more than thanks to the combined composition of pentalgin acts against pain, wherever it is, regardless of the causes of its occurrence. pentalgin will do without pain sberbank presents a loan with the lowest rate in 10 years. yes, friend, how much we had with you, remember? i was looking for the keys, and you had them. how did you not let me sleep your springs unraveled. how are you tired of the sofa, treat things easier with a loan from sberbank with a rate of 4% per annum and a monthly felt bag, obviously. reminds me of a literary podcast. let them not say let them read. i am dmitry bug talking with literary critic journalist pavel basinsky. and now i remind our viewers that, in the middle of a conversation , we usually have such an interruption.

this is a peculiar, and the genre of conversation, uh, with an interlocutor and with the audience at the same time and we do one of the three, either we read a poem or demonstrate and stroke some old book that i love, and maybe the audience also loves, or we read acquaintances quote from the classics. and today we are reading the poem is a poem by arseny aleksandrovich tarkovsky, my favorite poet, and a very famous e. and the poem - it needs to be reviled. well, firstly, and hmm tarkovsky is known as a supporter of the exact rhyme of classical verse, he had articles about this, but in the very first stanza there is absolutely. uh, the unconventional strange rhyme begins the poem so the soul that flared up on the fly was not seen in the room by the whites, where in the fingers of the merciful sorceresses

the child's body gently warmed, but look, what is the rhyme here, but, but the soul that flared up on the fly, no. merciful sorceresses is a rhyme that is composed of the end of a line on the fly and the beginning of the next stanza this is such an absolute enumeration, which, uh, is very typical for tarkovsky, but even this is not important, but it is important that we see here, the implementation of the key theme of tarkovsky is very often in russian literature world literature. we see a description of death, a description of the moment when the soul leaves the body, when the body parted with the eternal soul, they are indestructible, the soul returns to the lord for a believer or closes the circle e reincarnations for people of other faiths, and the theme of tarkovsky is different. and what happens to

the soul before it enters this body, and this is an obstetric poem. and as a matter of fact. and if you understand this, then the future becomes very clear, intelligible and prophetic , the soul that flared up on the fly , the whites did not see in the room, where the ripe body of rain gently warmed in the fingers of the merciful sorceresses, posada passed the day before and the earth did not dry out there were so many lilacs in june that the radiance of the sky turned blue, and in july and august there was so much light from three windows and so much light into the sky by fountains. beat that my soul from behind the grave in the day of creation, how the soil is warmed up in this poem. eh, as if the poet absorbs

the moment of his birth, which we do not know about and tolstoy talks about it, we do not know the birth and death of tolstoy, there are wonderful fragments, known when and good hands. and there they wash some kind of lohan, yes. uh, a well-known fact is included here, as it were, and the moment of birth and the moment of death, because tarkovsky was born on june 25 at such a peak of summer. uh, ivan kupala is close and so on. and , uh, my soul from behind the grave in the day of creation, how the soil is warmed up, we see this right now. that is, here there is such a shift in time and e. in this poem, analyzing the moment the soul enters the body, the poet speaks to us through death, we see this overcoming time in the poem. uh, autumn tarkovsky, which we have now read. well , now let's get back to leo tolstoy and most importantly

to pavel bakhinsky. let's go back to the past in our podcast, it is customary to talk about hmm such an anthropological dimension of fate. well, how did it happen that pavel basinsky, who, that is, was born in volgograd, a southern man became, e, a student of a literary institute, but at first it seems a student of the faculty of foreign languages ​​at saratov university happened and how did you come to literary criticism, where you served how it all began already many years ago. tell us, please, well never of course in childhood there adolescence. i don't i thought that i would become a literary critic, i even began to write. i had many different dreams. yes, such children from an aquanaut to an international journalist, and in order to travel, i didn’t want to travel abroad to see measures, of course, and so on. it seemed to me that

the most beautiful trees in the world. this is a palm tree uh-huh, and then i realized, after all, birches, they are palm trees. well, the figures of our time with you. yes, foreign observers. well, yes, the club travel program. want want to travel. here, and what i will become critics, then i definitely didn’t think saransk university, i entered simply because, firstly, i wanted to study at the university, and secondly, well, to be honest, i wanted some kind of independence and again there. i entered in order to learn english well, then to be a procession, yes birches, then excellent logic. so i didn’t even know about the existence of a literary institute. i just didn’t know, but i accidentally fell into my hands, literary russia now i remember where there was an announcement about a creative competition, which is held in a literary institute. just what fate on the basis of money, as they say now, yes, pavel basinsky in saratov comes across in

literary russia and i sent him there. well, uh, i quickly wrote some two articles, even to say rather eternal literature such as i sent. i was sure that, of course, i would not get anywhere. well, somewhere institute. well, everything, the lord just sent the second detachment and left. and then there's this clutch. yes , fate further came to me there, yes, yes, he came on a motorcycle, my friend just ride to me. eh, i say, come on, we'll go to the city, we've arrived there. this is me going to the hostel. i am looking at a letter from this institution. you passed the competition, and before admission, but the receipt there is something not a day and a half, it is there for 2 weeks. yes, let's say, that is, in 2 weeks you have to be in moscow with documents, that you have already dropped out of exams? yes? and ready to surrender. well pass the exam. maybe yes it was. so, in general, i did all this quickly, quickly, which means i did it, i arrived, well, i didn’t

get in first, it was very funny, because i passed. e. there are also four exams, plus swamped, by the way, the average was, as it is now school food anyway yes, the average ba. i had five four eczema. he gave us five five, four, that is, well, just one point for the full package, i don’t enter, but only two critics were taken. there were three of us in general for criticism, but they took only two that year. that year they decided to manage the country. this year there were two critics, the wonderful sasha lufsov. and uh, larisa shulman, whom i was friends with and they are friends , uh, they got all the pyaterochkas in the exams, and therefore they took me no, at the same time, because the poet there about bunnies was handed over to triples there and acted, damn it, there, well, they just took more and took more. that's why i was terribly

offended by moscow, even wrote about it, then the story prisoner of moscow. yes, we remember. yes, i just somehow perceived in moscow such an enemy that must win, in the end it’s just like that. david and goliath, it's just that i came for the second year, again passed the competitions and did so, i got criticized and criticized. actually did it. it was the course. it was the course of the village of alekseevich surganov, to whom i was terribly grateful, who was not only my teacher, in general, my father family was with him at home often. why he loved me very much, he favored me very much, and i am terribly grateful to him. well, literature, by the way, on gorky as a result, because he was the head of the department of soviet literature. and i graduated from the institute and wanted to graduate school. so i thought that i would write about a fairy, there was a thesis

, well, alexey sat down and said to me, you know, we need it or it’s not in the country, again, well, that’s why it all started too, these me in general . he made me study, but i'm scared of him grateful, because then gorky simply became a part of yours. we remember, tell me, but the literary institute of that time, according to my perception from the outside. i did not study there, but i was friends with many. as you know, this is after all such an island of freedom. much more was said at the lecture. what could be seen in print or at moscow state university yes, of course. well, the teachers spoke quite freely about gumilyov on the side. yes, they quoted it. yes? gumilyov well, maybe, uh, actually brodsky. actually calm said, well of course they went. uh, the most danish things are there in the hostel and no one because of it. in general, especially. it seems to me that they did not bring a literary suggestion on the air. let

them talk, let them read. i am dmitry bak talking with literary critic journalist pavel basinsky. in a word, there will be a literary institute, and then criticism, but we already know that in the finale there will be a m-th book about tolstoy. this is not criticism. absolutely yes, somehow it exists. you now have a whole book. she is not alone. here i am showing it from uh, no need for a violinist. this e novel with criticism, as it is said here, this is a collection of various materials about criticism, there are other books. and yet, how is it, uh, there is still a critic in your self-consciousness. eh, in my opinion, the understanding of this man who does not think in books. he still thinks in terms of some point reviews, responses , portraits, he reacts to what is happening right now, of course, yes, well, with criticism. i had two stages. here is a novel. yes, an affair with criticism, because at first i

was lucky that i immediately entered this institute when i studied and published in literary newspaper for the student. it was impossible, but i will not hide it. and just drove the literature worked. uh, a very great friend of my parents, and andrianov’s bitterness restart, which is not something to say, uh , they printed me because he said there was no printing e just because, uh, i took on what they didn’t want take other criticism, what kind of abusive criticism? oh, by the way, the pool of that time is a synonym for such a silt. yes, yes, yes, i became a zail, so i printed such filiton ones, but it’s also very funny, because this is soviet time, it is still eight or the beginning of the eighties, and the authors could not be called by name. because if you call them by their names, despite the fact that a literary newspaper is not a newspaper, true, but

criticism nonetheless. it was considered directive in our country, well, it’s understandable to name the author , they will stop simply throwing him out of the task of this critic. it was just a firing squad. yes, yes, here is a literary newspaper, so i scolded. well, he didn't say. it was very funny. i even want to re-read now how it all happened, but you had a magazine in novel by one author, says there is such stupidity, after all, it was called exactly. yes, but it was rarely called hmm and uh, but the thing is that anyway i stumbled on a minute, because i wrote a feliton, and a woman’s prose, and then i, if a person is intensely wonderful to write a writer, yes, from russia yes. and she says that something in general made us throw out all plans, all all female authors

threw out all the desired economy, because in a literary newspaper there is criticism of women's prose. i just quit criticizing long before the early nineties. it was really easy when she stopped being a director. yes, yes, in the ninety-first year i was invited by a literary newspaper by andrianov and continued to work there, but igor petrovich zolotovsky became the editor of the department. he read one of my whole cycle of such reviews. we'll love it. he invited me to work and gave me such a complete plan to write whatever he wanted from this huge, whatever. this is bass. i even remember a little today with shame because there was some hunters in it. azat is such no well, i liked to scold the left and the right, but the literary liberal newspaper has always been interested in an article. with a gun there, the famous oh, who still knows a terrible

person, and scolded about the khan. we have a terrible man in the studio to get him on the fence. or rather, the pen was dangerously wrong, but it seems to me, for a young critic. it's not bad. well, uh, after all, i don’t like it when young critics are toothless, so you have to be toothy after all, you have to show you were a little afraid. and tell paul and the current criticism. doesn't she pretend to become directive again, so that these are wrong, and read these correct ones, only you don't read these, all the same. it probably is, of course. well, it was this was even the soviet years, what about today? i think it's a different problem. she hmm she reformats with a critique. it seems to me that today she still leaves the blog. although, uh, they still somehow don’t want to recognize this critical bliss, strictly speaking, kriti. because there are no criteria. yes? what i want, i write, it’s really true on the other

hand, and a blogger is terribly dependent on his subscribers. they must like him in order to be able to create some kind of informational content, he must artificially feed a certain number of his subscribers. he he can't say things that they won't like. i understand, i understand, so he, too, may be even more dependent than before. for example, i worked for a literary newspaper. understood, but uh, i would summarize the formula of our conversation is the formula that it’s not so important whether the critic is evil or kind, it’s important whether he is good or sensitive, or this is the property of many and many works of pavel basinsky, as a critic, we talked, uh, at the end of our conversation, it was about this, but in general we, uh, have created such a very multifaceted and unique portrait of a person who at the same time continues to engage in literary criticism. and he writes extensive books, first of all, alena nikolaevich tolston,

although not only the name of this person is pavel basinsky, we thank you for participating in our podcast. let them count. thank you see you again. thank you. thank you. i am pleased, and i tell our viewers my usual magic phrase , read it with pleasure. this is a podcast of sex in the light on the first i am mark barto for today, my guest is clinical psychologist lina dianova lina hello hello, the mood is wonderful and the topic is such a topic right away to make it interesting the topic today we have, of course,

very spicy, even taboo somewhere not only in society, but in all families, this adultery and infidelity, who cheats more often. what do you think from what i read according to statistics in 2008, such a psychologist by last name, hunger conducted a study that 70% of men and only 30% of women cheat. on a dating site for cheaters. and there the situation was already different - 80% of men and 50% of married women, well, both of them are in special relationships, very close to the truth. i have data that we study that we conducted from our institute. and i think you will be interested and the audience. uh, the total percentage of infidelity 58% of men 54% of women.

imagine, while, of course, while uh, it's not just married couples who are in a formal relationship. there are also cohabiting couples and couples who just meet. would like to change from a number that do not change 17% of men 3% of women would like to change, but do not change. a and what you just said is cheated by married men, uh, 50% of men, and with married men, 79% of women from numbers about the past and i still know what statistics collected 30% of men of women find lovers at work, and 20% of men and 35% of women cheat on vacation and 4% of men and 10% of women are cheated by neighbors. but from them look what other cool statistics there are 50% of cheating takes place in the house of one of the spouses. that is , you imagine, is it while someone is at

work or has left somewhere? or someone who cheats on vacation does not know what he cheats on his bed or on her bed, so at home 30% of cheating cases are picnics in nature or cottage 20% change in rented apartments and in a hotel. here's how to explain the psychology of a person who cheats in his apartment on the same bed on which he sleeps with his wife or spouse. well, they immediately come to my mind, but laziness. well, well, why bother, as if everything is at home, everything is ready already familiar and b absence. well, here is the value of the marital bed. it seems to me that there are adrenaline implanted people who lack some kind of thrill in life. they do not often resort to such forms of sexual intimacy, so that, in addition to this peppercorn, the connection itself will also experience a huge impact. hormones of a stress, and suddenly he will come. and so here i am,

you know, what other statistics are interesting now, it will generally be just a number of unplanned treason. 13% of men change unplanned and 6% of women. what kind of unplanned betrayals of a corporate party and so on is another phobia in the piggy bank, for our viewers, rest for women, that men at corporate parties change more often six percent six percent of women and 13, you know, this unplanned betrayal seduced him, as they find out, it means that 52% of them find out about the betrayal that the spouse is cheating or the partner through sms correspondence. i left the page not closed, and in social networks mail and so on and so on. that is, it is absolutely inattentive. and you know, it seems to me that these are really some strange people. they already perceive their behavior to such an extent that they don’t even think about somehow

covering up their lies and their deceit, either this is the norm for them, or they just adapted. they are really scattered and inattentive. after all, there are also such people created by themselves 13%. uh, both man and wife. there 's a week here for men and women 13% confessed guilt about learning about third parties. someone hires a detective, or ask their friends. it's 11% caught red-handed 6% and other evidence and now let's find out what 's going on in society another statistical fact come on, but it turns out that 18% of women and only 10% of men cheat because of sexual dissatisfaction in relationships. it turns out that, as it were, men of women satisfy men less frequently than women about the degree of satisfaction of men and women. you know what percentage of women

go to bed with a man without experiencing real pleasure, that is, they go to bed with a man. because they are afraid of losing their spouse, they are afraid that he will go to his mistress, find a mistress, or will turn to a woman for money, so as not to lose mutual understanding, and there are a lot of such women. i won't get hung up on numbers, and of course, if we take a man who is next to such a woman in bed, the man is. well, yes, we are somewhere, perhaps similar to primates. a and. maybe even our brains are not as developed as yours, but we can feel. there is a difference when you eat on a boil. you, uh, delicious borscht! ah, or when you drink, uh, it means that borscht didn’t cook lean salty water, you need to prepare it. well, borscht turns, including from water, if it's good, a specific recommendation, how can a man prepare a woman

for sex, if you proceed from your theses that a man knows how to feel? yes you can feel. you feel that a woman goes to bed with you, but she somehow, well, as if she doesn’t really want to. well, you feel, well , you can definitely feel, you can no longer go and some truth. what's happening? yes? what's happened? why is everything like this with us? hmm yes, and then there is some kind of contact, and then. well, it is born, then the prelude of arousal and closer relationships, if these are preludes for each person, this is an absolutely normal experiment, which is carried out by various institutes that study human sexual behavior. uh, a certain number of married couples take an example. uh, men are asked a question and asked to mark them on their bodies. e, means a felt-tip pen or some device that

leaves traces of the main erogenous zones. what do you think he appointed a man. i suspect that the penis and you are not mistaken. but if you count, then the number of designated erogenous zones on the body of a man is known to be such a starry sky for clouds, that is, there is practically nothing there when a similar question was asked women and asked them to mark the erogenous zones on their bodies. it was a real starry sky on a clear night, because every woman has a certain path that a man who loves his woman must overcome in order to somehow prepare everything for sexual intimacy. nobody cancels. e spontaneous sex. he is present, he has a place to be, but the sexual constitution of men and women is different and sexuality is different in time to get you excited. wait. no, wait,

you're shy. please wait how much you need time to no i don't push me. watching with some. it depends on what man you took away with. and you took us off topic. i lead to the fact that women and men very often do not understand each other and blame one of the parties. if people don't understand how to have sex, we can't. that's why i asked. that's how much time you need to have some kind of ritual to make you aroused, which your man should do with his ears. that is, he should buzz something pleasant in your ears. how many time minute 2.5, 20? well, five is not enough, but it's about 20 minutes let it buzz so well, please

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go to bed with your woman and feel that this is not borscht, water, once he himself said, what will you do? you feel it doesn't. well, look, we can figure it out in the moment, of course. you can ask if your head hurts, but i'll tell you, honestly, my leg can i do this? we can look, in general, at the sexuality of men and women. here we come to the statistics, according to which men are less likely to satisfy women than women men. we will get to this point with you about sexuality, if now we ask our viewers, e men a question. how much time does he need? here are the moments when he thought about sex until the moment when he is ready to engage in it will pass, there are some seconds and minutes for a woman , such options are possible in rare cases, but most often a woman needs preparation when a man comes from afar and sends sms love glasses meet work. a maybe she will wash the dishes, that is, it will create

conditions in which a woman will feel herself not only an object, thanks to which one can be satisfied, but also a person’s personality. you see, i then another question. you know how many women are engaged in self- gratification. i think eighty eighty percent then i have a question for you. how can a man find out that his wife is secretly engaged in some reason? and he can't satisfy her. this is a very cool question because it is the most complex issue. after all, he goes into depth and intimacy in this pair, in general, intimacy in pairs. well, a little yes, on the example of my clients, on the example of those stories that i read on the blog, there and everywhere, that people very rarely talk to each other. and it depends not only on the woman or on the man. it depends on how people build their relationships, how ready they are for

vulnerability in general. after all, this is a vulnerability to say what you want, in fact, this is already about sexual intelligence. this is when one partner maybe trust another to tell about your desires. i'll even give you an example. a woman comes and says. you know, i stopped feeling pleasure in bed with my man, the question is why, and i want that during sexual intimacy, he grabbed my throat and called me dirty words. we will not express how many such words there were and er, so that occasionally. he also hit me with his hand, so he beat me, and somewhere in the side with his palm and continued to scold me, and once when we came from a party. i was under the light, then wardrobe. i hinted to him about my desire. in response, i heard that nothing was a prostitute. yes, you are not normal. yes, you

need to heal your head. and she has such a need. uh, a man also comes often complaining that, but he can not realize with his woman, but his dreams. why? because she does not perceive herself as a woman, but such a frivolous one? accepts herself as a woman, a prostitute, that is, in her understanding. uh, so it's enough that she just gets into bed with him, he doesn't want to just get into bed with him, but he wants to, of course, of course, many studies show that a couple living together or in a relationship. not familiar with each other absolutely uh, almost nothing sexual intimacy. and that's about sexual intelligence. this, of course, is a very good opportunity to pump it, and you can pump it when there is trust of the race in a couple, when the person himself is able to

put everything that interests him into this pair. well, now, then tell me, please, at what moment? do you think people need to label their sexual desires in order to then maybe not spend 2 years. in vain as a result, to find out that the wife for some reason is not ready or maybe, for something, do not look, you come on a date with a man. on the first day, you will not ask him the details of your sex life. well, it's not a secret for anyone that a man goes on a date with a woman in order to seduce her as quickly as possible, but a woman does not come on a date for other reasons - this is perfectly understood, and er, without consciously. uh, most of the women who go on a date with a man wear lipstick. puts on a beautiful dress. this is a woman who, in her thoughts, has already admitted the possibility of intimacy with this man. let not on the first date, but so, it means on the second, on the third or on the twentieth, but she

already approved his appearance in her intimate space. and a man sooner or later begins to hint at a woman. let's maybe go to my place, or somewhere else, while she tells him about hers. there is this budgerigar in childhood, and he thinks where to take her and the mistake that women make is one of the indicators what is, uh, immaturity, sexual is undeveloped sexual intelligence a woman perceives it as a threat starts at what i sleep. only after the wedding, or you have to change and deserve something else there. although in fact no one canceled the usual conversation on this topic. and when a woman begins to develop, start a conversation with a man on a sexual topic. that is, she does not refuse him does not say. listen no, i don't want you, because i kind of don't mind. and how it will be, and how do you imagine it, and how would you like, and if i want i'll tell you how i wish this

moment comes practically. silence, why because people are used to having sex with evaluative opinions, they are not ready to receive feedback that will emphasize his incapacity in bed, or it does not suit anyone, so people just have sex, but do not discuss this topic and just the same for this reason , sexual boredom very often sets in in the family, and longing, you do not answer my question specifically asked the question of when people tell each other their sexual preference that you do not spend 2 years. in vain, for example, and in the end to find out that they don’t fit each other at all, the most good period is, of course, the period of falling in love.