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yards of dollars scored again this time three times, breaking british royal protocol. first, after getting out of the car, the president of the united states, after shaking hands, grabbed charles iii by the forearm, and then patted him somewhere on the back on the shoulder with the monarchs. you can not do it this way. and after bypassing the guard of honor, biden, left the king behind. although the false go next. apparently for him. you are also too complicated instructions london was the last stop of the head of the white house on the way to the nato summit vilnius, there, too, not without remarks, the president of lithuania for a quarter of an hour i waited by the ladder while the guests looked for a way out of the camp. roskosmos announces new open recruitment to the cosmonaut corps, this is reported by the state corporation and the gagarin cosmonaut training center , any citizen of russia can take part in the competition, but there are a number of criteria, age up to 35 higher education , strong psychological and physical health , by the way, there are separate requirements for physical data. moreover, there are both basic height and
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weight, as well as specific ones, for example, the width of the hips in a position, sitting or the distance between armpit angles. this is the fourth open selection. roscosmos. the last one took place in 2021, then four candidates were selected in total now for the third cosmonauts 26 people. and now there is a chance to fill up these ranks, the application and documents are accepted until october 30th. the crews of the silk way rally reached orenburg behind the backs of the teams a complex special section with a length of almost 190 km, divided into 2 segments, the maximum concentration on a hilly, but picturesque area, all attention is traditionally focused on trucks on this times faster than andrei karginov from kamaz turned out to be the master of the light belarusian team third place in the current rally raid winner, dmitry sotnikov, today the fifth stage, orenburg samara
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is a podcast of the psyche. my name is natalya luseva and my co-lead clinical psychologist , candidate of psychological sciences mikhail khors hello dear friends. we continue to write our library of wonderfully interesting complex lives, admiring our heroes. well, along the way, we help, as we can unravel difficult life situations. our today's heroine. her name is vera, she is the mother of four children and her request sounds like this: i am in the slavery of my children. faith hello hello what kind of slavery is this? tell us, please, well, first, i need to introduce, i am 41 years old and i am divorced and
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i have been raising children alone for 4 years. yes, 2 years, of course, was very difficult. difficulty with work. it was necessary to choose such a work schedule, but in order to receive money while providing for your children, and at the same time you are with your children, because this is study, and this is the socialization of my children, that is, mugs a-a, walks, excursions, vacations , and so on and so forth, and at the same time you need to earn money for everything for an apartment for clothes and provide them, and i’m completely sorry. yes, i wanted to ask, when did you divorce your husband? eh, he left you something for you for children for children, the cat rolled children, and you said to earn an apartment, no, i live. smart apartment, well, i'm a muscovite, and already 20 years old. i'm standing in line. i
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will have a grandson soon. i'm still standing there, to live with my mother. well, respectively, i can’t, because there are 43 squares and and my family is too big. and with her husband would not be on a crook apartment. no, we have not acquired an apartment, but they help you, as now alimony is alimony, the mother-in-law helps. i have a very wonderful blood from my husband. from there and so on. there is some help. well, too, i would say mother-in-law. here is the last year she, and she started something for me as a tutor. let's say we can buy glasses in half there, for example, well , listen to something so expensive, you are both great fellows, because in this situation you work as one team. it is clear that you subjects, so to speak, your tasks, these are children, but this is also not given in every family. and how old are the kids? can i tell you, huh? the last 13 is celebrated in july, and 10 years and 4 years of the son. well, that is, the eldest is no longer
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children. not children. well, these are also children, because and why also children, because sonechka also likes to attract a lot of attention to herself. if she calls me, she wants me to only talk to her, respectively, when she comes. mom, you don't pay attention to me, that is, that's all, from there stretches. it all remains. and when the mother-in-law began to come to us. i say, they are all mom, mom , well, that’s not even the point, you understand what kind of slavery, why do i say slavery, i try for children so that their dreams come true, so that they understand that everything in life is real, the main thing dream of doing something for your dream, you deceive them when you say that everything in life is real. and what, it means i’m deceiving no longer the truth to say in life, not everything is real, yes, a person is real, well, to prove it directly, yes, she’s ready. remember up to the moon please. well no, i mean material dreams. still, probably, give
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me, please, 3 billion dollars now, what do you mean? now for this we need to do something, but if we set ourselves such a goal, it is the person who sets himself and wants strongly. i think that he will overcome anything to earn this money, but someone who has earned it must overcome it, of course, directly. here all people have the same opportunities, not necessarily then i ask the question again. why are you lying to your children? when you tell them that everything really. i want them to start striving, probably, for this you deceive them. and i’m not, i’m not lying, if a person wants , that you said that different people have different opportunities, of course, which means that not everything is real for everyone, the children achieved the maximum. i understand why you are deceiving them, you are exactly in this situation, because you told them that everything is possible. you see, well, let 's talk, then you'll live questions, and then
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i'll tell you right, okay? so what is your slavery that led you to this idea that you are within, they do not want to do something like this. although it’s time for me to take out the garbage, and i’m doing the cleaning. if i want to be clean in the apartment, and although i have already divided the boundaries, i have divided the boundaries in terms of the fact that i am doing the kitchen for you. i am preparing food for you. well, i want to eat in a clean kitchen. and you must do it. well, don't have to say, please take it. hey, get everything ready for the table. wash dishes after cooking. and wash the dishes there. this i myself understand, i do not like dishes ever. it was because of this that i shared the responsibility of speaking to them. what are you going to do here and what they say, no, it won't. they just don't eat it. they say, yes, well, mommy. and things are still there two or three times at home, i'm already saying that
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i'm dirty until one of the grandmothers comes and insists on the path of truth. children, all the same, such are inserted. yes, they don’t hear me, like a senior in rank came, then he was executed. yes, this is how they perceive you that there are grandmothers. well, they are there, or maybe they came, that address does not deceive. it's just impossible. how is the appeal different? there i don’t know a team that comes out differently for real, they say, these are completely different people, like my mother and mother-in-law, and well, the fact is that, let’s say, they grumble at my mother. well, they don't
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need to do it. and here to eat there. well, i don't want to. why would you do it, why would you do it? i don't need it. and she won't until they do. yes, well, i can also keep up, but more now there, let's say, here i am saying, alya threw away a jar of lifting with them. alya throw away the yogurt jar, alya. i would have thrown a jar of yogurt. well , that is, you said you left, did some things , returned, and do your best after all. not well, from a jar of yogurt. yes . oh, yes, a jar of lift, if i stand like this, that is, you know how to get something from your children. don't fall behind. she deal in is, that lessons lessons are not done. uh no, let's say ira started doing her homework, only after uh, well, closer to april. so ira is like this for 13 years, alya
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finished making them closer to january. and that's how it's always been right from the first grade it was or now they have become a teenager so they smoked a little, and hedgehogs. i think even such a trauma happened in elementary school, they didn’t know me. she is our kind of girl. she loved animals very much since she was four years old. she studied biology, she read my encyclopedia for the eleventh grade. well, she was interested. i'm in the living world and every insect. she always looked at me for a long time. she studied it. so i found out about this only last year, that her the teacher called dumb. well, he is such a child, she could not be yelled at. she stood up in a stupor, but she is in her thoughts. yes , she is slow, she is thoughtful, but she is a very intelligent girl, but she never does anything quickly, of course, this year in
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the present. i say surrounded by silence. i would and ira, she always worries that i would worry him, for what she wants. here she is , on the contrary, she wants me not to upset , not upset. yes, but at the same time it is not removed, when it means, you can always i’m worried, but that she doesn’t want to upset your relationship upset me, other people. well, that is, someone told them something, why because then you will scold or be unhappy with her if you are upset by other people and the reasons for this disorder. because of this, i don’t do lessons with them, so as not to scold them. once again, who could not be yelled at. yes, even tell her, ira, that's it, come on faster, and that's it. it is possible to sit down to undress to drink tea, and she will dress. well, that is, it's good, but grandmothers are like cheese talking and calmly just the question is not for
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everyone, that is not. no, they did not check there, everything is fine. well, uh, i'm fine. like i said, we're family therapy. we are with a psychologist and i do not trust, for example, commercial psychologists there. i don't contact them. i don't even trust a psychologist in our social security. yes, i am saying that let's go back. in addition, after all, grandmothers are given to agree on this or that cheese, right? and do you think that they do it differently, it’s not that they manage to agree, but she will do it anyway. e in my own way irishka well, already somehow in my own way, or something, i don’t even know how to express it. if she thinks that she will not do this, but this does not apply to cleaning and lessons, then she will not even do it with the help of grandmothers, but somehow here are
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two dishes, this is the mother-in-law, she has more influence on her, than let's say my mom my mom more can work on alevtina that is 10 years old. here, and baba luda is taller, of course, and tails are drawn to her. and they are somehow on the same wavelength, they can negotiate. and it upsets you what they can and can't. no, i, on the contrary , work as one company. yes, on the contrary, i'll call and tell you. eh, that such a task is worth this disgrace. we have to deal with this somehow. right now, mom has never been involved in this situation before. well , this year has also changed us all for real. mom has already begun to turn on you, she even combined it, yes, and i learned from your business card that you are even attracting a neighbor. talk but in fact, what is missing is a male figure. yes? wow
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, detente, a and hmm i started to think about this here about the hiero teacher is sergei e, a neighbor. we have friendly relations with andrey and i also asked him to tell him there somehow that mom needs help, that we need to pick it up there to pick up the younger ones to watch. she is there alone at work, while she is at work there, that is, the eldest is there, well. each other must you one family and so on. that is, i even hired an english tutor for a man. well, that is , now i realized that this is such stupidity , they are really special to us. well, i have not seen the result , it can shake off when those strangers says, for example, something your mom is so tired. well, for example, yes, well, it also happens, yes. itself as you do not notice, he will pay your attention. if this is so, of course, lord elder and say ira yes, i'm sorry, but you need
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to help, what will she do. she won't do it. yes, because it is, as it were , this kind of protest that they do, not that yes, the imposition of the hunt and i say, and even you understand, and i surprise them. what what. they want to be there, i foresee them there. well, the next step, what will they wish there on new year's eve, on december 31 , a scandal broke out for her. and that she urgently needs some kind of grandmother grabbed her head, but i foresaw this step. i already bought her skates. why new year is a holiday called the child dreamed of skates, why it was just december 31, and i bought it a month ago. well, i prepared for this holiday because i know that she will want to skate on the ice. i didn’t ask why you bought her skates, the answer is why i don’t know, because i’m a mother, because for the new year, right?
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