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and you feel that you are leading people with your songs, your actions, that i am doing the right thing and doing it right in this. i'm just convinced about being an opinion leader. i don't think much. i just do, honestly, my job, how i always tried to do it and how i especially tried to do it, starting from the fourteenth year, and at home, but there is talk, what should i do ? at home, husband and wife are one satan. so all the talk that we have at home is conversations of absolutely like-minded people, well, then i see a happy person in front of me without a doubt.
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certainly. i call my grandmother not my grandmother, but my mother, because she gave me everything my biological mother, i almost never saw her from the age of 3. dad, where are you, i don’t know where either. forgive me, please, son, for everything. i am very guilty in front of you, your child was left undressed in some socks. you really beat her, hit her, poked with knives, she was a cook of the fifth category. i have a sore hand. i quieter stone never work. and why did you deprive her of parental rights, but she left her for 4 years and why? because our chronic alcoholic stood and teach. well, a tragedy happened, a tragedy. yes, we drank and the children played. he sent me for more. even there were this crime. should be put in jail. what happened to arina for five years?
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sometimes male and female opinions rarely coincide in this studio, but this happens, so i completely agree with alexander when he says that love is with every child in the family the parent is multiplied. let's see what today in our studio, 14-year-old yuri from kirov, together with his grandmother, turned to our program for help. i remind you that according to the rules of our program, if there is a minor child in the studio, all conversations with him must be under the
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supervision of a psychologist irin therefore, if you do not like something, you can stop at any time? fine. thank you yuri hello hello, tell us what you came to us with. well, at the moment i live with my grandmother, who considers her mother to be her biological mother. i haven't seen him since i was three years old. uh-huh she owes almost a million in alimony to you. that's right. yes, and you came here to help us. you somehow get a debt from her, yes, yes. no, yes. yeah, i've seen him more than once. dads also owe alimony or not, right? that is, you want spanish and
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get less debt with your dad's dad, right, right? tell me, please, you say that you have not seen your mother almost once since the age of three. yes, well, you are still several times her somewhere met. yes, yes, but tell us what those meetings were. first time. i met her , it could be said at her house. at your mother's house yes, i got it, well, i just have dooley there too. yep, in that apartment. you have your share. that's where my grandmother came, yes, how did she meet you? do you remember that she didn’t even recognize me, look, it’s like your mother already said. and when you last saw her back, she
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didn’t call at all, didn’t congratulate her on the holiday. happy birthday anyway. about congratulations there was one time when she threw off text message, like, happy birthday and once again it was 11 years old, when i was 11 years old, she also sent a text message. i want to see my son. so we grandmother has already said how it is for me like, that is, it is no longer for her to decide. uh-huh well, how did i refuse? why did you refuse? because she gave birth to the one who raised. and as soon as you do not want to talk to her ask why it happened? well, just listen to your life. let's
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see together. as far as i can remember, i have all the girls memories that's just it with my grandmother, even if the photos are all only with her. i don't even call you grandma. well, mom mom, i always live with her, i don’t even remember biological ones. i, in principle, like they do not want me. remember which elements. i think i'll press it, because in fact it's not all grandmothers to pull alone. i even think that when i grow up and achieve some success in life, then one of them or even both of them will come to me. they just come and say, like, we all loved you. forgive us, please, how you wanted to communicate with you. yes, tell me, like, where before there was someone who interfered with you before, just here well , just a normal mother, so as not to just throw out the child. that's how she said,
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if i remember correctly, that all the boys, as it were, i dream of starting to work for my grandmother as soon as possible with the same janitor or sticker. for 7 years, she told me that my dad was building a house, and my mom was painting it. yeah. she said that i can say, they just threw it away. i personally just think that, well, i didn't want to. well, to raise a child, or maybe she had some life circumstances, what do you think? not i know i will never ask myself. you never really talked to your mom. right. yes , we met with her so that she
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would turn to you. let's watch. forgive me for everything. i was probably wrong about a lot of things. and forgive me in the first place for the fact that i did not fight for you. whatever it is, i love you very much. you were 3 years old. and now you will be 15. i understand that 12 years have passed and time cannot be returned back. but if you want, at least to start just talking to my doors, there will always be for you open. mom not drunk not a bum, not somewhere under the fence. yes, she addresses you realizing how many years you have not been together. you're not, really, not interested in knowing the reason why you broke up. now,
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to be honest, not anymore. then we won't call her here. i don't know, to be honest, i just don't want to talk to her. well, look, it just seems to me that any act that a person commits has some explanation, but just, well, why did this happen, because a person has the right to some version of his own? that's right, right? well maybe, uh, just listen to her. if you don't want to ask her questions, you don't want to talk to her. it's your right. well, just, maybe, listen to her not only the request with which you came here, why doesn't she pay? alimony is not cancelled. we will indeed be here to ensure that she pays you your money, but you really are not interested. in addition to the grandmother's version , find out what could have happened there. to be honest,
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really no. ask a specific question. we have the right to hear your mother's opinion or we don’t have, of course, we have the right to call her here. yes, well, and you can have one moment of wishes. yura was not to touch him, so that there would not be these sons. yes, my son and the like have now heard not to touch yuri, go out and just talk about why the child does not live with you, but with your mother. all i am very guilty before you. true, i know why i feel guilty, i consider myself guilty before you? i didn't fight for you. why because i still and since childhood? bad relationships brought us
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up. so there was a rock. she could poking knives at me pouring hot soup. did you feel anything when your mother was in front of you on the crankshaft? nothing nothing. and why did you have such a wish that your mother would not touch you? well, how can i say, well, i, most likely, will just be unpleasant for a person who, well, let's say, quit at the age of three or two and a half, just came here to apologize. and how are some things happened between i understand your mom, what do you call her biological grandmother, who raised you? may i ask you to we figured out what happened without you . okay. well look, there you are before you leave here. yes, i want to tell you one little
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thing when you say they threw me. this is impossible, you understand, it is impossible to combine this word and apply it in relation to a child to a person. it's impossible. everything, come on, thanks for coming and we hope that today i managed to quit, of course you left him, i didn’t leave him. in april 2010, lydia vasilievna and i, this is my mother, agreed conditionally, that i leave it for a couple of months, and then i'll take it. i got a job with us. in our city , i met a factory there, well, a young man. mother was always categorically against some men.
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and at that time you had one son. that's right , yura, he was 3 years old. well, she tells me ler not to see yura here. here on tsiolkovsky 11, how are you there? i don’t know , somersaulting, like, come on and you go for two or three months, like, he lives with me and then you will take him away. rent a two-room apartment to have a separate room for yura separately, as if for you there are all the conditions and amenities. i say, well, then it went on for me to immediately rent this apartment. why did you have to leave the child, but people said so strongly to him that, like, come on for now. yura will live with us, the month of may has come. it's in a month, whatever. why were you afraid she might? come at 5 am with your feet and kick the door. this is when you were small, when yura was already small, for example, she did not sleep. tonight she had an asthma attack, for example at 3:00 am
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she doesn't feel comfortable with anyone to talk to. she could come at 5:00 in the morning and start banging on the door with her foot. i didn’t open the door for me for a long time. i’m sorry to the end, that i flew away where the window took yura in his arms, he was then, well , 2.5 years old, maybe, that’s up to 3 years and they just yelled at me at me and at the former husband from whom the son of the household, she yelled at you. she just wasn't in the mood, but as a child, what did she do? and in childhood, what did she do in the same hostel, she could expose me naked with bare legs and, in general, absolutely naked where to expose in a corridor, in general a corridor. and god forbid, if the neighbors walked like that. there i spoke to them or there, for example, i needed some outerwear. well, let's cover up. no , she opened the door, it was educating me back by the hair. she again put out knives and poked, she is a cook of the fifth
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category. we always had such good knives , a clapper, a skipping rope could pour out hot soup, it was all she brought up yulia so my childhood. in principle, more than that sister. yes , at first she scoffed at yulia, then at me. my childhood ended at the age of 6. why what happened? lidia vasilievna's parents divorced me. that is, your dad held her back, dad held her back, dad held her back, but when they divorced, why did they divorce? because, as far as i knew already at a conscious age, my mother was a walker, and father and father could not, apparently, curb her for me too. i have a very simple question. and how did you leave your child with a woman who gave you such a childhood? i was afraid. well, that is, it turns out that you were afraid for yourself for your life, being an adult, but for the life of your
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child. remember your childhood. you weren't afraid , the fear was stronger than me , you were much more afraid for yourself than for your son. and you understood that in relation to your son, she can behave in exactly the same way as she did, and in relation to you, your childhood, but i thought that in 2-3 months i could pick him up, but they didn’t take him, but they didn’t took. why didn't you take it? why? because mom changed the locks on the tv? i changed my phone numbers , come and say, i'm picking up the child. i'm taking the child. she told me she told us your filing to do not need them to deprive a person of parental rights men or women need a good reason. the court, than was guided, not only by the opinions of your mother, really. i don't know what they were guided by. do you have problems with alcohol was when? 3 years ago, but not so much. factory about love
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i understand that you do not visit your mother yura well, do not go home. if you want to see how they live, it's very important for us to see, we'll see. it's dark in the room, i look sad at the window of the house at night, and it's as if light there, the sun has risen. it grows very fast. it's a bit short already, but i hope we still pass good shoes, of course it costs 5-7
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thousand, so buy good shoes for him i just can't take it anymore. well, what is cheaper, here we have a total amount of 18.000 to put aside, then this is 1.000. we still go to study russian literature 1800 and we have 11.000 left of some stylish shirt. there might be a sweatshirt. well, i used to have it. i was of the opinion that the money was not for my son, but for her, therefore. foolishly now i pay, and you have one child. two who else have another daughter where is she? she is in a foster family in moscow and she why a foster family?
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due to the fact that i used to drink in the nineteenth year, organs, guardianship, guardianship kirov took her away. she was in kindergarten for a month. it's like a temporary distributor, then she was assigned to the orphanage of nadezhda because they regularly pay. your limit is exhausted, i do not believe. i don't believe a single word you are here. why
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, let's ask vasilievna penkina, who came here and will now enter this studio. no, he's your daughter, she's yours. she's so afraid of you that i think she'll run away from the studio. yes, probably, and why is she so afraid of you, and the storyteller is good. how long have you not been given in your life? did you leave? why would she work? and you are there and didn't work. i asked you. this lera will talk. why didn't you come home again? you didn't come home anymore, the child didn't come at all. and now you're going here and you've been beaten. you really beat her, hit her
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and left, as she was beaten with a flapper and a skipping rope, of course, they were mutual, and we had everything in the house sometime. now she was not, of course, very much in the house for you. there is nothing, she stabbed him, true of course what kind of goo is she? what kind of sisaki did you come up with? i have a sore hand. i never work with cleavers. i live in a small room apartment, and at 15 vorovskogo vera. here you are in your sick head, what you drive in, you start to justify from you. of course, tell me what age she ran from home from the second grade from the second grade, of course, that she could not spend the night at home. yes yura since what age has he been living with you and why does he practically devour him from birth? here is how i put it into my hands. e in the hospital. this is how he lives, that is, we are always with him at the camp site. why did you and i deprive her parents of blood, and i didn’t deprive her of custody, but she left her 4 years old. why look for me? we knew the phone number, we were looking for you, we
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couldn't find you. we wanted you, already extinct, to announce . tell me, please. why did she have to come here now? you know, i also ask myself the same question, what does she need in general , you know? to be honest, i may be wrong, of course, but alina was taken away from me, a rich family. so you came for the boat, you don’t need anything else. you and alice run away. i am a family for a child, so that they give her money, and our money always loves. a why did arina end up in this rich family? why alyonushka, our chronic alcoholic , stood there, learned she comes to kindergarten drunk , she doesn’t give her child away once they took her to the dispenser two took three. she calls me, mom, help me, please, they took arina and help me pick her up. and you're a co-worker in a good relationship. help. we agreed with her. so, arina will live in the distributor, we are going to be coded. you are being treated. we take marina to work and give her custody to arina. you see, i 'm talking to her at stake. no, it gives out. she
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she calls me and says she gave it to me arina. well, a tragedy happened, some kind of tragedy by accident. well, let me tell you. what happened to arina the criminal case was what kind of criminal case, 132 part of article paragraph, part b of the fourth sexual harassment. wait for your daughter at that time how old was 5? and whoever harassed her friend, drunk, there was the same violence. wait. he raped your daughter. a five-year attempt there to sanction under this article from 15 to 20, the prosecutor asked for 19, but he was given 13 years. explain to me what happened, where are you left a child with him. i went with arina to visit him. yes, we drank and the children played and stayed with him for the night. i have no second thoughts at all. he sent me for more. i left
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and gave me the keys. from the entrance and from the apartment i call him, i tell him how to come back, i don’t know that district very well, even though i live in kirov, i call once i call, i call twice, i can’t get through. i'm calling cheats, the fourth time. arina is crying, i ran running. and when you heard that arina was crying on the phone and i ran running, arina was standing with her. we went to the toilet. she shows me. when i came out, i also say, seryozha, i say. what did you do? i say i will sue you. i’m telling you i’ll close it, and after that, on june 28, the guardianship authorities arrived and arina was taken away. you now have a man, cohabitant husband husband is legal, right? what you sow, you will reap. and you, any mother , invests in the child everything that was better than you lived. you you couldn't even support anything
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at all like a mother. you are just like, then you roar that you don’t have enough anywhere. any person, wise, will never say that there is not enough money, we will live somehow. you can not, this is how you live, can i ask a question, yes? and who will pay the debts for alimony? because if they are not paid, there will be an administrative office, then there will be a corner. so next corner. as far as possible, we pay, and you, too, are ready to pick up arina. i don't know 630 rubles keeps 70% of 600 rubles. you know what happened to arina because of your wife's connivance. yes, i know. listen to me, please, you're not going to have a secure life out of this woman. no matter how much she
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clings to you now. well answer me you need this love, i guess? well, why, maybe he loves? as they know how, they love. let's do this we talked with your neighbors in the hostel, my favorite rubric, really, let's see. it is necessary better for children and she is constantly drunk all the time, everyone is going to bed, the child is going. the child saw everything, saw how they let her in with the men. like a girl being raped by a man. i hear once they tell me that the girl was taken away. this orphanage took the case or i call there. they introduced themselves here, i say, they reprimanded her. no, let's go back to mother. well, she's already seen it. that's it, i just appear literally, a then 100 rubles. she came for beer. everyone helped. there was not enough money there
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to feed. yes, i understand that this does not bother you either, because this is like her past. yes, well, or like well. any person makes mistakes in life, well, then he embarks on the path of correction and radically changes his whole life simply so as not to make the same mistakes or something. there, by chance, a man gave birth to him did not understand the soul repents for this, of course. well , probably the only person who believes, because the neighbors categorically do not believe in it. and even one of them came to us in studio olga come to us. you really come to the whole country to disgrace yourself. that's what you say, it's all a lie there, maybe a little true, so you took her wife, you don't know anything about her she's lying at every
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turn, lydia vasilievna warned me. so what it is, in fact, but i well, as a kind, soul of women, the girl is alone with the child. it's a pity to help no one helped believed, you let me down. when lidia vasilievna called me and scolded me. like i said, she fixed it. that everyone is wrong, but they are corrected, and you are a creature, what did you do, when did we find out that there was a rape? we gathered as neighbors, who helped her? yes, and collected a petition sent to the prosecutor's office. and what did you tell us on the phone, it's okay, we
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asked. write down an appeal to karina arina someday yes, he will see, there is truth. let's see it pours. i remember you. you often dream of me. i love you very much. come back soon. we have october 15 , 1919 here on my lap. 2022 has not seen a pass. i just deserve it. i just deserve to be taken care of
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returned arina despite the fact that she continued to drink, and after they returned her, guardianship occurred. too that's right, you asked not to return guardianship at that time . to be honest, it's hard for me to speak after this transfer. ah, you know today, i would probably show this program to everyone to all parents, so that they understand what they will do with their children and grandchildren, when you beat this girl, when you stood, i'm sure, it's just when not. did you also say that when you beat this girl, when you punished her? yes, that's all let every parent look, what is their
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to pull you to the ground. i say it will never happen. after how many years does my mom have, uh, a house in the country before. they grew watermelons and melons there. and here are her preparations for us in the kindergarten at the academy. it's all around it's all strawberries. it is i who come and very often go to bed and eat strawberry tomorrow at the first one there was once a decent artist. about the boy , uh, i'll tell you, we had the opportunity to talk about what you lydia thank you so much. you really brought up a very good boy brought up. you know the correct one today. he is not ready to communicate with his biological mother, as he calls her? but what he says, he says,
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when i grow up and become successful only then maybe i will be ready to meet with her to help her and help my father. see the boy. there is a feeling of guilt. the fact is that children never blame adults. children always blame themselves. boys. psychological help is needed so that he does not carry this burden in to himself. you know, this load of pork, he says, uh, what he wants to become. this, by the way, surprised me too. he wants to become an english teacher for elementary school kids. that is, he wants to perform. you know, the role of a parent figure is such a good one, which would teach other children what it is. and, perhaps, through this he will be able to heal himself, in general, we talked with him. i say, look, maybe you will become a psychologist, like me, and then you yourself will cope with this story. he says, yes, you know, i'm very interested. think about what we said here, think, i
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understand who to love here. i understand how nice she can seem, how loved she can seem, and so on, but she has two facts in the viagraph. she has already abandoned two of her children. i hope she gets on with it. and now the project is helping the children of russia, which our program is doing together with the popular front. my name is anya i am 12 years old. i love to draw you around the world and pleases people. i am embarrassed by this stroller, some were called such names, because people do not understand what happened to a person such a disaster. we right leg could not be cured, and i decided to amputate my leg.
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cause, as if nothing is known. i gave birth and found out. she was not released from hospitals for a very long time. i was not allowed to see her, they hid that she had problems with her arms and legs. i unwrapped the baby. i saw it fully. here she does not have a pen, but there is a finger. i don't know, i was afraid to touch it, it hurts. she doesn't hurt. i didn’t understand it was scary to make things worse than they were. our right leg was this very part of e, the leg was like a bone bent in a corner. that 's how it went, that is, he had a foot, looked inside, and we removed this bone earlier. here, and here it was. here it is cut and connected. yes, and then it was necessary to stretch this part, because due to the fact that they cut it off, of course. i had to wait, in short, it didn’t work out. yes, she is a little i decided i decided myself here it turns out that at the age of 11. you had to make a decision to leave, but were put. yes, and what
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was the last link for decision-making , everyone understood that it was necessary to make up their pros and cons, everything was a plus. i just cried like that. something will not be right. now she already had a total of nine operation difficulties there. mom, for me it's just the most important thing in this life. this is my mother, i would not have decided on this operation if she had not helped me well. she really is for me very big lesson. i look at her and learn for myself and understand that she is strong, she is stronger than me, but i try to be on a par with her, and not in my happiness. anya, the meaning of life , i became the happiest mother, but i don’t want to be a wagon train mother, because i understand everything
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that it’s hard for her with me. what kind of pen do you draw with, and how do you hold it? that is, the fused three fingers of the big one separately, and one is not enough. yes, this one doesn't work. his thumb doesn't bend. now she was in rehab. cool. and my fingers clench and scatter. and you generally feel more comfortable with him, we were without him with him i sleep and see when i finally send her on september 1 to a new school. she will walk on her own. i will walk. now independently on the site to climb to walk in the process smoothly beautifully and confidently. she always hope for the
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best. the most important thing is the problem. now what kind of prosthesis will you wear, skirts will be good, finally a prosthesis, because the truth is that they talked a lot with what the state gave, as it were, yes, thank you. and there were a lot of very dangerous prostheses, but i have been sitting for months waiting for the repair of this there is an option that we ourselves purchase and arrange as compensation, but they give such a penny that they won’t even close one tenth of it. here it is, for example, here are the sponsors we have on hand. how much, by the way, is there something about a million, it turns out that a million is a million here. here 2 million a year, taking into account the growth of the child. that is, every year. yes, we need to change the protest. well, that is, i understand, now we need to find out the task for us as a people's front in the first place. why a child cannot get a prosthesis, one that is convenient for him life, or if you put your money on prostheses, who determines this return amount?
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for our part, we guarantee you that we will deal with this, well, we certainly guarantee that we will find an opportunity, and that anya has a high-quality prosthesis , a girl who dreams of wearing a skirt and will come out and who, in principle, only because of i made a very difficult decision in my life. the truth is very difficult, of course, in such a situation, you need to help everyone as much as you can, so we from the popular front take it upon ourselves so nicely. thank you big. thank you. if you want to help or know someone who needs help. you, please call us at the editorial office. let us know.
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