you see, the interest in social networks, if you just analyze it, you are right that people really behave like children, they are focused on children, that is , no matter what kind of people we were there, in what kind of suits, in what kind of positions we were there, there is still a child in each of us, they talk to this child, they tell simply fascinating stories, that is, they speak in simple words, they do not give arguments explaining why the emotions they experience, yes, that is, how great it is, you understand, but in order to... do this, you need to just allow yourself to be a child, that is, you go on air, as you say, well , it’s kind of unpresentable, it’s kind of boring , she said it’s nonsense, yeah , it’s nonsense, it’s an adult assessment, i agree with you completely, it’s normal, and you know, these aren’t even adults, this is a parent, so demanding, what are you doing, nonsense, you can’t do nonsense, go do your homework, go do something useful, that is, look at all the social networks - it’s nonsense, yeah, well, parents think normally. nonsense,

i think so as a parent too, but as a child, inside myself, i can sometimes watch some interesting videos, something entertaining, some interesting filming, some event, yes, just bright, something that caught my attention, i can devote time to this, i have a small amount of time that i allocate per week for what i can browse, flip through, explain, you are not suggesting to work for the public, but wait, what is wrong with working for the public, well, accordingly. working for the public in such a key - this is, well, and the theater, it works for the public, moreover, it depicts in general what is written according to the script, as they say, of the play, you understand, then it turns out to close the theater , that is, we refuse theater in performance, concerts, that is, we just need to feel brighter, yes, that is, you just , if you want to express yourself, then we allow ourselves to do this, you forbid yourself to be a child, your fear is that you ...

cognitive dissonance, i want it to be, well, you want, you understand, what do you have as effectively as these who act like children, but i want to remain serious, and you take a person to whom you say, so i like this, how they behave, do it this way, but so that... it was serious, well, you know, but it is impossible, because either we play by the rules of social networks and do what is beautiful, attractive, interesting, simple, charming, or we do something serious, yes, they watch us, we sell our products, we offer, but still there remains such an effect of such solidity, but the majority of people, the majority of people, that is, they prefer to be children, and even despite their age.

sometimes you are at work, you are serious, yes, that is, you are there with the lady, and somewhere you can be a child, you understand, you play a lot with your children, yes, well, you allow, if you play, you allow yourself to be a child. it is impossible not to be a child, you fight, of course, of course, when the audience is small, nothing bothers me at all, that is, we dance at discos, and accordingly splash in the sea and everything else, can i ask a question, what if one of your potential clients or partners, well, it just happened, yes , saw, saw how you dance, how you stand on your ears with your children, this is normal, this is an unconventional time, and that is, this is...

well, what an interesting woman, you understand, but this is not a format, not a format from what, wait, i want to talk about the format, okay, a new client comes, this is the director of a company, let's say, a concrete plant, and we have to do some work for him, but will he communicate with me if i come to him there in some kind of wrong form, but it's natural, you know, let's say, there is an audience in which i give lectures, as a lecturer, yes, i behave in a certain way, although i can allow myself to joke, i really like the approach of positive psychotherapy, there are parables, stories, jokes, it's like, well , the norm, yes, so that it is more understandable, that is, and - i use this, completely

calmly, but if i go to a meeting, naturally i behave there accordingly, this is a psyche podcast, watch all the episodes of our podcast on the website: channel one 1tv.ru, you speak well, that is, your speech is well-organized, that is, you express yourself freely, everything is great, that is, when you come to social networks, that's what we talked about today, yes, the main thing is that it is interesting to speak, you speak as if you live it, because you share what is interesting, what is exciting, what inspires, and then you tell what you have, what an interesting product, how cool it is to use it, apply it there or do something with it, it is like this. and it is so great, come and take from me, because i am the best, because i am the best, and i did this, that, i achieved this, look

what pavel just told me in such a way that i don’t know what product he is talking about, i already want to buy this product, because it has infected me, there is such a concept as social contagion. when we talk about these young successful social networks, then maybe we don’t recognize that they are somehow beautiful, they are somehow well dressed, they have some kind of masterfully staged plasticity or speech, no, in fact, from them

this life beats, interest in what they talk about, you probably, i am simply convinced of this, seeing your systematic thoughtfulness, you... can talk about whatever you do, conveying this attitude of yours, this experience of yours about this product, but you can tell, like a beautiful woman of mature years, yes, because in your baggage, what is there, why will i believe you, you have experience, i see that you are an insightful woman, there is maturity, that is, you inspire confidence in me, but when you you will talk about the reports, i will say, you know, that...

in order to be interesting for a certain circle of the audience, that is, let's say, with the status of the upper average, and accordingly, there, perhaps, these... that is, he pretends, you think, these, yes, fun, they may be inappropriate, and that is, you need to look and evaluate and accordingly understand, well, here the question is, who are your clients, you understand, that is, the question is, are your clients on social networks, if your clients are not on social networks, you do not have a product, which is, well, widely used, then there is no point in wasting your time on social networks, you see, if your clients... these are, well, ordinary people, that's one thing, if your clients are company executives,

that's another thing, why? because company executives, when they go online, they go like children, to browse something, to look at something, to see something interesting, you see, that is, you must clearly understand, you have this kind of split again, yes, that is, on the one hand you are a parent, on the other hand, you understand, i want to be a child, and you yourself noted that you are great at being a child, you can, but you just don’t allow yourself to, you are at home there. somehow provide yourself with some kind of publicity, as one of the obligatory

arguments, one of the obligatory conditions for competition with those who rush us and squeeze us, maybe we really can do without it? you see, you are already asking the question like this: and i thought that really, how to sell on social networks, this is not my audience, but when the managers come home, they shoot jack, maybe they will be interested in how the head of another company roasts the same.

it's interesting, that is, and here you are talking about the fact that you want to look like an interesting person, that is, in fact, this difference between what i sell and i am an interesting person, it is different, that is, i, for example, also clearly understand that i am a weak salesperson, it seems to me, you know, that i will try to translate from russian into russian, what pavel persistently tried to tell you, probably about the fact that you have charisma, yes, you have strength, you have experience. it's true, yes, there are external data, but there is uncertainty

about what is it in my big life, which is much more than reports and your boss's door from the reception area, what is it that will be interesting, curious for those people who are important to you personally and your company, i am sure that it is, probably, more than pancakes, although perhaps ... really these are some outstanding pancakes, which can also captivate, charm, conquer those who are needed by you and your company. the only thing that seems to me, olga is looking for a lot with her mind, this is also what pavel tried to tell you today, you have a lot of it from here, yes, from your head, and the child lives here, the child lives a gushing life, that's where the core comes from. when at first he jumps, leaps, speaks, invents, imagines, and

then the critic turns on, most often in a child with the voices of his parents, who, therefore, besiege him, warn him, it seems to me that your path and - your, your new success, which, of course, is not hindered by age, your new competitiveness, which is also not about age, in learning to rebalance yourself a little. in favor of the heart in favor of that unconscious, some kind of uncontrollable fountain and slightly reduce this controlling smart.

activity, here is my practice: in 90% of cases , all the problems of clients in adulthood, they are hidden in childhood, and there is always some moment that triggers this self-doubt, doubt that i should be so serious, yes, that is , all this comes from there, when we work, we work for some time with a person, not one or two sessions, more, then the person

begins to treat himself differently, that's the task of psychologists, if we go on long-term consultations. long work, then to help a person to be a child, an adult, and much less often to be a parent, because here the parent sits on autopilot, we strictly control, that is, you should be like this, you should, should, should, that is, our little child runs, does, but he does not remain happy, he does not enjoy life, here is a rationalizing adult who turns on in you, who says: no, wait, that is, they are doing great, let's try, here a demanding parent says: no, what, you can't do that to yourself?

and let your child go free, then she will succeed, the psyche prompts, i greet you, dear viewers, as always, a podcast of jokes, and today in our humorous laboratory two wonderful... lovers of many industries, here and cinema, and tv shows, first of all, of course, we are united by kvn, because once we played this wonderful game, alexey lekhnitsky and nadezhda angarskaya. here we try, let's say, in discussions, in some format of conversation, talk, to understand some things that can be in

humor at all, can't be, is it necessary at all, is it not necessary, how is it different from what, that 's why today in this composition. it's very good that we have male and female, i suggest talking about this, in particular, yes, that is, well, how funny are girls in humor, yes or there, well, women in general, grandmothers, or vice versa, there nadya will say that well , men in general don't know how to joke, well, how representative of female humor, yes , they will now lay us on our shoulder blades and tell us why everything we did was disgustingly terribly bad, perhaps, i don’t know, how did you have fights on the program? no, we have a different program, there will be, i just said male and female, i immediately, you know, transferred it to the daytime a little, okay, okay, not like that, not in this way, look, there is, i don’t know, for some reason, there are people, first of all, who create, let’s say, an information occasion, they specially stir it up, all this, from this is where stereotypes are born, but there is a stereotype that women in humor are not

funny, that is, well, for a long time, a large number of humorists, i don’t know... there were in the soviet union, yes, or even there , the western culture is humorous, but in our time, yes, well, let’s say, after the 2000s, yes, precisely in the 20th century, a large number of humorous programs appeared, and very serious projects with women’s humor appeared there, can we say today that women somehow took revenge, or maybe there was no revenge, maybe at that time we were mistaken and somewhere secretly there was a sect of female humor, like...

it seems to me that this is generally connected with the development of some, like in politics there were few women, agree, now there are more of them, yes, heads of enterprises, some top managers, how can you imagine a scene without beautiful women who have a sense of humor, with a sense of humor, with a sense of humor. it's there, i don't know, for every 10 men's teams there was one women's team and in each men's team there was conditionally there, here you go, bright representatives when there was one girl yes but what a girl and

then when a certain number of such teams were collected all these frontmen girls got together and said let's give a fight look the thing is that the presence of a girl in a team yes let's say in some it just gives more there - let's say, opportunities for you to be able to show humor, that is either or a guy, like in the old days in the theater women also played roles, men played, well they didn't trust women at all they trusted very little, so i don't know, so we can give birth yes, so we can joke we can't, well what the hell is this, you know, really, we just touched on a topic about women, there's a man and a woman there, like a man has to earn money, a woman creates comfort there, something, well, gives birth to children, yes, when a child is born, the man comes and says, we have there.

well, such a blonde fool, i don't know, oh, everything is forgiven her, and if i get stuck on the road, i apologize, i'm out of gas and i say, guys, help me, half the cars

will pass, he'll say that i'm a complete fool, that's it fill up the car there i don't know, and the blonde she is different, she is such a girl, i just don't have to not get into such situations, i need to be smarter, you know, work ahead of the curve, you know, so you see, this is a stereotype, the fact is that the latest research by scientists has proven just the opposite. about blondes they are still connected by some kind of like, well, misunderstanding of something simple, as you remember the joke, when - well, there are a lot of them, i can just throw it out now, and i remember which ones, that two blondes -

meet there, let's say, these two girlfriends they have all this about them, and he says: listen, do you know why the helicopter has such a big propeller? he says: why? he says so that the pilot doesn't sweat, he says, no, that can't be, he says, i'm telling you, he says, no , that can't be, yes, this propeller is so that the pilot doesn't sweat, because one day we...

that recently jokes about blondes stopped being funny, either blondes have changed or they. evolved, yes, into whom? that's the question, into brunettes, they dyed their hair, there were also jokes about artificial intelligence, yes-yes-yes, yes-yes-yes, i'm all for it, this is also from the category, yes, like a blonde, she'll change her hair color, this is what will happen to her, they'll joke about it differently, or on or vice versa, or vice versa, it seems to me that now it's not even about blondes anymore, here are pumped-up lips, you know, when the stereotype has already started, like, all girls become like this, they

're probably joked about more.

boarding ends in 7 minutes, they were making a highway there and i was really late, i run out of the car and there's just a line at the intersection there is a huge one for the first inspection, i write , i run, i scream, and excuse me, girls, boys , you're late, no one could say a word to me, because i spoke so much text that they just rushed everyone, you know, i quickly quickly run on, i run, the inspection is all there, i run up, boarding hasn't started yet, they detained me, excuse me, excuse me, guys, these people whom i pushed aside, excuse me, please, thank you very much, boys, girls, i'm in a hurry, they come at me, excuse me, i was scared, and if i were a little hulondinochka, i would have stood in side, no one saw me, you understand, and the fact that i made a ruckus, there is still such a big woman standing there, and i have nowhere to hide, by the way, not a fax and an apology program, i'm looking for you to apologize, that's such a new program, but you know, i'm saying,

now... in the context of these cliches in general, the same cliches used to be hung on even professions, on some, that if some plumber comes, then he's drunk, that is , well, there are some jokes, if there is some guy there in ancient times, then he must have drunk his salary somewhere there yes or there somewhere yes that's how it is and in general in life there are such as well invented such stereotypes that now recently have begun to go away like this... trader tomorrow after the program time in the new season on the first come on come on well can i ask you it's time to tie up with this choir he's a soloist finally dad. to the children,

i remembered, i met a woman, it happened that, that i love her, i've loved her for a long time since school, your hair on the back of your head is wet from the heart, on lipstick on the collar, for everyone we are the perfect couple, i don't want to be a thief, you know, yes, but... it seems to me that you yourself, yes, my wife asked me, she left for another, why don't you go after her, don't fight, don't bring her back, i went out of my way for him, do you even know how much they cost, you weren't asked, but i 'm going to ask you now, properly, just sleep, guy, bastard, choir, premiere of a multi-part

film, soon on the first, the best script is a script written from life, well , sometimes you can't even make it up, richer than your imagination. my children and i, literally with my a friend of hers has three children, let 's meet, let's meet in a cafe, we met in this cafe, the children ordered some pizza there, some food, naturally , was left, and the pizza was standing there whole, she says: could you wrap it up for us to take away, i say yes, no problem, i look at my child, there's a cutlet on the plate, it's just bitten off once, i say, throw this cutlet in the bag, i 'll give it to the dog, and she's like collecting it all, she stood up, says, we had a banquet here and my wife says, so... there's only one woman there, and you please gather all this for us with us, i'll feed the dog at home, my husband says: what are you talking about, we don't have a dog, and we just cried, because you find yourself in this situation, you know, when, well, no, well

, when, and we here often, when we discuss how a joke came about, yes, that is, well , this or that, then some things are based on puns, yes, and there are just, well , when the situation, you know, just got you... the story is just hot off the press, that is, it's, well, damn, damn, we were, in short, my wife and i were visiting there outside the city, in the tver region, so, just at home, when we were relaxing, we were playing some games there, in the good sense of the word. my wife jumped off a chair and twisted her leg really badly, that is , in such a way that it became, well, suspicion , swollen, that is, well, either a fracture or a torn ligament, well, and this is right in the middle of maslenitsa, and so our friend there

, you know, calls - to the local hospital, which is in the regional center, a small town, so he calls about going to work in general everyone is having a good time, mastenitsa is still going on, there are public festivities there, and we are driving, so she is driving with this leg, like this, in the car, we... some other incomprehensible things are wrapped in a box, and so on, so they are arranging on a pole, they are pulling some things, there is someone there, who is more of us. pancakes , in short, all these festivities, and we are driving slowly through this, there are people walking back and forth, we are driving through everything, at that moment we arrive at this hospital, essentially a rural one, yes, it is a small town, and

three people came there, so one had a key, he opened such, an old door, wooden, it's a hospital, and so a woman came who can write out a referral, do an x-ray, and a person came who knows how to do this x-ray, here they are. so all three came, so this one, so he took the key, went to prepare the x-ray machine and so the second one stayed there with this woman, well, in short, we're all on vacation, it's fun there, yes, and the woman fills out a journal, like the reason, how to do it, and like, how did it happen, like, what's wrong with the leg, i say, what's wrong with the leg, yes, these are yours these walks in general, my wife says, i saw this pole, i saw these red boots, i climbed, and i say, i almost reached the top, just a little... just a little bit, then down bang and we don't know if there's a fracture or if that's how she looked at us, at all of us, i have a very serious one there, look, she's like, yeah, well , in short, she wrote something down, we went out into the corridor and laughed, so in short, well, she'll write it down right there , well, that means my wife was sent to the elevator

there to some third floor, that's it, she came back and just says, i'll go to the car, says, you wait here, these pictures are there, well, just like hospital hospital yeah well i'm sitting and waiting i can hear how on the third floor everyone is there at that moment one downstairs ha-ha-ha, they froze up there, you know, and it's funny to me, yeah, it's just that they 're so funny and funny, yeah they still imagined a picture, that still she imagined that a desperate woman climbed for her boots,

here's a joke for you, okay, we're talking about these cliches, stereotypes, they also happen like that, for example, they say the best cooks are there, yeah, they're men, that is, well there's such a stereotype and a statement, here's lyokha yana. you know, i'll give you an example, when the doorbell rings, and the husband comes in with his friend and wife, and come in, come in, so once there, he says, come in here to the kitchen, they sit down at the table, and there's such a mountain, there's unwashed dishes, in short, the table is so dirty, everything is like that, and the wife is like, maybe i'll give you a minute, since this husband, he says, you, you don't understand that i'm not going to cook anything for you, there's a mountain of unwashed dishes, i have there: like this, not

very funny, but somehow, you know, in spite of the day, that now, like now, in general, about the fact that women there and girls in general, as if cooking for them, it becomes somehow like that, that now i can order everything right now, and they will bring it right now, trali-vali, well, well, more and more like about a man, here he cooks, he will cook, and all the time when i see them there they invite me to visit. yes, there for some kind of barbecue, seriously, i notice that most often it is the guys who cook in the kitchen, that is, my male friends , yes my buddies, all the time, that lyokha, that other guys, everyone was doing something there, i went, bought this, look, all the men are standing there discussing the products, what will he say, well, now such a modern time has appeared, well, if it concerns meat, let it be, let the men do it, if it concerns, well , fish meat on the fire, please, do it, but still there are some salads, there is some such small work that men do not...

in principle, fit into the format of our program, but which, well, well, i am often asked about such situations, what did you have there on tour, i honestly, well, i remember some of the funniest ones, but i want to say that i got into a team, that same female one, when everyone was already living separately, we didn't have any conflicts, the funniest thing for me was when we came on tour, and after the concert the girls tell us, well now we've booked the best seats for you at the club, and we're like, what club? did our hotel close or something? we

went to sleep and they're like the organizers sometimes, like how are you and you no no we no, we go to sleep they then cut together, no, that's not true, we're all pouring, no, then everyone to the hotel then you know by sew alone, sew everything later in one place, they say, well, we didn't have such flights, when we flew there to khabarovsk, from the east to the far east, and we're sitting, we're flying for a long time, we're sitting there already , we can't do anything... we're standing with katya skulkina in the aisle and at some point tanya morozova says something: natka, nadka, girls, look what's showing there on the ground, and skulkina and i go over to the porthole to wrap it up, and who's there, well, naturally, our little team, girls, girls, girls, take your seats, well, what are you starting, yes, yes, we sit down, so, we sat down, but it was, well, the first time, okay, a coincidence, yes, then we, well, we sit, we sit with smukin. we went to the back, we started to think about these went to the back.