[000:00:00;00] uh, well, works of art, in the end, and tolstoy and dostoevsky long before freud uh, hmm substantiated and described the role of the unconscious. that's it, the unconscious specifically wrote about the ancient monks this long, yes, dostoevsky's pavement was made in 1,500 years. yes, it's another matter. yes, after all, we are now talking about ready or not. we this is a big question, a person does not change, because through consciousness a and dostoevsky again. yes , very often they say a lot can be known unconsciously, in fact, only when you know something, unconsciously here only then is it truly and effective, therefore, he has such a retreat strategy of udostoevsky, unlike tolstoy, who will say everything many times and repeat just in case, if, after all, yes, but still tolstoy writes after chekhov’s word and writes because then the story is darling, because it is so beautiful that it was written

unconsciously. uh, tolstoy is precisely tolstoy, but he himself acts, otherwise. but, uh, that's why those who love tolstoy are those for whom dostoevsky is too cruel to drag. yes, because tolstoy raises questions like these, yes, here, illuminating the soul in another plane. he seems to be from this plane. yes, because, that is, his hero is experiencing doubt. and you understand that, mmm, you, as it were, can walk this path with them and this is, as it were, a normal human life. and when you suddenly look at it from the point of another being higher, firstly, you can see more. secondly, it is seen from a different perspective. that is, tolstoy shows this as your human, and dostoevsky shows it as yours, preventing you from being a man, and these are completely different human perspectives. yours, interfering with me , we formulate these prospects a little differently than tatiana does

for me. of course, it is with tolstoy that this e such e, well, i would say, if we say that they are someone else, they are still within the framework of christian culture, this is still on the one hand. christmas tolstoy uh, from here. eh, hence the kingdom of god on earth , its permanent, that we can have the kingdom of god on earth, and the other is still, uh, easter , and both are absolutely necessary for russian culture. uh, even though i put higher easter like understandably, you know, but, nevertheless , both are necessary in order for russian culture to be fully revealed, therefore, but you know what i want to talk about. whatever persons finish, and you are asked to answer. here are the questions. what works of one and the other would you definitely recommend in two cases? the first case, a is a foreigner. here a foreigner wants to read one work.

well, let's give such a hypothetical situation of tolstoy's contempt in one work, and the second is already close to our life. this is an attempt to resolve the dispute, is it too early to read in such a class, yes, that is, a foreigner and a schoolboy must read one work of each. well, as they say, we have a lady's, so i would advise a foreigner anna karenina and, uh, the brothers karamazov, but as for our schoolchildren , i'm afraid you won't fit in a minute, because everything is much more complicated here. but really. i think that, uh, if you don't do that, uh, that reading that puts marks for a period of time and checks dean, do you have a text, that is, how many mugs did someone have and what dress did it come out in there, huh? yes yes, yes, uh, then uh, this is a good read for high school students. it is very good

quality is the same. uh, well, in principle, the crime is already a punishment, that is, which is really a classic included in the school curriculum. uh, it just needs to be read very well, very well taught. well, in part, i agree, but not quite uh for a foreigner the brothers karamazov uh, at least part if they don’t master everything, uh, and uh, war and peace, too, at least part is not anna karenina, even though she is a foreigner. let it pass. let them read. eh, though uh, the description of napoleon and kutuzov might be better understood by russia, but for a schoolchild it's the same. well, here i am, although i came up with the ending, and you took it and destroyed it. just thought we'll eat. and i'll tell you. honestly, i'm a foreigner. i'm just taking the course. eh, an introduction to russian culture , identity and you understand that nothing will be mastered. i generally have a short course of 8 years there, so i ask you to read the boy with

christ well, how can it not only be to get closer to dostoevsky, that's everything, well, such is the story. thank you big. today we gathered our thoughts about tolstoy and dostoevsky tatyana kosatkina ivanovich aulov. i am vladimir igoda. see you again. this podcast triggers and with you. today we are sergey on ourselves and tatyana krasnovskaya, psychologists and psychotherapists. hello and today in our studio marina tell us what you came to us with. i had such a request literally. i recently realized that i am not

aware of my femininity. what is it in well , about the fact that i am a manager and i have such a more masculine character. yes, and how my position, as it were, obliges me to keep myself, and lately. i 'm trying to see the woman in me. yes, only a woman who i will like, what should be there. and that's what literally recently, i hmm realized that i'm chasing, for some kind of some kind of pattern of this femininity, a generally accepted pattern. it must be some kind of vanilla femininity there, yes, there is a vanilla woman, there mimimi there, i don’t know, i hate it. i realized that this is not about me, but i'm chasing this, but it's not about me at all and well, here's just one little man literally there a few days ago , a girl told me, she says, i like your femininity so much. she is special for you, she is different for you, and i realized that i mean her, i don’t see her. well, that is, i don’t understand

what kind of mine it is and i’m chasing some kind of template. here's a request that i want to consider it. and apparently i don’t accept it, as far as i understand from myself again, if for some reason i’m chasing this vanilla for some reason, according to you, you ’re managing as a result of the fact that your masculine character or yet you masculine warehouse of character, because you are in control. good question. i think one follows from the other. i have been on my own since childhood. since childhood, i have not been involved, almost my parents. that is, i have always been left to myself, even somewhere right from childhood. some duties are delegated to me, which , in principle, do not suit a child there, right? well, i mean, at that point, uh, so i think it's probably the one i've always been in charge of. i had to be responsible. i've always been the eldest, well, accordingly, in the course, i am a manager, right? then, as it were, the logic arranges itself a little differently, because you started with the fact

that i am a manager, and therefore i have a masculine character stock. now it's turning around a bit. and as a result , it is being revised, because, well, we need, of course, to detect some determinism, and elements of the psyche, but somewhere a terminated event of your past. yes, in order for us to understand, so to speak, where all this could and did begin, and you have younger brothers sisters younger brother, younger by eight years. yes, i am now 42. 8 years old, in fact, i grew up alone with my parents. yes, that’s how this gap is, what do you remember about it now i vaguely remember, i practically don’t remember, and this period there are some such small outbreaks there is some kind of new year there, i don’t know, some went to visit. well, here's something like that, i just remember what i remember, just the same, when i started

to remember better, when my brother appeared. i abruptly became an older older adult. that's it, i've been here for 8 years. i was already an adult. yes i do not remember. well, come on, no, it's not. come on, let's go visit. i'm mom dad. yes, how old are you at this moment, whom did you go to visit, what is happening right in the present tense. describe friends of my parents, very good friends. there was a certain company there, there were just three or four families, i don’t remember exactly, and we constantly, if we gathered. these are holidays events, especially the new year. for some reason, i remember exactly the new year, it was just these families. we were the children i was. well a girl and another boy that's there older than me, everyone i remember sitting at the table at the table. they somehow communicate on their own topics there, who are in the same room, who is in the kitchen here smokes there is something else such a feeling somehow in their own

kind of merke why? well, i want to say some kind of my own mirok. that is, i do not belong to them. i myself play relaxed. but in principle, somehow here, but how would they describe you. here is marina with us, she is what an independent. well, such a marinade, will you take it? yes hmm well i mean, marina isn't going anywhere, you bet nothing happened to her. it looks like there was on some form, as it might seem , indifference towards you. yes, i still have a feeling, that is, that, well, no matter how share, probably, yes, there is not a board we are there or somehow i don’t know how a girl. yes, i always have the feeling that i was. and even as a child, i always played with toys , but i don’t know there, a submachine gun, there was something like that, that is. well, here's the boy, it seems that it was your choice, or is it still how you were brought up. this is most likely not

my choice. i think how are you do you think why you could choose being a boy the first phrase that comes to mind? did the pope want a boy? did the father want a son? yes, well, somehow here in some conversations. i heard it so not that directly he told me that, well, no, i first wanted a boy, i don’t remember this. yes, but in some that dad really wanted a boy. if i now ask you to imagine such a picture, imagine a separate department. a woman in labor is lying, and this is your mother. and so she gives birth and are born. here you see a little girl. what are your feelings cause these events? this is a picture a picture, but i see, mom, here is a picture, as if here i am at my mother looking at her and what do you feel?

so you were born a girl? then they still could not put the floor before childbirth. this is a surprise for them . i'm glad. and dad dad is not around. well, when he sees you, what are the feelings of his fantasies, you are also happy for him, well , as if smiling, i would be a daughter, in principle, now what i see is when dad came, when dad is around. dad is also happy, well , just at some point, for some reason, you decided marina that you have to be a boy, that in order for dad to be around you have to be a boy, because the child is generally, in principle, oh, sexy, he does not realize his gender for a very long time, he does not understand. what is the difference between boys and girls, that is, it is only in relation to adults. yes, there girls are dressed in

pink, boys are dressed in blue, but the child does not have a sexual gender. in fact, when you asked me about who, there, who decided to become a t-shirt, that is, is it yours or is it not yours? yes, here i am returned, as it were, yes, and it's not there. well, who is a boy or a girl? just like i want to say that i'm a favorite child. well, in the sense, yes, the child came out in this sense, there i am , yes, i am of my decision. no, i don't see it there. i am, well, then marina grows, and at some point marina still, as it were, faces the information that she is marina marina is not misha yes, and marina needs to choose somehow at this moment, but marina chooses toys urinary games for boys. i will assume that at this moment your own refusal that you are a woman

a girl at that time, if so, what could cause this rejection of the feminine essence. how interesting, now such a picture appeared in my head and the phrase was such yes, dad wanted a boy. mom wants to say that mom is cool, that is. well, the relationship with your mother is cool, but you feel more like dad. i want dad to feel good, probably accepts more. that's probably, yes, well, because in this way he will understand more, as if more understandable, as it were. well, yes, that's why it's vanilla to pape it is not clear how to deal with it, as if there is this feeling. mom is far from a vanilla person; in general, she was like dad loved mom. dad was soft. dad was kind, dad was attentive, dad did things that

are still remembered, he and such moments and hmm what well, let's say, there with any holiday. well, what a holiday. we are still sleeping. he woke up very early and ran for flowers. and well, roughly speaking, we woke up with flowers. here it is around the face. well, that is here. well, i don't know, for me it's a bright holiday on march 8th. it wasn't just him martha. it's a birthday. it's some kind of holidays there mmm. well, he often tried. not well, just like that, i don’t remember, but on holidays. yes, he always did this to my mother and me. yes, and to my mother. he still showed me in every possible way that you are a girl. yes, a more adult already period. when yes, that is, not quite a child. no, i don’t remember , suppose that the first rejection of your femininity happened then, in childhood , he was completely unconscious, but he led you to, let’s say, meet your dad, so that there is more mutual understanding, so that dad

feels good. as he expressed, and then you grow up and, accordingly, at the age of 8, a boy is born, your brother, your reaction. how did you associate yourself with these events in general, somehow coped with the fact that a new person appeared in the family. she's fun if you go to your own position, i hung this on myself. senior is responsible. well , it was said to me, and there you are older, you have become older. now, in general, everything happened to me, when he appeared, it was very carried away strongly in his brother in mine, she kissed the image directly. and here it is. yes. and there it is, right all the time it's on my mind. again, how is dad with him? well, the younger son is

older, but he is still a man. a person is a different upbringing is different. did not have. that's his mom, right here, right, he's right under his mother's skirt, straight, that's what it looks like, the films are there, yes, and, as it were, dad, but to him, well , like a boy, i don't know how to write it like i didn't bother, i didn't lisp , somehow not there, well , i don’t know how to take the word from them with dad there were some activities that you and dad did not have. i do not know there to go fishing to hunt in the garage. no, i'll explain now, bro, i don't remember just at what age? but he went to the kindergarten, he was taken to the kindergarten to his grandmother, and i don’t remember. for what reason i had a little one there, yes, and somehow i didn’t even ask later, it seems, as for health reasons, the climate is different there and my brother was sent to my grandmother. that is, i grew up with my parents and desires all the time. and then they took him there, and my parents went there to

tambov, now i’ll tell you when he was 12 or 13 years, about as or 14 years old you no longer lived. yes, i was 21 years old. i'm 20 yes 20-21 almost uh-huh. so i've already begun to live separately , yeah. here, but no matter how father had it. this is in time, well, with uh, good. and then they grew up. here you become a girl there fourteen. well, how did you feel about yourself? how did you feel in this world kid? ah here is, i have perception was always only behavior such. here is our somehow something. i don't know it there. well, the behavior is more nuchkov. well, they don't. well , why do you think? i don't know how much right what? well, dad perceived me like that, but dad accepted me like that, well, accordingly, probably, other men or other people there, probably, they should have perceived it on other girls who

behaved differently, you treated them. here they are, i don’t know, they were painted as if, but there were such as girls from the noble. uh, this is a very interesting point, because i've always looked after myself. even though i felt. that is, i have such a perception that communication has always been there, right? but if i took care of myself, i put on make-up hmm there, i don’t know there, well, hair styling there is all that, that is, i always looked after myself, i always had it, but on vanilla girls like that. well, why all of a sudden they become something for you, uh, the images were dangerous or unacceptable were other girls who are different. well, that's why you are afraid of them , some of them, if it's vanilla right there, they have stupid stupid fools, yes, yes, and, accordingly, it is very important not to become stupid not to become stupid. maybe yes, well i

didn't like it. naturally, as it were, well, i’m not sure i won’t be like that, but in any case at some point uh physiological processes began. when you realize that you have become a girl, this is the moment when you first had, and these days are so-called, how did you perceive it and who was next to you, and you knew what was happening or you lay down to die from blood loss. it was a little different. we lived in a small village, we went for a walk, and friends came to visit us there. uh, like, well, mom's friend is her daughter. so the four of us went for a walk to the center, let's call it the village to the center, here, uh, and when was some kind of warm summer day, or what? well, in general, it's warm, sunshine, in my opinion, this is we are returning. i don't remember much about this moment at home. i told my mother that something was not right, well, somehow, here we are going home, but this one didn’t talk about such topics. that

is, i was actually formed in these plans, well, sincere conversations. never been with my mom. hmm, so i came home. i have one. well, it's kind of a shock , yes. uh, mom was shown something like that. well, that is, here, well, as usual, well, something are you worried about what's going on? well, now that 's all. that's the same. understand yes, the meaning is obtained by some kind of individuation, but the fact that you become a girl, mom did not commit. even though she's the one who does it. well, yes, i remember this transition just like this, well, that is, how would you figure it out yourself, with a high probability, you can assume that your mother didn’t really know either, as if from a woman, most likely, uh-huh, i just know my grandmother is very callous , that is, too. in general, very callous, this is the controller, but at one time she worked for the fsb. yeah, she

was sitting on reading letters, checking. in general , all this is necessary on the noses of everyone there. such are the cases, and, as it were, a grandmother is very tough, very callous. uh, how much i loved to control everything and everyone. well, in general, mom grew up in such circumstances, it turns out that this initiation did not happen and mom did not immerse you in this process, but then anyway you grow up and then the boys begin, and, accordingly, all sorts of games, mating sexual nature and so on, yes, that is, you understand that here, too, accordingly, you seem to have to make some kind of decision. you were scared, you knew where life was taking you or basically, i remember my first experience, and it was like, well, everything flows smoothly. well, yes, yes, what you were. here is our relationship, but it was. it was not a relationship. at that moment it was an ambiguous relationship. then

such long-term ones began. it happened, you know, when everything is already around. uh-huh, i don't have one yet. well, okay, somehow even somewhere ashamed, probably, it was. here but this belatedness was also associated, as if with some kind of no, yes, femininity , underdevelopment, immaturity, yes, that's how you perceived it. it is difficult to complex that i shared this event with my dad. as dad reacted calmly, but he only said. well, this one sighed a little, but with such an understanding like this. he says, well, it was your choice there, yes, as it were, well, i would like, as he had such a phrase, but i would like to see it back and forth in marriage. in general, as it is supposed to be there, yes, mom i was afraid to say that dad, mom said about it

reaction is the same as usual. and how? well, in general, everything on this has become some kind of your sacred secret, that now you are a woman with you. are you like all of you now? well, probably partly. yes, i can assume that you have changed. and they told me that i was just happy with all this, that it was somehow like that, right? well, probably somehow it will still be better not what everyone describes. everything is far from the picture. uh-huh so i think that somehow it has changed and how your relationship has already gone astray. and i just got in a relationship. after that somewhere i don't remember, what time is it? well, somewhere in six months, probably, well, i'll start. yes, there the feeling became more somehow and , accordingly, then i had a relationship in which, well, we had a relationship, we

lived together then, oh, 5 years. in these relationships, you played some kind of women's game or, nevertheless, you immediately started playing men's there, it would not have worked out very well, probably, it was still some kind of women's game of your own. uh, because man. so to say, i can probably say stronger, probably, or i was dependent on him there. yes sickening. so we fell in love there , but at that moment i felt you heal a feeling, i kind of fell into it, but at first everything is so beautifully good, then somehow it went a little more complicated, that 's all. some kind of hostage felt like that. well, in general, yes, it depends, well, this is an addiction, that is, there was some kind of after all, i was another collision with the fact that if you are a woman, then you are respectively in danger, because if you play this female party, then, accordingly, hostages of a man, from which you depend on. hmm there was depreciation of life. yes, as a person, as

a person, as a woman. well, there, well, the man walked for some time straight, and it was not a cover, but practically. well, that is , everyone knew, many knew. well, you continued to stay in that relationship. here i am talking about this, that she was addicted, most likely, as if hostage. yes, you changed it to a softer one, perhaps the female position was in wait for failure here. yes, there was suppression here. this is how a person would like to lift me under him, so that i do. that's right exactly everything that he wants, and he will do what he wants. well, that's what he wants , in fact. we have just discovered several stages , at each of which you were faced with being a woman

, well, such a story, how is the story itself, in general , somehow, in general, it is adjusted to men according to their request, and being a woman often means simply serving the interests men. yes, i generally disagree with this. somehow i disagree with this. it's just culturally the way it looks now. i don't say it right, but often women, as it were , find themselves in positions in which they have to serve the interests of a man ; a man gets something. many people don't get anything there. they just lie on the couch, but still continue to beckon themselves. eh, the ruler of the world is among the prey there. yes, and a woman, accordingly, she somehow owes something all the time in this sense, a man also has a lot of debts and his cockroaches there, too. but judging by the way you tell you several times. e, at the moments of initiation of the transition , you, just the same, into this feminine state, girls girls women. yes, u have every time faced with the fact that this is not

a very pleasant position. yes, she seems to be returning a little. and there is such a hypothesis. tell me if it seems true that at the moment when your brother left, and he was sent to grandma, and you stayed with dad, dad, who was waiting for his son, and he had a lot of expectations about it. yes. and as if there was no destiny left , even then, in order to please dad , in order to be near him, it is necessary, as if to replace not only himself in the role of vanilla girl, but also to replace the brother is very similar to this. well, that is, this position, it is more convenient, it is more familiar and from it there is a result of what you said, and we are psychologists sergei on ourselves tatyana krasnovskaya, and marina is our guest with

whom we are discussing the nature of femininity today. what is the key fear now to put with this woman, because i said that i hate vanilla women, and support you, but at the same time, it was some kind of trick on my part, which consists in the fact that those images that you reject in many ways they carry a danger to you, which means marina has become a vanilla woman? so let's imagine once and marina is a vanilla woman and what will happen in this world in your world? well, you know who will die, who will be upset, who will cry? who will be disappointed? well , let's think that means no one at all. well, whoever dies, nobody dies from this, right? well, as if marina suddenly tomorrow, of course

, another marina takes it like this. you want to say, vulnerability will come out with weakness, that is, here, but hmm sensuality is there, probably, that's why i i ask what will happen in the world along with the fact that marina alone dies and does not wake up, but this vanilla will wake up. so clung to, it’s very difficult for her to even imagine somehow this marina, probably it’s hard for me to even imagine how it will be, it will be somehow different in any case there. yes, this is probably what i strive for, what i want to see for myself, and get out of myself. you're scary somehow even scary. what's frightening there? well, here's what again they may not accept me. such i say, who will be disappointed, who get upset? i don’t accept myself , it turns out that you don’t accept this part of course

marina hello, how does alice’s office romance of the second series come in a completely different role? well, you come to work. completely different. here in some other femininity in some other hypostasis. your employees will stop listening to you no , our colleagues will stop talking to you. no, your partners will stop communicating with you. now they are faced with marina, who aggressively behaves there and can handle it herself and thus also devalues ​​the male experience.

relations. you are trying to become not up to a man, but at least in front of a woman. why did i say that when a boy is born a man is born? because in this world, which is absolutely in our head, the idea is formed that women are not quite a person, as if not quite deserving. and everything that is possible, but the mistake lies in the fact that many women begin to enter into this confrontation, and in trying to level out very often they lose just themselves. and we are simply different, that is, men - this is a man a woman, these are women, and we are just different, and here it is very important to allow yourself to be a woman, and allow men to be a man, without trying to remake anyone, because any remake is an attempt to castrate your masculinity. this is, in general, your castration. if i were a freudian of the brain of bones, i would now say that it is your

envy of the penis that is expressed in this way. maybe freddie was also not just a bastard to sew. yes , he understood what was at stake, but at the same time, with all e, it is clear that this is laid directly in very early childhood in games with boys. in the realization that i am not a boy, and there all this is laid and laid. the same envy, but it is important to learn how to work with this envy. and how can we work with envy, only realizing that you have your life , i have my own life, and when we begin to enjoy our own life, our own body, our own elements of manifestations, and our own perception, then we begin to get just the same our own life. and here it is very important that it is simple they let go and allowed me not to do anything on purpose, but allowed this femininity to flourish. i could ask, why is this part, which, of course? yes, you have it, it is femininity. this is vanilla even in the most hypertrophied manifestation. it's

still there somewhere. yes, it is important to find some balance here, but now you somehow felt that it is worth discovering it, that it is worth raising it, yes, and somehow showing more that it will give. why is this, perhaps, i want to answer. so uh my masculine behavior, it overlaps my relationship with a man. that's it, well that is me being afraid they don't suit me either. well, maybe i'm unpleasant. it’s just that even in such a manifestation it’s somehow too harsh. yes, when i put on myself already there and, accordingly, starting how to measure themselves with them. a hmm i want attention , like any woman i want attention i want normal attention, no language , so that it doesn’t exist there, let’s say, yes, so that it passes by there, yes, but i want it. yes, i want attention damn, yes, attention is attention is the question of your reaction to this attention, perhaps for you, the attention of a man scares. then you a priori will put on this

protection that you didn’t look like that. by the way, that's why i said, there will be no bad questions here. i wonder if it already exists? why is she dangerous? why is it dangerous to recognize and admit him to her? let's imagine such a situation. here you are, there is a man who is interesting to you, and he begins to show his attention to you , how dangerous it is that there is a wedding any other male taxi driver the seller, there, i don't know, the loader director. uh, oligarch, whatever. here is a man, they still show attention. there, the first experience, most likely, of these relationships, yes, which will be the first straight. well, the first one is long. well, this is an abuse, they do not consider you a person.

what do i want to do? this is even somewhere raising a hand, yes, physically impacting. well, it 's scary, but i don't know, it seems to me that i've already somehow learned how to defend the borders with me you can't do that. look, you can talk to you as you like, if i have enough strength and i will beat you and go around. and whatever i will do, the question lies in the other , it is important for you now in order for this femininity to be found, as in which you are looking not where you lost it, where it is light, i understand this. and if you want her to be found, then the question is that you should be attentive to the attention that is shown, but at the same time, you don’t have to marry them to sleep. build relationships with them, but simply allow this attention to be and in this attention it will begin to open up. just your femininity and how to respond must be accepted, because there is an idea, as if that, as soon as this attention is manifested in relation. to you.

you have to quickly, quickly put up this protective barrier, because with you with this barrier, as if there really is empty space there and very quickly ah. this dangerous person, yes, come closer and you don’t know how to be there further, even now there is a feeling, as if there hmm you are setting up this barrier, as if i owe something. if you're not paying attention, then i as if something must be given in return. something right here, i shouldn’t have a damn thing, so i say, learn to just take this attention and be in it and that’s it. i understood. yes, i did not look here, than i'm leaving. here. with all understanding, which i firstly, we found these moments. honestly, i didn’t even realize somehow, i didn’t understand that it’s very valuable for me that we call these moments of my initiation. so i also saw them, that they were very important on well, as on my formation, as

a woman it’s cool. e and, accordingly, that i do not owe nothing to anyone. and just this moment, when hmm well, i realized that i'm not yet where i need to be. i came here with this, but now there is still a moment that m-m. just accept, just enjoy, just be. well, simply yes, femininity will simply be revealed there. you don't have to do anything yourself. this is not a forced procedure. yes found that you just have to be it seems. yes, it just sounds like a word there. yes, it's not always clear how to do it. that is, how it manifests itself actually, i have. eh, understanding how to do it? he yes it is. i can just write this state, as i understand it, as i feel it, as just being when you are in the moment, and you don’t have extraneous thoughts in your head. are you thinking of something in the future that i need to do? you are not in the past digesting some situation there. my

aunt lyusya stepped on my foot 2 hours ago, how painful it was, what kind of bastard is she? excuse me yes, but you are here you see a person some manifestations and well, you know the state some silence. here, i am inner silence, and you are in observation. you spoke very beautifully about the future, about the past, about the future. this is when the surrounding men show attention to you. but you don’t make plans to mine the past for your grandchildren, respectively, you don’t return , the future is to remove this position, i have to do it there, and i’ve already built everything there, yes, but i can’t drag the past. here is the baggage from the past. here is the experience of the past man present. yeah, just eat just eat man, how would let him be like this, to remove this importance. here is the importance of attention approaching you because you, unlike the baby of the girl who had this initiation. you

are an adult woman who is actually able to withstand this borderline and let you in and approach as much as you feel comfortable with this even this pleasant, correct good game. and just like that, there is bliss in this, yes, the class is super. it's good, in general. thank you very much. thank you, what were the podcasters with you. we are sergey on ourselves. he is tatyana krasnovskaya, psychologists, psychotherapists, and marina was our guest with whom we talked about