew. yes , he understood, what was at stake, but at the same time with everything, and it is clear that this is laid directly in very early childhood in games with boys. you realize that i am not a boy, and there all this is laid and laid. the same envy, but it is important to learn how to work with this envy. and how can it be worked with envy, only realizing that you have your life , i have my own life, and when we begin to enjoy our own life, our own

body, our own elements of manifestation, and our own perception, then we begin to get just the same our own life. and here it is very important that it is simple they let go and allowed me not to do anything on purpose, but allowed this femininity to flourish. i could ask, why is this part, which, of course? yes, you have it, it is femininity. this is vanilla even in the most hypertrophied manifestation. it's still there somewhere. yes, it is important to find some balance, but now that you feel that it is worth discovering, that it is worth raising it? yes, and somehow show more that it will give. why is this, perhaps, i want to answer. so what uh my masculine behavior, it overlaps my relationship with a man. that's it, well that is me being afraid they don't suit me either. well, maybe i'm unpleasant. it’s just that even in such a manifestation it’s somehow too harsh. yes, when we put on the peasants and, accordingly, begins to somehow

measure themselves with them. a hmm i want attention like any woman wants attention. i want normal attention. no detour, so that it is not there, for example, yes, so that it passes by there, yes, but i want to. yes, i want attention damn, yes, attention is attention. there are questions about your reaction to this attention, perhaps for you, the attention of a man scares. then you a priori will put on yourself this protection, you didn’t look at it like that. by the way, that's why i said, there will be no bad questions here. i wonder if it already exists? why is it dangerous? why is it dangerous to admit and admit it to yourself? let's imagine such a situation. here you are, there is a man who is interesting to you, and he begins to show his attention to you , his care, why is this dangerous? what happens to you any other male taxi driver

the seller, there, i don't know, the loader director. uh, oligarch, whatever. here is a man, they still show attention. the first experience is most likely a relationship. but these yes, which were the first, well, the first long one. well, this is abuse. m-m, they don’t consider you a person, i do what i want, it’s even a raising of a hand somewhere, yes, physical impact. well, this is scary, but i don’t know, it seems to me that i have already somehow learned how to defend the borders with me so it’s impossible. well, you can talk to you as you like, if i have enough strength and i will beat you and go around. and whatever i will do, the question lies in the other , it is important for you now in order for this femininity to be found, which you are looking for you are looking not where you lost, where it is light.

and if you want her to be found, then the question is that you should be attentive to the attention that is shown, but at the same time, you do not need to marry them, sleep with them, build relationships with them. it's just to let this attention be, and in this attention it will begin to unfold, just your femininity, you don’t have to answer, you have to accept. because there is an idea, as if that as soon as this attention is shown towards you. you need to quickly, quickly put this protective barrier, because between you and this barrier, as if there is actually an empty space there and very quickly ah. this dangerous person. yes, it will approach you and there you don’t know how to be there further , and even now there is a feeling, as if there hmm, this is a barrier being placed, and as if i were something must. if you do not show attention, then i seem to have something to give in return. something i must do right now. well, nothing should, so i say, learn to just take

this attention and be in it and that's it. i understood. yes, i didn’t look here, what i’m leaving with, with an understanding with him, an understanding that i, firstly, we found these moments and honestly , i somehow didn’t even realize i didn’t understand it’s very valuable for me that these moments let's call my initiation. so i also saw them, that they were very important on well, as on mine becoming like a woman is cool. and, accordingly, that i do not owe anything to anyone in fact. and just this moment when , mmm, well, i just realized that i'm not where i need to be yet. i came here with this, but now there is still a moment that m-m. just accept, just enjoy, just be. well, simply yes , it will simply open up normally. you don't have to do anything yourself. this is not a forced procedure. yes found that you just have to be it seems. yes, it just sounds like a word there. yes, it's not always clear

how to do it. that is, how it manifests itself, in fact, and i have, but an understanding of how to do it? he yes it is. i can just write this state, as i understand it, how i feel it, how to just be when you are in the moment, and you don’t have extraneous thoughts in your head. are you thinking of something in the future that i need to do? you are not in the past digesting some situation there. my aunt lyusya stepped on my foot 2 hours ago, how painful it was, what kind of bastard is she? excuse me. yes, but you are here. you see a person. some manifestations and well, you know the state of some kind of silence, but i don’t know, inner silence, and you are in observation. you spoke very beautifully about the future, about the past, about the future. this is when the surrounding men show attention to you. and you don’t make plans about how it was to give your grandchildren the past, respectively, you don’t return to the future , it’s to remove this position, i

have to do it there, and i’ve already built everything there, yes, and the past is not to drag this one baggage from the past here is the last year of relationships. yes here, there is just a person, as it were , and let him be like this, in order to remove this importance. this is the importance of attention approaching you because you , unlike the baby of the girl who had this initiation. you are an adult woman who is actually able to withstand this borderline and let you in and approach you as much as you feel comfortable, even this is a pleasant, correct good game. and just like that , there is bliss in this, yes, the class is super. great, deep conversation, in general. thank you very much. thank you for being podcasters with you, we were sergey sibin, tatyana krasnovskaya, psychologists, psychotherapists, and

marina was our guest with whom we talked about the nature of her femininity. good night friends. this is a podcast of jokes for everyone who does not sleep. again. good night, yes, well, for those who, wait, but i'm right. what's my camera , that's all. i’m just here for this light , i’m sure, as if you know , a plane is landing on me, as if you know kamaz is definitely coming. that is, you are not mine question. you work for someone. yes, say a million. you have such a backlight on the skating rink, when you ride, look, okay, let's one more time before we start this joke podcast. i'm um glad some people are suffering. uh,

insomnia in a good way. and this time will be spent with us. i have wonderful guests in my studio, connoisseurs of fans of the keepers of jokes, people who know how to tell them, and i will be happy to introduce them to you, this is mikhail the policeman. and valery syutkin that is. actor singer composer not a singer, you just know, now is the last time a lot of different hypostases in different people. that is, you will forget someone, there you can name some very important definition, that he is still a blogger at this moment, for example, and that’s all. people then get offended. well, i hope you don't carry no. and i also like it when they say, there, uh, an actor. e, tv presenter winner of the crystal drop award. well, you see, now we will start listing galaxy with us. i

want to start a conversation. you know what's about. uh, in the current realities, they still say, yes, well, a joke, what is it? yes. it's already somehow it's not fashionable. moreover, it is old-fashioned. that is. well, they say some are not just young people and girls. and some direct skeptics of the present time. here the youth says, do you want a joke. do you want a joke? that is, it became just a joke, just a joke, but such a short, uh, joke meme, you know, a joke opens and reads to you with the help of a gadget in our childhood. do you remember gadgets? it was an appeal. e to the person who carries you yourself the same you have a completely different meaning, and my daughters do it differently. they jokes are not told, they are told. dad , look, cool, yes, well, yes, read something to tell to play. maybe this reflects, as it were, the reality in the sense

that, uh, in particular, the youth. yes, she stops communicating with each other earlier. to be honest, let's say, well, my childhood is there . youth is there further e in the yard. yes, when everyone gathered it was, as it were, not that cool, as it is now, he says, the youth was generally, well, it’s cool to tell a joke vying. yes, i'm not. listen, i'm tired. yes i there, in general, everyone knew everyone knew how to tell, and this was a means of understanding. you understand how you loved for free and counted in your mind. here is the generation, that is, the girl had to be impressed. you were not supposed to read from the phone, but to tell about the memory from the heart, that is, to prove yourself, and now, just about the girl, to impress. two options, as i remember, are when you know how to play at least a few songs on the guitar, that is, there in the company. yes bravo band i played the guitar in the yard. i told you about it, yes, bravo

everything from the beatles yes, this is ukrainian, our polish heroes vale then were really the same way it was, that is, here. well, the guitar, that is, you don't know how to play. goodbye, but i know a joke. and then, in principle, there would still be such an option, in sports there were guys who, uh, pulled themselves up or something from brusalim, could portray it already, yes, but basically at all times i’ll say this more all the best. if you feel like answering all the best performers, whether it be classical music or frank the senator, for example, or carusa. it's not exactly the greatest vocalist. this is the greatest storyteller, because the song is like you wanted to tell something, you know how to tell. you don’t know how to tell, perfect solfeggio, high, low notes don’t take everything, so it seems to me that anecdote is still such

a safety of communication precisely from eye to eye from the mouth. mouth and what you want to convey, of course, and show how, as it were, degrees and your own can already be told with your erudition of emancipation, by the way, on this occasion. eh, now you understand. why how they say dear, the spoon remembered a joke for dinner, and the joke that is there, there are two of them that came out of this joke, this is the great yuri nikulin yes, who was also the keeper of jokes. uh, and uh, his club there is a white parrot, so the story is next uh, there is such an anecdote. i'll tell it to you now, so, uh, the company is sitting. well, that is, in some kind of vector, well, let's say, there in the nineteenth, then, yes, we are cavaliers there. well, that means, uh, they are sitting and, uh, the new man in this company is just some kind of hussar there presented there, please, there is passion and everything is there, yes, which means

that he got into the company in this, they sit in a circle and just 244 and everyone ha-ha-ha there 78, and like everyone else, they just laugh, and he so, he asks his friend there, too, some young officer there, damn it, tell me, please, what ’s going on, damn it, you know, all these people are everything, this is society. we love jokes. we love so much love and so often we get together to tell each other. if the jokes, which are already, well, how would everyone know them by heart and so that not for a long time repeats. we simply remember them and numbered them. here, let's say. right now, look, here is 302 there ha-ha-ha, he says, this is a very funny anecdote. i'm like, i'll tell you later. he says, well, here you are, here l is so comfortable, and at some point there is such deathly silence and the lady next to him stands up, sitting slapping them once, gets up and leaves. he sits, just says what happened to the other, damn it. listen well, bro, we didn't tell vulgar jokes in the ranks. well, here

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