[000:00:00;00] an interesting brand of the coast, which also appears in this issue, a girl designer, she works with these jewelry, this is also an old northern tradition, the way she weaves them, in fact it is very sophisticated, it looks modern, we have some members of the film crew, they bought she has these jewelry to wear throughout her gray-haired life there with the same denim or with something , i don’t know, with a jersey, with something, with something very simple, the participants regularly buy something, yes, well, in general it inspires many and it really wearable, which is important, and somehow you can... it’s very native to integrate tradition into your wardrobe. did you attract local craftsmen there or bring them from moscow? no, local, we generally always try to attract local craftsmen, and those who make jewelry , those who make, i don’t know, some kind of pottery, i really want to paint a portrait of maria and her family, here, because she is absolutely special an amazing woman, a rural doctor, this is amazing, i realized that my life

is important to a huge number of people. here from such a nondescript material, one might say, turns out to be so beautiful, you can pull apart the ends of two curtains of two curtains to make a chink, pearl, sea, and this is a mechanism of the 10th century with a secret, this is the kind of squiggle i need, this is the kind of squiggle i also need, it worked out, oh. premiere about comfort tomorrow at the first premiere of the season, take a life, step into the unknown , another murder, on herzen just now, you found the killer, andrey sergeevich savin, we’ll meet each other, catch a baitfish, well, i would say not a baitfish, guys maybe you can tell me tell me so that i know why i will be fired,

if? everything will be hidden, will you cover for me? we’ll cover you if you don’t play the fool, but do you think i can kill, this is your object , maria ermolova, here’s a meeting, a fateful one, mostgaz, the last one, the cherkassov case, from monday, after the program, time on the first. these are not bastards, and today we, together with decorator alisa skalskaya and stylist valeria nikolskaya, are traveling through the wedding traditions of different regions of our country. what happened, what did they do that was so special besides yes, besides the dress, the bride and groom. we baked there, fish pie, fish pie, which is surprising, this is fish that is cooked in dough, with

bones, it doesn’t sound very good, yes, it’s not bones. well, it’s not released or separated and it’s a pie with bones, and it’s also served at weddings, this is also an important tradition of theirs, and someone eating it is just standing there for beauty, well , we had a lot of jokes around this, but it’s very risky , at such a wedding you can’t even relax and have a drink, our host, egor, baked it, we were just over it all the time they laughed that he brought a pie that looked like coal, because it was burnt, well, that is, while you were laughing at him, everyone forgot about it, and it got burnt, i see you went back to cooking, yes, yes , we, we, were inspired, but it’s interesting, where did you get the dishes for the wedding, we collected the dishes from the locals, well, because it’s from them, they directly use traditional dishes, they use old dishes, for some it’s old sets, that is, there, for example, a woman who was the owner of one of

these houses, she told us, i’ll give you now the service, she brought it out to us - he had been waiting for you for 200 years, well, something, something like that, she did not indicate exactly how long he had been waiting for us, and so the dishes were from completely different places from different houses, we also brought with us faceted glasses to support this, it seems to me, even a little soviet style, where there is a newspaper, fish, a faceted glass, we also had red napkins, we had red liqueurs, and red, because the north, berries , here. berry liqueurs, you actually mentioned berries in in prints, berry motifs were also very often used, including on a festive scarf, or some detail that could be printed, also maybe something of plant origin, because i constantly wonder what this ornament means, and what this means this ornament, and ethnologists and girls always tell me that it’s nothing, just some kind person was walking, looked down, saw some

beautiful leaf. these motives and used them, well, of course, this can also be interpreted as... about fertility, about some kind of, not i know, well-fedness, a rich house and all that, but in reality no, that is, it’s more likely just some kind of visual code that was familiar to the christening, traditionally, after all, what colors were used in the bride and groom’s outfits, well, in general, how i understood, even from the material with which the designer works, who nevertheless creates there in that area and reveals the cultural code of this region, these are some kind of muted, this is some kind of ocher, this is some kind of muted coral. the walls are burnt flax, that is, something lighter, for example, the groom had a rather light blouse, on which the initials of the bride and groom were embroidered, in general, this also belonged to the tradition of the local region, although we can know that this is all over

the world, and in royal families and so on, in general, i practiced, in fact, it is also very touching, it seems to me, and something that can be passed on from generation to generation, in general , all this hand embroidery, it will flash through us more than once in future issues in different ways. presented differently, also so big discovery for us what materials were used, and well, for example, this peplum here, which fits our dress, it was made of hemp, this is such a rough material, which by the way, yes, there is a lot of it now, even in the mass market in modern brands, and russian foreign ones, yes, this is something, in general, in general it seems to me that it is environmentally friendly, as if it is environmentally friendly, yes, i was just about to turn it around, alice was literally ahead of me, which it seemed to me that designers in general are very... . modern approach to some trends current, including flexibility, because the way she interprets, how she mixes materials, what colors she selects , what shape it is, and chooses, this is also about what it really is about trends, which you

can in some store have everything for at home, in a civilized place in some cool market, i don’t know, to come across it, to see it at a high price , in general it’s very fashionable, it somehow seems to me now, even some chinese on aliexpress, they are trying to duplicate it... theirs is even more valuable find it in the past and to understand that this actually happened and this applies to us, and it’s fashionable, it’s interesting, it just looks visually relevant, but in principle , all this aesthetics at some point migrated to the catwalks, many designers, both russian and international, were inspired by this russian style , here you have ler, there was one of the designers who you were directly inspired by when you came up with images for the program, for me , for example, there who seems to be united under this one name, he is also very different and different designers according to - different and interpreted it and showed it, and that is, what was shown there conventionally there was gatje iliran there in the late eighties or late nineties - these are slightly different things,

that is, it does not surprise me at all that they were inspired there by our country and there by the dyagelskys the seasons there in the twenties also left their mark, it’s all clear that we really respect and value it as history, but now it seems to me, the way i perceive it, the russian style... is a little different, that’s what it really is, even what we see in arkhangelsk, this actually has little to do with russian seasons and sanaran, we have the opportunity to sort of pull out some new codes from the russian style and present them in a more modern, more convenient, more accessible way, that is , are we inspired by some the world's coterie, of course, yes, that is, i don't know, ours too , there, for example, the same ulyana sergegienko, who also seems to me, made a huge contribution to the promotion in general, this is ours, ulyana sergegienko had these basques, it's actually amazing what we're coming up with this basque, we actually thought about about another mess, which is about what , well, about balentyagu, in fact, we looked a little at the silhouettes, that’s something for us in general , here’s such a reference, that’s where we took the element,

but in fact so it turns out that the collective unconsciously that ulyana sergienko she involuntarily, well, also how can you find these intersections, while in fact the outfit is quite simple, that is, it is not couture and can generally be associated, it seems to me, even with japanese aesthetics, that is, in he has something such as reikova kuba, things there are a little sweeping, well, in general, it’s great that we have the opportunity to sort of choose what we like, what we think is more suitable for modern times and due to some accessories there , some decisions, but to present it in a new way, but by the way, by the way, chanel, by the way, yes, yes, yes, i remember this, it looks very powerful, this is really such a runway story, by the way, we will have, in one region there is also such a very active headdress with quite minimalist and in the style of the sixties, a little bit of audrey hebburn, bottoms, and i think we also have gaultier, and this, by the way, is a recent show, yes, this is a show in 2023, which natalya vadyanova opened, he also used the alyarus style , there really are some references, but it seems to me that because the designer himself

was really inspired simply by the course of his entire career in one way or another, russia, he could not , it seems to me, completely ignore this, that is, that is why they somehow revised his previous collection , some took elements, this headdress, in fact, it also looks like a pendant, the bride in arkhangelsk, which is under the scarf in terms of location, it seems, i will not say that this is really what was taken as a basis, and we see a lot some metallic elements, but by the way, this collection has a lot of very, very feminine images, that is , this is the first one, yes, it set the mood, and as for the preparation of our costumes, the bride and groom, we really have such a solid feminism, because we have much more attention is paid to the bride in general and to the women’s suit than to the men’s, but simply because somehow it was set out that way from the very beginning, that is, the meaning is, in general , downplayed; some work is also done with the men’s suit, but of course, just like it’s not strange, but in general it’s probably logical, everything is much simpler there, really, we

look from region to region, some details are added there, but globally, of course, and the bride is the center of attraction at the celebration, but i think , which in many ways is the same in the modern world, because all the same the image of the groom, it is much more predictable in form than the image of the bride, well, that is, we can say that the image of the groom will be similar from region to region in the same style, i don’t think that directly in the same style, because firstly we... have very different personalities of the grooms themselves and we also tried to build on this, but for example, we had a boy who was, for example, a rocker, that is, and it happened that one of the grooms looked and said, well, i not many people have this, in general it was the first feeling that they were like this simply because they love their wife and fiancee, they are like , okay, fine, just don’t take pictures of me, but again we tried not to exaggerate, because i don’t really like - in general, when a man is somehow caricatured. .. but he presents it in general as in this or that context , i want it to be somehow natural, so that

he feels relaxed, and we tried, so somehow, so that it is balanced, so that he feels comfortable in front of his relatives , in front of friends, so that there is no such thing that he feels uncomfortable, but because this is very important, since in general we must admit that this is stressful for the couple, since we are really playing at a wedding, all this is tied up in filming, there are a lot of new people, new sensations, new emotions, of course, i would like to suit too, so that there is convenience, for example, we try to select some more modern shoes to select a suit, again , to balance the image, to make it somehow more unique, but for example, in the same arkhanelsky bride could not wear shoes, although they were in small heels, mary jane, patent leather shoes, and we decided to leave her, because there, yes, there is such a terrain that it is impossible, even in such

shoes it is uncomfortable. hot ice, live broadcast, tomorrow on the first. love figure skating, appreciate figure skating, adore figure skating. what can surprise chefs in altai is pirga, pollen is processed by bees, half a teaspoon a day pirga, the body stops aging, this is soap, no, this is cheese, kuruts cheese, altai national cheese, it looks like parmegiana, what a beauty, this is meat wild deer with chanterelles, which i collected

in ours this morning. italian chanterelles are very similar to our chanterelles, we have them in altai, super, cool, i will cook fish soup with smoked grayling, and now i’m working on the hatch , you can feel the professionalism, cook, cook, the broth is good, and most importantly, grayling has grayling, that’s it ready, premiere, cooks on wheels, on sunday on the first. this is not a bad idea and today we are talking about weddings with a russian soul. ancient traditions, cultural code, you will see all this in the program: we are having a wedding, don’t miss it. alice, alyarus style decor, where some designer was used, maybe? no, this is some kind of a bit of folk history, this can only be raised by traditions, that is, this can only be done, well, as it happens in our process, our leaders.

uh, two girls, nadya and ggalya, they are ethnographers, they research all this, when they are preparing an expedition for us, when they are preparing for our release - to a specific region, i join them in their process and try to extract something from it, because what and as such some kind of tradition, features around the table not very much, well, yes, no, there is no ready-made guide, but i think that’s the beauty of it, because they will follow this path, they will prepare their wedding in tradition or with elements of tradition, firstly, you yourself you regulate the amount of this tradition, that is, so that there is no overkill, so that it is appropriate there, maybe you like one element, and you can present it in your own way, and it will always be unique and to me, which is very important, this is from the point of view of social networks and

photography in general, it works very well, and i it seems that this is also important to mention in the modern world, that this is not just some kind of subcultural story, where someone somehow... brought strange objects and laid them out in some strange order, it just looks very aesthetically pleasing , well, that is, this is just a good ready-made solution for, in principle, any event, well, you now have enormous experience in preparing such an event, you can now share with our viewers if someone really wants to organize a wedding or some kind of event in russian style, how to really make it stylish, beautiful, in good taste, without any frills, it’s difficult to describe in just a few. the place in which you live, to some traditions of this place, you just need to pick them up and look at them from different angles and try to integrate this into the feast and into

costumes, into some traditions of the game, i don’t know the competitions that happen at weddings well , for example, for table decor, what elements can... be used, what should you start from, go out into the field, look, what berries i always grow outside the field, i am always in favor of going out, looking around at what we have, and you can always make something beautiful out of it, it seems to me, as a layman in terms of decor, i can say that it seems easier to start from materials, for example, well, that is, from location and materials and color, yes, that is , for example, yes i, well, for example, in our project i always rely on looking at the space in which we... do this, and then i true , i look around, that is, my assistant always arrives in advance to purchase local markets, go to local forests, i don’t know, collect moss , but this is always happening in our general chats, when there’s just some important dialogue going on, then alice throws off pumpkins and writes everything, guys,

look at how beautiful the pumpkins are , here’s how you used moss in the decor, but of course, this will be a spoiler now, i was in some bar , also by the way, the style was northern, and there, right there, in the decor of the table where the glasses stood, moss and stones were used , yes, there’s something else there, you liked it, it’s very beautiful, when they removed it, they changed it, they periodically change the decorations there, when i arrived, there were already some flowers there, i said, why did you remove it, it was so beautiful, unusual, and that’s why, of course, it ’s important for me to be at home too there are also a lot of interesting things, i just remembered about the decor, also an interesting story , which is not very relevant to our project, there is simply also a russian brand that also works a little with russian aesthetics, only they work with

knitted jersey, they once had them this kind of seeding, they sent it out before collaboration of another birch stump. that is, literally the courier rings your doorbell, you open it and he’s holding a stump in the ovoiska, and it was actually very nice, because they came up with the idea that you should do this averia, these ovozki did it, they did it, well, that is, it turns out in there is only a stump of oatmeal, and in a separate bag you are given some kind of gingerbread thing. according to their idea, you have to sit on a stump, put on the thing in this thing, eat a pie, and it seemed to me that from the point of view of marketing strategy, this is just super, because i remember, i went on some kind of expedition, i come back, and this stump bloomed for me, that is, i have... sprouts and it was so touching, that is, these emotions, they somehow lasted a long time, so i i think, and you know that we sent wreaths, yes, i know, we also sent something, more about this , what kind of wines you sent to, not not funeral ones, no, we sent wreaths to friendly guests of the project and yes, before the launch

of the arkhanel issue , yes, but tell me, by the way, how about this wedding that we just watched, in your first release, what were they? but we don’t have invitations, we have a video that we shoot from young people, that is, they don’t say some fancy words there and invite their friends most often, as far as i understand, but what did it look like, that is, they’re like -were they already in wedding suits or not, since we, since we still support the tradition, some regions have their own tradition of inviting guests, that is, somewhere, for example, the groom is driving through the village shouting something like hey-hey . come there conditionally, it’s me i won’t tell the story correctly, so that it’s interesting to watch the episodes, somewhere it’s different, somewhere there’s a couple somehow, well, that is, everyone has their own traditions, we must admit that we’re not only de it’s not you who go to villages, i yes, i’m just a city dweller, although you are too, but i’m more lucky, well, less from the point of view of new

information, more from the point of view of comfort, probably from time to time, but i’m only in some large city, often the local designer’s mart is also located there, and we film the story there, that is, it happens that i during the celebration itself, and in general in general, i don’t find myself around it, but i’m just the opposite , i don’t go to cities, but i go to villages, and there is something that just makes you... you wanted, we’ve already talked about decorations, i wanted to bring something with me, well, i brought it, for example, with me from tatarstan , there is simply a wonderful tanya chernoguzova, a designer who, she has a brand, very conceptual, modern, in general, how she also rethinks tatarstan and in general, tatar culture, and she makes things, the main dresses, embroiders these buteyki and makes jewelry, i brought huge earrings of this size, which are similar to tatar bones, they are like that in general. like with medals, large, very avant-garde looking, and the metal ones are those things that also seem to be filled with gasoline, as if, that is, they

shimmer, in general, it looks gloomy to him, she thinks through the packaging in such a way, that is, they can be placed on stand as an object, they can be worn, they can be worn as a single earring, i was amazed by her approach in general and i could not remain indifferent and return empty-handed, something was used on the bride’s groom and we made a suit with her... the bride’s entire, that is, there will also be very unique details shown, also her author’s approach, also one of those cases when the designer practically fully offers his vision, some options, and you just want to pull him back and show him competently what he is capable of, and what would you, for example , recommend using for a traditional wedding from what you saw, because for example, moss is very interesting an idea, few people use it, specifically for some kind of wedding decor, and what else do you remember that can... be used for decor, in dresses for a modern wedding, earrings, so i understand, they also arrived very interesting, such

the first thing that comes to mind, in fact, is some kind of local designers, brands, which firstly, yes, that is, in general, it seems to me that it is not super common to collaborate with local designers, and this is actually not prohibitive expensive, that is , for example, it’s easy to buy in a wedding salon some ordinary swimming , i am sure that it will most likely be more expensive, well, of course, the dresses are different, the salons are different, but globally it’s like this is a once in a lifetime event, but i really liked your idea , where there is a white dress with a red peplum, it seems to me that this is absolutely acceptable, we don’t even hesitate to show with the example of this dress that it can be worn later, that is, it looks like that, that it doesn’t look hyper-dressy, but we have some elegant ones options that are really you you can save it and i don’t know, transfer it too , or just your family fund, in general it’s very cool when we all love things. who have some kind of story, when they ask you, and you tell them that these earrings, like yours, i found, i found in

tatarstan, they are placed on a stand, or this is what we filmed, from a local master, i bought this piece of jewelry or some kind of outfit, when this outfit still has such a story as a wedding, that is, it’s very cool, if it’s a dress, you can have it wear it to a wedding for the first time, and then you can wear it in life, everyone will say what an interesting thing, and you will answer... and this is my wedding dress, yes, and moreover, it exists in a single copy in the world, this is also an important point, because it seems to me that this is generally a very, well, separate process before the wedding, where the bride, for example, if we just consider such a situation, develops, somehow invests herself, comes up with these details of this dress herself, and if there is some kind of tradition is also involved in this and there, i don’t know, she gets closer to her family , she asks some questions, that is, it seems to me that this is generally the process itself, it can be no less memorable than, well, by the way, this one moment in wedding fashion, in wedding fashion, in the traditions of wedding fashion, i really don’t like the fact that this is a dress that

we wear once, yes, then we sell or give it to someone, or someone feels sorry for it, it hangs, collecting dust in closet, but you won’t be able to wear it anywhere, because you’ll really look funny, and maybe in the near future time, we will still come to the point that wedding dresses will become more everyday, they can then be worn again somewhere, some details of a wedding dress, even if it’s not a dress, but maybe it’s maybe some kind of cape, and some kind of, i don’t know, some additional parts or again jetoirs, and the same peplum, for example, well, that is, this is something that can really somehow be used again, or a dress, for example, as a designer, that is, each item can be worn separately together, this it’s really some kind of elegant wedding suit, and individually these details can be worn with jeans, we’ve already come up with it, it seems. well, in fact, of course, we are experimenting quite a lot, and this, to be honest, is even dangerous, perhaps for

the audience’s perception of our ideas, because not only is it a transformer, it’s very simple, but we also work with color in a rather unusual way, but in general, with textures, with color, that is, yes it seems to me, we generally give out such business ideas now, just watch, write down and run business, well, i think that this will be some kind of story for a long time - not for everyone, but it seems to me that there are a lot of these kind of intimate, interesting, curious things, they still end up turning into something - more, well, just more... i want you to tell such interesting things, i want these people who live in these settlements to know about their work as many people as possible, so that it really turns into something - this profession, for example, well, yes, and for example, i am inspired by that in addition to the fact that this is their creativity, which they are engaged in, they are also really very well versed in tradition, that is, that is why we often do not need additional research or additional trips somewhere, because

local designers, they are already carriers of knowledge to the world, well, it’s very cool that you discover such people, such designers , it’s very interesting, people, in fact, it’s always very touching to meet them in person, not everyone can build a personal dialogue based on filming the process, but we communicate with everyone in one way or another as we make these costumes, and people very somehow first grasp... somehow react quickly, are ready to experiment, are ready to make some compromises, this is very , well, it’s interesting that they are ready for teamwork, but at the same time valuable, generously shares their knowledge, and, yes, despite the fact that these are people of completely different ages, with different backgrounds, and they may even have some other additional work or something else, well, that is, these are very different stories that it’s also quite interesting, some people make jokes at home, some have their own studio , some have a large team, some are almost

alone there, in very different ways, well, that’s very cool, then , that you have such a second story in the program: you discover new talents, show them, and perhaps these people will then really have some kind of, some new round of their creativity will go, well , yes, at least we want, like this is to arouse interest in this, at least they will know about it, you have already told so many interesting things about future programs, and i think that i and many of our viewers are looking forward to and will be inspired by new images in terms of fashion, in terms of home decor and holiday decor, thank you very much, thank you, thank you, look carefully and podcast lab, all episodes are on the first website, and to study wedding traditions, watch the new family

project, let's play a wedding. hello everyone, my name is natasha krasnova, this is the sex in the light podcast and today we will raise an important topic, gender stereotypes and sexuality. i have two guests wonderful people, the author of books on sexology, and natalya fomicheva, and a person who will defend the male point of view, a sexologist, psychologist, konstantin. to start, i don’t even know what the most delicious thing is, for example, that a woman should not take the initiative, i just took the initiative, but i don’t seem to have to, that is , i’m so bright, a normal male, let’s call it so, won’t want , will get scared, yes , this is not normal, this fish should swim away from the man’s big fish, it should hide, and

he should find it, the only exception is this hyenas, whose females have a very large clitoris by the standards of all other animals, threaten the male if anything happens, and this is the only animal in which an erection in a male will mean fear, not dominance, they have no gender stereotypes, hyenas take the initiative , the female part, takes the initiative, this somewhat frightens the males, but in general does not affect their further reproduction, that is, if the men are in fear, they are unlikely to become aroused. yes, and male hyenas have an erection in response to fear, yes, but these are the only creatures, and women should not scare their males, this is the first stereotype that we begin to discuss, yes, because men, it seems to me, in our still patriarchal society are not ready for female, well, not even dominance, but leadership, they don’t

understand how to behave at this moment, and experiencing anxiety, maybe... and aggression, humiliation, and what have you come up with here, what have you seen enough of, are you cheating on me with someone, if you, suddenly, are already in a stable relationship, but let’s say i see you for the first time, i come up to you and say, what is your name? you say, seryozha is there, for example, you are lying, for example, to me, you say, what is your name? i say, i’m natasha, do you want me to treat you, well, what are you drinking, cognac, cognac, i start treating you to cognac, i say, maybe to me, that you’ll think that i want to cut out a kidney from you, that’s right, it can’t, well an adequate woman offers sex herself, the vast majority of men will perceive this as a risky offer, they may refuse, although the offer is possible... it would even be tempting for them. natasha, what should i do? train men, we have embarked on the path of fighting stereotypes, this is a long process, but is there some short-term remedy, relatively speaking, how

i can express myself, but pretending that i am not expressing myself, well, relatively speaking, somehow like hinting, pulling my hair , like this is a hint that i want you, but i don’t come up and say, i want you, it seems to me that there are too many... social games, it doesn’t make sense if we say it works or not, in the fact of the matter is that we do not have any clear tools that will work always and everywhere, and if a woman feels initiative in herself, she can show it, in the end, those men who are afraid of this initiative, why does she need such an alarmingly phobic man in a relationship, that is, if he didn’t respond, then it’s not fate, not destiny. a slightly longer delayed gaze with a woman’s smile, this will already be such a big hello to talk a little longer and a little deeper, how much

to look into the eyes in seconds, tell me five seconds, five seconds more than usual, it is advisable to hold the tie during this moment, to strangle a little and talk, and say, yes, you are mine today, this frightens everything , that’s the point, where how not to go too far with this stick, this is now, a manifestation of another stereotype that a woman must take care of the emotional comfort of a man, let the man himself take care of how he should be scared or not scared, and what he should do with his anxiety, why is this a woman’s task, because it is believed, this is a stereotype, that a woman should maintain a conventional family home, that woman should take care of the emotional component of the couple, and the man should bank, that’s all, this is not just a misconception. this is a very serious misconception, sometimes women came to me for consultation, completely burned out, who listened to people who said that women are only responsible for your marriage, it means you are not trying hard, so

here i want to speak on the side of the woman, that in a couple is always just a couple, both are interested and are responsible for the couple to have a sexual life, in in the domestic sphere, in other areas, negotiable, generally happy, the second point i would like to say is about the maturity of relationships, but both a man and a woman can be immature, and they can be many years old according to their passport, but this does not affect maturity, you know , there is a good saying that how to understand a mature relationship or not, if they made you tea or coffee in the morning, you said that the tea is so-so, then no one starts to get offended and say that this means i’m like that, yes you are you always don’t like what i bring to you, specifically we we can substantively discuss the topic of conversation, including sex, but here’s another stereotype, by the way, about sex, that women need much less sex than men, that women have their own affairs, some are considered noble, and sex, well, that’s -firstly, something shameful, this is

another stereotype, we will return to it, but men need sex non-stop. in fact , there is a good saying that a man wants sex every day, until he meets a woman who wants sex every day, and if we are talking from a biological point of view vision. rats, there the male was injected with testorone, he immediately ran to look for it, and testosterone affects the number of sexual fantasies, how many times a person thinks, in principle , the level of experiencing pleasure directly in sexual interaction, but testosterone is not everything, and indeed men have higher testosterone... than women, women also have it, and there are different corridors, in general, we can explain some part of the libido by the level of testosterone, but our libido is very capricious,

our female or our human, human, it is influenced by stress, and anxiety, worries and so on, here it is clear to say that our man is just some kind of mechanism that all the time needs to drive the man again. we tell clients, everything is fine with you, this is a story that we are very different and it is impossible to force us into some kind of framework and say that in a healthy relationship , sex should be two or three times a week, yeah, let's compare relationships when they begin and the relationship 2 months after the birth of the first child, these are different relationships, although intimacy hasn’t gone anywhere, love hasn’t gone anywhere, i just want sex, well , again the woman produces prolactin, it suppresses libido.

in any case, some and some don’t, but there are those who, on the contrary, continue in the same mode, but again , lack of sleep also affects, lack of sleep, anxiety, all this affects, but there is no such thing, well, that is, we we destroy this stereotype, or we confirm that women don’t want basically, women don’t want sex, women don’t want the sex that the men who are next to them can offer, i would go there too i would add the myth that men are polygamous, this is a huge topic, you have heard billions of times that men are polygamous and women are monogamous, but polygamy is a characteristic of a species, not a gender, that is, if we are monogamous, relatively speaking, we are all both men and women are monogamous, but apparently somehow this is female polygamy, it was reduced, no, but if you look from the point of view of evolutionary sexology, which takes into account precisely this difference in species, we have absolutely monogamous species like...

hibons, this is a species where there will be a male and a female the same size, they do not need a difference in body weight, in size , and if we are talking about grief-stricken species, for example, gorillas, where there is one male who collects grief from the females, fights for this grief with neighboring males, there we will see very a strong difference in size, males, by about 50%, will be larger and heavier than females, because it’s not enough for them that you collected with grief, you need to somehow discipline the driver, they also don’t sit and wait, plus in grief-stricken species, again, if we are talking about premates, they the size of the genital organs in males relative to the body is quite small, and if we take people, the species closest to us here is the banoba, but they are sipi among monkeys, they have sex even just to improve relationships, but if we look at the banoba, the difference

between males and females there is about 10-15% too... we see the same thing in people, and if we look at their structure, the genitals of males are relatively large, well, that is , this proportion of body and size, but it is significant , she’s there more than the burnt ones, although gorillas are big and here we are talking about the fact that they are such polemors, that is , they have many different interactions, they do not have these fixed pairs, like hibons, for example, there is such a hypothesis in evolutionary sexology that in fact, in a woman, in a female, several males must pass through during one sexual intercourse, because the transfer of genetic material occurs due to the competition of spermatozoa, well, it turns out that the females are also not monogamous , absolutely not monogamous at all, yeah, well, even purely with from a mathematical point of view, it’s impossible , we won’t be able to have polygamous men and monogamous women, what will polygamous people be like

if all women are monogamous? in general, we are not monogamous creatures, no, that is why it is so difficult for us to maintain monogamy, if it were inherent in our nature, we would not have to make so much effort not to cheat on our partner? so i have a question then, well, that is, i read the same david bass there, who claims that comparing your partner, even if you you love me very much, i love my husband, but i see handsome, smart, rich men, i ... i see, i’m not blind, and i, well, maybe unconsciously, but i seem to compare, but i always compare in the benefit of your partner, this is, well, some kind of conditional monogamy, i haven’t met simply better , i just haven’t met, when you are in love, you subjectively endow your spouse with great qualities, and that too, but now enough time has passed, that is falling in love has already subsided, that is, now it’s something like that the feeling is more towards love than

falling in love, that is, hormones are no longer raging, sex has already... become stable, not like: every day , come on, you know, i agree with evolutionary sexology, of course, yes, and this is to our tendency towards polygamy, yes, in men and women, but it seems to me that humans, to a greater extent than animals, have the opportunity to establish an emotional connection in a union, then, other things being equal, compare, for example, your husband with others, your your husband will definitely be a winner if you have a relationship with him very good emotionally. an established connection, yes, unfortunately, little attention is paid to this in modern families, in general just spouses, then, of course, when something doesn’t suit you, you immediately think, well, i’ll go look for a friend. is to discuss openly what you like and what you don’t like, thus establishing deep connections, but this again will not guarantee that someone will not prefer another partner to you, but this is

normal, there are no guarantees, in general, and also emotional attachment supported by good levels of oxytocin, which. orgasm, well, listen, oxytocin is also present when hugging them, hugging them too, but if the sex is of poor quality, then the attachment will , well, on this side, sag a little, that is, if a woman, relatively speaking, has sex for health, and we have such citizens, which are necessary for health, i don’t want a husband or something, i don’t want my partner , i don’t want sex at all, i’m asexual, but she doesn’t admit it to herself, but for health i ’ll have sex specifically, it will lead is this good for health or not? i have some doubts, this is actually some kind of very strange story, well, i just heard, they write on the forums that sex is positive, this is another, you know, such a myth that, by the way, from gynecologists, which

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penis, uh, there’s something else, but yours is somehow bad poorly the same, it seems to me that you are loudly burning one of the myths, yes, but this is what i’m telling you now, here’s a myth, there is such a thing. according to gost, ok, there was an orgasm, but women seem to feel as if we are experiencing an orgasm, and vaginal, i now call it, i do not agree with them with this division, for me there is also one orgasm, a woman’s pelvic floor muscles contract, well that means an orgasm, no, the muscles do not contract pelvic floor, and from the clitoral tissues an impulse travels along the nerve pathways to the brain and discharge occurs; orgasm is a reflex. there is a myth, it began from the time of sigmund freud, who said that clitoral orgasm is for little girls, let them have fun with their clitoris, but when a girl becomes a sexually mature woman, her orgasm pumps deeper, if i, say, get a conditioned clitoral

orgasm, i’m not mature, i’m just a subwoman,