[000:00:00;00] when people sat at home, when profitability fell and began to look for ways, there was a lot of time, they began to read, in fact, open those same brokerage accounts, but at the same time these brokerage accounts remain unused, that is, people opened them, then everything stabilized more and more. less in the economy and they forgot obis, well, an individual investment account , where you are guaranteed to receive a tax deduction from the state if you work for, well , 4,000 rubles, but nevertheless... you also need to know how to release your income from this account do, yes, for example, there are a lot of people who, when buying real estate there, do not receive tax deductions, simply because they don’t know or don’t have time to file or something else, that is, a tax deduction when buying real estate is one thing, it’s another thing,

a direct tool developed well of course, well, objectively, probably yes, this is a business, so i would start with the fact that the first, most important message that needs to be sent to the audience, to those who? trying to actually establish himself financially, yes, to obtain that very financial literacy, and this means giving basic returns on, well, in this case, let it be rubles, but god bless him, they haven’t reached dollars yet, they haven’t reached the yuan, that is, a person should imagine what a relatively risk-free income, yes, well, where someone guarantees it, well, there is either a bank, or as in government bonds, which is much more reliable, but i take this opportunity to say that bonds are much more reliable than

banking. deposits, while they bear exactly the same profitability, yes, sometimes even a little higher, sometimes a little lower, but about the same as the rates in banks, only here your deposit is guaranteed by a deposit insurance system, well , in fact, also by the state, but only up to a certain amount, but in my opinion, up to a million now and 400, here in in the case of bonds, you give this in return to the state and in fact the state is fully responsible for fulfilling its obligations to you, but this is necessary... this is actually the basis of literacy and i would start with the fact that everyone should imagine this level of profitability, because in our country, both women and men, i think, when everyone hears about 11, 10% , they say, well, where are these ikhs, yes, x2, x3 multiplication, but this is not there, everyone should understand, that this is really a huge risk, that’s how profitable it is, yes , even a financial institution, and well , a bank in this case, to promote exactly

this kind of profitability then to you. your investor , well, let it be a woman, a man, it doesn’t matter, well, we widely, for example, use the ofz tool, but i want to say here that it’s probably necessary really tell the population more about it, because it is in demand, of course, and even very actively in demand, but at the same time, these are probably, again, large cities, that is , these are people who can somehow get information, it is necessary tell the population more widely about such instruments in general, that’s what concerns deposits, well, that’s all... after all, the profitability is probably still a little less, because there are restrictions there, there are again amounts, it depends on the amount, yeah, that’s it , so this is a nuance. this is an easy money podcast, and today we are discussing the topic of women in investments, which is a great source for women, and trust in the perception of information, that is, who it should be, it should be some kind of government

structure, that is, a speaker. let’s say from the ministry of finance, or it should be some kind of scientist, that is, who do women trust most in such a complex issue as investing, firstly , it depends on the woman’s psychotype, and secondly, it seems to me that women are a collective image, such for draw themselves if in general a woman begins to dive into the topic of investments, she will listen to this and that and that and make some kind of conditional choice of her own, that’s how to attract attention, here i don’t even know, it seems to me that it must be some kind of famous . a person who is somehow connected with the world of finance, but at the same time popular, for example, you are mikhail , i hope boom we will have programs, everything is like in life, yes, you know how a man and a woman come to the store , regular grocery, i don’t know what to buy, let’s say there, i don’t know, canned peas, yes, let’s say a man sees a shelf with peas, takes them, goes to the cash register, doesn’t understand the brand of peas, the woman

has to go around. at the same time, having collected a bunch of things there , this is also necessary, then she will carefully study the peas, and then there should be some famous person who advertises peas, a certain brand, she will choose. that is, as i understand it, these are all life patterns, they all work in investment , well, of course, they work, but by the way , if a man trusts more, for example, some financial organizations, brokers, some management companies of their finances, as a rule , women trust banks more, such a conservative approach, after all, banks are more of a trusting organization for women than some, for example, management company, that is, it turns out that unlike men, because again this is a risk factor issue, that is, financial. this is some kind of still incomprehensible animal on the market , an animal on the market, as it were, yes, there have always been banks, these are the main ones, this definitely should not fail the logic in this and what should your research as you watch

your investors grow, what needs to happen in a woman’s mind for her to go from such a conservative investor to a three-liter house to the bank itself. institute, even if we leave the ofz out of the brackets, what needs to happen for her to become a truly full-fledged investor in the broad sense of the word, i’ve already thought about such a word as an investment portfolio, well, again, if we compare, a man can immediately go, conditionally buy shares without understanding, then the woman is more like she has such a step-by-step approach, she will first try one tool, a second, a third, that is, and what does this mean, if they all worked, that is, she gains more and more tools, then... she actually and her growth in investment knowledge more and more are using a wider range of tools, by the way, in court the question is based on experience: who turns to the services of investment advisers more, men or women, men, that is, women prefer to

figure everything out among investment advisers i know a lot of women, well, exactly because of this, they have grown in their knowledge and began to study, it feels like the smartest women teach men and this is actually also an interesting factor, by the way, how much time it usually takes the development of a woman, so that one can say that she has really become a full-fledged investor, according to statistics, i won’t say according to statistics, it also depends on the person as a whole, but how would such an approach be, i can say that well, if among women then 39 years old, this is the most basic age for investment, that is, this is a woman who has already completed a certain professional... which usually has a higher education, among such women there are many very small-medium entrepreneurs of this level, specialization in higher education plays a role or not, or the very fact of higher education as some kind of step plays , plays, plays, yes, but these are women who come from

finance, just from the educational sphere, well, mostly of course, which is associated with entrepreneurial investment, financial activities, let's say, let's talk about what is also an interesting point about how everything is there, how to invest, earn money, that's how... as a rule, what do women invest their earned capital in? well, in the education of children, first of all, this is probably number one, and such a task is a long-term investment in order to then invest this money in the education of children, including in your own education , and that is, this is some kind of specific life tasks, life goals, these are definitely real estate, that is, it’s not gold and diamonds, no, but it’s interesting. that women are wealthier, they are just thinking about it, we also had one such thing, well, i wouldn’t say it was a study, but rather a round table on the topic of investing in art, in some dratals and so on, and now this is increasingly

gaining momentum among the entrepreneurial community, including women, well, it’s becoming popular, then i will address the male part of our audience, dear men, men invest in gold, dear men. do not envy your women, because, as vera just told us, they will invest all the profit they earn in the education of your children, in their own, at least you will live with educated children and a woman next to you, so you can go on vacation, travel too, well, again, it’s a family pleasure, by the way, there’s a direct difference if a man invests in order to simply earn money, as a rule, without any tasks at all, but as a rule, i want to. money, relatively speaking, i now have this amount, i now i’ll invest there, earn money and i’ll be great, relatively speaking, i’ll feel myself there, but the woman wo n’t, this is a different approach, these are immediately some tasks of such a social-family

nature, you know, you just said it word for word , as my wife told me for many years, you know why you can’t earn a lot of money, because you earn it just like that, when you see that you already have enough for everything, then men. there are still a bunch of other tasks, so he sets goals for investing. if you set clear goals and this is confirmed by all psychological studies on financial planning, budget management, with clear goals you achieve them much faster, more clearly and with a higher probability than if the goal is simply to make money, yes, because, because it’s psychological a man stops as soon as the lower levels of maslov’s pyramid, known to everyone by their needs, are filled, and as soon as the first three levels are filled,

the man rushes to the sofa, well, with very few exceptions, yes, because that’s all ok, there are cars, apartments, dachas, everything is provided there, what else, but a woman is always like this, maybe this is another difference, yes, yes, the main rule is, the actual goal in investing should be a specific goal, from this portfolio - you can formulate what you need, that is, all women, without exception , come to investments with a specific goal, well, i haven’t met a woman who, to be honest, that’s how many times i’ve talked just with the female gender, let’s say, who yes, what -really interested in investments very important, literally every woman, she strives for a specific task, to solve a specific problem, yeah, that’s true , returning to the topic of, say, using, well, a man has such an interest in sports, yes, a man,

a man. well, i can, and a woman specifically has this masculine energy , well, it’s a well-known fact that a woman is needed in order to a inspire a man and b- direct his efforts in the right direction, useful, in fact, further to work the law of life on this planet, yes, in fact, the main goal of a woman is preservation, procreation in therefore, in order to save the economy, it is necessary to increase the literacy of the female population in terms of investments, well, you know, i can say this, there is such a conventional phrase, there is russia, which we lost, i remember when many years ago, i looked at it for the first time chekhov's cherry orchard in the theater, and well, it's one thing to read, yes, another thing is when you watch a production, you pay attention to some details, and plus then i was already actively involved in investments, and this is the first time, yes, i read it

work more than once, i noticed that the main character, when he told in the second part, this is the beginning of the 20th century, yes , he tells his household what he will do after the sale of the estate, in fact, there is the main plot of the work, and he declares, read it, just don’t be lazy , he declares that he will invest them in government bonds and will earn this income, for me it was such a revelation, i think why he was there either theatrically. critic, i don’t remember now, but a person associated with art, far from finance for sure, and he completely calmly, but he operates with complex financial instruments, not a bank deposit, so he tells this to his household, who understand him, they understand what he says, that is, when they say that all of russia is bast shoes, but at least in large cities, even on estates, that is, the level of literacy was such that such complex instruments were talked about simply as everyday things there , like i’ll buy there, i don’t know, a new hat with ribbons or something, i think that, of course,

this generally a normal approach to something like this stable, stable economy, concluding our conversation, in order for us to really get not only female investors, male investors, i think that all market participants, and this is beneficial, should engage in just basic education, yes, because when you are open, when you are transparent, i just noticed that a lot of advertising offers are made... based on the ideology of transparency, yes, there are transparent conditions, and transparent, a lot of the message is towards openness, i think that this is a very true message, that is, you need to win trust first of all through honesty, through your expertise, and then we will all grow together, well , including through our program, both successful women investors and men, the russian population in general is very smart, i think our country is smart, our people are smart, i think we deserve to be

financially literate and successful , including financially, not only women, vera, thank you very much for your time, thank you, i hope that we will encourage a large number of women engage even more actively, starting from financial literacy, engage in successful investments, become successful investors, thank you, thank you. i'm larisaeva, let's get married. good afternoon, today the grooms are ruslan, danil and sergey, and our bride is maria, maria is 21 years old, when she was tired of proving to her mother and why that she was a good girl, she ran away from home and got involved with a bad guy, maria is a permanent makeup artist, lives in bataysk, proud of his figure,

dreams of saving up for an apartment to buy a brindle python, admits that she feels like she is 30 years old, warns that she will not allow her lover to raise her daughter. maria will not continue communicating with the picky ede-gentleman, who lives with her parents, the man of her dreams will come on the first date with flowers, will love animals, will never raise his voice at her, will not send her to the store at night and will not claim her apartment. hello, hello, hello, the combination of hair color with a dress, you know, beautiful, looks, yes, looks good, at 21 i felt at 67. this is a normal age, but i also increased myself, for 18 years i said that i was 25, but what’s wrong with you? oh, well, here i’m trying not to add age to myself, but just a fairly strict upbringing, from early childhood, an independent life, but forced me to feel like i’m no longer a little girl, an adult, responsible woman,

you were raised by your stepfather from what age , and i was brought up, i was probably in the second grade, i was 8 years old, and at first my upbringing was quite, you know, like that light friendly, and then everything grew into my father’s harsh upbringing, which my mother allowed me to punish, the bride is very specific, it’s clear that she has such a lively, fighting character, a bad girl, i specialize in bad girls, why were they punished? there were really really stupid punishments, and my dad , you might say, now all the time it turned out that i was under some kind of condition, i had a very favorite rabbit, i came after school and talked to him. and he always insisted to me that you were not adequate, and i could this means getting hit on the head, bream, slaps on the head, he was older than your mother, no, he is younger, and they are 5 years apart, it turns out that when he came to our family, he was actually 21, you are eight, yes, what did you call him

, sasha, except for the breams, they didn’t notice anything from ochima’s side towards himself, no, towards me it was right here, i can say now that they treated me directly as a daughter, he just didn’t know how to raise children correctly, me right away.. .a man will not be allowed to raise his daughter, but now through a story that she says, i already understand why, they didn’t hurt me until a certain age, until i was a teenager, until i was 12-13 years old, they gave me everything , everything i wanted, from the age of 12, they didn’t have children in common back then, no, but they appeared younger brother, when i was 16, and there are still children before you, i have a younger sister, how old is she, and she is younger than me by... 5 years, that is, he took your mother with two children, at 21, you weren't jealous of your mom, uh, i always had a distant relationship with my mom, we never had a friendly relationship, because mom from an early age age, she worked, was at work all the time, there was no excess of attention, love and some kind of, you know, this maternal presence, that is, there is something to suggest, i can say from myself

that i don’t have such problems, i grew up in complete family, i have a happy marriage with my parents, how i am completely grateful to them for... this is for their hard work that they put into themselves, into their family, into me, respectively, into my sister. so you turned 13 years old there, and what was the first thing you did that caused such anger and indignation on the part of parents, but my mother didn’t like that not everything was going according to her plan, and if the house wasn’t cleaned after school, the dishes weren’t washed, they could get a frying pan, they could throw a plate at the child, that is, dirty dishes, that means that’s it, you ’ll get a belt, why didn’t they wash the dishes? listen, the child came home after school, did his homework, went for a walk, naturally didn’t want to go, but they knew that they would get bream for this, and yes, they hid the dishes, of course, but they understood that mom was plowing until night, that mom needed help somehow, well, we helped, no, there were just some moments, for example there perfectly washed out the dishes, where i would wash the dishes perfectly at the age of 12, i also have a younger sister who needs to be picked up from kindergarten

to sit with her, that is, you objectively today think that they were clinging to you, and continued to work on you, well, that is, some- did you cut the circles? no, no, we didn’t have that , we didn’t have family walks, we didn’t have family get-togethers, because mom had to work, pay off loans, the key word, and mom had to be at work all the time, she tortured us somehow not what to buy, but somehow your attention gifts, expensive shoes, well, let's be honest, at the age of 13 , expensive shoes were not particularly important to us, now i understand that, for example, for me, maternal care would be what attention would be expressed in? with me to matinees, to some of my events, she cooed with me about boys, whatever it is, you know, she was always on my side, so i ’ll tell you there, vasya offended me there, she says, listen , let's talk now and...' let's solve this situation, who is right in this situation? no, it’s always been like this, you’ll figure it out on your own, but you

they turned to their mother, yes, some kind, no, it was always like this, learn to give change , i was taught how to give a two, at the age of 12, it was, of course, a funny village, funny, but when it came to fights, you realized that you were the only one taking out , and i probably, you know, had some kind of anticipation , i liked being always the first, i got into fights, i always hit first to get out of this situation, as they say, the main one, as... i really didn’t have problems with alcohol , drugs, no, but tattoos don’t bother you, no, i like it when one girl has tattoos, here nothing superfluous, you see an interesting tattoo, and you want to take a closer look at what it is, in general, emotions appear in you , yes, of course they do, and when was the first time you were blown away that you ran away from home, because of which you were 14 years old , at the age of 14, and it was already unbearable, all of these, there was just strict control in everything, i could very much control my correspondence, my contacts, you know, we all... in adolescence we communicate with boys, nothing like that, just flirting or some kind of misunderstanding

on social networks, and this all turned into strict control, that is, it happened that and what , for example, he was tensed after which the strict control, he just knew that the girls in such a thing wrote that you want to kiss some boy, no, he just controlled the correspondence, because no, well, it was written there, i want to kiss you, no, there were photographs, like , you know, i send a kiss to a boy, or the boy sends me, for example, like him in class there in boxing or something like that, for him it was already something bad, so when my eyesight saw this correspondence, where are you and the boys, how did the conversation even come about that you need to be checked by a gynecologist? and it was precisely this conversation that started after the first one, when i ran away from home, and where did you run away, where are you? i was walking outside, how long did it take? but it turns out to be night morning, in the morning i came to my friend, asked her, i said, i already want to sleep, and at night where you walked alone, in the park, in the park, and you were not afraid that you either had the police or mane. some kind of, no, generally, you know, fear, probably in this there is no age at all, there is fear of course, you know, those who have no fear, irrational creatures, i will explain to you, there is such

a test when a child is born, you have a child, and he is not even what he is doesn’t sit, that is, he is about 15 days old, they put him on the edge of the sofa, for example, yes, on his tummy , they push him by his legs like this, his reflex is triggered, he clings with his fingers, if he is mentally developed, if he, what the will, what not the will, what the hole, what not, he will just be so weak-willed, here you go, fear - this is a natural feeling among reasonable people, if you were not afraid of anything and walked all night at night, then you should have also been taken to a psychiatrist, but no, just because the situation was all at home, i wanted to go somewhere - then to run away so as not to walk around in this environment, of course, protestant morals, all these movements, but this is all understandable, for me it is more than understandable and it would be really stupid to expect anything else, well, we saw that there

were emoticons, you know, here this feeling was impossible, it was scary to even sit on the phone, then there are only parents entering the room, the feeling is that you need to get up, it’s scary that they will see the phone, you want to hide it, you still wanted some kind of a little bit of personal personal space, so mom announces to you, says tomorrow we masha are going with you to to the gynecologist, no, i run away from home, they find me... and naturally, whoever finds all this, the police or my parents, yes, the girl came to school, took it, told, apparently at school, that i was with her, who is bitching in the door, i open the door, and the director is standing there, my mother is the police, so naturally they take me away, the trial begins, they ask me a question, why did you run away, i naturally said directly, i say, i’m already tired of assault, of course my parents were forbidden to simply raise a hand to me, they said that we shouldn’t do this, we will check, they beat me they beat me or... it was just in their hearts, it’s just not, they could naturally beat me well, that is, they often even had such phrases at home, now they’ll beat you so hard that your skin will burst, i’ll sprinkle salt on you, and

the cart will take you away, that means the police, yes , and naturally, the first question that arises at my parents, where you were, i naturally tell the whole truth, they tell me, no , you were with the boy, in any case , what happened, this is the mother saying, and this is the father saying , the father, yes, he was the initiator of all these checks, all this, yes, but he checked everything very thoroughly, you know, he had a feeling to prove the truth. that he is right and no one else. well, i think that it is entirely the fault of the parents, both her own mother and her father, that the girl nevertheless grows up and should receive more care, love and affection than some cruel appeal, the police release you after all the proceedings, and what, well, you still go to the gynecologist, yes, naturally, to the gynecologist there are only no injuries, violations, no, as if, if it were, it could be proven that, as if the girls had some kind of sexual intercourse. and here you are, at 17 years old, already tired of all this once again, when what happened, that you screwed everything up, i got a job, i

was studying in college and i naturally wanted my own personal money. in order to manage them somehow, i got a job and i was scolded very much for this, then why the hell do you come home very late , i explain how i want to earn money , i want to be responsible for everything myself, they tell me, no, if you don’t stop this now, we’ll come there to work, we will disgrace you, roughly speaking, and you won’t go there anymore, one day i don’t want to return home, i start communicating with a boy with whom i fell in love very much and he supports me in everything, he lives in krasnodar. naturally, just in one of i didn’t return home for days, without a passport, without documents, without things, without anything , only a month later i took some certain things, documents, and not all of them, well done, i think it’s right, you need to defend your point of view , to defend my desires, and i ran away for great, great love, naturally, my parents were against it, on this basis i lost communication with my parents, and you live with this boy, how old was he, he is 2

years older than me, i was 17, he was 19, yeah, he was born right away? no, i gave birth at 9, at this time you did you maintain a relationship with your parents? we began to maintain communication with my parents when a very large-scale incident happened in my life , my daughter’s father beat me very badly, very badly, i had a lot of injuries, my eyes were filled with blood, because of this, i naturally began to lose weight during pregnancy, now i 'll pay for it myself, do you have a handkerchief? i didn’t take it from me, my daughter was born. 800 my mother didn’t force me to have an abortion or not, she said so decide for yourself as you want, that is, if i force you, you will blame me, if i’ll force you to give birth, you’ll blame me too, and naturally, i’ll honestly say that my first thought was to have an abortion, because it was still scary, imagine, thank god, that you don’t have to kill yourself, oh, about your hands, by the way, that’s it’s just a very separate story, i have slashed veins, and i tried

to commit suicide, but out of ignorance, not my stupidity, probably the south of maximalism, i opened my veins. yes, when you can’t come to an agreement, when they don’t hear you, when they don’t see you or consider you their own opinion is more weighty than yours, yes, you are a child, that’s clear, but everyone wants to be heard, understood, you are giving birth to a child, yes , who from the family took home, mother, why didn’t he come, well, he was at work, it turns out that because i gave birth to an unknown child, i was discharged alone, and your mother took you home, no, well, i, i lived separately from my mother, receiving... when i returned back pregnant, did you rent an apartment? yes, but my mother helped me in the only way, she gave me 10,000 for an apartment, we rented it, and i returned to bataysk, from krasnodar, pregnant. and continued to study, because at the age of 17 i dropped out of college for the sake of my father-child , tell me, but my mother didn’t figure it out or why there were attempts with this, with your boyfriend, but what will they lead to, it’s like i’m an adult at that

moment i was already pregnant, what to do, there is psychology. such, well, one of the most important, successful ages between a man and a woman is plus or minus 10 years, well, a small plus or minus, but here we have a difference of 16 years, and well, the difference is too big, you still live in a rented apartment, in a rented apartment , now i'm saving, how much for the child? 2.5 years old, somehow your mother accepts and helps you with money? now my mother helps, she helps in addition to the nanny, that is, i used to have a nanny, now my mother helps with this. that is, after work she still sits with the child, now she doesn’t work, because she can sit with the child or simply not, because her husband at the moment, that is, why, he told her that you should do your nails there, something, but don’t work, she’s sitting at home at the moment, please tell me, this is the first time my mother made a remark to you about lips, that or it’s very, no, mom never liked lips, tattoos, everything related to injections, yes, but he didn’t really cling, that

lips are getting bigger bigger, no, mom didn’t like them anymore, he really didn’t care , your sister also lives with you, yes, she also has a rather complicated relationship with her mother, and i made a decision, you build relationships according to the same scheme, it’s just that your sister is like that, that is, you know, quiet, calm in the family , but on the contrary, she’s a rebel, that is, it ’s not immediately obvious that you tear it off and throw it away, but the girl is great, she didn’t get upset, she didn’t become self-conscious, she used all her strengths and leads her life successfully, as i see it, but what wouldn’t you want your daughter to inherit from you in character? temper, and today you yourself are on a scale of 10, what mark do you give yourself for your teenage years, i probably wouldn’t want a child to behave like that, maybe so that he would probably communicate with me more, i would probably, if only if i could rewind time, i would probably knock on my mother’s door more, so that this situation wouldn’t happen. happened, probably, well, no more than five,

tell me, what about something, well, not that you blame yourself, but repent? yes, what is it that when she left, she did not maintain communication, my mother was very nervous, worried, now , for example, now i understand that how difficult it is, if my child had been like this... i probably wouldn’t know, there i would burst all over from internal pain, and for this i can ask my mother, well, i already asked, as it were, and i can ask for forgiveness again a million times, but do you think she’s serious, that is, well, yes, of course, i see that she has serious intentions and wants to find a continuation here in the future, you, who else, now your relationship with your mother has improved? yes, thank god, we couldn’t communicate normally for a long time, now thank god, somehow we came to this good result, you know, with my stepfather, we also maintain communication, well, it’s still like this is my father’s, i won’t say without reading him really strongly, you know, like some kind of close friend, like mom, yes, that is, with mom

it’s already different, but he somehow changed, uh, well he looks at you somehow, but he doesn’t scold him for anything anymore, but doesn’t say anything , that is, i’ll come there and say i have a new tattoo, he’s like, well, cool, understandable, i say, there’s an apartment there now i’m going to buy, he says, cool, understandable, that’s it, there’s no longer... some kind of, i don’t know, him, not disgust, but like suspiciousness towards everything you say, but there is a feeling that, uh, they didn’t cling to you, but they were quite fair to themselves , they tried as best they could, after all, well, as they used to say, to make a man out of you, they really both of them are not so bad, yes, now, for example, i no longer consider them that way, you know, some kind of bad parents, yes, perhaps a year or two ago, having asked me this question, i would have said, these are tyrants, take them away children, now i... understand that i might have behaved the same way if i hadn’t had this battle in life, you beat your child, you beat your child, no, now i’m taking a lot of courses, i’m trying to read and i try , for example, you know, some moments, i don’t spoil her, i’m very strict in my upbringing,

strict, not in terms of beating her but scolding her, that is, she knows that she needs to wipe herself , clean up after herself, that is, go to bed, a two-year-old child, yes, she is a very independent girl, because you make them independent, and i do everything the same as with they did it to you, no, why i’m explaining why on my own, it’s, no, no, your parents beat you, this, this is unacceptable in any way, i know what it is, they tied me to the bed, the headboards so that i didn’t run away, i bit it off, i ran away, well, now i’ll give it to you example, never, which i will not allow in my family, at the age of 13, you know, everyone loves pierced piercings, when it was fashionable then, and i pierced my nose in the middle, my mother, when i found out about it, i gave it to me... and well, very she punished me severely for this, she punished me so much that i still have a scar on my face to this day, that is, she hit me there with my eyebrow on the bed, she said next time you’ll do the piercing again, i ’ll pull it out with pliers, that is, i would,

for example, sit down i would like to talk to the child, maybe i have the opportunity to call your mother now talk to her, oh, how similar they are, really like twins, it feels like sisters, probably, and not like mother and daughter. how similar you are, your daughter was just like, what time did you give birth to her, 18, well, that is, everything repeats itself, you know, yes, the great bergman said that a daughter’s misfortune and happiness depend directly on the mother, that is, we are inherited from mothers, well how to say, my mother gave birth at 23, i’m not just talking about this, they are very similar, and they have some kind of one line of feminine beauty , which is reflected well in both mother, so in her daughter, your daughter said that she was very happy in childhood, is there something, well, is there anything to object to you?

no, look, look, yes, darling, i’m so unholy, i screamed, i drove, i threatened, so nothing will surprise me, those women who tell me what wonderful children they have, and how good everything is in their family, they're lying, that's why i think we now have this opportunity, just to make some... existence easier for mothers of teenagers, especially girls, yes, we'll just help them, if we are now extremely frank and just find out everything somehow, you beat, we beat masha, masha got it very badly, yes, i tried, probably because her wound gave birth, i tried to prove what everyone told me, that she gave birth to a child too early, you couldn’t give her any upbringing, and i really tried to make her ideal, i had moments... i even asked for an apology, explaining that you were my first, and you were little for me, and i was always afraid that

someone might offend you, you got married according to love, apparently, yes, for your stepfather, but in private, yes, yes, and you have two girls from the same man, both from the same cancer, you are happily married, with masha sochim, with the present one, at the moment now , yes? was everything fine from the first days? no, jealousy, he was jealous of you, of the father of your girls, he was jealous, the lady is in uniform, like her daughter, everything is with her, this is in red, they are so red and blue, i will dilute them with my black and white color, this is jealousy it somehow affected masha, well, he always saw the fruit - your sex with another man, so what? to be disingenuous, well, to be honest, all the time, well, that’s how controversial we had, that is, in the purchase of phones, there was something else, that is, i was such an opponent

that no, but he, on the contrary, that no, necessary. you need to buy a child, look, and you know, yes , that he monitored social networks, and monitored correspondence, a car, and you allowed it, it was with your permission, or you, in general, were not for all of this, let’s do it that way, to be honest, i was very far from this, we were very afraid, at that time there was a lot of... drugs, all of these, and we were very much afraid that this would happen and we tried to cut her off from this, you say, this check with the gynecologist insisted, yes, that you check for virginity, well, yes, we had a moment when masha left home, then we had to involve the police, we had no choice, the police also forced us to do this, was there anything wrong with the girl at that moment while she was not at home, yeah, and it turned out at the gynecologist that she is a virgin, it turned out that she is

a virgin, but her upbringing is tough, absolutely... i don’t accept it, because well, the result of upbringing , she gave birth to a child there at what age at 19, now just a minute, i want to step a little behind, well, as if in the direction of my mother, i understand, yes, you should live together, i to no complaints to mom, in general mom is fine, at some point she just wanted the man to take care of the upbringing, because she can do it now, look, just a second, look, i’m not your lawyer, no one, and i’m not your judge or prosecutor , i understand. raising a girl with a character like this is very it’s difficult, that is, i don’t condemn your mother for anything, the fact that you want to beat you, well, naturally, because you can bring it to your knees, you stutter and throw yourself at the wall, that’s normal, i’m talking about something completely different now, that you always take a step forward, then you, this is what you say, no, no, no, mom is good, no, no, a very similar situation, which means, look, this is

what you begin to justify. on the other hand, you are doing yourself a disservice, i went through, let go and forgive my mother, i only now, at 60, she started, and why, because you have to admit that she did wrong, you know, there’s no need, everyone worked, not just her, she’s the only one who worked, other women worked too, but why - did you find time, in this situation, you are not a very good mother, that is, you have to admit it as a daughter, but it’s bad, admit that your mother is not a very good mother, no, that’s not the point, love, look when a woman falls in love into a man, especially since your man was, he came to your sim when he he was 21 years old, a boy, what did he understand about upbringing, what did he understand about relationships in general, dad is a child, what could he know, that’s not the point, but a woman, when she falls in love, she already... asks her children

to call him on the second day dad, i’m not talking about your family, i’m basically saying, she’s ready to lay the very white rose under his feet, just so that he falls in love with her through the children, that’s it, she ’ll do anything. i love children and have nothing bad against it, but it’s just that every person should create children when they are ready for it. i'm just wondering why they allowed it why should masha slap her upside the head? what kind of education method is this? my great mistake is visible in the fact that i... and masha did not forbid communicating with him on a level not as a father, not as father and daughter, but as friends, and you were not bothered by this kind of friendship with your stepfather, no, that’s what i’m talking about says mom, he gave money for ice cream, allowed everything, covered in something, that is, you want to go for a walk, like , don’t do your homework, go for a walk, then we’ll do homework, or there, well, then he started to grow up, i started to grow up already the problems became tougher then he already included not a friend, but a dad.

and i no longer perceived him as a dad, and in general you can only judge a life probably by wearing this man’s golosh, by this life, i agree, i once complained about my mother, until a smart woman told me, don’t you dare talk about your mother like that until you have dressed her, you cannot dress her naked and go through her life, this is lyubov mikhailovna, explain what was the motivation for hitting a small child’s head on the bed? you could essentially kill her, just kill her, there are moments, yes, but you did this more than once, they did this more than once, and there were moments when masha pierced her nose without permission, how to pierce a nose, i found out that she was going to do this, i asked, don’t do this, i intimidated that well, i say, i’ll hang you under this a light bulb, well, as if it was said in jokes at first, as if i also scold myself for these moments, the fact that i could

look at everything adequately, this is my first, as it turns out, my first child, these are the first ones, my mother held us severity, we have a belt, you continued the same thing. no, really in fact, my mother is not a bad person, you look at her, it’s clear that she tried, she wanted, it’s just that these questions regarding her stepfather, not her own father, not her own mother, they are extremely complex, lyuba, and you know that masha yes , i opened my veins, uh-huh, only it was in krasnodar, and how do you feel about it, yes, i generally have a bad attitude towards tattoos. but you understood, yes, well, masha probably told you that her lover was beating her, with whom she lived, yes, and you, out of everyone, the mother who says, chose, so live, no one kicked you out of the house, ish what, no, yes, not from these, no, i immediately told her, i talked to him, that this relationship

of yours is not worth it, you need to end it, already when masha was pregnant, no, she wasn’t pregnant yet, why didn’t you hit him in the eye, well, you -that? so active and your hand, as they say, flies back and forth , that is, it means you can lift it on a child, because it won’t give change, it means you don’t have enough courage for a healthy man, well, if necessary, i cut men too, this time , no, look, and here he almost killed you, okay, here’s your husband, who is like that the great makarenko in relation to the girl, to the little one, he never said, girls, that means all that was, this is a preface, this is all bullshit, this is really the situation now. the girl is pregnant, thin, losing everything, let's do it, you're sitting at home, and now i'll sort it out with him myself, well, they got into a fight, he sorted things out with yours, there was one situation when vasilisa's father arrived, something happened between them, as it were conflict, that is, they began to fight,

who was first, against whom, and naturally, my father, he took the iron reinforcement and said that will break his legs, because vasilisa’s father is very large, he is 96 meters, 100 km. and what happened on his part, he just wanted to look at the child or wanted to see you for the fourth time , we tried again to naturally carry on conversations with vasilis’s father, try , well, naturally, i’m pregnant, i’m always trying to forgive in some way? and firstly, vasilitsa’s father allowed himself, as it were, a lot of unnecessary things in the direction of the family, in the direction of my mother, sasha, so with my eyes i decided to explain this to him , not with words, but with something harsher, more painful, that you can’t do this, naturally, it didn’t end well, but it turns out that she found a bad guy for herself, and accordingly, this is how it all happened for her, that now she has to sit with the child, how old is your average, well, girl

, 18 it will happen, she lives with you, well, she’s happy , she helps masha, only for this reason , why, because she left her mother’s control, who is heavier, did masha grow up? or your middle daughter? masha, who provides, i just can’t understand this younger one, at the moment because she helps me, but i feel so comfortable and comfortable, it’s like she’s right next to me, naturally there’s some kind of oh for this , but you don’t help, why, and i help, my mother is a leader, very strict, but fair, of course, now looking back, you understand that basically she was also living her first life, she also did not have instructions for raising children, to keep me safe, to provide me with everything i needed, and i have information that masha spent 40,000 on clothes for her youngest, but that was it when needed was to prepare for college, on

that moment was yes, so it’s your child, not hers, she has her own little child, the fact that i asked, they thought it was necessary to buy two persons, yes it was my initiative, at that moment there was a period, as it were, which wasn't much. my mother and i thought that i was obliged, because the child helps me, why are you obliged, she, firstly, i think so, she limited her walks, you are not a parent, you are the parent of your child, and this is your little sister, you've already wasted a lot of your childhood time, taking her from kindergarten, this is your excuse that you worked, it doesn’t justify it at all, well, all the work, but please tell me, how did masha pick up the child from kindergarten? she said she was involved in this? no, there were just moments when the child was brought home from kindergarten, and mashenka was at home with her by herself, you know, well, somehow i look at my mother, it makes an impression, she ’s pleasant to me, but i obviously can’t live with her, at most these are pancakes for maslenitsa, tell me,

what is your relationship like now? now we communicate well, we can now say, with ease, i can tell my mother about the boys, about the boyfriends , what is going on there, some intrigues, that is, now i am trying to trust as much as possible and what i missed then, i am now trying to do it now and i can say, i just thank my mom so much for the fact that now she supports me in everything, why are you crying baby, because this didn’t happen before. and i would like, maybe it ’s my mother’s and my mistake, that at the age of 16 i should have hugged, told that i liked someone, who i kissed, maybe the relationship would have been different, now i can just say a huge thank you to my mother, in fact, that period that passed , you know, i can say, with my head held high, i now want to achieve this with the help of that past, mendelssohn boy, tell us , please, is there any information about sroga. parenting, what comes of it? well, scientists have come to the conclusion

that even screaming as a means of educating the world leads to the fact that the child’s amygdala in the brain and prefrontal cortex, and this entails the occurrence of depression and anxiety disorders in the future. only a happy person can create a happy family, scientists say. yes, of course, i feel sorry for the girl. she had a difficult childhood and her mother, of course, too, well, there is a moment that her mother has already come to her senses and begins to help her, i understand, a small, stupid girl who entered adulthood very early, but you have not wised up, have not matured, because the girl who pumps up his navel like a kardashian, and is proud of it, well, that ’s strange, well, that’s your business, that’s where do you want your butt to be pumped up, yes, she pumped up your butt, pump up your butt, as they say, this is what i did before the summer

for myself, and your breasts, yes, everything is family, it seems to be clear, but what you will, but these demands are ridiculous that you will not feed your husband only breakfasts in beautiful underwear, i work, why am i obliged, i will work at the level of my husband, why am i obliged and feed him dinner at lunch, i will earn a lot of money more than him, you now on the contrary, since mom kept saying, i worked for a while, you are missing, now you took a new one, sang a new song, now my husband, i am working, yes, and you give yourself lunches and breakfasts, morning sex and breakfast in your underwear will be enough for you, this, i forgive you, because mom you’re stupid, and you’re generally still stupid, but just why can’t it be, and this is my so-and-so, she knew that not millions of children have ever dreamed of this, let’s do it here now... how to take out the rokovyak, this is i think so, i don’t like it, i don’t like my

beauty, this is my opinion, so you stupid, but i know for sure that if you find a smart man, he will run away from you, so i recommend to you, my dear, a stupid husband, yeah, who will listen to this, agree to your claims, to your this, you are a tough controller , a man should tell you where he is during the day, he should send you an e-mail, where he is, that you will also tie a geolocation to him, so that this and so on, that is, a stupid man will fall for this and will do it with pleasure , if desired, for seduction i of course i may appear stupid, but i will still probably be who i am, and if there is some grain of stupidity in me, i think it will reveal it over time, and read what other requirements there are, they are strict, they prohibit the upbringing of a daughter, so how strange, how will it exist in parallel, or what? well, i think, since this child is from a previous man, i know what it’s like to be raised by someone other than your own father, and i wouldn’t want some kind of