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all the best to you, the first channel represents great stagnation, what do you need to know about the lymphatic vessels? to please god, we are preparing a competent christmas menu post. rheumatoid arthritis: why does the immune system attack our joints? the program to live healthy will answer all your questions. well, friends, lymph flows through the lymphatic vessel, today we will talk about lymphatic vessels, about the lymphatic system as a whole.

look, there's this vein. this is a lymphatic vessel. in general, there are three types of vessels in our body: arteries, veins and lymphatic vessels. veins and lymphatic vessels are similar, and both have valves. there are no valves in the arteries, but in the lymphatic the vessels have several times more valves than the veins. why? because the arteriovenous system is closed, the heart, the blood pumped, the blood flew through. through the arteries, passed through the veins and returned again to the heart, so valves are needed, because blood is pumped from bottom to top, that is, it went up, the valves closed, it does not go down, but the lymphatic system is not a closed system, i want to show you how the lymphatic system works. so, lymphatic vessels have open ends because they

collect lymph. from the periphery and carry it upward, flowing into the large thoracic lymphatic duct, and then completely flowing into the superior vena cava, that is, the lymph returns to the vein, where does the lymph in the tissues come from, why is it pumped by the lymphatic system? lymph is sent to the tissues, because these are lymphocytes, these are defender cells in the tissues, they must detect enemies to eat them, eat cancerous ones. then someone has to gather these fighters, so the lymphatic vessels are open on the periphery, all the lymph goes there, the protein goes there, there processed products go in and in general , up to 8 liters accumulate in the intercellular space per day, and the lymph must lift these 8 liters upward, so there are twice as many valves, because as soon as i relaxed,

everything poured down. these are absolutely unique vessels. so, everyone without exception has lymphatic vessels. what is their function? first, their function is to collect everything bad, all the remnants of microbes, everything in the world. remains of blood plasma that has entered the extracellular fluid, send it all up. one, two, lymph collects all the protein scattered somewhere... between the cells and sends it up, what else andrei petrovich? and she also takes these microbes, these particles and carries them to the lymph nodes. this means that the lymphatic system consists of blood vessels and lymph nodes. these are like transit stations, training stations, just imagine, here are

the lymphatic vessels, here they are. something was brought here, which means that the first thing that was brought here was the lymphatic vessels, these are cells and these are microbes and viruses, so they came, with these these are cells, this is... these are macrophage cells, so they ate them, destroyed them, carried them into the lymphatic vessels, in the lymphatic vessel they took a piece of the destroyed microbe or virus and showed it on their surface, this is where the learning of lymphocytes began, this all happens in the lymph , look, this white cell, we showed it so figuratively, it shows this specific fragment of, well, the measles virus , for example, the coronavirus virus, for example, in this case it takes and says to other cells of the immune system, i i want to teach you

specific immunity, like and here we are, producing lymphocyte cells that will recognize cells with just such a protein, for example, it could be measles or coronavirus, whatever. this is a specific memory, a specific recognition, for example, some other cell came, and andrey, for example, meningococcus or pneumococcus, we marked this with a triangle, it begins to train cells here that must fight against this infection, cells are formed that will recognize triangles or meningococci, that is, the lymph node - this is the formation of specific protection against specific infections, and moreover, this is the training of lymphocytes in memory, this is where memory is formed later, they will

remain here if suddenly an enemy comes, they will quickly manage what needs to be added to the immune system system for protection , of course, that is, these memory cells remain in the lymph node and if an infection comes, for example, with a triangle or a circle, they begin to produce exactly those protection cells that will kill only this. and it is very important that the lymphatic system reacts as close as possible to the source where these infections came. the simplest example is a sore throat, which lymph nodes are enlarged? sense it, because the devouring macrophages are rushing from here. this infection is carried by pieces for recognition and for calling specific defender cells to defense, of course, there is an infection in the groin, here the lymph nodes have increased, in a word, in the lymph nodes

the cells are trained to kill completely all microbes and viruses. why we are telling you about this, because if we know about arteries, we know about atherosclerosis - this is a disease of the arteries, we know about veins, we know about varicose veins, then we know practically nothing about the lymphatic system, and this is the system that is responsible for our lifespan, because as long as these cells live, we will live for as long, as long as memory cells will exist, how long they will protect us, how effectively they will do this, that ’s how protected we will be from infection and from cancer, but there are absolutely unique organs, privileged. where there are no lymphatic vessels, no, there are, in particular the eye, the eye is very well protected, why? because from lymph, from lymph, from lymph, because this system provides inflammation, and for our eye

this is a big problem, not many eyes, so our body, nature protected our eye from excessive inflammation, by the way, this ensured the transparency of all environment, because lymph is transparent, there are no lymphatic vessels in the lens, no, in the vitreous body, there is nothing, yes, no, you know, this is an immunoprivileged organ, another privileged organ is cartilage, another privileged organ is the spleen, spleen, placenta, what else, testicles and brain, testicles in men and brain. these are all immune-privileged organs, there shouldn’t be inflammation there, there shouldn’t be lymph there, this is incredibly interesting, i still can’t understand why, well, okay,

transparency is also needed with the eye, one reason is not to have too excessive a reaction immune system, because those organs about which we called the placenta, if there are inflammation of the placenta, the child will die, there is inflammation of the brain, a person may die, inflammation of the eye, vision is lost, once again , lymphatic vessels are very similar to veins, there is more here, but also treatment of lymphatic vessels and other procedures, they are very similar in veins, in the lymphatic vessels, maybe it was difficult, but we really wanted to tell you about the lymphatic vessels, if you have questions, you can ask us, so you tell about the lymphatic vessels, about the veins, and the doctor prescribed me a drug called angionorm, yeah, please tell me whether this is correct or not to strengthen the veins, what is it

prescribed for to strengthen the veins. if we talk about the drug angeonm in general, it is a drug consisting of so-called flavanodes; in 2018, a drug of this type was included in clinical recommendations for the treatment of vascular pathology of veins, and so on. what the doctor expects when prescribing you angionorm is to strengthen the vascular wall. to reduce inflammation and prevent thrombosis. in principle, these are all very positive effects. thank you! well, here it is today we have a story with the vessels, let’s take a short break and then continue. to please god. christmas post. the nativity fast forbids being irritated and becoming despondent. helps a person find his inner. by temporarily giving up meat and dairy

foods, what foods must be included in the diet, am i causing fire on myself, why does the immune system attack healthy cells, what is rheumatoid arthritis and can it be cured? my grandmother is retired, my grandson is 12 years old, just... and then he recently told me that he doesn’t need me, i’m nothing to him, the children are successful, the grandson has grown up, no one needs help, how to live further, on the russian river, in the impenetrable tropical forests of sunny california, a certain mysterious camp is hidden from prying eyes, this place is called bohemian grove, we will burn you again this night, we... let's read the ritual that will free us this summer, this is really

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into a fist. the only place where there could be a gun is in the left hand under the napkin. we can only avoid opening a second front. if we decapitate the leadership of countries hostile to us with one blow, it became known that the germans are preparing a large-scale operation in tigeran. dear gevorg, all six umbrellas that you ordered for your father’s pastry shop are ready. six umbrellas meant six paratroopers. you are in charge, you must be the smartest, the most careful. are they germans or not? and then i saw an army boot. they don't wear these in iran. shoot. i wanted to, yes, i hope we won’t shoot, i’ve been working for four years now, during this time i didn’t ask you for anything, we found these six germans of birth, and the brothers will be someone else, drink some water, comrade stalin grinned , six germans were brought into the hall, whom we found,

hurray, for the eightieth anniversary of the tehran conference, on sunday at the first. well, dear friends, today the christmas fast begins, so here we are, by the way, in the kitchen, cutting up mackerel fish, which during the christmas fast should become a unique product for you, because it contains those components that we will miss due to the cancellation meat, and dairy products, we will tell you this secret at the end of the program, and... bye, menu for the nativity fast. so, our guest is father, this is father arseny. father

arseny, please come to us, can you imagine seeing your father today. i remembered the program with dmitry debrov in the early nineties, they were amazing programs, and this was the first priest we saw on television with a huge interview, it was minus 30 years ago, how young we were, i recognized this man, you you can imagine what an impression that program made on me, then debrov did simply amazing program, do you just remember this project yourself? it was great in the nineties in 2023, so the christmas post, what does it prohibit? the christmas fast forbids irritation, becoming despondent, prohibits the feeling of one’s own exclusivity and helps a person find inner vigor and strength

by temporarily giving up, as you quite accurately said, meat and dairy foods, these are those who do not have pre-ulcers... that is, those who are sick you can not adhere to the food part of the fast and in general it’s terribly offensive that a lot of people say: oh, now it’s fasting, at least i’ll lose weight, this is generally just a complete misunderstanding of the essence of fasting, in general it seemed to us that fasting is not about food, it’s more about the soul, right? well, and a little about food, because too, because after all, these restrictions exist. so, meat , globally, meat contains three components that we lose: the first is iron, which is best absorbed from meat, this is heme iron. the second is protein, meat is the richest product in protein. and the third is vitamin b12 - this is a vitamin

that is responsible for our nervous system our vessels, for our blood, the most important thing, so we decided to say this point by point. what to replace it with? so, first, iron. why do we need iron, andrey petrovich? let's go have a look here, let's go straight with father. father arseny. here is father arseny , this is an erythrocyte - this is a red blood cell, it contains hemoglobin, one of the main components of hemoglobin is iron, it has attached oxygen to itself, oxygen atoms must. be delivered to all parts of the body, like this, you know, we often repeat that if you are a doctor and you are literate

doctor, you are absolutely confident in the deities.' well, no, this is sincere, you have no idea what kind of things have been invented, even this lymphatic system, you have to invent something like that , you see, so, first, iron must carry oxygen, iron is sharply limited, where can you get iron from in plant foods, return to the kitchen and report to us which ones. you are super rich in iron, these are greens, parsley, dill, parsley, they are rich, but they must be consumed together with vitamin c, that is, you need to make a salad with thyme, dill, parsley and bell pepper, a champion for vitamin c, let's tell you how much iron is contained in these products, there are seven daily norms in dried chameleon, which means you need to take about a large... norm means two

tablespoons of dill, also dried dill, sprinkle in a salad or soup, wherever you want, and dried parsley - this is about one and a half, one and a half daily requirement, which means about five tablespoons of dried parsley and sprinkle anywhere, iron is not destroyed by heat treatment in any way, but we kindly ask you to add... vitamin c, and vitamin c - this is a bell pepper, that’s why all the salads in lent contain bell peppers, there are three daily norms of vitamin c in 100 g. we put protein with a layout that is dedicated to protein, protein, meat has left the diet, there is less protein, why do we need protein, protein we need it because there are amino acids from which we build our protein, and protein is a building material that is involved in all our organ systems. this is immunity, these are our muscles, this is digestion, these are

digestive enzymes, digestive enzymes, this is our vascular wall, expulsion material for our entire body, protein is needed, but a replacement for protein is fish, and fish products, is it possible to post-fish, because it seems to be impossible, especially unharmonized, ice-cold. captain, these are the ones that used to feed cats, but now this is the most exclusive fish , on what days is fish allowed and on what days is it not allowed, wednesday is friday, wednesday and sunday are definitely a holiday, as a rule, wednesday and friday are the days on which we limit yourself, that is, on wednesday friday you can’t fish unless there is a big holiday, st. nicholas the wonderworker, for example, that’s all depends on the degree of celebration of the church event, then you can still fish, but you can. is it possible to eat food at sea or not on those

days when everything fish is allowed? this is very good and possible, and the soft christmas sweat involves eating the fruits of the sea, but we still have to understand from the protein what we have, we also have legumes, legumes, soybeans with a content of 36 g per 100 g of protein. raw lentils 25 g per 100 g and beans 20 g per 100 g, dry beans, these are substitutes for our vegetable protein, the best protein substitute - this is not even championship fish or seafood, but legumes, just like that, and look, we don’t have vitamin b12 yet, vitamin b12, like iron, is a product in meat, yeah. what b-12 is responsible for is the shell of nerve cell processes, this is a nerve cell,

this is its process, if there is no vitamin b12, then the nerve cell works poorly, so we also need to restore vitamin b12. andrey petrovich, what will we use to restore the b-12? and seafood, fruits of the sea, because octopuses and oysters are seven daily allowances. the mussel has four daily requirements for vitamin b12 and by the way, they also contain heme iron , so of course, of course, that’s why mackerel, like fish, has four daily requirements for vitamin b12 and heme iron, that is , mackerel has taken the lead in general, that’s how it is, father, i want to send oysters. to our people and population, and you know, by the way, it seems that urstritsa is an inaccessible product, but today kamchatka

far eastern oysters are sold everywhere, from such to such hefty oysters as chicken leg, so pensioners can do it, you know, but not to the strength of the oyster, please mackerel, we are listing different products, everyone will choose for themselves what they want, many people hate oysters, i remember when my husband worked in france, i came to see him, he delightedly brought me to a restaurant where there were oysters i ate them with delight, i thought i would feel bad, even from the sight of him, i didn’t like anything. it doesn’t offer frogs, it also offered frogs, but they, by the way, are just meat, there they are somehow more or less normal, an oyster is such a specific product, but mackerel, there is also b-12 and iron, and heme, like in meat, is much cheaper and much better, give you a piece of mackerel, father arseny with great pleasure , with great pleasure, you understand that father arseny svoboda speaks english

in french, and father arseny, they said, how to replace food, but you must make some wish for us in the canon of the nativity fast, i have already hinted that you still need to try not to get irritated with your family, greet the day with a smile, and come to the institution where you work, earn money bread, in the depths hearts, so that the lamp burns, lord, have mercy, lord, forgive, help me fast with health, joy and love for people. is it forbidden to break the rules on december 31st? well, with such a menu, you can easily get a michelin-starred dinner with your family. it is a fact. our cook alexey kovba prepared octopus, so now we will definitely

treat arseny’s father and you. it's all about food, dear friends, it's time for us to talk. good russians, this is a dead russian, this is nargiz zakirova, with whom we had a chance to talk, such a question immodest, but how did you get to moscow? nargiz fell for it and told you a lot of interesting things, i’m flogging there, i ’m all these orcs from left to right, she always had russophobia, she just hid it, well , in short, they started to cover up my oxygen, she tried to hype it up, yes, i was hyped, so... they banned weight for 50 years, i think i’ll also ask to add 50 years, i’m going to get myself another tattoo, but if you tattoo me, i’ll give you ukrainian citizenship, on the forehead, on the forehead, come on, we raised $7 million for weapons, finances killing russian soldiers, and america didn’t reward her in any way, didn’t give her citizenship, she’s not needed there, she’s needed here, so she can do dirty tricks here, hold dances in churches,

i had the idea to get rid of russian citizenship, ask for ukrainian citizenship, today we are a betrayal our country's show vavan and lexus, tomorrow on the first, well, on time, he left, having spoken out, leonid kuravlev was adored by the audience, he got great roles, each was a masterpiece, but by the end of his life he was tired of attention and did not even want to see it would seem that he was closest to him, he was squeezed, he was a very closed person, he didn’t let him into his world just like that, that’s when the crowd always scares me a little. he spent his last days in a hospice, and before that he lived for many months in a boarding house for the elderly, which everyone learned about only after his hospitalization. dad was a contradictory person, dad had fluctuating moods, and it’s already hard for me to remember. our exclusive home archive of the people's artist and son of the legendary actor vasily kuravlev breaks the silence. he is ready to answer everything questions. why did the father end up in a boarding house, did he want to date his daughter, and was

seclusion his conscious choice? an exclusive with dmitry borisov premiered on saturday on the first. welcome to tajikistan. thank you! mommy, did you draw this? yes, look how many flatbreads you make a day? 2.000, 2.000? i was told that polygamy is officially prohibited, but not officially. it exists, it happens, but if they find out, then for a man it is punishable by law, and in the event of a divorce, the second wife does not receive anything at all, everyone who is involved in the fight must seriously monitor your diet, of course, strictly both the diet and the prescribed diet, but if you invite a girl to a restaurant, are you going to sit and nibble on a cucumber, or what? no, i just don’t invite girls to restaurants,

the lives of others, well, dear friends, we are going to the medical site today. we will talk about diseases that are associated with the fact that the immune system has gone crazy. right now our guests are taking a blood test to diagnose an autoimmune disease. do you know what the word means autoimmune? no, andrey petrovich, autoimmune. auto - that is , immune to oneself, that is, a disease of the immune system, that is, when. ceases to protect, on the contrary, it attacks parts or structures of its own body, in this case joints and articular cartilage, rheumatoid arthritis, today we will talk about

rheumatoid arthritis, one of the diagnostic stages is a blood test, absolutely right, right now i’m with andrei petrovich i want to go to the center of the site, where the immune cell has gone crazy, this is... a crazy immune cell, instead of protecting us from tragedies, from viruses, microbes and so on, it eats our bones and cartilage, here is our gnawed, gnawed by the immune system model of the hand, hands, indeed, small joints are the first joints that are affected by recmatoid arthritis, and... most often the manifestation of this rheumatoid arthritis occurs in women and more often women over the age of 35 get sick, plus

this disease begins with a symptom not of pain but of stiffness , so friends, the immune system has gone crazy, it started not to eat enemies, but our joints, let me remind you of the great role of the immune system, exactly the same cells that... today attacked the hand, normally they behave much more decently, now you see this immune cell, this is a white blood cell, it is called macrophak, this is how she eats microbes, this is her main task, eat a microbe, eat a cancer cell, in fact, nothing else, in this case the world is destroyed, because these same cells that are supposed to protect us, they begin... pieces from our bones, literally like this in this way, we can show like this on a model how these small joints suffer, and this causes deformation

of the hands, pain and stiffness, i just want to say that this gnawing happens in the literal sense of the word, i took my friend, she has rheumatoid arthritis for examination, she had an mri of her hand. and there were holes in the bones. even then i told the director of the institute of rheumatology, i say, you know, we show this on models, but it is such a copy of life that there are no words no. so, pieces are chewed out. our guest is a woman who fell ill with this disease quite a long time ago, when there was no modern therapy. unfortunately, this disease deforms the hands and joints. now we will show you on the screen how the hands of a sick person change, and most often these are women, women to one, men out of ten people

with rheumatoid arthritis, arthritis, nine are women, one is a man. come to us, we have gross deformations on the screen due to rheumatoid arthritis, show us your hands, like this, as much as you can, do it, you see, here too. deformations are visible, the deformations are clearly, clearly visible, right here these hiberden nodules, yes, here they are, here they are formed, this is all rheumatoid arthritis, how long ago was the diagnosis made and i will repeat again, today the treatment is excellent, how many years ago did you get sick? 10 years ago, 10 years ago, tell us what symptoms you had, stiffness for 2-3 hours, now approximately. look, and then the day will clear up and you will also walk around, and i even dance, well, that’s good too, so once again i want our

the screens brought out these deformed hands and invite us, i want another girl who is lucky, she is younger, she was in the era of biological drugs and earlier diagnostics, show me your hands, but they are beautiful, they are just healthy hands, stand next to andrey petrovich. these are just beautiful healthy hands, what are they treating you with? at the moment, i am now in remission , thanks to genetic engineering, on the second drip, which happened once a month. i went into remission and now i have some leftovers to support my joints. i just understood metaject 10 mg dosages, well, i want to show you the picture again, where a white blood cell has gone crazy, instead of eating the infection, it begins to bite off pieces from our cartilage, the essence of the treatment is to get this crazy cell to stop, you must first put a muzzle on her, and then... plant her and calm her down,

because otherwise this process cannot be stopped in any way. here in our graphics we directly put a muzzle on her so that she cannot gnaw anything. biological therapy as she does this again and brought our guest into stable remission. which we are endlessly happy about. conclusion: for any stiffness in the joints, for any pain in the joints, especially... small ones, you need to get tested for rheumatoid arthritis, when the immune system has gone crazy, you need to stop it as quickly as possible, it’s very simple, you should come to the hospital , to the clinic, tell them what complaints or just tell them to a paid laboratory, tell me the whole panel for autoimmune diseases, it’s clear, yes, that’s right, thank you, we are very happy for you, very, not for long

let's take a break, the grandmother is retired, the children are successful, the grandson has grown up, no one needs help, how to live on? where is your work book? i don't have it, is it a scam? yes, we are leaving moscow, i mean. what happened, mom, well, i don’t really have the time to teach her, hello, hello, what happened, the girl is conscious, the woman has an open fracture, one, two, three, did you buy your diploma or something, they asked you to bring something , well, in an accident the spinal cord may be damaged, the indicators are normal, well, these are the conclusions it’s not within the nurse’s competence to do, what do you

think? well, what are you doing, i’m saving your life, quietly, quietly, quietly, quietly, quietly, at least you lift your people one by one, and not everyone with the cop, this is not mine, your sister says, hello, ask the nurse, today is the first one, mom , what are you doing here? what is it? could you call? are you a nurse? birrsman bourbon is a product of stelar group. you and i are front-line soldiers. you should go

far away from here. and there's nowhere else to go. the region, on saturday, on the first, and you say, 50 will not do, on the russian river, in impassable tropical forests, sunny california, a certain mysterious camp is hidden from prying eyes, this place is called bohemian grove. we will burn you again this night, we will recite the ritual that will free us this summer. this is really a syndicate of various masonic structures, there are many decisions about who will be president, to start or not to start a war, in this place the issue of creating weapons of supermass destruction is decided, it was immediately used against japan. if you want to rise to the position of president someday, you need to go through a certain ritual. this is a human sacrifice that is called upon.

to destroy the chimeras of conscience and morality, the mafia with a claim to guide the development of humanity, if necessary, to reduce the number of people on earth. there is only one goal - mastery of the world, not the bohemian rhabsody, the dolls of the heir tutti, today on the first. well, friends, it’s true that there is a trumpet in our studio. a woman came to us, briefly, her story is this: she has an only son, grandchildren for whom she lives, her grandchildren have grown up. and so, either a grandson or a granddaughter, the grandmother told her, you are no longer our friend, please tell us your sad story, oh, my grandson is only 12 years old, and then he recently told me

that he doesn’t need me, i’m nobody to him, so that i don’t interfere in his affairs, in his life, i can’t to arrive, i was simply shocked, it was so unexpected. he and i have been close people all our lives, i took him to clubs, to school, and for walks, whatever, and we even went on vacation together, my son and daughter-in-law gladly gave him to me, now i don’t know what suddenly happened, i served them faithfully, as best i could, i did what they asked, i was always on hand, always ready to help, and this despite the fact that my daughter -in-law doesn’t really like me, i don’t know why, i’m just sure that it all comes from her, this negativity, this grandson’s attitude against me, so confidently, i decided

to talk to her and my son, to talk to her, the conversation was difficult, she was so rude to me that i went crazy and i also can’t think of anything i can think of, i’m winding myself up, oh, what a question you want? my whole life was dedicated to helping my son, and i wanted her ask, what should i do, how, well, what should i live with now, who should i live with now, let’s ask father arseny, we are lucky, we have a priest today, consider him a psychotherapist, how can this woman continue to live, father arseny, dear , it’s easy to give out advice, we probably have the right to give it out when we try to get used to this heart, genuine notes , sorrow, some kind of frustration, disappointment, but of course, as a priest, for myself i know the answer, i would recommend, dear mothers,

start praying to the one who sees, hears and loves, is strong to soften the heart of a callous son, and turn him to his own mother, it hurts, i’m telling you something, to be honest, well, here’s some advice, mikhail yegorevich, your position on how to live on, yes you can live on, of course, the grandson is a teenager 12 years is not such a small age, at this time sometimes children , so to speak, change, not only do children change with their grandmother, but problems begin with their parents, so there is no need to be afraid of this, the grandson will always remain with his grandmother when he grows up. and grandma needs to pay attention to herself and take care of her life, in general, your advice is not to be upset, live your own life, they will come when they are, and as if no one is setting up a grandson , i can say this for sure, andrey petrovich, your position, now the house is being destroyed,

the house is even being destroyed, and indeed, how to say, grandma sees it, that now everything that is called, i believe that it is grandma who is threshing now, so i now speak like grandmothers. it seems like it’s happening before her eyes, of course, who would be pleased to say, grandma, no one needs you, don’t come, get out of here, it seems to me, that now the grandmother needs to be patient, in general, it is advisable from time to time, it seems to me, to remind her son that he has a mother, and this mother is ready to be around, the grandson is exactly in a day, in two, this emotional one is his tears will pass, and he will also ask, where? my beloved grandmother, why don’t we go to the park with her, you know, i am both a mother and a grandmother, i am the mother of two sons and the grandmother of three grandchildren, two boys and a girl, i want to tell you that i have just one the conversation was with my

youngest son, when he was 11 or maybe 12 years old, i don’t even remember why at some point he says to me, he’s in the room, i’m there, what are you, he says, you’re not my friend anymore, i say, like he says, like this, you ’re not there? my friends, i was in such shock, sincerely, that i sat down on the floor and sobbed, i couldn’t even get up because i was excluded from the list of friends, not my grandson, whom someone can set up, but my own son, whom i love, i sit sobbing, loudly, it was just howls, my husband heard my sobs come up, lenochka says, what, and i ’m sitting on the floor like this, rocking and sobbing, just walking around like a beluga, my husband tells me, what are you? i say: vasya crossed me out of his list of friends, my husband says, he comes into my son’s room and says: i ’m on your list, my son is good to him, he says: not dad, you... aren’t on the list either, i in general , i simply collapsed at these words, and

my husband passed me and said, lenochka, get up, let’s go to bed. years have passed, my youngest son is now 32 years old, when i remember this, he says: “mom, why are you making this up , but this has never happened, although it happened, these are facts of life, what are we talking about, they are such a stupid age, no one is setting them up, you went to make claims with your daughter-in-law, no one sets them up, it’s something like that in the head, then he won’t remember himself, he’ll grow up and you’ll say, do you remember how you remember me, grandma will say, what are you making up, this is the first story, the second story happened with just recently, for some reason i had to come to son and had to live with them, because there was some kind of need for my help, it’s clear when i arrive, what i do, instead of parents and children, i do homework fifth, tenth, we have a family dinner, we sit at

the table, and i say: tomorrow i’m leaving you, i hope to hear how terrible it is, how we will meet, my grandson, who is 5 years old , says: thank god, at least no one will check the lessons, then i started the second series, i i called my mother, as they say, years have passed, and sobbing, i say, mom, your text, i serve them with faith. and arturik said: “thank god that grandma is leaving , no one will check the lessons.” there was laughter at the other end of the line, and my mother still has such a ringing voice, here i am ninety years old on this one, she ha-ha-ha-ha, i say: mom, why are you laughing, your text, i don’t know why i should live, she says, daughter, well, who wants to do homework, but no one wants to, i say, mom, how can i live?” “she says: live as you lived, these are our loved ones, love as

you loved, live as you lived, and you know, i realized that when we come to a family of children, it seems to us that this is our family, this is no longer our family, this is theirs, we did not give birth to a son or two sons, we gave birth to a man who has a family and who lives with his family, i put an end to this story, i really want to. i wanted to go on winter holidays with my eldest son’s family to egypt and i organized this whole trip , organized my wonderful husband says to me: lenochka, leave yurasha alone, this is my eldest son, let him rest without us, i say, what are you talking about, we we help them, he says, i want you please, give them a rest, without us, tell them that we won’t go, let them go without us, and i think now i’ll tell you, my son will tell me, mom, what are you doing, let’s go together, i say, you know,

dad said , that it’s better for you to rest without us, because i’m already preventing you from having a normal rest all the time, and i saw that they were quietly happy, very kind, that is, my son tells me, mom, no, you can go, you don’t matter to us interferes, i think we don’t interfere with them, but i think i understood it directly, that they have the right to their family, to their life without... we have such active grandmothers , we do homework, we study music, we practice everything by the hour, let’s have a plan for the day, we gave birth to people,