such an irritating factor, probably, chiodaev will remain in our history. of course. it was a historical podcast russia and the west on the swings of history. with you were pyotr romanov and sergei solovyov. study history with us. you can watch all episodes of the podcast russia and the west on the swings of history on the channel one website. yes, larisa kuzeeva, this is let's get married. good afternoon. 42 years old, married close friends at the same time, gave birth to children almost synchronously, and after the divorce, without agreeing, tried on the status of mistresses. valentina, owner of an agricultural enterprise and

real estate expert, lives in the village of grushevskaya, rostov region, manages to cook, take care of pets and straighten her hair with an iron every day. zhanna is the owner of a permanent makeup studio, lives in novocherkassk, understands plumbing and electrics, is proud that she can stand on her head without support, dreams of quitting her job and living off her husband. zhanna and valentina hope that they will be doubly lucky on the program "let's get married". hello, hello, girls, hello, larisa, hello, rose, how do you like the girls? i think they are very sweet, beautiful, dark-haired, like us, girls, but we did not come to you empty -handed, this is dana, good health to you, girls, this is yours, thank you, and what is here, cold -smoked bream, yeah, thank you, homemade lard.

thank you, oh, dear, thank you very much, guys, come here, please, someone, take the basket, i assume that they are some kind of needlewomen, they can do something with their own hands, girls, tell me, please, are you not confusing yourselves, no, in the mirror woke up, do you think who am i today, zhanna or valentina, well it happens in a photograph, when we take a picture, we look like this, and i sit on which side of valentina, it happened, but you are somehow lighter, yes it seems to me, and did you also go to the same beautician, or what? well , lips there, well yes, practically the same, and who has breasts, and who has their own, no one has their own , so, so one, here you can get - into a trap, yeah, let's say, uh, confuse them, and imply that you communicate with one of them. it will be the other, you are such fun, no

overextended, at 42 you look wonderful, if you said that you are 28 years old, yes, we would say, yes, great, 28 years old, cosmetology works well now, well, still , age can not be hidden, tell me, since childhood, we tried not to be, so to speak, mom did not buy me the same sweater as valka, but wanted to look like each other or on different shores, of course to look like. until the age of, probably 15, we only dressed the same , the same, now i already see you are different, you are smaller, yes, yes, and who is older? i am 20 minutes, yeah, that's why you're more, you probably got more, and it's noticeable in life that you're older, zhanna, or valya, who 's older, valya, it's noticeable that you're under her patronage, your sister is not under you, no, on the contrary, i'm under her, yeah, yeah? since childhood, look, what kind of,

zhanna, yeah, they're just like us, they were born at different times, and so she was born, i'll notice, the one who was later, she's more active, it's the same with us, yeah, i have a calmer character, my brother 's is more explosive, a little bit like that, what are you saying about my brother, i'm sitting next to you, you who are you telling this to, and you are more explosive, who are you even telling this to, he has a brother , you, listen, they ask this question, when you already have boyfriends, and you... can you go to each other instead of there, although now no longer, i see that you are different, yes, hardly, no, well then we were the same, when the first time, if the guy did not see you once, then there could be situations, yes, i will also ask these stupid questions, and i went out on a date to her husband, so that, well, just well, i don’t know, to check him, how is he, how well does he know me, and was it all, or what?

with a friend, once at university we had an exam , well, i don’t know, by the way, we also changed each other, we took it for each other, yes-yes-yes, by the way, we passed it successfully, you even got an a, once at the airport we even changed passports, you got a ride, that’s when you had already definitely decided on your fiancés, that they knew exactly who they loved, yes, when you had already said yes, we were getting married, yes, they weren’t twins, they met at different times, well , our first companions were two friend, wake up, can you imagine, yes, and we wanted to get married, no, two friends, you are dating two friends and two sisters, yes, and who

appointed whom for themselves, as husbands or as wives, somehow they chose this very one, do you think history will repeat itself for them, is this acceptable? never liked, we have different tastes, despite the fact that we are twins, but did not listen to her liver because it is not necessary from heaven, which i do not like, and i tell you, no, did not influence her on her choice, well, it was like that, well, it was already at this age here my beloved brooch is soulful, not some kind of soulless piece of iron, tell me? please, have there ever been such cases in the world, because it is useless, i will smile the whole program now, they will only say all sorts of pleasant things, how they love each other, have there ever been such cases in the world, that twins became the most evil enemies for some reason, of course, it happened larisa, because twins,

you will be surprised, are also people, for example, one girl found out that her husband was cheating on her with her twin sister, how did she... unblock her phone, how did she unlock it by face, yeah, face, face, yeah, our face recognizes us, face unlocks us, oh well, we had that too, when we took each other's phones, changed by face id, his phone was unlocked by my face the other way around, judging by the fact that valentina's men were richer and more generous, judging by the dowries that she now has.

to be, so to speak, the only influential body, and such female and male jealousy exists, female male property, they are jealous of parents, of brothers and sisters, and you, who probably are not not even a single secret, so that you were not

aware of each other, how your husbands reacted to this, like don't take it out of the house, this is ours, let this remain between us, that you tell zhanka everything, no, well yes, the first husbands u... earns invests you have children the question is what is her principle in life she is kind of self-sufficient yours - this is hers, well, in the sense of sisterly, i would not say so, otherwise now all

the men, i mean all the grooms will be tense, it is just zhanka who lives by the principle, like that, let's say, this is an ant, this is here's a strikosa, why? that's why valyusha has declared one dowry, and zhanna has declared a mortgage, a cat, a child of rags. then i'll take valentina for myself, and you will provide for zhanna all her life. no, well , i'm not against it, in principle, we'll divide it like that. tell me, please, did they get divorced for different

reasons, or did one divorce the second, it seems, and i also don't have to live in magat anymore, well, i divorced my first husband 15 years ago, it turned out that well, an accident, but i got divorced, then he died, like, yes, a good man, looked after well, i don't care about anything i regret it because i have a son left. three-year-old zhana, why did you get divorced? your first marriage, well, i think it was a marriage of youth, yes, it seemed to me then that i loved this man, but no, we lived together for about six years, i have a daughter, my daughter is 25 this year, well, that is, you did not give birth synchronously, with a difference of two, a year, you have a boy, you have a girl, the difference, they look like each other, no, my wife, my daughter by... you can’t understand, who is on the right, who is on the left, where is zhana, where is valentina, i still don’t quite remember who is

who, we divorced, you can say, synchronously, we got divorced, we decided that we were tired, we are leaving with the kids, renting an apartment and living together, four of us, tell me, is it more your parents who have influenced you, or did you , so to speak, shape each other throughout your life, who do you listen to more, whose advice do you give each other? we left our parents and our parents left us, well, we don't listen to them, yes, we got married for 18 years and we just help our parents, they are great, they support each other, well, how else can it be, they are sisters, how else should it be, sometimes sisters can say i had a second marriage, you know, how can i say, i probably why do i talk about marriage not about... and what about those who

haven't had them - well, we are ashamed, right, can i say even a good girl can become bad, for example, my second husband, he worked in another city, left for a week, did not devote time to me, for a whole week he did not devote time. then of course it gets boring, it starts to get boring when the same thing, the second husband, yeah, who couldn't even peel his own balls, yes, poor thing every morning breakfasts, well, he was leaving for a week and i'll peel his eggs at home for a week , make sandwiches, and who had work, and he went on an operational mission. employee, no, no, of course , how are you, what kind of eggs to peel, yes, of course , their hands, their cold heart, mind, hot tea

, you need to mix it in the evening if anything, sugar, kefir , or something, well, regular tea, no sugar , it will warm up in the microwave, well, that's how you spoiled him, yes, maybe, and i, well, that's how it was because i liked it, yes, maybe, and i thought that we three women in the house were ideal, ideal, ideal, of course, valyush, why did you need to get rid of one lover, to get another lover, this is some kind of original scheme, rose, it turned out that i was dating a man who was married - we dated for 12 years, i

kept hoping, waiting all the time, that something would work out with him, our first children were adults, that he had a son, i had a son, well, like any woman, i hoped that he would still live with me, we were planning on having a second child with him, a joint child, yes, then he kind of came to visit me, i said, well honey... and so i have like a woman's thing , well, a delay, and he says: i've had enough of one pregnant woman, well, i realized that his wife was pregnant with a second child, yes.

and what was the lover for? a second lover, i decided, went to rostov, the best sports club there, i met there, well , i chose a handsome, pumped-up trainer for myself, i say to him, so and so, today we are going to the hotel with you, and i was standing at the location of my lover, and we came to the hotel with my trainer, i say, now in 20 minutes i there will be a call because i'm pro... or by location, that i'm in the hotel, a call from my man, i don't pick up the phone, the second one doesn't pick up the phone, it takes him half an hour to get to me , he drives up to the hotel, we get out, get in the car, but i let them, well, understand to him that i have another person, because you paid this trainer, no, you didn't pay anything, it's just like friendly, friendly, no, there was no sex, we agreed,

listen, and they are so... they have rich imaginations too, look, well, yes, it's interesting, very a quiet life, as i understand it, is not for them, yes, that is, as if something should be, after that he asked me, pack your things, i'm leaving, so, but he gave you such an old age, mom is not a bad person, you bought a plot of land, several, transferred several to mom, sold the land for an airport, bought an apartment, a car, that is, well, not at a loss, yes, he is very smart, a very good man, so thank him, combine, valentina, by the way, she will be richer than any man, she has fields there, and her own, as they say, there something land to the airport, there are combines, a tractor and what she wants for you, no, well, in principle, on the one hand, it's certainly cool when a girl is well-off and can

afford a lot, but still, it seems to me, a woman should be for a man, that is , a man after all. that's what i'm saying, against her background it will be more difficult to do, let's say, for a man, she will just like that, just twist you, twist and twist, girls, tell me, please, when were you in a relationship with a lover, having children, with that on the other hand, it didn't bother you at all, no, it bothered me, my boyfriend and i went to kislovodsk, to a sanatorium, she had just given birth to a daughter. my wife calls, there's a phone on the side, my daughter is crying, naturally, i can't find a place for myself, because my daughter can't fall asleep without her father, since i raised my son myself, i came to the sanatorium, i say, my dear darling, let's end this relationship, that's what pushed me,

because i have such, how can i say, a defist, that i don't have my happiness for the misfortune of another build. zhanna, weren't you embarrassed by the presence, no, my man had two children, two twins, but they didn't live with him, they lived separately, they were raised by his mother, and to me, what was she strict, he didn't see my daughter, the youngest next to him, the girls have children, this is the opposite, a worthy woman, they have become women, so you just need to accept all this, and well, you need to establish communication, when he ... suggested that - soon a house will be built and we will live together, your child will go to her father, her dad will buy her a house and take her, and i thought for myself, did conclusions, well, and didn't ask him the question, for what reason, you know, and loving me, that i have a daughter, didn't ask the question, well, i kind of

carefully asked, what is it really , well, how will my daughter interfere? well, if mine aren't here, how can yours be nearby? yes, he wasn't going to marry her, they just meet in this house, so what kind of children are there for lovemaking, it wasn't very beautifully described at all, how we get up in the morning, how we eat, walk, rest, that is, and about my child there, and common children were included in this egoist's plans, so he doesn't want children together, that is, you realized that he needs you. yes, you need to strive to have a child together, it goes without saying, a child together, of course, if you are creating a family, a child together is... and i have a question, you will become a grandmother in a month, you in general, and how do you

feel about the fact that well, let them call you a grandmother, of course, yes, yes, yes, and what does it feel, although it is difficult now, oh, i only have happiness, well, i don't know, i myself.

that's why i need valka, who is already well, as if by her own standards she lived her life, and now she wants me or someone else, well , to cover her back, like growing old together, all that, but a man is different, you understand, yes, age goes, for them old age is pushed back by 40 years from you, the most interesting thing is that valentina will immediately make her future husband a grandfather , of course you can get an interesting experience. out of nowhere, he became a grandfather, it's a pity he'll still light up, that's why i want it this way, why do you need a husband, well , for the soul, zhanochka just needs such

a crazy man, she probably didn't have enough in her life, you have children, grandchildren will be coming soon, why, well, this is crazy in terms of reasonableness, the same as me , so that it would be interesting for me with a man, you can’t argue with you, darling, because you will shut up everything...

so, so i work in agriculture, at the same time in real estate, i would like to be a farmer, this is just yours, damn, that ’s it, are we changing or what, no, and you have zhanna, and i have valentina, yeah, i’m studying in graduate school, this is my second higher education, and i can’t take my sister on bail, girls, and the last question, do you want more children, well, if everything works out like this. no need, valya doesn't want it, but zhanna does, well, it's clear why zhanna wants it, i want it, okay, girls, i really want you to leave today satisfied and happy, so that the smile doesn't disappear from your

beautiful faces, so maybe we'll get to know each other, let's see, it's interesting , we'll even have to fight, who gets it, which one of them, let's fight, what can we do, maybe scissors on the stone, yeah, like that, come on, who, who zhanna, who, who valentina, come on? wow, hi, girls, my name is andrey,

my name is sergey, maybe the other way around. let's go, we'll get to know each other, we'll get to know each other with pleasure. andrey sergey, 38 years old, entrepreneurs live in saratov, they like to go hunting, to the bathhouse in karaok, they dream of moving to live outside the city, they warn that they share secrets with each other, they admit that one of them already participated in the program "let's get married" 10 years ago, they hope that this time they will hit the jackpot twice. hello! twins, we just didn't need them, this is already a blow to the gut, andrey, you were with us 10 years ago, yes, i was, then, you have such love and respect for us and trust that you came after 10 years, once again, well, in our previous relationships it didn’t work out, listen, these are experienced guys,

look, they already know all the nuances. then it turned out that the girl at 18 already had such a portfolio, well, as it turned out, and despite her wild past, you still wanted to marry her, well, yes, i think that it was yes before me, so this is a new relationship, that is, everything that was before me basically didn’t interest me at that moment, because i fell in love very much, and how once the winter before last we were supposed to get married, i had already bought a wedding dress, that is, and you bought her a dress, well, it's a bad omen, the groom shouldn't see this dress, guys, do you always dress the same or?

is it just for our program, no, we very rarely dress the same, we, well , we very often actually even have the same taste, that is, if we buy different things, but they, you depend on each other, yes, how much time do you spend together, well, several times a week, and the russian woman is so young, and what have i gotten old or something, that straight have you really gotten old? well , everything started flowing for me too, you see, and gravity, no one has cancelled it, was one time not enough for him, or what, he decided to try the wheel of fortune again, guys, listen, andryusha, last time you left us with your fiancée, yes, we left with our fiancée, but after the show we talked to her backstage and realized that we weren’t quite right for each other, that it didn’t go well, that we didn’t like it, that it was tense, and

she needed, like, you know, a rocker, she, well, i don’t know, can i say or no, she, while we were singing there with my brother and so on, she somehow did everything like some kind of collective farmer, although she kind of said that she was from moscow, but from the outside it was as if she came from a collective farm, something like that in us collective farmers, no, that's good, but it seemed to me that if she presents herself as such a muscovite, aristocratic, everything in that spirit, and at the same time somehow such habits, as if they say you can't be from the village... you weren't married, no, and you don't have children, but for 10 years you were with someone, well, of course i was relationship, serious relationship, actually we dated a girl for 3 years,

we met on a dating site, it turned out that after 3 years i was given a tough ultimatum, and actually either we get married or break up, that's it andrey, well , you invested so well in her, you helped her with her business, and built it and did a lot for her, but i wanted to try, that is , i always think that a man should try to do something, well, of course, when you got married, well, 3 years wasn't enough for you, you can't give an ultimatum or a wedding or are we breaking up? if some kind of blackmail is already starting, i think that it has no future, well , naturally, to drive a person, this already excludes some kind of future, and before me she was married twice, no matter how i told me so, she told me so, i want there in the passport a third time, like, but i was wary that, that with the last husband they lived, let's say, very little, that is , literally a few months, yeah, and i

thought, since i deal with real estate. well, like she decided to squeeze it out of you, yes, she kind of wants, probably because she had to, they are legion to them, they all want to squeeze, want a half, as they say, honestly you have to take it, here is sergey. she did not let him, i persuaded her, i say, let my brother come with me, so to speak, she may, perhaps, was overly jealous at that time she was pregnant, i have a son, his name is nikita sergeyevich. he will soon be 9 years old, they are already visible with age that they have changed, they, well, their actions are more conscious, they are now more ready, as it were, of course, for family life, there are relationships build, i think so, sergey, well she punished you somehow,

treated you badly in general, you there, tell me how you slept, first on the couch, then on the cot, well it was like that, since a small child, we, uh, at that time lived in a fairly large apartment, but the child. slept with mom, i slept in another room on the couch, that in the morning to work - since i worked a lot, i could arrive late, and during the day and at lunchtime, like, that is, in different ways, the child did not sleep in the crib, no, he was still too small, she didn't want him to sleep yet, she would sleep in the crib to crush him there, well, in general, she said that maybe i could crush him, so i slept on the couch, then the couch broke, unfortunately, it turned out that i slept on the floor for some time. in this case, a man takes on some more responsibility than a woman , right on himself, and if you need to sleep on the rug, if you need to sleep on the rug for some time, then you can sleep on the rug, well, and over time , we just somehow became a little distant

live in different apartments then they all went to the mat and left and made a serious decision to separate, that is, well, yes, if at this age there is no intimate life, then of course this is not life. do you maintain a relationship with the child now? yes, of course, that is , my ex-wife and i are in a fairly normal relationship, but in particular regarding the child, are you not embarrassed by the age difference with the brides, 4 years, once and it is practically impossible for you to have children, the first, the second, well, let's not hide it, after all, age is age, well, i already have there is a child, look, let's do it this way, they look 25 maximum, so i think.

such a habit there, you know, there are children, you can't walk around naked, we decide everything, and also which of you is right-handed, which of you is left-handed, right-handed, left-handed, yeah, i'm left-handed, right-handed, even so, listen, it's so simple, well , amazing, do lice say talented people, amazing, and right-handed people, what do you mean talented, by the way, i forgot to ask this, i'm older, my brother is 10 minutes older, but i...

dependence, codependency, and you share everything, and women don't really like that, when, although they themselves admit the same thing, that is, they will be together, they will share with each other, but husbands should belong to them right here, well, it seems to me, everyone shares, that is, we, for example, are the closest people to each other, we don’t have any secrets from each other, girls still distinguish a little, there is some difference, well, on closer examination they even differ a little, they differ.