and uh, i went there to pick up my son and decided to stay longer to work. it just worked out for me as a husband, yes, the ex-child was born in this marriage in moscow in moscow, and he lived there, and you sorted him out. he is not here. dad just took it. meet the family for 3 months. and i went there after two and a half months to pick him up and thought to work somehow. i have a block in portuguese, i think to shoot. well, in general , i had such emotions. uh, the expectations are very high from brazil itself and i didn't succeed. what didn't work for me find a job, but brazilians have a different rhythm of life. they are so, well, slow, they can negotiate for 3 months, that is, i came from russia where everything is clear. we are filming there in a week, they can call for tomorrow. we have arrived. i mean stay. well, no, don't stay. i just wanted to do it, yes, and at that time in moscow you didn’t have a job,

as it were, well, no. i just somehow planned all this in advance, what you usually consider as project work. well, yes, yes it is unstable. and yes, i didn’t succeed, i didn’t have the strength here such hand down. and, that is, if you compare it with my state now, that is, i have lost it, as if they say that you just need to thank. what is around there are all sorts of diaries where it is written. write down five pieces of gratitude, i can do it without any problems. and there i am grateful for my son , i am grateful for my family. and i am grateful there for the sun, well, that is, for what you had in gratitude. but the meaning, but inside i or i know they didn’t understand, i don’t understand, i lost mine inside now i don’t know how emotional. yes, i have, uh, a young man, but he is from europe and no matter how hard it is, it turns out the state at a distance is difficult, it turns out to be understandable to maintain. that is, you

seem to be hung up to some extent. yes , between heaven and earth. i didn't even hang up. and i seem to be, well, i'm in such a state, well, that's it, i don't see below. look , michael, someone will listen. maybe now the strange story of our heroine. well , what are you more interesting to yourself here, reading what are you fantasizing about? well, you're drowning somewhere , hanging there somewhere, right? well, aunt is fine is, and that there are relatives there is a child? well, what are you telling us here at all, it seems to me that it is very like that. maybe this is a philistine view, very popular. what happens to our heroine, and our heroine has a crisis, just a crisis, you understand, a crisis of self-determination, a crisis of some kind of personal inner. yes, you change

and grow. become more mature there are some expectations that you had there a few years ago partially, maybe not realized or completely yes, a crisis, but our heroine, for some reason, decided that in her life the only remarkable anastasia in the world should not be in a crisis. what if anastasia decided that to get out of the crisis right away, then everything needs to come out at once? well wait. here she is 28 years old. this is probably the first crisis in your life, no. i had, uh, a crisis, uh, it started before pregnancy. i had a rather difficult relationship with my ex-husband , emotionally difficult, and then i had such a difficult, unhappy state of some kind, which, in principle, well, they would now say depression, and that’s it, then i was born child, and i'm happy, i never had

that i blame my son, on the contrary. he somehow betrayed me, and the same brazilian was. yes, yes, this same brazilian, and we broke up after the pandemic. i started going to a psychologist. i began to sort out my injuries. and that is, i had some kind of crisis, but i somehow freed myself very quickly. after that, i was somehow insanely happy, somehow like this. here is the natural way. just came to the conclusion that it's time to stay or something happened in your relationship with me. e. my ex-husband broke up every six months. hmm such a temperamental, yes, and how was it lined up like that? everyone constantly has some everyday moments , which this time it’s impossible to put up with them, and i’m the kind of person who keeps everything in himself, and everything inside of me is seething, and i have a feeling that well, it’s not worth it wasting time going on. well, what everyday moments, that he didn’t clean his brazilian socks there or i’m going. you are ready not in this plan. here,

oddly enough. we got along very well, i mean, we help. that would be the reason for his impulses the last thing to leave you was that he did not have enough space, we lived in my one-room apartment, but he did not have enough space to work. my son and i left in the morning and returned at night. that is, i walked with a stroller all the time , but he still had enough time to work, it was crowded, stuffy, and so on, and then after that he worked at home. yes, we worked with him. he mounted. hey, i filmed there. and you also earned. it turns out together. yes? that is, he did not have any separate income of his own, but somehow discussed. uh, such an idea, for example, that he will go to work somewhere else, but will give, for example, now for portuguese lessons, go a bad native speaker, and you will rent a bigger apartment . . yes, adult male. let me make more money if i

don't have enough places, well, in advance for the future, like, yes, and right now we have a wife and uh, because i don't have enough space. we just uh, at some point i was already tired and i had more strength concepts. thanks to my son, that i need to be happy, i didn’t have a goal to part with him, initially, of course, i told him in my teeth they tried to save families. yes, yes, i told him. look, we have two options. we either part with you, or let's go anyway. at least to the psychologist we will try to figure out what to do? he agreed. he said that's the problem. only i don't have any problems. class. so we somehow calmly without a quarrel, then after a couple of weeks, we decided to leave, well, we are on normal terms, that is, as a friend, he and he is a splendid man in distant brazil a. he was still here for a year and a half, he helped me, he and the dog with us. here is the child. he helped me with a dog, he lived with 5 minutes from uh,

well, home is a good normal civilized divorce. but, apparently, you still did not get out of this divorce. and to put it mildly, happy, yes, that is, there are some worked out things. it seems to me from the relationship itself. i left. normal, it looks like yes, it seems to me, yes, right now i have, if there are any injuries, then they are. hey, here are the triggers. yes, they say they are also connected with my childhood , because i had a rather difficult relationship with my stepfather and i followed many things, that is, what my ex-husband did, for example, did very well. this fat her many times. yes, it was in the look. uh, there is. here is a look, a little cold and mad. i remember the look of my stepfather. that is, it’s just emptiness and not love, yes, such

emptiness, and you suddenly saw a reflection. here from the abyss, the topic has died, it's scary, but childhood injuries. yes, i was just working on moments with a psychologist. and like my dad too. dear dad tell us dad died when i was 16 years old, that was a long time ago. not me. now, you won't cry anything. you can cry. i just understand that this was the only person who understood me emotionally and morally. he never pressured me. i'm the kind of person that you can't yell at me. he loved me very much. i don’t know that he is my own, dad, but what, i think that he is very much, i perceived him as just a man for some reason, who loves me very much. that is you thought your stepfather is your very. i

know we are very basic. my mother had one husband, then there was another husband. and i thought that this is another husband of this very little for me , he turned out to be my own dad, and i always have why did my mother in me say that this is your own, you didn’t say? and how did you know that he was your real dad after he died they told me that, well, he is your dad . real and i never understood, like, why he treats me like that? well, that is , i am a child, i did not understand that people understood, that you felt with your whole body that he loves you. yes, they do not understand. this is my god. that is, it seems to me, now the most painful thing for you is that you can no longer say. look, i know it's my dad. yes, i can . well, please tell me, please tell me. papa is greatly missed. i'm sorry i didn't know. when he was dying, i didn’t know

that he would die either, because for years you take it somehow seriously. he asked me to come to his hospital. i thought we were now, but i have a lot to do here. i have a band there, i bought myself guitars. i've arrived, of course, but i have a lot of guilt. and i understand that he is the only one who really understood me. i want to talk to him so much, i don't. well, nastya, well, you are mistaken. if he understood you, he would tell you that he is your dad. you see, he said, dad, he said he said, but he didn’t we didn’t have a conversation, he doesn’t know that dad is next to him and thinks it’s very, so this man didn’t understand you, that the world in which you are now think. what did he understand about you? well i'm probably talking more about creative moments, because it was the only person. it supported me in my work. well, of course

, this situation is strange, but it seems to me that we have found a very important thread. yes, that e thread, which possibly holds our heroine. between heaven and earth, or put the feeling that she is drowning, this is not a spoken, not lived relationship with dad and this discovery. yes, this mystery may be in this matter of michael, perhaps here already to rummage, the matter is not in the discovery. the thing about guilt is that you piled on yourself responsibility for these relationships. even though you were a child. he was an adult of yours, you know, dad, but he didn’t say dad, dad, like he said danger, they didn’t hear him. yes, that's not how it's supposed to be said. he wanted to be my boyfriend, this question is for mom, of course. mom explained it somehow. mom why didn't she know about it? well, somehow i don’t remember any specific explanation once again you were a child then, i understand this, no, you don’t understand.

do you think that you were an adult then and should have been? yes, understand all this to bear, this. no, once again you were a child then. tell me, i was a child now, right? i did not know much and could not know, tell me, i did not know much. i couldn't know, i'm not to blame. it's my fault. dad, it's not my fault. that means you still feel guilty. you see, in words, say it’s not your fault, but then you feel like an adult. yes, as if you were supposed to do his job for dad. i'm not saying he's bad. i understand this with my head, she is not here, not here. this is where we begin to understand, when we begin to pronounce the words - this is the way managing your emotions. here you come home, right in the bath. lock yourself up, sob , and right here a few times i didn’t know dad, it’s not my fault. maybe

our heroine has some kind of michael, a barrier of such a quality that there are unworked ones. this story of the relationship of love for dad and dad's love for her, maybe subconsciously goes, it seems that no one else will love her like that, really. nastya , no one will love you like that, as dad loves you. it's just not bad. they will love differently why this tragedy? this is not a tragedy. everything is clear. we are all in this situation, our dad loves you there, yes, then it means they leave our parents and no one loves us like that anymore. but it doesn't matter if your child loves you. he will love you differently, but he already loves you. yes, well, this is also a great love in which men can bathe. maybe not one else will also love you in their own way. but where is the trouble that no one

will love you? as a dad, is it more trouble for me that i dishonestly understand myself? yes, and here let's you and me now e as if now here now, as if not. now it 's like i'm going straight down on, but it scares me too. i understand that i am a son , that is, yes, everything you want, but mom, well, i love him madly too. why don't you love yourself, as if i expect from myself, that is, dissatisfied - not good enough to scare myself the most now that i can't escape, as i said. from this state, that paralysis and super seething, and these very panicky attacks that are probably all biologically such is the maximum manifestation of the expression of this emotional disorder. so, it means that you said such a phrase. i'm there son.

all i want, don't give me, why? well , because it’s impossible to give everything, but in terms of love , i said that i have a sincere one. well, it's just not necessary. here you have these characteristics almost certainly present in the speech everything of everything. no, this is our unconscious, our psyche hears us, and when we send these messages there. yes, always it means that it completely unconsciously begins to rise in price for us. how so? everything is everything, i can’t mean, and i have to do something, i must definitely do something to change the transition. in the wording. you may do something, or you may not . and you can do it, but to some extent. and you can do it, but not now, but later with my son, since i don’t have myself. here, study, study, i speak directly to myself. i can later i can not do. i may be wrong. i mean, wait for the first mouth. nastya in your school people

to yourself. she allows herself to be not enough ideal. and yes, and the perfect nastya reads. ah, the way she fantasized about herself. it's actually perfect , and it turns out to be a fact, you know, now i have uh, what, for example, is in my head that it's been almost a year since i left for brazil oh, and i didn't choke on anything. this is nothing and everything. these are the words that go along. you see, when you want everything from yourself. it turns out that you didn’t do everything, which means nothing, and you set some kpi for yourself, you directly told yourself. here are the planks. i owe brazil a year well, yes to achieve this and that, i painted, it is clear that i did not write, i should have a million dollars in my account there. well, let

me, but now i just don’t remember any indicators together. yes, half a million dollars is good, you wrote yourself adequate in this regard, can you show the effectiveness? no one came to you, no there is an evil person so adequate nastya and you did not fulfill them. i'm just what i am. although, when i say that i don’t observe any growth at all, i now also understand that i’m wrong, because that i have grown a lot in the experience of fortitude, that is, this year, of course, i have learned a lot from him, this is nothing. no , i understand that this is a lot, and now it is important for you to get used to this thought. how do we get used to something? repeated many times. this, of course, would be the main thing to repeat the truth. this is a podcast of the psyche. my name is natalya loseva, and together with clinical psychologist mikhail khors, today we are analyzing the problems

of panic attacks. nastya knows four languages, and it’s quite difficult. what does this say? well, apart from what she achieved, at least here already yes. come on, let's go out now on the streets of moscow and ask who knows at least one foreign language says that nastya learned four foreign languages ​​\u200b\u200bthat she knows how to achieve goals, that she is hardworking and hardworking. we know that languages ​​are taken, including so to speak, uh, no , with our muscles, it says that nastya knew how to achieve her goal, and that she was capable, it seems, wait, but, in addition to skill, you need more resources, you know. ah, it's like buying a beautiful car there. this is an age skill. yes, and gasoline is a resource that the engine will require. yes, therefore, it is necessary just the lack

of gasoline, continuing your metaphor , this interruption in the engine gives you, therefore, panic attacks. actually. well, uh, this is the crisis. a crisis - this is what it is always not what you wanted, yes, because it was not received here, it does not correspond itself - this is the norm. and the assessment of what, uh, when it doesn't match? this badly creates a crisis. and this is the crisis. uh, there are some long-term chronic experiences. here you are with him now . what is more useful in this situation if nastya with someone or someone writes an action plan for her and in no case, if she changes the relationship, in no case any action plans. no, you don't need everything. here i allow you to live free of charge at all, please, i live now now i live now just with my grandmother with my relatives very beloved. they are very, accordingly, the truth lives with them. yes, cool, but these are completely different brain functions. we absolutely do not understand the resolution. well

, the first thing they told me when i arrived was, like, i thought you had changed. you haven't changed, you're the same. yeah , well, well, well, that is, there is some set of claims against you from the older generation. and what do the older generations not like about you. nastya and firstly, that i did not go to the diploma. by profession, yes, although, in principle, yes. although, in principle, my university is not only a diploma. it is also a social circle. it is also skills and languages. and i use all this that i received at the university, but i don’t work there, i didn’t marry a diplomat, and so on, and yes, here are some such. that is, if i say that i feel bad for my grandparents or, in principle, the family, then they will most likely tell me that you are fine , yes, like natalya at the beginning. i didn't say you, but you brought to the united said something, yes, i'm always to blame in this place. uh. well, tell me, grandma, he said, you haven't changed at all. she was right. i

have changed a lot, so i was hurt to hear it. and what does grandma mean, and let's go on the points, grandma, i generally think that it is not necessary to deal with older people in this. well said, let's you already mr. psychologist. determine what you are saying, please say, what worries you, then you say, do not talk. well, let's do something. well, god be with her, grandma. i myself people. why is it a shame, because my closest people should always understand me in everything and support me. and no, at least sometimes just say that they are proud of me. they have never heard of it. yes, not at all. they let you live. this is support. yes, and you say they don’t support me at all, as they can yes, that’s what you are proud. one very cool young woman can tell you and is very close to you. i would even say the closest of all.

who do you know about yourself. i know what i want to say to mikhail that we shouldn't release either. that's what they mean. the fact is that entire generations, especially the post -war generation, due to the cultural context that was created, and that tradition, well, it was clear, yes, after the war , and so on was not accepted. they were not taught to praise their children. you see, the feelings of a book about parenting, but there was no this. that is, you could buy what you fed, and you work at three jobs. yes, the best dress not worn was cut into a new year's costume. yes, that was me showing. but it was an action by them to show their feelings. love or was that what it is? what kind of snowiness or oh , but this is also not enough. not enough, but they were not taught. don't expect this from them. yes. so , maybe someday, when you are

calmer, you will tell them, but again, in a position that you are bad, bad, that you don’t tell me you say. and i would love to hear that. and you can ask for a brag to say, granny, i got pancakes. how are you, huh? and then say, yes say, listen, can she tell you it's far from me? no, she will not offend so no. you see, here, which means, uh, and most importantly, that grandmother, of course, now does not understand all the connections between your panic attacks. here is your physiological state, they are generally absent in their picture of the world, in principle, no, this is a son. i have. yes, i have obraztsova, you live. and here's what it is wrote down on a pencil, took power. you just need to be grateful for what is around it is difficult. it's hard to learn this, people for years and decades to be grateful for what

they have. well, let's take a closer look. what do you have. well, just like, well, for example, as i give to try on to thank. god bless him, as he gets, just don’t criticize yourself for not being able to thank you, as they wrote to you in a book. here's how it works. and if it doesn’t work at all, then it’s possible too. it's not a problem, it will be bad for me. if you not you know how to be grateful, especially since you just don’t know how to fantasize everything, it’s just gratitude to me, as if it doesn’t help, they should help. well, about the connection with yourself, but you don’t know which one you understand. do you think that you are the same as you were before? no, let's have another one. and that's what tell us what oh so i'm very kind. i am sensitive to voice

and intonation. that is, vulnerable, vulnerable, but at the same time, but very easy-going. sometimes, maybe even too strong, in principle, i have strength to cope. but yes, i'm frozen. so you say that you are drowning, but you see the shore, at least where you need to. i see that there is light, and there the bottom is like getting closer closer to the bottom, what needs to be done by nastya so that she sees this shore of hers, because she really has everything and strength. she has. well , she doesn’t have the strength to take a person. well, first of all, in terms of characterization. yes, in one word, what they told us, they could still tell in one word, nastya is different, like we all are in some very kind, very specifically cold to some extent susceptible to some extent strong to some extent vulnerable to some extent

approximately 8 billion of the world's population fits something like this, of course, you understand. therefore, uh, but it will help you to know yourself deeper. so is your life. you will recognize all your life. you will change and know yourself again and try to know yourself. right now, right now and to the end for ever, completely and for life, this is an infantile attempt. well, here i am, and an adult attempt - this is a process. i will know myself to the extent in which i will be able to study myself and other people. here is your first problem in that you are trying to know exactly what you are and even think that you know what you are and any step away from this is yours. i have a story there about how the special services are preparing. they are tied hand and foot. and drop the bass. they start behaving differently. here is

someone twitching, twitching, trying. to swim as hard as you can to breathe, that's what you're doing right now. do you know what their job is? yes, which means from one end of the pool swim to the other. you know who wins, who drowns, repels from one and emerges, then sinks again, then repels again and emerges and moves. so up and down, yes, and this man is the fastest. and what kind of person is a person who allows himself to drown? and you - no, you must stay on the surface. it's just that you're scared not because you're drowning, but because you think it's a nightmare and shouldn't be. and drowning is okay. life is a wave. and when the wave went down and that's the norm this is exactly what the crisis is. yes, we sometimes

get into etiquette. if we resolve the crisis for ourselves, we calmly sink, push off, go up a. if we start to twitch, then we will choke on my water and lose consciousness and panic attacks. we will start. i understood everything. it's just that in your mind the bottom is a fiasco, a disaster. well, that's all, it's not like that, because such a bottom, when you are in the water , a support point from which you can push off, you understand to push off from the water, well, it's almost impossible, apparently, this panic attack is your physiological reaction. this is a manifestation of desperation. because you understand that you are stuck and not axes. and where the support you are afraid to go. true, yes, it’s scary, but the body tells you, wait a minute. nastya wait there, it’s clear that your head is telling you, no, no, no, now it will

be even worse there, the end is there, but there is no end there , the beginning, nastya and your relationship with your dad, they didn’t die with him, your relationship began there, because you know the answer to the question, who is your dad and he is good, he is cool represent many girls on earth. you know who your dad is and you understand that he is very good and he loves you, you understand , you are just at this moment, of course , physical death, but we know that there is no death to you reveals the secret that dad is, dad is alive, dad is exactly like that. how would you like to represent him and the person who loved you. of course, he loves the bottom - this is not the end. this is not death either. but this is the beginning of a new life , new stages, treat yourself as a project. you are a cool project, creative, of course, a creative project, admiring your development, and then maybe, maybe these panicky attacks, when all logical failures occur

, but the situation is more complicated natalya because if we already have a year, but periodically, increasing here, then, firstly, of course. our phrase, which the editors subtracted from us. so i emphasized it to me, obviously sedatives will not work for this crown on my head again. i decided i'm the only person on earth who means everything needs to be solved without pills. well, as if i can, if you can do it. and if you can't, ask for help with tablets. it's not cool, and it's not cool to go to the doctor. no, you just have to. well, there's grandfather. here he sits, grandfather. this is the squalid grandmother of teachers. this can be seen on a cool person to go to a doctor who will correctly assess your condition and cool. it will help you, to everything that we have told, it will also help, well, at the level of a phrase, you can ask for help,

only a strong person can ask for help himself. this is a sign that you have acknowledged your weakness, therefore. we acknowledge weakness. yes, only having inner strength and as for the attacks themselves, in the treatment of panic attacks, in the treatment of phobias, there is also such a thing, fear, fear, this is when a person who has already experienced it has gone through it yes, he is afraid that this outbreak will happen again and this fear is this outbreak, yes , so we are working on accepting the fact that you have this, maybe, but what is the most terrible phrase you have here, that i’m lying and i can’t get it up explain why this is the most terrible terrible, because action is needed no, no, no, no, it's not the worst terrible. it offhand something even more terrible is already terrible. no, well, it’s clear that you can then you don’t have to lie to yourself, as

if you can be just stupid. you are just different again. yes, i wrote it down. yes, i, to some extent, like mikhail anatolyevich khvost, like natalya, we are all to some extent stupid, you know, and to some extent sensible. well, friends , you see how our conversation with such a beautiful heroine, who came to us with the problem of panic attacks, does not end, but in fact we revealed such interesting depths of her life in the best sense and it seems to me that he nastya had an idea how to rake? true, you need to heat nothing, do not rake out. lie down rest it was a podcast of the psyche , where i am a journalist natalya loseva, a clinical psychologist, a candidate of psychological sciences, mikhail khors, helped our heroine anastasia deal with those stressful conditions that are called panic attacks. i

hope that we, well, managed to move a little bit with this situation , anyway, a gleam in the eyes. nasty gives us hope. hello friends. this is a podcast, paw jokes. ah, here i am vadim galygin and with me wonderful morning birds but today they are in a different format, but night butterflies. yes , olga svetlana is wonderful, the host of the program. good morning. uh, but today they really are nocturnal butterflies. this is olga ushakova svetlana zeynalova greet each other. but first of all. uh, i want to introduce a russian tv tuning chart on it. tune in to the good. yes , thank you, sveta. first of all, i would like to introduce you, how to charm them. mom. today we will talk. uh, including

and children, yes about in a context. uh, do children need to tell jokes, that is, should children be able to tell jokes, listen , you know, humor, how a joke affects the upbringing of a child, etc. and so on and so forth, so let's probably start with, uh, well, as it were, firstly, how do you feel about the genre of anecdote and uh, did you manage to be present there in companies in childhood, that is, in childhood is not a teenager there. and when you were little children, where adults told jokes or there, uh, you told, as if in a childish one society environment in the yard and so on, only she is younger, and in my soviet childhood, but more of such vulgarity that you could hear from children, and there are eight, ten and 12 years old. uh, on the street, then i might be like that, in general, when i grew up, i didn’t hear it now. yes? i therefore, well, in the forest in the eyes you say to me that it was fun. that's fun. i recognized

some of them, of course. there were topics that were very exciting for the children at that time. they are worried now. it's there with uh, money alcohol was not uh sex. in my soviet unions, it was discussed, it is possible that he will someday appear, and actually from there i drew basic knowledge about how what happens between men and a woman, and then jokes that are told at home. it's different. yes? it's completely different. and at home. so you scooped up others there, you know that they are professionals on the street, they mostly told, of course, the swearing and the funniest and funniest jokes - they kind of contain standard vocabulary that you can’t say e not with children and not on tv. i remember when we were kids we laughed at in a word, fool, where did you grow up we asked, i , too, now a little so even light- progressive well, look, come on e come on, come on all the same so gradually, because you

just mixed everything. firstly. i'm talking about a child's early age. i don't think you'll be there as a five-six or seven -year-old child already there, how would you hear such things . or really, well, in childhood, quite in childhood, of course, they laughed at all sorts of things. homeless jokes were about cheburashka and there you understand, well, for example, remember, i don’t understand anywhere. pigs cut, a suddenly they run away, where will you go, the children told each other. it was children. they laugh at everything trivial to them, in general the situation itself is comical. that is, they don’t analyze their wife in depth at all, that is, they find it funny, unexpected, some kind of ending or something like that, there are a lot of modern cartoons, for example, the same three heroes or, uh, there ilya murom and so on. uh, there is ivan tsarevich and the gray wolf there is a huge amount of real humor and it

seems that he is adults but subconscious children are much wiser than we are and they draw from there. that is, we are a four-year-old child, for example, everything, when i say something, she easily says, don't make my horseshoes laugh. see, she thinks it's funny or she's from a monster cartoon. uh, stressed here is to dig to bury what it is and to the dances. they say there's veronica get up straight to dig. no, not once, by the way, have children become more advanced in this sense. yes, these jokes , even in cartoons, are now so multi-layered and they understand them. but what was funny to us? well, the wolf drove away. we laughed. this is a bomb. we laughed indecently from childhood, but he is so on the verge. yes, mary ivanna is a real soviet teacher. hmm, but the class is coming and the guys are talking. look at me all, who likes what, tell me and i'll tell you who you will be when you grow up, mashenka that's what you like?

mashenka i like your hair so much. he says, mashenka, you will grow up to become a hairdresser, and a stove. is that what you like about me? oh, i like your eyes so much maryana so you will grow up like a stove and become an ophthalmologist, and lyovushka, what do you like? oh love your shoes so much. here you will grow up to become a real designer. vovochka is not necessary, marivan is not necessary. i realized i'll be working at a dairy. well, here you see what a childhood you had. oh, wonderful . oh, but anyway, well, there are such well-known sociologists there, there are also teachers, there is lurie moshkin there. here i am utekhin rudenko, if i wrote out the last name, yes, that is, they are completely different, but the works of lurie. well, in general, that is, it’s not something to argue about, they agree approximately, but i completely agree that this is for children it helps, in general, it is more connected to build your speech, in general, that is, well, speaking,

then i don’t know with reports and so on, just expressing my thoughts and, uh, they noted everything. and i agree. they develop wit in children. listen, well first, me. uh, on the one hand, i want to say that now humor has simply changed, and it may have become a little sharper, a little tougher and short all these memes. uh, and in general , we do not like faster time already long stories. long understandable. discretion there on the screen for 15 seconds, understand? that’s all for 15-20 seconds, then the children already lose interest in what is happening, or they didn’t show something. yes, of course, either you either jumped, or you didn’t jump already, this is called. but who changed the theme of humor? we once heard about the party of the government. mother-in-law. oh, mother-in-law. uh, husband came home drunk. yes, there and so on. that's what we actually joked about, then there were some kind of jokes in the nineties, new russians appeared there. yes, there is a different sense of humour. yes, there

are jokes on women over silicone. eh, how would not. well, listen to jokes jokes my daughter, uh , asked, but if there is pressure in the silicone breast, it turns out that you think there, as there is no pressure in the chamber. here is a download doctor. do not measure my chest pressure, what if they are inflated. i was asked how to do it? i say, well, they do it so that they inflate. she says, and there, probably, there is a lot of pressure. i say, no, there is not so, they pout, veronica. you will grow up, i will explain to you, now it is better not to think about it. and my daughter generally offered a new one to fool my mother when i said that i would burst if i ate all these sweets, he says, it’s okay, we will cheat a new mother. well, you say, yes, such normal children's humor. well, of course, olivier is welcome. dad and i were talking here, that dad offered to swindle the new mom. it was yesterday that my mother burst. yes, uh, in

general, the humor itself just changes, because the generation changes. it's okay they can't. now tell them jokes about brezhnev. they certainly giggle, but nothing is certain. it can be concluded. and here is olya, here i am i know. you probably also agree that you teach children. tell jokes. for example, you say, now it's a genre, like it's gone, but why not bring it back? here i am for this, as it were, and they make this program yes, an anecdote. and so that, well, this genre, on which the whole country lived, and where you people vied with each other, could not be for years, there were jokes and it was cool to know them and be able to tell them. it's kind of there right away, you're a cool guy girls look differently. and we just don't do it now. no, wait, so maybe. eh, now it's kind of. yes, now the genre of reality, but more popular. well, firstly, now, yes, the story of life is a success for the kids now svetik e you younger kids. you just said, here are yours which are 15-16. yes, there are already trying some there, and you tell the younger ones. here, well,

you explain some jokes here, these memes, what's the matter? or an anecdote, now they show. well, i forgive any youtube humor at home, that is, they, for example, are my prankkinkers. this is also there such a look. well, yes, well, it's also interesting to play. that's scary to think about. yes , because some kind of pillows pop up on me, and what is the name in honor of the pranksters. called it here, my children change over themselves. that is , when they fall, and i understand that this is not a dangerous fall. they are without injury, then i, of course, also begin to applaud bravo coolly fell laugh at himself first when people fall. i mean , you encourage humor anyway. and maybe after our program. at least you will start talking there, imagine coming home. olya so children, i need to think seriously, i have an encyclopedia of our home humor. this i can advise all parents, because all these children's stories are funny. they forget very quickly.

even if this is one child and it seems to you that i will always remember all this, it’s not like you forget very quickly, and i wrote down all their jokes in a notebook, and now every child has one. actually your own encyclopedia of humor. well, you see how he studies, and you once studied me there at some short harms on tefe. i understand that for me, to a generation is already lost here is at all. now for the kids. yes, for example , they read, well, in general, they can be stunned yes, and also, like stefi and others. uh, the authors have all the short stories where everything is lined up and it turns out to be some kind of funny. uh situation. at kharms, for example, there are these grandmothers who fell out, you remember, but there, as it is now for a child. that's it to say that oh , it's cool, yes, two grandmothers in the church competed, who will pray to whom? who's who to stop on muscle is worth such thinks she is more than all these, this is, uh, like this. here is the humor of the time. yes, now we already perceive it as humor. these are jokes in there

. well, a lot here, so teach your child to tell funny stories, funny situations. humor - it means to teach these people to think logically and act beautifully. basically, that is, an anecdote spills this quality to be presented. imagine that we are not just guests of the program. and we don't know you such beautiful girls sitting chicks. you are now in a bar, when, as it were, the night grandmothers, leading, sat down. uh, yeah we straight from the night we'll go in the morning. so you sat down with us and want to somehow interest us in your own person. you understand that in order for a woman to lie down in bed, she needs to be made laugh. well , make us laugh, cheburashka comes running and says, gena sent us oranges shapoklyak. he is class. he says 10 pieces, each seven. gena says, wait for more goosebumps. and how is it - how is it, maybe 10 oranges in each village? he says, well, you 're starting a nudyatinu again, i don't know, i've already eaten my families, don't start, yes. let's sum up some

small result friends. we are today uh talked about whether to tell jokes to children. should children? can you tell jokes yourself? and in principle, let 's agree on what to do, so we all agree and well, maybe you argue yourself, but we came to the conclusion that a child should tell jokes. he improves himself, his speech is more connected. he then once will convey more information competently. well, as an adult. i don’t know there it grows and integrates. in our culture, russian culture, in addition to telling jokes. e teaches a child to be witty to understand the meaning of what was said much faster than a child who does not understand what well, it is very important, then in society these are people who understand humor. yes, as it were, well , there is someone you can play a joke on there, and

so on. that is, you agree, that jokes for children are 100% useful, yes, that's it, it's a pleasure to work with you. i also remembered jokes friends. tell jokes to children. teach children to tell jokes. yes, this genre has changed a little bit, but nonetheless. eh, this is a very useful story, which in your family will not only be a guarantee of a good mood, but will also give your child the opportunity to feel calm . ritsya, good morning friends, can we change this? thank you so much and thank you girls. i wish you good morning broadcasts, and so that you are like this, and this is always done, charge everyone with a good mood, like our program, all the best, friends. this is a podcast of paw jokes, and

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