there will be some doubts, there will be events that will bring many back to how to organize these things if you are going to celebrate something. well, this is probably not the best time, but you should still beware of such things. in part, of course, this can also affect those who were born at the end of november. and at the end of may the situation will escalate even more. here are 23 24 everything related to vehicles everything related to technology with computer technology with the internet. failures can affect everything and this is the time when any plans, when any such orderliness, it will stray. she will e cancel and say here that everything will go as planned. no, it will be such a small chaos that it can cancel some trips, cancel some communication opportunities, everything

that is connected with communications with information with a connection with the inability to evaluate incoming information. here, perhaps, the difficult situation will be difficult even only because the outer atmosphere will provoke everyone to some anxiety and fears. about myself scary scenarios. i think that this is the time when you need, more than ever, to calm down , find a balance in yourself, try to disconnect yourself from the proposed plots. e people who may be able to tell a lot of some complicated stories and try for this time, probably still do not plan. movement, because even in private, many vehicles can behave in an extraordinary way that is not normal. and, of course, flammability. here, too, is extremely large. but here i am a little bit i want to clarify that all

this story with flammability with the complexity of informational sharp stories, and with decisions with attempts to somehow analyze the situation to draw conclusions , it is difficult and especially for those who were born on may 13 near this date and on august 14-15. somewhere these e, a group of people can experience a special state of misunderstanding. what to do next? moreover, those who were born, and at this time there can be quite serious failures in everything in life. and what happens, but such things happen, when it's time to destroy the old the construction of the concept, what the main points of support in life were made on and it will seem that i told you and tomorrow all this will collapse, and then something new will begin to be built, this is not so. this is only the first stage of an attempt to make you think about whether everything is relevant in your life from what was before and one planet can

train you for a very long time for almost a year, and only by the spring of 24 you will understand, what was all this for? because in order to bring a person to some new level, to some new turns new understanding, sometimes you need a cardina. building a. the planet that suits it sometimes even comes into force before it is done, purely mathematically. well, let's say, somewhere in the district 23-24. she will run amok, but in fact she will manifest herself much earlier , this happens to her, therefore, this is the third decade. she is so unstable. it's so chaotic that, of course, if you're planning something, and i know people who, in general, know how to use this information as navigation. they still try to time to stop so as not to get into trouble. well, we

have been talking about people who were born on january 20-22 july april october for a long time. and for these people, the moment of truth is also coming, most likely, this will happen almost within a week. well, maybe somewhere on the twentieth of july, maybe the twenty-third of the twenty-sixth of july, and here the situation is very difficult, since it comes into force. the so -called karmic knots. lunar nodes. many of you have heard this and i want to tell you a little about this karmic knots. someone calls them rahu and ketu. someone calls the lunar nodes. these are dots, not planets. these are the points of contact of the moon's orbit and the intersection of the ecliptic, what is it at these points that your thoughts, your actions, and your deeds are deposited. for some time you have done something there, an eclipse has come or an hour the entry into force of these nodes has come. and

all this comes out as an indicator of what you have done. what did you achieve with this incoming node, which is called ketu. here he is karmic, he accumulates this, as it were something that has already outlived something that has not. but very often people tend to go there, it’s very familiar , i really want to try again. this is very. well, such an underlying inner feeling. sometimes it is difficult to interpret in oneself. since the nodes associated with the so-called past lives are past incarnations. that is, these are the accumulations that were still in past lives. and here you are coming with it. do you feel like you have some tasks? here is something like that. where something is calling you some mission that should be completed and this mission is happily controlled by an ascending karmic knot, it can be used to determine what you should do in this life. what you should strive for, it happens that a person, for example, in life

takes care of himself and is very selfishly busy with himself, and there is a setting node. and it can be said that you did not complete the task, but the ascendant stands where you have to do something for people. and here this knowledge is very important. moreover, it is precisely these nodes that begin to work at this time, which, like the echo of the last eclipse of april 20, will try to unload. and that's what will happen. the fact is that these people will feel the need to make some very important choice not to make. it cannot be done wrong. this means making such an epoch-making mistake that you will drag along with you for the rest of your life, you will disentangle this plot for a very long time, therefore, everything that will happen all those tasks that will stand it will probably not be possible to reject them, but try to make a decision in such a way that so that it be with a clear conscience and the most

wisely the most wise, no matter how dangerous and disturbing, because e the whole problem is that pluto is involved in this combination. this is, of course, a complicated story, as a rule. such people may find themselves in, say , the epicenter of some actions that are quite dangerous, where many people can be some kind of natural catastrophic issues. well, that is, here a person is involved not entirely in his personal circumstances only. but i often met when people understood that there was a risk, but they still took it in result. in general, unfortunately, there were very big problems that it was difficult to cope with during life, so for this group of people you need to understand that here the response of the eclipse the response of an important issue in their life will be an edge and especially for those who were born here in the area the twentieth and twenty- second of january. this is such a restructuring

, this is such a powerful transformation that requires you to make decisions that will affect your entire life in this sense, of course, you need to be very, very careful, and if we they started talking about such events, and which require a special state of mind. and we create these events practically ourselves. that is, your inner balance, your inner vision, the words with which you determine what is happening to you, they are the pencil that draws the picture itself, if you interpret this for yourself in a different way, you understand, why this is happening, you understand the meaning of what is happening then you seem to move to another level and solve this problem without material dangers. and so, to probably you and me it was a little easier, you can use essential oils, there is one very amazing

oil. the fact is that this oil can be called guru a sage. and now i’m talking about the essential oil of sandalwood, this oil, which, as it were, connects you with higher powers , gives you the opportunity to calmly, without getting involved in problems very e, to assess the situation in a balanced way, not only from the point of view of some particular event, from the point of view of global events and understand how you mounted it in it this is oil. well, you can say that it is friendly with the category of karmicity, it will help settle. these are very important questions. it adapts the very powerful energy that goes on and creates opportunities in a person when faced with such a situation, not just to draw the right conclusions. and for myself to draw this construction, as something very useful, it is something that will allow you to process this

energy and sublimate it into something very important, very deep, because it penetrates. e into the depths of the psyche. this is a philosophical oil that requires first understanding the alienation from such, uh, harsh things. around you, there may be any polovtsian dances there, but if you stay calm with him, you belong to yourself and understand that your task will cope with the epoch-making question that is before you, so try to use it with me in itself is very cool, it treats wrinkles on the face. if you add it to some kind of cream, it works very well for hair growth. if you suddenly even put, uh, a drop on the comb, you will just comb your hair. after all, it's not a question of his admission. follicles or somewhere in the depths of your skin, it's a completely different effect. this is an ethereal effect. but

if it is still quite difficult, then there is an opportunity to take, for example, uh, three drops, for example, sandalwood mixed with transport oil. what is a carrier oil? could it be any uh oil like jojoba oil or uh grape seed oil? or, in extreme cases, just some kind of refined oil and apply a little rub on the top of your head, as if the connection with space will improve. that is, it is certain. uh, integration into life, yes, not when you fall out you never lose your balance. and when do you understand adequately the ongoing processes? this podcast is witty and with you. i am svetlana dear, rose oil. this is generally a separate story, because it is such a very good litmus test in order to determine what kind of person. if

you apply rose oil, for example, on the wrist near the pulse, especially if you feel sourness, then you are dealing with a rather hysterical, very nervous person. if it's sour, it's already just so spicy, then, of course, a person has big problems with nerves with some psychological moments that interfere with life. if this oil, you feel it has become sugared, it has become sweet, then this means that you are dealing with a romantic person so a little relaxed, but if you feel astringency and the feeling that this is a leaf of tea, as if that is a person with you with a feeling will with purposefulness is a powerful strong person, and he perceives reality in his own way. so here is rose oil, it helps. be ironic to everyone provocations to everything that makes you

seem ridiculous in the eyes of other people, rosa will tell you yes, i am on my own and i am a completely complete person. i have the right to my own opinion, and so on and so forth. this will help to calmly respond to other people's opinions. this is something that may not quite attract some kind of collectivity, but a person is very friendly with himself. this is a very valuable oil, which, of course, it is used in many forms, it also helps in cosmetology. it helps both in relation to well-being and in relation to e, there are a lot of regulation of various processes, including hormonal ones, and these oils solve the questions. and that's when i say that they solve issues. i understand that you may ask this question again. and how to use it here there may be options, for example, the same sandalwood can be worn in an aroma pendant, you can rub it e,

suddenly and palms do such a so-called pranayama pranayama is an exercise related to breathing. breathing is our essence. this is what keeps us balanced. if you you feel that something difficult is happening to you. just rub. here is this oil or rose or sandalwood and in the hands of the palms and inhale you can do a simple exercise. well, for example, at the expense of six inhale for three delay for six exhale three delay. and as much as you can, if you try to practice this you will feel a lot of change in yourself. and you will feel that the events that stressed you, and you perceived them as very difficult, they begin to resolve themselves, because hmm, this is exactly the frequency. here's what comes in is behind outside of our corporality, it is formed beingness. and this is how it works here.

another oil that i would probably recommend using at this time is fennel oil. this is a very amazing tool, when you are very dependent on someone else's opinion, when it is very important for you to like others, when you must be with someone to be sure to talk to him, because it is difficult for you alone, so fennel allows you to stay with yourself not afraid to say no very clearly see reality and not depend from other people's opinions, especially about who you are and what you are, separate yourself from this opinion , and you become a natural present capable of making independent decisions, and independence of decisions is now more important than ever, because, well, we know how many things are now advisers and gurus, and so on, but only your inner state tells you what you really should do. and so, if we assume, you combine

all these three oils. fennel sandalwood - this will help you solve problems comprehensively. you can take baths with these oils. you you can, as i said, first dilute them, for example, in milk, add them in turn one to the other, not instantly, so that they have time to make friends. this is a prerequisite, understanding what you want from them. you can dilute this solution with milk and these oils in the bathroom, lie down in it , think about something very good. and this will adjust your subtle body, it will adjust it, it penetrates not only the subtle body. basically under the skin. yes, but, as it were, it repairs all the violations that you have. but more than that, this beauty also affects the psychological condition and on the skin and on the tone and on the physical condition. it's very healing. this is very helpful. and this is what saves you from

some radical, perhaps unsafe, actions of pills or something else. it's very. naturally. this is very relevant in our time. i think this will help you deal with all the things that may seem difficult. and even if everything is fine, it will still make you very attractive , very nice. clear understanding of what is happening around. yes, and in general, there is such a state of affairs when you interact with a person who in itself brings good luck, you become infected with this dacha. you become infected with it. you live in this atmosphere. if you yourself produce some kind of sadness or try to listen to something sad with pleasure. you live exactly in this frequency response, therefore your idea of ​​what is happening is your understanding that what is happening is a change, that all this, in

principle, can be solved and each of the issues is not necessarily solved by an act from what you think about it. how do you do it for yourself formulate and why this chess game unfolded to you in this way. this means that certain answers are required from you, solve them wisely, and then you will see not only one-time possibilities for a solution and a result. you will get the opportunity to live. much happier otherwise. it was a witty podcast, we talked about july about essential oils, and i was with you dear svetlana. you can watch all episodes of the project podcast lad on the website of channel one 1tv.ru

hello this is a podcast of the psyche, where we are with a clinical candidate of psychological science psychologist mikhail khors, we continue to disassemble and reassemble the mosaic of human judgment. well, as we can, we improve it , we make the world more beautiful, calmer, your friends for joy. our today's heroine came to us with such a request. she has a daughter. there is a younger cheese. she adores her youngest son. but her daughter's relationship is not going well. she is annoyed at her daughter and not very much, of course, she likes this situation. anastasia bakunina will tell us her story. hello anastasia, hello, i stated the correctness. yes, there is one the problem is, there is a daughter. yes, i have two children and my oldest daughter. she is almost 10 years old and his son is 4 years old. a and c. in general, here with the advent

of a son. yes, i really felt the contrast in the relationship with my daughter and son. if you have a relationship with your son, but such a musi-pusi, yes, you want to kiss him there, caress him , hug him, yes, then with your daughter. hmm, there is one. well, what about aggression? yes, as if i break down on her, no, mutual understanding in relations with her. yes. in general, here is the contrast, it is very directly felt, this topic really worries me, because i would like there to be harmony , mutual understanding with themselves by their children. so i would like to find out the reason why this is happening, and it immediately began when your boy was born, and you know, yes, the first six months, as soon as the son appeared. yes, there was jealousy that i pay more attention to the child, everything for him. she then just went to first grade and really paid all the attention to the baby. well, no, of course, uh, of course, for me, always both children, like,

i love them both. the little one just needed more attention. yes, well, i think to tell don't need about it. yes, that is, but it seemed to her that i paid more attention, that as if she directly told me so, you love him more. despite the fact that before the relationship with her daughter was good. yes, but ah, there was such a moment that, and when she was just born, when she was also the same age, somewhere from six months to somewhere up to three years. and i broke up with my ex-husband. yes, her dad, yes , a and e happened to her popeye. so i had to raise my daughter alone. that is, i was both mom and dad, and two in one. that is to me i had to deal with education and earn money somehow to arrange my life. so i spent a lot of time directly. well, how to make money, but who was the girl with who helped you help me? my mother, and yes, grandma was there. yes, my mother was there, she

helped me a lot, despite the fact that our relationship was not good then, just like it seems to me now, yes, there is something to compare, what a daughter turns out. here in this e age up to 3 years. i paid less attention than. i now, uh, as i analyze, i give to my son, and, in general, the problem is such that i break out of my aggression on her. can you describe this situation in which you break down and you, here, are especially ashamed that happened. well, either you’re worried, so about it, just give us what , of course, such situations exist, and well, for example , it annoys me that she, for example, scatters things there, doesn’t clean up after herself , annoys me that she doesn’t listen to me. yes, what am i from the word she is in her 10 in response, here, well, then yes, she has her own opinion on everything. she rereads with her, in principle, it annoys you when the child does not clean up. thing, i think it goes. and i even observe this from my mother,

because my mother has a priority that there should be cleanliness, that is, it is important for her to quarrel, quarrel with everyone, but the main thing is to be clean. and now you said yes, and i caught myself thinking that when my mother is not around, sometimes she will come, because i still have a scatter. she has a thing or not scattered. ah, to my daughter maybe it's a desire to meet some of the requirements of your mother. well , maybe yes, which means that, most likely, this is a requirement for you to be yourself. good and deserve your mother means love and encouragement. your mother is called a good mother. yes, here rather, again, i'm a good daughter. i deserve the encouragement of my mother, demanding from my already daughter. yes, this fulfillment of these values ​​that you, uh, your, mom, means, probably, how your irritation manifests itself. still. tell me you don't scream. a

what are you screaming, i'm screaming. and, well, there, he says, you are a slob. you're a damn girl, now i 'm remembering this and remembering my childhood, when my mother used to say that to me, what are the most offensive words that you said right now that you hurt yourself, what is dirty? i can boldly call. yes? you are a pig. and it's just like this. well, yes you have anger at this moment. well, he know how hmm he is not deep. i now released aggression, and i forgot everything further and i can go on being beautiful. and after that, it does not always clean everything. well, here, here the main thing is not even how she reacts behavior. how does she react emotionally? do you think it's a trauma for her? or she is so well-preserved and light, and they called it a pig, and she ran a little, and then, as it were, she went about her business. okay well, you know. hmm , probably, but even now she often

speaks to him, as if immunity has already developed to this. she says that well, as if, as if not to hear these words. well, like, call me whatever you want. well, like this, that is, she, apparently she has already so much armor, but it scares me on the one hand that it doesn’t even touch her anymore. so this is also a question. and this is not good. it seems to me, a son. how old is the son 4 years old, they have a difference of exactly 6 years, and it happens that it irritates you, for example, with untidy toys. but no, here, that is, he scattered toys, or he says, i don’t want to eat or there, and what is he doing? something like that here it is, if it was, she is your daughter, then she would cause irritation, as you understand, and he does the same, and you somehow suddenly feel that you have a situation. not well, nicolite, this is well, for example, yes, but the question is gadgets. yes. and if a son, for example, watches

cartoons, it does not annoy me, as soon as my daughter, but sits on the phone for a long time. it annoys me. i say again on the phone. and you were talking to yourself. why does it infuriate you when your daughter is on the phone? when is the son? no, i didn’t talk, but i have this moment of self-analyses. yes why why so why does it annoy me? well, here she sits on the phone, but it infuriates me, as if you don’t want her to do something else yes , because she’s only on the phone right here anastasia there is a difference. i want my daughter to do something else and it annoys me. that she is like this is not the same thing, unfortunately, most people have an incentive. eh, some kind of signal to change or to influence others is precisely a negative emotion, for example, something annoys me, so i influence this world so that i don’t get annoyed, but it can be separated in another way. yes your emotions away

there of their behavior for their reactions and react not because something annoys me, but in order to make this world a better place in order to take care of their daughter, you understand, yes, this is called their motivation in general, there are two of them in the world of everything globally. pain is motivated. this is irritation, this pain is emotional, yes, and this is pain, as if with a whip so fie and a person ran up to do something. yes, mine is, yes, and there is motivation by the goal uh-huh that is, this is the answer to the question. why am i doing something, why, what do i want to improve in this world, yes, how i want take care of and why i want to take care of my daughter. now, if you keep, uh the question is, why? what for? i forbid her to use gadgets, for what, what will it give her? you can explain it better to her too.

uh-huh, it's better to go to the goal, and not run away from the pain nastya a. here. tell me, please, your irritation with your daughter is somehow connected with your mood with your successes and failures. uh, in another life. maybe, by the way, in your personal life you live with your father. oh your boy. that is, you are again mom alone. yes, i have you yes, here are some such troubles on work or fatigue troubles in personal life. to be honest, yes. i think it's a direct relationship. yes. i think that my such breakdowns are an attack of aggression on my daughter. they are connected exclusively with my inner state. or maybe it gave michael to ask, really, most likely. well, ask yes here girls are already 10 years old. is it possible for nastya how do you think, at some point, to sit down with her daughter and talk and say, you know, i'm very tired in this, or i have such troubles.

i'm sorry, i lost my temper because i was in such a state of mood or there is no need to confuse children. it is in these experiences that the first part of your question does not agree with the second. and once again you asked, can i sit down to talk? yes, you can, but is it worth it to involve your children in your experiences ? questions right away, but natalya, can you do this? what kind of reaction helps her? and you know, here she, apparently, is growing up now, yes, and when such situations occur, and i say, daughter well, you got it up there again and just got out again, divorced, a mess at home. she scattered everything there, and she is already coming, mommy, i'm sorry that i did this. i understand that you are tired. well, now she is already very cool. wow, but probably the last

maybe a year and a half, i began to talk about the fact that my daughter. i'm sorry i fell for you. it has nothing to do with my small mistake, yes, that is, you are here you take on everything. uh huh, anyway. eh, of course, part of what you broke down depends on your fatigue, your tension there , your events in some other spheres of life, but part of it is still yes, and uh, your daughter's behavior. uh-huh that's why i can even assume that she sometimes sleep. does something to get your attention. now it is important, because, perhaps, she lacks positive attention with positive emotions, and then children often agree to attention. well, negative emotions. ok then

at least attention. uh-huh, you know, yes, that is , to cause some kind of pain, which means that mom also got out of her phone and had a fight. well, at least that's it. i think that most likely it is. this is a podcast of the psyche, where i am a journalist natalya loseva and a clinical psychologist , candidate of psychological sciences mikhail khors , analyze various everyday everyday difficult and not very situations. and why did you decide to us, when you described your situation, you focused on what you think, or do you think, that you love his son more than his daughter. here's to what kind of signs you have decided so, in general , it is generally difficult for me to understand, how can you measure love, after all, such a substance, incalculable. well, anastasia here measures by her behavior by her national condition. yes, i love them both equally, but the daughter is like an irritant, and the son is like a calmer. well, how such a contrast, but i don’t know, maybe it’s due to the fact that i

used to heard yes that well, the love of a mother and son is one love of a mother and daughter. it's another love it's very frequent everyday life stereotype. mom needs to love her son more than scotch, and even more so if the son is the youngest, by the way, mikhail a, there is some kind of confirmation or explanation for this, that the mother is more attached or may be more loyal to her son, more warm there for him here. see what a story. there are two kinds, love, there is love. e, giving. yeah, and love that limits means, uh, giving love is this caring, understanding warm, protective, tender, affectionate, forgiving, and so on, limiting love is when we take something from the child out of love for him out of caring for him. here you take away a gadget from your daughter. this is clearly a concern. i am totally clear. i now, uh, that's how it works, uh, a family

where there is both mom and dad and son and daughter conditionally. yes, it goes crosswise. uh-huh so from the mother comes e, giving, caring love more to the son less than the daughter. yeah, it comes from dad, giving , caring love more to his daughter and less to his son , and vice versa, dad is right for his son when he is more demanding, and the daughter’s mother is more mean when there is both a dad and mothers and sons, the daughter is a stable construction, you understand, yes , unfortunately, your family or i don’t know, unfortunately, just in fact, your family is not like that, so you said, i was for my daughter, and mom and dad. yes, here it is important that you become both mom and dad for the son too. and when you begin to apply more severity to your son, well, a little more than before, than now. you will see that your design

will settle down, because i have. well, this is my professional. i'm kind of just feeling. yes, you're all right built in a relationship with your daughter, on the contrary , you have a skewed relationship with your son. you are giving him too much there and on the difference. you think i don't give my daughter. no. you tell your son, most likely, it's just brilliant for me to respond like that. now you will generally begin to transmit a little less. here's this one, but hmm well , my son and a little more include strictness there. and excuse me, after all, if we watch cartoons uncontrollably, yes, you sit not uncontrollably, but here and there you will become. well you have nowhere to go if dad isn't involved, e upbringing of a son is relatively. well, just a little. take on this function of strictness to your son, then you will equalize and you have the difference. it will just be easier for you, you will be about, well, that means i have plus or minus

the same damn, again me and mom and dad be nast well, listen, life develops differently and the opportunity will change at some point. and god forbid everything will be fine and harmonious, but so far so. do you know what to tell me, please, you and your daughter are somehow discussing the issues of raising your youngest son. well, for example, you can say and listen look please, so that he doesn’t watch cartoons for more than 15 minutes or there, go wash your hands with him and brush your teeth. yes, she helps me, but with varying success, of course, but sometimes it’s in his mood. she turns on something there and says to him. well, i noticed that she behaves clearly, as i behave with her. here i am with her as strictly, and she is the same with him, i say, why are you with him so rudely you imagine? that is, i'm in a relationship. and when she was sitting with her son. i told you, come on, go eat there, sit down, and me right this.