actually after mikhail yuryevich and after grandmother tarkhan, he also needs to be said about him, afanasy dmitrievich, yes, he also participated in the war and lermontov also learned a lot from him, but he tried to somehow support the tarkhany, and he managed to support it, support it, actually, that's why in such good shape, in such good form, this whole house has reached us, and now there is also a wonderful museum there. in the torkhany, then his relatives, accordingly, also supported him, these are very important things. yes, stalypino - it was a clan of very powerful, statesmen who kept the brand among themselves, these statesmen, at the same time they understood that lermantov was an outstanding personality in their circle and therefore they gave a lot. information about borodin

and where the poem borodino came from, in this, of course, the stolypins are an incredibly important part of history, not only of russia, but also of lermontov, when stolypin was shot, for some reason i remember the poems from the poet lermantovsky died, that is, weren't you the ones who so viciously drove away his free fresh gift. the fun fanned the barely hidden fire. stolypin, even during his lifetime, as they say, recalled lermontov's revelations. of course, this torkhano is the place where the stolypins, as they say, formed this mighty bunch, stolypin's, although they lived there in saratov, in penzion, and periodically gathered, they were together in pinzi, where lermontov was also present at these meetings, when... they say lermontov

was weak there in childhood, that's it, he was the only one in his military school who could a five-kopeck coin here bend three fingers, he was the only one who tied a shapole, well, how can this be, as they say, a sickly person, and then when they say that he is somehow unattractive, well, show me his portrait, well, let someone say, and then we... there are now seven known portraits of lermantov, he is a handsome man, and he also painted, danced, played the violin, sang, that is, women should be delighted, and women, by the way, were delighted with him, yes, the most beautiful women in russia at that time were in relationships with mikhailomovich, well, that's it even the state, she treated him very, as she says, with sympathy,

and returned only in the thirty-eighth year , again, in fact, entered the service in petersburg, rushed into high society, everything seemed to be going well, but again he bends the ram there, so he meets with girls, poetry, writes everything wonderfully, again at the ball in the soviet secular processes, so some kind of courage a duel happens, so, i think that he had a duel in general, some quantity, but here are two known to us with the barant's son ... the ambassador, allegedly there are also

different versions, because of the girl, or because of, that is, the opinion, about the russian officer, so to speak, the whole society, at least the male side, why was such a favor to lermontov, that is, after this duel, that is , the punishment was not too great, he was transferred again to the caucasus, because the entire male side spoke out on his side, what kind of honor is this for a russian officer, lermontov in fact... easily and cheerfully, as far as i understand, he is traveling, in general, he was not very sad, well, you know, he is traveling for quite a long time, he stops by from petersburg to all his relatives, in moscow, in penza, in rostov, and arrives there in stavropol, and there already together with him, his comrades, they there throw a coin, where should they go, this is to the fact that they, well , how is it... it was not just the opportunity to throw

a coin, where should they go, to the active army or to the waters, they get to the waters, to the waters... he pays for 3 months in advance for baths in petergo, and receives a note from the commandant, i laughed for a long time mikhailovich, that there is no longer room for sick officers in hotels, lovely, therefore they accordingly in the private sector, maybe, not only lermontov, but i think there were some other officers there, these are the morals that were there, but nevertheless, this does not say anything from the point of view of their military valor, since lermontov to the caucasus. becomes the commander of this lermontov hundred, and he flashes in this red collar all over, no, well, this is a dorokhov hundred, after all, he serves quite, quite bravely, it is dorokhov's until lermontov appointed him,

appointed him as a commander, when lermontov appointed, she became lermantovskaya, but dorokhov is also a well-known, so to speak, person, we are not famous, we are talking about the actual.

for him and for all his fellow soldiers, including the highlanders, and where did this respect of the highlanders for klermantov come from, precisely because he was completely fearless, well, there are many reviews about him, that the old idzhagi envied him, therefore, for his courage, bravery, in general, the same dorokhov wrote that he was a cool guy, maybe his head will not survive and ...

the fortune teller of anna filippovna kirkhov, she already has there were pushkin and griboyedov, they got their, so to speak, prediction, and the prediction was forgotten, lermontov also gets the same prediction, but he somehow laughs, at first, at first he somehow doesn’t

react very much, in general, he returns to pyatigorsk, and that means, between dinners, champagne, regimental jokes, he gets a cartel from his own friend. martynov, and how it all ended, we know, yes, this quarrel between lerbantov and martynov leads to a duel, several close... their friends participated in this duel, and it is necessary to understand that all of them were younger than lermantov, so here is what began to happen after the duel, when they write that everyone began to give different testimonies, everyone began to collude, the thing is that the duel itself stopped as soon as the second said: shoot, or i will separate you, the thing is that according to the duel code, if they did not shoot about...

immediately after that they rushed to carry these stones from the grave, then they ordered from a jeweler,

there was no, that means, there was a queue, there was no end to those wanting to make rings earrings bracelets with these stones, smogliars, this has become one of the most fashionable of such things, what am i getting at, actually, at the prophecies, he himself is a prophet, but he did not hear the prophecy of alexander filippovna, except for the prophecies, he had symbols around him, there were symbols around him, when he left. the last time from petersburg in the spring of forty-first, he was seen off in the karamzins' salon, and when he left through the door, he waved his hand, a ring flew off his hand, everyone was looking for this ring and no one found it, here in the middle peasantry, a staircase of 26 steps, so he died at 26 years old, they don't give me this peace, here he is, how many times he walked up and down this staircase and ran, here it is, and he still couldn’t overcome it, this is this. numbers, well, the thing is that, uh, we, so to speak, tie

the events that happen, by the will of heaven, to our real life, and lermontov was a man who was especially close to these heavenly revelations, all his poems, he alone between heaven and earth, he placed himself, that is, a man who... includes within himself this sensory organ, capable of perceiving this world as a whole, in which there is both heaven and earth, and his heart, this is precisely what distinguishes lermantov from everything else, all his works, i have to say a couple of words here, they are all in three dimensions, his work, for example, taman can be read as a detective story, that is , the events of... happened, can be read as some kind of psychological drama, in fact , lirmontov put there a much more

complex structure of human existence, all his works are like that, but for this it is necessary, somehow, to distinguish this, it is necessary to prepare a person for this, and lermontov's works are the best way to awaken in a person this three-dimensional ability to see this world, you need to... create an environment in which a person can awaken, here is srednikovo - this is the place where the first thing i did when we came there 30 years ago was the lermontov school of education by beauty. i am still convinced that a person placed in beauty changes his inner space, relationships, this very feeling of truth, for a very long time we had a school for students of mifi, mvtu, that is, for already such people.

it happens with us. i am larisa gudeeva, this is let's get married. good afternoon. today the grooms are yuri, alexander and evgeniy. and our bride is evgenia. evgenia is 32 years old, her husband tried for a long time to persuade her not to have a third child. but when the family finally had an addition, he decided to have a mistress at the same time. evgenia

is a former flaw detector inspector at a metallurgical plant. now a caramel florist, lives in the city of vyksa, is proud. that after the birth of four children she remains in excellent physical shape, admits that she constantly feels hungry, brushes her teeth seven times a day, switches to informal address with difficulty, warns that she doesn't like to cook. evgeniya will never pay attention to a dručn, a long-distance driver, or a shift worker. she will marry a handy, experienced intimate owner, a small belly that her mother will like, and will take her entire large family to the sea. hello, i am glad to see your entire large family without the fourth child, how old is the fourth? 10 years old, and i would like to start our acquaintance with small presents, this is thank you, handmade gifts, mm, thank you, these are the lollipops that i make myself, do you dream of meeting a man who

will take your whole big family to the sea, yes, of course, maybe today i will meet such a man, i really hope so, he looks great, he has tattoos, i like him, plus he wants to go to the sea, that's awesome, just great, guys, have you ever been to the sea, yes, i liked it, yes, well, that's great, do you have children all from one husband, no, i have three children from my first marriage, and the fourth girl, i gave birth to her from another man, he is a daughter, a daughter, look at her, she looks just like her, lana dela rey, lana dela rey in her youth, yeah, well, how... young life, guys, everything is fine, fine, you go to school, yeah, what grade, third, me, i'm in the second, and what grade are you in, you don't go to any yet, how old are you, three years old, what a big girl already, she looks just like her, she looks just like her mother, red-haired, i'm surprised how she holds up,

it's difficult, of course, probably with four, one. grandma, probably, yes, she mainly takes care of the children? no, i mainly take care of them, all the kindergartens, schools, all the sections, everything is on me, also me i am a parent committee, we have not only this, well, you look really great for sharp children to have such a figure, it is the envy of everyone. that's it, guys, thank you very much, run, play, run along the corridors, and while we are here we will talk, take yesenka, yesenka, let's go.

very badly spoiled, i began to notice that he is late at work, arrives very late, my husband says, did not want a third child, but she insisted, apparently, she loves children and to give birth to four, of course it costs a lot, and did you find out who showed up at his place, yes, of course, i found out, the situation was that it

was our second child's birthday. i didn't have my own phone at that time and i made all my personal calls from his, he came home from night work, went to bed, but before that i saw that he was talking to someone on the phone and he received some messages, i didn't think about checking what kind of calls there were, i just took the phone, called, ordered a children's center. for the children's entertainment, because it was day birth, i realized that there were no calls in the phone book, everything was deleted, i went to the message. there was also everything empty, my heart skipped a beat, i realized that something was wrong, i felt with some kind of my female intuition that everything, there is

another woman here, at that moment i decided that i need to check this, i ordered a call detailing, when the call detailing arrived, there was one number 24x7, it just has messages and calls, they are for... this is just nonsense, and you are already pregnant, yes, i already gave birth to a third child, we already gave birth, yeah, and he was just categorical with this third one, i don't want it all, after

about a month and a half he said that yes, i was wrong, the child, after all, is already there, i need to give birth, but there was already some kind of attitude towards me, when they treated me like this, as if it wasn't his child, but someone else's, don't give birth, he drank. but here's the strange thing, zhenya, he drinks, you don't work, the child is small-a little smaller, there's not enough money, mom over there, she's already straining herself, poor thing, it's not that there wasn't enough money, we have at that time there was a mortgage, oh, yes, but he could easily earn money, and there was child support then, that is, we would have managed in any case and as you understand,

a man and a woman, really, both husband and wife, you are not the first, look, you are not the first, for example, a woman who says , well, yes, i always wanted a multi-newspaper family, and my husband only wanted one child, and i wanted one, i gave birth to 12 of them, you understand, he didn’t like it, with each new child he either went on a drinking binge or went on a spree, and you don’t even know how to behave, you don’t even know what ask a question, why, why did your plans work out, the man is like this... i've already read these in a different way the thing is that when i married him, he immediately asked such a question about us having many

children, a man proposes, god disposes, when you get married, you want 10, larisa says, you'll give birth to one first, then talk, well, okay, and so you found out that you have some local star, yes, that's right, the thing is that this... turned out to be our colleague at work, i i knew very well, uh, other girls from work had already started whispering, saying something, i suspected that it was her, and she 's just like a passing flame, yes - in fact, i didn't follow her life, honestly, i just know from rumors that she and other women, from whom she tried to steal men, she twisted billy's face. you just have to decide everything as it is

, everything needs to be broken up in time, i had the impression that she would also play with my husband and he would be abandoned, and we would already have a broken family, when they already found out that my husband was definitely cheating, why didn't they sit down with him and talk to him, like. hidden in the closet, like a second child, i told them, you are the parents, if you want, give birth, the only thing i can

do is help physically and... materially, because i don't have any other grandchildren besides these, and i didn't know the third one either, i found out when it was too late, well, okay, we gave birth and gave birth, why did the divorce happen, because he went to this one, no, he didn't leave, he said that i won't divorce you, i'll be with you to live for the sake of the children, i don't love you, but we will live together, we lived in different rooms, he lived in one room, i lived in another, with the children, and even the children sometimes said that they were grandmothers, and our dad sleeps in another. without mom, for me of course it was also very much he walked, that he walked, he walked, i wonder, did her mother interfere in the relationship at all, but she doesn't look like the kind of person who interferes in other people's relationships there, she is like, i see, a very calm woman, now you live together, yes, we live together now, and so you don't sleep together, he said that he doesn't love you, yes the situation happened, no,

that's not it, and i went to the hospital with my child. with the third, and we were there and while my mother and i were talking on the phone one day, i was discussing this woman, with her, a girl just came up to me and said: are you by any chance talking about this girl, she works at the fifth pipe hospital, i say, yes about this one, she says, and i know her, she also tried to take my husband away, but she didn't succeed and... and so we started talking with that one too girl, but the fact itself finished me off with another, at that very moment, when we were in the hospital, my mother calls me from work and says: zhenya, the gifts that were for our children, this girl took, and it was not your husband who took them, but she, the mistress, took them, brought them to you, no, she did not bring them to me, did not even give them, and did not give them, as a result, the children were left without even

gifts for this new year. they took them there, were not indignant, oh, i was very indignant, i called her and screamed, how could she take them at all, to which she said, my husband asked for it my take these gifts, that's it, well the children didn't see the gifts, that same day when i found out about it, i went to his house, packed all my things, packed the other children and moved in with my mother, he got married now, no, they are not married, but... they live together, and a child was born there, yes, a child was born there, and after the birth of his child with her, he filed a lawsuit against me in order to reduce the amount of alimony, it turned out to him that i was paid too much, but she also drove your car with your children, yes, yes, children they said, after i had already picked them up, the kids said that dad was driving his aunt

home from work, they went to some village, i don’t understand such men, but the fact that they lived there together, he didn’t even help there, well, three children, of course, is a slap in the face, and she’s certainly a good girl for getting out of such a situation, and the fourth child, where did he come from, i met the man on a dating site, he was from another city, visiting on business trips, i immediately understood for myself that building a relationship with such a man is also... not it's worth it because he'll leave, in any case, i 'll stay in x. after some time, he really left, we didn't talk to each other, and a couple of months later we accidentally met at our local club, where i came to relax a little, from that day on we didn't part, and after some time we even decided to have a child together, and you didn't use protection, did you decide to have a child initially, we used protection

, i really wanted a girl, it was my dream, with my first husband my dream was to give birth to a girl, and my mother knew about this dream, and you knew about this dream, no, no, i knew that she wanted i really wanted a fourth child, because a girl, she cried constantly when she got pregnant, what boys would tell her on the knot, she had a sea of ​​tears, i knew that she wanted, i probably don’t understand something at all in this life. when you gave birth to a child, as in this your move in - everything is fine, we really planned this child, we decided this together, i got pregnant, he treated it well, and the talk was generally about living together, about the fact that you got along we thought about it, we thought about it, that either he will come here, or i will move, but i was very afraid to move with four children in my arms to another city, he is from st. petersburg, it is a huge city, where it would be very difficult for me

to settle down with the children.

you do not cook, but you love to eat well, you often watch tv series to the detriment of your sleep with four children, how

can you watch a tv series at night, you wash your hair for 2 hours, well of course, what is there, he is a mother, a grandmother sits with the children, while you for 2 hours, and what are you washing in your head for 2 hours, believe me, i just have a lot of hair, it's very difficult to wash it. a lot, so you don't wash the dishes, you collect them in the sink, tell me, please, what goes into these dishes, your dishwasher, that is, you even transfer them from the sink, if you remember, of course, you put them in the washing dishes, you forget to turn it on at all, around the house she can forget about some things, well, you know, only four children, that's a lot, time should be spent on raising four children, natalya petrovna, you gave birth in ninety-second year, zhenya. yes, she you have an only daughter? no, i also have a son, what year? eightieth. does your son have grandchildren? but she is already an adult, she is already 21, she was born in total hell, ninety-two was terrible, so,

probably, they needed, yes, when little zhenya was, well, because there was nothing at all available, it was impossible to buy anything, no payment, no extra chocolate, nothing, you close your eyes to this today.

so that nearby, that's right, so that dogs there, cats on the street, this, here, an uninhibited bed, i think that i am very pretty, self-sufficient woman, despite the fact that i have four children, and let's go, it's true, i agree with this, let's go to you, natalya petrovna, and they want, i, that is, you will also let your son-in-law come to you, i am dear to them, i will leave them, i have a place to live, finally, have a rest, i have a place to live. get some sleep, you to a man, why, if today he has a choice, well, you have a good time, i say again, why, for example, should a man take on such responsibility, i understand that he is a widower, he also has four children, and i tell him

i say, what did you expect, you have four children, yes, your wife has four too, well, let's manage somehow, but if he has one child, he is rich, handsome, young, that is, a man will have five times less. so many children, and they also do their work around the house, they gather at home, there are four of them, it's generally amazing how women who have them play, shout, listen to loud music, break things, well, and so on, this is completely normal, natural, and he came home from work, you understand, that is, his man, as if his man, husband, he is a father, he somehow, well, endures and thinks, well, what's going on? well , there are children, and the other man doesn't, i'm just

curious, there are all sorts of cases, i'll say it again, you're welcome, but if a man loves a woman very much, he will accept her children too, that's it, let's take it as an axiom, we're going to get ready now and then we'll see, let's , what do they say miracles happen, yes, so let's hope for a miracle today, i 'd probably also like children, maybe even children, but one definitely needs to be looked at... depending on the circumstances, but in general, children are good, i'm never against it. come in and meet your first groom. evgeniya, hi, i'm the man who... i'm very pleased, thank you. yuri

, 38, business consultant, lives in the village of uglyanets in the voronezh region, swims, plays martial arts, plays ping-pong. proud of the fact that he is arranging his family estate, dreams of reading a thousand books, admits that he is allergic to alcohol, warns that he wakes up with the first roosters. hello, it's nice to see you, listen, but what you read is not a man, but a dream, really, to me let's say he likes the fact that he has a family estate, he is building, imagine he is building an estate, well done, but it always seemed to me that if a woman says yes to you when you call her,

in the voronezh region, but did you promise this? i can't say that you promised, there were attempts, but unfortunately, circumstances developed in such a way that we could not do this, why did his wife not want to move to him there, everything is quite normal, a business could have been organized there for a long time, probably absent, well, when was our relationship were born, yes i worked in moscow, she lived in voronezh, then i transferred to a shift method to spend more time together, but it still wasn’t enough, so you and the child was born? the child was born after, okay, well the second reason, what happened? well, the fact

that she didn’t want to move, well for me it was still a kind of betrayal, when a person says: i ’ll go with you until the end of the world, and then it turns out that the end of the world, maybe some of your relatives weren’t very kind to her, and because of this, well maybe, maybe, how she was accepted, yours, but accepted, well, not to say that with open arms, and why? well, she was older than me in age by how many 7 years, well, it was your choice, yes, yes, well, why then, who allowed relatives at all, well, not that relatives, not that parents intervened, let's say so, well, accordingly, they made some contribution, but here the thing is that we come from asia and she is also from asia and there are a little different - relationships, relationships, it was necessary to show a little flexibility where she showed it firmness. for example, for example, well, i didn’t

call your mother mom there or not, by the way, everything is fine with that, she still calls her mom, then what is the reason, where did she want it, she wanted me to move in with her and build our life the way she wants with her relatives, with her relatives, yes , join her family, i didn’t like the fact that he has such a schedule, such a work schedule , a shift method, well yes, he had to be near her and that’s all she will be happy with is that he has shift workers. it seems to me that this is already will do, well look, and if, for example, your parents would have accepted her affectionately would have said daughter, well then somehow i will come to you, that's why they didn't do anything to her.

we don't live with our parents in the same house, that is , the parental house - what kind of fuss is this about this square meters? an improvised gym, this is your building, here is this house that stands, i live in it alone, like , yes, it is two-story, in which i live, here is opposite where my parents live, a gazebo in which we drink tea, trees, yes 10 years ago, then how much did we squeeze? well, feed yourself garden yes well relatively i don't plant potatoes she likes it let's say a garden there well if she got used to it it seems to me they have a lot of that well

whose land is a lot of course here you need to put time and hands into such a garden of course and she is also a rural today we have a bath day and decided to show you. so and i go to the bathhouse, let's go, we built a bathhouse, we built a house, we built an extension, there is also a foundation for another house, and parents are on the same territory, yes, but she didn't want to, i think that she didn't want to live with yours relatives, so this is our recreation room, they shared it together, pressed , no, it didn't work out, pressed together, well , the fact that i bought a car there, what was there when i left i left everything, i didn't share anything, but there was no apartment then, here it is, a luxurious bathhouse. well, yes, a good house, it will probably be good for the children, he has a place there with the kids, where he can have fun, especially with four, why before - to seal your union, not to sit down, not to talk, who will go where, they themselves they think that everything will resolve itself,

that it will come somewhere on its own, well, legally, well, a grown man, how old is the child now, nine, what grown-up, he was 38, a girl, look, the wife has four children, yeah, i heard, just be honest, honestly, so that there is no misunderstanding later, yeah, the house is big, the territory is big, your parents were not very, so to speak, happy with a daughter-in-law who is older than you, with four, you are asian, you have an asian, who is her nationality, the father, well, and by nationality i am a russian-uzbek mix, how will your father react to the fact that you bring a daughter-in-law with four children, be honest here, from the urals, i understand, all of orenburg, the orenburg region, would know that a madman has arrived, he needs to be locked up somewhere, he brought a woman with four children, oh what a yegor, i live and grow up, but what do i need it for, and i grew up, you understand, here it would be, let me insert such a small remark, because when my wife already had two

children, and what are you hiding, i am not hiding, two is not four, that's not the point, come. a young guy says: mom, dad, i'm getting married, older than me, two children, they say, may you be damned forever and ever, he says: well, okay, then i'll build you a house, and one for myself next to it, they're already building a grave there , you know, not a house, well, it's still good, here you come straight after the program, let's get married , i say, mom, dad brought here with four children, yeah, you don't even have to worry about it, why, because we have yurochka. warns, he's annoyed by the mess, which means everything should be on its shelves, at some point there's silence, after all, there are elderly parents, here four will start to chase, to run, everything else, you agree with us that you are bending your line further, well , about the silence, as if there is such a question,

because silence, what does silence mean, we wake up early, well, as if i wake up early, in the village it is impossible otherwise, accordingly.