serial film soon on the first, well here it seems to me very important to note in vskhodne nearby lived martynov uh nikolai solomonovich, who is known not only as his friend in those years, but also as his killer, mikhail yuryevich, who killed in a duel, they were friends in their youth and went to each other, went i confidently, was was natalya.

told them that the youth the day before the same, so, came and threw, so pebbles, writes sushkova in general, the stalypnykhs left a legend, which alexander just wrote down, yes, that sushkova herself threw this stone, and somehow not by twist, but the stalinist legend, it lived, he wrote it down many years later, that is, it lasted for many years, that's also such, well , there is a very interesting story of lermontov sushkova, because,

eternity in heaven or on earth, everyone knew it, when they start discussing alermontov, everyone wanted to get from him, they gave

him notes, at the same time, when he left his mark on someone, this person became an outcast, to put it mildly, you can get along with lermontov, yes, but here we are talking about the fact that serednyakova - this is the place where lermontov became - a man carrying this prophetic mission, uh, carries his destiny, this is a scottish phrase, a man who uh has this ability of uh prophecy, foresight, well, for example, what amazes me most of all, this is - there is a feeling of truth in the heart of a person, a sacred grain in eternity, a space without borders, the movement of the century embraces in short economics, so lermontov already then understood that the whole world is built on this feeling of truth, and that following this feeling of truth... the attitude changes

heaven to you, well lermantov always remembered his scottish relatives, he has a poem also written here on belvidere, and he would like to be there, where the scottish frostbite blooms, he always remembered these beautiful beautiful history of his family, so to speak, yes, but at first he did not know it, then... he had to apply to the university, and his relatives helped find these certificates of his origin, the university did not accept him, because there were no such outgoing ones, or something, and so on arseniev relatives, they are there he went there to kostroma, where his family is. began and

brought this evidence, and the belongings, there even in these notes it is written the belongings of royal blood, it is written there. lermantov leaves moscow university and moves to petersburg, enters the school of cadets and studies there, that means 2 years, quite successfully, plays pranks, is naughty, although he studies well, yes, but i have such a feeling that he somehow very highly valued these predecessors of his pushkin, gribaedov, without also marlinsky, and wanted here's what he... was very sad that he was late for that campaign, because of his age, and he hated all the officers there who were engaged in drunkenness and love defeats, only because he adored them, because all these named people were them. in 1934, he left the school and was placed in

the leukbardian hussar regiment, and continued to serve, but serving in the capitals, in general, the service was not very burdensome, as we know, all the same. well, about borodino, well, we are borodino, the whole country knows about this battle, exclusively polermontov's beard, how about this, tell me, uncle, it's not for nothing, i already said that eight uncles participated in this, but it's

not only lermontov, it's stalypina, it's the arsenievs, it's shangerey, borodino dates back to the thirty-seventh year, what we talked about with you, that uncle, here's one of the... uncles, then, who later became the heir, actually, after mikhail yuryevich and after grandmother tarkhan, he also needs to be said about him, afanasy dmitrievich, yes, he also participated in the war and lermontov also learned a lot from him, but he tried, so, somehow to support tarkhany and he managed to support it, to support it, as a matter of fact, therefore in such good shape, in such... in good form, this whole house has come down to us, and now there is also a wonderful museum in tarkhany, then his relatives, accordingly, also supported it, these are very important things, yes, stalino - it was a clan of very powerful, uh , statesmen, who maintained the brand

of statesmen among themselves, at the same time they understood that lermontov was an outstanding... personality in their environment and therefore they gave him a lot of information about borodin and where the poem borodino came from and in this of course stolypin is an incredibly important part of the history of not only russia, but also lermontov. and when tolypin was shot, for some reason i remember the poems from the poet died, lermantovsky. that is, here.

he is the only one who tied with a champol, well , how can he, a sickly person, and then, when they say that there he is somehow unattractive.

the most beautiful women of russia at that time were in relations with mikhail yuryevich, well , even the sovereign she treated very, as they say, with sympathy, and read the sovereign his works, well, here the works that were remarkable played a role. in order to understand what kind of work it was, and then read it to her husband, it took a very long time, they read it after the first, second thing, they read everything that lermant wrote. on the ninety-fifth anniversary of oleg strizhennyi, every mortal has the right to wish for passionate love, the heavenly beauty of the artist, huge blue eyes that are absolutely identical to ne. which you look at, your eyes are exactly like blue water, it was impossible to go anywhere with oleg alexandrovich, you

go somewhere, and then the attention of women, my grandfather always supported me, we discussed roles with him, it was a great luck to have the opportunity to consult with a master of such magnitude, once he called me and said, young girls came up to me and said, you are sasha strizhanova's dad, and i realized that finally my life was a complete success, they say that love goes away over the years, no, it's not true, in our case it's... no, if it weren't for it, about me, i can't imagine, i just probably wouldn't have lived to see today, the love of my life, no, it's not too late now, tomorrow will be too late, to start liquidation, and what i would wish my grandfather for his birthday, it's more of a great-grandson. on saturday on the first. the capital

of uruguay, one of the most developed and richest countries in latin america. you know what i noticed, people here dress quite simply. this is not about our women. renting housing for local residents is quite expensive, but there is an option when you can live even free.

no, where should they go, this is because they, well, how is it, didn't just have the opportunity to toss a coin, where should they go, to the active army or to the waters, and they get to the waters, at the waters he pays for 3 months in advance for baths in petegorsk he gets a note from the commandant, i laughed for a long time, mikhailovich, that there is no longer room for sick officers in the hotel.

quite brave, she is dorokhovskaya until lermontov was appointed, was not appointed, commander, when lermontov was appointed, she became lermontovskaya. but dorokhov is also a well-known person, so to speak , we are not talking about the famous, we are talking about the actual - the leadership is hundreds, when lermuntov really did win the trust and respect of the highlanders, and by the way, here is a completely wonderful quote from a letter from mikhail yuryevich to lopukhin, after, uh, when he just already actively - entered the fighting, the fighting

ranks, so to speak, and led. i got a taste for war, i am sure that for a person who is accustomed to the strong sensations of this bank, there is little pleasure to be found that would not seem cloying, oh how? well, of course, take valerik, when the river was bleeding, that's how, as they say, the ordinary human psyche can react to this, lermantov writes in this valerik, well , as if it were an easy walk, in fact it was a catastrophe for him and for all his fellow soldiers, including the highlanders, and where did this respect of the highlanders for klermunt come from, precisely because he was completely fearless, well, there are many reviews about him that both the horseman and the old man envied

him, you know, this courage, bravery, in general, the same dorokhov wrote that he was a cool guy, but... maybe his head won't survive, and he's a completely different person, again, all his fellow soldiers noted in combat, yes, and not in idleness and somewhere at a resort, completely different people, by the way, we have a wonderful drawing of lermontov in a fur cap, just after valerik you said that his friend drew it, this is after this battle palin, yes, well, you know, another poem of his needs to be remembered, in the midday heat in the valley of dagestan with lead in my chest i lay motionless, you know, in the caucasus every phrase spoken by lermontov, tied to a specific area and specific residents, here is dagestan according to this

poem, this is a truly beloved space. in which lermontov became a hero, and uh, here he is, he fought very bravely, uh, when he led this team of hunters, he was nominated, even for the order, svyatoslav of the third degree, we know that at the end of december, and this was such a list, of convicts, they really wanted to earn some kind of medal, then you get a rank and can retire and live with a soviet person, of course, just in one of the letters he writes that i lead the hunters, and we fight and do this and that, and maybe they will give us something, meaning, that is, such an incentive, but he was never presented, but he never received this order, he went to petersburg because he decided to see, his grandmother decided to see him, his business in petersburg was not finished,

that's where you are talking about, on the one hand he is a prophet, on the other hand... that means somehow, here he is in petersburg, he meets with the famous fortune teller anna filippovna kirkhov, she already has there were pushkin and griboyedov, they got their so to speak prediction, and the prediction was of concern. lerbantov also gets the same prediction, but he somehow laughs, at first, at first he somehow doesn’t react very much, in general, he returns to pyatigorsk and that means between. dinners, champagne, regimental jokes, he gets a cartel from his own friend martynov, and how it all ended, we know, yes, this quarrel between lerbantov and martynov leads to a duel, several close friends participated in this duel, and you need to understand that they were all younger than lermantov, so that's what started to happen

after the duel, when they write that everyone became... "shoot, or i'll separate you, the thing is that according to the duel code, if they don't shoot on the count of three, then the duel is over, all other actions are illegal, and what does illegal actions mean, it means that you..." for violating the duel rules, this is a much more dishonest act, and there this act does not apply to them,

to the whole family, then they should not have hidden, they should have reported that they did not undertake any events, because the duel was already over in one, two, three, you understand, they then carried this burden of the story for the rest of their lives. when they kept it and filled the grave with stones, then the whole bamonde and women, immediately after that rushed to take these stones from the grave, then they ordered from a jeweler, there was no, that means, there was a queue, there was no end, from those who wanted to make rings, earrings , bracelets with these stones, mogilyars, this became one of the most fashionable of such things, this is what i mean, actually, to prophecies, he himself is a prophet, but he did not hear the prophecy of alexander filippov.

this world is integral, in which there is both heaven and earth and his heart, this is precisely the difference between lermantov and everything else, all his works, i must say a few words here, they are all in three dimensions. his works, for example, taman can be read as a detective story, that is, here are the events that took place, you can read some kind of psychological drama, in fact, lirmontov laid there a much more complex structure of human existence, all his works are like that, but for this it is necessary to somehow, to distinguish this, it is necessary to prepare a person for this, and lermontov's works, they are the best way to awaken. eyelids this three-dimensional ability to see this world, it is necessary to create an environment in which a person can awaken, here srednikovo is the place

where the first thing i did when we came there 30 years ago lermontov's school of education by beauty, i am still convinced that a person placed in beauty changes his inner space of relationship, here this very feeling of truth is very... we had mikhail yuryevich lermantov and you were talking about mikhail yuryevich lermantov, this is what happens to us.

hello, this is a psyche podcast, and we continue to subjugate the flaws of our souls to seek balance. peace, well, or some correct strategies. our heroine today, olga, began to worry about the fact that she may be quite old, and whether she is losing to the young, how to compete with the young when you are in your prime, when you are already mature, but no longer young, hello, olga, hello, today with us is psychologist pavel reshtov, candidate of pedagogical sciences, associate professor and director of the institute of practical social psychology. feels herself,

but it is noticeable that the slight self-doubt that she experiences, this is such a state, perhaps, such, you know, a temptation, what new will happen today, and i would like to say that you know, olga, you look great, and indeed, this is what your uncertainty is your subjective perception, well, you and i we don't do miracles here, we can't roll back 20 years, so can we try? to make you feel more confident and effective in the age range, in the atmosphere of your experience, in the accumulated knowledge? are you ready? well, we'll try. why are you afraid of the young? well, how can i explain it to you? how can i tell you the truth? i 'm a manager, i have several companies, we occupy leading positions in the market, i'm a public

figure, but... in my financial circle, i have banking experience, i have financial experience, i have experience in managing companies and leading a team now, that is, in terms of presenting my companies, i have no questions, but for some time now the presentation of the company as a person has come to the fore, here you mean when the manager, right with his face in the literal sense. yes, with his eyes, his cheeks, wrinkles, posture, represents the company, olga, tell me, why do you think that you as a manager should be the face of your company, you should be the one to go out somewhere on social networks, what is this connected with, we we compare, we monitor competitors, and accordingly all individuals who are not shy about creating a blog in their name, a public

page in their name. show there how they literally fry pancakes, that is, they have a serious, what does age have to do with it, listen , there are, i see, you know, on all sorts of video hosting sites, there are grannies who talk about cucumbers in a greenhouse, she has a dressing gown in cucumbers, cucumbers in her hands, and a huge number of subscribers without any discount on age, on form, on some kind of, you know, this is the tuning of these external data, what do young people have to do with it, well , accordingly, it seems to me that they were born like that, they literally work miracles , i can’t put myself there, that is, i have a fear of a public figure, that i, some famous person, a financier, will suddenly start doing, well, so to speak, explaining myself to the monitor, the second is that i can’t communicate with a video camera, that is, i have

a feeling that well, all this is somehow not real, everything is, well, showy, but to the point that literally 2 years ago they were able to bring me out into the audience, but i couldn’t - just go out, i put on a wig, i hid then i was able to congratulate on the video camera, that is, i don’t have a page of my name, i have a page of my name. the company, we promote the company’s services, but it’s not in demand now. pavel, what’s the problem? olga, tell me, how did you study at school? a red diploma, that is, an excellent student, right? and tell me, did your parents praise you, support you, when you brought home, did you say all five for the quarter, what didn’t you say? i didn’t care, i did it for myself set tasks. olga, tell me, when you were growing up as a child, can you say what you were

like there? let's say, did you feel the love of your parents, that is, or did they just take care of you, like, yes, there was care, but there was no attention, i'm my dad's daughter, if you know what i mean, i felt like a very beloved child, i was the only daughter, yeah, and how was it expressed, well, what did they do, they just were, there is no need for some kind of super gift, beyond some, i don't know, show and stuff, i just had a strong influential father, and - here he came with his presence, they say, a man with charisma, he came with his presence and the world changed around him, yeah, there are such people, there may not be many of them, and to be in the shadow of this man for a woman, i think that well, this is so normal, now i'm not a leader all the time, i come home and calmly go into the shadows, olga, but tell me, if you

received, let's say... a child, and if he suddenly brought home a c, well, a child is not measured by grades, look, tell me, any girl always wants to be good a girl, yes, well, such an ideal one, that is, for you to be an ideal girl is what, well, probably, i would change my appearance, i probably would change my appearance, because inside i am fine, that is, i would maybe lose 5 kg, something like that, in fact, that is why i ask about parents, yes, parents, they confirm, when we are little, what we are, that is, they give us feedback, they give us, strengthen our self-confidence, because it is parents who should to say such phrases, i don’t know, you heard

me, daughter, i love you, daughter, i ’m proud of you, daughter, you’re a beauty, it’s especially valuable when dad says it, it’s valuable in words, and dad was a man of few words, that is, look. and what’s going on? you say: i’m not confident in myself, why? yes, because you didn’t receive confirmation in childhood of what you are, and you don’t know what you really are, now a beautiful woman is sitting in front of us, and she says: i’m not confident in myself, yes, that is, a person, who is a winner, the head of several companies, a successful leader, a financier, and says: i am not confident in myself, imagine what other women must feel, who have not achieved your success, but nevertheless you ... experienced when our parents did not give us something, our parents are not to blame, it is just their life, because their

parents did not teach them, it is a tragedy, i just can’t imagine, you see, when parents, yes, it is hard for us to imagine something that did not happen, that is the hardest thing when we have we had something, we lost something, we understand that we lost something, that's when we... the romanov tsars were sensitive, loving their children, not shy about expressing their feelings, well, that's how it is in public, it seems to me that this, well, it's unnatural for a man, the public, that is, why didn't pavel talk about the public, i'm talking about the fact

that this is said to a child, you understand, i 'm a father of two daughters, i have a son and two daughters, so i always tell my daughters: daughter, you 're my clever girl, you're my beauty, i admire them, they see it, you understand? they they treat themselves differently, that is, this is very important, i am not saying this in public or anything else, i am saying this when i see my daughter eye to eye, you see, i can hug her, stroke her, you see, give her warmth, she sees this love, then she gains self-confidence, as a girl, as a person, you are talking about verbal confirmation, and this is not only verbal, there is purely internal confirmation, how it manifests itself, how you read it, and this... is read on full confidence, that everything is really okay, that is, that my dad would scold me for something if i think that i did it better this way, and i will never be condemned. pavel, what is

the connection between parents, experience, when parents do not say things to you in words, some things that help you feel confident , well, when you are a child, something you are beautiful, you are smart, you yourself. my best, you are my princess, and when an already adult, very experienced woman, who has all the objective confirmation of her success, feels unsure of something, and the matter in the fact that in childhood we learn to react in a certain way, yes, that is , love is what our parents did to us, sometimes the lack of attention and love creates such, you know, such a dissonance. that is, i want to receive love, attention, recognition, but i'm afraid to receive it in a form that i did not receive, it turns out our environment, it we begin to change reality for ourselves, that is, in fact, we kind of force it to change, as we are accustomed to, yes,

that is, i'm afraid to speak in front of people, why am i afraid to be in public, because that suddenly they will appreciate me, and i don’t know what i am, why, because my dad, mom didn’t tell me what i am, they didn’t tell me, i emphasize... that is, if we talk about love, there is a wonderful work, the five languages ​​of love, that is , which says that the language of love, in short, yes, what is it, that is, the first is words, the second is for us: time goes by, which we give to a person, the third is gifts, the fourth is care, the fifth is touch, that is, all this, parents should give to a child, absolutely everything, but the main thing is that, let’s say, you you feel insecure about yourself, why, you compare yourself to others, you understand, the question is what, you do not look at yourself, you do not look at your success, you do not accept yourself as successful, subconsciously, subconsciously, and you, despite all your colossal. success that you have achieved in life, your appearance, nevertheless

, inside you there still remains a small green child who doubts himself , therefore, somewhere in one small-small place, fear of going on air arises, you understand, and this is in fact, this is a well-known the theory of eric bjorn, who says that in every person there is a parent, an adult child, in different situations we switch, and even, you know, a retired grandmother, at some point she behaves like a child, and many know this, and we, it would seem, are... dmitry bystroletov, an outstanding intelligence officer

, an unrivaled master of recruitment, a courageous man who did not break under the blows of fate. in the camps, i quickly stopped identifying my executioners with my homeland. there were periods in russian history, when the only place for a decent russian was in prison, so even in the camps i was in my place. sometimes the forces are cut off, the meaning of what is happening becomes completely illusory. what becomes your support? love, we are together again, i believe that i have lived a good life and am ready to live it exactly the same way again. intelligence legends, a genius of reincarnation, a recruiter, on saturday, on the first, in the new season, on the first, rumors about this crime are already circulating in the city , wherever you go, they say,

this is a psyche podcast, and today with a psychologist, associate professor pavel reshshitov and i are talking to

olga, who is thinking about how to compete with the young. let's start with the fact that olga, please praise yourself, what are you like? i am businesslike, i am successful, i am interesting, beautiful, i am kind, i am sensitive, i have many epithets for myself. and what of this could you tell in the format of a video blog? i just feel sorry for it. at this time, i think that this is nonsense, that it is unpleasant for me to watch - these other people 's little stories, respectively, i understand that the person is doing nonsense, but a healthy the meaning tells me that they have more sales, they have three times more and they are more popular and successful and they go, it just feels like this is the next generation, for them it is a natural environment, right?

a company, but a company is in itself, olga, tell me, now when you talk about what you feel, if you take parents, an adult child, who do you feel like, an adult or a parent. and what do you think, those who speak in these blogs, they speak like who, like children, like children, they are addressing who, also children, to i started with a child, look, it turns out that the problem that you are experiencing now is that you, as adults, want to communicate like adults, you want to be respectable, serious, yes, and they communicate like

children, they behave like children, they tell all sorts of nonsense, like that granny who was said, who tells there, but they don’t give a damn, you see, they are, you see, this... he is such a scared green, and not happy, he really doesn’t understand, but how can you carry on with such nonsense, like they say, the universe, you understand, and you feel yourself, if you behave like that, you will be a child, but you don’t want to be a child, you understand, you don’t want to be a child, you want to be a serious lady, well , why are you afraid to be a child, to allow yourself to be just as uninhibited

, to just say what you want to say, but in a free mode, not in a serious way, you understand, people, the question is what, you and i... you understand, that is, why, that is, this is the problem that i started with, this is a problem from childhood, a problem, here you are praised themselves, well, somewhere they talked for about a minute, yes, that is

, they said about themselves, what kind of person you are, that is, well, our time is limited, so we speak so briefly, but a normal task within the framework of transactional analysis should be... worked out for 15 minutes, 15 minutes about yourself , beloved, and not as you said, i 'm good there, you need to expand on what you are, you understand, that is, let's say, i'm a wonderful woman there, who looks amazing, i'm charming, you understand, your eyes went down, you doubt it in yourself, you know, again, why is this, it 's paradoxical, from inner adulthood, she considers herself too adult, you know, and the most monstrous phrase that an adult can wake up with

is how great it is, you know, but to do this, you just need to allow yourself to be a child, that is, you go on air, as you say, well, it's not presentable, it's somehow boring, yes, she said, she says this is nonsense, yes, nonsense, this is an adult assessment, i completely agree with you, it's normal, and you know here... it's not even adults, it's a parent, so demanding, what are you doing, nonsense, you can't do nonsense, go do your homework, go do something useful, that is, watch all the social networks - it's nonsense, yes, it's like parents think it's normal that...