how is this still considered sloppy on the internet? well, to be honest, if this is bad for the audience, well, like how to repeat yes type and again. yes, when a person is nonsense, that you are already ready just a joke and it is being remade and has not yet been able to somehow win back. it is not listed on the market. and what is conspired on the market is a thing with russians on the market of bloggers, and personal, uh, a joke of consciousness. well , now the truth, firstly, the truth, the funniest truth, and the truth, when you recognize yourself and it's funny topical. and uh, for example, it's especially funny when you find out not only myself. and also your surroundings. ugh someone. this can also throw off, and then you can still do it. in general, i recently

, surprisingly quite by accident, will tell you a joke that i shot. i look, it means that the wine supermarket is already a joke, i look there and i go and say, listen, take off your friends. she takes me off. i say there at one point, ask, like, what is the psychologist about? it's expensive. i say what i say on the video. and i say, so i'll go to a psychologist today. for what? is that expensive? i say no cheap there 490 on sale and she takes pictures of me entering a wine supermarket. oh, well, yes , it seems like a joke on the internet and it seemed to me. this is such a completely abstract invention. well, but how many responses were made, and psychologists generally began to speak indignantly, and drinking

psychologists, in general, were even more indignant there. here, it's for this in a joke. i think it's just jokes that we can't retell. funny and when it looks like a video format. well, yes, it's interesting to watch, that is, in fact, after all, when they ask a question, yes, like, who come up with jokes. well, it is believed that this is a folk genre, people, because there are some specially such authors, yes, even russians, and so on. well, it happened, that is, we came up with jokes there, but i still find it extremely difficult. and as if, well, all these went to the people there. no, of course, no, some of them left, some jokes to go away. well, so that there was some kind of conglomerate that we were sitting, we come up with jokes. that is, these are some, well, anyway, life, real situations, which formed the basis and then there they screwed up somewhere attached. there's art there. the third part is funny there on the channel. here's an anecdote for you. but that is, you are essentially yours with this. that's

what you were not too lazy to come up with jokes shot. that is, essentially. you made up a joke. here's an anecdote of the 21st century. i remind my friends that today we are discussing a joke of the 21st century in the jokes podcast. of course, uh, at all times. as they say, as we live, so we joke. yes, as alexander vasilyevich maslyakov said there, here are the characters that are old yes, but the form is everything it’s like there, well, a joke about what, yes, there, for example, there was once a joke about brezhnev yes, if today, then i don’t know to insert, there, uh, some other name, i don’t know some leader there, well, foreign or domestic, or some new characters, why don’t they become, in your opinion, characters of jokes. that is why at that time , for example, well, the favorite children's heroes cheburashka and crocodile gena, the hero winnie the pooh and piglet , which all the children watched, they seemed to be heroes

hero. yes, lately. so many events happened various knocks. e. why don’t jokes about ilona mask appear, for example, i don’t know why there aren’t a lot of jokes about biden, which you can also make fun of there. how can i write a book of jokes of the past. yes, this new fimo avatar has thundered all over the world, why aren’t there a bunch of jokes two avatars meet, one says the second, well, in your opinion, that is, the people have stopped inventing these forms. that is, maybe, in general, no one now is engaged seriously, firstly, it seems to me that perhaps not in the know. we can't read all the newspapers. that is, somewhere there is an evening avatar yes, there and there are only jokes about you. i'm pretty sure there are a lot of avatar jokes out there. that's true, well, it's impossible we don't know him, and secondly, here we are. what we saw in the picture there was a blow of a meme, yes, that is, it's already somehow lightened into humor and also among

comedians at stand-up comedians. often something can be traced in stand-ups, but avatar - for example, this is not super relevant despite the fact that everything anyway he went out. the theme is that a film that has been made for a long time is very long and everyone has been waiting for it for several years. eh, he came out and played a little bit of a film there, which they didn’t wait to make for several years, but he came out and won. that is, here is our cheburashka, which inflicts some kind of it just to spite the day, because there is a precedent that happened, but so that in general after the first exit. there are no wires there, you will agree, in fact. yes, it would be great contemporaries understand? why do people have such an attitude towards anecdotes, because they think that the genre is outdated, that everything is so old. therefore, such an attitude, that is, but as you said zashkvar, like, right?

tell a joke to many ask if tell me a joke, no one will ever tell you that you know a joke , it seems to me that you can literally use one letter e, you can change your attitude to a joke, you can call a joke to me a joke, and they are already dota jokes jokes 2 team in general , it would be possible to do, and as in marvel there are various universes of superheroes, please, in theory, the same story, that is, there is a universe of russian germans and french gathered, who always three of them got together. i do not remember piglet that they corresponded. yes, this is a podcast of jokes, as always. i am vadim galygin and i have wonderful guests in the studio, and the people who work with humor are alexander schneider and ev. and skandarov today the topic of our program is an anecdote of the 21st century, given that all this has already come to us, right? here are these fanfiction memes

and so on. how difficult it is to create stories here and there some kind of joke. well, like or it's like you know, like people who were afraid to tell, they say, here, too , i won’t be able to take something cool there to shoot. wu well and comment on the number. listen, i 've been thinking, maybe it's easier. that's why people slip into this. uh, because it's easier to do, that is, jokes should go out to the public, roughly speaking, yes, well, there are even 1-2 people. you have to tell with your eyes to do all this, and all these vines, all these similar stories. you take the phone, you just take pictures of yourself, no one does not see what will be written about you later. this is the second thing. and so you took it off and that's it, you're not ashamed, and then posted it and already then listen no, but you need to tell jokes. and now from the people. and who went out in front of the people, the driver grandmother, and you start talking. they saw you

, five years old, when you were picking your own poop there, what a shame to tell a joke is not ashamed, just just not ashamed, there should be a place and time for everything. you can't. well, depending on what kind of upbringing the family is there, or, for example, that is, here for example, we are also unable to tell all sorts of jokes on the air. here you know some anecdote that would not be vulgar and without obscenity, and that's how such a television one. so excuse me, that is, i have now written reading. the first time a guy tells a friend, we decided to speak only english with his girlfriend on wednesdays, any questions and answers should sound only in english, so on wednesdays we don’t talk to her. here, of course, there are some jokes that, well, you don’t know how you react to them, but you see it in tom and of all there is the best issue of this journalist in general jokes. yes

, i’ve put my jokes in there now, if i’m joking, no, no, there are just good quality jokes that it’s not embarrassing to really tell the public. even i 'm sure there are such jokes and a huge number of them that you, uh, are there as a stand-up comedian. vydnesh, tell on stage, and everyone will laugh and perceive. this is not a joke, like a joke, the word is already, namely, like stand-up, like a cool story from you, but there are jokes that are better not to even read. yes well, okay. well, he can tell a joke from himself when a crow sits. uh climbs the cow on the first. where are you going, he says, there are apples, he says, are you taking a cow? and i have with me, that is, you can’t tell me that i had an incident in the village, i’m walking. i suddenly see a cow, i hope why are you telling standup as you say, i had such a case, uh, you are such and such, and you seem to

turn people into another reality. and if it was, like, there, you estimate, and here is a cow, maybe it is. well, okay. that is, you believe that transformation can take place. the main thing is to be able to do it, right? well, as it were, in fact, no matter how we laughed at the fact that it was a joke, goodbye. i never even heard the jokes. it's like a joke, that kvn certainly builds it all up. e that the rest of the programs are humorous, which were before which are no longer there. they built it. uh, our sense of humor. well, here we are comedians , for example, without this, we would not even understand what is funny, what is not funny, which, well, passed there, it also divided into two things. it was it's just humor that everyone understands stupid swearing such a piston there is such and part of the component of satire that is, it is political there, social satirizes and so on. some of these jokes that they were afraid to tell in the kitchens, they poisoned them and so on, but in any case, i

agree with you that everyone who read, basically, left an imprint on us. eh, wrote filitons. there were screenwriters who wrote specifically for those who read monologues. they spoke there , and some knew how to tell, while others there simply wrote to them, and some they themselves told their creativity to give witticisms and aphorisms, of course, and we grew up on this all, but also in the main. there, the topics were so basic there, the husband returns from a business trip for men. here is the wife. there he meets with a rolling pin where his mother-in-law drank his salary, son-in-law some such boss subordinates. well, something about brezhneva there and so on. and today, here's what, uh, how to joke, because life has become faster. yes, well, they talked about it, it has become oversaturated with information that people receive earlier. information where we talked somewhere in the dining room on a smoke break turned on the tv 1.2 channels for the whole country told

the radio station also told there how to treat varicose veins correctly there. everything is now oversaturation of a person with any information, including everything related to humor. maybe that's why, that is, people get lost. they no longer understand what is funny, what is not funny, because you understand a lot of everything? here's how we let you. well, they bought some kind of candy there, yes, there for the weekend they gave some kind of cockerel, and then you come to the room, brewed there chocolate and marmalade and so on and that’s all, and then i don’t want to overeat there and so on i got enough, maybe it’s just uh, progress uh, which came to us in the form of all these gadgets, where every second. you can do something with a pretension, maybe it's to kill, in general, the perception of humor. listen, right. you said there was so much humor already. it seems to me that in kvn the joke was not switched to jokes about everything, comic ones switched to everything. then, now on the internet, you can also see humor on any topic, and

it seems to me that at some point it’s real it becomes ridiculous. and from, for example, surprise or from the courage of what a person says. well, that is, before we, uh, couldn't say something like well, you have to think. yes, just think and don’t, that is, i understand what you are talking about, that is , the boundaries have expanded and now i have everything, well , you even type some nonsense in a search engine, i don’t know there, i don’t know the horse there, which has 70 nipples and those will give out a picture there, yes, as if someone thought and drew such a thing there. i'm now conditionally talking nonsense and there it is in this here in all the garbage. here in this, you know, in this bottomless dump on the internet, that is, there is nothing, but i myself am talking about the fact that for 4 seconds they didn’t show you something naked there or this is something, as you say, not yelled there everything, well, everything is uninteresting, that is, someone must definitely show something, or there, uh,

something dirty to swear, or something that just, well, nothing humor has nothing to do with it. the way you only talk with surprise, like, yeah, okay, i mean, it's more like surprises people. but to think about something, that is, well, it seems to me that it’s really just that there’s a lot of humor, and moreover, uh , in different genres, and miniatures and stand-ups and some funny songs, memes and everything, and therefore it’s difficult for a person already surprise now and it needs to cling and initially. that is, if you don’t initially hook a person somehow and tell a joke. or it's some kind of video starts. well, i've seen i've seen heard either, yes, or it's not funny and walks away from it. that is , you need immediately from the first that it turns out. yes? we here the whole speech is to receive time is running. yes , we are all oversaturated, that is, in principle, there is no need to create any programs. associated with humor, because well, what's new there will show me. yes, i have already seen everything, that is , it turns out that you and i, uh, as people

who are engaged in humor, are doomed to some extent, or what? yes, that is, we are like a sunset. we are such dinosaurs, which have not yet been crushed, mammoths have already died out there, and we are still flying. everything, that is, it turns out. so it seems the other way around, or then what it does look for some new forms of opinion that now humor, on the contrary, is so much in demand now stand-up is coming out. he has already reached a new level. previously , no one understood what a standard was. and why go there? what for for a long time of year or spectators? material check. that's when you go, when i'm here today, for example, in the evening, i'll go to dad beer pap where will people sit? and i will check the material there for 10 minutes new and people are happy to listen and more than that if i ask who specifically came here to listen to me people poaplo. because they are, well, understandable. yes, this is your audience. yes, he likes this form. i went to you 20 people to spend the evening

somehow yes, in a pub there, i also listened to my favorite artist. i understand, but i'm talking about the form itself. i still want to bring this genre back. i want youth again. basically , you have to walk through them. there, to instill in young children precisely this ability to be cool in a company, because you know how to tell witty things, let's call it a joke. i mean, well, anyway, to be cool in the company. let's not name. this joke. i agreed to the word the word itself, that is, count for sure. yes, oh, the joke is good joke anecdote - this is grandfather in fact a joke. he's kind of a joke. and here you are the same as boys guys, to be cool in the company you need to be a grandfather, just cross out the word anecdote, like, just, well, cross it out and that's it. ok then. that is, you think that whatever you call a boat, that's how it will float. that is, it is not like that or what? do you want the latest hottie? yes,

shmulka now i'll tell you or shmyaow. but why you any word? how do you make a joke? and you are a joke to me. and how the buns got off galygin with a new streyza. here, yes, when you want to go crazy . we have distorted our language so much, it’s poor even today to sometimes understand what is at stake in general, that is, when they talk to each other there, and including, this is why it’s sloppy, that is, considering, that is, some kind of translator is needed . you know there urgently to me you know what it means, let's, that 's what uh, first of all, thank you for your opinion. and something to hear me, of course was. well, it's not that unpleasant, but i would actually draw something. and now, maybe, you are really right, what can change the name itself? that is, if you go out there now and say, let's dance the mazurka. yes, let's say. what a mazurka you come up with a new name for this dance, and there somehow there is something to do. tell me about you saw a new cool dance they came up with,

somehow i'm afraid to say a word, you'll say something all again in a joke. imagine, but let's come up with an anecdote called for our viewers for ourselves time is tireless running. yes, we are oversaturated with everything, including humor, which, in fact, leads to the fact that you should be very quickly. well, it's funny. that is, you are not ready to sit and listen to a long artdox story there, uh, an anecdote. yes , you need to look right away. yeah, this is kind of working more now, yes, but that's what we didn't agree on. that is, i still think that a good miscellaneous joke is much more fun and funnier. yes, but you still think that the future is called this short form. yeah, that is, well, transformed and uh, for the future or not the way you think life is. well, i don't think so, okay then. i'll just say, then i'll emphasize what zhenya was talking about, that, in principle, even the new

stand-up genre that came into the subconscious of people there. yes, when people come out and tell some interesting stories, since , in principle, one can also add an anecdote to one's experiences. yes, but do not call such people as in that story funny. yes, as you remember, yes, it's just so funny to me. i just remembered, and my dad says all the time until now, and he will always warm like that. oh how about joke. this is interesting to me. what a joke, never heard of it. i'm in life on the situation with him, as in that anecdote, from which he thinks there is no anecdote here, because he emphasizes it fits. you know that zhenechka , he emphasizes that for almost any life situation. there are a lot of anecdotes. that is, like this, well, for any situation. there are a huge number of works, there are romanov, that is. and in this case, there are also enough anecdotes , an anecdotal situation, friends figured out something with something today. it was a podcast of jokes and today. e me the company was my colleagues

in the workshop, and the people who work with humor are alexander schneider and evgenia from kandarov. zhenechka sash thank you friends. my. all the best, good mood, until we meet again. hello this is a podcast triggers and with you i am sergey, he is a psychologist and tatyana krasnovskaya, a psychologist and a psychotherapist, and we are talking with our guests olga olga tell us what you came to us with today, and i came after a relationship with an abuser. so a psychopath, probably, but having lived with him for some period of time, i now understand that in my life there are some consequences of these relationships, and i catch myself that i can’t cope on my own and i have some kind of reaction

of the body. yes, for some situations that are not adequate, it seems to me that it is wrong to perceive the situation and i have no right to be offended and annoyed there. that is , it seems to me that i invent everything for myself and get it for myself, suppressing these emotions for myself. and she herself suffers from this and it seems to me that when people talk to me, i understand everything wrong, that is, some kind of everything, perverted, as if i have some kind of distortion and in general somewhere the norm. how old are you 35 years old? how many years have you been in that relationship for three years? and how long have you lived in them for two or three years? how do you talk to a psychopath and an abuser. tell us how it was in general, that it was met in moscow. he turned out to be an arab from egypt, in the sense you did not know. yes, he told me that he is half-arab, half-american. this was my first mistake of him, because i

turned a blind eye to it. so when you can start dating, i started asking him. i say, after all, where is your mother, where is your father? what are their names, and he says, well, that is, well, we will get to know each other. i say ok here. well, it turned out, ended up there after a while relationship. i realized that he was a pure slave and not just some kind of elite blood. how he positioned himself, that he graduated from some american universities there, he was simply from egypt and a rather poor family, but really wanted to seem like such a status person. it can be understood. and if he would build one hundred percent, i still have a relationship, perhaps there are some stereotypes. what does it seem to me? but you also need to understand what kind of person. well, that is acquaintance. oh well, here i am with the guys from egypt after all.

it seemed to me that nothing serious could happen with him, the good fellows built it like that. well , you haven't managed to build that border with him yet. probably not, because they have respect for him, therefore, about it. i tell you how your relationship was built. it so happened that i lost my job in moscow, and he says, he lives in dubai uh-huh and says, come on, come to me. in general, we will build relationships. i dropped everything. well, no work. and how long did you date while you were in moscow, uh, about months. three uh-huh about three months and then i went to dubai, that is, first i went with him to visit him for his birthday for 2 weeks. then she returned to moscow and then left completely. well, no, just like she left completely, but i just won’t come back, she was open and we started a relationship with them , everything was beautiful, that is, well, he looked after him very beautifully, well, how beautiful, but he’s allowed. a

if we went to a restaurant, if it was in moscow when then i always called the car, that is, there are always restaurants there every time flowers then, of course, we had relatives. or relationship and when i came there he lived in a hotel, since he was here on a business trip, he lived in a hotel with a film crew, and did not shoot a tv show for a football match. that is, they lived in a hotel. when i always came, it's always roses on the bed - it's always a bunch of flowers, a bunch, there are treats. well, it's just a lot of decorations. that is this is just too much. and that is, here i plunged into some kind of fairy tale. yes, that is, as if that's how i got swirled. that's how cinderella and i liked it there. uh-huh, i just wanted to keep it yes. and probably, later, when they already started some. i have very pleasant events in our relationship to occur. i knew how it was, they began to happen when you left there , when he proposed, did he

propose or not in moscow in dubai, i flew to dubai, we began to live everything was beautiful, and then ah. i caught him on at first glance, i accidentally saw a photo there with a girl kissing, where he takes a selfie against the background of our roughly speaking bed. when i asked him what, well, what is it? he said i misunderstood everything. it's just a masseuse came to play you kiss everyone like that. he says it's just you brought me i think maybe it's true, i did something wrong. maybe he should not be so offended somehow. maybe something to get up better to become more good more beautiful, well, so that he does not cheat on me. and i flew to moscow then to think. i thought about returning or not. well, apparently, this longing, which he

gave me at the beginning. i wanted to go there. back we thought she would come back. i thought she was hilarious doing something a little. yes, it’s better to strain with myself, as if through myself for the sake of him, then he will go forward and do the same for me. and i returned, and he was afraid, apparently, to lose me, because he immediately proposed to me uh-huh and after that he said that i was his property and in arab countries accepted the offer, you didn't get married, but you just accepted the offer and became his property. that is, he said the ring on his finger is evidence that i am his, i am his . actually, i don’t care how it is, what i say, too, as i say, i’m a person. i'm a person. how can you do with me what he wants, no, it’s impossible. he says, and i say this to you, well, i have a different mentality. you must understand too. he says you have accepted that i am glad, so you must accept islam. there parents in the harem, ten

these children or there, how many there they have at least three standard, and i have gone for some. well , that is, we have such a conflict with contra. yes , i had some time before the wedding, correctly, i understand that as soon as you accept the ring, we should immediately have had it's not muslims. there is one like before allah and from now on, in principle, muslims believe that you are his wife right in the mosque no, where does this happen in egypt on the road? we just signed the documents and there were documents. they misspelled my name and there in general were. well, yes, my data is wrong again. when did you agree to this ritual, traditional for islam, did you read anything about it, did you know anything about it? i read a little, but what is said in

the koran and what he did are two completely different things. you understood to be accountable for what you are doing, but you have not yet converted to islam at this point. yes. so good so. you had such a traditional muslim wedding. let's say. well yes. it seemed very low and ugly. yes, because after all, when it’s not tyah, this is also ritual is a tradition. these are some outfits , some treats, probably, and here it’s just on the road quickly, well, the documents were needed for the sake of registering the main marriage. yes, you must first make none and get diesel there. i mean, it was so purely formal. uh-huh well, they have everything i told his wife. no, that's it, are you already divorced or

there? you don't live under the same roof for 30 days. that is, you, too, already, well, not a husband. and a wife, that is. well, it’s a convention or something, only a before this ritual you spoke with him, and your a shared future, what will it look like? what does he expect from you? what are you ready for? on what is not, right so as to sit down in an adult way to talk. no, it wasn't, that is, i thought it would be. this is a fairy tale. that is, i probably had arabic glasses, but yes, and everything turned out such a seat at home not letting me out of the apartment, i even had to come up with a good reason to go to the store. why should i leave the apartment, that is, just go for a walk. no, it's normal that women don't do that. we are strange. here. i thought, that after all i am russian and some kind of indulgence should be towards me and how events developed further. further, of course we went to his

parents in egypt and there it became more very aggressive. that is, let’s say, if i worked somewhere, i didn’t have a bank card, let’s say, and the whole salary is there that it’s in dubai, that it’s all checks, that is, i needed to get money somehow, and he says, come on we will put money on my card. and you can pay yourself to him at any time, but as practice has shown, when he wanted to pick up the card, he took it, then i was left without money, that is, all the money was transferred to him. then i stayed a little bit to save some cash, so that at least i had something to have some kind of airbag, purely for myself, that in order to buy something or well, that is , you began to invest, relatively speaking, on tickets back, or at least if i 'm leaving him, to live at least some period of time, so that i have something to think about that such an option is generally possible, that

you are leaving him. i understand they didn't . i was scared for some reason to get away from him. i wanted to live there, and, of course, everything was good in the country, but i was afraid. uh, i'll be back in moscow, yes, i told everyone that i had already left. and everything is fine with me, that they won’t accept me, is it obvious that you didn’t want to return back? uh-huh i didn't want to admit it to myself well, but you are an adult, you could, relatively speaking, not return, but move from there to mexico why did you, in principle, have an idea in your head? only either you stay, and in dubai yes, i don’t know, somewhere in egypt either come back love is a grown man, able to drive on. well, obviously it was somehow slowed down for you and your brain and mind did not develop in that direction. what can you, well , you didn't like scratching, but got divorced married a mexican didn't like the mexicans. married to runes.

now there are no such thoughts yet, i look, that's why i seem to be interested in this, because you came up with a fairy tale for yourself, obviously you plunged into this fairy tale and realized that this fairy tale does not suit you, but you stayed there enough long there to live in it. horror or return and there and there did not like. psychotherapist psychotherapist krasnovskaya, today we have guests olga and we are listening to her story. from what they fled from moscow, probably some kind of sulfur days to me, when he appeared, i became. a busy life, of course, but still, let's see, before it appeared, what happened in your life, what did you want to escape? some kind of loneliness

what does it mean that there was work at home? work at home, well, friends, relatives, i went there to study, but some for a period of time you already know everything, you are fed up with what happened before this meeting in moscow, your mood has dropped, your energy of speech has changed, what is happening? let's look there, because i understand that you want us to help you find the reasons for this abuse. i do not know the reason in him a person, calling him a psychopath or an abuser. now it is very fashionable and how could we, of course, we can do it, but if you want to learn how to build relationships, then you will have to rewind back to the moment where you decided to go to relationship with a person. what were you getting out of at

that moment? what if you feel like these three years have affected you? well, they probably influenced, but still, it would be more important for me now to see what could make you go into it, what made you stay there for a long time, why did i ask you, what prevented you from leaving for another country, any other country. well, just go nowhere. i don't think there is any support. there , no one expects precisely this fear in their victim, let's call it that. because she has nowhere go and because what he had before she either devalues ​​or does not consider it worthy. and why do you need this support before meeting with him? support he can

orient. support who supported you before his sister? mostly native, yes, the older one is better than the older one, she is 16 years older. you consulted with her when you made the decision to leave. no, i didn't consult anyone. well, why is english still a person to you? why didn't they consult didn't discuss it? i decided that i can make the decision of my life, really you can. i didn't even ask my mom. what is your relationship?