that this is something wrong, well, you yourself will feel like an impostor, of course, of course, when we first encountered counterfeits, that is, our shoes were so popular that they began to be produced in huge quantities and entered the markets all over the world, they were different, there were whole large collections there, even those shoes that we didn’t have in the line, but you were happy or...

we’re talking in russian, a passing salesman heard russian speech and said that the most unpopular color there are many of us what’s more interesting here is that i just didn’t quite understand , that is, he was selling shoes without even realizing that i, as it were, were the creator of the shoes and i was taking off the original shoes against the backdrop of the grant bazaar, well, you came in and looked, of course, took pictures , and didn’t display anything. didn’t say anything to him, but showed me the most popular colors, a lot of now inspired silhouettes, and this is actually very cool, because the mass market as a whole is now built on the fact that it is inspired by fashion houses, big ones, and recycles, rethinks actually produces those models that look like expensive, luxury ones, but they are without this branding, without logomania, they are not fakes, they are not counterfeits, but also... they help us create stylish

, cool images, i have nothing against mass market, the main thing is that they comply with all the rules of shoe design, so that it does not spoil the foot of the person who puts it on, it’s a matter of taste, if you want to do it, buy it, i’m for the idea, if some kind appears in the mass market it's a beautiful thing, and i like the idea, then i'll definitely i will have it, i don’t like the logo on me. it’s not the logo that should promote your design, it’s the design after all, but as a buyer it always captivates me when the brand is not obvious on the clothes, because now i was trying to pick up a pair of dark glasses for myself, i wanted to somehow update my collection , and i couldn’t, just being in paris, i couldn’t choose anything, because everywhere, i don’t know at what point i missed this fashion, but there are giant logos on both sides, by the way, i would change the legislator in this regard.

depending on the request, depending on what you want to show with your image, because when we, in principle, work with our own style, we work with our own image, it is important to dress not just fashionably trendy, but i heard that ballet shoes are fashionable that ballet flats are a trend, that means i 100% need to, no, it’s important to think about what i want to say in my own way, because clothes speak for us, while we are silent, with clothes we help ourselves or, on the contrary, we don’t help, so if there is for...

really so, that is, it’s better to do it some kind of investment in shoes, then the rest of the image can be from the mass market, and expensive shoes - this will always make your image more expensive, 100%, it works like that, yes, that is, if there is a choice, if the choice is not needed, and you you can buy yourself both expensive shoes and expensive clothes, of course, what to choose, but when you need to choose

and really think about what to invest in, i would recommend investing in shoes, including in a bag, because this is a small element of the wardrobe, which can complement our clothes. our image is complemented, the more we we all live in the modern world and change clothes quite often, well, rarely do any of us wear the same clothes 24x7, 30 days a month, but somehow the images change, but the shoes still change less often, well, objectively , if you look at your wardrobe, any woman, and even men, always, most often, have fewer shoes than clothes, so shoes are more specific, they should be more universal, they should fit into many sets, so of course, if necessary choose, i recommend... this make into shoes, plus, shoes are more expensive, of higher quality, they wear more, better, longer, and accordingly can help you remain stylish, cool, fashionable for a long time. when buying shoes today in twenty-four, here's what you should pay attention to, it should be -

let's say, a pointed toe, a blunt toe, a thick heel, a thin stiletto heel, what is the best thing to invest in today? the best way to invest is in education, i’m with you in general. i won’t even argue about this, you know, as khromchenko said, a smart girl can always become beauty, a beauty will not always be smart, which means shoes are a 100% investment, but here it is important to approach it wisely, because if we invest in some short-term supertrend, which will go away in a couple of seasons, and you will look at these beautiful shoes , but which are absolutely not always beautiful, by the way, and not always comfortable, by the way, well, i just fell for the trends... saw, then of course it is important to approach it wisely, if in general there is a choice about, so i want to invest now something a little bigger the amount i usually spend on shoes, what should i buy, i would recommend starting with the base, well, these are some pumps, these are some sneakers, these are some basic boots or boots, if we are talking about

colder times year, this is something that will not become an anti-trend and this is something that can be worn often and will be combined with many images, but i would like to talk about the not beautiful ones, how do you feel about this, is it also considered a good investment or is it still it’s worth abandoning this, because these are fleeting trends. i'm the owner tabi, i will now defend them, because in fact these are very unique shoes that naturally attract attention, and these are shoes that absolutely everyone does not need to wear, they are important to wear for those who are ready to attract attention, who are ready to withstand it, who in general in principle, he gets a kick out of it, and this, by the way, is not a new trend for several decades, well , margello has been using it for a long time, they borrowed it from japanese brand brands , and the shoes for geisha were actually made and it’s kind of inspired by this, so this trend not new, now it’s just super popular and many people pay attention to it, by the way,

the shoes are very comfortable, someone is worried that it looks very strange, tabi by margello, i think it’s very stylish and it’s not ugly at all, borrowed from the japanese, of course, this is japanese culture, but in general, in general, fashion is not close to me, it’s not that i don’t like it, it’s not close to me, i can’t perceive it on myself, any kind of clothing, it’s made and is sold for what, so that a person i came and bought it, when i walk around the store, i don’t see myself in it, but that doesn’t mean it’s good or bad, i don’t have jeans in my wardrobe, but i like them on others, on myself i... don’t have them i don’t feel like, if the aesthetics of the brand really resonates with you, if you like the way it looks on you, if you put on these shoes and enjoy the way you look, it’s 100% worth taking, if it seems strange to you, then i wouldn’t recommended trying this trend, so say that it’s fast or or a long-term trend is very difficult, well

, because it has really been with us for more than one season, as for crocs, but this is kind of a specific story, after all, these are primarily shoes not for the city, but for some kind of recreation, and if we are talking about a country wardrobe, then why not, it can be calm, if we are talking about urban looks, then it is quite difficult to create such a strong fashionable look with them. but i'm sure only a few will succeed. it also seems to me, len, that there is a moment when shoes like this, unusual ones, become a kind of litmus test for a person’s style, because if let’s say a girl wears feminine clothes, like this, the so-called coquette cor, ruffles, feminine dresses, suddenly she buys herself a tabi, i see a person with a slightly different style in these shoes, that’s when such a discrepancy is when... people become victims of fashion, they buy themselves some pair of shoes or even clothes

that don’t quite match their style, they fit it into their wardrobe, what should you do if you really want to own this thing, is it worth revising your wardrobe, or is it not as scary as i think? well, in fact, i’m generally in favor of not being a hostage to one style, and we all, especially women, are very like that. i would say, well, that is , today we have one mood, tomorrow we have another, today i’m dear, very gentle, and tomorrow i want to hit the table with my fist and declare that i’m kind of talking about the point here, in the evening you pack one wardrobe, in the morning you wake up and think, what kind of nonsense is this, no, i ’m not ready for that, and that’s okay, well, because we all have different states, different moods, and if clothes don’t help, then we experience dissonance, but here’s the story, can you imagine, a girl wakes up in the morning and , yes, she feels so straight... i’m ready to move mountains here, i she’s ready to win, but she only has frills in her wardrobe, she puts on

this cute little dress that makes her look like such an infantile little girl, she just feels wrong, and she’s perceived wrong, yes, she wants to do it like that, on her can, but you in general, why are you here, and it’s me to the fact that it is important that in our wardrobe there are different formats of looks for our different conditions, and accordingly, if we want to try something new, this is normal, it happens that... our condition, our needs change throughout our lives. today i want to be such an exemplary mother, and in a year i want to be there and give the impression of a leader there, does this mean that i cannot be a mother at this time too, i can, of course, this is why it is important to choose my outfits, i’m coming back to the question that there is tabi and some frills, if in general, it responds to the mood, then you need to take it, and here we come back again.

decisions, sometimes the word of authority, stylist, girlfriend, husband can play a role here, at some point she can really open up and feel it, but if this feeling is not there, this feeling of pleasure that you are approaching the mirror in this the dress itself or in this very pair of shoes and you think, damn, what a beauty, then i would remove such things from my wardrobe and exchange them for those that would create this feeling, i i never buy a thing if i doubt that i need it, but... if in the morning i woke up and realized that i was thinking about it again, then yes, i need it, because

it happens that somehow yes, oh, it’s cool, they fit beautifully, let’s do it in all colors, and then these colors just lie in boxes and are waiting to be released somewhere for some kind of shooting, or well, that is, that is, it’s better to pause before buying, i liked it thing, if there is such an opportunity, then it’s better to take a break if you have a plane after 3 hours, of course, you have to take it,

consider it everyday shoes, and today i still remember those times when stiletto heels could often be combined with sneakers even with evening dresses, with evening outfits, i understand that sneakers are, not only that it’s convenient, it’s also very trendy, i don’t know how long this trend will last, because ugh, uh, they

were also at everyone at some point, and even at soviet events people managed to come. in ugah, you can probably tell our viewers exactly how choose the right shoes so that they are comfortable, because there are all sorts of life hacks, for example, that you shouldn’t choose shoes in the evening because your feet swell, i don’t believe in these life hacks, or, for example, nylon tights, it’s wrong to measure , probably shoes, because without them they can be uncomfortable, well, it seems to me that you need to try on what you will wear, if you buy slippers, you don’t try them on with socks, the same story with shoes, you you don’t wear them with socks or tights, but that is you need to put your feet on, and another question is shoes, especially with heels, and this is always very difficult, we have a lot of lasts, that is, for example, we produced a shoe, it went into circulation, uh, during the circulation it was all about' ok, so on, but it’s not like everyone has the same 1/39 size, yes, everyone’s feet are different,

someone had something somewhere, in case someone had this somewhere there's more. five, then i understand that, apparently, you can refine, complete and improve, change something, but you think about how many seasons the thing will live in a buyer's wardrobe, no matter how classic a pair of shoes may be, they still have a temporary stamp of when they were produced. to summarize, i would like to wish you to find your ideal pair, not only in your personal life, but in your shoe wardrobe. more information about fashion trends in other issues is not available on the website of the first one. hello, this is the ask surkova podcast, and i’m

larisa surkova, psychologist and mother of seven children. anastasia came to ask me today. hello, hello, what brought you here, tell me, lately it has become it seems that children devalue everything that my husband and i do for them, and this began to create certain problems in discipline, in activities and in our actions with my husband, and i understand that even though i work with finances, i need help , because when it comes to children, i’m still a mother, and a person needs a person and... so i decided to ask a psychologist, children, there are several of them, tell me who they are, what they are, age, what’s their name, i have royal twins, i have a boy and a girl, from the age of seven, stasik and adelka, so, the girl is a minute older, sometimes behaves appropriately, like an older sister, now they are already graduating from kindergarten,

and we are preparing for the first grade, uh-huh, uh-huh, recently - these problems with discipline have begun, it feels as if i can’t come to an agreement with my own children, huh, can you remember a recent story, wow, this has become very common with construction sets, that is , a construction set, well, in my opinion, this is that thing, so you took out this set, put it together , enjoyed it, tidied it up, then you take it out, you play, they brought it here right away, unpacked it, and what measures have you already taken? i collected the entire construction set in one bag, and said that you will receive it in a week and will disassemble it yourself, that is, these are some small construction sets, more parts, everything in one bag, that is, it looks like one big mess , which you have

to work hard on, and a week goes by, and the children forget about this toy, that they like it, they want it and return it back, yeah, that is, it turns out that my punishment came down to zero, the child didn’t understand anything, okay, then let’s figure it out together, now everything will be the other way around, i’ll tell you, and you ’ll ask me, if something is clear or unclear, let’s start from the very end, you just said the phrase that you you yourself created about children, but you yourself created this situation, that your designer left there or yours? some thing, some toy went into the dressing room. in fact, it was the parents who created it. we now find ourselves in a world where even the phrase “everything the best for children." each country has its own foundation. someone there allows children up to 5 years old everything, then drives them into strict limits, as, for example, there in japan, in european countries in hot countries, children are squeezed, loved,

allowed a lot, then too once strict discipline and borders are involved, muslim countries generally have their own peculiarities of raising children, so we went through such an evolution literally 100 years after the end of the great patriotic war, at first the main treasure was the man, because there were very few of them, like... men there became a lot, suddenly, unexpectedly, after the nineties, a child becomes a value, parents are under pressure, a huge number of books and theories of education, you just happened to be one of those parents who fell under this slogan: all the best for children, give the child what you didn’t, now it’s mostly the generation of the nineties who are becoming parents, those who themselves were born in the nineties, who were in severe shortages, we want... to give the child the maximum of everything, now, when you talk to modern kids, you can even with our viewers can talk about this topic, our viewers can talk, the child has no dreams, so you

ask what your children want, you asked them what they want, you asked and they show, for example, some different instructions, or as it happens before , they wrap it in notebooks, i want this series, this series, this series, i always wonder, why just? to own, yeah, my husband and i probably experience a break in the pattern, because just to own, why buy it then, come to the store, look, create, we once had a moment when we we decided that suddenly the child wants to collect some coins, this is also great, collecting, when we decided to support this and bought something from the same series, the child wanted the next, the next, the next, and we realized that our experiment did not work, that is. .. everything didn’t go in the direction we wanted, this moment, to own, that a child wants something just to own,

but he doesn’t play, throws it around, tears it, in relation to books we probably have my husband and i have a separate obsession with this, when we glued these library books there, that’s all for us it’s books that offend books, this is also true from childhood, this is also an adult trauma , absolutely, yes, but probably like you... you said, it’s more about us than about them, this phrase that everything is best for children , we are implementing this, and this leads to very simple consequences, yes, at 7 years old the reasons for the investigative connection have not yet been formed, it will be a little later, in another two, three years, they will understand they will be able to draw simple conclusions that if he left bag in the dressing room, it will never come back from there, that's it, you have it it won’t, yes, that is, a relationship will be formed, it’s still early. it is unclear, especially if a situation suddenly arises that he still returns from there or that they know that he is there, because if we promise that a thing leaves us, it

really leaves us, and we will now talk about this separately, but this is our desire to give all the best to children, how it is fixed in them, now we already see this in the generation of those who are 20 and a little older, they become extremely infantile, because what we tell children with this message: all the best for children, an equal sign, never grow up, don’t grow up, my friend, why do you need to grow up, you will deprive all the best, because all the best is for children, this is the first story, if we don’t want to raise extremely infantile people, who will never come to this desired achievement of yours, well, you don’t give them a chance, why do they already have everything, why should they dream about something, they remain in this infantile position for very many years without even...

how as if you were doing it for yourself, and trying to model comparing yourself with them is utopian, since we don’t compare at all in psychology, and we don’t compare people with each other, we compare a person throughout his life, how he changes. if he is productive, but all the time, even in your thoughts , allow this story, that we dreamed, and we treated it with care, and we glued books, but we didn’t have it, we would like it, it’s useless, you will only be more upset by this and not get any results in the educational process, because your children are not you, more moreover, your children, most likely already clearly reading these moments that are traumatic for you, they can someday... use them as a weapon and in interaction with you, understanding that mom might now be upset if i throw this toy, yes , which means i ’ll throw this toy now to make mom angry or

vice versa. mom won’t buy me something, uh-huh, what should i do? i’ll go and say: well, that means you don’t love me, you don’t buy for me , in general everyone has it, only i don’t, and i need these 23 sets here for instructions, so that i can feel my significance, including within the family, yes, because they buy me everything i want, satiation is a very sad story, a person always needs to dream about something, and as soon as we lose a dream. as soon as we lose desire, our life becomes extremely sad, and in children this is even more pronounced, especially in crisis periods of life, which yours are now entering, there is a 7-year crisis ahead, for a girl it will begin a little earlier, maybe you already something you observe in the boy a little later, this is a crisis that tells us about the desire to separate, stretch the umbilical cord (rugocki called it a true crisis, i myself)... the boy is already

showing himself, yes, at the age of 7, i myself, they want to be independent, so it’s yours over them that the construction set should be folded, there should be order, now areas of responsibility must be very specifically divided, this cannot be the case, that is , everything common should be moved, if possible , into a common space, or onto some common shelf, where, that is, we need to completely reconsider the room. let's start with this, so you arrive, return home, sit down together with the children, say, here we have a room, the psychologist said that it makes sense for us to divide it into clear areas of responsibility, that’s it, guys, 7 years old, soon to go to school, soon you will start having different friends, different interests, already different toys , we need to put things in order, now it’s time for summer to bring global order, we’ll take out everything unnecessary and give

it away there, we’ll put things in order in your room, now your dad and i are helping you, but in the future you will do it yourself, in order this room was comfortable for you, we must divide it, in order to start a new life, we need to clear as much space as possible, you will never be able to, it will be very difficult for us to form desires in them in general, dreams, desires, goals, if they have everything, in general we need to leave as much as possible from the material... there is another point about gifts of wishes for this material, what you said, there is the influence of the kindergarten and the group, and i cannot explain what the difference is between our families, when there is fediya, there is timothy, there is this , did this, gave this, we want it too, i say, it’s not like that in our family, why? i say

because it’s different, and the approach there is more understandable to them, because there they just took it, it’s very simple, it’s so beautiful and simple, they come to you and say: fedya, vasya, petya, this and that, you say how great it is, let’s first of all be happy for all these children listed, and now we have a big poster like this on our door wall, with a marker on it, they can write already, no, yes, yes, that’s all great, they can write it yourself, let's go... put it on your wish list, wish list, yes, yes, wish list, that’s it, write on your wish list, we’re approaching a new year, it’s right around the corner, before the new year we’ll decide which of these should be given to you, then you don’t buy all of them this list, that is, what you need to understand, the list depreciates at the same speed as a purchased thing, when the occasion comes, you sit down with them and talk, here we choose,

responsibility, when you set the table, put the cake, you tell them that yes , that's it, school, your responsibility, so great, you're big the day before, ask them please, we choose, at this moment it would be nice to indicate the budget, say, guys, we have 3,000 from grandma, we choose, it’s good to put price tags in advance, well, how would you navigate the prices, so let’s play with you, what we can choose for this amount from this list? your first contact with such financial literacy, but they need to make their first choice, they need to come buy or be happy that they got it, because firstly, it is their own choice, secondly, they had to meet the

an elementary budget, this is a very important story, this is the first step to understanding the value of money, but no more, now we can agree with you, new year, march 9, september 1, that’s enough, gender holidays are clean. symbolically, we get by, you get something like this, well, equally divided, and about every 3-4 months, since this year we have already tried to put this system into practice, when here is the money, the budget, let’s choose, accept, and make a choice, but this is the moment, what to do with your own hands, the way i used to do it even as a child, that is, we didn’t have the habit of buying something like this, we actually did something ourselves, this moment... just mm about flowers, making a cake and so on, we don’t do that much, from the point of view of gifts to celebrate something, we really do little of this, this is actually very important, because

time will pass, 10 years will pass, you ask the child what they gave you for your 7th birthday, he will tell you won't tell, because this thing doesn't mean anything to him, it's one thing out of thousands. and how he went with you there, i don’t know, on a hike and fried bread over a fire, then how she, how she made cakes with her mother and covered herself all over with some kind of chocolate, then what effect this cake had on dad, the way she first saw, opening her eyes on march 8, that her dad and brother brought her coffee in bed, this is something that remains forever, nothing material from the huge list remains. of course, if it’s a big dream, well, let’s say, i don’t know, they dreamed of a dog for 5 years, then they got a puppy, yes, that’s emotion, but another car, another construction set, they don’t mean anything at all, their number needs to be minimized, minimized as much as possible and

immediately come up with a storage system, because what you are talking about is a separate traumatic factor for you, which means you bought a construction set, you bought a container, that’s it, there’s a container, okay, this is your constructor. i’ll shovel it there , that’s it, take it, go, take it to your zone, which we have allocated, this is not in your brother’s zone, not in the common zone, in your zone, put this construction set, it would be good to remind you periodically that you remember how you dreamed about it, oh, how cool, you’ll probably be able to assemble it, and maybe you need help, yes, because for a child, when he looks at a complex a toy, it’s even positioned that way, it’s even advertised as a way to spend time together with... with a parent and he thinks that you will help her at this moment, or maybe in general, he’s waiting, maybe for this help, maybe she designer in desires, you come to the store together, it’s great to do this together, you come to the store and say: yes,

there is this construction set, no problem, we can buy it, but look, here there is a game that we can play with the whole family, here i don’t know, something came out interesting for creativity, we can also do it here. together, because any material thing is just accompanying material for the emotions with which it is associated, maybe offer them, you know, forms of exchange, okay, masha has this, and you have this, let’s offer masha friend exchange a friend for a week, bring it to her in kindergarten, she will take your construction set, and you will take her construction set, you will play with this thing, so desired, which you have added to your list, you will understand, you really need it, please tell me, they go to the garden, but with something else they study, maybe they have some kind of circles, you were there at the beginning about methodological materials, i was a little so tense, not too overly materials, it’s probably, i just don’t know what it’s called, these are various developments, like this

simulators, sometimes in notebooks, with various exercises, some kind of neuro-simulators, they are not always called cleverly, but the point is that they are just fun exercises to develop logic, yeah. by category, by the way, this is also one point about material things, i can’t say that we buy a lot from one category, but it turns out that i bought, let’s say , some... developmental notebooks, because i see that my interesting puzzles, and then for creativity there are, say, a couple of sets of some, because his daughter says: i like creativity, here’s a set, well, i don’t buy it right away , i mean, but over time, let’s say, i say, okay, there are salaries, let’s look at it, take something, we’ll study some kind of technique, or for some exhibition , if you want in the garden, let's do something - together, here. and then from sports, some kind of something, let’s say

what they do in general, sports, running , jumping on their ears, standing up about sports sections, that is, my daughter went to a creative studio, this is not a sports section, then ugh, just general physical development and at one time she was engaged in freestyleslaving, that is , my husband and i do tricks on roller skates, they went there only to another trainer, has this already happened? now they are giving up everything, why is this happening, we refused to pay for these subscriptions, because we started having problems with discipline, because this turned out to be the extreme point when i stopped exporting the program, it feels like we, now we have entered into impasse with these situations, with discipline, agreements, with cleaning room, and i realized that we need to go back to the beginning, to the beginning without toys, without these, without everything, start talking to the children, and i tell them...

in this beautiful room that you like so much, or this after all, your desire is for them to talk about it themselves, that is, we had a moment when they said, we want to do something there, okay, i want this, this, this, we considered in the process of building a training schedule, and then at some point they told me, i don’t remember, or stas or adela, mom, i want play, yeah, that is, i realized that our schedule is built in such a way that the child is no longer enough. and you sent both of you to play, or the one from whom there was a request, from whom there was a request, that is, we began to optimize his training, well, the second one didn’t complain, the second one was happy with everything, i don’t remember, but we changed it then, that is, i understood, that’s all, the child, that is, he has already stopped, meaning he understands the meaning of training, he no longer likes it, because he already wants to be here, he doesn’t feel like he’s at home there, he says, i’m there i haven’t played for 3 days, i have a little feeling that - this is probably your peculiarity, i don’t know, your

spouse, i haven’t seen everything a little hyper, there’s a lot of everything, you want coloring books, a lot, you want a construction set, a lot, let’s do different trainings, no, we didn’t notice, i wouldn’t say that it’s a lot, i would know how i outlined this point, there’s also no need for a diet in this regard, that’s my question, that there’s only one coloring , one section, so everything one by one ... a little and why then everything was so crowded and the sections because in general, that is, because that they are growing, every day some wishes from the garden, some information are added, they communicate, that is , they receive more information, for example, they talked with their grandmothers there, the grandmother threw out some ideas in the kindergarten, and besides, i so, in order to spend time with the children, i also bought board games... because my husband and i used to play them, we decided to buy

something for the family, for traditions, to buy a game, perhaps my mistake was that it was with a minimal time difference and for them it turned out to be all at once, on in fact, if you look at the categories, this is one, the only thing, we buy in duplicate, different things, but there are only two of them, that is, one notebook by stas, no, the games are general, i mean that for the most part it turns out that we buy two things at a time, but to the kids it looks like a big pile of things. which mom brought, that is, because some things, for example, come at a time, then something else, they don’t see this division, that this is a game - it’s separate, a creative set is for creativity, son he’s just playing football, before that he also did roller skating and continues

to play football now, or he’s also been punished, mm, we took a vacation, i didn’t call it punishment, we’re doing this now among ourselves.

quarrel, solve the problem with them, but this is strange, this also happens, this is also strange, this is a question that if he tells us, it means we have to do something, no, they tell you because they understand that you are such parents - excellent students, now parents will come, excellent students, they will subordinate their children to us , it will be convenient for us, coach, adult, for him wants him to be comfortable, so that everything is like this, oh, let’s run, oh, jump, oh, everyone in kindergarten should also be comfortable, this is some kind of question of not building boundaries with these adults. people, because sometimes we just don’t understand where the boundaries are in relation to children, because the children are in the garden at 8 o’clock, then let’s go to training, during training i try not to not look, not to be there, because this is the time child, his formation, his development, that is, i ’m leaving, then you’ll tell me how

the training went, because he starts, they’re on in general, they left me with paid time, they left, this is the work of a coach, a person is 7 years old, and... and 2 years old, and we can’t always track this moment, where in relation to sports training, where are we, where are our boundaries as parents, what we have to explain, show, tell, do, uh, influence, i don’t know what, what, what to do, what we should do on our part, and we don’t always understand where the boundaries are in relation to children, yeah, and we turn again, probably, my husband and i have always had an agreement since pregnancy itself, i i say, you and i must be on the same side, we must agree, because otherwise the children will begin to have this split, and good and bad will begin, and so on, the children quickly read this, and then i come with my husband and start talking when

well, we’ll allow you to complain about some situations, tell us what’s wrong, and tell us to do something. they don’t always say that we, respectively, where we turn, into us, into ourselves, and think that it is possible, why not to a psychologist, for example, we probably start with ourselves, if we can’t cope, we go to a psychologist, that is, i was, yes, i was twice with a child psychologist in our kindergarten, i contacted him, because well, a person needs a person from the category, i say, i don’t take the program out, and at the same time swear i don’t want it with a child either, because... i want him to still come to me as an adult for support, to have such an experience, to help, if not with everything, but to give recommendations on how to experiment at home, maybe create some kind of then a tradition or something to pay attention to, they sometimes said, is not necessary.