hello, klavdia petrovna, hello, aram, please.

excuse me, nina aleksandrovna, could you interrupt the rehearsal, hello, raramlech, hello, sashenka, excuse me, well , thank god, there’s a break, that witch really drove you, there’s less than two weeks left before the premiere, we went through all the correctional rehearsals, you were everyone was happy, they said it was brilliant, this is brilliant now, aramlich, so why are you cutting my music live, this is already the third. last edit, come on, come on, now, now, seraphim vasilyevich, maybe we should go to the hotel after all, but after all, we’ve been on the road for 3 days, warm it up.

raramlievich, everything has already been settled with sergei vladimirovich, he is ready to take on the redone score as soon as you give it to the orchestra, almost complete, you won’t settle it with me , hello, comrades, comrades, comrades, please introduce yourself, serafim vasilyevich pushkov, from the department culture of the leningrad executive committee. we will hand over our grena to comrade pushkov. who is this? ovaral command. our battalion master, comrade anisimova. i saw you in the flames of paris. amazing, revolutionary. thank you. our composer aramich khacheturyan. yes, we are. we know each other, all the best,

i have to work, i beg your pardon, this is a poster for your teacher. the premiere is coming soon, december 9, heine, ballet, aramakhaduryan, konstantin derzhavin’s lebryats, what date is today, november 29, 10 days, the premiere will be held at exactly the appointed time, there will be no head-cutting breakdown. but your head alone, dear

valery sergeevich, in this case i’m afraid it won’t be enough, ramalich, believe me, i think first of all about the pain, no need for unnecessary words, nina aleksandrovna, i will do whatever you say, the pleasure hurts, all the best, thank you, forgive me, for god’s sake. excuse me, nimi aleksandrovna, arramlich, aramolich, i beg your pardon, just a minute, what do you need , but you see, today it became known that galina sergeevna, ulanova, will not come to us, but will remain in almaty, which means that ramau gilet will be removed from the repertoire , i don’t understand you, speak plainly, i don’t have any parts left in the orchestra, and i know that you willingly turn on the saxophone. in your works,

maybe you have a place in your ballet for my unfortunate tool, a place to extend the armor. no, what are you talking about? a lot of trouble with kochaturyan, whimsical, no, everything is fine, we have an excellent creative relationship, it makes me happy, so what were you rehearsing here? lullaby. garinea lulls the child to sleep in a sad and gentle lullaby dance that conveys a complex one. her emotional experiences, and gen, sashenka tritikova , the management commission has been approved, i am aware, i want to be present, the best

way to get to these places is by plane, because there are no trains here from the mainland they’re walking, i’m on sakhalin island, friends, how many kilograms of tons are in the cage now? now then 15, if a good big female, then a liter of caviar is already, the men came with more pleasure eating buckwheat than caviar, i can’t get this caviar anymore, i got this caviar , there is such an interesting mineral here, pyrite, they also call it fool’s gold, so let's go look for fool's gold, how dangerous are these developments, firstly, i'm wearing a helmet, you 're wearing a helmet, safety precautions, in any case, they will never get worse. once a year and shoots with a stick, the life of his own, the premiere, tomorrow on the first, vodka veda, a product of the stellar group, it is very important when the main person in

the country is not corrupt, intolerance to corruption is one of his priorities, a huge corruption scandal in ukraine, ermak in this interview, it’s actually getting blurry, in america they directly said, guys, stop stealing. ukraine steals a lot and thanks to this, by the way , the situation at the front is much better, and klitschko also boasted of new cars in the metro. nemytishchi carriage works. buy 95 new cars whose service life is ending. it seems to me that this can simply be left behind. antifake, premiere on monday, on the first. you and the gens, there are no plans for. your instrument, aramolich, you misunderstood me, i understood you as it should, aramolich, what’s wrong with you, wait, i ’ll call someone now.

sasha, wait, listen to me, i just can’t believe why you asked, god, what a shame. do you also think that i chickened out? you understand that you acted low, i just want to be close to you, because i love you i love you, you told him so, you told him so, no, i didn’t tell him that, i wonder why it bothers you so much, so, so you should apologize to him, do you hear, you think it’s because of me that he felt bad ? don't you dare come near me until you apologize to him,

uh-huh, you've finally come to your senses, i 'll feed you now, where am i? in the hospital, in the officers' ward, you see how they respect you, i need to go to the hotel, i need to work, everything is fine with me, what's good? but you lost consciousness from pain, you couldn’t say a word, she says okay, it’s just a seizure, i need to go to the hotel, where are my clothes, she hid everything , it’s a witch, she says, they’ll cure me, they’ll give me everything, well , eat, i must say that the kitchen here is not like our theater rations, that you don’t understand the cudgel, i can’t eat here, lie here, eat, people have battle wounds, i have an ulcer. that you don’t need treatment, he’s here again, who let you in here? why are you shouting

, and here people are sick, and you are shouting, you can’t , just get out of here, don’t shout at me, i just wanted to help you, woman, i’m here i don’t need helpers, go ahead, oh, give me another hit on the head, oh, i’m leaving, i can do it. don’t come at all, i haven’t cooled down yet, rather get better, comrade captain , a completely impossible type, this was given to you by who, well, you better know who, sea buckthorn with honey, wherever i got it.

serafin vasilyevich, please help yourself to what? sent, dear, you have some black bread, little black, yes, moment.

what is your theater employee doing here? arkasha, he’s here in his free time, yes, like any young man he needs pocket money for a flower. on the candy, he's courting sashenka, well, imagine, even i noticed this, but the poor guy has no chance , and who has them, who, no one, she's in love with gen, uh-huh, sashenka, she, she's all about work , well, i understand, please, your little black one.

please, thank you, seraskim vasilyevich, i propose to drink the first toast to you, you simply must drink to you, but what do the turians want, aramich, yes, what does he do in his free time, he actually doesn’t have any. he's always either at the hotel or at rehearsals, so you don't know, or you’re just not interested, seraphim vasilyevich, and there’s nothing special to know here, you’re all there in full view, and what can he do, write music, just music, music can contain dubious political overtones, aramich, well, aram? he is an order bearer, he wins the stalin prize. have you heard about

the composer wagner? a comrade, a rebreather artist, heard that he became the main composer of the third reich. and today, to the music of wagner, our soldiers are dying on the fronts, and you say music, just music. why aren't you sleeping, comrade captain?

why, what news? go, morozova, go, yes, valery sergeevich, tritikova, don’t be stubborn, you’ll be better off at the hotel , thank you for your concern, but i won’t move, so, no refusals, the hotel room has already been booked for you, move today, that’s it, i’m staying in the hostel, even if they take me out of the performance. calm down, go warm up, we'll start rehearsal soon. whose idea is this? pushkova? ninotchka, just don’t interfere in this matter, i beg you. my dear

, you are ours, we have a train, through us. you are adults, shame on you, dear irma, this my beloved friends, dmitry shestakovich and david oistrakh, great musicians, the pride of soviet culture, stalin laureates, and this giant also has a personal armored committee, i ask you, kick me out with them, i ’ve been waiting for them for a very long time, yes. otherwise he’ll just jump out the window, he’s already done that, by the way, it was also a woman’s fault, david, so, i’ll ask the strangers to leave the room, i understand everything, just a minute, please, please, guys, i’ll tell you now if he can handle it i doubt it, david, yes, even ivan khristoforich, what ivan khristoforich, lieutenant general

bogramyan, ivan khristoforich. attention, attention, what is a barrier detachment? he shot at his own people, at those who threw down their weapons and retreated, and there were not only fines, for your leningradskaya, thank you. usa has already

been informed. that shostakovich came to his senses, sat down and at once wrote a truly folk masterpiece, uplifting the spirit of the soviet people in the fight against the fascist invaders, well, partly this is really true, taxafalo, leningrad is going through a catastrophic time, all its inhabitants are heroes, who can argue, but the fact that you wrote the main part? full of anger, even before the war, before the nazi invasion, and you were angry, you weren’t at all with hitler, but with another mustache closer, how’s that? this doesn’t matter, of course, for the history of music, but he will now think that music can be written

on his orders, now he won’t let you down... remember my words, we’ll remember everything, wait, blow, blow, this what you showed me in the thirty-eighth winter in moscow , namely, his ronda, and leningradskaya and that’s the point, let it remain, if you need it, it has already done its job, you are a genius, dear my, how glad i am to see you, my dears, god is above us, he sees everything, what you did and what you didn’t do.

if you created beauty, then you didn’t change anything, you didn’t accept anyone, i can even do it myself, don’t worry so much, i love you, you ’re a great composer, thank you, and no one can take that away from you, but what about your second? i’m writing, he will remain so hungry, and the performance repertoires, i haven’t seen him here before , before he was whole, well, stalin’s laureates, falcons, you’ll watch how... a colleague suffers, and instruments, a couple

nothing, the kuibyshev quartet is with us, all the mitins, guys, instruments with us , i don’t mind that we’ll play, oh, well, it’s not a big deal anymore

, maybe we’ll arrange a break, our fingers are tired, whatever you want, yes, if only my duduk were here. i would show you what georgi mirumyan is capable of, i chose velanshey myself, i asked for a real european instrument, i got

it, a let-inist glutton for europe, say what you want, but i will still achieve my goal, who, our respect, your health, did not interfere. interfered, which one interfered? interfered, no, what are you doing, please come in, konstantin nikolaevich, it’s high time for us to take a break, and raramich hasn’t straightened up for 5 hours, now i’m organizing tea, well, tea is tea, this isn’t paschenkin’s carrot, this is our real one with a splitter, from stock, now, now, but you’ll have to be patient, i’m here visit the patient. i’m not sick, but how do i know if you escaped from the hospital? oh, pies, with

a little cap, a personal reprimand from the cook of the kama dawns, which means he’s still offended. well, forgive her, nina is also worried, nina alexandrovna and i talked about everything, the conversation is over. no, dear aram, it’s not over. pushkov brought us a new ending. to our ballet? yes sir. on the collective farm square , everyone gathers near the loudspeaker and listens to the young man’s speech

about the beginning of the war. the main characters take an oath, the border guards in orderly ranks go straight to the front, into the foggy and formidable land. silence is approved and recommended by management, but what is quite encouraging? everything is in complete silence, well, in the sense, without your music , general alexandrov plans to put the sacred war under the curtain, the whole audience stands up, sings along with the corpse, the final apotheos period.

well, that’s probably how it should be, well, if you agree, then i’m not against it, that’s how we need it. pasha’s funeral came for his brother, he died at stalingrad, 19 years old guy,

i know everything about myself arram, an insignificant opportunist, mediocrity, but when you started in the sheropions, remove them? ivanov himself praised my same plays, vlat ivanov, he called the world to himself, my god, where has everything gone, my god, all that remains is fear, fear and lies, lies. and

meanness, see, kostya, it’s late, i have to work, there’s a curfew in half an hour, tell me.

koro, koro, you are here, and here there is a place to spend the night, don’t worry, you won’t stay on the street, it would be good, there isn’t a single dry thread left on me, will this rain ever end? this is van, van, this is dosht, water from van, it is holy.

vari louis, good morning.

bari luis, good morning, the land there is no longer ours, ours, 25 years ago, we came from there, left our homes.

you promised to get some more sea buckthorn with honey, we are looking for a young lady, they will bring it, i will put it aside for you. will you take popiros? no, the doctor forbids cigarettes, eating chocolate, ladlizovsky, it will be more expensive, even our military commissar doesn’t have it yet, how much? one, for one tile. beauty, and there are still many of these left, let's have chocolate, shall we?

dukat, dukat, good morning, sashenka, get ready, money, money, where are you from here, i wanted to talk to you in private, keep the food, keep the food, to be honest, i came here for you, it’s in vain. i have to go, one question is for you, why did you refuse to move to a hotel, i didn’t do anything, how could such a thing even occur to you , well, if only you were closer to your idol, help already, whatever, you’re funny, by god,

why are you twitching, stand next to me, the couple needs it. let's go, hold on, run! hello uncles, good morning, comrades, they asked me to tell you, thank you.

my dears, all the daily performances have been cancelled, the premiere is coming soon, hello, hello, what should we do now , grandma, we have a train in the evening, we are going to the front line, but what can i do, after the war, and we will be waiting for you. klavdia petrovna, what is happening here? yes, here is oramlich, the guys were discharged from the hospital, today they are going to the front, they wanted a production look before sending, sergey vladimirovich, hello, and ramolev, hello, with the latest changes, you can give it to the census takers, thank you.

understands what it costs you, nothing, nothing, nina aleksandrovna, hello, what’s happening, these people are waiting for the front, in a few days, or maybe hours, they will be on the front line, we have to do something for them, you know, you’re crazy , that we will show them, something beautiful to your taste, no, but this is impossible, and the costumes, when we have time, the girls will not... knitted time, let’s have time, mina aleksandrovna, jackets, they’ll wait, they have a little time, sergei vladimirovich, i’m for it, just quickly, don’t delay, girls, everyone is ready for the make- up suit, quickly, girls, who can, start yourself, and then i'll correct it. oh, you are my beauties, show these fellows

everything you can, let you be in front of their eyes every minute when they are there, oh, oh, go away, don’t interfere , get busy, okay, okay, bauble, i love you . sit down, girls, you remember everything, lelya, you have a tilt, so that your hands don’t fly apart, tata, don’t run to the edge of the stage, hold on, katerina, they’re smart, they’ll do everything right, artist, lord, where is the artist, we need to at least put a backdrop, i’m beating this cheturyan, arkady, i’m on you. what is going on here? and

here now there will be a rehearsal with an audience, how is this a rehearsal, with what kind of audience? who allowed? don’t worry, valery sergeevich, take your seats according to the tickets you purchased, aram alevich, stop organizing this circus, this is not a circus, this is a ballet? seraphim vasilievich, please.

what's happened? morozovo, hungry fainting, everyone’s rations are the same, their bodies are weak, i’m just dizzy, excuse me, i’m already back to normal, today you don’t have to go to rehearsal tomorrow, you should have thought about it before going out in front of the audience so dashingly , you need some hot tea, girls, give it to me to me. no matter how they ended up at our premiere, you are not to blame for anything, you need it more, i am

grateful to you, but please, no more gifts, agreed? wait for me, i ’ll just help katya, i’ll wait, you know what it is, they said they’ll wait until the end december, well, i'm ready. what about sasha? and what, sasha? are you ready to give up your passion? khachturyan? i do not understand you. come on, you understand everything. what do you

need from me? there is reason to believe that arramichuryan is writing a work that goes against the policies of the party and government , and this at a time when his homeland expects a completely different return from him, help expose him, get a reservation, until the end of the war, sashenka will be next to you . and what should i do?

don't be afraid to laugh at what? it seems to me that in your waltz had a premonition of tragedy, as if you had prepared nina for what happened to her later. lermontov was a mystic, i am sure that he would not be offended by such arbitrariness. no, i, i cry so much all the time when i hear your falsity, as if it has a direct relation to me too, you are very

impressionable, it is important to establish human contact, to gain trust, and then maybe he will really write a gnr part for you, for a sexophone, well, what difference does it make if it is confirmed that he writes the said work, just confirm it in writing.

i didn’t know anything about georgy, he found me in sverdlovsk in february to learn how to play in a big, real orchestra, i don’t know what will come of him, but, but i’m glad that he’s around, yes, with him you’re not so alone. thank you for today’s wonderful day, i will never forget it, me too, good night, dear gayana, good night.

thank you, good night, good night. good evening, aramelich, arkady, what are you doing here? i came to apologize, i was wrong, i was, but you know, i have one request for you. what, but could you work out with my georgiy? what do you have in mind?

on his saxophone, he just stupidly grabbed the velancel, and this is not his instrument at all , he doesn’t feel it, in our homeland he played the duduk, this is our national wind instrument, so try it, but what can you do, i don’t have time that's enough, well then we agreed, agreed, well, i'm in my room. then absolutely, goodbye, ramolevich, thank you, me, for coming, i, i was also thinking about our conversation, sorry again, okay, well, tomorrow i’ll send georgiy to you, be ready, you'll have to show extreme patience, don't worry, good night, it's good that

you... let's go parnau, i had two on izo, here , by the way, it's also not an even little thing, it's alive, just like yours, let's open it up pans, we eat the whole thing there, we eat, yes, yes, well no, guys , try them, they are very tasty, i can eat 10 kilograms, in italy there is rocfil, not in italy , i tried it for the first time in russia, but you have baths in italy there is, there is, yes, but for me. popular, we do not have options for roasting meat, we believe that this particular roast fits perfectly with this sauce, you dare to do it, yes, this is very, very cool , yes, what are you going to cook, alenino fillet, i will now marinate with currant tincture, cool, and i want to mix four simple ingredients: beets, green

buckwheat, fern and goat cheese, well then let's start, let's go, premiere, cooks on wheels, tomorrow , at the first old barrel - a product of the stellar group massage, treatment or entertainment, originally from brazil, feihua, berry of the energy of life, how to escape from amputation, breakthrough treatment for atherosclerosis, program to live. helps everyone on monday, on the first.

the ballet of happiness is ready for release , the premiere in moscow awaits us, yes, they are very, very waiting for us there, we don’t have to be ashamed, we worked conscientiously, each to the best of his talent. for me, this work here in the homeland of my ancestors became a great exciting school, you did a great job, thank you, but the main thing happened to me not

here, in this theater, which i loved with all my soul, a visit to the gorvirap monastery gave me a theme for the rest of my life, fate millions of my... compatriots, armenians expelled from their homes lands, now, as a composer, as an armenian, i am obliged to create a work in which every person will hear the pain of my great people, what are you talking about? we are talking about the massacre of armenians in turkey in the ninth and fifteenth years, please note. that the soviet union has good neighborly relations with turkey, what do you mean by this? well, it’s high time to forget about 915,

forget about it, but what about the people? stop it, who will remember this in 100 years. i apologize, my words. were inappropriate, don’t pay attention, we once studied with

pushkov in the same composition department from miskovsky, but he lacked the abilities and went along the komsomol line, he will never forgive you. but he didn’t forgive me, i got away with it then, because our ballet was curated by mikayan himself, what a humiliation that you have to deal with him? fascism began precisely when the whole world remained silent after those turkish events. the mass extermination of jews became possible only thanks to this silence, are you writing about this now? i can’t help

but write, for me everything suddenly merged into one thing: the torn off ararat, the extermination of the jews guns

look, hello. hello, sashenka, hello, i have an important conversation with you. can't we talk in the theater? undesirable, the conversation concerns arkady simonovich. sasha, should we wait for you? go ahead, i'll give her a lift. i'm listening to you. arkasha, she really needs your help.

what were you playing now for earlier? i was playing the duduk, if they take me to the front , you can replace me in the orchestra if necessary, he has no time for me now, he’s busy, yes, he’s writing something new, a great thing. the great one,

about us, about the armenians, no, about all of us, this has never happened before, and now our time is over. katerina, where is sasha? did the respondent take her away in a car? no, what other answer is the employee? from leningrad, kushkov, should have arrived before us. this is what it means to be a prima. there will always be an influential opponent. shut up, i just re-read the liberetto.

it seems to me that in the final part of your baret one more dance is missing, this should be the final chord, an exclamation mark, the emotional result of the entire performance, this is interesting, ballet is a dance, a bright dance, understandable to the people, it is necessary joy, and not a sad symphonic whining, it won’t be easy, but it’s easy near stalingrad, it’s easy in leningrad, i’m not talking about that, will we have time, costumes, rehearsals, so we have to be in time, well, seraphim vasilyevich, there’s only a week left before the premiere, i don’t understand , what are we arguing about, or do you not believe that you... will be able to persuade

your capricious composer? so let him drag himself less after actresses and give up extraneous matters. arkady, wait, ours with a tassel, like walking with an authorized person, waiting for news, impatient, wondering what you bribed him, what is it? don’t come near me anymore, i don’t want to see you, no, you tell me what happened, come on! what do you need simonovich, bastard, simonovich, creature, i’ll kill you, what

, take it away, when we’re cooking, we shouldn’t... we shouldn’t add salt to the dish, doctors have such a deformation, they can forget aspirin, but they remember cetylsalicylic acid very well, with sugar - this is such a setup, let’s say softly, yes, you can say that. there is a lot of sugar everywhere, even in borscht, it’s scary to say, there is often sugar, sugar really is like that, well, in my opinion look like a big evil, if you want to be slim, healthy and young for as long as possible, then you should eat at home, not necessarily everything overseas, but somehow

actively, follow, there is a lot of decent food around us, eat swollen, lab podcast tomorrow on the first. whiskey manketcher - a product of the stetelr group is good russian, this is a dead russian, this is nargiz zakirova, with whom we had a chance to talk, such an immodest question , but how did nargiz get to moscow in the first place ? to the right of these all the orcs, she always had crusophobia, she just hid it, well, in short, they started to cover my oxygen, she tried to hype it up. got hyped up, so they banned her weight for 50 years, i think we should also ask her to add 50 years, i’m going to get myself another tattoo, but if you get me, i’ll give you ukrainian citizenship, on the forehead, on the forehead, come on, we’ve collected 7 million dollars for theft,

finances the murder of russian soldiers, and america did not reward her in any way, did not give her citizenship, she is not needed there, she is needed here, so that she would play dirty tricks here, organize dances in churches, i had an idea to get rid of russian citizenship. on wednesday at first. 330. you are just a sorceress, right now a date. aramich, wait. he ’s here, don’t interfere, don’t interfere , what’s going on, leave us, comrades, you’re in command again, thank you, we still need

to show the doctor, even if it’s a guy. let him go, i ’ll write you another dance, will you write, and without any conditions will you write what he did to you? funny, beethoven was deaf, and khachaturyan was blind, let them let the guy go, you stand for him intercede, this... saxophonist was an ordinary informer, he came to you specifically, asked for forgiveness, agreed to teach your lackey, only to sniff out what you were writing there, he himself would

not have thought of such a thing, in short, you will write a dance , and he immediately goes to the front. but all the while the general armed forces resisted, our troops were captured in bled, a'.

in the morning you will be released immediately for rehearsal, understand?

scary? sorry, honey, i won’t see you off.

i'm waiting for the dance. he wrote this in 8 hours.

stop, stop, guys, this won't be useful to us, hands up the hill, baby, don’t be afraid, you ’ll buy yourself a new one!

friends, hello! this is a podcast sit down normally about raising children, possibly adults, our guest today is larisa surkova, an amazing woman, mother of seven, seven children, psychologist, children's, adult, author of numerous books, larisa is called the lawyer of children's souls, we have a huge number of questions for larisa , up to how many years we have to invest in a child, it is believed that up to 7 years, but what we have invested is all, and this is, as it were, the end, up to 7 years old is already quite good, but at that time there was a wave. fortunately, yes, only then there was such an exposure of this information that a wonderful book, which was once translated

from japanese, after three it’s too late, it was translated incorrectly, cut out, and so on, in general, everything is written there wrong, so 7 years already not bad, but in fact i would say that there is no end in sight, because there is no such age, no one invented it, i think, you know, this myth came from the fact that before, when... especially in soviet times, we they said that nerve cells don’t recover, the brain doesn’t develop, basically everyone lived until they were twenty, then that’s it, so in the end, we still need to let parents somehow let go a little and give their children some air, you know, i i would answer this question like this, parents should be, in principle, period, because the main joy of a child and his main point of support, his development point, is when he has a family, when he comes home. he has someone to talk to, and i’m not giving a specific time right now, it doesn’t have to happen exactly there at 13:00, a lot has been said, i repeat once again, it is not the quantity of time

, but its quality that matters, a mother can come in the evening after work, very tired, eat, breathe out, sit down and spend half an hour with the child, but it will be so effective, and he will so developed, because every time spent with him, mom and dad will spend talking to him, telling him about what they themselves know or... everything, it doesn’t matter , that is, if he has talent, which is inherent in it, yes, genetically, in general, as it were nature, then it will still manifest itself somehow, there is such a wonderful direction called psychogenetics, in our country, it is probably not so actively developed, foreign countries are really very developed, they conduct a huge number of long, such lonite , extended over time. at first they said there about 15 years ago 70% genetics 30 environment, and recent

studies say that 57% genetics, the rest is environment, because the environment has a very big influence, i have an older son, for example, but he really wanted to study initially, he was very much like that, well , you can’t say that he was a wonderer, but he was very drawn to history and geography. somewhere on the beach, i had to go to some excavations, to endless museums, that is , he knows all the museums in moscow, in general, right down to some exhibits, and he was always very drawn to knowledge, but how as soon as he went to school , the older he got, it was like, yes, this desire to learn something, it all seemed to fade away, that’s how in general, this is the child’s thirst for knowledge, how to hold it. such an important thing as preserving this, yes, it is really very important, because unfortunately, when children find themselves in a school environment, where there is no longer one significant adult, not two, like mom and dad,

yes, who supported, ran around museums, and there are different people who can discourage you from studying, by the fact that they evaluate you biasedly, by the fact that they don’t notice you, ignore you, by the fact that they may even laugh at you , sit there, don’t show off, don’t interfere , shut up, things happen in schools, of course we are like parents. we are faced with this, but what is important is that the child always returning home receives this support and support from his parents , i always praise my children very much, that is, i am there for my eldest son there, you are the smartest there, you such potential, and i also heard the opinion of psychologists that this, on the contrary, has the opposite effect, there is such a thing or there are really a lot of non-psychologists now, i am of the opinion that was once voiced a long time ago was profitable, that you cannot out-love a child when you you give him a lot of love and a lot of support, as you know, such an oxygen cylinder, so you hang a big oxygen cylinder on him, send him on a diving trip

in big life, to school, somewhere else, and he is constantly fueled by this oxygen cylinder, because they didn’t tell him there, no matter how they tried to lower his self-esteem, no matter what difficulties he encountered, he always has a mask with which he can breathe, remember that in fact he is very... loved, he is very supported, he always will help, so our love, our fullness, our support is the most important thing when it is there, both chinese and japanese, and mathematics will all fall on this, and the child. will declare his desires, because this is also very important, because sometimes it seems to us that well, i know mathematics well, my husband knows mathematics well, our child should know mathematics well, but he doesn’t like mathematics, that’s when we gave him this support and acceptance in any situation, we have this rule at home, no matter what happens, come tell us, together we will decide, if we don’t know what’s happening to you, we won’t be able to help you, then it’s unknown what

could happen to you, so it’s very important for the child that he can come at any time and say, listen guys, well, i can’t do it , then you will sit down and decide together what kind of support you can give him, well, that is, we praise , in short, children, everything is fine, like love, love , it is actually reciprocated, because it is always very difficult for parents with growing up children, little one, he you and so loves you, you understand, yes, that he runs to you, he reaches out to you, he adores you, accepts you as absolutely anyone, as the child grows up, he... begins to look like a porcupine hedgehog, you can’t touch him here, you can’t touch him there, he’ll snap at you, he’ll answer you something, we parents have a fear that the child doesn’t love me, if he talks to me like that, then he doesn’t love me, we forget that the concept child of this love, our concept of love is completely different things, and of course, there is such an age, they wonderful, i love him very much, there are 5-7 years old, when they are already such young manipulators, they

understand what is for... parents, well , these are trigger words that can somehow hurt and offend them, and i regularly i get letters when they write to me, larisa, my child said that he doesn’t love me anymore, i don’t know how to live on, oh god, what am i saying, i’m saying, seriously, now you’re a grown woman, you’re five years old the child said, i don’t love you anymore, and you perceive it like this, that is, they sit, sob, how does this work for a child’s psyche, wow, how great, that is, yes, it’s not because he ’s a villain, but because? that this is a subconscious process, i caused feedback, so vivid, yes, why are you doing this, you need to understand that he is five, you are 35, and not to confuse who is an adult here, who is a child, yes, this will always be very important, tell me , you’re a psychologist, yes, this is how it happens at a psychologist’s house, firstly, i have two adult daughters, they already live separately, they don’t live with us, five are always available, our house is very noisy, we have children, a husband me too,

by the way, he’s a psychologist, we were together: we once studied, he’s involved, though with organizations, that is, a little bit of other history, corporate psychology, but nevertheless, it’s always noisy here, and we never stop children in this regard, usually i know , just kidding, i say, thanks to the neighbor downstairs, whom we don’t have, because we live in a house in the countryside, our children can run, jump, play ball, bark at our dogs, that is, it’s really always very noisy here, and this important, because being in society, in kindergarten or at school, of course, the children keep themselves within limits, and when returning home, if we are from them, we or you, no matter who, demand that we remain silent, do not breathe, do not walk, but this is impossible, let us always remember ourselves, we come from work, we want take off your shoes, take off your clothes, wash off your makeup and also relax , a child is also a person, why do we very often make demands on a child that we don’t even make on ourselves, that is, when we come home, we want to relax, we

can do everything say, don't touch. do not disturb, do not approach, and no one comes to us will pester you, but that’s why we think about the child that we know everything, we understand everything well, the question of the regime, yes, now we say that we are kind of free, but there are some kind of framework, a regime, especially for children who walk to school, to kindergarten, who live in the system, it should be, we have it at home, returning to the fact that just like at home, we have common regime moments, so let’s say, and this is in my opinion, absolutely that's right, a child should have a fixed number of hours of sleep at night, this... a child of school age should it is necessary to sleep at least 7-8 hours, the child must eat and we must do everything to ensure that he eats, because now , fortunately, the psychology of eating behavior tells us that we no longer need to kill ourselves for soup or porridge, yes, the main thing is,

in order for him to eat, he must drink, this is also a regime moment that... they forget, and children forget, sometimes there is simply no access to normal water in the house that you can take and drink, you need to take care of yourself and the child if the child lives in such simple regime framework, of course he it will be easier to get up in the morning, go to school, yes, he will feel better physically, when he wants, then he can, who allowed chips, as you can see, the family is all so plump, i say, since monday, we are all going on a diet. you understand that you must have a conscience, a sense of self-preservation in general, that the hostess is in front of you, i start cooking, eating, he comes, sits with me, and at the same time he can stand up for himself and eat whatever he wants. did you see the video? watch with us, the premiere, tomorrow on the first. samishki tedi, gathered, where is your work book?

i don't have it, is it a scam? yes, we are leaving moscow, i mean, what happened, mom, well, there is absolutely no desire, no time to train her. hello, hello, what happened, the girls are conscious, the woman has an open fracture, one, two, three, did you buy your diploma or something, they asked you to bring something, in an accident the spinal cord may be damaged, the indicators are normal, well, that’s it making conclusions is not within the competence of a nurse, but what are you doing, i’m saving your life, quiet, quiet, quiet, quiet, quiet, at least you take turns yours... and not everyone with a cop , this is not mine, your sister says, hello , ask the nurse, from monday, on

the first, mom, what are you doing here, what is this, could you call, are you a nurse? you are watching the podcast, sit down normally, today we are talking with psychologist larisa surkovo , trying to understand how to raise a harmonious personality. my middle son, yes, i forced him for some time , he went in for sports, then there was some break, he got out of some, yes, that is, i still forced him, as it were, to force him to go to sports mugs, necessarily, there is probably a difference in concepts here, that is, you can say, force, you can say persuade , you can say, motivate, you can say sell profitably, show the child why he needs it, or you can ask him himself what he wants, because for example, we have another problem in our family, when it started before the start of the school year, my daughters are 10 and 7 years old, they gave me such lists of special features that they want, that i sat down like this with a schedule and thought, where do i

even need this here? shove them, yes, because we have my children, they want everything, a lot at once and always little of everything, maybe because mom and dad are like that, and this is very important, this is about the issue of the environment, that is, if the child sees that the parent... everything develop over time, they are interested in everything all the time, there is little time for everything, he wants the same, because parents are in an ideal family, of course , in some kind of good picture of the world, for the child a role model, so it is very important to record time when you have there is time for peace, there is time for each child, then again to the question of the regime, after all, if i have this adult mode , excuse me, i will interrupt you, i have the time of each child written in my diary, each of my children knows, just like my husband, today i went to work, yes there, and the husband, he knows that he has time today when he takes the girls to the stables, we call it, let's play a game, that we only have two children in the family, there is a game, let's play, what we have only one child in the family, sometimes we go to the store with one,

everyone has their own activity that is interesting to them, it is included in my schedule, not theirs, it is included in my life, in my schedule, in my calendar, and i tell them, there dunya. masha wants to, i don’t know, buy a dress, yes, but you seem to have little time, like many parents now, and you spend time with all three children, and let’s say everyone ends up going to the museum, let’s say, because the eldest is the eldest, as it were, everyone goes to the museum, which means that this is what interests him, everyone else, that means they go and they think, lord, if only this hellish torment would end in this boring museum, like you? on sunday, and you seem to think that we are all a family, dad, mom, three children , we spend time together, it turns out that as if we were doing this for ourselves, you separate, that is, we must separate, we must separate, this should not be every week even, it could be once a month, yes, maybe even less often,

for example, my eldest son says, listen, mom, come on, in general, this year i will have this time once at the end of the year it’s my birthday, but we’ll go with you to japan, this is my dream, i say, okay , we’ll go together, he says no, let ’s also take dunya, because she’s 10, that’s also interesting, and it will be in june, but he completely took it upon himself, he built the entire program, where, i’m even scared to read this number of excursions, he himself agreed on this with his sister, and this is already important for their relationship, that is, they sat down, they have some kind of their own this secret, they lined everything up there, they rolled it out to me, go mother, pay, yes, earn money for it, pay for it, but he says, i don’t need it for a year , i’m busy, better, better, i’ll be in peace , put me on my allotted... hours there a week, yes, so that i’m at least on the computer sat and looked down, because i don’t have time for this, because besides school, he’s preparing for college and a lot of other things, but then in june you’ll be there for 10 days, that’s just... evenings, okay, 10, 11, your

child, i have a younger girl who just starts in the evening, which means trying on a dress, turning on music, she’s inspired, and even if mom only came in the evening, what should i do? there must be a regime, but it must be built into the feeling of the family itself, because in one family the parents go to work at 6 in the morning and arrive there, i don’t know, at 5 in the evening, but in another. parents leave at 12 and come at 23, when, someday, children must exist in this picture of the world, yes, if the parent does not see the child, we definitely will not get anything good, so of course, everyone, every family adjusts this regime to suit themselves , and we, for example, are early risers, we are all very early we get up, we always, i always say, please, if you need filming at 6 am, no question, let us meet at 6 am and we will film, in the evening i no longer think, my children don’t think either, we have one in

the house is dark, everyone is sleeping, that’s it, so some kind of punishment is strictly necessary , after all, there should be some kind, how to enter into these frameworks after all, the main nuance is that , that for a child, especially such a small one, at 6 years old, her biological internal clock has not yet formed, she does not have this feeling, it’s late, early, dark, it’s not dark, nothing is clear at all, so it’s better , of course, to introduce all this as softly as possible, and i know that now many families are switching to the alice mode, marus, who has what kind of speaker at home, which programs and dear masha speaks there, through half an hour is our curfew, after 15 minutes it is our curfew, yes, that is, they are starting to teach her very gradually, it turns out that this is good, the parent does not play just this punisher who walks and talks, after half an hour, after 15 minutes, it takes some kind of device, some kind of equipment, but in general, it it’s not me, it’s a technique, but we naturally explain to the child in advance why this is important; at 6 years old we can talk about the fact that there are cycles of wakefulness, rest, and why.

it is important that the little head sleeps, that the brain rests, if the child does not understand why he needs it, what is its benefit, he is fine as is, then of course there will be no result from this, so it is very important to lay out a theory, as well as with questions, when he already knows in advance everything that we will ask him, there are funny situations for him when the child comes himself from school and writes back, okay, ok, goodbye, well, that is, yes, he already knows all the standard questions, i always say, please, if you are too lazy, type it into the internet, open-ended questions for your child, why am i contacting you? i heard your interview somewhere- then hundreds, thousands, i myself just took part how many times, they really are very interesting, when you can ask a non-standard question that a child does not expect from you, and then i don’t know, there - for example, you know, today i was driving along street, i saw a rainbow and wondered if it was called rainbow, what would you call it differently, yes, the child is not waiting for this question, that you are now going to hammer him about school, he... well , he is forced to get involved, well, that is, from

what relates to school, we are talking about what are we asking, what interesting things did you learn today, which of your friends surprised you today , what event upset you the most, what you most didn’t mind spending your time on, that’s your most well-spent time today - what? yeah, what did you feel sorry for spending time on, yes, that is, this doesn’t mean that we even dump a list on him, then there will be an answer, that is , one or two questions are selected, which are quite enough for communication, that’s it. about which all the bells are ringing, that he is not there, he is lost, children develop intellectually, do not develop emotionally, they have forgotten how to feel, they are not interested in our emotions, our experiences, because we are rebuilding, we always tell them, okay, normal , okay, from a very early age, oh, mom, you have tears, no, a midge got into my eye there. why? school is forcing you, don't go,

don’t breathe, don’t look, we walk there in pairs and so on, the parents say: don’t interfere, do n’t interfere, shut up, that’s it, yes, we cut off these feelings, but there is nothing more important than this particular emotional component, when you, you have sympathy , when you empathize with close and distant people, on the one hand we sound the alarm, we shout, the world is cruel, the world is cold , what is it, on the other hand, in our families it’s actually very often the same... the same thing, but say, eh how to teach, so that children engage, i don’t know, with each other, play, so that this does not happen, there is a lot of difference in age, of course, depends, because , well, almost all of our children also have an age difference of 6 years, 5-6 years, and this is a very complex interaction, they are far from each other, because they are already changing so quickly these generations , igryki, zty, ikhsy and so on, yes, they change very often, not like before it was there for 20 years, they have different interests, different goals. they don’t have a life, well, well, some families somehow cope with this, i know, my

master course is tamnovich astrakhan, he also has a huge family, and i know that this is his wife, lena is there, they always have the elders there looking after the little ones, there they work with them, lena. it’s already possible, she was somehow brought up by them that she can be like a queen, they somehow sort it out with themselves all this for me, they also deal with themselves, simply because there are a lot of them, yes, especially the little ones , the little ones all have a smaller age difference, so they seem to be interested in each other, so they run after each other with their feet, scooters, and so on, and so they somehow interact with each other, you know, i have a slightly different position, i raise children this way, and the house is a fortress for them, including an emotional one, they each have their own room or... they are big, if they are apartments, people live in apartments, they always say, make them some corner of our own, which is inviolable, because this violation of each other’s private property often leads to arguments, and at home we try to do everything so that they can relax, so that they really have this opportunity, then they themselves have i have an interest, for example, in my eldest son,

who is 16, he has no problems when he exhaled, especially like this, he’s already just rested, ate, slept, he can come up and say, oh mom, let’s go with marfouche, months, he himself enjoys it, he really likes it , he can do whatever he wants with her, he goes there with the stroller to play laps, he also relaxes like that, listens to music, he can put semyon, who is three, to bed, well, he likes it, but we never forced him to do this, not forced, but since he knows that mom is also tired, she needs help, he is always with her with pleasure himself, this is also, again, this kind of barter, yes, his mother does a lot for him, he does something for his mother to the best of his ability, i am a supporter... of the fact that you give birth to children for yourself, not in order to you had ready-made nannies whom you gave birth to there before, they are already grown up, so they can do some kind of battle for you to please yourself or what you give birth to for yourself, because only you are responsible for it , then unfortunately in modern world, despite the fact that i have one husband, all the children are from one husband, and we are there too

we have been married for 28 years, but nevertheless, in the modern world it turns out that a woman herself is often forced to bear responsibility for the child that... she has, because the world is very unpredictable, certain events constantly arise, and we don’t know , what will happen tomorrow, will we have some kind of male support, well, children need to be taught to take responsibility for themselves too, children need to be definitely taught to take responsibility for themselves, so for me, for example, it is important that he is not looking after his brother there or for his sister, that he will wash the plate, that he knows how to use a vacuum cleaner, that it will iron a shirt, but it is also known, yes, that it begins with yours, as if yes, if you make the bed, as if everything begins in your head . this can only be achieved through together, a wonderful word, family - it’s still about together, that’s why we have semyon, 3 years old, he knows without any problems how to make an omelette, where to get eggs, where to get milk, how to turn on the stove, the only thing what we are doing is making sure that he doesn’t suddenly knock over this frying pan on himself. you are watching

the podcast, sit down, today we are talking with psychologist larisa surkova, we are trying to understand how to raise a harmonious personality, tell me, please, we need to take the child to kindergarten, now for those who have not yet, now there is no definite yes, no one says definitely yes, they always say at the discretion of the parents , i absolutely agree with this, there are children who need kindergarten, simply because they really love communication, they love children very much, they are comfortable existing within the framework of the regime, there are children who do not need kindergarten, because they want to be with mom, they feel comfortable attending individual classes or classes in small groups of three to five people. and the mother makes a choice that since she doesn’t work , she has the opportunity, she takes the child to different sections and everyone is happy together, to say that the child will be successful or unsuccessful at school, depending on whether he attended kindergarten or no, it’s impossible, this correlation has not been proven by anyone, it depends solely , we are back again to when the child

is still small, but this is all endless, learning yes, development, yes in fact, now, fortunately, i can say for me as a psychologist - the fashion is still passing, because some time ago, about 10 years ago, but if you did not give up your child in a mantessor, you are a bad parent, well, when i went into these the clubs are wonderful, i myself felt a little scared, because there are so many manuals, some special boards, special toys, it’s unclear where creativity is in all this, and our most important task, especially in the preschool period, is not to kill the child’s creative potential, because it's a game leading activity, the child must definitely move a lot, and learn a lot, invent a lot, invent a lot, and the more we give him the opportunity to develop in this creativity, to express himself, to draw the way he sees, to sing as he wants, to jump on his ears in

in the end, to play sports, the better the result will be at school, the easier it will be for him at school, because here he realized everything that he should have realized at this age before himself. there are no standards, right, but how to teach an artist, it seems to me, is impossible, that is, it’s like human life is also about individuality, right, finding yourself, but no, you need to draw exactly like that, you need to sculpt exactly like that, yes, speak out exactly like that, as if yes, when children they are being pushed into all these frameworks, as if it’s my separate pain, but why, why is it possible to give a mark for a drawing, it’s never been clear to me and it’s still not clear to me how one can evaluate an iso, why, if a child drew a sun blue, he should be given two, why yes, listen him, he probably has an argument, the simplest one is that he simply didn’t have yellow paint, maybe, and the most complicated one is that he sees in this some kind of his own philosophy, why two, it’s not clear, so of course there’s a lot here.. . such interesting factors, yes, children, they, they will not give you a chance not to develop yourself, that’s what i want to tell parents, now

there are children who know a lot, well , first of all, because they watch cartoons, of course, there are wonderful cartoons that you sometimes watch yourself fixies, you will finally find out how a microwave works, yes, that is, they really give out a lot of different interesting information there, we don’t limit fixies there, but they include it, now it’s kind of very difficult to limit, but there you are. you look at fixies, come up after 10 minutes, there are no longer fixies, but some, it’s easy to limit, for us everyone is trying, everything works, and parental control formats exist in any comfortable form, but we have it on the device, we call it tv, yes, because we don’t have television there, but we have a device, and stepan, who is 16, he is responsible for the content in our house, i need this too, so this is really good, why when... someone has some kind of responsibility that is just like an adult, he really likes it, he he approaches this very seriously, he studies the question, especially for

the one who is three, he is now interested in cartoons, what is possible, what is not, what my psychologist colleagues said, he sometimes rolls out reports to me like this, he blocks himself, knows how to do this, understands this technical part, only he knows these passwords, no one will get in anywhere, where it is impossible, if stepanan, complete control over everyone is on the children. well, no, this is, in general, this is the mother’s will, there is a decision that only an adult should make , of course, yes, that’s when only an adult can decide to use a gadget, understanding that there is time to fit it into the life of a small child , and 10 and 7 - is it a small child or not, respectively, on the weekend girls to girls... this should be done at some early date, when everything is already done

the girls know that stepan controls this, there are no scandals on this topic, but no one controls stepan, because he is 16 years old, he speaks very well, listen, what kind of computer, when i come back after school and courses, i’ll crawl , i’ll do my homework, i only dream of seeing my bed at all, and he says, mom, i’ve now come to the conclusion that it’s only on the weekend. what cartoons do your children watch? well, now we have three cats in use, a blue tractor, all these are atrocities that later at night cool, in fact they are quite good in meaning, they really do have some kind of educational meaning, and the main thing is they are short, an anecdote, you know about cartoons, now i remembered one for children, when when the child is often with a nanny, well, the nannies change and the nannies are not very good understand their child and he says, pray and repent, you know, let’s tell you, pray and repent, she calls.” says that there is a child, pray for something and repent, what should i do, should i pray, repent, what should i do, she says, baby and karloson, asks to put the baby, karlson,

this is about the fact that our children very often have nannies, and unfortunately, or fortunately , as they say, it’s easier to find a husband than a nanny, true, yes, this is really good, larochka, come on here - in in the end, practically, here are 10 tips from larisa surkova on how to educate harmoniously. a person who will fully develop and enjoy life. the first thing i would advise, probably the first such recommendation, do not compare children with each other, remember that children are all different, people are all different and your comparison can traumatize for more than one year, really bring a lot of harm into your child’s life, don’t compare with other children, well , with no one at all, brother and sister, these are also other children, don’t compare with anyone, the second thing i can say is probably, pay more attention to him before... than to his mistakes, because this is also our big problem, we spend a lot of time on mistakes, very little on achievements, praise yes, let's say, tell a girl

what the most beautiful, the most princess, the most the best, right? if we go by the classics, it is recommended to praise for a certain achievement, that is, the child drew a picture, we tell him, listen, how great you did it, and if she just came out this morning, she is such a doll, yes, of course, we will kiss her and say, yes, you are like that i have a beauty, and what kind of cheeks do you have? wonderful, and your nose is so neat, and your legs are long, that is, not the most, because the most, in principle, the word most is already a comparison, well, that is, yes, that means there is someone who is not the most, just here. directly, what i see, i sing, everything you want, everything that breaks out of your soul, be sure to tell your child, because this is very important for him , don’t forget, let’s move on to the third, don’t forget about tactility in general, because as the child grows up, his parents care very little they start hugging, kissing, scratching their heads, but go to these sixteen-year -olds, they won’t give you a stool, they’ll give it to you, and here, well, this is

a feature of our gymnasium, of course, because it’s semino. large families, i used to have if the children there spoke at the previous school, there was five children, i say, we have five children, everyone fainted, now you say seven, and some have nine, some have 10, well, in general , everyone has a lot, this situation also helps us a lot, of course , because everyone, when parting with their children in the morning, kisses them, regardless of age, all of them, they don’t all want it, but to walk by the hand, you know, when you want, you take your son by the hand, he does it, but mine is the opposite, in fact, always my eldest is already very much like that, no, no, well, he will also grow up soon, yes, that is , we must wait, we must wait, of course, without there is no violence there, we don’t force kisses and we don’t lead each other arm in arm, but humor always saves us, this will probably be the fourth piece of advice, because this is the main advice, let us emphasize that humor saves everything, and even if we tell a fourteen-year-old, this is what i say

i want to go with such a handsome boy, he’s jealous, yes, he’s also kind of condescending and will support us in this, so this is also very important, fifth , still try to devote individual time to the child, even if it’s not every day or even every week, let it will be 15 minutes, and if he is not interested in anything, then let him lie on the sofa in your lap, you pat him on the head, maybe in silence, this is exactly what he needs in order to go further into the world to create some own. success, what else is probably important to say, be sure to switch your attention with your child from school activities to any other, because very often it seems to us that relaxation, we are good parents, relaxation means loading them up with theaters on the weekends , museums, excursions, something else, in fact, for him this is also an educational activity , this is also necessary to use your head, sit

, think, analyze something, you ask the child what you would like to do one day, maybe he wants to jump on trampolines or take a walk in the forest, or do something else that will not look like an educational activity, because there is no better relaxation than a change of activity, everyone knows this, this absolutely applies to children, and i also know by the way, it’s clear that you cannot deceive a child, let’s say you you think, now we’ll watch a cartoon together, and you’re sitting so quietly, that is, yes, and you’re like, like you’re watching a cartoon, in fact, you’re not turned on, and it doesn’t work at all, that is, at some point mom, well, you... you don’t mean you have to completely, that is, you have to switch off completely, if you’re watching a cartoon, then you’re watching directly, which means we’ve given ourselves to it, and you know, you’ve brought us here to the next very good recommendation, no lie to your children, because i am always surprised by parents who come with a complaint, my child is lying, i i say, and you tell him, i, well, yes, a little bit, but there is something there somewhere, because a child is

our mirror, but how, it’s very difficult, we want it, right? well, let’s say, yes, i just know from myself, it’s not that i don’t want to watch the cartoon, but my phone is just dying, that is, i sort of want to watch the cartoon, but i can’t and you’re like i wonder what will happen if you pick up this phone in half an hour, no, the scabbard too, anyway, nothing will happen, yes, that’s again, that’s probably the next recommendation, i don’t remember which one, is to educate yourself, educate yourself and change yourself, because if we are sincere, yes, it always seems to us that we are in the process, we are doing something. important, but if we honestly answer the question of what will happen if i do all this in half an hour, the answer will be nothing, i generally want it, it seems to me that this is important, now i’ve touched upon the topic, it seems to me that this is a good ending to our general program about children, and we all want to raise our children and make something out of them, but we don’t work with ourselves at all, and before we all have to start with ourselves, because we have become completely driven, absolutely, like these squirrels in a cage, yes, it’s as if we ourselves

can’t stop, we ourselves don’t understand our purpose, ourselves... we haven’t figured it out with ourselves, we’re trying to to do all this with our children, as it were, yes, probably we first need to do it ourselves somehow absolutely absolutely, you know, probably also as a finale , i’ll say such an important thought for me, which we often talk enough about with children, and when we talk about the future and about the future, including when we are not there, and in particular i am there, at a certain age children are interested in the topic of death, they ask what i think about it, i say, you know, yes i will not be there, but what can i leave behind is you, so when we are gone, no one will care whether we answer the phone right now or not, maybe this cartoon that we watched with our child, he... will remember, retell to his children, our grandchildren, and for him this will be really important, so just prioritize it, thank you, larichka, thank you very much, in fact, we can talk endlessly, i hope that we will not

end here, because there are a huge number of topics that arise, and it is simply impossible to talk about them, very important, so let’s see each other, let’s talk, and i think that this will be interesting for everyone, we will learn a lot of things, in fact , what we already knew, but when it... thank you very much, thank you, it was a podcast, sit down normally, today we tried to discuss with larisa surkova, a psychologist mother of seven children, how to still raise a harmonious personality. this podcast is a must read, yagla attackers, my guest is the writer andrei gelasimov and we will discuss nikolai liskov, his short stories.

andrei, liskov is such a controversial author, on the one hand, he is a classic, on the other hand, he is a little lost against the background of his contemporaries, tolstoy, dostoevsky, we are talking about the 19th century, this is what determines this. a strange place, yes, it seems to be in parallel with the main classics, but at the same time it is underestimated by many, as it is explain? well, this can be explained simply by the feast of literature of the 19th century, it so happened that this art was socially in demand, so much so that very large, serious, talented people came to this specialty, and the competition was very high throughout the 19th century and incomparable with that what we had in... all the previous centuries, well, in the twentieth , other entertainment appeared, yes, cinema, radio appeared, entertainment was more understandable to the crowd, yes, than literature, the share of literature in

let's say, in the culture of entertainment it was one hundred percent, well, theater could somehow compete, but still literature was the most important of the arts, well, because literature still spreads everywhere, theater is for those who are present in the hall, yes , and for literature, everyone can read this, although you know, not long ago i was in pyatigorsk at the lermonov museum and there they showed me the first edition of the hero of our time, guess what the circulation was, which made him super famous, maybe , 100 copies, something like that, 300, guessed right, i was very surprised, that is, i thought, 300 copies, and the person becomes famous throughout the entire st. petersburg society in general throughout russia, well, these were the most important people in the st. petersburg society, they probably created this opinion, what was liskov’s reputation, what was the opinion of modern literary society about him, i know that he survived persecution, you know, it’s worth talking about this persecution separately, because yes, from his own memories, from his letters to to our publishers, we absolutely see

that he was persecuted, in particular at the beginning of his career, because he spoke out against the nigelists, blaming them for some fires there, was too conservative, yes, he was too conservative for the liberal and radical public, and as he claims, he subjected himself... to attacks because of which he could not even publish anywhere for 2 or 3 years, and so on and so forth, but in one of the essays by saltykov shchedrin, i was surprised to read that all the attacks were mr. stebnitsky, it was his liskov's pseudonym, he was leskov stebnitsky, that's all mr. stebnitsky’s attacks were invented because no one is interested in him, no one attacked him, and he is an elusive joe, yes, who no one needs anyway, of course, he himself called this fire on himself, and after it he actively... .was very defensive, tolstoy, uh, spoke positively about liskov’s later works, but they were friends tolstoy and liskov, they even met in the eighty -seventh year, 8 years before liskov’s death, and

leskov himself, again according to his testimony, yes , because it’s very interesting when you read it the works of the literature of the vedas, they say: according to liskov, tolstoy was very praised by such and such his text, there is a wonderful aza, for example, yes, a hagiography about early christianity, and i didn’t doubt anything, i called maya kucherskaya, she is a great specialist in leskovye and that means i say: “may, but tolstoy’s letters have been preserved, in which he praises liskov for this thing, because liskov says that tolstoy praised him in a letter to someone else, he says, i say, this letter has been preserved , maya says: "no, such a letter no." i say, but wouldn’t he have saved tolstoy’s letter , in which the great genius praises him, that is, i would have kept it, no, probably, such a letter simply did not exist. we don’t know, then i asked mayu: could he lie? she says, such a sin was introduced behind him. okay, well, leskov is probably best known for the story. lady magbit of the tsensky

district about this, that is, it is emphasized by the author that this novel has a documentary basis, that is, this is a case , which really happened about the rich one, yes the owner, who had an affair with her employee, they together killed the whole family on the way to prison, to the camp, this lover, with whom so many crimes were committed, cheats on her, she throws herself into the water and drowns her... this is actually the cry from lady makbesky district also liskov is famous for his story