[000:00:00;00] cortez, but cortez founded modern mexico, he conquered it, brutally conquered it, there were millions of people, indians, but he founded it and are nowhere to be found, i ask my friends, i had a film rental there, it was a week of my retrosect of distributors, young guys, i say , and they say, but in our school the cortez is prohibited, i say how prohibited it is, how is it? she says we don’t have it at all, i say why, as he says, because the population... partly descendants of indians, partly descendants of spaniards are creoles, we believe that if today this figure to teach, there may be internal conflicts, i first, and i say, well, they say in universities, please, these are scientists, well, i mean that they proceed from the good of today, so we need to find

some kind of consensus, this is not to the fact that i... propose to exclude stalin there, in no case, i consider stalin outstanding, but we must recognize those actual crimes that were on his conscience, especially on the one hand, this is correct in relation to our compatriots, many of who are now fighting at the front, on the other hand, this it’s really true, stalin was not , as they say, a fluffy white man, what can i say, so it seems to me that in all these isms we need to look for that main idea, so that it is understandable and accepted by our society, there must be one, unified textbook there should be a textbook where it should be taught in all our republics, in my opinion, this is obvious, georgivich traumatized me to the very heart, i wanted to tell you, our tv viewers, a different story, but i will spend 30 seconds

speaking... remember when simonova, were called to take part in anti-stalin events, he said, konstantin simonov, the great russian soviet writer, he said, yes there was a cult, but there was also a personality, considering that stalin was our supreme commander in chief, i still consider it shameful that we have neither one thing, not that there is no military school there, they don’t have stalin, we don’t even have a single patrol ship , the name of steel, that we don’t have a single naval or air base, and i’m on to the question that it is so toxic for a whole range of society that we seem to be talking about him, as you know, there is an elephant in the room, why are we talking about stalin today, i say, was he an outstanding political figure, not a single ship or plane, listen, well, i understand, for example, i am an opponent of how many arrows came to me from so to speak, our patriot, here is stalingrad, but i understand that

for the chechens, ingush, kalmyks, crimean tatars - this will be intolerable, well, why do we need stalin out of the blue because of this most important thing, stalin would probably have done as i say because he was very pragmatic, it’s true that today in the situation there is a war going on, let’s just destroy the country because of this, talking about stalin’s pragmatism, when we stuck our heads, liberating leningrad, in the finnish defense, the finns did something very similar to what we are doing now or before that the ukrainians in the donbass region. stalin did not hesitate not to put people under the knife , we stood up, entered into separate negotiations with them, finland turned its weapon against hitler and thousands of human lives were saved, maybe tens of thousands, this is me on the question that stalin of course there was pragmatism, that certainly, of course, certainly was, by the way, but in this matter, this topic, these peoples, there were many traitors among them, now all of us, i

’ll try on all of us now, the chariot was invented on the territory of modern northern kazakhstan and southern urals, and now for a large number of people, this looks like a mockery, like an attempt by the ukrainians to rewrite the history that the ancient ukrainians dug up the black sea. in fact, this is a medical fact, and has already been proven by the entire international community of archaeologists through experiments, moreover, the only dispute was until recently, these chariots were used, say, in some ritual moments, well, there was the funeral of a leader, or it was, relatively speaking , a bronze age tank, a weapon of dominance, when there was no military system, people just stood in a bunch and two people crashing at a speed of 30 km/h, they simply scattered, these are the ancestors of our ancestors, do you think this is in at least one textbook somewhere, everyone is deeply convinced that the chariot is the hittites, these are the sumerians, these are the egyptians, and this is relatively

speaking , southern... interesting, i have two words literally, you know that we now have a single history textbook, and not 30, as it was before, this is a great achievement, there will probably be a revision... of the chapter that you mentioned, on monday we opened the autumn session of the federation council and in one of the conversation, during the speech, valentsivan drew attention to one thing matvienko, that the price of the textbook has increased very much, it turned out that the textbooks are printed by a single edition, a monopolist, she says, i can’t understand, the content remains, but why only one edition, why can’t it be 10 so that the price falls, well, as usual , competition, i think this is a very good offer, you know it now, these are the textbooks that i looked at, which were published, especially in the 90s, and in the 2000s

, of course, they were simply, from my point of view, an insult to russian history, and i’m not afraid to say the russian people, and there was a feeling that they were often written by people who, well, not that they necessarily hated russia, but they were for russia uncomfortable. and they wanted it all the time, but in my opinion they hated it, after all, there were some, but there were probably more , well, who were so slightly embarrassed by russia, and the approach was like this, well, it’s not our fault, it’s not our fault that we ended up on the outskirts of europe, that we are not germans and the french, and it seems to me, of course, that it is very important to end this and end it decisively. on the other hand, again, i remember my experience in a soviet school many years ago, and i must say that most of us, from this official version of history, very quickly, everyone

began to understand that this had to be learned by heart, well you became an outstanding political analyst, an outstanding political scientist, probably thanks to history, you know, after that i started studying history, after that i still think, thanks to my mother, kaminskaya the great, after that i studied history at moscow university , where i had some, well, let's say, different professors , but there were several very strong, world -class ones, the school was strong, and when i came to the united states, i taught for many years at leading universities in colombia. i just through my own experience, i absolutely came to the conclusion that the professors who taught me at moscow university, that they definitely

did not perform, here are my teachers at school, it was often just a difficult case, and these are people who, in my opinion, the story is also not very loved, you know, excuse me, a lot, i had it at school, on the one hand there were teachers, but there were amazing teachers, this is a lot from teachers, especially for history, yes, for sure, and where is your the school was located, i lived in such a relatively working-class area, why be this also influenced the selection of teachers, under all conditions, what i want to say is, i don’t want to denigrate all soviet teachers, i just want to say, giving new textbooks, new concepts and restoring historical truth, but on the other hand, as you just

said , do not get carried away by the needs of today, and give the story so that it is as truthful as possible, and you are absolutely right, and also interesting. it was a great game, we'll see you on the air tomorrow. hello, dear tv viewers, you are watching a podcast. his leading psychologist is with you tatyana krasnovskaya, psychologist, psychotherapist sergei nasibyan is visiting us today maria, hello, maria, hello, tell me, what did you come to us with? i

’m currently 35 years old, living with my mother, i ’ve never had a serious relationship, and i’ve never been married, i don’t have children either. in the future, i would plan to start my own family, i would like to, but i don’t... i want to leave my mother alone, my mother is 68 years old, she is a lonely pensioner, she sits at home all the time, alone, somehow she has no friends, no girlfriends, not even pets, nothing, and i'm very... i don’t want to leave her alone, it seems to me that it’s somehow cruel, i’m a very ematic person , very kind, it’s hard for me to decide whether i should build my own happiness, my family, or continue to live with my mother, but then i kind of i sacrifice my future, my possibly family happiness, in general, you are a good daughter, in some ways, maybe, maybe, i don’t know, not 100%, but you came to us so that in some way we could help you, how you think? i’m at a dead end in this situation, i don’t know how this

problem is solved, that is, it’s either way as if there is a choice, either my mother or my family, there definitely is, and one is worth the other, in the sense that you pay for the other, this is a fact, but i asked a slightly different question, so you sat , watched, and probably saw the podcast, yes, and you thought, oh, i’ll go and tell my story, that’s what you think, how should things change after this, listen to another person’s opinion, that is...’ how what are the possible options, i don’t know or what is the connection with this, then there is something to understand for yourself, based on this you can decide what to do, okay, you discussed this story with some friends, colleagues, relatives, no , that is, this is the first time you are essentially discussing this with someone, yes, well, i’m trying to look for something on the internet myself, maybe someone has similar problems, when you find something similar, it seems that i’m not the only one with such a problem, you’re definitely not the only one. the thing is, when

you say that you are not in a relationship, i want to say you are lying , but i can be a little more delicate and say you are disingenuous when you say that your mother has no pets and no one, you you are also really lying for one simple reason: you have a relationship, this relationship with your mother, and your mother has a pet, that is you, that is, in fact, everything is very good, it is obvious that this suits both you and her, why suddenly , at some point you stopped being satisfied with this? the power of age, the fact that i’m 35, well, 30, it still seems that my whole life is ahead of me, the older you get, the more it seems that life is already behind you, you should either start a family now, someone, why did you think, maria, that your previous 35 years are not as important as the next 35 years, with with age i somehow have more experience. it becomes, i understand that maybe if i had started building some serious relationships earlier

, i could have made some mistakes, but now with age i can approach this more consciously, as if you had become more experienced, but not in more experienced in relationships, in life in general, it would be better if i started to understand people , it seems to me that now i understand better who is bad and who is good and i won’t do anything stupid when entering into a relationship, i, like a cynic, will translate what you speak human language human in the sense, so that this is clear to everyone who is watching us now, listening to us, you may begin to understand, in fact , by answering my question, you are giving me, well, us material for further questions, for further work, now it’s very important what you said , that it’s as if mom, she has fulfilled her function of protecting you from the outside world, well, i don’t know what kind of protection and what kind of protection there was from mom, it seems to me that she would always be an independent child,

and it seems to me at the age when parents are already elderly, they demand more that they defended, that is, mom had already worked out this function, then suddenly you started thinking about what would happen next, well, i probably thought because of my age, what i understand, but it’s not just like that, you could have come at 45, which is why i note that for some reason it seemed to you that 35, and then, for example, it’s more important than 30, and that at 40 you would like to have a family, although i’m almost sure that you probably thought at 20 that you should have had one at 30, and also that i don’t have children, i want a child, and of course, the age of motherhood, there cannot be more than 50 there and so on, that is , this is approximately now the age when this is a possible chance, there to create children, but why do you need a family besides having a child?

it seems to me that maybe i’m thinking about my family for selfish reasons, because it seems to me that i’m very unloved, and it seems to me that my husband and children are the ones who can give me what i don’t have enough, this is love, some kind of respect, to fill this some kind of post, lack of love, your doesn’t your mother love you, i don’t know, well, that is, it’s difficult for me to answer this question, because well, i don’t know the words, the words i love you, she never told me, but even... if she did, it maybe it would be formal, but i focus more on some actions, but i don’t know, i can’t understand, i can even answer this question for myself, i would also be interested, maybe she loves or not? or not, but i don’t know what actions you are guided by? i even know my way around everyday life plan, well, let’s say, while i’m sleeping, she won’t turn on the tv loudly, probably, she means to take care of me, so as not to disturb my sleep, let’s say, i don’t know, maybe this is how to show love, care, maybe not, maybe respect, it can be

both, but look how interesting it is, you know, when a person, when asked, for example, do you love your husband, wife? well, or whether you feel love from your husband, wife, mother, it doesn’t matter, he begins to philosophize, that’s how you now begin to somehow give some examples, and you confuse yourself in these reasonings, for me, and this is always a signal of no answer, i don’t feel it, because when a person, for example, i ask you, do you like pilaf, yes, do you like watermelon, watch how you find the answers, truth? i’ll ask you, of course, if watermelon loves you when you eat it, but look how you find answers in a completely different place, pay attention, looking inside yourself, yeah, here i’m asking if your mother loves you there, yes, ah you begin to go into reasoning, that is, look for the answer in the wrong place, where he really is, i understand, because it’s very difficult to tell myself that i don’t feel

my mother’s love or i miss it, but i don’t feel it, well, it was honest, and you ’ve been living with your mother for 35 years, and you don’t are you sure she loves you? you, you don’t feel that she loves you, how do you deal with this? well, i seem to have come to terms with it, probably over 35 years , i had periods such that i experienced this, i thought that there might be some reason in me or a reason in me, that my mother was like this, i wanted my mother was happy to have mom was fine, and i was looking for some reasons in myself, then i somehow calmed down , i realized that she was probably just that kind of person, and this is not... if i ask you, what is it like to be you, how you'll answer? tense, i am such a very tense, reserved person, responsible, that is, what feelings make up your day, i don’t know

, during the day, if on a weekday, it’s more likely some kind of fatigue from work, from all the worries, you definitely admit one thing, and you yourself didn’t say that you are always tense, well, it’s hard for me to relax, great, let’s get rid of this let’s just try to rewind it, it’s tense, it’s like tense up now even more than you’re tense, more, yeah, what kind of emotion stands before this tension that makes you tense, well , this is probably what you need to be on all the time check, so that’s all, but the emotion, well, fear, is excellent, maria answered your question, yes, thank you, look how... interesting, forgive me, masha, that i’m talking about you in the third person now, how interesting, masha formulates the thought , yes, that is, masha does everything in order to uh, phenomenally avoid touching feelings, but there is a very great benefit from the fact that you feel

the body so well, even through tension, because the body will give you a huge number of tips, i hope today we can help you in this sense, as you can with the help of the body, cope with the tasks that you set for yourself, fear, let's go back to it, what are you afraid of, not just directly, it's just some kind of fear, it's more likely that something will go wrong that i won’t have time to do something, i haven’t done something, these are thoughts, these are not feelings, feelings, there is no feeling that something will go wrong, i even find it difficult for me, like some kind of feelings at this moment, i even have a fantasy, why is it so difficult for you, but i would still like for you unpacked ourselves, with feelings, maybe not very much, yes, i am a very practical person, a feeling , of course, this is not my territory, not yours and your mother’s, this again is probably not a feeling that i am some kind of person, maybe not like that, if i don’t do something, this is a thought, look, or a feeling of not

love, if i did something wrong to me is there also a fear around me that they won’t love me if i do something wrong? look, it’s still fear, i call it fear and it may sound very negative for you, yes to some extent, and i understand perfectly well that you would not want to feel fear from your mother, anxiety, well, in the sense of danger , which can come from her, because this is her mother, how can you be afraid of her, or how can you suspect her of wanting to do something bad, i don’t know, i’m not afraid of her, i have no fear, not you of course, you’re not afraid anymore, if you’re 35 , you can kill her if you come in, physically, you just agreed with yourself not to feel it, on purpose, no, maria, please tell us a little about your family. dad, mom, i don’t know my dad, so, that is, he left when my mother was pregnant

with me, yeah, but we lived with my grandmother before, that is, grandmother, mother and i, the three of us, grandmother has been gone for about 10 years, why did your parents split up? my grandmother was against their relationship, that is, let’s say she separated them, but you and your mother once talked about this? no, it’s somehow not customary for us to communicate directly like this. in our family, it’s like there’s no such thing, for some reason, well, i mean, there’s just no dad and there’s no dad, you just grow up, you see that dads, but i just heard that that’s how it is in the stories, for some reason, then there is that his grandmother kicked him out, my grandmother kicked him out, i don’t know anything else, but i’m somehow such a person, it’s very difficult for me , for some reason, to ask any questions in the family, i’m a very correct person, and i somehow need to get into something personal there, to me, this is something called correctness, because somehow they don’t tell each other any personal problems in the family and it seems as if if i start asking some questions, as if i’m getting into a person’s soul, maybe the person if he doesn’t

tell , that means he probably doesn’t want to, that’s why you live like this, nicely, like a neighbor, that is, you are three generations of family, women, three generations of women, you all lived together, yes, grandmother too without her husband, i don’t know what’s left, that is, my grandfather personally, i don’t know him, you three generations of women, a mother and her mother, that is, my grandmother, were in conflict all the time, she always had some kind of fights, they, well , there was no, as they say, there was no separation, there was no emotional separation, they always had some kind of... then there were conflicts , what were you doing at that moment, when mom and mom were fighting, i don’t have such an understanding that it’s right, wrong, well, they’re in conflict and there’s most likely no fear when this happens to everyone. of course, what were you experiencing at that moment, when there were conflicts between them?

i don’t even know what i was directly experiencing, although of course i wanted these conflicts not to exist, i don’t know, there might even be some kind of resentment that why they couldn’t live together normally, how often did you become the cause of them conflict? i don’t know what the reason for their conflicts was, not that it was me, that is, they didn’t get along with the characters in everyday life, let’s say, what is it. grandma wants one thing, mom wants something else in buta, why didn’t mom leave grandma, why did they all survive together, but i don’t know, that is, she was such a grandmother, well, angry, that is, so harsh, yes, a person , her grandmother had a difficult childhood, so he was such a difficult person, and well, my mother, in the fit of these fights, scandals, she wanted to be there i don’t know, leave everything there, go somewhere, she went out into the street with me a few hours ago. she still came back, she thought, i found a letter of correspondence, her with men, as before there were no telephones, she

corresponded with letters, that is, she tried to find where to get away from her grandmother, because she she was so hard for a person, she wanted to leave her somewhere to find a man, she just wanted to have somewhere to go, uh-huh, so it didn’t end in anything, she didn’t find it, no, somehow it didn’t end in anything, then it turns out that your mother, before your eyes, also didn’t... there was no relationship , there wasn’t, your grandmother, before your eyes , didn’t have a relationship either, she didn’t, that is, your mother served your grandmother, now you ’re serving your mother, yeah , yeah, and when you found these letters, and you read them, what happened what happened to you, i was very scared at that moment, because i understood that these were absolutely strangers, absolutely strangers, adults, and that my mother could go to some absolutely stranger , whom she knew only through correspondence and with me , with a small child, which is unknown, there will be some kind of man, what if he, i don’t know, hits or something else, i

was scared, that is, a man is some kind of dangerous story, but relationships with men, well not always, but especially if so, just where to go, you don’t know the person at all, that is, if i knew the person, if he were somewhere among our environment, i would already know that this is a normal person, you can trust him, he is kind i wouldn't be like that. if you follow your logic, so to speak, then living with a grandmother who constantly fights with her mother, living with a mother who constantly fights with her mother is safer than living with another person, yes, because here you already know what is here , there is no uncertainty, but there is such an unknown there that is simply, simply unknown, and apparently, your mother did not find a man, including because she also thought so. i don’t know, maybe, well, of course you can ask her, if maybe she’s used to it or something, or i don’t know, she didn’t

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that we have a credit card, get a credit card for 120 days without... this is the podcast triggers with you, its host tatyana krasnovskaya and sergey nasebyan are visiting us today is maria. you said that your mother is 68, that is, you are quite a late child for that generation, have you ever asked your mother why she didn’t give birth for so long, it’s not customary here, no matter how hard i try not to ask questions, in essence you live in fact , what i want to ask is the unknown, and what will happen if you ask, i can’t understand this, well, maybe i’ll offend her, so what? i’m very afraid of offending her, she’s very vulnerable, she might cry. what and what let's what are you really afraid of, what do you have is there a family of wax figures?

if your mother looks, plus or minus, just like you, i can imagine what your evenings look like, you are sitting under a lampshade, preferably in the shade, so that god forbid you don’t fall into that bright spot on the table, because suddenly your mother will see that you have she’ll be offended by my manicure because she doesn’t have one, maybe i already understand. i already understood this, if i love some new thing, she may realize that she doesn’t have this thing, i guessed, how did i guess, what do you think, how did i guess, i’ve been trying for you for 20 minutes show one simple thing, that you don’t feel anything other than fear, it’s just that it has become so normal for you that being fearless, you are, well, not that fearless, like, well, a space where there is no fear, you perceive it as more dangerous. than a place where there is a specific fear, a very understandable fear, because here the rules are clear, here the rails on which you and your mother ride back and forth are clear, every day of yours is like the previous one and every next one will be like

this, thank god, that you came here, this goes far beyond the boundaries of your ordinary realities, when i shout at you that you feel, that you expect changes from me, that i feel exactly, your face changed twice when i raised my tone. you’ve already told me everything, i want you to learn to say it to yourself, i’m not a conflicted person, even if you raise your voice at me rather, what ’s happening to you, before you pulled away, there was another emotion, at first you had a feeling, you just started to feel something, maybe you were a little offended, maybe you were, maybe you even wanted to get angry somewhere, yes, but then you once turned on the little girl on whom? yeah, because it’s not there, it’s porcelain, i’m just usually aggressive, i usually pull away, and i’m not an aggressive person, that is, i don’t respond to aggression with aggression, your usual mechanism, your

strategy, freeze, you narrow down to the level of a small cell , you freeze and turn off all your senses, tense, as usual, of course, because god forbid you feel anything. god forbid at least some feeling comes out and you don’t know what to expect from yourself, oh well from yourself you don’t know what to expect from your mother because you can’t upset your mother, really, yes, i don’t want to upset her in anything , of course you can’t let your mother down, god forbid i betray you, and your marriage is a betrayal of your mother , then there are two options, either you’re just waiting for time to do it for you all her business she will die , well, maybe you will have 10 years left to live. or i’m afraid that she won’t survive my leaving the family, it’s very possible that you will hasten her death, so what? well, this is hard, then wait, we really have everything in medicine now

better and better, so she will live a long time, well, in general, you will live a long time, there life will just be so-so, but you can wait, of course she will not survive, because she is because of you, to a large extent because of you, i think, as she explains herself, at least this is how she most likely did not live, she froze and you froze along with you, most likely you will do this now, you will come off the air and think, my god, what was it, it wasn’t me, it was someone else there, you will go under your lampshade and it will be continue, i want my mother to be happy, for her to have her own life, well, she probably doesn’t want that, for her to be happy and so that i can leave her, mom is happy when you are around, mom is happy , and you are her pet, that’s how happy mom is now, you agree to leave yours, i wouldn’t say that she’s just a happy person now, that is , it seems to me that she’s the kind of person who also really needs a psychologist, but she will

never go to a psychologist, but the fact that she doesn’t happy person, that’s how you lived, three unhappy women, then there were two unhappy women, then there will be one, because most likely you will end this family with yourself, because you most likely, as is right... says tatyana, you won’t change nothing, because you will be happy, happy to return to your usual aquarium, serpentari, i would even say, you know, you will return there, it will be, well, not to say that it would be great, but it will definitely be calm there, at least in that aquarium, you can be sure that you know what can happen, you can cope with what can happen, and the degree of your tension, it is quite bearable, because if it became unbearable, you would have broken it all off a long time ago, but please tell me, you said that you have never had a relationship as serious as the heights, yes

, but well, there were no relationships, that is, if only dates with men, but there have never been relationships, well, in the sense of long-term ones, it turns out, yes, then you came on the first date, you came on the second date, or are you talking about a sexual relationship, several dates, no, these are more platonic, absolutely relationships, well, just how to communicate more quickly, yeah, well, after all, it ’s about communicating over a period of time, there was such a thing, either one date or several dates , okay, come on, remember some prince of yours, with whom you had at least five dates, it was like that, a prince, not like a prince, well, that is, it was just a person who invited me on a date, but you went date, went out to restaurants, maybe kissed there, not i know, on the street, yes, so, this man, here he was, yes, this would have been an opportunity to build a relationship, it didn’t even lead us to anything, well, of course, a little

complex in character and uh-huh, he himself even stopped these dates, yeah, it’s understandable, but it turns out that you never let a person into your life who would come there , as they say, seriously for a long time, not only didn’t you let him in, he wasn’t there, that is, there wasn’t such a thing that someone directly wanted to knock on my life, or on my heart, but i didn’t let him in, then there is no such thing either, someone must definitely come, and you are like rapunzel, that means in a fortress, and he must come, conquer, but that is, i mean a person who would like me, who would want to communicate with me, go on a date , but as there are social ones, you are a social person, you work, yes, and what do you work for, a courier, okay, so you communicate with people, you travel on public transport, yes, that is, there are men, men somehow everything -do exist in this world, well, by such acquaintance i

don’t trust social networks and meeting people on the street, how can i get to know you? i don’t understand if because of some interest somewhere, where i go, let’s say for a longer time, well, i’m at work, or if i go somewhere, i might have some interests of my own, well, i go out with friends, let’s say that is, there are friends, yes friends, acquaintances, there is a girlfriend, so yeah, well, you go somewhere there, some men meet there, they are also new, what is the difference between meeting, for example in transport, meeting at an exhibition, at exhibition? or in a restaurant, the fact that you can like me there by talking to me a little , how can you like me on the street only if the external appearance is so interesting, and you consider all acquaintances, in general all contacts with men through the prism that a man must first to see you, to be charmed, to get through all your traps, to win your heart and take you away, but there i never heard that you might like a man. i am a very

amorous person, i will like every second thing that i am, yes, i am very amorous, well why don’t you open up, well, i don’t know whether a person likes me or not, i can’t impose myself, say , ask someone out there for a date, maybe he’s not interested in me, you understand that you’re really with with these men you build relationships the same as with your mother, when it’s terribly easy, as you said, to get into your soul, that is, you are afraid, or even offend that it might be me. i realize that i like someone and somehow offend them, you are all deceiving me, this is virtuoso skill, look at it with this side, like the truth with which tatyana offers you, and perhaps you will see that you are the truth, you build relationships with all people, and on the principle of not interfering, you learned not to interfere with your mother, and diligently do not interfere with others, in this there is something, yes, that does not

interfere. let's just say, i was taught this, so as not to disturb anyone, to be quiet, so as not to disturb the neighbors, well, in this i have this, because otherwise, what will happen, if you interfere, others will be upset, whoever i disturb, they will it’s uncomfortable, what they will do, they’re uncomfortable, they don’t you’ll like what they do, wow , well, maybe they won’t do anything, but inside it will make them feel uncomfortable, are you simply afraid that they will feel uncomfortable, what to do? what should i do if you do me bad, as i should, what reaction of mine are you afraid of, how will you know that i feel bad, that i will upset you, interfere with you in some way. you know what it is, you have to have some kind of feedback signal , just biofeedback, how do you know that you've upset me? i don’t know at all, but i’ll think that you don’t care

it will be uncomfortable, as your mother showed you that you upset her when you were little, when you are little, you make noise, disturb the neighbors, which will constantly upset your mother, i menu myself for this, i just left the house, that is, she me i left her in i told her to be in the yard, i’ll make something there to eat and call you, and i was leaving, i could have gone to another area, gone somewhere, during this time, left by bus, she was looking for me all the time, she was all the time in tears, cried, ran and looked for me, i felt very i blame you for this, that i’m blaming yourself like this now, what was happening then, then i didn’t understand it, i didn’t feel how you understood that you did something wrong, no way, i didn’t understand why she... she’s upset because of this , nothing bad happened, i just...’ how upset she gets, she cries, scolds you, well , she doesn’t scold you, she just cries hysterically, and says that it’s because of you, but you don’t understand that this is here, and i don’t understand why he was so upset because i just went for a walk, well, that is, i i’m just walking, it’s okay, just don’t walk anymore, that’s why you don’t leave anymore, wow, you’re really afraid

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