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minute. see you soon. do you have practice now? well, i practice. yes, well , not so that it’s a straight line. for now , i would like that it was your very existential crisis, as they put it? he what is it? you understand that if you pass it, then this line will appear or you need to pass it in order to be a more, uh, effective therapist. what is the point of this crisis? i imagine that i will somehow live there, i don’t know the grief.

mothers, yes there got to i don't know a year of gratitude to everything for all these 10 years of the process. here and uh, the result now it seems, well, already, and where he would like to go to move. well, no, to this directly, well, the feeling of energy here is the impulse of such a charged one, that is, you are in this fading, as it were. well, here, it’s as if i’m continuing, or something, habits, or, well, the psyche needs some more processes to go through, i don’t know, but you have children, a daughter of 8 years old, and i still oh, i have some processes there went somewhere in august before me the chains all formed that i was there mourning? i didn’t go through the process, and since august, everything’s been right there, somehow we ’ve been in lyoshka and it’s been bad for me, and there i suffered and suffered and suffered everything, then i say,

thanksgiving came. in general, and since september, i also went to discharge all the stories. and this is deliberate, because for the last four years i have been planning all this, too. and then i realized that, well, it’s like, well. how gestein is closed from a person with this and with my story there with my mother, and everywhere i closed it further to do. i don’t know what kind of mother his mother is, well, thanks psychotherapy, how i try be loving supportive like mine. strange as it may seem to me, it's actually quite a lot. it's great if you

feel that way, cool, because there are my mom's girlfriends who, of course, don't feel that way. now you live while everyone is divorced together. it's not a traumatic experience, not for you , not for your husband, not for your daughter. well , some kind of follow-up, as if logical , i won’t say that we are having fun divorce there. what does this mean? well, this divorce then it means that you kind of break the shell and

crawl out of the egg. and what do you need in order to look, as if now you are making your way through this grave, what you need in order to be there and stay at the top. well right now i'm financially unstable. well, i also understand. why yes, but i was the most childish position there all this

time, and therefore she ran faster than hell with them. yes, and there i fought with my ego, because i promised myself that i would never go for hire. that's well, hiring, of course, there's nothing to block. and well, something is working somewhere and act to our viewers will not be very clear your expression. i found in a child's position. i understand you uh-huh well, if we talk like two psychologists, it will be of no interest to everyone else, therefore, and moreover, i really don't like to talk like a psychologist. let's try to talk like people. uh. i was in this maximum childish position. in general, a position. she is simply infantile for you. in what he expressed himself, i do not provide, because the child has the right not to do this. for a long time that you are eligible, for example,

do not earn. what else did he express? well, here is my inner desire there in the name of my mother, too, to get sick somehow just as badly to die, in fact, at the same age , i had an accident in which he is now no, she got into her earlier at 31. i'm 30. uh, i was very worried. by the way, when i had a precedent, i think something will happen to me now, but it’s not normal. that is, the connection with my mother was still quite strong, of course. this is such an analogy. yes she us state. you were 12. when your mom happened and the family died, you were left with real estate, your dad took you to drink, so you were left alone in all this. as you say

, it ended since childhood. and here is the very moment when the family, as a structure that should provide support, died and stopped providing support, and in fact, of course, we can say that at the age of 12 we were not ready for this, as, probably, no one was. i deeply convinced that a girl at the age of 12 is already ready. your facial expressions, antics pose tell me that a teenager is sitting in front of me. well, perhaps i agree, because the weak is not seven, not 10 is good, really. in general, at 12 you can already do a lot of things. let's go back there. and so try to imagine remembering, it’s unlikely to succeed, but try to imagine the day when you find out that your mother had an accident, what happened

an hour before well, conditionally, yes, an hour before and what ceased to exist after that, here you are 12 and your life is filled with something. it can be a game, yes, studying with peers, some kind of hopeful joy. and suddenly you find out remember it. remember, how did you know? he went to the hospital there. and the next day. my grandmother, my mother's mother, is flying in. all this is dragging me to this hospital, still poking me. look, feel

like a mother, why is she doing this? well, like well, there to have fun. you can’t now look, what have you brought your mother to or what? there after a couple of days there. yes? naturally, i'm a schoolboy going to recess, and she saw it. what are you doing? you have a sick mother, you are having fun here. something has changed there. well, yes, there must be some. and what are you really in fact, now what you were going through then, that is,

they explained to you how you need to behave, there was also some kind of fading, that now you can’t live in your life. and what did it cause? what feelings? well fear fright mm sad yourself this guilt that your grandmother gave you. well, just for this case, no no i mean, were you to blame for what you understand as a disembarkation? are you alone? well, in this situation, no. it was your grandmother who faced the question. you love someone more and suddenly a situation occurs, after which you and dad are healthy on one side. uh-huh and sick, not bedridden mother bedridden mother on the other side. uh-huh how has the configuration of your relationships in the family changed. i, too, began to move away, because i myself did not know how to live in this i feel emotions. well,

of course, i was dragging a little something to work somewhere. well, for some reason, i then decided that dad would betray me too. and in general, i have no one to contact you at all. and then what with you, i will make an assumption, you will say it is similar to what you experienced or not. and i think there there was a lot of anger repressed once something so unfair. so i should not be a child, like all other children. why is this all happening to me? why should i not asking me. you put me in a location where i should perform the functions that exist, with which i can not cope. well, then, from the age of 12, i began to lose my front teeth, of course. i just had them

removed. well, and i have there, well, at the moment there are only 13 of them. for a girl of 12 years old yes, it broke, of course. do you angry on my mother, before this event, you can’t and didn’t get angry. these are different things. well, it seemed to me that they didn’t love like that, they should love me like that. do you remember the thoughts that came with a belt , google could put it there. well, dad, only his army showed for a week did nothing google put, it's natural to yell at me like hello ignore me to be silent with me. you remember your thoughts as a child. and such a sense as, for example, that

without mom and dad it would be better. well you couldn't help but compete to with it's not obvious that your dad betrayed the moment you stayed, uh, with your mom. dad started drinking, this is really a betrayal, but you just could n’t help but compete with mom in your youth, like any girl competes with mom for attention, dad for beauty and youth, and it couldn’t be. it just goes differently for everyone. how is your daughter? well , yes, dad, it seemed to me up to 6-7 years old. i'm right there with him. no, it was lying, sometimes hugging. then at 9:10 everything stopped moving away. started it at 12:00 at all to me seemed like it at all. deleted all my life

and my father, too, of course, but this here is the period between my mother's accident and my mother's stroke. yes and and when mom came to her senses how did she manifest herself in relation to you? was she grateful to you, for example, for the care that i provided and how the relationship in action somehow. well, i don’t remember that it was also expressed directly, then i appeared on the peak. here is this network business, she, like her voice , back and forth without end. well, you need to earn money and and, as it were, it doesn’t exist either. i myself also somehow had. yes, for some reason, loneliness it came exactly at that moment at 12:00, when you became adults, you were ready for this adult life. not all of them were doing their own thing. in general, you were

left to your own devices, right? i have a feeling that this is what you started to re-experience when you got married and said that this is such a childish position, that now, finally, i can be a child, though next to a man so, yes, that’s why i covered it all, yes, with vedic knowledge skirts to the floor even so. yes. thank you. uh-huh yes, yes, and , accordingly, flying fluttering. and here you are have been such a woman having been a child for 10 years. you haven't grown up yet. growing up starts so much now everything has worsened, because i allowed it there, i don’t know already. not that rudeness, but some can already be started. naturally, all

this happened to you. i wanted to be still a child , played in a relationship with my husband, where such a pseudo-eternal woman was shown with full power. this is a podcast triggers, and with you we are sergey na sebyayn and tatyana krasnovskaya, psychologists and psychotherapists, and we are talking with victoria when my mother died in the twelfth year, how did you survive zombie death became frozen, i had anemia there, that's all. i became a stone. why it seems that you were already old enough and your mother was obviously ill for a long time, but the fate of centenarians did not shine. at the same time, why were there illusions on the topic should live forever, and what was not expressed?

i don't know about you hatred and anger and resentment, anything, anything. no. here's another i remember the period when she passed away, i went to the training and made a decision i stop everything, for i can't go. it was sunday. thursday. i kept it and here's another guilt for it was. yes? i just told you about this a few minutes ago. look, it turns out that as soon as i break off my contact with my mother. mom dies and the key form of separation from mom is her death and in a normal person. it's not a feeling of guilt in you, it was superimposed on some kind of superstition.

this superstition was formed during the training . unfortunately, it imposes everything when people start talking about the universe holotropic breathing, when people from there they come out with the idea that there is a certain universe that there are some signs flows resources vedic aspects are superimposed on superstition where it is formed superstition is another matter. have you been superstitious before? why did it happen this way. now look, that's why i assumed that the feeling of guilt was formed at the moment when you were just looking at your mother. when she's in a hospital bed and a child might develop guilt at that moment, well, of course, grandma helps a lot. she's really into this. yeah talk talking about this. yes, it’s just that i, too, just like you

in childhood, were accused of bringing mom here or bringing dad there. so you see what you brought everyone to, but it was like a goose from me, yes it was, but at the same time none of us is able to avoid the thought of when mom beats you, when mom swears, when mom screams that we would be better off without you these thoughts that the child is frightened, and suddenly the child sees his mother. he knows his thoughts and the grandmother connects them at this moment. look what you brought your mother to, and here a certain subpersonality arises, which says that you are to blame for what is happening and now you need to stop being yourself , stop laughing. well, as in childhood, you know, we were told not to swear. oh my mom is going to die. and that’s why everyone thought that it was impossible to swear by your mother, there with a pioneer tie, anything, but something already dead, but you couldn’t be alive, because they would die, and they

would die. imagine people are dying. yes, mothers, fathers, children of the cat dog die, everyone absolutely dies. if you are talking about existential crisis with which we came, then at the very beginning of your monologue. i noticed one very interesting thing that i said later and i will tell you now. you are afraid to grow up because growing up will lead you to death. and you said that by expressing this phrase to a dying psychologist, no one will go. i wanted to be indignant at this moment to tell you one simple thing. do you really believe that there is a non -dying psychologist? do you really believe that there is anyone who doesn't die, the only reality that there is this death your death my death. i have been dying with you for several minutes here and no one has yet gone in the opposite direction. well here is an idea superimposed on a suev. she makes you helpless your mom's death.

it's just that and her death is her nature. and here it is important that you kind of understand for yourself and recognize or forgive this child for the thoughts that he had at the moments when his mother beats him. well, because if mom is not just cold, when mom starts expressing emotions and hits you, after all this moment you feel that she hates you, a loving mother will not beat you. and in response to you, of course, there was a huge amount of anger, aggression against her. well , of course, it was impossible to show it. and you received this signal that these are taboo feelings, and you learned to swallow them, erasing your teeth at the root of this thought at school when your grandmother saw you. now something is wrong with you. lies behind the door,

on which death is written, you will open the door , you will understand that you are going out into this world, you will die and no guesswork. i don't i know an exalted teenager of this trend. yes, i'm already a forty-year-old aunt. soon i do not know how your relationship with your spouse will develop. i do not know how your relationship with other men will develop. yes, but i know for sure that your relationship with yourself will be more honest only after you accept this fact. and the fact that, yes, you were mad at her. and the fact that these are completely unrelated things is her accident and your anger when a crow sits on a palm tree from a palm tree coconut falls for ours. well, let's say a linear view

it seems that these are related events, but in exactly the same way as a crow could not sit down. the coconut could have fallen off the planting. yes, here it happens just like that in our psyche. she tries to build everything in linearity, because only when it is clear, yes, that one follows the other and it seems that as a result she writes. and then, when you start to consider it is very difficult. stratify to separate these events, but your task is to allow this to be a kaleidoscope of events. yes, things have happened in your life. you built logic, where it was not necessary to build logic, of course, not in your favor. thank you all, of course, good teachers understand? but it's not a shame, they could no longer