it happened quite by chance that some segment of my life was, which means that it is inseparably connected with the word called mongolia like this, yes, that is, my cousin lived there for a long time. it means to me, uh, she brought these terrible masks, these porcelain ones. yes, it all started with the fact that on new year's eve i had three masks. i hung them, so on carnations. so they danced from above, there are neighbors. yes, they jumped off and crashed. it was the first, uh, call. yeah uh hmm that pushed me to the name of the band. yes, and the second is that we bought alcohol when gorbachev's law was dry. yes, it means that from two yes, a glass kiosk was printed, it was completely sealed. uh, all kinds of newspapers. and from there, some kind of hand pulled out all the time, like a bottle, we will be young, of course, and we dreamed

of creating. as a group, we bought a bottle of port wine, went around the corner of this kiosk, and i remember that right here is the whole display case. she was completely sealed. with these brands i can here i can what i can to say, and what are we, then we just didn’t come up with. what is the name of our group? how is it not necessary to go there, what to think? i can sudan and that 's all, probably, we stopped there. that's all. story. just yes andrey give the case manga mango why do you love this fruit? no, i got poisoned with socomango here, i picked up a vietnamese one, probably , they made a jar from american tanks, it was very difficult for my dad to open it, so he complained about it very much and now they poisoned me so much. maybe that's why although the name mango fruit has nothing to do with mengu man. move repeated double amplifies the meaning. but it was only later . in fact, there was such a saxophonist, mother debango, cameroonian or

senegalese. i don't remember exactly, i really liked his music. it was so figurative there, as if there were elephants rushing the message, but the saxophonist is excellent in the style of the founder of the makkos style, and i really wanted the name to be associated with this, with this saxophonist, and therefore i called the mango, and the komsomolets who registered, then it is necessary was to register. he asked manga i i say mango mango, he says mango mango. a member of the komsomol helped us because of a deaf member of the komsomol, it's cool, but you were always drawn to africa. as far as i remember you, you have some kind of knitted ones there. take it all always colorful. yes, i performed in some such bright scales, right. well, it's a friedic complex that's more convenient for me. i liked dark girls. i have a mulatto wife. yeah, that's all, as

if everything came from this, but at the same time , colorful berets and kilts have already performed so far. oh, with someone not, still not performing with someone. we were such interesting stories, generally incredible. we once changed clothes on the bus, and when we were driving in murmansk on the road and decided to make a happening. that is, well, to entertain the people with their appearance jumped out in kilts. in these , bearded men in scottish skirts are on the roads, which means they are jumping out onto the road. it starts to slow down on the murmansk road where monchegorsk starts to slow down the cars practically blocking the road, and the cars on the side of the road ran away from us. you imagine a man comes home. e in monchegorsk says to his wife, can you imagine i was driving today, that braveheart, yes, and then the scots with beards jump out, say skilldah and try to stop me. i said, i barely escaped with these . but she could call an ambulance for him,

she probably called. your wife adequately perceived your here these all sorts of kooky jokes. well, she was just a little bit phlegmatic. you see, my daughter, at first she sang in the group of my grandmother's red banner division. and now i have my own group. that 's the name of the daughter. daughter needs to be heard. and how much now there are now 30 years old group daughter must be listened to, it will be necessary, the main thing is not to forget. listen, where did you meet your smile after the concert. i saw her before our concert and invited her to the concert. she stood for tickets, they couldn’t buy tickets then, damn it, it’s hard to buy, and i invited her to the concert, took her and agreed to meet after the concert. and after the concerts , all the musicians are flowers that the rockers

left just in the thigh and i have a whole bucket. i asked to take a whole bucket of flowers. i left after the concert. i was watching someone there is nothing. i see someone touching my shoulder. turn around. she sprinkled all four of them on me. she says, i immediately understand that horrible. it was for her that you decided to cook falafel on march 8th. how do you know this story? you told me yourself. well, yes, yes, i was preparing for the eighth, but it didn’t work out. yes, what is it? this was a wonderful story. can i retell it as i remember it, because i remember until now, it is chic precisely by the sequence of phrases. andrey decided to please his wife with falafel on march 8 became i went early to buy it, then i came to the kitchen. he heated the frying pan and began to fry it around the apartment. the smell has gone. then he approached zhenya and began to wake her up and said, wake up, dear, i bought you falafel. she opens her eyes and says, thank you dear. what is it that

smells so disgusting? you haven't broken up together yet, but these are my quirks, everything is clear quirks. when at some point it went off scale, it went off scale with the fool going off scale so much. so far about this unfortunately, but this is not the case. here is the fool does not apply to my new wife, as it were, yes, friends, let's take care of what we have and try to save valera, what about your personal front? i'm fine. so to say, a measured e family life, and besides the fact that my wife is engaged, she took the reins of the team in her own hands, and in general, she helps me in every way there. here is the progress of the team. and how is it in general? here's a measured life you say, well, that's it, it's measured, how is it in general with rock? in general, you had some kind of rock that was so rebellious a little.

i would say, by the way, this song, it is yesenin's poetry, it does not give an idea of ​​​​your work as a whole. yes, including the case. yes, here it is. somehow i managed to write a melody here. but, apparently, this is due to the fact that if i had written a text to this melody, which i would sing. that's how, as the main theme, yes, that's on our team. i don't think she would be like that. here's how the situation worked out so well. yes, and in principle, many. yes, i can say, even 100% believes that this is a business card, let's say ours. well, of course, i know, yes, that, for example, our target audience is our army. yes, they just know her more, because the clip somehow shot. all this, well, i can only say that i'm happy with what i have. it accepts something new, in general, in your performance, they expect something new from

you, or yet you always want to constantly have such a topic that we are trying, but to make such inclusions from songs that either we haven’t played for a very long time, yes, either we rehearsed or we never played at all some song, that is, we prepare it and from time to time. we insert these things into the program, because the material has been recorded a lot of songs, all of our favorites and we have prepared programs that have been tested for a long time, and we know that some deviations from this program will be allowed. they will simply lead to the fact that we will pay off the loss, we will not lose the hall. we will simply extinguish the energy of the hall. our task. what our task is for a person to come and leave satisfied, rumpled, so to speak, doused with beer. as they say after talking about in this slime, you know, as they say, so that he comes and writes in our networks that, like , the concert was fire. here is our task. what is the task as a performer? here, but to deal with the fact that let's say so, guys, stop.

now we will perform a new song for you. i know for sure that everyone will stand up and listen and will be there already at the third verse shouting. yes, tie it up, come on, wow. come on, this. let's. well, it's known. and you, as well as each show is clearly structured or not. yes, it is not only built built and we love it very much. we have a very big desire for everyone to sing, so that t1 would not just sing, but that there would be some songs with you. in general, i don’t sing, and i’m just starting out straight and everyone continues. it's just giving in, throwing coal on the fire. so especially hot these, they take offense, people. they want you to drink, not them, and so that you fly from a bullet there from a bullet, it turns out massively and everyone likes it, because after that i announce to everyone that everything is now mango-mango, because now everyone is taking pictures, like how do i just take pictures with mango-mango.

and now everything is mango-manga, as if you see all one group, yes, cunning cunning is still in one of the languages ​​manga manga in free languages ​​means cunning. and what is your favorite song? well, certainly not a pulene, certainly not astronauts, yes, and the most beloved is now now now now, and the gel-gelm is a good song gulkalin, by the way, a very good song, but the most beloved signal. because i find out there, i had such a period. i was very fond of stringers, and i recognize stringlers there, because there are these here are their revolutions and their sounds, purely by chance. they appeared there either because you love them, but in this alignment. this is not plagiarism, this is an equation, but foreign samples are better. as they said to the soyuz studio, in other words, you can call inspiration, maybe this one spirals , maybe it’s generally considered that if a song is similar to something, if you

perform songs for the first time or show the musicians to the director, and he says that- then it reminds me of everything hit. yes, yes, everything, it was possible not, well, we’re not so arrogant like that no, no, no, but that’s all equals. and there are already happening such precedents as mine. there was a song about chromosomes, but one to one. all of a sudden i'm standing and spinning this song in my head in murmansk and then it sounds on the radio and some singer will perform. i think everything is a bummer, such a topic is chromosome genetics, there and so on, and that's it. no, they stole it. yes, i didn’t want to fight for the song. yes listen to a song about space such astronauts do not take, the newer on and. you must have some kind of crazy in your head always building a story before you write the next property, because

they are all crazy in their own way. yes, cocoa was a photograph when a person flies, and he is somehow wrong. he flies into the water from the diving board and somehow angles. and why is it bad to land at the corner now? i say not the topic hit the water, but the guitarists are behind the fool and it turned out not the topic, hit. here's the fool. it has also become a proverb. uh, the director of the video, which is his wife asks him what is so sad, he didn’t hit you. well, fool and, uh, it didn’t appear in such ones, astronauts and so on and so forth asked a lot, in the end ends. we came to the conclusion that this is exactly the song of the cosmonaut if you were asked for this song in the film challenge, which has just been released and it is entirely filmed in space. there julia overcame the title role. i would gladly give it away. and i would like to shoot a clip in space, i was not afraid. or if you were told, it would be the third

shooting experience, by the way. the first one is just the film the challenge they forgot the camera , the guys from the mind group took advantage of this, the brake, they shot a clip for themselves there, you wouldn’t be afraid to fly into space, really go through this training, how julia moved in with her guys and just, well, given that now, of course, all this is about safety, but there is always a risk of hypothermia sealing. and what will they forget about you there, like a camera? have you forgotten about gordeev, come back? yes, damn it, the earth is already okay, then we flew once we live once we live and such an event as space. we had a similar story. we were filming, uh, on a buron, which is now standing in gorky park, which could land and fly again. yes, yes, yes, and we filmed there. we accepted this position. so somehow they lay down sideways with a batiste and it turned out as if we were hanging e in weightlessness. and here we are in the newspaper. here we are showing this to the newspaper, and one there by

mistake. and where is this, yes, we flew in space, we paid the bourgeoisie for us to fly into space. i mean, they flew into space and sang some russian cosmonauts there. this is a podcast 20 years later, mongol shuudan and mango-mango are my guests. i am the presenter konstantin mikhailov , all episodes of the paws podcast, including 20 years later, you can see on the site of the first channel. and what are you saying that you have become calmer family there, that's all he is , what are you like with your words? eh, how tranquility and rock music - this can generally be combined, or this, how a genius villainized, how guns and muse are antonyms. i didn't say i calmed down. i said i'm at home. uh, so, among this roar and decibels. yes, i come home, and at home. my music is not playing. she is quiet in my house. you see, my whole life is the roar of guitars, yes, and other attributes, which, for example, refers to rock music. here and of course hmm at home. to me

i just want to relax, like an ordinary person andrey, how are you? it is impossible to remain constantly in the same state in the musical, especially since mango-manga is a little inadequate on stage. this is a bit inadequate, let's say. so state. yes, in general, mentally , even we all are a little bit manga manga andrey, i will calm you down. i am a person who likes to be a little. why do we often invite her to visit her on new year's eve, because sometimes you want to unload. sometimes. i want to be a little crazy, but to be crazy all the time all the time, and to create absurdity, absurdity you will come in fine as uh evening. for some absolutely e brutal banquet, and for a chic children's matinee. yes, yes, absolutely right, because children like it too. children like absurdity, because

he was rude and wrote for children, including children wrote for children. this is very understandable for them , this is natural. although kharms, a children's writer, once said. children say that they are innocent, maybe they and innocent souls are painfully disgusting, especially when they sing or dance, i always leave from there to from there, where the children are here danil hans yes, yes, yes, but nonetheless. he understood children well. they understood it very well, yes, and we didn’t have my parents in childhood - i read at night. well, i don’t know, is it really that the grandmother has two funny ones, and the kaspershnik smokes tobacco brought two dogs under the armpit. he went to hell, that is, he didn’t go, he jumped into the fence. yes, and i was very real about it. it was very real very organic for me. here, therefore , these have not been in the work for a very long time. at home few have to behave. okay, take it easy. yes? well the house is

pretending to think adequately. years later, what compositions do the audience primarily demand at concerts, except for moscow, except for bullets, besides cosmonauts. are there any other such outright bright ones? i'm not asking you to sing a potpourri, but at least by the names we have on each album on the new one. yes, there are a couple of, directly these are just how to say. hmm don't even know to call it hits. this is probably a big word, but just the compositions, well, which are necessary. to our people who go to we called our hits at our concerts before the word hits hit, but you can’t say it with a heavy one either, well, that’s not such a question, it’s not at a standstill, because i don’t even remember what we called these songs. well, that's all the songs and the song, well, yes, that's the fact

is that then not at home on television , other songs were not missed by others. well , let's say powerful, well, that is , of course, of course, yes, that is, it wasn't, for example, uh, it didn't cover creativity, let's say. here are the same zemlya yes, they put on two songs and that's it, and we knew them simply from these two songs. and you you can roughly understand, here is the period that is required from the moment the album is released until the moment when these two songs begin to want in the hall. how much is required for what they tried once or 3 years, like this, yes, the formula here is the mongolosuda mango, your opinion is a year, maybe a year passes. they still ask, too, well , they ask the old ones, but also the new one. for example, walking even somewhere surprises a wheelbarrow asks for a tarantula. here he asks for a wheelbarrow no wheelbarrow. yes, a wheelbarrow is a very interesting song, it compares a girl with a car, so that new

business-wise, in order to have a running headlight , a bright bumper, elastic, as it should be better than a friend, and so on, he also said the gearshift knob, so that it was good. that's when i asked what's, like, your favorite song. valera suggested which one, that is, are you aware of vanga mango's work and vice versa, does mango-mango listen to mongol that dan or not? we are somewhere around the same period. well, they started early. yes but many crossed paths at the festival a lot, of course yes friend, we know well. yes, i can tell e to reveal a little, uh, secret. yes that we played together with andrey on april 1 , 1989 for the first time in front of the public, our group so from that moment we began to consider this the birthday of our team. yeah april 1st 1989. and it was together. here uh with a group of manga manga well we are also april 1st.

we played on the arbat for the first time on april 1, and the petting galkulyab that valer suggested is our symbol, this abriutism itself is khamsism in its purest form. raja was a dog. he gave her a gyulkulu, mo sabbatta began to cry , she didn’t want to, dogs don’t like it. ugh and so on. yes, by the way, i now realized that this unites your teams, because the music is completely different, absolutely polar opposite. but here it is, and it is a translation. yes, it suits you, and it suits you. we have already passed the age when, uh, i remember there used to be youthful maximalism. there he is there they are playing some other music there, like, well, this, let's say there. like bullshit, yes, let's say that, as if with time, for example, seriously musicians, he begins to understand that, uh, that is the path to success. yes any group. he goes there, of course. some specific vector, yes, on the rise. that's when a person does not give up and,

let's say, keeps his way. in general, in principle, he causes some kind of certain respect. yes, for example, i have yes, i think that he is, respectively , for example, the fact that we play in different, uh, directions completely yes , in different ways, this in no way prevents us, let's say we communicate there or make friends somehow and so on . yes, therefore, in general, i remember seeing the times when it was, yes, that is, deep hatred of the genre. no, that is, it turns out. yes, there was especially hatred throughout people who work in the same genre as you and a worse group. but then yes, this is a rivalry on stage , either you will be invited or hmm, there you are. there were such collectives, they are these collectives here, and therefore i know that i did not cause hatred, but if they heard the word mango-mango, they turned green, how is the work on one material, how productive is it going. even

sometimes. it's just that the director is filtering all my attempts, because uh sometimes. he urges me not to shut up the fountain. no, the fountain is coming, the fountain is coming recently, one song about divaning will take, yes, there is a new denunciation of divanevaling for a long time , a sport couch design armchair and bedding. it is sold about all these sports very exciting. here is a very interesting idea. this is our favorite sport. yes, now a song about a woman is ripening . attention to men, respect for men will be understanding and disposition with psychologists. class, that is , on the topic of the day , the guys continue to create chic, received a charge of vivacity of energy, communicating with you, as always, and despite the fact that da valera also became a decent one, but nevertheless, a rocker spirit, this energy is still rushing from him from the stage, and yes

, i watched a lot of your performances, it’s fresh, very cool. right so. maybe even you began to sing better than before, maybe i just expected that now, well, it will creak, probably like an old man. nothing, as if the voice had woken up. you even come up with some other new ones, they shot me, there i am far from old age, yes, and you too. to me it seems that the wind is still blowing in the right places there. uh, good wind, right wind. let's listen. well, what everyone probably wants to listen to manga manga astronauts with pleasure. thanks guys. i check, readiness, starting the countdown 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 3

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the sun and home. astronauts do not take astronauts. hello this is a podcast of the psyche and we continue to sort through the bones , molecules, atoms, human destinies

to look for the right development strategy. well, or just trying to figure out how to live, happily my co-host clinical psychologist mikhail horst, candidate of psychological sciences, is a real master of this art, but our today's heroine came to us with a problem that is like. i think it will resonate in the hearts of many girls and men too. alena does not know how to part with her beloved alena does not know how to throw out a traumatic painful attitude from her heart, and with this she came to us. hello alyona, hello, well , tell your story. you don’t know how to part with any lovers at all, or some one of you is so hurt that you can’t get this one out . the first was my husband, with whom we broke up 7 years ago. i had very difficult breakups, and i could not forget him for three years. hmm, i still have him left three children hmm and literally a little

over seven months ago. we also parted as a young man, but having met for more than a year. until now i can not forget, although they say time heals in general, to be honest, i can hardly imagine how you can forget. e is the person from whom you have three children. well, it's simple, well, impossible. if you're raising these three children, you're raising these boys. e girls you are boys, and three boys you surely see in their views the movement of plasticity, facial expressions. you see the father. yes well, usually, by the word forget, they mean not to suffer, not to think constantly. that is what you want to forget and just cross out this part of our life appears. i'm starting to think about this man. what do you start to think about this person? i just want before michael about you, so to speak, to heal or show you the strategy for your way out of the situation. i just want to understand at this worldly level what is happening to you. well, that is, you cry crying. i think that's not how it starts with me

dig into yourself. yeah now, why is something wrong with you? i don't know, it was always good for everyone. hmm. i tried to be good for them , uh, i made a lot of concessions. and you can give an example, what does it mean that i tried to be good, i made concessions so typical when i lived as a spouse. i know that he comes late at night. uh, all household chores. i took over. but accordingly, i was then on maternity leave, no matter how tired i was with three children. i cooked him a hot dinner. he ate and went to bed. thank you i wanted to say thank you sometimes she did, sometimes she didn't. there, too, he sometimes didn’t even eat his own, because he says, i don’t want to, i think, well, here, i stood for three hours, i wanted to please you. and then, when well went to bed, i don’t ask how it all happened, how i bathed the children, put them to bed and then cleaned the dishes at the table, collected toys, everything came home to spend the night to spend the night clean. yes, he got away from you, right?

how is he? well, he had some version, well , he met a smart young handsome everything, and he was a different woman and as he told you about it, not like he said. i saw just a correspondence, and when already so ​​a. well, seeing his correspondence. i showed you what he says, well, yes there is. and what am i saying , like something we have a family, we have children together, he says, well, it's okay and let's say, we'll probably part with you and that's it. so everything happened in general, that is, everything suits, until i found out, it packed my things and left. no, he didn't pack. he asked me to leave him with the children, because we lived in his apartment. so he said, well, on that one moment, i was still pregnant with my third child at the seventh month. he says, come on with your container from my hut with your container. yes, yes, in your common children, yes, then we discussed it for a very long time, because the girl with whom she began to live. she couldn't have children and she proposed to him. let them take the class with you. that's because a little a little less. i have three of them. the weather. hmm, it's fine . and that's it. five-year-olds

were sued there, well, everything, it was also difficult. well, uh, since i already went to work. all fine. i didn't have a miracle. he did not repent. sorry for now, that will not be wrong. now, when you began to talk about the first husband of the father of your children, you cried bitterly to you. i see that it hurts you. it hurts what exactly? what hurts where? and it hurts that i could not save my family. it turns out that i have children without a father. i agree, it hurts. it's lunchtime now . after a while. they tell me, mom, we don't want to see dad. i also say, let's go to dad's for the weekend. he invites you. no, we say we don't want to, and it turns out for me too counterweight. he says that i'm setting them against it. i say, well, you can talk to them on the phone yourself. he says, no, it's all your diction. i say, i don't mind , and vice versa, that children boys communicate with dad. they don't want to see it all. it was all with them, despite the fact that they were small, and that is, you mourn

your unfulfilled dreams of women, and a strong family in which there are father and mother three children. you educate together. how many years have passed since you, uh, broke up 7 years. can i now the second story here was a little different. well, something even similar, i met with a young man. you seemed to me everything was wonderful. i'm probably just used to being the man of my life. i turn them, probably into children, i begin to patronize care take care to apply some kind of entertainment. and here there was a similar situation. the rest was at my expense. uh , i also bought groceries in the store. and it immediately became so that you became such a mommy, moreover, mommy is a sponsor or, after all, right away, that is, and then we have the opposite, no, i tell him. listen, why do i always pay for groceries at the checkout. he is such a. well, it's your own fault. you quickly take out the card. class here. how do you choose them? tell me what are the criteria? well, that is, what you liked about them both, that

you decided to enter into a relationship with them. i like, probably, external data. i love tall big men, how did that relationship end. he was very jealous and even woke up at night. he was looking at my phone all the time. i look so human. no, where he got away, i go out to the kitchen. and my phone is on charge, and he is trying to find something there. i say that it was his initiative on his initiative, yes, as it was, there was also a terrible jealousy of us a common friend with our company, when we were waiting, well, to communicate, he was jealous of him, although that friend met with my girlfriend. how did he tell you that you were breaking up? and he said so, he says, i'm done, i can't stand you anymore. i'm already tired of everything. well, there were some. well, they'll say you can't stand it. he is morally, yes, and you say then tried to turn. i tried to come back tried to communicate. with psychologists, she tried something for sex. i had two psychologists. yeah, and it was very amazing when one girl told me, she says, you

need to try to save the family. do whatever you can to stop it. yes, if a psychologist commands his glue- clients to patients, this is a toxic psychologist from such a psychologist, dear viewers, you need to run. well, i didn’t, by the way, the psychologist is not about what to do, right? and about what can be done and then several options, because that often the client does not see any options, they can offer him to see from the outside, or about what to understand, and what prevents a person from doing something? yes, even if he sees some options for him, there may be some internal barriers, fears, irrational beliefs, and so on, it’s good, but what’s the second to you? and the second one told me, on the contrary, leave your spouse to gnaw the earth and try not to get along with him, so that it doesn’t happen. well, yes, i stayed later as self-defense took itself by the hair. and he that, but i attempted to return. we tried twice when he broke up with

his previous girlfriend. well, they got it every time. uh, my children and i went to him, and she grabbed literally for a week . again, some correspondence of his messages calls me nothing at home. well, then you can understand, since they were thrown like that from there from here. yes, well, well, we have already understood that here the question is not to forget and not to be thrown out of our hearts, yes, but in order to stop worrying about it, the second thing that we have already understood. it is that the experience here is not for men. a you yourself, that is, this is a manifestation of such selfishness, but in fact, in no case should you be ashamed of this. i immersed myself in my hobby, painting and making jewelry, of course i know that you have made great strides. yes i have after you have prestigious awards of this. here is something to give you. yes, but here it is important to consider. and yourself as a metaphor, or what?

yes, like some kind of vessel with energy with a resource, and you can pour a resource into this vessel, this is what you do, creativity is some kind of achievement there, yes, here are behavioral ones changes. and you can close the holes in the day in this vessel, that is, stop losing your personality resource. yes, but these holes are our negative emotions, and uh, most people do not know what is the reason for their negative emotions, because you ask a person. why are you worried? and the person will answer. i worry. i mourn because i couldn't save my family, right? yes, that is , here, here, what answer we hear is the reason for my experiences in those circumstances that i can no longer change. here they are already there are external circumstances. actually. this is not the reason for experiencing negative ones. well, in 95% of cases, if we choose 5% biochemistry, this is an assessment of the circumstances that we are or were once, and accordingly, our

work with you is to see what kind of assessments you painful to wear. you see, estimates change. this is a podcast of the psyche, and today we are discussing the story of alena, who is not able to part with her beloved mikhail khors, a clinical psychologist. me da psychological science is looking for the right way exit. please tell me the name of the person. which, well, will use in a glass, he becomes well calmly. and when he has nothing to use, he starts thinking about it all the time somehow. yes, if he occupies himself with something, he seems to let him go, but suddenly he has a free minute, and he somehow begins to suffer without a glass, as this person is called alcohol addiction, he has alcohol addiction, so if a person is dependent on something or on someone he has suffering without this object, that

is, the pleasure of interacting with man. this is not a sign of addiction. but suffering without any object. this is just a sign of dependence, it happens not only from chemicals , but also from other people, too, so here is your suffering from a classic case, the so-called emotional dependence on other people. because of what we experience suffering here, and because of the fact that we give any object a certain redundant status, that i have set up a lock enough for myself. yes and so, the more we have this idealistic status. how more we believe in it, as in what it really is. the more painful we are without this object, but we feel ourselves, well, for example, imagine a man walking with his handkerchief . he wiped his nose there once he put it past his pocket and lost the nose fee. in what case will he suffer without this handkerchief? when the runny nose appears again, yes, he

will replace it with a paper napkin or something else. that's it. ah, i lost a sip. which is always in your pocket. if this handkerchief, well, for example, was given to him as a child, he came out grandmother, and grandmother shawl - this was given to grandfather, and grandfather, when he rode on a combat horse, we bleed, there are family relationships. here is a hanger, where is my nursery, look, if it is on the rink itself, a certain status is given, then we suffer without this and without this rag. so sometimes this status really corresponds to reality. but imagine really lost such a handkerchief. well, what kind of person comes to his mother and says, mother, i have lost this scarf, can you imagine what a bastard i have not preserved the family religion. and to him they say, well, you don’t think that we gave it to you to wipe your nose. here she is, under glass in a safe. and we gave you a fake fake handkerchief similar, but

he will not suffer like that. of course not, there are no metaphors of michael khors now. now it is important for you to understand what, uh, is yours. uh, the beliefs associated with these people. this is actually a fake, that is, a mistake. lies, you have deceived yourself. yes, usually people who agree to have relationships only with ideal people . i'm so perfect and close not perfect with me. it just can't be. he they go she what is it? i need the perfect one to be around. yes, that is, it is actually overpriced, and your attitude towards yourself. yes, i always raise the bar myself, i reach it, then even higher , yes, yes, wait, wait, but i didn’t hear at all that she was looking for some kind of ideal. here.