what to say? i want to say that i am happy. what is a day like today? was in my life. i am grateful to everyone. because we met. gathered that dad is with us, that we are like a real family? and i understand, i understand that this may not happen again, but this day was. at least one and for me it is already a lot. thanks a whole huge happy life of such days.

kidneys, that is, how did some medicines fail or what? well, vitalik, are you okay, dad? i'm standing in line, waiting for a kidney transplant, everything is fine. she won't wait wait for yours. natasha well, vitalik lena and sergey, they offered, of course, they offered, but they don't fit. what are you? like this.

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he has a blood clot that comes off in a week, it would be too late, otherwise he will be operated on now and everything will be fine. you don't worry who will be operated on, i don't. his your father has a blood clot. a wait, it doesn't matter. we're here for a kidney transplant. uh, yes, for the sake of an electrical blood test. there, according to koalas, he has increased clotting, therefore, in addition to the basic ultrasound of vital organs. he was prescribed additional studies,

vein screening. and there is a large hypodermic guidance of the right leg, and a blood clot broke off and went through two valves. that is why i say that you have come successfully. so the clot broke off. i understood that. and you can first transplant a kidney, and then this blood clot in detail. no. marinochka i'll come to you. uh-huh come on in half an hour. just don't drink. yes, yes, i remember why you even climbed these veins in him to watch the girl gave a direction. what how? speak. well, how? of course not, honey. so what, i getting dressed, or am i still naked? natasha did not see, did not know, did not feel for 30 years, she appeared and

sent life. look at me, what a girl is my girl, well, beauty and character, but she found me. no, she found me and saved my life. thanks thanks

okay. lord, what kind of people yes, it's me yes, of course now, should i stay here or yes? well i

understood. no one came, and i don’t know how, they just said that the motorcyclist had crashed. good lucky. and which one i'm sixth on the list, it means that someone from the first on the list is different. you see, it still gives to someone. i'm very happy congratulations for you. thanks, yes. god, i just can't believe it. yes, i was there already they told me that i have 2 hours. now i'm mom meeting. she's supposed to bring me things. it's just some kind of happiness. well, listen, well, at least two weeks. what difference does it make how much? briefly again. i'm lying

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this is a podcast of the psyche. here we rummage through the labyrinths of consciousness, looking for the truth and, as a rule, we find a place for untruth, at least a way to her. i am a journalist natalya loseva, my co-host is a psychologist, candidate of psychological sciences mikhail khors hello and our guest albert i already know your story a little. let's tell your version so you have problems with a girl. more precisely, with the fact that i am now trying to abstract from the memories of her, because it interferes with working in another city on a business trip, that is, when i arrive in the city, i always remember that she was waiting for me here. here we walked here she smiled at me. and all this adds such an emotional background that it makes me concentrate on my work, and that's why i somehow want a person who hasn't been in my life for a year already and i want to try to learn how to live without memories and without her presence. how many years preceded this in your relationship girl, what kind of relationship was it? well, we

met at 2,000 there in 2012 and somehow at first we just had it in general in 2012. that is, 11 years ago on december 31, 2012. that is, it turns out that for almost 10 years you had a relationship, or at first we call it a relationship. we are just first time first. we were just friends , talking, nothing serious happened. then after some time, i began to understand that she was causing me. sympathy interest and it began to take on great boundaries in me. i understood that i want to spend more time with her and somewhere from 2016 already, when i moved to this city for a while. i took off trying to spend more time with her to walk somewhere. just be there for her. well, it was still friendship or it was the same relationship. this, probably, feelings occurred in me, but before something serious it didn’t reach yet, because for the time being i was busy with exactly what to settle down in the city of druzhba , how long did it last before that? well, friendship , probably, until the very last moment,

when everything ended, that is, 2022. you were friends with him for almost 10 years. yes, and at some point , probably about five or six years , not only friendly feelings came from me, which means only friendly feelings came out, just to be friends already, as we would like. already love to look after giving gifts is showing signs of attention just to see how a person rejoices at some minor surprise in order to feed on these emotions, and you began to take the initiative. yes, i began to come to the city more often and at each visit i looked for a moment, looking for an opportunity to see her. she was happy. that is, she was not happy? no, of course she was glad, but the first reaction was surprise. this is 3 seconds in the eyes , these 3 seconds are incomparable emotions. then they stretched out in memories for a very long time. at first, she scolded me a little so that they say, well, you shouldn’t have come. why are you wasting your time? well, as it were, she made it clear that she

was not very comfortable when i , moreover, unexpectedly, and i just took it by the fact that i tried to come suddenly. that is, she once showed you that they were comfortable, two showed that i was comfortable, and you still continued to come suddenly to surprise uncomfortable precisely in the sense that i changed her plans a little, that is, not that i and she were there right away deteriorates, there is no mood, how would she then rebuild for me. that is, that's just what not to come. there was never a need for something like this again. he says no worth it. so were you in a relationship or not? i did not understand there was a strong love from whose side. they say that a woman either loves or allows herself to be loved. that's probably in our case, she allowed herself to love more. you do not know hugged lay down in bed you do not, no bed. i’m like a person, i’m like a person who is a little bit old, probably conservative, that somehow i didn’t strive for this

, that is, it’s not important for me. it was important for me to take a walk with her to see her. here's how to chat. that's from finding a person nearby because you hear his voice. you hear him laugh. you see his smile, it added such emotional impulses, which then allowed, well, not to move mountains, but somehow to do something more serious, more significant in your life, in order to show some emotions and realize yourself on some new friend the level of these 10 years. you had some other girls. in terms of just chatting or something more romantic. but i myself am a romantic person to me in this regard, i somehow liked the girl. i want to give flowers. i the girl was in your city in parallel . hmm well, no closer than yes, because some kind of acquaintances. it was all insignificant, because they did not give the same impetus. and she had your loved ones. how old are people, as far as i know, there were some, but hmm, during our communication it boils down

to the fact that she herself got rid of them or she tells. that is, i asked, honestly speaking, if someone appeared, you tell me how it is and you will be comfortable, and i will know and this will not create between us misunderstanding. how far apart are you from each other i lived, i lived in naberezhnye chelny and i live, she moved from bugulma to kazan between us between us. yes, well, well, maybe you talked to her, showed your desire, that you would like to get close to her? don't know. maybe you proposed marriage to her. i even know that albert went to meet his parents. somehow it didn’t work out there yes, it didn’t work out very well there, but i’ll probably be- i’ll start with the fact that hmm she didn’t have a desire, maybe only with me, maybe in general build a family. she initially had an understanding of making a career for herself, and only then these already family obligations and responsibilities, so i saw this and her understanding that she was saying this. i understood that okay, a person does not strive, does not see himself

in this yet and impose this is his own. let's try something more serious, because it's not worth it yet. here, and about the fact that well, yes, there was such an idea to go to meet my parents. i learned the address learned through there. friends of acquaintances, how did you not ask? at her permission when they decided to meet their parents. she said that she went to her parents and she got sick there. i decided to come and visit, but in principle, it is as sudden as you did before. well , man, when he gets sick with chickenpox, he is at home being treated. well, maybe she didn’t want to see anyone, but i didn’t know about this anymore, i arrived, and as it turned out, she wasn’t there anymore. i managed to get acquainted with her dad, my mom didn’t find her. well, then the story developed. already a little tragic, and she had already come to the city to say goodbye to him. that is, dad is dead. after a while. yes, it literally took about three weeks. and what happened after that? i immediately, of course, came to her. and there was no longer the fact that she was uncomfortable,

for some time we began to communicate more, and we somehow had such an undulating communication. that is, somewhere it’s good, somewhere right, very somewhere she said that come on, bye. this is a little limited communication. what is good. what are you saying, somewhere is good somewhere in the sense that somewhere we could walk, that is, despite the fact that i arrived and could disrupt her plans, that is, she could drop all her affairs and put everything aside. let's spend the evening together, you and i and the whole world just doesn't exist anymore, that is, that's how i felt, that is, by that i mean good? well, this is after we already met. that is, later, there for 2-3 years and everything ended. so it turns out in march last year and a year has passed and you and now let it go. yes, this image is a memory of this girl. you will not be able to other girls not to the left or to the right. there is a desire to take care of someone, to take care of someone. i have tried

find yourself in this city in your own. yes, i did. i succeeded relatively, but my problem is that i come. i'm in kazan on a business trip. i can no longer, because i see everywhere, obsessive passion, memories can. be it even obsession i don't know, well, that's exactly the problem. you said it's hard to see. now there are questions. yes, i didn’t hear, maybe you heard me in this whole story, strangely enough, i didn’t hear the girl, that is, this whole story that i now hear from albert this story is about him. he came, he wanted, he walked, he imagined. that is, it’s like you know such a story in which it’s not a couple, not two, but only you, or is it normal when a person talks about relationships like that in the first person, it’s normal, but the question was there a relationship? that is the question? how did you know it was over? i felt it in myself so

it happened that i did not catch her at work. i left a bouquet of flowers and came the next day to give a gift that i was preparing. well, let's just say with heart and soul he is, as it were, nominal suspension. when she saw, she said that, well, you will find yourself another elena, you will give her elena and this is all at that moment, just inside me some more attempts to seek communication burst. i don't want it. so you are now 30 years old? yes, your relationship began, when you were a little over twenty years old, well, all your maturity met. your growing up has gone through this relationship with her presence in my life. yes , her presence in my life, it was, as it were, not a forming system, but it was important, at the same time, i don’t have a coming, all the same , the feeling that there was no answer there. yes, that is, there was no dialogue there. or at least you haven't heard. yes

, you suddenly came and made gifts. you came up with some kind of romantic path of your own, but from your story i don’t hear or feel her movement towards her. well, besides the fact that she agreed somewhere, uh, to take a walk with you. and now you have lived in this fictional world for more than ten years. have spent a lifetime of their emotional strength of their time and money assuming. yes, what are they, we have so does not really fix in the material world, like money. and you are devastated now. this relationship is over. they can't find anything else for themselves , i don't even know, it seems to me what to do. here you understand a girl older than you was an ad. she was six months younger. somewhere, probably, about 17 years old from 18, i got the impression that i was communicating with girls who are older than me, that is, i just want a common language was much easier. and when i met her at all and only

the first communication began. i really surprised myself because how is it so the girl , to whom i was for half a year, was able to interest me so much that i wanted to see myself, only with her she at least once once asked you herself, that you come or you go somewhere let's go, that is the problem of some well minimum reserve initiative. well, for so long, it's probably hard to say. well, maybe somehow unobtrusively she is. well, when i lived in kazan and she understood that it was for me to come. it won't be 4 hours on the road 4 hours back for there one and a half to two hours. yes, some, in my opinion, cases were that there is a plan for the evening. let's just walk. this was at the beginning, probably, that's when the sixteenth-seventeenth years of albert yes. er, first of all, what you told us. this is a straight forward story, how one person needs a relationship, the other doesn’t, but it’s clearly more than that

, we see it from the outside, that you constantly thought in your head about what your uh, beloved uh thinks about you , let's start with your phrase that she, of course, was glad meeting. this is your opinion. they understand here. this is a very typical error. there is in our relations with other people that we decide for other people. what are they thinking there. you understand, but tell me, please, how to find out without even knowing. well, at least roughly verify what the other person thinks of you. what does he feel for you? there are two ways, the first way is according to the words that the person says, and the second way is by deed, probably, deeds, while from your story only your actions are visible, which can be be regarded as an interest in another person. here her actions were not visible.

actions were not words. i will therefore do it. well, when, let's say, she scolds me a little and scolds me, then what, well, i shouldn't have come. it was not necessary to spend money, maybe she was. and you thought she knew so much from politeness. oh well, what are you, what are you, why did you come? oh, don't come, so she said or she was really annoyed honestly, honestly here's more to the version that you voiced that no. no. no, first what? here you go. well, it was not necessary, because when a person is annoyed, he can be there, i don’t know how to hit the setting, to say, the door is like that. get out, not every girl. not everyone can do it. and what about your mom? what is my relationship with my mother? yes, we are very good, but it's true that mom came here with you. yes, my mother has not been in moscow for a long time. i just came to moscow, yes, and as i would say, there is an opportunity. let's go together. albert listen. well, everything is already. well, come on, you're her well already forget it, let me introduce you. here is a beautiful girl. there, aunt masha's daughter, in

this regard, introduce your own to someone. this is what we never had. no, my mother decided that i would say from the outside, as i see it, but it’s not like getting in. yes, she must be somewhere. almost at the very beginning, when exactly, i returned after kazan , somewhere around 17-8, i said, look around. that is, she sees that i'm driving, that i'm worried, that i'm worried, but these are the emotions that i got from visiting her. these are the lines in kazan they are hmm moved ahead of me, that is, even in terms of creativity, some progress began to appear. in terms of work, it has become a lot , and how would i understand that maybe not a direct connection, but some moments that i get it all live, right? did you imagine that you live with her , you have a common life there, you give away your dirty socks? why is she uh, there she fries you scrambled eggs in

the morning and wakes up nothing son and maybe even with bad breath you yourself. this was represented by all the supporters of the fact that if you want to see a beautiful real girl to see her in the morning, when she woke up. now, if you see her like this in her natural form, if you accept this image and fall in love with you. here, the presence of marafet cosmetics will not be at all once i once prepared for her birthday. i arrived, i caught, here is a person who has just woken up to you, but in this form she was surprised, because, well, it's not about her not worth doing. that's why she was surprised. well, well, you shouldn't visit women, especially when they, well, don't manifest to you. you should not come to him early in the morning, when they are unwashed

, unkempt , not ready, when they feel unprotected in this form. and in myself, yes, and so that she understands that i can rely on this person. yes, it's not worth it, but fill her up with surprises, especially, about which she herself tells you, you don't have to do it politely, but speak. can i now i will say one cruel thing. now so its 5 minutes to the cruel stuff. you know what happens to girls. well, don't be offended now. i'm not talking about you now. and about what kind of relationship models there are. so, when one girl has something like that, here, a young man in love with her, completely and indifferent, and you know, for her, like a clockwork toy in order to tell her girlfriends. listen, well, there is such a one again, you come to the door and called me at 7:00 in the morning, 70 grew up. give understand and it

this is for a triop with girls to sit and tell. well, why didn’t this fool of yours show up, you understand? i don't want to hurt you now. i just want you to look a little. what realities can there be, yes, and analyzed whether this was such a western therefore, you could annoy her, but you didn’t show it in plain sight, because, well, this too, well, it’s cool, yes, there is such a lover, so i i come to him lovingly, which means that some gifts break in there and give up to a certain moment. she not only endured it, perhaps, but somewhere she amused herself with it. are you a comedy tragedy with a big nose to rehearse?

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