[000:00:00;00] health problems and we started working on the fact that he went on a diet, naturally , with such a diet, no cola, chips , anything else, but it’s simply absolutely forbidden, i asked my parents, if he sends them a request, send them 100 -200 rubles for pocket money so that they don’t send it or at least agree, because most likely he will go and buy something that is forbidden, and mom seemed to have gotten into the situation, and dad quietly sent it to him or somehow gave it to him in cash , or gave, and several since i paid attention to this, i said, dad, well, this is harmful to health, this is dangerous to health now, you don’t need it now , yes, okay, i heard you, 2 days pass, money falls on his card again, again i see that the child comes there with cola and something else, i call and say, dad, well, so and so, i understand everything, you want to pamper your grandson, but still, how old is your grandson, 12, yeah,

he has your own... card, yes, ah, you want to pamper, okay, well, but let's somehow differentiate, yes, i heard you, i understood you, again, like this, for a month i paid attention to this every time, and every time, if money was handed over to him personally , dad would say, just don’t tell mom, or mom won’t find out, this erasure of authority has happened in parallel, well, there’s such an opposition, and i see it too that the child began to lie to me about this too. yeah, no one gave me anything, i didn’t buy anything, in general, i started hiding cans of cola , somewhere under the pillows, so that, god forbid, my mother wouldn’t see, in connection with this whole position, naturally i came to to them, i say, it’s a straight-forward question, or you don’t give it at all money, yes, or we stop interacting with you, we seem to have heard, but after 2 days the money account falls again, naturally, at that moment i said, that

’s enough, but if you don’t want to hear me, we end the interaction here, i warned you, yeah, i blocked his phone so that he wouldn’t have the opportunity to answer, because in such situations , when it’s hard for dad to defend his point of view, he begins to either push for pity or enter this position of insult, and kilometers of esoks usually fly by, grandson or you, well, usually for me, yes, but here you predicted exactly the story. that - since you can’t write to me, you can write to your grandson, the night when dad was, it was clearly visible from the messages, in yet another alcoholic intoxication, so he received messages with the content of how mom will always put pressure on you, she will never give you the opportunity to choose what , what do you want, well, this is a position that i just distanced as much as possible from my family and i really didn’t want to be in such

energies, wait, you said overcome your family, that is, this situation in itself is not new for you, you had something similar in your childhood, yes, well, my father controlled me all my life, even to the point that he kept track of which store i went to , what friends i went with, that is, i had such a thing that i turned around when i was walking with friends, dad was standing around the corner, looking where we were, if you broke dad’s rules, then what happened, it was very difficult, we had , well , it’s good if it’s just a showdown on the tones, and sometimes it even came to fights and training camps things, and it was always through insults, through such severe insults, and at the same time my mother was so distant, that is, i was alone in this defense all my life, this is a podcast of the psyche, my name is natalya loseveva and today we are talking about who

it will help the psychologist, allah, what request do you have for a supervisor, a request not to feel this guilt that burdens me , but for the fact that i broke off relations with my parents, i understand, as an adult, that this is necessary, and this is the healthiest solution in this situation, but i still blame i feel it, because it’s hard for a child to survive this separation from his grandparents, but after all, he communicated with them for 12 years, and then suddenly he doesn’t, and somehow i myself , probably based on social frameworks. my parents and i need to communicate, it’s society that pushes me to feel this feeling of guilt and it’s very difficult for me to separate myself from this point, i want to feel more free in this, well, i’ve made a decision, well done, keep it good with you , well, this position that everything is with me order at this point, it is very difficult to maintain, allah, please tell me, what other

love languages ​​are there? in addition to sending money , there are also interactions between the two families in your family and in your parent's family. in my family, i still try to do this through hugs. yes, through spending some personal time together, going to the park, going to the cinema there, and if my son comes with some requests, i always put things aside, listen to him, and, i try to understand what he says and for what, well, even based on the fact that that he came yesterday, said, i’m very tired and don’t want to go to school tomorrow, we sat down, sorted it out , i’m really tired and i say, okay, stay, this never happened in my family, that is, in 11 years i’ve never gone to school i missed it, under no circumstances, even when i was sick, yeah, that’s it, but based on my interaction with my parents’ family, well, in general it was like that, that is, if we, for example, were going to their

house, then i understood that i needed something... then take them with me, this is such an indicator that i paid attention to them, not that i came, but the fact that i brought something, for example , i don’t know, a cake, some kind of gift for... for a holiday or something else, basically for the last 2-3 years we met only on holidays. alla, what makes you believe that the feeling of guilt is unnatural in this situation, apparently that other people have some kind of relationship with their parents, and you can always call your mother, you can call there dad, and probably in my circle there are no people who have broken relationships with their parents, apparently this is very it influences me a lot, well, plus, my husband too, he always loved my mother, they had a warm relationship, your mother or his mother,

his, and he always, as they say, drowns in these child-parent relationships , so that they are always available, uh-huh, so what makes you believe that you feel guilty about the current situation? it’s unnatural, as for me, it’s very excessive, because sometimes i start there very strongly in the evenings, driving myself into a state of almost such apathy, yes, when i don’t want to do anything, because this feeling of guilt, it just hangs like a bag on your shoulders, when you can’t force yourself to do something, then of course, it already becomes the feeling that you want to work on, this feeling of apathy in the evenings? it came after you broke off the relationship, yes, yes, the break in the relationship, as i heard, took place not only between you, but you also broke off the child’s relationship with his grandparents, yes, yes, your husband also no longer communicates with your parents , my husband received several messages from

after being insulted by my father, he said that i don’t want to communicate with him anymore. what was the reason for you to end the relationship between your grandson and grandparents, a message in the night that you should never trust your mother, and i don’t send you money just because she sends it back to me, in general , well, there was an outright lie, yes, plus everything , this insult to me, humiliation of me as a mother, it was to this message that i already wrote from my phone, that at this point you and i disagree, and i i forbid you to interact with my child without my presence. and my father’s alcoholism, how long has it been going on, a long, long, long time ago, it started after the death of his mother, when did this happen , how old is my father, about 25 years ago, probably, yeah, i was just entering

college, how old is my dad? now? 61, it turns out, when his mother died, when he was about forty, probably, yeah, but the cause of his mother’s death was she... she was in the hospital, she had diabetes, and when she was discharged from the hospital, she was actually packing her things , she she just fell and didn’t leave the hospital, yeah, that is, it was an unexpected death, were any mental features of dad noticed before, in fact, yes, from childhood i observed this story of tyranny on his part, we had there were a lot of ugly situations when i was offered to go to an orphanage, when i was locked in the bathroom. yes, they taped my mouth so that i wouldn’t talk again, well, in general, there were a lot of difficult situations that i sorted out, in fact, and this gave me this general picture that, in general, dad, if he’s already up to

he hasn’t recovered at all at sixty, then it’s unlikely that anything will happen to him at 60, but where is mom, no, mom has this kind of energy component, i never felt it, i saw it at home, i knew that i had mother. and she also taught at school for me, she was my class teacher, a math teacher, in general, so comprehensive, yeah, and at the same time i didn’t feel like i had a mother. there in the lessons i was the first on whom everyone tested the solutions to problems and who was the first to be crucified near the blackboard in front of the whole class, i will note parenthesis that this is probably a separate story, the child’s teacher was traumatized, and every time there were some conflicts between my dad and me, i didn’t even have an attempt to turn to my mother, because my mother provided protection for support, yes, because my mother was somewhere in the room at that moment, she’s always like that...

that is, i’ve basically never seen her, i understand correctly that breaking contact is one of the most common ways to get out of a relationship in your family, yeah, and that is, this has already happened, my father interrupts his whole life relationships with those who disagree with him, everyone who disagrees with him becomes enemies, right at that very moment, allah, all your life you have endured, endured, did something to stay with... in a relationship , what has changed now, what resource did you lack earlier to break off the relationship, but it has appeared now and you were able to do it, probably my husband, husband, yeah, yes, oddly enough, after - the latter’s marriage, yes, with his traditional relationship with your mother, and even with such primacy, communication with older relatives, you said that for your husband it was his communication with his mother is very important, yes, yes, and he just... appeared in our circle with

his son, he began to carry this value, that in general it is very cool when parents interact warmly there with children, yes, when it’s not built on some kind of commodity-money relations, but when it’s just that you came and rejoice at me, so i’m glad that i am for you, he showed you as if a completely different normality, it turns out , and when i came home i saw that this was really the case, that he didn’t need it, so that i...cook him food and something else to earn his approval, and he simply accepted everything that happened to us at that moment. alla, i have to ask, your child is 12 years old, and your husband, as you say, is the child’s father? no, okay, then when did this husband appear in your family system? literally in the twenty-second year we married him, uh-huh, yes, since the twentieth year, in fact, we have known each other, are the father and the child involved in his life? insofar as

in commodity-money relations, it is directly yours scheme for life, don’t say that you, for your part, have already tried to introduce new traditions of interaction with parents, and i came, i could just hug my mother there, yes, say, oh, how i missed you or how much i love you , and when she left, we hugged there for a long time with mom and dad, yeah, on the one hand i felt that warmth. but on the other hand, now i left, they seemed to have forgotten that we had just hugged there or hugged there 2 days ago, and it went back to the same level interactions, how we usually interacted, alla, where would you like to go in your relationship with your parental family, the future, describe such an ideal picture of the future, but probably in warmth, yes, when and in such unconditional

love. when they don’t expect anything from me in return, but simply accept me as i am, that’s how my husband and i are now, it’s good for me, they accept me, it’s bad for me, they also accept me, they hear what makes you believe that your parents are capable of unconditional love in general, to be honest, i don’t believe anything, which is why i ended the relationship, that is, you set yourself a goal that is unattainable. yes, it turns out, could this be the reason for your sensitive feelings, i think that maybe, yes, yeah, but what kind of interaction with your parental family, perhaps, would be good enough for you and for your son, well, maybe about lining up some points, and how we make a schedule, for example, thanks to this schedule, we all see the points, maybe it’s like something contractual... interaction. that's right, i want to give

feedback. one gets the feeling that you want your parents to love you like a little girl, but unfortunately, you are no longer a little girl, i would even say, fortunately. therefore, your parents may love you the best they can. they don’t yet have new skills, new understandings about how they can generally show their love and be close to an adult twelve-year-old boy, with an adult daughter, with a new husband, they don’t have this understanding, they do as best they can, send money , yes, or they leak negativity, for the majority, this is exactly what intimacy, recognition, love are equal to. co-operation, this is good enough for them, it’s interesting that you decided to break off contact, yes, i hear what you interpret as such an adult, independent, healthy decision, but you did exactly what is neurotically accepted in your family, yes, just

pretend that you don’t exist, you died like mom and dad, us in his life, you just did yourself what dad did, in fact. did mom, i would say yes, because mom is the person who can’t stand it dad, she just went into another room, and who was not seen at all all her life, yes, but this evening apathy perhaps suggests that, after all, the decision that you made is not entirely suitable for you , in question, including , perhaps the feeling of guilt is due to the fact that you really decided on your son, grandparents, and he is 12 years old, they have their own relationships, they are important, significant figures in his life, now another significant figure has come into his life, why , yes, the boy needs to somehow adapt to a new space, and here relying on familiar relatives would also be good, support for him, do what is best and most comfortable for you,

the decision you made is to simply cut off contact, perhaps this is not the optimal decision, yeah, when we become adult children, our parents, and especially, yes, professionals, perhaps this is precisely our task, to try to teach our two families to communicate and be together in a way that will be comfortable for everyone, parents simply may not know, but how can you do it differently, they know how to please a five-year-old child, yes , by buying chips, but how to please a forty-year-old woman whom they love, and perhaps want to communicate, dad broadcasts what he wants about he is trying, yes, this is undoubtedly an important thing, well, natalya, of course, there was a very valuable comment on your part, that most likely such an alcoholic debut in adulthood indicates that dad already had mental characteristics before that, now he is at an age where they will

only to get worse, isolating a grandson from a possibly mentally ill grandfather is one thing, right? and also you, well, pay attention to where the value of this contact is for you, for the child, what and why there was a connection, yes, what was so valuable that this male figure gave for the boy, think again, do you even have the right, yes , make a decision and cut off this male connection, yes, especially since the boy’s husbands changed, there is probably a need to remain in good contact. this is a psychic podcast, my name is natalya loseveva and today we are talking about who will help the psychologist. you said that when you are in personal contact with your parents, when you have the opportunity to hug and be together, everything is quite good. so, perhaps, sorting things out over the phone, and even more so

by correspondence with parents, is the space in which you will definitely quarrel and break off the relationship. here, i’m probably... a little bit, yes, because those moments when we hugged are quite rare and i just found a moment when they were in a more collected state, but if about such an ecological showdown, yes, when we tried to discuss something , this particular feature of my father’s psyche, it was just blooming and smelling, because the last conflict we had literally arose when i was there 35-34, this is fresh. i came to talk about how i feel, yes, what kind of work i now see for myself and what kind of family i now see for myself and how it all should be in my mind. at that moment we were sitting drinking tea at the table, dad just exploded in moment, it all ended very strong

fight, white lips, eyes like these, and to be honest, i was just scared for my life, so this is such a moment that. i want to draw your attention to the fact that my mother died of diabetes, these are white lips, outbursts of anger, it looks like my dad may also have diabetes, and completely different specialists are needed, i didn’t think in this direction, by the way, you expect from him that he will be an adult dad, the same as he was in your childhood, and before us appears, well, a rather unhealthy adult man who may need, uh-huh, ekaterina, if alla, being in such a state of these acute experiences at the time of the conflict with dad, there a day or two after that, worrying about the desire to break off this relationship, experiencing an acute feeling of guilt due to the desire to break off the relationship forever,

met from the client, what kind of injury could there be, what kind of injury could she get ? how serious is all this? of course, being in a state of acute emotions, well, you have an open emotional wound, and here everything that can remind you and even not at all concerns personal history, can become the salt that. the client’s story will make you experience a lot; it would aggravate the experiences that alla would experience, most likely yes, because at that moment everything triggered, even an incorrectly served cup of coffee, of course, that’s why it is important for a psychologist not to be isolated, but to be part of a professional space , because perhaps, being in this state, you would also like to hide in client work, so that at least for an hour you don’t think about your conflict in the family. what categorically couldn't it be done right at this moment? categorically or not, this is exactly what your supervisor should have answers to, a person

who knows you in good condition, who can definitely show: look, you are like this now, look at how you react, please take a break and don’t work with clients, because psychologists, psychotherapists, we are people too, our relatives die, unfortunately, things happen in our world that touch us, so always be in the best shape and never worry, this is impossible, so we need another person, a colleague, who from the outside, knowing us, will be able to give an assessment to say, slow down, not now, take a break, take a break, yeah, it’s better if this supervisor is a permanent psychologist in life, that is, he knows him for a long time and understands , tell me, what kind of psychologist... has more opportunities to realize himself in the profession, the one whose childhood and youth were more or less prosperous, or the one whose

childhood, like alla’s, was also accompanied by some kind of trauma, such as - shocks, that is, i went through it myself, myself, myself with i ate a lot of salt, hardened myself and became a good psychologist, or not, what you are talking about is personal experience, a psychologist is a professional with a high level of professional training, if we were talking about the value of human experience in solving a problem , then we would go not to psychologists, but to the grandmothers who sit in front of the entrance, because they definitely have a lot of experience, yes, but we don’t do this, because a psychologist and psychotherapist are professionals, and they work with professional tools, well what, friends, psychologists are people too, we congratulate all psychologists on the holiday they celebrate on november 22, we wish them patience, simple human joy and a good supervisor nearby. this was a psychic podcast,

today as an expert we had ekaterina makarova, a psychotherapist, supervisor of our heroine, psychologist, alla irmoshkin. hello everyone, this is a lab podcast and it’s no joke , and today we, together with fashion blogger, stylist and tv presenter karina negai, will discuss what we remember about the last fashion weeks, karin, hello, hello, let’s talk a little let's resurrect in the memory of our viewers what fashion weeks are, who participates in them and where they take place, but in fact, a fashion week is an event that takes place once a season, there is also a fashion week... couture, which takes place a little differently

time, but this is an event when all the great couturiers show their new collection, and buyers, vip clients of brands come there , media personalities, actors, bloggers come there, and there are presenters in general, everyone who is related to the big world show business are actually watching this action, then there is such a performance, these are big shows , it has long gone beyond just a model showing off clothes, it is always something unusual and every time designers try to surprise us somehow. you were at milan fashion week this year, and as someone who went there, i was like a fashion influencer, uh, i visit fashion week very often, and it’s usually not only milan, it’s usually new york, milan, paris , this year i decided to do only one fashion week, due to the fact that i still have some television projects and other responsibilities. well, but i really love the milan one, because it is always the warmest, oh , i have the most shows there, because i am very familiar with

the italian fashion industry, since i was there for some time, so.. .it was in milan, in my opinion, this year that there were the most interesting shows and the most interesting performances, because the creative directors of some brands changed and this was their debut, it was very interesting to see how the brand is now changing with the new creative director, therefore, in my opinion, milanese dictated exactly the main trends of the season, which of the stars you managed to communicate with, managed to see... the main characters of the series gossip girl, this is leighton meester and this is ed westwick, of course , big stars, such as julia roberts, the main ken, whom we watched so actively , there were also, yes, well, a large number of stars, hollywood stars, french cinema stars, in general, whose style did you

like the most, my eternal favorite - because she always looks impeccable and i personally look up to her style. say, here you are as an influencer, when you come to fashion week, is it primarily work or leisure and entertainment for you? probably, bloggers and the fashion industry in general create the appearance of a holiday, but in reality this is not the case; behind each show or behind the work of an influencer on a show there is a lot of work. but let's start from the very beginning, this is what it looks like - the work behind the scenes, we see, we the audience see your beautiful photographs, videos, reels, but what is behind this, where does your day begin at fashion week, and at what time? the day usually starts at 5:00 am, make-up artists come and accordingly prepare you for the exit, assistants prepare your clothes, we steam it all, because we have about six to seven looks that we collect, well,

depending on the number of shows, we load it all into a large machine, and then in fact, our life on fashion weak passes in this car, we eat there, change our hairstyles, change clothes, in general we live, because you go to every show in a new image, you need to come to every show in a new image, moreover, between shows you have 30-40 minutes, so you won’t have time to go to a hotel or somewhere there, you need to change clothes, comb your hair, have time to eat or do some content between shows right in the car, because every brand is waiting, well, accordingly , for some kind of advertising. presentations of what happened, and you need to keep up with everything, so you are in an eternal race, for 4 days you simply disconnect from all reality, you are immersed there, this eternal race continues for you, plus during fashion week it happens there about six posts a day, when everyone is broadcasting fashion show, you have to analyze what was in the collection, actually write

your opinion about it, at least briefly, and show yourself, show what happened. i could tell you about the trends that have happened, and when you know it’s like this, it’s a cycle, you’re a little freaked out by everything that’s happening, and you get a little tired, but i really like it, in any case, it’s very interesting, this is the world that is inaccessible to a huge number of people, and it really arouses interest, i once looked at it in general with such big eyes, i thought it was impossible to get there, but somehow in my life it turned out that i did, so i really appreciate it and generally enjoy every minute spent at this kind of fashion week. tell me, is it necessary to come to brand shows wearing things from this brand? in general, there is a so-called dress code, yes, that you should come in brand clothes, but personally this year i made a decision for myself that i would not come in brand clothes, i would take brand accessories, that is, i could take a tie brand

or a bag or shoes, or some kind of decoration, but i used clothes from russian designers, this was my message that i would like to support them, i would like to show that our russian fashion is just as cool, interesting and generally no worse than european ones, how many suitcases of things did you take with you? i had three suitcases and a couple more small ones, and which russian ones did you take with you, designer? i had danilatsiferov, my friend, i love him very much, red september brand sarel, i had small... brands such as ironova, well in general, a large number of brands, in fact, each time there was something different , for example, mardo was a brand with me, which is actually on me today, by the way, this just begged the question, i think that many viewers were now waiting for you tell me what you're wearing today, this is a russian brand, yes, this is a russian brand mordo, in fact , it seems to me that they specialize in this

kind of outfits made of this kind of mesh fabric with some kind of regular pattern. and this is something very tight in the style of the 2000s, which really appeals to me now, actually this decade, that’s why i want to wear it, and how they reacted to the fact that these were russian designers, in fact, no one understood what it was... designers and most people came up to me and asked who it was? i’ve never seen this, it’s so new and so interesting, so it’s as if we don’t have enough power to declare ourselves, and i made my small contribution to this so that people in europe know about our brands, well, that’s great , you are such an ambassador for russian designer shoes, accessories i buy there from different brands, including european ones including, but mine... purely from russian designers and russian brands. tell me, is being an influencer a profession for you, or is it a hobby, or is it some kind of intermediate option on the way to, say, becoming a stylist?

i believe that a blogger is a profession, it is a very difficult profession, no matter what it may seem on the internet, but for me this profession is becoming intermediate today, yes, that is, my future goal is still television, so it ’s cool , i like. this path, i was a stylist, became a blogger, now from a blogger i’m becoming a tv presenter, and it’s as if this stage is very inspiring, interesting and gives an example to other girls who would also like to go down some similar path, everyone may have a different goal, but nevertheless, blogging helps to express oneself, helps to show oneself and come to this goal, so for me this is definitely a profession that is very inspiring, well, probably, the bad influencer is the one who does not dream of becoming...' stylists, because it seems to me that most fashion influencers, they end up become stylists, what knowledge is needed, maybe what kind of education, what do you

advise? in fact, observation and observation are very important in the profession of a stylist, and you need to watch a lot of the same fashion shows, and try yourself, you need as much practice as possible, only this will help you form figures correctly, work correctly with color, sew in trends correctly and etc. that is, if you watch a lot, do a lot with your hands, this is a craft, but you don’t have the feeling that someone is given this, but someone is not given it, because there are people who which there is observation, but there is no result, no, i believe that everything can be learned, especially, that is, good taste can be acquired, can be nailed, of course, in fact, we always forget why it was given to someone, well, that is, it is possible as a child, your mother had amazing taste and you, looking at your mother, took an example from her and... your observation developed, it just developed in you from childhood and it seemed to you that, no matter how you did not put any effort into it effort, but but your mother put

effort into this, someone develops their observation already there at a more mature age, when they take some courses or when they go somewhere to study, and even there they develop their own observation, and this is not a given, this is something that can be developed and this is not higher mathematics, where i don’t know , you need some kind of knowledge or... superpowers, here, this is fashion, this is a game, you need to play it, you need to study and practice as much as possible, then you will definitely succeed. this is not a bad idea, today we are talking about fashion shows and the codes that are encrypted in them. my guest is stylist, fashion blogger karina negai. in general, you use clothes, or your images, to influence people in certain situations, for example, when you need, i don’t know what. make an impression, today you are a little more serious, tomorrow in some sexy outfit, do you use it? i even have a whole master class dedicated to this, i absolutely

love doing it, and even if we read some images, for example, read your image today, and you knew that i would come, i’m such a daring girl, that’s why you put on red just to be with me super presenter and to be my cool opponent, karina came in black, we needed something bright , we had several options, but i’m not in black, i’m not in black, and even your silver cossacks are about high fashion, it’s about what you don’t wear every day, because i’m sitting in front of you, maybe some other person was sitting, and you would choose a completely different look, this doesn’t happen by chance, sometimes we do it intuitively, sometimes stylists actually think it through, for for proper connection to occur and it looked not only in the frame. beautiful, but in our interaction with you it was beautiful, and how comfortable do you feel when, for example, you violate the dress code at an event, but we all have such situations when you somehow

did not have time to prepare and came to a place where you need to be smart, let’s say in some kind of casual outfit or vice versa, that’s how you feel in such situations, in general, since i’m a fashion person, absolutely everything is expected of me, and if i didn’t come in dress code then everyone thinks it's a new trend, so i feel. well, it’s comfortable, that’s it, but i try to keep it cool, it seems to me that this is important, this is respect for the host of the event, this is respect for oneself, in general this is correct, so i try to change clothes there in the car. if necessary, and or not to come to the event at all, if i really don’t have time, because of course they still expect me to comply with the dress code, since i’m a person who broadcasts fashion, i have no right to make a mistake, but what about you? do you think that many fashion figures have their own external features, like anna ventour, for example, her kore or lagerfelt, he had such a memorable image, and this is cool, today i would single out annurus,

because this is a woman in a super mini in super. bright outfits, and this is such an old woman, but who looks simply amazing, i admire her every time i see her at shows, it’s always an extravaganza of feathers, sparkles, bright colors, sometimes even some neon colors that you like you can’t use it for yourself, but here she is such a slender, beautiful, amazing woman who personally admires me, but how do you relate to the trends that are suddenly starting to be worn? everyone suddenly put it on, this is how you feel about it and do you wear it? of course, i don’t like the mainstream, when everyone has already tolerated it, like you’re wearing it, but i like to modify trends, that is, for example, there is a beige trend, but everyone reviled it, plus or minus some classic shape, where i don’t know the direct one cut, the length is just below

the knee and so on, i like to modify something, that is, most likely in my interpretation the beige trench coat will have black leather inserts, it will be something super incredible shape, for example, with wide, broad shoulders, maybe with some interesting lapels, maybe the length will be floor-length and not knee-length, and so on , that is, i have such an instruction, that is, every trend can be modified to suit yourself and your style, and here it is very important to understand that there is a trend, but there is a style, and if you have this style, then you can always adjust the trend to suit yourself, then it will not look like the most ordinary beige trench coat, now, if we go back to fashion weeks, for you personally which shows are more interesting, traditional or those with performance? i love shows with performance, but when between them there were three or four classic shows,

because i really like it. when the show is still beautiful, that is, when there is a famous beautiful model, when she is wearing a really amazing collection from an incredible couturier, i like that, but the performance is cool, because you are in everything, in all these classics, so to speak, you can distract yourself a little, yes, sit with some funny music, look at what how models fall or, well, it’s different for everyone, yes, and somehow take your mind off this serious one. yes, because after all, high fashion is work, once again, but on the other hand, yes , by the way, in our photo, this shows where, as i understand it, the models fell, put on these things while walking, got confused in them, they fell again, it all looked like some kind of crazy chaos, please tell me, where is the commerce here then, that is, everyone looked, laughed, but the clothes must be sold later, of course, but such collections

are... clients, that is, of course, not the gucci line or ford there, but this is the same price, probably not, well, a little cheaper , of course, but of course, this is not something that everyone will wear, here most likely the line will be narrower, most likely these things can be found in some super concept stores and so on, i see you in this one, which is in the middle, but in general i can go out in anything like this, well, i probably wouldn’t wear the lilac one, but the hat just isn’t... these i could easily wear two and it would look generally normal, that is, look at on the catwalk we see some kind of overkill, yes, but we can always isolate some elements , put them on with regular jeans, somehow neutralize them, we get an ordinary everyday look, that is, high fashion catwalk, of course, sometimes it happens unwearable, but we can integrate separate things simply: your wardrobe, calmly, what

show do you remember most this milan week? you know, the tomfort fashion house has changed its creative director, and it was very interesting to watch how in general, the brand changed because of this , for the first time, and not tom ford himself, yes, yes, yes, for the first time, it was not he who created the collection, for the first time, but tom ford presented his collection in milan. because i was in los angeles before, they had a show in new york, in milan it was also the first time and it was interesting, that is, what kind of people will come there, and how - the new creative director will show the collection, for me , it was probably one of the most memorable shows and shows, i absolutely loved the fact that first of all, you liked the show or liked the things, i i liked the things and i liked the show itself, the show was very simple by the way, it was black, it was a black podium, and it was just the right light, there was

nothing special about this show, you know, it's like roberto cavalli, they they built some trees there, that is, we were sitting right there, as if in the tropics, it was, it was bold, it was because the emphasis was on things. yes, yes, there was an emphasis on things, and the collection is really amazing, that is, these mini-shorts, and the costume group, silk blouses, i was in delighted. can you share with our viewers any trends that are worth paying attention to? the main trend of the season was mini-shorts, absolutely all designers had them, and i don’t know where to buy legs for such shorts next season, because they were very short, extremely short. said the man in the incredible overalls. at which our jaws all dropped today, and these shorts were combined with jackets, and the jackets were fitted, that is, if before there was a fashion for ever-sized and it was so so it was so ugly

fashion like balenciagi, then today everything goes into femininity, and i see a lot of fitted silhouettes, a lot of colors, transparent fabrics, some kind of mesh, everything is based on... exaltation of the female figure, and this made me very happy, because i’m somehow tired, that is, how much i love oversized, how much i love everything masculine and maybe even a little in the granche style, but it’s as if i missed how a girl should look, and just a little bit in a dress, a little bit - a little with flowers, and a little in a fitted silhouette, but you understand that now all the people who recently filled their wardrobe with... oversized clothes now understand that, wait a minute, we all need to get rid of all this, that is, it ’s going away completely, no, we can , say, tie up an oversized jacket with a wide belt, or if you have some kind of voluminous jacket, or

again, you can add some kind of lace or add some kind of corset, that is, we emphasize the waist, definitely, everywhere, we emphasize everywhere waist, and how to wear these transparent ones... fabrics that were at many shows, you can always put on the first layer, and put on a transparent fabric as a second layer, that is, it can just be some kind of beige jumpsuit, beige shorts, a beige skirt, now there is a huge amount of the right underwear that can hide everything that needs to be hidden, or you can put it on the other way around - some kind of fabric down , say, it will be a skirt or shorts, in contrast to the same transparent fabric that will be on top, say, you will have white organza. transparent, at the bottom there will be black silk or it could be just black shorts, and this is also a stylistic device that can be used, but what else, what trends do you see in the near future, and will it be necessary, can you integrate it into your

wardrobe? it seems to me that we are now looking at the 2000s and they continue, i think they will go back to the previous season, in the 2000s what? there was, i remember these super low-waisted jeans, i think so , no, not that, please, yes , indeed, there was a lot of low waist, and there was a pink color, that’s actually it, the barbie movie once again brought us back to all this, and this is generally about bright colors , this is about denim, a lot of denim, and not in its classic version, as i understand it, completely unusual things that are made from denim right up to to evening dresses, definitely, yes, it could be... some kind of trench coats, it could be evening dresses, it could be some kind of denim corsets, that is, uh, now everything is made from denim, bags, shoes are made from denim , last season i bought myself a lot of things, and i’m right with i wear it with pleasure, because denim is very cool, it neutralizes some elegant clothes, well, let’s say, we can wear