why he does this is heard by others, well , depending, of course, on how skillfully he can interpret. so someone hears what is still completely silent, which means someone is sending a drawing of the role for whom. yeah , he hears it directly, but who is sending it. but i don’t know from there. maybe the channel is closed, but how to open it? it depends on myself; at one time i was lucky that i was born in the rural union , we had free education. when i was in italy they asked me, if you were born in italy, would you sing? i said unlikely, because that i didn’t have money to do vocals, but here i was lucky. i studied here as much as i wanted, whenever i wanted, well, thank god that i had such a teacher, such a mentor, like on jamur, basin, what is the name of your first teacher or shagolevna? murtagh

yes and she is alive, yes. yes, there is health for a thousand years of health, this is the kind of boy walking around, but she believes that no matter who came to her in class, she has done her job before humanity. yes, she did grozakova, didn’t she? or at least didn’t trample his talent, no no. well, why didn’t you trample, she controlled me very much, at first she directly said, what parts to sing? what not to sing, what fit here neatly here. here think about it about that, and the style and so on, and and she really me so. eh, let’s say it moved along the rails carefully, so that i wouldn’t lose my speech, so that i could sing my repertoire, so as not to harm the local apparatus. this is very important at 16:00. yes, at 16, well, at 16:00 i just started passing the first sounds, huh? ah, well, let's say at 18:19. yes , even then there were competitions and so on concerts and i met irina and arkhipova, who invited me to her concerts

, can you imagine, what is it? you run an exemplary academy, st. petersburg, yes, yes, how does such a degree of glory not affect a person? do you know? why is there no valor to preserve a virtue that no one encroaches on. and if i’m a second goat with beards to you, the way is here, but if it’s already 30 years, you can’t take a step without the fact that you’re an eldarach, you’re the most talented i’ve ever seen, seen and will see, you know and stay that way a person of light, like elena vasilyevna and like dimulya, our eternal friend and good memory. i ’m just saying a few words now, of course, well, amazing, dear friends, what is this? what kind of duet was it when these two people stood on the stage, this one a brunette, and that one a gray-haired blonde, as they sang? maybe

i’ll remember something or he uh, we really don’t have these notes, but we sang and the bullfighters sang, and we drank. we are a duet from don carlos philip and rodrigo and we sang a duet, in general we sang a lot of concerts together, but, unfortunately, to unfortunately, we didn’t sing a single opera with him. well, anyway, dear friends, it’s actually customary, of course, to drag the blanket over yourself and throw it on yourself. eh, as far as i know, broken glass is a rival of the last bolshoi theater. i think it used to be like this, well, they closed it before. dimka could be just as jealous of you. no, why not? i’ll never forget the words, what does dima have to do with it? i didn’t know, i somehow looked at the transmission. and where dima talks about me, and then he said that today we had a concert and today they came to dmitry hvorostovsky, and will leave with the name eldar

abdrazakova well, how can he not such a person who says so cannot do something in a row. you understand well, well , i must say that we, for example, uh, met with this wonderful creative group. i think, for example, at a charity concert there in ufa, my dear, and i must say that you and dima did a lot to help those who were not so kissed by the lord from birth. how would you be fair too? at least you could get something else, it’s also extremely important, your attitude towards your region, the city of the nation, you know, usually when a person, um, achieves success, he is reluctant. floats in what city was he born? if this, of course, is not st. petersburg or this is not milan because if you keep saying that this is from ufa

, then you will know this. eh, this is a finnish fight, when i say that i am from ufa, they don’t ask. yes where is it? and yes, i start showing on the map where it is, and then i say that spivakov vladimir dodovich was not born in this city, but grew up rudolf began his career in this city fedorova yes, this is what they were born in kazan. and in ufa he began to sing as a soloist, oh, yes, yes, unfortunately, this theater burned down, to which he drank. well, that’s where his career began, and it’s not for nothing that everyone is so proud of you. this is natural. by the way, this is the pride of our fellow countrymen, this is a comrade, by the way, an eternal source of energy. that's why you

go to ufa all the time. well, of course, but i have relatives there, my mother is there, i have friends there, but you can do something national bashkir. but the couplet is a pentatonic scale, it’s it sounds very interesting to the russian ear. be healthy, how is there such a bashkir folk song called azamat one verse?

in short it sounds like this, but it looks like bashkir tatar songs. they are somewhere, it seems even and in our family we always sang tatar songs and bashkir songs. and uh, that means there are a lot of tatars living in ufa. so there are a lot of uh, mixed and uh families. that's why i grew up listening to these tunes. i try to perform them in a classical voice as i would like, how it sounds, how it is sounds among professionals who always sing folk songs. there are a lot of these colors there. and it comes from the voice of a choreographer, but from spiritual singing you

will hear it even from the mosque. be healthy. what interesting vocals. eh, these decorations here, maybe from here. apparently, by the way, i didn’t ask myself this question, probably, well, it’s hard to catch it. but another interesting thing my comrades do is that the parents are not musicians. no. here's a very important point: parents are not musicians. our mother is an artist. and mom artist. yes, what are we talking about? i thought she worked in the accounting department at the ufa meat processing plant. no, comrades, my mother is an artist, but my father was, first of all, he was dramatic. he then became a television announcer. wow, you are the first on bashkir television to have a voice from him. i think that voice and i am a mother. yes, because our mother sang too. they just

forbade my mother, father, her father, my grandfather to go to study. and so she didn’t do it, when the time came to ban her. so apparently all this was passed on to me brother about this brother, my singer oscar abdrazakov is an opera singer, where he sings everywhere, well, now he sings, uh, both in ufa and in the mari theater, and there is jealousy towards you on the part of your brother. i think you should ask him, it should go equally. how mom's love remained. why do you understand this? ildar is in vienna and is having dinner in eda york. and he is singing in ufa. let’s let this question go. still. let's skip eating after all. yes well , you do. ask him. i rejoice at his success. he is also the director and also presents the production. if this is the ussr

this is no one for your language. my topic is the ussr, i ’ll tell you next, it was supposed to be said like that, who are you? well, i'm a singer. who do you work for? yes? yes, yes, yes, in the evenings i’m a singer, but during the day you’re like a well-known story. you know what it is in general, yes, there ’s something coming into the entrance, we go in, it means it’s going up towards the apartment and two men are standing there. he says you will be third. well, let's go a little bit. well, that means you were okay, they tell him. who are you talking about? well, i'm a composer. okay, you don't want to not talk. so i need to tell you that at some point i have to come when you say to yourself, i am a musician, meaning, i will not earn my living as a mechanic or a machinist. although i dreamed of being a machinist, well, not a machinist, but to be

a driver of a big one, and you know some kind of truck, such a car that shines. so you're traveling around russia and eating. songs. that's what i dreamed. and here, and this is what i dreamed about in childhood, when i was four, three or four years old, and you sang in the children’s choir while the music was not breaking at school , there was a voice and a voice there was a connection it's clear. yes, that is, i had their choir, i also had solfeggio. i had both musical literature and piano. i learned to play. well, why didn’t you go somewhere at one time, i was a little bored. well, yes i had. energy that i was bored of sitting and unlearning. eh, various etudes by czerny and bach in general, i gave up on this. so i went to high school, which made it seem like i had more time. i dedicated. eh, this is the time for friends, sports and other various interesting

events. if, of course, you remember our conversation with dima hvorostovsky, but i told him i say, a diploma. maybe i drank it, like, well, i didn’t try it all and sang it, where did you get this opera from? suddenly it appeared because you are telling. and also sports. yes, it smelled, there, uh, the group and nirvana group black shapass, what is all this to us igor what is this and who is this konchak, you know? it is truth too. apparently i didn’t see this prospect as something i didn’t intend to do at all. well, to be an opera singer. okay, i came to study. to hmm then go to the philharmonic, and to sing songs i don’t know magomayev from the repertoire. yes there is joseph kobzon well, that’s something soviet , that’s ibragimov so i don’t know how his nation loved him and they’re tatar, they’re bashkir. i didn’t

think that i would be at the mariinsky theater, much less caressed or metropolitan, i never thought. how did your mother let you go? well , how can you not let go, if a person, if he has a son, especially if his son is promising and everyone says that maybe your teacher? and that name you remembered today with such gratitude meant working not only with you, but also with your mother, too, maybe she told her to listen to her, he seems to be a genius, well, i don’t think she said that he is a genius, but because we never know when it all might end , the voice is such a fragile apparatus that many people have many of my colleagues. how many times have i seen such singers who started with me and then stopped. it's not just singing anymore. you left the sang. this is even more work. mental. here you need to be healthy, namely mentally

healthy. that is, you know, you go out in front of there are three or four thousand people with you, right? the orchestra is behind the choir, well, everyone is looking at you and everyone is expecting from you. and this always needs to be nourished. it’s always necessary to give away all the accumulated energy, that ’s the point of giving, that’s why you need to take it from someone, that’s why you need to rest sometimes. listen, we are forcing you here with your such an expensive device, understand? then, it would be better if we ask you to give us the opportunity to enjoy the nuances. here's something else . give me the gold.

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only i would, of course, wish you to achieve something else. although it turns out, well , what else is there for some role that you would dream of. and i haven’t yet. or maybe it hasn’t even been written yet. maybe there is no limit to perfection, we will improve. there is still a lot to work on. the main thing is for the soul to sing, and when the soul sings. well, god forbid, what about your soul as a poet? i know that your incredible beauty and wife will continue to have the same happy a face like she always has when we see

each other at family events and new creative successes. thank you very much for coming. thank you. all the best, dear friends. thank you for your attention until next time. school is a stress for parents and children, how to actually cope, how to properly adapt children to first grade? well, mom, too, to all classes at once , our today’s expert knows what we are talking about, he is the father of your children, he is a family psychologist, doctor of science. andrey berovsky. hello. hello andrey. hello anastasia congratulations on the start of the school year. thanks a lot. i understand that this is not your first experience as a parent.

sending you to school for the first time. yes, that’s right, i have two children and my eldest daughter is already in sixth grade, so first grade. i've already passed. i already have some experience in this matter, and this year, this year, and this year my youngest daughter is going to first grade. she is 7 years old. and in general, in fact, i came to you on the program precisely in order to possibly get some tips. yes, how? live through this experience again, because as i understand it, it will be a little different, based on what kind of younger daughter they are because they are very different from the older one, and the younger one is very emotional. she takes everything to heart and sometimes even, if we were at some birthdays, for example, when emotions are overwhelming. yes, even if these are positive emotions, and in the evening, and very often this happens to her, what she needs. here, uh, what filled it up during the day, and loading and this hmm usually happens in the form some kind of hysterics, and, well, absolutely out of

the blue. and actually hmm, because when a child goes to school, his life completely changes. yes, that is, a certain routine appears, and the load on the child is great, emotional, mental , including, yes, and, in addition, my children also do additional sports, such as sports acrobatics. that is, this load will also be in the evening. yes, our work is different, so hmm well, how can you make sure that the child is your youngest girl? no, it's the eldest, that's when she went to first grade, that’s when the photo was taken, and this is the younger one, the girls are already cool, they’re doing sports acrobatics, and what are you worried about, but i’m generally worried about it. these are the possible evening hysterics. that is, their probability. yes, uh, how balanced she will be. yes, how much it will be. her calm emotional background worries me very much. well, actually mine too , because, well, the burden is heavy on the parents,

too, yes, even despite the fact that for example, i have an eldest daughter. she's already in sixth grade, though. i still supervise some lessons. yes, there is something to send from some parent chats and to her for some information yes, which she cannot receive from other sources, except for what i control. well, because i’m involved in raising children, and besides, i also have a job. yes appeared from this year in connection with the newly revealed marital status. yes, we can get a divorce, that is, the child has additional stress, well, stress. yes, well, i think that today our psychologist will have something to talk to you about for me to listen to, but first i wanted to ask this question andrey and that’s why the beginning of the school year generally looks like school, this is such a radical measure, such a radical turnaround is simply 180°. that is, the child lives his normal human life. yes, he gets up, plays later and goes around to some

circles. and suddenly it means that the guillotine is rushing on september 1 of the first grade, everything turns over into a uniform, put on a briefcase , and collect my teeth for school by eight. cleaned on on the way, without waking up, the lessons were brought by the parent chat. and that’s it, this is a bunch of wishes from their leaders, rulers, etc. and that we can’t gradually take our children to school, but why are we putting this emotional meat grinder on ourselves for our parents and children? why can’t we do it gradually? well, look, this is stress, which undoubtedly occurs; it is due to the fact that the child is a preschooler and has a limited set of social contacts. she has a teacher and a nanny. well one or two the group of people is small, which means the child is still isolated. he does not communicate with children from another group. actually, not by other dionic

educators, that is, the child is in such a kind of soap bubble. yes, in such protective contacts there is, as it were, less stress. he gets less, so when a child goes to school, there are a dozen teachers there at once. as a matter of fact, even if in an elementary school, it’s still as if there is a fizruk there, in fact, there is a substitute teacher who i have to get sick, the teacher, in fact, there are just other teachers who make comments to the child. and there are children who correct the class. yes, from the older age and even now, although we reduce conflict and, accordingly, stress by highlighting primary school. this is already a separate progress that has happened over the past 20 years, as it were, when we removed first-graders from communicating with eleventh-graders there or ninth-graders, let’s say, this is already the removal of a certain stress there from the negative impact the child there, well, doesn’t see for a long time, at least there are children smoking there or drinking around the corner from the school. yes, unfortunately, this happens in reality there. therefore, uh, a certain minimization of risk occurs, but the number of uncontrollable social contacts becomes greater. uh, changes in the child's routine. eh,

it requires a change in the parents' regime , adaptation and plus. the most important thing is that for us the worst thing in construction is the uncontrollability of the environment around the child, when we pick up the child at 6 o’clock from kindergarten. we understand that the child there is the truth, he did not correspond with anyone there. u some strange people came to you there, so the school opens such a pandora’s box of social contacts. this worries us, of course, but in fact i want to say that in many countries of the world in private kindergartens they are still trying to teach at the level of the preparatory period. and several teachers who come and the child already understands that there can be different teachers. yes, that is, it expands social contact, but of course the transition from kindergarten to school is everything, but a huge stressful story for child and here, of course, it is very important to immediately give our drivers advice so that we parents do not increase the child’s burden. eh, this pressure of stress is caused by intimidation. look , you went to school. now no one

will feed you here. you won't sleep. everyone will question everything there more harshly. look how offended you will be when you grow up. yes, you have grown up and now you will be offended here and there, as if a child is already he is often intimidated by us parents at this stage and intimidated the child in the form of the child’s frightened eyes. we, too parents are getting scared. although we ourselves are the source of this intimidation, so it is very important, of course, to treat this as calmly as possible. a dear child is a plus, not a minus for you. yes, that is, it shows that that ’s it, now everything will be worse. on the contrary, you're great. you've grown up. you have grown up, in this case, our beautiful mashenka is going to school. yes, accordingly, it’s like, mashenka , you’re doing great, and we need to submit it to school as some kind of achievement of the child’s achievement and the child, of course, that’s why we’re in the game. yes, and we’re like, you’re doing great. you've come this far. this you will get better and better, you will become more mature , grow up and serve the child. absolutely right. you understand them correctly, that is why the positive presentation, not the loss of something like a lunchtime dream yes, the notorious and

legendary casseroles, as it were, yes. this immediately gives the child optimism. in addition, you need to show that you will have more friends, because there is a parallel class they always seem to be absolutely right. and what, what will he get as a result of the fact that his entire life will change completely, his plus that there is a need, what is called here the concept, there is the right way to sell the school. yes, this kind of marketing is like our parents, that is, the school. yes, serve it right. and, of course, we understand that there are many difficulties, there are downsides, but we need to show the upsides and the child will fall for optimism and positivity. well, this will increase his own mental reserves. and this, of course, will be a big plus for you, as a mother. you can tell your stories that i studied there also in the first grade there was something like that, how it was, great, like this breathing in your maternal voice will give the child optimism. you described it very vividly and very vitally. this is the state of that, here is the trembling

, tremors, and so on of parents, uh, who work themselves out more than their children, winding up their children, and so on. where does this fear come from anyway? in front of our child's school. what is it? what will happen if my child comes with a bad grade, but you know, we are adults, having already gone through life. uh, and in this case, here we have anastasia for the third time, it turns out she’s going to first grade herself, when the eldest daughter left, so the youngest daughter, of course, i’m going to first grade. we are parents. we are very afraid that if we grab threes there, let’s say. or, god forbid , the school year started with two grades; the child develops a misconception about himself from the teacher. this will affect the teacher’s further perception of the child, or the child will occupy some kind of not very comfortable niche in the class, respectively, he will be considered a c student or a d student, or suddenly the child. let's say there's a mobile phone there or there will be sneakers there. and cheaper than someone else's class, he will fall into such a category as

a loser. yes, let’s say, as if about sneakers. let's naturally focus on teachers, firstly. this is also a question for the teacher, which you see that the child comes unprepared. or is he bored or not mastering the material or sitting under his desk with a book? this is actually a question for the teacher , are you interested in the child enough, and it seems to me that it would be good for parents to be their child’s lawyer in this situation, but he seems to lack some kind of self-confidence. and what do you do instead to instead we think about being a lawyer for our child. how right for us, maybe we should buy curtains for the classroom, maybe we should write something, not something for the teacher, yes, that is, we seem to be trying for the child to build a relationship with the teacher, so that the teacher will look at us, what kind of i’m diligent, my mom is kind of wonderful, helpful, my dad would bring a relationship. this is so positive for me. yes my child. it seems to me not very honest and not very useful, or am i exaggerating, well,

you have to understand that children still don’t have also that social experience of adaptation, that is , for us and therefore, when parents try to soften the entry of their child into the class. when a child really can adapt to the food for a very long time. of course , there should also be some kind of complicity of the parent in the teacher’s acceptance of the child, but unconditionally. eh, it’s very important for the parent to stir up the child socially a little in this regard. this means that the child does not feel psychologically constrained while in the classroom. let’s say your child is coming. first grade. yes, i went to first grade and a situation happens somewhere: a child goes to first grade with some of the children from his kindergarten group , sometimes a new school there is completely unfamiliar, for example, and in this regard, if the child is in a completely new school, your task as a mother is to get to know other mothers , because as a rule, the picture is the same, let’s say. mom is getting ready. e by the time it ends. there, the children are studying near the school , talking, your task is how mothers become sociable and met other

mothers, including. yes accordingly make friends with your child. your girl shares with other children through her parents. yes, because not all children, what is called the same active first, even a month are even 2 months, many children. they walk in the class lost, they don’t remember who ’s name is, they haven’t played with anyone there yet, they haven’t made friends, because again, when playing in kindergarten, a child gets closer to each other faster; i can’t really roam around there, so in this regard, our parental task is to help the child get to know each other by name, at least there masha natasha elena seryozha with other children can already visualize them to see that my mother communicates well with the other mother, and the child whose class already has at least 2-3 people close to him. yes, he will be more comfortable now. he will not be shy at the board. he won't be there, uh, afraid to teach or huh? because he will feel like he is in a small society. this is what we can , of course, help our child adapt to school; a child who goes to school runs to

school, knowing that he has friends there already literally the first weeks of training, they are at the end of the first grade, as usual, it happens. he certainly feels more comfortable. being with your child increases your comfort and makes you more willing to go to school. yes, that is, not purely for lessons. yes, namely in order to communicate. this is because school is, maybe we understand and in pedagogy there is such a concept, the leading type of activity for a child, it’s still necessary. let's be honest, but gaining knowledge is important, but for a child the leading game or communication or child let's say the age of your girl. there are the first years. it's still a game. then closer to the age of 10 years older, communication is unknown, unfortunately, we must understand this in this regard as well. eh, the sooner we can make friends between the child and other children, and the more will remain. he already has time to gain knowledge.

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natalya loseva i am our journalist today expert family psychologist doctor of science andrei izberusky and our heroine anastasia with whom we talk about school as stress. we very often come across that a good school suffers from such achievement, when children literally from the first grade to the future olympiad, it is very difficult for parents. he is the one to resist, because well, you yourself sent your child to this good school. why are you now, it seems like you are complaining, and you see that the child is not pulling. and now it's necessary parents in this situation should understand some decisions for themselves and somehow the right ones should enter into a dialogue with the school, what else is needed. at the same time, you

will calmly get annoyed and react to the child in response, right? it’s not worth it, which means it ’s important to take two things into account. here is the first point, if we talk specifically about your child about high emotionality, then high emotionality. it is removed firstly, and by physical activity, but your child again goes, uh, to the section. yes? well, as i understand it, yes, but still not five times per week, that is, on those school days. therefore , on those days when the child does not go to acrobatics, i advise everyone to do some active form of physical activity. let's run and take a walk together. this is the first. uh, the second thing is, of course, to give the child the opportunity to speak out, that is, to question the child, because the huge problem for children and parents is that the parents sent the child to school. it’s clear we don’t seem to have enough problems of our own. and we don’t seem to be interested in the child’s life; the child feels that school is only my business, more no one needs this, as if there is not enough time, but still in order to ask the child about what happened at school with friends.