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i want to talk in this very interesting company at our table about russian sovereignty, the mood for the russian elite, and, uh, to what extent is that turn in russian foreign policy and not just in russian foreign policy, but if you want in identifying russia not only as a state but also as a civilization. to what extent is this a decision of the authorities and to what extent, is it supported? russian elite, i will ask you a very simple question alexander, to which i know you will have an easy answer. here are many who left russia and many who remained in russia, for whom, if they could, they probably left, and they keep talking about how russia behaves incorrectly in ukraine and, in general, they almost drool tears in the eyes
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about all russian sins and scold not only the authorities, but also the russian people, who, no matter how imbued with the ukrainian tragedy. and so president biden announces, that he is going to supply ukraine with cluster munitions. which are the most dangerous for the civilian population? what do you think how many of the western-oriented supporters who left russia who left behind in russia, let’s say, how many of them signed a collective letter to the biden, don’t do this , it will kill peaceful ukrainians, because those territories where battles will take place, ukraine considers them to be its own, these are the same ukrainian people. you know yourself there were no such songs, no one even
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expressed concern. and of course, this is the simplest question, of course, the new one is not one of these people who have not already left and have not yet left. uh, these people who have already left or are not really them yet, like, perhaps, philosophical questions here. in general, i think that rational argumentation or even some norms of general accepted morality. this is still far, not the main motivation in behavior. people, that is, people live in certain positions, certain myths, and if you are a person of the west, if you are a person of a unipolar world, if you think that western western civilizations do not have the alternative is that it is the exemplar of this universal civilization. you will pass everything through this lattice, no matter what they show you. you will not pay attention to obvious discrepancies. you will glorify defend, or gently criticize, but always be on the side of this civilization. and now the question is in our elites. in my opinion
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it was in this that they were. they grew up in this western center. they are part of the flesh of this colonial consciousness. they belonged to russia and belong to those who have not yet left or have already left, as colonial for the country they occupied. they are temporarily colonial administration. they siphoned funds from here and buried them in the west, and so now there is a real separation or purification of our elite, because they have lost the right. these are the people who will always take a western position on everything, they have lost the right to be our elite, they really can change their mind. this is please, but it’s not like that, well, then let ’s hand over all the stolen documents in a little thing , give it away and forward, and from now on, the elite in russia after this fundamental turn, which has already been made from mine, they simply did not realize that only the multipolar elite will be considered, which are convinced that russia is a civilization, that other
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civilizations must be respected, including western civilization, but it is not the only one, it is not exemplary, that humanity - this is not the west, but, accordingly, russia has the right to have its own way and must go, protecting its civilizational sovereignty, as other civilizations have this right. only such an elite and here it is, maybe an elite such an elite. we don't have one yet. it's only now marked. a very big turn - this will, of course, require a fundamental change in our international affairs of our dip corps, and preparing people to engage in international activities and at the level of politicians at the level of diplomacy requires a fundamental rethinking of the basic attitudes that actually predetermine the worldview and then, well will actually happen anyway. here we will not run away from the fact that those people who will stand by our side. they are, in general, even when they don’t like something. they
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are here repeating the american proverb rong, ord michaeltre, that is, maybe we are wrong in some way. maybe we went too far, but this is my country, and even if it is wrong, i will be with it to the last . this is the very creation close to an american patriot, at least, rong, uride mike wright, you know, they just said, it seems to me, this is very important this is immediately un-, uh, raises a philosophical question. at what stage is a person says to himself? and that it ceases to be my country? well, for example, we probably won’t criticize the german anti-fascists, that they, as it were, if they were led by hitler , although for germany it was a war with huge losses, but i look at these russian oppositionists. i just see that they do not ask such questions at all, that
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for them it is a priori clear that the truth is in another country. that's why they have it not only their intellectual conclusion. they programmed themselves that way. i don't know how happened, but i don’t know if you will agree with this senator these people are sincere in their conviction that if russia has a conflict with the west, then russia is to blame, because it should be to blame, because it’s a big truth, but on the other hand . you know for me this is the audience. after all, these are state traitors, foreign agents , persons who are proteges of the respective systems, and for me this is the concept of the opposition. it's still somewhat different. there are people who, let's say, do not agree with what the government is doing. they have a different recipe, but in order for their homeland
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to flourish, and here is another story. here, the recipes are all about how to cut us into 32 parts, which means that each of these parts should be allowed to die, yes, uh, in the interests of people who pay money or some other benefits, it turns out. bridge from our previous topic just, uh, the day after tomorrow i have a video conference call with these very main asean states, and we will talk about inter-evolutionary dialogue. really says so, what's curious about this e conversation, it will be in the format of the continuation of our festival marathon of cultures of this kind, which means, yes, let it be virtual, but there is a central place. strange as it may seem, this is sovereignty, because civilizations have sovereignty - you know, gemini brothers, if you have a civilization there, one way or another, you need it. this is to have, uh, a sovereign basis for it to be preserved and developed, and that's practically all of our unknowns. we are working, they all ask us to pass on the legislative practice, the experience that we
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have worked out and not only they have the same thing in africa, the same thing is in demand. recently i was in latin america with exactly the same questions, that is, it turns out to be a surprise for themselves. we are for these 10 years. that we dealt with these issues, well, approximately from the twelfth year of the seventeenth, we appeared in our commission so far, using , among other things, the experience of the united states of america, because the united states of america has very strong sovereign foundations that were laid, then polished. well, now they are moving away from them a little. but it is not important. the most important thing is that we absorbed it all. and here are the results we have, this year we asked experts for analysis, who gave us a sociological 85% of russian citizens consider themselves patriots of the country without a doubt. this is the highest figure for the entire period of sociological research. this is a big result, in fact, but it is meant, of course. the russian federation is not the previous state entities
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of the russian federation and this, uh, level many may envy. that is, the point here is not only that we have laws there, let's say about control over long- term under foreign influence, but also society itself. it is growing and growing at a very powerful pace. and this is precisely the guarantee that we will not only protect our sovereignty, our territorial integrity, but also the future that we must build ourselves thank you general for the last 20 seconds. for a final word, but i want to say in particular that i personally observe the formation of that elite, about which alexander yuryevich said, she is coming, she appeared this uh, russian uh, the national elite and the elite of those, uh, peoples who live in the real life of the russian people already uh, several centuries and this process is clearly going on and we
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probably will soon, so as andrei akach says, there is a powerful movement. we will see how it will force out all that i don't know, it's not the elite. it's, uh, shy of those. which formed, you both said the same practically phrase. here he comes from the position. she is embedded in it. you say he has a competence inserted in the brain, that's it west, and we are subordinates, this is these people will not only leave. they will simply be squeezed out of the political. e, fields, if not just e, we are subordinates, well, we are inferior in comparison with them. these are very strong words, correctly defective, this is defectiveness. she slowly disappears quite noticeably. this is defectiveness. look at the prom this huge evening. he collected 10 million in the united states. this video, when their graduates
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were there, probably, uh, 10,000 people in chorus , all boys, girls sing, i'm russian. this when it was sometime it was sometime it was, probably, but this is awareness, this is not nationalism, this is awareness of one's belonging to the age-old history of the age-old culture and civilizational culture at this level. this is already awareness and this is the general thing that the collective west did not realize , and they did not understand that they demonstrated very great unity in the fight against russia, but received in return an unprecedented unprecedented unification of the russian people and an unprecedented, at least for decades, rise of the russian self-awareness. it was a big game , see you tomorrow on the air.
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hello this is a podcast of the psyche, where i am a journalist natalya loseva and a candidate of psychological sciences, a clinical psychologist mikhail khors, we continue to analyze the most interesting most complex stories of our heroes. hello dear friends, today's our hero. vadim came to moscow after a divorce in a noble city. he left behind his ex-wife. his children are looking for their new love, but he is not very successful, because who would they find in this new big city. they all resemble his wife, or he compares these women to his ex-wife,
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who just can't let go. what to do with it is good or bad. and what, in fact, means that we will deal with such flashbacks today. hello well, does that mean they left their wife? was it her? it was a mutual decision, but she was still the initiator of the divorce. why is the fact that we were married for 8 years in 2014, we got married and divorced in the past at the beginning everything was for love, great we have two children six yo girl and son is 3 years old. we thought that the birth of children would only unite the creaks of the family and some new round would give the relationship in fact already. we began to understand that we are completely different people. or rather, initially, we saw it and realized it, but as they say, opposites attract us it was good, but at some point, uh, i'm a more active person, i can't sit still, as they say, she's just so calm
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economic. this seems to be a plus, but for me too much. perhaps passive in some way. for example, children and happiness, great, but sometimes you need to make time for each other too. we had the opportunity to leave them with my grandparents and i wanted to somehow interestingly actively spend time for a few days, go somewhere in nature, snowboarding trips, for example. she at this time preferred a quiet rest, lying down. on the couch, i can't series. yes, you're right, you're absolutely right, and as a result, i left. we spent time separated didn't go home because again i wanted something interesting new nine, and then, uh, i'm sorry , i'm not at home tonight. no, that wasn't quite right anymore. and i'm not saying that i'll come. i say it like it is, that i'm leaving, but her, of course. this was very unsatisfactory. and the children stayed with her, and dad was on tour,
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roughly speaking, it was like that, therefore, why was she the initiator? the country, because at some point it stopped arranging it with these my sorties. i don't brag about it, really. so there were forays, well, something every every day. yes, no no, it was a recurring weekend, let's say i wanted some extreme. well, how many days off per month were the weekend through the weekend. may it be often enough. well, that is, twice a month. you were leaving with an overnight stay extreme. but it was already closer to the end of our relationship. when yes, yes, before that it was much less common. i somehow still held on. yes, probably, but at some point i realized that, well, no, i can't, i am, if i were, if she was with me, uh, in these pastimes. well, i was not interested. here with her you can't see sometimes they looked, but for her it was
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commonplace and absolutely. i was interested in diversifying. that is, it could be interleaved. with me, her attraction, my hobby, but mine, she was not at a loss in this whole story, when dad is there mom series, and children with grandparents or like or, as a result, they remained a spouse, because again, grandparents, they even offer. let's sit with them. you are going to spend the weekend together. well , she says i don't want anything, so she watched tv series. well, the children were at home did not take with you on some extreme. and how old is 6? well, he dragged me dad at the age of 4 already in the taiga, of course. i understand you, but not yet. apparently i don’t know yet, it seems to me that it’s too early for her, but, although your example, how did you go with him to ride with them, of course. yes. there is such a small extreme, after all, you had slides and my three-year-old son rode. yes, she can be on bicycles. they rode bicycles there. she's just learning to ride scooters with me. yes, we
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had walks, that is, the children were your partners. eh, these are sorties. of course, but again, i can give you one more example. what are you up to? let me down too. i often walked with the children and my wife did not go with us. well, it’s also a completely family pastime. we just went to the park. we had a picnic and took a blanket on scooters. she says, well, you know, uh, i don't like all these walks. i came to the conclusion that she is too homely, maybe it won’t sound somehow, but she’s like that in someone else, or listen like that on her own, well, her mother is exactly the same. yes, my ex-mother-in-law, they are right they say, look at your mother-in-law. if you want to see very well communicate. former mother-in-law to her, hello. you say, how are you here, like a man, like a father, like in a family, ning i mean there? well, the family was provided for, yes, yes, i am an entrepreneur. i work in building materials. there is income. yes, your wife started working for you just a year ago.
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until then, she's exceptional. that is, while you lived together, your wife did not work. she started working towards the end of her life. well, that is, you and your family provided. you are such an energetic you children, so uh, entertain your spouse like that turns out to be an anchor for you. what did you like? so you say, we immediately saw that we are so different, but at the same time, and we enjoyed it, what does this mean? that's when the beginning of your relationship. well, first of all, it was some kind of crazy love on my part. at least, i will say that i got married at the age of 26 and before this age. i didn't love that much. what is this? it 's hard to describe, but of course i met her. come on, that's exactly the passion we had uh was the nightlife . if possible, so to speak the first time. she accepted me. this is also important moment, and she is with me as it turned out. not although, apparently, because we also loved very much, we went out somewhere and visited. she, so that you
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understand, even the guests are not particularly welcome at home. it's a happy table. yes, let us. they go to visit, but not us, but i 'll repeat myself, but i want to get out. i can't sit at home, although you can't sit at home in a comfortable apartment in yekaterinburg. it’s just that you can’t sit at home all the time, probably, because the house, then you spent time, of course, most of it. i can't sit at home and immediately people get the feeling that you such a jumper was dumped there from the family simply because he is not at home at home. you sat, you can, well, just not all the time weekdays work at home, of course, 100% children walk in the evenings on weekends. yes , something is starting to rattle in me, let's move on to the moment with which they came to us. in the end, you divorced, and you went to moscow that's right, and now you have girls, and you each of them are looking for your ex-wife, as it turned out, how it happens. we got divorced and decided, uh, no more relationship. me too
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already satisfied. i actually had a really hard time coming off. but this is a different story. i have moved here for a month and a half now. it can be said that the group ran away, the former spouses want children there, and it is very difficult for me to be here without them, but i understood that i could not be near her. why didn’t the feelings cool down, with everything that i’m telling you, they could no longer be together. our conflicts were very serious. well, it hasn't cooled down, and it sits somewhere in the subconscious. i know, as if another replacement. i want to fall in love. i want to be loved sincerely, but every time when i meet girls, when i communicate , a subconscious comparison begins. beautiful young girl. we communicate well. i recognize her. i don't like to cook wah head i don't want this i don't want. that is, i am not an ordinary wife at this moment i think, i just understand that i need a girl who knows how to cook. simply because for 8 years. i 'm used to just this and you actually
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turned out to be important and i thought. this is important. now it seems to you that it is very important to have a wife who, or your girlfriend, who can feed boringly, and definitely. why be sure to explain the delivery from the restaurant. listen to the answer to the question. why words, because i'm so used to. this is a small answer, well, no matter how critical thinking is implied. are you used to it? why is there something new in your spouse for you? yes? e in your new girl woman. why is that bad? because i have qualities in the head of my ex- wife, which must be in the current one, that is, you must be greeted at home with delicious food. so it was in the family, probably, your mom. yours probably cooked very tasty and yes, i lived with my parents, there for a long time until the age of 24 i was such a little son with us , you know, and every time when girls come to us with a problem i can’t find a man. every time we write to us in social networks, natalie writes
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like, give the girl's phone number. as i am sure, now after this transfer we were formed. don't take the bread. guzeeva , what are you doing there? yes, i can and we have well , why not? well, actually, uh, a girl who can cook a million, what's the problem? well, choose the one that can cook, what else do you want, what else do you compare? in addition, the example led and in fact, i did not tell her everything, goodbye. we continued to communicate, but i already somehow didn’t like her. well, i really liked her. here's a great girl. and then your phrase about crazy love without smart love sounds right away. yes, you already got into trouble once in a relationship with a person whose values are far from you. and of course, with such a person it is much more difficult to maintain this wonderful cell of society, yes, in
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the modern world, if it were 100 years old life would be great back, everything is fine. well , it's just different now, now make your love, smart smart, not without smart that you again get into the same thing. why do you need this passion again, this loss of control. does this mean when you do not see in a person something that does not suit you? why well, start now , your daughters are already 34, no longer 26, in theory, you can already, as it were, try to rationally approach it in a different way. yes, i absolutely agree with you, but these are words that are important, but, apparently, i act on some emotions and feelings, and it seems to me that even if its appearance. i aspire to something similar, but i will repeat to you absolutely. i don’t know how it is, it turns out, i probably came with these requests. yes, no, well, you can strive for you have a certain psychotype that causes you sympathy is often an ex-
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wife, similar, but to the current one. yes, everything, as if there is nothing so bad. where is the problem here? well, find one similar to yours of the same psychotype there, the same type of visual. well, he also knows how to cook. what is the problem? what's the problem? please just say love your wife. maybe now in the distance you realized that? well, you could, for example, try to build a life. so, and you agree that sometimes you need these tours. she filed through the forests, then the children will grow up, the boy will grow up , you will jump with him to return to this wife of yours, who keeps at home. comfort is preparing. well, it's always a question of definition, what is love, yes, and i kind of stand for the fact that we still understand love as accepting a person as he is, hi about what to any of us, no matter how satisfied. we still accept it anyway. well, yes , it can be developed with love. you can
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take more there over time and so on. and there is another question, because here it’s not only love, but living together, we don’t know how the spouse is. but who was the initiator of the conflicts there, because, well, if a person can negotiate as much as you like, but if you arrive after a day off, and they conditionally throw an ax at you, yes, and then there is a second story , i have a desire to agree too, then there is, this is a big rarity. yes, a big achievement, so, look what. interesting things now, most likely you have two models of everything in your head. the first model is with her. yes, i'm my wife's husband. i seem to be divorced. yes, maybe even you had some thoughts of returning to it and, like, the second model without it, but there is, after all, a third scenario. what is possible with her, but it is not necessary to create a family again with your wife, you are not obliged. there, it means to live with your wife in
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there are big changes at school, now the pointer does not break grades do not fake a diary do not forget parents at home can be collected in one message, and teaching formats have become more flexible and technologically advanced , only teachers have remained indispensable, thanks to him, children have responsibility, perseverance and self-confidence become a teacher. choose your university to be a teacher.rf. the teacher is forever. this is a podcast of the psyche in our hero studio. vadim who left his hometown, leaving his wife and two children there, but still looking for the image
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of his wife. may i ask you, of course. but a few days ago, i swear to you i had a dream that she was getting married, and i'm trying to break this marriage just an honest word with him. she tells me. i met a man yesterday. and today we are getting married. i'm at this ceremony man. nothing at all. i'm sorry , but nonetheless, i'm somehow trying to crash this wedding. here's how you don't. for why are you tearing it off with you there was no understanding, but i could not survive the fact that she would get married after this dream. i just submitted a request to participate in this program, so that the old yunkalers would tell us, so i don’t know about it, it’s big. it seems to me a mistake to assume that dreams
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can be unambiguously somehow interpreted and something can be built on them. well, what is this person dear to you? whatever you dream about. this is fine. he's not just dreaming. he is jealous in a dream, he protests the years have been spent with this woman, the children are everything from her fine. you may dream about it, that is , this is once again a request, yes, do not attach super-value to this dream. well, you are used to, they think at night the brain does not turn off and they also continue to think, nothing terrible and nothing of some kind. yes, this is not. well, that is, he, you agree with what it means, most likely, he does not think all the time. we see it. now. yes actually. vadim is not worth it to us, and he wrote, yes, another question. what to do? and either you then admit that you do not love this woman because you deny the way she is and she doesn’t suit you in terms of her values , her behavior in her life
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, and then you perceive the feelings that you now have for her as a painful connection that should be cut off, or you still get up in position. i accept her and this to some extent, that is, i have some kind of love for her, and then, maybe, you will agree, this is an intermediate one, and she , of course, is also an option, but not necessarily to be a family. well, you can meet , you know, because again, you, as in what kind of opinions do you have in your family, most likely that since we are in the family we should spend time together, since we have a stamp in our passport, it means that we must have common values, in fact, this is not so, firstly, you already lived and so it was also possible just conflicts. yes, it was necessary to work with them on time. here, and the second now you don't have it there. he doesn't restrict you. maybe then you will be less significant. here are those joint uh, some kind of pastime, but if a person is really dear to you, a
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if something in him, nevertheless, you love , accept and appreciate, maybe at least at some level try this relationship. it is also possible to keep it this way, because it is not necessary to go back to the family again. yes, of course for children it will look especially strange. by the way, what will it look like for your children, because they may be generally happy. i just thought a lot about it michael. maybe it's not a feeling, even love at all, but just a sense of possessiveness 8 years of marriage. and, well i just can't let go, because that's it my. well, rudely expresses and and it is precisely this moment, can i keep e once again important to understand that this is a sense of ownership. oh yes, this is also the norm of life, most likely, it is also a question. it's just that, or is there something else. everything, do you know how to understand, only it or is there something else? no? i don’t know how to imagine, yes, and to work through these feelings when you understand that your spouse is all
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married. uh-huh, what will be the sensations if the spouse says to marry a dream, it seems to me that she showed how the sensations will be. yes me too wanted to respond to emotions. right here at this moment. uh, it's still hard for me to accept, no, it's hard. it is clear that there is anger and guilt here. what's here like like an emotion, does it have a name? i will be in pain. and what will hurt the loss? yes, i can not emotions, it's hard for me to call an emotion. here she was with me. now i don’t have this emotion, but i can’t say to realize it, that it will hurt that someone puts on your slippers, he goes to bed with her loss. ah, the pain of loss, most likely, but then, uh, tell me why people feel pain when they lose something or someone because they are attached, because there is a loss. this is the gap is a series of yes pain. and why because we forbid ourselves
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to lose? that's when a person lives an adult life. completely, of course, it will not work, but it goes towards this, yes, and allows itself to lose and is aware of the loss as the norm of life. that's when he stops believing that loss is something unambiguously bad. that's when he develops as a person. and here he is, he may already understand me, except for this pain of loss, in general, what more to this person, in addition to this selfishness , selfishness is the norm in a relationship, in addition to this selfishness, what do i have? well, once again, you are an entrepreneur, have you really never lost any money. there they lost opportunities, perhaps, in some way they experienced a similar feeling. i now perceive why say? well, that's how you lived it, and at some point you nevertheless realized that entrepreneurship. it's not just getting, it's also losing. well, for some reason, it was easier there , they survived everything easier, because the significance is
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less. yes, there is more significance here, but now, if you twist after our meeting today, what losses are possible in your personal life. you will calm down a little. and then, when you calm down a little, and this pain will not completely go away. she'll just get smaller. from the realization that the wife, maybe the former, yes, marry someone else. that's when you 'll understand. do you appreciate something in it or not? or is it just this and selfishness from mine. i understand, yes, valuable to you. let's go back a little earlier. do you remember any such moments of absolute happiness in your life? wife of course, but in the very first place is the birth of children. well, i’ll probably say that especially the first daughter, because this is the first child and on the ultrasound i find out that this girl has tears in my eyes. and i'm like some kind of stereotypical thinking boy boy, there, i 'm a ural man, girl everything is great happiness. generally wanted.
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