childhood, here but then it was absolutely a challenge. i think that it was deliberately made by margana in order to hook soviet viewers and not by chance, but when this film was seen in italy, it is considered, as the legend says, that it largely influenced the formation of italian non-urezma, there is a trend in italian cinema that arose last year. and as a matter of fact, the second world war and e, which then influenced absolutely the entire world cinema. yes, when a movie is shot not in a pavilion, but somewhere in nature, when we see real life on the screen, because recreate the life of the pavilion. perhaps we see ruined cities. ruins, we no longer see actors very often, but simply sitters or extras, as it were, who are graphic themselves and that's it. this also partly comes, just maybe from the donskoy rainbow although of course. donskoy was mostly played by actors, except for children. yes, and we know, let's say, one of

the own films of unrealism children played themselves one of the girls who appear on the screen in rainbows has grown glory as a costume designer and continues to work as a curator costume funds. mrfeyla film museum, small wonderful witness to the era of a wonderful storyteller, amazingly perfect. we have a rainbow fragment. the most final. let me wait for the fate of the pulse. they will drink it to the last drop. eh, women, one of them will die now, win a big prize no, no, no, let them wait before their women and their own children renounce them. let them say, no, they weren't our fathers. let them answer before the court of the people, then you will burn and our torments. let the wrath of the people go to them

their heads and earth will not receive the accursed. it's pretty hard to show a rainbow on the screen, but it worked out nonetheless. i remind you that this is a podcast of eisenstein's witnesses , in which we talk about why and how to watch little-known and well-known films, what the viewer wanted to watch, what the viewer fell in love with immediately and forever. who nevertheless managed to make such films, including at the centrally united film studio, and these were films that somehow related, but to the war. sometimes it was about those

who is waiting, let's say already from the front, as in the film. wait for me just according to simonov's script based on simonov's poem wait for me or like in the movie two soldiers. and here there is no longer any posterity that was in military film collections. and there is just a very subtly very calm game directing, in some places, for example, in the film two soldiers, when the soviet troops appear , even then. colleagues wrote in the newspapers that, well , somehow ours appear and the germans immediately all fall in piles there. well, a little naive. e it’s clear that you want to understand the fighting spirit, yes, well, well, even colleagues see that they don’t, but when the scenes appear more intimate, more so human sincere. yes, they can be, by the way, just like in raduga and expressive, or they can be very, very calm, as in two fighters there. uh, sasha meets a girl, arcadia, in leningrad.

he tries to help him, they quarrel, then you go away again, everything is built on their friendly contacts, we don’t know what kind of fighters they are by and large. no, us we know they are wonderful. what kind of people, yes, yes, and how do they hold on to this friendship, yes, they have it. here is another fighting partnership. and, of course, everyone immediately remembered this film for its songs. nikita bogoslovsky wrote two masterpieces. generally. soviet e, the cinema of pop song music is scows full of mullet and dark night, and it so happened that the song dark night could not be there at all in this one, but in this dugout, a dugout that flows right there almost on the screen is raining. yes at night very quietly mark bernes playing arkady with a guitar fills this song and uh, as we know and memories from the works of historians. uh,

there was supposed to be a scene with writing and reading letters, and leonid, the crafty director, didn’t succeed in any way. well, something didn’t work out, and then they suddenly thought maybe a song. bogoslovsky immediately made the melody, vladimir agapov immediately wrote the text, this dark night, yes, you can’t sleep on that beloved knowledge. eh, almost at night they raised da erness and he sang. only bullet wires. in the dark night you know you are not sleeping and child's bed secretly. are you rubbing tears?

the most offensive thing for this film is that before the release of nikita bogoslovsky, he gave the text and music to the cliff and he managed to record it and at first everyone heard the utyos version, nevertheless, the bernes version still won, despite the fact that some thought that, well, this somehow petty a little bit vulgar, especially this is such a thin line, on which everyone tried to stay. uh, what are we filming about, how serious it is, how much it helps the front. is it possible to do comedy for the fronts? yes, roughly speaking, is it necessary here and here is a wonderful neutralberg, which was just one of the creators of this trilogy by maximov. maxim in the thirties makes the same film in almaty, which is called an actress. this is an operetta artist who goes to the rear, works in the theater there, but lives with

a woman who talks all the time, but there my son is at war, and you sing songs here. and the actress leaves the theater and goes to work as a nurse in a hospital. well, of course, there he meets this military son of this very women. she doesn’t really know at first what it is . that's great, yes, that's all. i will advise. here go to any theater and in the evening before the start. announce that the performance is postponed until the end of the war, because we sagafill kineshma believe that 5-50 is not the right time. let's see what the public will do with you then, especially the military. why talk to you when we don't understand a damn thing about art? i don't understand anything. only i want to say, obviously not very tasty. do you understand? i do not understand for your

love of art, then here we are the military themselves, as it were, they say, no, your art. we need again quite a shame that when the film came out it would seem that everything is so correct, as and as it should be scolded in the newspapers. well, finally we get to the importance of our podcast - this is a film that was created by the besieged leningrad, nathan's film or notes mistress. e, about which we know from the memoirs that are still in the museum of cinema and theater in lithuania, this is still not published, but we leafed through these memoirs. and now we can tell something, but the main problem is that fili still has his only copy in the german state limofund, and it’s impossible to look at it anywhere on the internet. clearly, the chronicle is filmed in leningrad, of course, the cameramen remain there. the film remains there, and we know that the film lived and lived the girl who was already released, and after the end of the blockade, it was partially filmed, before

the blockade was lifted , it was very important for director vladimir and symont to show exactly footage from this very semi-academic still leningrad

once upon a time there was a girl is being filmed. for forty- three years now. and what is happening in leningrad in 1941, 1942, and there, just, a recent student of sergei einstein, who arrived literally in the summer of 1941 from minsk, ended up in leningrad and, in the fall of 1941, he read an article in a newspaper about how the girls sent mittens to the front and wrote on them to the bravest. and so he began to think and how it is possible to make some kind of plot out of this, and they began to write a script, a wrote in the fall, just forty-one and in the spring of forty-two. it was only in november that the road of life opened, they went to shoot on lada with real sailors, and this film with actors from leningrad. overall, uh, hmm, such was the positive attitude towards the film. eh, everyone. you see, nevsky it was looked at back in leningrad, it was reproduced there and they began to show it. that is, this is not such a short

meter, but not an average one. so not an incomplete meter, yes , and he is such an unplanned , unauthorized, not forbidden, he remained so. uh, of course, u shoot it was incredibly difficult, or he remembers that one of the editing rooms, let's say, died under fire. yes, and it was done. here, between the release of incendiary bombs from the roof or from the film and so on, and this is a real feat, oh, which for some reason the same film historians forgot. why is it worth watching today, and films made during the great patriotic war. well, because it is primarily anthropological evidence. i think so, but it shows people of those years who live in unimagined circumstances. living the life like this actors after many years, and as people who really experienced it all from their own experience and it was a podcast of einstein's witnesses that my colleague yasno carried to zelensky. natalia ryabchikova we talk about little-known or well-known

soviet films within. the same school of moviegoers who teaches how to enjoy the forgotten or famous films of the soviet period? thank you, goodbye, goodbye. hello this is a psychic podcast and we are here to film mountains of problems with your shoulders, but in any case, let's try to do it. my name is natalia loseva i am a journalist, and my co-host is a clinical psychologist, candidate of psychological sciences mikhail khors hello, our today's heroine elena stupnikova came with a very, very. unfortunately, typical problems. how to explain to children that they are not to blame for the fact that their parents broke up? hello lena

, hello. well, the whole story. e, so to speak, sad began 5 years ago e, my ex-husband and i separated. well, so to speak, we didn’t agree on the characters and, uh, now the problem. mine is that my daughter is 8 years old, and my youngest child has a son. i'm 6 years old and, uh, the age when they already understand. yes, what is happening and they began to ask where daddy is. daddy doesn’t live with you. yes, they know why dad is with us. yes , dad doesn’t have another marriage, and his happiness and health, but it turns out. so daughter. she remembers him, that is, she was 3 years old when we broke up and hmm daughter hmm is very worried about this topic and let's say such situations, when february 23rd. yes,

there are some events being held at the school to draw. postcards well, for dads, yes, uh, and now my daughter came with such a tantrum. she says, and who should i draw? where is my dad? and why doesn't he come, and why, uh hmm, they don't communicate very rarely now and rarely via video. it's like once a month, maybe twice a month. well, maybe you live in the same city. well, now i don't know exactly where he lives. and you don’t know he lives there, but no, we don’t live in the same city, when you got divorced, they talked for a while, things were some, it was more or less regular. we often then began to go to no, well, yes, yes, as usual for everyone, and the children live here, in what paradigm in what version? why does dad live separately from them? how do you explain, well, she explained that we met

, fell in love with each other, then we didn’t have a relationship. and we better somehow build our lives. yes, on their own, so as not to spoil some moments of life. well, that is, you didn’t offer them some kind of replacement model, what are you looking at, but dad doesn’t live with us, but he, that is, you gave them some such is the scope of his presence. well, let not physical, but some kind of virtual remote work, that is, at first it was like that. here i went on a business trip. he works. he's there to make money for us. yes in order for you and me yes to live well. yes, yes, no, there are no questions, that is. well, what do they say, when on february 23 they drew sitting and postcards, and dad, you could tell your daughter

. yes, the fact is that it was at school, and i didn’t know what time they were there moment will draw? that is, it was without me without mine. they just didn’t read this situation, what could happen. so everyone will make some gifts. why did they calculate, because there is probably no such thing at home when we draw something for dad and send it. because if it was, then the child would have problems, but in this model there were no problems. well, well do dad not a court postcard. and i'll take a picture and send a postcard. yes, we did just that. we then took pictures. yes this. well, that's probably this is my yes problem, that i don’t quite understand, and sometimes, if the daughter doesn’t talk about dad. i also try not to speak. why? well, maybe it's my inside. yes, it's hard for me. it’s hard for me to talk about it. and if she doesn’t talk, then i somehow don’t initiate this topic myself. let's

take a step back. when did you visit us? this is how you would put it. or maybe you have formulated the problem? honestly, i can't even offer two options. yes, the first option, how to explain to children and the second how can i stop suffering on my own? and i have a third option , how to make my father's presence in one form or another? somehow it happened, because the father exists physically, the father exists legally and the father exists. well, let's say so morally and ethically, because, well, at least, because he bears material obligations. and maybe a third option. by the way, this is a mutually exclusive option, yes, the third option, how can i build a new model of life in which there is a dad. well, in fact, i came here to figure it out, maybe even listen, yes experts to understand how i feel better. what better choice should i make?

well, in principle, as mikhail put it. yes , i had it in my head. how do you explain to kids what's going on? yes, why because, of course, at this age? they do everything, they take over the wine, that it’s like, more precisely , a daughter, but my son and i were 9 months old when we parted, he, well, practically doesn’t remember, but my daughter was 3 years old. that is, she remembers him well, and had a very good relationship with her dad. that is, he is with her, he is right there love. -there was such love with my daughter and she is very, very worried that there is no e dad around and but there was some kind of love, that is, he somehow nursed her there to go and have fun while she was some kind of baby. they didn't walk. yes, she wore it on her shoulders, that's all straight history. i mean, they danced together there, he turned on the music. she moved around somehow. it all broke off at the moment when he left you, or he already left, but their relationship. i just don’t understand how you can turn off love

yes, but me too, to be honest, it’s difficult how it happened their relationship collapsed well gradually. well, that is, he began to come less often, then, so to speak, he began to travel on a business trip to other cities. yes, that's all. the communication of such a living person has become less. and tell us about such a moment when you realized that your daughter is going through. well, maybe a year ago, that is, it has always been, but a year ago it began to express itself very brightly. and this episode too. well, that is, she began to cry and talk. and now i want dad here just to touch just to touch not by video conferencing, but i always have a watch when i speak. and what to say to say? well, what is it, how was it? after some conversation with dad, why did she start talking like that? or maybe she saw how some other girlfriend was with dad, that odnoklassniki is dad. yes, there is even e, well, many.

it's just that she is not friends with everyone, probably, well, tell me, it's not with everyone, tell them again. she did not come to everyone and why she began to cry, tell me, is she friends with the neighbor's boy. well, very well. they are summer they began to communicate, and their parents are also divorced, but there dad is very, well, tight involved in upbringing. and well, questions began to arise, and my dad, why doesn’t he come to us. where is my dad? well, that is, such moments here, what happened why did she cry? that's why i cried, that dad wants to touch him, that's just not why, that's why. she cried birthday. i just want to understand this moment, which became so combinational that it was, well, it's hard for me to understand. i can't do it myself. she just came one day and cried that wants to touch dad, that is, no. before that , she was also worried. there was such

a strong emotion right there or something about yourself. here comes your little girl daughter is crying. what do you feel? i also cry with her. what are you crying about? well, shame on her. and for myself well, it’s a shame for myself, but somehow, if, yes, it’s somehow aside, yes, then i myself, probably, with myself in a feminine way, yes, with how i more or less coped with my feminine resentment, but with resentment, as the mother of her daughter , i can’t. are you already bored yourself? here you so want no more. i do you think your resentment helps this situation? what comes to your mind? here is an image right now , immediately answer at the word catastrophe explosion more panic tornado yes, that's something, roofs are flying off , cars are flying somewhere. this is all

a disaster. yes, but what happened in your family. it looks like what you just imagined no, no, that's when there will be an explosion, when there will be corpses, when the roofs will fly up. this is going to be a disaster. did you have a divorce? i'm not saying it's bullshit. i don't discount your feelings yet something, but call it a disaster for the whole country. you don’t need to understand, that’s what i call someone, that’s how it will float, if we have such cases, which now, according to statistics, 80%, 80 call disasters, that we will then feel eighty percent. they will feel panic in us . there is no need to catastrophize this case when we evaluate an event or

in our life it is important to compare this event with something else. yes, to some boy, dad comes more often, at least that's how you see what's really there we do not know, yes, it comes more often than yes, dad communicates more often than with yours, but compare it on the other hand. don't you know about cases when dads don't participate in life at all, so here's the first one. compare yes, compare. yes, it would be better like this, but i know that it's like this, and i'm here in the middle and my condition. my life is not a disaster, no matter what we are told, even by very reputable tv presenters. well, i'll tell you to compare well with a cold head, but when the daughter is hysterical already emotions overwhelm

and correctly, of course, that's why i asked, what do you feel, therefore, when natalya correctly spoke very much about the task with which you came. yes? i offered to somehow calm my daughter or myself. so, when you fly in an airplane, you flew in an airplane a couple of times , remember, there is some kind of instruction there, if the masks fell out, yes, yes, what are we doing to the child? no, oh, at first everything is in me, so now our task is to show you how you feel in this situation . you will feel calmer calmer daughter will understand that here she is a support, and then she will be calmer heard, but about such a one, and you will be calmer when you stop being absolutely catastrophic. that 's it, yes, evaluate your life and what you have not happened. what's wrong, come on, no, everything, no , everything is right. there is

some objection to your eyes. let's talk. everything is said correctly, i even completely agree, but the tears of a child are directly knocked out of balance , they are knocked out right at the moment, and the child. maybe in this situation you can be manipulated, maybe maybe, maybe, maybe, actually the word manipulation is not a tragedy. we all manipulate each other to one degree or another, even natalya and i sometimes . here we manipulate each other, and there is no catastrophe in this either, but what is important to understand is that you get into the head into the soul of your daughter. you cannot evaluate only its external state. therefore, here compare two phrases, the point is crying and the daughter is very worried. which one describes the actual life, and which one is your guess the most interesting crying, my daughter is very worried, where is the fact.

and where is the assumption, well, the fact is crying, well, you can also cry in different ways, you can also do it in different ways, but until you implant yourself with a chip and your daughter chip and when she will cry. you will know for sure that she has electromagnetic interactions there, the biochemistry of the brain corresponds to her experiences. until this happens to us, your opinion that she is experiencing this assumption. well, this is futurism from mikhail well, you don’t have to worry about crying, you can cry if you want. here natalya is sure, so natalya knows how to be able to an excellent specialist in his field, so psychologists always refer to this. yes, actors can do it. no look. what story are you now pay experiences. i'm not experiencing this, if you sit down, that's how

you start to swing like this and that's how to talk about what is connected, tears will go by themselves. well, what is this child for? this wait is the world, the imaginary experiences of our psychologists. let's get back to your situation, but it may be that the child is in a bad mood at school and has a quarrel with someone. yes, uh hormonal how old is eight? well, soon there so you understand, and also such, and we believe that all this is a consequence, that it does not sleep at night and suffers. i will say more than that, look, the less, she will now communicate with dad. and you, respectively, will live with her and the problems and tasks of the failure of adolescence, the more you will be like this, that's a strict policeman. yes, and dad is so ephemeral. here is a pink pony somewhere out there galloping around the world. yes, just a prince on all

magical horses immediately intercessor. kind heart, we indulge you understand, and the fact that in five years or earlier, she still doesn’t have such thoughts, such a watershed, yes, here, she’s mother will not go anywhere. mom is always here yes, it is clear that i love my mother, i value my mother, but my mother is also a given. here are the circumstances with which well, how is the weather, how is the leg? how about hands? yes, uh, like hair that does not cry until it is lost, and dad he will more and more acquire completely inexpressible beautiful features , you understand and compare the real you. and an ephemeral dad almost like an imaginary friend. clearly, it will not be on your side. michael is correct. i predict or again i catastrophize predictions that turn out to be correct only when we

test them, but we test them with real life. until she grows up. you won't know, right? well, it’s possible that i don’t worry about any situation at all, to be honest, there is a forecast , maybe it will somehow be realized to some extent, maybe not, until you live, you won’t know for the next 10 years. this is a podcast of the psyche and our today's heroine elena does not know how to replace her father when he is gone. i would like mikhail still talk on one topic, because we have a young beautiful woman in front of us. i think that the question of your future personal life somehow somehow exists in your head in your heart, right? it would be very embarrassing. if it were not at all, now there is some kind of relationship of some kind here is another potentially significant man for your children is on the horizon you have and why for children why are potentially significant for children potentially significant for you or is there? no,

wait, i did it without opposing. i'm just guessing if elena has a man with whom she will be connected, they will have a serious relationship, and some plans are possible, of course elena mikhail you will now open the whole universe for you, but in general, for a woman mother of children of small minors, this one the factor is how her potential election will relate to her children, how their relationship will develop. won't he offend them, won't the children, by the way , offend the chosen one? which, thanks to teenagers , happens also happens like this for for for women.

and i know so for a woman this is the most important fact or not, or am i mistaken , tell me, thank you , what does the most important factor mean ? well wait, if he will live, if he wait you yourself remember our history yes friends. now, if you look at our episodes, the previous psychics podcast is weak, then you will see one of the historians there. now it was beautiful, and the mother of five children, when her older children just forced to run. that's what he was wearing on the couch , literally her husband and, by the way, the father of the youngest child, you understand, and they didn’t understand that story . i beg you, i wanted to run away. that's why he's not here for children. yes, children can resist. yes, kids can be worried. yes, children can cry there. oh

dad-dad, where is my dad, a very bad one. so they are talking about you, so the question can only be the cape themselves are adults, or will we be as soon as our children they will immediately cry at the ciril to get up and run. calm down. well, listen, let's, after all, we become more mature ourselves, yes, and we begin to remind ourselves. that, in fact, our emotions that we experience, that the pain that brings us is not a consequence of the circumstances that we encountered, this is a consequence of our reading of these circumstances. here is a vivid example you said, he rarely sees his daughter. i asked, more precisely, well, once or twice a month a question. why is it rare? prove to me that it is rarely more often. just wait. prove to me that it was the watching dad who lived

in a traditional, so to speak, family in his own way. that is, i would go to work in the evening. i would return to see the children, seven times in general - this does not mean that we were now, right? that's what i'm talking about, once again returning to the thought. wait that your emotions are not a consequence of the number of meetings that take place. the consequence of what you think is rarely enough. and it shouldn't be like that, and this is often and a lot less than what you want for your daughter, but less than you wish and little is not the same thing. okay , start formulating it like this, yes, it's less often than i want. well actually. and why should everything in this life be as we want natalia in your life everything as you want, and in my life it is not useful when we get something immediate that we want, it is not very useful. let's still return to the situation when elena has another man, of course, the situation. don't you want

it? i just, well, how not? well, be fooled, look. why not? no? what are you? i'm not lying at all, ever. in fact registered in this e, where people sit around, they go there they don’t fit dating is called 3 days. i stayed there , it became, it’s just that this whole questionnaire is incorrectly configured. i am a theorist, which means about expert master. yes, i am a practitioner for working with people who are on a dating site. so here's the main problem. why don't people get there? yes, they don’t find someone. this is because they believe that they need to immediately open it and find it. but these dating sites. where are you there you just need to treat everything like gold to look for it gold comes to look for somewhere on the river scoops, so the sand starts like

this. ah, sift sow sow sow sow sow sow sow sow. oh, we need juice. this is a good podcast about this, i understood well. it's just that, well, as if the sand is at the end, it means a grain of shiny gold. he takes her. and this is the second mistake. and they say gold. no, until you take a chemical little thing there, you don’t drip one and you don’t understand that it’s exactly gold , don’t say that this gold in ours has a bunch of minerals. i recently visited the exhibition generals is called gold for fools, kharkovite. you see, it's iron. it looks like gold. here, therefore, means, here it is, and so it is gold for fools. this is gold for fools. it's gold for fools hop gold. understood, well, that is, someone comes across immediately leads from the first time someone sorts out. maybe, well, you just need to set your friends up for the fact that i'm sorting out and sifting and each of this sand will be there and gigolos and

perverts. and these are all yes, here you are now yourself that you have now catastrophized for her no? i didn't say it was a word. hello to this maniac, let's go. come what they maniac at all you can even meet. well, it's simple, if we treat such people as well, the norm of life, sometimes they stick to beautiful women, gigolos, perverts, it happens, well, other children have no time to communicate with maniacs. tell me, well, first of all, i have children. i bring them up with many children further, which, secondly, i work, study, continue to develop in my profession. here. and this all takes my total all my time. well with i communicate with friends there, yes, once again you have a desire, that is, to meet with someone , to meet with someone, but not to spend all your time searching. here is this gold.

i have absolutely no motivation and, uh, this is not the main task for me now, either there is no motivation, or there is no strength and no strength, yes , there is no strength, and where does the strength go. uh, feelings go away in anxiety in resentment for my daughter. well, there, too, there, too, you know. and why are you offended again for her fate on her husband? yes ex why because you think her fate is a bad setup? yes i have that the child should grow up in a complete family. well, i grew up in a complete family, it's true, but the fact that children should grow up in complete families. this is a lie. no, well, i would like to, i would like it, i really wanted to have to lie. well, that is, you understand correctly that you are such a variant of the development of your life of your destiny, in which

another man appears, and he is fine with you , everything is fine with him, and he becomes. here is this second dad for your children. you, in principle, do not consider it, it will still be much worse than if you lived with the biological father of your children. i want to understand how lena think about it, just because that dad is biological doesn't matter. for some reason, he didn’t love you for some moment, he didn’t want a family with you, but he was still better than another man who would adore you. and as they say that you love women, you love her children and will love in your children, but he will not be a biological pope, he will still be worse than if it was their biological, in my opinion. no wrong. i am not like that. you don't have such absolutely not. i don’t put a cross on myself at all already. so that it then prevents you from thinking about the fact that while the children. they are small and yet they need this significant man, and you , first of all, will not find such

a man either. why didn't they find it? because natalia continue my phrase. we are already with you how to start each other with phrases to continue, because the first husband left such furrows on her heart, you understand that she lives according to your happiness, mikhail, she lives in some kind of subconscious fears. she has such burn and reflex you twitch. you all understand. she is afraid to touch, of course, but it prevents her from looking. yes, therefore, the task is to work as a cause of fear, and the cause of fear is always a belief , for example, yes, but here, most likely, it is not fear, the divorce itself or something is the fear of pain. yes, yes, i agree, you know that it seems to you that if you go to the left there will be pain to the right, if you go there will be pain. yes, it just won't be better not to go. well, yes, relationships hurt. this is how you can be. here, see relationships bring pain

actually, it's true. but the phrase that yes, that, excuse me, i just noted 25 years in a relationship. uh, the wedding, how she silver prepared. here, uh, thanks. yes, relationships hurt. that attitude only brings pain. this is a lie, not the right relationship brings pain and joy, limitation and opportunities. here they gave birth to beautiful children, completely without pain. i don’t hear it, i don’t remember it, but there was such a motivation, i wanted children and there was a really strong motivation, what are we by nature? yes, now it's not motivation. it's about your fear. pain fear of pain also takes your strength and loads your nervous system fear of pain occurs not because pain is possible, but because there is an opinion that it should no longer be in life.