[000:00:00;00] cries, plays along, cries, he is a sickle, he says, this is impossible, yes, this is vladik andreev, they played, so i ’m telling you about these eights, it’s not that it ’s impossible, no one gives a damn, they don’t part with their phones , no, these no, these, this, this is like razana rezanova, she sits in the frame all the time, while i can leave, people’s artist, these too, they sit like schoolchildren, they listen and perform, well, i agree, well again, i would use the entire younger generation. no, of course, yes, one, two, of course, there is, sasha, but we are older, we, we older, we please, ah, i know that your wife and child starred in this series with lariso, yes, you are happy, oh, i’m very happy, you know, i probably lariska said that you are glowing, that you're so in love that you just, you understand what's going on, she doesn't lick me, she's very strict with me, she

's just like that in the family, i mean in my family, where dad and mom were and here she's like that, well i love the fact that she is real, she doesn’t have this, where we started our conversation with you , the second bottom, she will never build intrigues, she is like me, we very often step on some kind of people give us, very often for our sincerity, because we do it sincerely, someone reads it differently, here she is, well, well, this is my blood type , it was necessary, it was necessary how many years the difference is 27 28. tell me and that there is some kind of common reality , i’ll tell you, all my friends about my age adore her, she sits and talks with them, she simply adores, she gave birth to someone , of course, my son is in first grade this year, what are you saying, sasha, of course, first class, that is, you have three sons, three sons, each wife gave birth to a son, i’ll tell you honestly, if i were younger, i would already want to give birth to someone else, but

you know, to give birth to one, and i want. i always asked tabakov again, what do you think, he says: i think what class i will send the youngest one to, i am bringing 30,000 liters of raw milk, which is produced in russia, this is a purebred , highly productive herd, by the way, it can eat your shorts, no, they like boots better, all these dresses that are in front of us are dresses of our own production, don’t worry, i’m not getting married yet, you make all this from russian raw materials, absolutely, we collect plants from the wild. oh my god, what a beauty, very soon a new model of the swallow will appear on the routes of russian railways, and you and i will be one of the first to visit it, a big premiere, our everything. i got great pleasure from communicating with creative, brave people who are passionate about their work, constantly developing and changing this world for the better. on saturday on the first and always on 1tv.ru. tell me, do you

have a good relationship with all the children? no one puts a spoke in your wheel from their wives, the boys don’t forbid them among themselves, they always come, they always play, well, the eldest is already 36 now, he seems to have been with them a little, but okay, the young ones, yes, no, he’s average now i’m already 17, well, 16 and a half, he’s also such a handsome guy , he graduated from music school, no, thank god, probably everyone had enough wisdom of some kind, wisdom, exactly, uh, no, well, that’s life. for example, i can’t imagine how such a man can somehow miss, you have no bad habits, you have some kind of kindness, breadth, it’s impossible , it would be enough for 50 men, very talented, i ’m emotional, well, even listen, if you weren’t emotional, you would work as an accountant in a contemporary theater , you see , well, it’s true, well, sasha, of course, but what kind of person should you be, i’m different, you know, how i like the expression, there are excuses for all my

bad things. i’m living for the first time, so again, this is a conversation about sotov, i ’m talking to him and when i do something bad, well, wait, well, i did it because impulsively, something else, that is, i didn’t make a plan, i’ll arrange something for someone, no , well, again, this is my path, again , tabakov said about me that sasha is one of those who drive too much his horse of luck, one of those who is able to escape to america, well, he said, this was in those years. escaping to america was like, i don’t know, going to the moon. i once saw how your nodules move in the nineties. do you remember we had a friend like valera the greek, why he still exists, so he congratulated me on my birthday. are you communicating? we do not talk, naturally, well, life seemed to have taken a different direction, but i was pleased that he was a person celebrating his anniversary, in the nineties, rich, well, from a gang, but was always drawn to art, do you remember how he talked, but do

you see... and yes, if you don’t want to, but be kind, you understand, and i remember vova moshkova , who, on the contrary, was so refined , such an artist, you know, who wanted to be a bandit and be like a bandit, and in my opinion there was a situation when there was such a big injustice, i saw how you behaved held in your hands and how your nodules moved, it was scary, sasha, i was scared for you , that’s why you can hold yourself, what i mean is that three wives, amazing for me, i honestly thought that you would never you won’t get divorced, uh, well, i’ll tell you, if my husband and i started talking, and tatyana and i have an amazing relationship with my first wife, i even once directed... she worked for me as a second director, and my eldest son worked focus puller, he is an operator, back then there was still a focus puller, amazing attitude, when we were talking to her once, i said, tanyuh, but what have we developed , i say, she says, but i don’t know, in the nineties, what we were talking about, there was something in such

turmoil in our heads, and we sometimes did things that, well, maybe you have to pay for all your life, then i probably gave it away as wishful thinking, i, too, like this, i’m one of those people, like this man. this is a fortress, inside it’s a small children ’s room, so i’m like this, i’m like a fortress, and it seemed to me that i could make a children’s room entrust the room to someone, maybe i kept talking about the second one , maybe i didn’t mean that she was bad, i just apparently was like that, but where is she now, somehow she disappeared somehow no, she’s playing in the theater in the nation, i don’t know, there are one-time performances, she’s probably still rehearsing somewhere, she was filming quite a lot for a period, now she seems to be filming, well, i’m kind of like that, yes, we ’ll talk less, although now, again, thanks, thanks to my wife iri, when my son, our son with dasha was 16 years old, the son said, dad, and dasha, i want to see you for my birthday, i say who will

be, well, naturally, mom, dasha’s ex-husband, grandfather, grandmother, i say, this is impossible, and i told you what is impossible, what are you - he stole, well, be taller, pridiss, you will give a gift to your son, think about your son, that’s what i say. lariska said that she is of some wondrous beauty, absolutely, she is also an amazing singer, she is smart, she is smart, but you know that intelligence is passed on only through the female line, to children, so i always say, of course, look who you are giving birth to men, only in a feminine way, both boys and girls receive intelligence from their mother. right, therefore, when you get married, besides the fact that she should have everything here, naturally, you should sleep with her, but you also need to understand what fairy tales she will read to the children, she constantly reads to the child, how she

will answer questions with these whychkin, so you know, she’s now graduating in absentia, she’ll be a psychologist, she’s constantly educating herself, she doesn’t publish books, well , you’re in love, well, you’re in love, i can just see my eye burning. this is a podcast of letters from my guest. alexander mokhov, our profession is great, tell me, so much, i’m terrified now, i think , if, for example, i were a telephone operator or a teacher, for example, a defectologist, i couldn’t be, i’m a fatalist, i believe in fate , well, why did i live on a farm six houses almost 700 km away, what kind of wind blew me away, why did i go, well, i... it was probably destined for fate somewhere, i don’t know, of course, i pulled out happy ticket, because i was like, he took me to the third year, he says, let’s do it this way, on i’ll take you for six months, we’ll understand whether you develop in six months or not, and so yes, yes, we say

, either we stay or we go our separate ways, and i took the external exam in 3 years, in six months, in 3 years, i passed all the exams, in general lived, or filmed, i lived at all, no, i lived at all, no, at first i generally asked him to live in the basement. so that no one would bother me, so that i could study, but since it was the basement of the heating main, after a week i began to swell, just the humidity, then the dorms, no, i lived in the dorm on trifonovskaya, yes, that’s it, i passed, and he says, i’m staying, but i could have said goodbye, that is, he gave me this ticket, but whether i used it or not, it already depended on me, so the wording for a careless attitude towards talent, yes, a careless attitude towards talent, how great is that , i have to remember this, yes, is that what you wanted? and i remember how vladimir viktorovich petrov, my teacher, once said outright in despair, well, at us , we behaved badly, we disrupted there, yes, and he said, shame on you, look, when you girls entered, there were eight of us

girls on the course, four 400 people per place it was 4,000 from auditions, then tours, then calls, he says , you got in with such difficulty, aren’t you ashamed, and the boys, shame on you, he says, you wanted, you dreamed of going to a theater institute? you entered, you don’t study, we were like that, well, there were also such shocks, of course, not saints , but the matter is different, i’ll tell you, the matter is different, he doesn’t even understand where he ended up, these exercises are incomprehensible idiotic, and he doesn’t understand, now only a year has passed, i think half of the courses are in collapse, they seemed to be where we ended up, and half understood, yes, this is mine, so we had the same thing, well, i always had it, that this was mine, and for me it didn’t seem to raise any question

, but for many only now, but you explain to them why, for what purpose, look, there is, well, today, kven people, everyone goes to the cinema, because it’s like such a profession, and what did you learn the text, go and tell it to yourself, but you see, for example, that this person has no education, because you can’t call like that, dial, and right there say hello, because yes, you should hear what answers you, well, some of them, and you understand why you need a stage movement school. scenes, speech and rhythm, you know, all this, and in general, after college - this is, in principle, uh, the zero level of such a foundation , and then you need to build it all your life, why i love it, today we were just talking after the run-through, i say, i like it, why play, this is an exam, why put, this is an exam, why teach, this is an exam, i have an exam every day for me, and i i understand, talking to myself, how much i set the bar for myself, that is, this is a test.

through all this me and i’m interested in it, so i understand when someone does it better, so why, that is, i watch a lot, read a lot, am interested in a lot, because it’s interesting to me, i understand, wait, it’s already 60 years , these were, yes, yes, tell me, one of your boys took after you, well, he inherited your gift, well, the senior operator. doesn’t want to act theatrically, so he’s now graduating from theater school, in the sense of a regular theater school with theatrical slant, he understood, he is creative, he graduated from a music class in piano, yes, i think, well, you are welcome, i , well, firstly, remembering my parents, because at one time they did not stop me from leaving as a fifteen-year-old boy 2,000 km to irkutsk do, why do you have a destiny in it, go, try it, they meaningfully let you go, or then the parents were... not very interested in children, sash, no, no, we have a different

story, we have three sons, they said on the contrary, very wise, uh, they said that you should never tell us that we give you something they didn’t allow me to try, although they were 100% sure which artist, which theater school, and when i arrived, i entered, they didn’t even ask me whether i got in or not, ditko arrived, and then i say, so wait, i got in, mom, started crying, like, i mean, i’m grateful too... why should i forbid my children to choose their life, their profession? today, when life is different, parents usually say: listen, here’s dad, the dean of medicine is there , yes, get an education, doctors will always, you will always be there, and then study music there, whatever you want, because today the profession of an actor is not as high-status as it was even in our time with you, the films are different, today look at how many, maybe... so many talented people, in general, i’ve

always been there, there were four theater institute, yes, very few, they graduated every year, and even then the guys could n’t get a job, we were assigned to go somewhere, today it’s millions, now, when so many tv series are being filmed, sasha, well, look, there are not enough actors, today there are actors walking around the buffet, when i found out how much there was the fee from the girl who plays an episode in the film, where there is, my mood has spoiled, it’s not that i’m jealous, i think how is this possible, the main thing for me is... i’m like, yes , you see, i have a rider, he tells me which one i’m talking about oh well, i won’t buy water for myself, you understand, yes, yes, i then, yes, that’s all you understand, today everything is different, i agree with you, but there are our own, but yes, the time is different , here again tabakov says, san, you understand, we suddenly woke up in another country there was socialism yes, but here it’s like market

market relations, so you are a commodity and sell yourself at any cost, because why are all these bloggers, everything, money, this is what it seems to them, they have different guidelines, we just lived in another country, we had everything different, guidelines, well that’s all, so it’s just that then the blogger shouldn’t have the main role, you know, you can’t have bloggers, but you understand them, they’re drawn to television, they lead in such a way that they don’t know how to do it. well, the profession, i ’ll be honest, the profession has been devalued, so i can’t imagine how you are as a director-teacher, how do you have the patience for all this, i got the dean’s office to say that despite the fact that they pay the university a lot of money, i will mercilessly expel them, or i will leave, because well, why, i can’t lie to myself, i should love to pay attention to the child, if i understand zero, why, well, why, so no, well then please, i’ll leave, but again there are 28 people from the course, well, 10 are

amazing, i’ll leave, they came to me to study, i i’ll give them, that’s what to do, here you are - well, you’ll be calm, so to speak, i’m satisfied if from your course, where there are 28 guys, how many will take place, from my course, only i’m sasha lykov, it’s hard to say, but i can say one thing, here they are in the first year, i’m already calling them, calling them to screen tests , well, they haven’t approved it yet, but they are learning, and maybe they will approve someone, that is, i am already those who reciprocate my feelings, plow and i see that they are talented. like tobacco, again, ustracs , just well, he just had a spawning, and if he didn’t have a course, he had practically everything, and you know how it was, he was expelled from his course arranged for the students to attend another institute, this could be possible, what are you saying, yes, but i just won’t say the names of the actors, he expelled them, the students got them into another university,

but this is possible now, that’s the same thing i’m saying, guys, i already take them to rehearsals at the theater so that they look at me as a teacher. the director is there, yes, i say, it doesn’t matter, i’m here, i’m an actor here , i may not do something, but i have to look , suggest that you see me at work, then we sorted it out, by the way, i’m in i did such a thing in college, i was a student of his course, he invited me to a performance in the snuffbox, and then came to class, said, let’s look at the performance of the artist mokhov, not the teacher, but the artist mokhov, which i liked, and i did not flirt, i was interested in how we learned from the performance of tabakov and other artists , yes, they came, let’s sort it out, this is a profession. that’s why i can’t give these 10 people, because they reciprocate with me, creatively , humanly, look, you have succeeded as a husband, as a father, as a father, as a director, you shoot all the time, as a teacher, as an artist, and there is

some other desires, do you have dreams, here again, i asked, oleg pavlovich, 75 years old , how much tabakov has realized himself, 90 percent, he says, you’re crazy, 35 percent, i thought he was quarrelling, but then, he says, aronevskaya, with her talent, how much, and i later realized when we started talking, when he began to teach, he left a contemporary where he was a young director, and practically, laris, he didn’t have a single role, the one that , the roles he played before, he did not play at such a level, he took and dedicated his remaining one. life with yours students, my theater, this is also true, and he himself admitted this to me, so the path is important to me, now i ’m rehearsing, in lopeda vego, yes, it’s very important for me, today i was worried like a boy, although i understood that i do it well, but i was worried, only a true talented actor trembles with timidity a step before the stage,

and it gives me a thrill, tomorrow my students will show the exam to the department, and i will worry, you know, i want to say that to your... students are very lucky to have you, your partners are very lucky to have you, your children and your women, because i started the program with the fact that you are rare, thank you very much, my beloved, my beloved, sasha, this was a podcast of a letter, my guest was the honored artist, producer, teacher, director, alexander mokhov. hello, this is the easy money podcast and i am its host, mikhail khanov, today i have a very unusual guest for our podcast, this is clinical psychologist svetlana nazoeva. hello, svetlana. hello, i know that you are the personal psychologist of many top managers, largest companies, rich,

successful people, and the first question that comes to mind is to ask you if it is true that the rich also cry, but the topic of the program. completely different, it is more interesting, deeper, this is the psychology of poverty and wealth, what distinguishes poor people from rich people, how their ways of thinking differ, why some manage to get out of poverty, others never, well, the most important question, that’s just what is called for starters, is it possible to simply distinguish a rich person from a poor person by the image and format of his thinking? yes, of course, yes, poor person, i myself come from a very poor family, and i went to a certain financial state through various difficulties , and what kind of difficulties are these? this is the first limitation in everything: food, clothing, transport, travel, and if you look at a person,

who does not have such an opportunity, let’s say, a poor person, yes, he has, in fact, no choice , the choice is very limited, these are limiting stories, and they prevent a person from moving forward, that is, these are certain attitudes in the head, are they their own or are they attitudes surrounding the existence of you, the existence around you, then where we were born, to what extent existence is determined by consciousness, that is, it turns out, well... it’s important or not, it’s important, yes, i was born into a family, but into a poor one, my grandmother was poor, my mother was poor, i’m naturally poor, i don’t have enough money for food, well, yes, yes, i used laundry soap instead of shampoo, washed my hair, yes, for example, we ate instead of - let’s say, plenty of eggs, because my mother was paid in eggs at work , you told yourself that i would never live like this again, i give myself the attitude that i want to live differently, that’s all it was , that’s when you started telling yourself this, when i saw in my teens, when i saw that my

friend, with whom i began to be friends, was living differently to another, i came to visit her, she ate, they had pies on the table, with meat , with onions, with eggs, with apples, well, this is very detailed, at what age did you set yourself the goal that i don’t want to live like this anymore, probably since 15 years and for this i had to do, the first thing i did for myself i decided that i needed to go to study, if i could not go to college, i would not be able to develop further, great, that is , you, in fact, here i would like to talk a little about how you are as a clinical psychologist and as a consultant, yes, you could just say some criteria , that’s what - you for yourself, when talking with a person , let’s say they are dressed exactly the same, yes, they, they both have literate speech, they are sufficiently educated, so you... can determine which of these people is mentally predisposed to success, well, i don’t

i love this word for wealth, yes, well, let’s say, for making money, in order to lead a decent lifestyle, let’s say there, well , above average, but for the country in which he lives, and a person who, in principle, will living at the level at which he is now will never take a step upward , i want to tell a story here, i was driving here today by taxi, and the taxi driver was a very amazing person, yes, who worked... in large companies and his income was more than 20 million rubles a month, and he takes me like the taxi driver, you see, yes, and i say, i start talking to him, or rather , he overheard how my assistant and i discussed certain issues, entered into our dialogue, and says that everything has collapsed and i can’t go further , during the dialogue, i understand that he giggles a little, like a way of life, oh, a way of thinking? now i want to bring it to this point, to the fact that he begins to devalue what i say, when we

begin to devalue, we stop hearing, yeah, that is, in fact, the person claims, that the way i live suits me, for some reason, and beyond my control, i can’t do anything, which means that what is beyond this threshold of my perception, and my being, is all wrong, yes lack of interest, that is, in fact, the criterion of poverty is... that you accept this poverty as such , you begin to blame everyone around you, that you are poor precisely because circumstances have developed in such a way that something did not work out for you, and so on and so forth , and the main thing is that the way they live, and somewhere out there they are these bokachi, well, why are they crying there too, they have their own problems, they feel bad there, but i feel so good , but it’s like a secondary benefit, it’s beneficial for me to be like this, it’s beneficial for me, i don’t want to be bad

like these bad rich people who... here we have all the cartoons, fairy tales that a rich person is a bad person, a rich person is an evil person, but unconsciously i don’t realize, yes, i don’t want to be rich, because i don’t want to be bad, because a rich person is bad and evil, you want to be bad, no, no, we all want to be good, we want...' to us they loved, you know, but there is nothing to love for the rich man, but the poor man, he’s poor, unhappy, so good, you know, and he feels sorry for himself, naturally, that is, it turns out to be such a vicious circle, i feel sorry for myself, because nothing worked out for me , but this is good, because i am good, everyone around me is also good, they are bad and i don’t want to go there with the bad ones, how to break, break, risk being bad, you know, this is the formulation, a very good thesis. a disgustingly rich man, he is disgusting, you understand why for someone, disgusting -

this is an adjective, who, who is his, for another poor person, yes, well, again, this is what we have... the formulation generally accepted on social networks is poor rich, well, it’s just envy, no, when you say that another person is disgustingly rich, this is hidden, your envy, that is, in fact, you express your attitude in such adjectives towards this person, that is, in fact, you need to fight envy, no, you don’t need to fight envy, but envy has two, like a coin, yes , there are two sides constructive envy, yes there is destructive, constructive, i want it too, how can i make it so that... i have it, yes, go learn from this person whom i envy, adopt some of his actions, yes, that he does, uh, how common is this approach among people, that constructive envy develops into a need and a desire that motivates a person to change himself, unfortunately , it is very difficult for a person to come to the point of taking control of his feelings, but envy

is a feeling, it is a strong feeling , it can take over... you so that you go into effect, you can’t cope with this feeling, there is another story, yes, when we learn self-regulation of mental processes, when we can take control of the feeling, it’s to stop, slow down, understand what ’s happening to me now, i’m jealous, great, then there is envy, i'm happy for you, you just stay here for now, i'm happy about this feeling, because feeling is an indicator of where i should go, imagine this... situation, yes, you came to the theater, you like a ballerina who dances or a singer who sings the energy has gone inside you, i like the people who are sitting in the front row in the apartment buying, great, i like what kind of people they are, who they are, how they bought this ticket, this curiosity, yes, it prompts action on a question, on a task the negative part of this medal is included, i say, well

, they are bad people, they are evil, they stole, they plundered the budget or something. something like this, i say: well , thank god, i’m not rich, i’m poor, and i feel good, i’ll sit in row 115, no, the problem is how to take this step here, i’m still trying to understand, this is what should be an incentive, is a person able to cope with this on his own, give an example, an example, it is necessary to find an example, yes, that the poor, how to move from this state naturally, we have many people, yes, great people, yes, who have made a great contribution, in development into evolution, but came out of... the state of a poor person, well, all the examples that i will give, i correctly understand that the example should be near and dear, from the next entrance, preferably from the next apartment, we can see, look at the person’s biography , how did he come to this, well, the example of mikhail vasilyevich lomanosov is not very motivating, yes, not everyone comes from arkhanelsk on foot with a fish train, founds universities, that is, although i’m roughly leading, there are some criteria, you may not one, what

is the difference between the way rich people think and the way poor people think? who reached certain heights, if - ask how he lived, he lived in a state of oppression , you know, it was always mm, there was some kind of flawed state, at this moment you want to, as if, win the trust of other people through education or through something else, you know, well, those who live in poverty now, they also have the same limitation on resources, on opportunities, they don’t go on vacation, they never have such an opportunity for money. not enough even until the next salary, and yet some of this state take steps, others do not, they are also in these cramped situations, but according to what should be in thinking that should you, i will introduce this to what is there some skill that can be trained, or is it innate? you can train, yes, but it’s always a question, you know, how to be so observant, when i’m interested in everything that’s around me, when i’m not sitting,

lying on the couch at home, not watching tv, and when i’m interested, well, lying on the couch is also interesting , yes, this is a fact, but watching tv , yes, if you travel, if you go to a museum, listen to music, there is nothing to travel with, why should i start with myself, yes, i did not have the opportunity to go to a psychologist, but i was very important, and i found a hotline, a free hotline, yes, wherever i could to consult just in the field of psychology, this is a question of searching, what question did you ask when you called the hotline, can i talk, i feel very bad? how old were you? and i was 20, 24 years old, well, you have already taken some steps from that , i left the small town where i was born, you see, it is very important who the enlightened people are, yes, that’s where this name came from, this word, yes, this is when people from small villages went to another village, they returned enlightened,

they went somewhere, learned something, came back with new information. svetlana, then let’s move on to specifics, your example is very illustrative, but here everyone is interested, of course , in examples, top managers, rich people who everyone hears, whom you advise, let’s start with a simple one, here ’s the opposite question, yes, there is do such people have a fear of poverty, a fear of going back and what to do about it? always, i always encounter this, a person comes to me, yes, especially at, uh, i would say, a startup, yeah, yes, when he already more or less has some money, and continues to develop, yes, and he comes and says, i’m afraid to go back, i’m afraid to slide down there, what’s happening? fear is a feeling, why does this happen, svetlana, well, because a person has had the experience of being poor, suddenly he has money, he is afraid of losing, yes, what do i advise, i always work in the field of self-regulation, i have already said that we test this world with the help of feelings and

emotions, yes, i recommend analyzing this feeling, this fear, what it is, fantasy, fantasy about that, about past experience, which i rely on, because there is no new one, i fantasize, yes, i start in my head... chasing thoughts with obsession, yes, i start to think, what if they suddenly leave me somewhere this money, when i earned my first million, from this fear, great, self -regulation of mental processes, when i manage my feelings, when i realize my feeling, i start with dialogue, dialogue is natural self-regulation, where did it come from, yes, that is, what do you recommend people to dig, because you know what i always say? then you are in a bad or good mood, you can say, but everything has piled up there or , on the contrary, everything is fine, but always, when you go to bed, let’s say sleep, but when you are alone, and no one distracts you, and you analyze

the situation, you always you can say exactly what event made it so that you are in a good or bad mood today, well, when everything, everything is bad, you think, okay, this is this, this is what i endured, but there is always some point that you more hurt everything and it was she who became the decisive factor that dumped you into this depression. i understand correctly that you need to look for such a point and then work with your fears in this direction. yes, absolutely true, but again i return to this complex term, yes, this is self-regulation, what is this, i am aware of my feeling, for example, my loved one told me something that offended me, it’s normal to have such feelings, yes, we don’t deny them, we admit them, so i’m offended by what? that my sister, for example, appreciated me. she devalued, i would say so, and of course i feel offended, and i begin to think not about that, not about myself, but why did this person

do this, what happened to him? it’s a matter of understanding, to understand, to understand why he did it, and it will become easier, but when i saw that , for example, a person, yes, well, limits himself, envies me, and cannot cope with it, this envy comes out here this poison, let’s say, and i wanted to feel sorry for her, and my resentment went away, it’s very important to clarify this point, yes, call and say, you know, i i really understand you, yes, well, here i was in a lot of pain, how can i help you , that is, in order to become happy, in order not to be offended, well , at least your inner circle, you must everyone around him, too, as they say, to raise, also to make partly happy, to share his part and share his own , just to understand why, what prompted him to do or say this, this is not directed at me, well, for example, yes, if my mother screams, why she screams, mom deprived herself

of attention, directed all her attention to raising her children, but she’s not there, and it’s difficult for her, if she took time for herself , she wouldn’t scream, you know, the whole world, what you said, svetlana, they don’t understand her, that is, returning to this term, to this phrase , remember the quote from... the movie we'll live until monday , that the boy wrote the poem happiness is when you are understood, it's very beautiful, it's right, it's a very beautiful phrase, i think everyone should write it down, your own happiness is when you yourself you understand yourself the happiness of those people who are around you when you understand them, and in fact, we shouldn’t be afraid to tell them this, returning to the psychology of poverty, the question is how much has the generation changed , the generation to which you and i belong, well, by luck, and the generation of soviet children, when we lived, what we put aside for a rainy day, there this service is for certain holidays, rather than being rich there is nothing to start with, and honestly you won’t make any money at all, but among young people, the so-called z generation