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her words, by her eyes, by her voice, her image on your heart, we... this was a podcast 20 years later, dedicated to the holiday of knowledge on september 1, well we wish everyone to study well, be good or bad, but talented, podcast 20 years later, with you were alexander anatolyevich and konstantin mikhailov, all the best. hello, this is the podcast ask surkova, and i am larisa surkova, a psychologist and mother of seven children. in this studio we discuss the most

pressing problems for absolutely every parent. anna, i am very glad that you came, i want to agree with you right away that this is not a classic psychological consultation, that is, here i can give you both... some advice, recommendations, and most importantly, using your example, to help a lot of viewers, for whom, i'm sure, your topic, your question will also be relevant, tell us, what did you come with? hello, larisa, i have such, probably, a completely non-standard situation: my child, he has parental control on his phone, eh, we do not allow him to play for a long time only an hour a day, and then, if he does his homework, he also takes his mobile phone to school, but how old is the child, he is 10 years old, but at school. almost no one has this parental control, everyone plays during breaks, everyone plays during after-school programs, everyone is on their phones, but he can't do this, so since the third grade, he's in the fourth grade now, we have constant disagreements, constant arguments, to the point of screaming, to hysterics, mom, why are you forbidding me, everyone

has everything, but i have one hour, it's not fair, it's unfair, we talked and discussed everything, that it's bad for your health and in general you shouldn't be on your phone at school, but still... we have this and his main the argument is that everyone doesn't have a real troll, i have one, and how to convey to a child that we don't want to harm him, on the contrary, but want to bring benefit to his life, i don't even know anymore, in what way your situation is not quite standard, in what way it is non-standard in parental control, in parental control, because i don't communicate with anyone, with mothers, and at school there with others, with parents and in general in different ones, because my child also plays sports. control, so sometimes i feel like i'm the only one like that a malicious mother who is really vigilant about her child, what's wrong with him playing games for 3 hours, for example, but i don't want that, i don't want my child to be dependent, i don't want to cause him psychological trauma, like

everyone else can, but you can't, even though he's a good student, that is, on the other hand, you can allow him for his diligent studies, for his athletic achievements. but no, we have a strictly regulated hour, everything, and what does he do on the phone, what does he do there? he plays games, of course, but the main request, as i understand it, is that he wants to be like everyone else, or not, right? he wants to have no parental control, to have access to his phone from morning to evening and that's it, and so that when he plays on his phone for more than an hour, he should send me a request so that i allow him to play for 15 minutes or some other amount of time, and accordingly, if he plays now, i say, no, dear, you won't play anymore, this makes him angry, it makes him angry that he interrupted when he plays, he doesn't keep track of time, and he is carried away in the game. you have such an interesting school, where the use of gadgets is allowed, because

now in principle the adopted law at the federal level is quite strict, but you allow it, we don't allow it, before classes children must, if they come with a phone, hand over the phone to the teacher, and after classes the teacher has the right to give it to him, he goes to after-school, he no longer hands over the phone, that's it that's why sometimes they of course are all cunning and i know this and like well... the child comes, the teacher tells him: come on, hand over your phone, i don't have a phone, she won't put it in her backpack, and he starts playing with his phone from the shoulder straps, because this is what the child tells me, after school , accordingly, everyone gets a phone, and why not do homework in after-school care, because he doesn't just go, they play with their phone, and they , anya, you said that you explained everything to him, harm, dependence, in what words, what did you tell him, and what useful things did you say in you learn about this game for yourself, yeah. you don't get anything necessary for life in this game, you just degrade your collar, and

burn a certain amount of time, that's it, you won't go anywhere from this, not only that, you also start to approach everything very aggressively, that is, you play, you don't always succeed, and you start to be very negatively emotional towards your loved ones, towards those around you, then we also had such a situation that we sometimes allowed him on weekends.

he was so good then already from the third grade, when these games started on fridays, it got to the point that he would sleepwalk, that is, he wouldn’t play there for 5-6 hours, no, he would sometimes play there for 2 hours, yes, we would allow him, but no more, anyway, at night he would either get excited. with his teeth, or sleepwalk, it really scared me, then i felt like he was becoming, you know, a little aggressive, so i said: maxim, you see that even in terms of health, well, you’re kind of addicted to these games, you ’re becoming emotional, he seems to be, yes, i say, then look, maxim, you’re constantly that's how it is on the phone, you ruin your eyes, i say, you want to wear glasses, yes, he is like that, i don't want to, i say, but you lead to the fact that you will. glasses, you look at other children, what they are playing, but you don't know how their

life will turn out in the future, maybe they will ruin their eyes so much that they simply won't be able to walk without glasses, and he is like, well, yes, yes, tanya, wait, lost the logical chain, your child, you gave him a phone, happened, happened a deterioration, obvious, yes, sleepwalking appeared, tension appeared in the form of bruxism, the fact that the child clenches his teeth very tightly, we hear a creak, that is, you saw a sharp deterioration, right? well, the phone did not disappear from life, did not disappear from life, because to deprive him of a phone in general, we did that too, he becomes angry at us, that we deprive him of some pleasure for how long does he become angry, for how long did you last, let me ask the question, for a week, yeah, i understand, well, naturally, yes, you did not hold him back, he seemed to constantly come up to him, said, well, mom, i got an a, well, please, well, it seems like the child really he tries, he learns. i would gladly deprive him of all games, because i don't see any useful basis in

these games on this phone, but well, i would decide, but i can't, because everything is like he becomes a black sheep, everything is clear, we return to the same beautiful word everything, let's then figure it out from what i've already heard, i will tell you, and you will change roles, and you will ask questions, the first most interesting thing. such a mistake, well, i will call a spade a spade, because it is really a mistake that most parents probably face, children, they are absolutely brilliant, smart, they are strategists, they... know everything about us , they know our weak points very well, what can be put pressure on. your maxim, the first 2 years, carefully studying your attitude to study, to his achievements, understood that it is important for you, it brings you joy, it is normal, all parents like it when their child is successful, when he studies well, but he is in the third grade so, here is a trump card for you,

says, mother, my studies are good or phone, mother, not money, but the gadget in this case also came out on the scene as a method of payment, a method of compensation, labor costs, successes, skills that the child gives us in the form of his good studies, a very big, of course, such a failure, a very big mistake happened at the moment when you saw health problems, this is what complex specialists are already afraid of, it is clear that we

live in a time when you can’t give up gadgets, of course, sleepwalking is one of the most common pro... it’s not only yours it happened, it's a scream, it's such a bell, it knocks and says: oh, the nervous system can't cope with the load, of course, the first thing you can do in such a situation, but you 've already lived through it, somehow, now we'll figure it out, as for those who are watching, if you understand that this is the only problem that the child has, then we reduce the time , we transfer everything to the first half of the day, because when a child plays gadgets or watches, it is not necessary to play. someone communicates in chats, just uses a phone, a tablet in the evening, his nervous system is very active, it absorbs everything, the brain absorbs everything, some events happen there, he has shot enough, time is up, he turns it off, closes his eyes, and his brain continues to shoot, because these 2 hours before sleep are generally a critical time for a child's psyche, everything that they

have absorbed there, they digest at night, and of course, the nervous system screams, i am so... awake, i can't stop, i have already erased the entire line between virtual life and real life, he shot in the virtual one, but left with this in the literal sense, left with his eyes closed at night to continue playing this game of his already in real life, it is dangerous, it is a dangerous signal, of course, you went the right way, tried to ban, did not withstand even an elementary time, because of course in order to form the necessary habit, you need time to... without a gadget - this is the first, secondly, you need parental time, because when we deprive a person of a tablet, deprive him of the internet, deprive him of a game, we must give him something in return, this is is also often a weak link for parents, because you need to spend your efforts, you need to think of something to captivate, you need to give some kind of emotional joy, emotional reinforcement, this also requires strength, but

somehow we have already experienced it, apparently we have reduced the time, if i understand correctly, well, when we did not give him a phone we... we played board games all the time in the evenings, the weather was good, we went out there, played football with the child, there was a hoop, basketball, rode bicycles, that's why, as it were, probably a plus of that, what else he has there other activities began - he didn't seem to have time for gadgets and he didn't ask for it himself, but after a while anyway - everything is fine, everything is fine op, can i go after a while, when it gets boring, apparently, there is free time. to the football field in the yard and look how many children there are, i don't know, they are all sitting on their phones instead of playing football and i understand that mine is also one like that , first he looked there once, he looked there once , but no one is playing with him, it seems, and well, i

stand there from afar watching all this, it seems he says about the guys, let's play, they are now now now now, all on their phones. i understand that it probably bothers him too, it's unpleasant for him too, on the one hand, i don't want to give him a phone so that they can all sit on the football field and play, on the other hand, i don't know, it turns out that i'm somehow limiting him , or something, that is, i'm singling him out, that he may not be worthy of this phone, although he is worthy, this is the line that may exist, well, yes, i understand that this is my mistake somewhere, but here i still don't know how to balance this, so that it would be easier for me. so that he would understand, it would be more convenient for me, it would be more convenient for me that a phone is bad, and he would not take it anymore, well, of course, he himself will not understand, he is too young for this, it is very sad that... in principle, the phone as such entered his life so early, this is 10 years - it is still early, this is the thought that absolutely all specialists come to now, that this is very early, at this age it is easy to form

an addiction, and you said at the beginning such the phrase that we only give it for an hour a day because we don’t want him to develop an addiction, unfortunately, everything you say next tells us that the addiction has formed anyway, it doesn’t care what the time is, 5 minutes 10, if that’s not enough for the person, if he wants more... it’s like with sweets, you know, you eat a piece of chocolate, and you walk around and suffer, because the rest is in the refrigerator, winking at you and calling you, and you, if you don’t have this addiction to sweets, you you brush it off, you think, well, okay, but if you have it, you will walk around the refrigerator, get angry, get irritated, here is the same thing, those symptoms that you are talking about, they are screaming at us, so you know, maxim has a problem, he has most likely developed an addiction, but for you... it is very difficult to take any steps until you sort yourself out, because more and more often in our conversation such an equal sign, somewhere even mom stands out in front, because you

have doubts about the failure of your actions, not will my child become a black sheep, will i hurt him, will i make him into some kind of inferior, and this is already about us, about adults, so the first thing we should start with is that we should be sure that our actions are right, that is, you, your husband, you should clearly understand that we... have accepted this concept for ourselves, why are we doing this, and in order to make it easier for you to answer this question, i will ask you another one, what are your plans, you probably talk with maxim, your spouse, about his future, what does he want to do it when he grows up or maybe you think, it would be great if maxim was like that, no, maxim himself expressed a desire, he has such a goal, he wants to enter moscow state university in the physics and mathematics department, he has been studying for a whole year now. at moscow state university in a circle, in the small mikhmat, he wants to further connect his life with mathematics, and at the same time , he really likes floorball, he plays floorball, goes to competitions, to tournaments,

gets the best player, and then he wants to go to sports, that's further this is to develop, and what is his goal with mathematics, not just to get a diploma of mikhmat, but what he wants in life, and he wants to continue with programming, namely to create programs - he also. studies chinese, and a fairly large number of studies have been conducted, which is interesting and maybe even funny somewhere, at one time they were sponsored by such a person as bill gates, a person who is categorically against gadgets for children, his children, as they grew up , got gadgets very late, and this in fact, it is not by chance, this concerns the majority of successful people in this world, such billionaires, serious, successful with names, they do not give their... children gadgets for a very, very long time, why? because there are studies that prove in focus groups, usually these are three focus groups, how the study is conducted, there are many of them, it is not a problem to find them and even show them to maxim,

as a thinking person, so that he can see these real results, diagrams, schemes , just like a person with a mathematical mindset, usually conducted by three groups of students of the same faculty, approximately equal in their mental abilities, the first group leaves their phones outside the classroom. sits down, takes their seats, the second group takes the phones with them, but they are not allowed to take them out of their bags, the third group takes the phones with them, they are turned off, but lie in front of them on the desks, and they are given some kind of test, the results are always, no matter how many of these experiments are conducted, on different target age audiences, schoolchildren, students, the first the group that writes with gadgets outside the classroom door writes these papers as well as possible. the second group, whose gadget is put away in a bag, how many percent do you think it writes worse? 30-40 percent, yes , you guessed it, exactly right, they write 30% worse,

their gadget is in their bag, the third group writes twice as worse than the first, because the gadget is in front of them, yes, it is turned off, but it somehow actively winks at them like a chocolate bar, children write very quickly, children, teenagers, young people, why do they take students, because they have accumulated experience, they usually by the time they are a student... 10-15 years old, some are older, they live constantly in a gadget, they have accumulated experience of anxiety, they have a feeling that without them virtual life flows and flows very brightly, and that if you don’t take your phone, something very important will happen there, you can seem to influence the events that happen there, this applies not only to children but to adults, these experiments, they prove that children, teenagers, they...

heard that he studies well, he has sports, he has chinese, he has a minor mikhmat msu, that is, this is such a serious load, and i really want to say for her that yes, our child deserves an hour a day, despite the fact that he has already developed anxiety, this is such a borderline form, yes, whether it is an addiction or not, but anxiety that he may not be able to do something, he has it in one form or another, but our

task now is so big, the work will be aimed at breaking the myth associated with the word everything, that is, we will try to adjust his constant social environment, this is school, this is sports, this is the street, yes, that is, where he communicates with children who also have a gadget at hand all the time, the first thing we do is look at their personalities, do they have anything in life at all, besides gadgets, yes, okay, he has no parental control, he can do anything, how he studies, whether he studies at all, yes, maybe, write it off there altogether. in fact, statistically it will be like this: there will be poor results in studies, there will be a lack of hobbies and additional activities, there will be conflict relations within the family, because if everything within the family was quiet, peaceful and smooth, and there was no need to close off from the child, because a gadget for parents is often like go baby, leave me alone, when the gadget is not under control, it tells us that mom, dad have developed severe fatigue.

they do not have the strength for children, perhaps conflict, perhaps single parents, they simply do not have this resource, yes, to devote time to their child, that is, it is very important to change the degree from that focus, about in which you say that one might think that my son is unsuccessful, so we deprived him of a gadget, like this is a gold medal, because this is not a medal at all, this is a bag of coal, perhaps, when this is a lot, it is obtained not because you are successful and you are great, you are cool, but because there is no strength for you, there is no time for you, of course, we, as adults, will not go to this child to tell him about this: you know, my friend, in fact, your parents do not care about you, so everything is fine with you with a gadget, yes, of course, no, we we will not do this, but we will try , you try maxim, to change the concept that a gadget is not always an encouragement, this is the other side of the coin, that it is a wall. between

a child and a parent, because he is not very involved with the child, this is the first point, the second point, a large number of studies show us that when a person has a very strong influence from the opinions of others, there is such a word as comfortable thinking, yes, that is, he is very dependent, he wants to be like everyone else, he wants to be no different and not stand out, then become a leader he has no chance, well, he can sit in a row with them, instead of going to throw, yes... maybe one ball into this goal, but at the same time he understands that he is developing his muscles, he is improving in the sport that he is doing, you can sit in a row with them, here in a row, at recess in a row, everywhere in a row, sit in a row with them, but again, what future do these guys have, if we found out that they are playing a game, of course, the internet is not always evil, the internet is a good place for development,

a lot of educational... films, other the form of presentation of educational material, not all children feel comfortable at school, sometimes there are frankly uninteresting, boring teachers, the material needs to be mastered, and there they can find a comfortable way for themselves, for some it is a video sequence, for others some audio, some favorite, maybe a voice, just interesting films on any topic that you like, an animal, technology, mathematics, it does not matter that it is programming, many children are successful. they start doing this from a very early age, perhaps this is the path for maxim, perhaps he will be interested in his spend an hour not on the game, and we know that many games, we will not say their names now, so as not to make additional advertising in any case, are a place where special bad adults sit down, who catch children there for themselves, who become their victims, our real life breaks into their virtual from a very

bad, criminal side, the game is always a risk zone. perhaps, yes, maxim will be interested in doing programming in one form or another right now to spend on it your time on the internet, firstly, it is not addictive. because it is a completely different achievement of the result, there is a result, there is joy, you close the computer, go, that's it, you are happy, you showed your mother what you have achieved, and you are a little bit on the way to your profession, to your goal, which you want to do later, but it is impossible to be a leader when you think in categories like everyone else, this is an important thought that you probably need to try on a little bit for yourself and also convey to the child that you understand, yes, we are part society, homo sapiens, he... developed, we can't do otherwise at all. the main theory of the world's development says that man developed thanks to gossip, because one thing, one whole family, having slaughtered a mammoth, went to another family to wash the bones of a third family, yes, that's it, in general, that's where we stand, nothing

has changed much since then, but we must communicate all the time, it's very difficult for us, this is part of our pyramid of needs, but perhaps the environment does not necessarily have to be this, perhaps this environment can be... offered other conditions, perhaps, if you want to be successful, if you have goals, if you don’t want to be a cog, but you want to be a leader, someone who manages some processes, you will offer them something else, because in fact, why do children sit in gadgets at after-school programs, on the football field, and so on, because there is essentially no alternative, yes, you can go play football, but they have a strong feeling that this football was here for 20 years before... us and will be here for another 20 years after us, and this is almost always in their understanding, yes, that is, 20 years in at this age it's, their whole life is ahead of them, they are in no hurry to realize this opportunity, because well, where will it go, the game will run away now, they need to play urgently, because it

will run away, and so they are lured there, yes, these are also networks, but if he offers them something, maybe, if he has such a desire , something that the action is only today today. a couple of hours, the same thing at school, yes , it is clear that he will not be this mass entertainer, he does not need it every time, sometimes he can also play on his phone, and sometimes he can them with something surprise, and i'm sure listening to your child, that he definitely has something to do with, at this

moment his rating increases very much, because he is not all, everyone is sitting playing on phones, and he, i don't know, brought two turbo inserts showed how dad played with inserts in childhood, also yes ... now there can be just such an emotional rebuff, especially from those who have a gadget for small children uncontrolled time, they are right there in their shell or vice versa in the comments, and this is surkova talking nonsense, i spend a lot of time with mine

a child, but at the same time he spends another 8 hours on the phone, well, it's funny, yes, that is , simple mathematics does not add up, my friends, let's agree with you right away, if something grabs you, this is a reason to think about it, maybe to think. and not immediately go into deep defense, because a gadget is an escape, this is an escape for adults, this is an escape for children, a child is the same person as we are, if we constantly take the phone in our hands and try to hide in it, this is very clearly read, yes, we are in some way stressful situation, once on the phone, i'm in the house, everything is mine, or we're bored, once on the phone, everything is mine, or we're tired, and tired and bored - it's almost the same thing... we also once, op, hid, of course, we show this scenario to children, here too we need to be frank, but we also need to not be embarrassed to admit it, that is, if your child ever returns this argument to you, he will be the next after all, i assure you, yes,

at first they say, everyone has one, we seem to have destroyed it a little, he will come and tell you, yeah, and you, mom and dad, take too much phones, so at this point we say, yes, first of all, we admit it. if it's true, we definitely admit it and say: yes, you're right, let's sort this situation out, what am i doing on the phone? we justify ourselves all the time, we definitely do it for some benefit, but how... when we start admitting to ourselves that no, and not always, and not quite, and it's unfair, then it also makes sense to apologize to the child, to say, yes, you were right, not always, so here we can already introduce new family rules. larisa, you know, we had another situation like this, my child in the third grade got carried away with a rubik's cube, he could assemble it in a minute, i don't understand how this thing can be assembled at all, but from his environment this.

well, you brought a rubik's cube, well, your parents don't have money for a phone, yeah, yeah , that's when he stopped doing it, yeah, that's when he was kind of squeezed by this whole situation, and he was like: mom, well, i have a phone, can i bring it to school, and i don't know, like, just offer him this mechanism, yes, you have a phone, that's it you put your phone on the desk and solve a rubik's cube, well, that is, you are already at a higher level in your mental, even emotional time.

in our family, in yours, in ours, in yours, not in ours, dad is a military man, everything is strict with us, as if dad is on the phones, we practically never have one, well, that is, they can call him at work, just like me, that is , well, we don't play games there, we don't even really text each other there, but yes, as you said, you need to start with yourself, i'm most often on the phone because my work consists of being on the phone and writing something to someone there send yes i understand i catch myself thinking ah well the work will have to be reinforced. that is, at the time when we want to help the child, again a simple parallel

with food, if we have a child with allergies and we are now treating him, we remove all the allergens and no one eats them in front of him, so as not to irritate him, here is the same story, that is , and what needs to be emphasized is that look, now we have family time, as i understand it, there are also children, yes, i have two more children, yeah, maxim the eldest, maxim the eldest, then comes the daughter, she is 7 years old, and the youngest son is 5 years old, yeah, that is, look, we have family time now. we spend it together, i'm not working now, my phone, you see, is lying there, i follow all the same rules that apply to you, although i'm an adult, i can naturally do it differently, because my work depends on it, this is in many ways, our well-being probably depends, this is important, but i respect you, i do it for you and for our family. in fact, anya, you know, i listen to you and i want to give you one, probably, not even i know, feedback, compliment, a wonderful successful child who studies well,

who clearly has a lot of additional workload, is passionate about many things, he goes out into the yard for a walk, it’s just a psychologist’s happiness that the child goes out for a walk at all, that is, everything you hear, evokes such positive emotions in me, and i understand that the only thing... the difficulty that you have today with maxim is not even the gadget as such, it is precisely his communication with the outside world on the topic of not being like everyone else, or to be like everyone else, yes, such a choice, to be or not to be, perhaps he will also have to make this choice, and for you, you will have to spend a very significant time on giving him this support, support, to admire, to say some... well done, why offer some simple solutions, you must always

remember that 10 years old is a very small child, especially a boy, even his teenage changes will begin in three years, not earlier, he is a very small child and he cannot communicate with some kind of unnecessary aggression, with the fact that atypical for your family, something he is not used to, something he does not see at home, yes, for dad to kick you in the ass or something like that to happen, so he really... from you this support with some simple phrases or solutions, okay, good, yes, the phone is an indicator of success, let it be, well, let it be lying behind the door of the classroom, yes, if we... remember this experiment, because it does not lead you to success, it drags you to the bottom, anya, now i have a question for you, our analysis of yours is ending situations, what did you hear today, what did you take away for yourself? well, i heard that my maxim needs help in terms of, how can

i put it, in terms of giving him a point of support, that he is not just different from everyone else, but he... let's say he will be different, we are all children, all children are different, but if you want to become a successful child, a leader, then you should not be offended by the fact that they tease you there, that they are on their phones, but you don't, you have all this, on the contrary, get them going, show them something new, if yes, create a trend, as children say nowadays. them, because you are sociable, outgoing, and if you want something in pressure, so to speak, do something new, attract life to achieve, you should not look at external factors, but go and as if achieve, and even despite the fact that you will still

be told that you are not like that, perhaps, but you know what you are, that's probably what they will say anyway in your back, and you go forward. focus on those who are ahead, especially since he has this environment of communication, one mikhmat, yes, little mikhmat - these are successful guys, it's not that easy to get there, focus on them, why do you choose there for yourself and not there, yeah, after all, this is your future, this is your life, thank you anya for being with us, thank you very much, i hope i was useful to you, very much, and if you also want to get my consultation in this studio, fill out the form on the website of the first channel, i will be glad to ...

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