this is the baden baden podcast and i am its host, konstantin severinov. today we are talking about pediatrics, and we are discussing this very important topic with andrei alekseevich stepanov, the chief specialist in pediatrics of the presidential property management department of the russian federation. i see several useful, it seems to me, lessons, that is, we need to stick to it. and genetic tests do not need to be done yet, because you will not find anything. according to the doctor's indications, then povizm is still necessary and can be useful, and i apologize, i will interrupt, in the maternity hospital they take certain screenings, that is , they take blood on a special test paper, send it to a special center, where they perform, among other things, a genetic analysis for the maximum amount, and this is just a medical service, you don’t look anyone in the eye, they just give you some kind of table, here... in general

, this is done for everyone, it’s like any screening, yes, you understand, that is, when the coverage is maximum, if suddenly there is some deviation, then they call the patient, look him in the eye, either for a repeat analysis, or already they start to study more in-depth, vaccine, genetics, and umbilical cord blood, rather yes, if it is possible and maybe it would even be worth expanding someday, well, in the end, yes, well, and in this way we...

create better conditions for them in the future so that they can already go their own way. a person has a fairly strong desire for self-development, right? if we are talking about early development, there are also a lot of myths and legends here, that is, in front of a newborn there are almost theatrical scenes from king lear so that he is more intellectually developed we are preparing for university, well fortunately the child. there is

a certain structure in the brain, the so -called reticular formation, which simply filters out all the excessive potentials, what does this mean in russian, it means, for example, that a newborn child can wake up from the mother's voice, quiet, gentle, which is addressed to her, at the same time, if a cannon fire occurs, he will not wake up, because this structure will cut off all the excessive impulses, and the child passes.

for a child - this is a focus on some contrasting images, on the mother's face and all newborns were conducted studies, again, distinguish, well , in fact, schematic images of a human face, the so-called emoticons, yes, that is, smiles, there are dissatisfied facial expressions, this is what they understand, they react to this vegetatively, and in fact , everything in a child is aimed precisely at survival, therefore ...

the smallest newborn can move a little on the mother's chest in order to reach the source accordingly milk by and large. the child develops as it should, not speed up, well, unfortunately, slow down, if some disease has occurred, it is possible, but it is necessary to force it and so that, like the hero in the fairy tale, he went through all the stages in a year and became three , so ilya muromets, 33 years old, on the contrary, he was lying on the stove, by the way, well, yes, but there are those who did not have time to be born, immediately the next year they went to get married, there are also a lot of such fairy tales. so everything coincides, the child's motor abilities, for example, when he begins to crawl, it is in at this point he begins to be afraid and distinguish strangers, because before he began to crawl, there was no point in being afraid, because it is impossible to run away anyway, therefore everything

is physiologically justified, well, if everything is fine in this best of all possible worlds, then nothing needs to be done, that is, it really is itself, well, the evolution of nature, by whom... it is well laid down so that we all go through a common path of development, but the results are still different, because different people get, you understand, specially theatrical performances, maybe there is no point, with a child you need to communicate, you need to talk to the child, you need to play the right music for the child, classical music has a beneficial effect on cognitive abilities, on interneuronal connections, this is all completely proven, there is a separate...

some kind of monotonous noise, low-frequency, there is an exhaust fan, a vacuum cleaner, turn on the water, maybe the father's voice, by the way, there were also studies that if, for example, the child is turned on, a man's voice has a more calming effect on a newborn child, that is, low tones, but nevertheless, if we talk there about the noise of a waterfall, the so-called white noise, yes, all mothers know about this concept, so in this way...

exactly what we started with, when you said that there are too many sites with different information, there are probably recipes right yes, what you need to listen to, of course, you can combine that you need to listen to classical music, modern, personally i would not play it for my children when they were little and i have a granddaughter, so i tried not to play modern repertoire for her, the problem is that when they grow up and become teenagers, they still start listening to it, well if it's a problem, they make their choice later, i think. that already at least a more developed brain, more, at least, well it continues to develop, it continues to develop all life, but at least at that rebellious stage, probably, it's just normal, so that later they return

to the classical repertoire at a more mature age and torment their children, well in this just, here and here are pediatric recommendations will change, we will all be in so. wonderful, thank you very much, i we obviously that the topic is very big, it suddenly occurred to me that after all, a very important thing is actually artificial feeding, but i'm afraid we won't be able to talk about it now, when you were talking, it's very interesting about the fact that the child focuses on the mother, that in his first months he lives in order to, well, how to get milk from the mother, but after all, after all, when we transfer him to artificial feeding, it's completely different it turns out to be a clinker, but you are right, konstantin, because... that any branch of pediatrics is like a separate universe, we can talk about this for a very long time, and if you think of some kind of series of programs about certain subsections, i think that you and i will be able to cover it, if you see in

this, it seems to me that this is precisely the mission, yes, because after all, information, if you need doctors who can be trusted, then you need to see these doctors and talk to them and hear them, otherwise. you will listen to something another, because a holy place is never empty, yes absolutely right, therefore it would be wonderful, thank you very much, thank you, this is the baden baden podcast, today we talked about prodiatr. and our bride is polina. polina, 33, due to pathological fatigue at work, could not

pay due attention to her husband, so she herself suggested that he get a woman for his soul and body, but soon regretted it greatly. polina, a specialist in labor protection and industrial safety of a construction company, lives in moscow, is proud of her noble origin and successful rhinoplasty, dreams of going on maternity leave, admits that due to increased anxiety, they always carry a rubik's cube with them. polina will not be able to build a harmonious relationship with a gynecologist, a pathologist, or an overweight person. the man of her dreams must succeed in his career, love animals, have such a wild imagination as to shock her with a surprise on the program. let's get married. hello, girls, glad to see you. hello, i like an extraordinary girl. if you love, no, it's a tongue. i have

there are many options in which situation you can offer a man to find himself another woman to be married to for body and soul, but only one of them is true, and i just know this for sure, when you don’t love, no, not really, well if you love, no, it’s hard to say, it means we have different ideas. about love, the thing is that i’m a techie, i approach problems from a technical point of view, not from a spiritual one, let me cut the cake now, so that maybe it’s not for us, it’s for you, it’s for you, of course it’s for you, we’ll talk, well, the story is of course specific, but interesting, unusual, extraordinary, i would tell you, and what a techie, answer, so, when... my dad got sick, actually, it all started with this, expensive treatment was needed, i went to additional work, in this

cycle of affairs, cycle of tasks, you forget about your personal life, it happened that i came home, fell, forgot that i had dinner, that i went to the shower there, and my husband is a foreigner, very temperamental, he is hungarian, and he needed increased attention, and i could not pay due attention, when he voiced his problem, he did not want to cheat, we had... a good relationship, very good, he came to me, brought his problem, and i just as a technical person, they brought me a problem, i'm looking for a solution, i understand that i can't cope on my own, so it needs to be given away, look, he's a puppy, when he's not smart, he pees on the carpet when he wants to, even a little more, well , so to speak, well, adult dogs already ask, he's not a puppy who just wanted to, and he took this and did this. in the middle of the carpet, well, that's what i came to later, you know, he's a person, people have

couples have all sorts of situations, and it happens that for years, well, you have to, if you love, i say again, find some kind of option that would not be offensive to anyone in the couple, well, that's why, when i suggested this option, and the man, he immediately picked it up, and he was surprised, but there was no refusal, that is, he said, well, in principle, why not, if you really... don't mind, yes, this is all about me, it was a difficult situation, well, what to do, and this is how it was, let's say, he was persuading you to fulfill this very duty, and you said: listen, i beg you, i just can't, my father is dying, i just can't, i just can't do it, you better find someone else for this time, can't you see how busy i am, this is one situation when you, as a techie, have thought everything through, i want to talk to you, do you want to go for a walk or make love now, you know, when you give him a choice, how was it, in what situation, you

know, sometimes i even got so tired that i came home and went to bed, the man says in the morning: do you know what you had everything, but i don't know, i don't remember, zhenya, are you aware that you have not two competitors today, three, her ex-husband came to the program today, you would know this, no, what do you think about this topic, well, i think, given what kind of relationship they had, given that he didn't even help, right? time of course, but we stayed with friends, he leads, no, wait a second, at that moment when... he was offered this, when i offered him, no, you know, no, i loved, i was sure that he wouldn't do it to the end, that he would hear my notes, my hints, when it went to the level of jokes, when i'm driving home from work, i ask someone to meet me or ask them to buy me something in a store, and the person says: well, i 'll stop by at the same time, well, to calm down, to relieve stress, it's like a joke, a joke, and then in some

please, did he love you, what do you think? yes, very much, yes, just an infantile character. no, it's not infantile, but he's an animal that has no brains, and he behaves like this, like a dog, sick, a healthy one doesn't behave like that , a psychologist explained to me that it's just infantilism, because the person is over 40, and the person does not see that he is tired, now psychologists explain everything in a different direction, no, you see, today - you can't call meanness meanness, because they are looking for some other options, so that -

that, as far as i understand, only one option was discussed, for him to go and relax to the left, and you were interested in who these women were, were they one-time or did they appear constantly, you know, one time was enough for me, let's say, that's why i got divorced immediately as soon as i found out that this happened, that's it, that's how it is for me it was taken away by hand, that is, one time was enough for you, when he confessed, and he didn’t tell you pauline, well, you yourself told me, of course, of course, you told me, it’s like a small child, whose finger i want to stick in the stove, and you say: well, stick it in, but then there will be burns, but they don’t hear you after, but stick it in, so they allowed it, that’s it, i confess i’m a little confused, that is, she herself suggested that he date another girl, she herself then dumped him when he did it, well, yes, but the point was that she didn’t actually suggest it to him, it’s was - a sign of protest, tell me, didn't crawl,

didn't, you say, i was joking, well , somehow justify myself, cried, but here's the truth, as if it was taken off by hand, simply, but he told you, you yourself allowed me, he told, of course, and my attempts to explain, he didn't understand, he simply didn't understand, i say, well yes, but you and i have been together for so many years, haven't you really counted my actions, my views, movements, ideally, how would you have seen this situation over the course of these six months, these six months, ideally, if you rewind everything back, you wouldn't say this idiotic phrase, although you want to be honest, this phrase.

now this is already hot, of course, yeah, to unload me, so that you yourself start to get more tired, maybe you should have started with this, the intensity of emotions, it's difficult, says everything factually, she's big, well done, smart, i thought he was the richest man, a count who came, built you a castle, no, he worked for himself, flexible schedule, you choose yourself, and this happened here or in russia, in russia, yes, in moscow, that is, he didn't work himself to death, no, no, no, flexible schedule, his own clients.

he brought in money, maybe he worked little, but he brought in more than enough money, and there was no point in him working, then i had to spend money on dad's treatment, no, well , you have to figure that out yourself, dumped my husband , says: go find yourself a girl, what mercy, what mercy, it seems to me, this is some kind of nonsense, what kind of budget did you have, joint, we had a separate budget and i insisted, that's it, as they say, this is what you want, i had a reversed contract, i also... oh, by the way, the marriage, and what about the marriage contract, why did you want to insure yourself if he is poor, took out a mortgage, bought a car, therefore, well, for me this is generally a mandatory condition, that is, before marriage, yeah.

no need to talk, squat, our formidable house manager, now also a gym teacher, any roads, roads, see you soon, look, you'll look. i did everything i wanted, thank you very much,

but we walked all night until the morning, yes, that 's fantastic. tomorrow on the first. what dance do you have? the traffic cop stopped the general's car and he was punished. nadezhda kadysheva had a terrible dream. ugh, i thought i forgot. kvn. summer cup on the last day of summer on the first. i 'm already ashamed of you in front of the jury. yeah,

don't worry, i'll sort everything out with the jury. i brought a gift for ekaterina mizulina, a shell. and who are you going to surprise with a shell? you hear, by the way, ovechkin himself played in it. and why do you need it then? i don't understand at all, i just fell in love at 27, just a handsome boy in hungary in a big beautiful car with an apartment, a marriage contract, i'm on my own, so here is alphonse, as i understand it, he didn't support, he supported himself, he doesn't attract you to him, he doesn't, no, well and just when you start earning more than a man, it's difficult, it's difficult to respect a person, some such moments, we loved each other very much for a very long time, and separated for objective reasons, for what?

grandfather worked as a rocket designer at a secret box, so at that time he already had a three-room apartment and there was an opportunity to divide the rooms, so why are you marrying poor people, marry rich people, you have this is because no, and you understand what wealth is. i don't quite understand then, here, excuse me, first of all, you won't marry a man whose salary is less than yours, yes, ah, you have the right, i 'm just for being more specific, we're sitting on the shore, you look, all your fantasies, all your desires should be voiced here, this is called before it's too late, when grooms and brides want to seem better, when they sit , fidget and huddle, and then come to us for the second time, because it turns out negligent housewife. and he is greedy, you did not agree on upbringing, it seems there are three illegitimate children, you understand, that is why today all these uncomfortable questions need to be voiced, i agree, the girl is thoughtful, i will say so, yes.

this is yours, the marriage contract, because we have a car, an apartment, a village as a dowry, as i understand it, will also be separate, yours - chickens, with mom, with four cats, for some reason everything is separated by commas, chickens, mom, cats, a dog, and his budget, how will we distribute it,

the man pays in the restaurant, well, he treats, yeah, and this one, you did rhinoplasty, and let's see what was before, by the way, i like this one more, and also my, but with a good one, i really like it, well, if a child is born with such a nose, and you also do rhinoplasty on him, i think he will decide for himself when he grows up, this is you and your husband, yes, and urinoplasty was before meeting your husband, after, after the divorce already, who paid for it,

before rhinoplasty she even had some kind of zest, and i can't say that it spoiled her somehow, in my opinion, both before and after, outwardly a beautiful woman. mendelsonchik, tell me, please, is there a factor of divorce for such a reason? in fact, there is, in world practice 2.5% of divorces occur because of plastic surgeries, for example, in russia there was an interesting case.

a difficult question, while i answer, i will think about specific examples, just knowing polina for many years, i see how open she is, how much strength, energy of love she gives to other people, to everyone around her, very often forgets about herself, therefore, first of all, looking at candidates, i will try to feel that this person was ready not only to invest in her...

money, love, energy, but also to cover what she gives to people, you need to fulfill her wishes, wait, there are two more candidates sitting there, well, we have to be the best, i didn't quite understand about other people now, i 'll open it up to you now, look, so she's a requirement for suitors, a boring slow dance or a pie prepared by the groom, will be considered as a desire not to bother too much, and you expect. some kind of cringe, interesting, preparatory surprise by the groom, this is a prepared groom surprise, what do you mean, at least give us a hint, well, i was just watching, what does that mean, i was watching your show, i'll tell you honestly, yes, when i see that - the groom comes out and just dances a slow dance, well, he just didn't want to bother with anything in particular, he just wanted to come here, just look at the bride, i want the person to really approach with soul, to want to do

something to surprise. so that the person wanted to do something nice, but cringe - this means, as far as i know, shameless, which evokes a feeling awkwardness, maybe i don't have a good command of youth slang, so no, i meant. surprise, look, there are very good people who have zero imagination in the sense of surprising, i'm not a bad person, but i have zero imagination, i don't know, how does that mean i'll be bored, i know about it in advance, so why, no need, this is not necessary, the surprise that we prepared for her, of course, i think it will be amazingly interesting to watch, well, evgenia, we must not forget that we still need to somehow earn you to be able to, polina, and what about your future? i am faithful, i am independent, i am loving. well , that's already enough, and you want children, that 's already a lot, okay, let's get acquainted, who do you recommend, then, i don't recommend anyone, why, because as a matchmaker i don't have

criteria for imagining what kind of man is needed, after all, i would also like to talk about love, although i am more in the material sense, now i will act for the grooms as a kind of lawyer in general. well, accordingly, discussing the points of the marriage contract, so what is here advise, i will look after the interests of the groom more, because you, polinochka, from my point of view, as a bride have nothing to offer, to each his own, look, polina, we do not like effeminate men, is it true, yes, and men do not like masculine women, men make us like that, no, it is not true, it is we who make ourselves like that, you yourselves... took and you cannot swallow as much as you put in your mouth, so you have decided who you are, what you are for, why you, why do you need a husband? breakfast brought, conjugal duty fulfilled, went on vacation, yeah, plan fulfilled, tick, that's it, we'll move on,

you had no music at all, no music at all . i don't believe it, everything is in voices, i like to command, you're the commander, yeah, who 's older, who's younger, i'm older and i'm younger, that is, you're the elder, and the younger one commands, this is the biggest shark that ever existed on the planet, i think you won't be very pleased if you have a life at home, a shark with transparent skin, whose eye sockets fall out under strong pressure, forgot, what did you want to say, yes, martin, of course you have no chance, you have to become a star, oh yeah, better than everyone, the premiere, on saturday on

the first, blossomed, i am a bunch of toys, fogs floated over the river, let them run, clumsily already writing. from september 6 on the first, you are an adult, you are 33

years old, that is, there should be moderation and appropriateness in everything, and dear little medellson, tell me please, do the grooms even have a chance today to impress polina. yes, i look at what is happening in the rooms and see how the grooms throw out pies, cooked borscht, cancel their waltzes with polonaises, intensively study chistushki in latin, swallow swords together with the stabbing ones, swing, apply tattoos with the image of polina and train spectacle kobars, there will be cringe, hype, rock and roll, everything as you like, we take, we take, we take. sufficient cringe is of course wonderful and good, it is always fun, and about surprises, well, at 20 years old a surprise should always be romantic, flowers, some sudden appearances, and under the window, a serenade, something else, here is a crust

just need to be sure of the dry de...