to the right, to the left, to the right, poprite da no turning bush to the left, to the right, to the left, to the right, to the left.

he wanted to put the evil eye on you. okay, okay, i'll keep quiet. masha, i'm in a sprawl, help me. i have problems with my socks.

what a goat, look at him, goat, goat, goat, goat, that's an expression, masha, you 're tired, we'll talk ourselves, what does he say, he wants to talk without an interpreter, come on, good man,

hello, what truck, no, you've got the wrong number. who's there, sergeant major stepanov, the thirty- eighth department, and what's your matter, in person, probably, but don't be afraid, look, here. i'm maria, yes, and what happened? yuri, i, so to speak, in the performance of the best feelings, admirer,

receive, sign, allow.

the mistake occurred from the eighteenth, and i was ordered to give the transfer for maria from the twenty-first, forgive me, i mixed up the floor, yes, of course, i don't mind, yes, captain makarov, for him, forgive me, forgive me. forgive me, forgive me!

help yourself, greet like kings. and what is yarchally? yarchally is the tatar name of the city of naberezhnye chelny. this is the only our republic. nazi remains of structures before the mongol period, what century is this? 11th century, ice cream, ice cream made from local sour cream, berries were brought a couple of hours ago, how beautiful! where are we? in a beautiful kitchen! what are we going to do now? cook something delicious! i'll make a candy-shaped paste, inside i'll have stewed duck, i'll add a little local flavor, this is smoked horse rib! wow! premiere, chefs on wheels! tomorrow on the first. six types of

human skin color: from bright black to absolutely white, where there is not a drop of pigment. real white people, albinos, how skin color determines your health. about this and many other things, in the program it's great to live. on monday, on the first. hello, tom, hello, come, why doesn't he ever say hi to something?

he will also take part in the seminary, take part, it's nothing without me,

hello, party, digi star at your service, i told you.

yeah, yeah. yeah.

after the signal say, masha, good evening, where did you disappear to? we have a conference at 18:00, be sure to come.

little miss bore, you have to give him the emotional charge, dance with me, dance like me, dance with me, sing

with me, i can't, please, leave me alone, i can't, you can, move, budge, come on, dance, no, no, stop, i'm doing the best i can, mr. greenwood, i have the right to change the translator if... masha, wait, masha, i'm sorry, please, how did this happen to us, that nothing, everything is fine, goodbye, fool, everyone is sick.

well, captain, are you playing too much? i wouldn't have come in her place either. i don't understand.

don't be upset, no one ever gets mad at me. now we're going to learn to speak, let's try with a few sounds.

please, try, i beg you, hi, you see, you can do it, let

's...

esmeral dava, good evening, you know, i can't do it today, no, i can't , uh-huh, i'm sorry, please, i'll call you back, what?

okay, james, hold on, hugs. bye.

this place is called the edge of the world, because it's only 160 km from here to the arctic circle, we are on the solovetsky islands, from above the monastery looks like a ship, if you follow, where the nose looks, it looks. we retreat the life of their prime minister tomorrow on the first, someone brings magnets from travels, someone gifts, well, someone as a keepsake of a new family member, we have a dog, she

is such a coward, they looked at each other for a week, now they have already gotten used to it, a master of martial arts, in his training he teaches not how to hit correctly, but how to love correctly, let us teach you, come on, okay, okay. cry, okay, you will not worry, okay, 1, 2, 3, the task of the coach is not to make a champion out of him, first of all it's time to raise a healthy personality in him, saw the video, watch with us, premiere, tomorrow on channel one, where are you? and how did you suddenly become a puppeteer? suddenly, the right word?

what do i do, i learn well, but

i still have so much, it's love. intense times and a poem we have many

joys in our lives make us dream of something we don't know how to do and how i don't want to forget about it ... inspiration is like stimulating everything with a lot of mischief.

girl, you don't need a sponsor.

what are you doing, bigger, bigger, what?

youth club.

and now homework.

let's just hang out like nothing happened, ok, ok, you want this, yeah, i'm so sorry.

this is what happens when you come here like i did, i'm always in a strange and incongruous world, i look at it and it's all special, the air, the visas, the houses, the little cafés, the chiens, i go, i go to bed,

j'attendais quelque chose sans trop. voir quoi et cette mélodie qui tournait dans la tête, la mélodie promenade, arrivant sur une place devant l'église, je vois ce mime avec un magnéto. triste et souriant il danse à ma musique et tout d'un coup il se met à pleuvoir et le meme ramasse ses affaires, il prend son chapeau et vient me prendre par la main sans dire un mot, et puis on court, on court, on court, on court sous la pluie jusqu'à ne plus pouvoir, le magnéto chante notre chanson,

can i also have a cigarette please?

bye, mash, bye, bye, see you tomorrow, my friend, bye, good night.

tomorrow after the evening news, oh, nightingale, listen, that's not your little brother, that's for sure! how would you like to whip up a cheburashka for me, bravo, bravissimo, mayastarochok, so you needed me, only while i could drink yours, yes yura, and now that's it, you've thrown me out, yes fedorov andrey petrovich, yes, it's me, you'll have to go with us, in war all means are good, what are you doing, izrynisko?

our mother has been acting strangely lately, the disease has started to progress, it can be treated, it can't be so with grachev, he's a genius, he's a creator, he created this horo, he has the right to decide what to do, and you too, the premiere of the multi-part film is on monday on channel one.

there's a boat, but no, damn it, if you come there again, i'll nail you to myself with nails, nails like these,

well, it seems to me, it's really dirty again, stop it, what are you doing, and what are you,

wait a second, i'll call the translator, mash, help me, this is madeline, hello. hi, mash, hi, listen, please tell him that i'm inviting him to my place tonight concert, at 9:00, do you want to come too, i'll put you on the list at the entrance, greenvoot +1, okay? okay, well thank you, and please tell him that i kiss him, okay, what did she say? she said that she can't meet you tonight, she's very sorry, but

she's busy, right? okay. that's it.

i'm sitting alone, you don't call, you're silent, you're being bad, you're not burning with love, i'm a piece of shit, put some lotion in there, sha-la-la-la, one, for example, a clock, the hands are like bonds, don't remind me of him.

i didn't mean to, forgive me, please, i'm a bastard, i know, madeleine is waiting for you now in crisis, i know, i called her back, she was able

to explain that she would be waiting for me at 90, why did you pack?

oh, good morning, we are very late, who already knows, time, of course, the press, but if there are no sequels, we will make it.

maybe there is some kind of bypass? no, no

. thank you, you do not know why people in the cinema kiss sideways, no, really, why? it's just, dude, too big nasas, it does not work out any other way. did you forget to ask if he will come back?

proxecto.

these are pensions, pensions, pensions of corazón, like the key, cuál el secreto para estar en paz por completo, dos pies en la tierra y un relato de. desde hace rato me tienen sujeto, el mundo es mi suelo, el cielo en mi techo, buenos aires donde cosecho, mis anhelos y mis pasiones, pero solo hay vacío y no estoy satisfecho, y no estoy satisfecho, no estoy

satisfecho, si hablo de amor sé que la extraño de mis actos en vida soy dueño, pero me calla el dolor por el daño y es como un sueño de emplore otro sueño apuesto a pleno. pero de callado, cada uno en la suya, yo ando rayado, sigo esperando sentado, que esta vez el destino, no me deje plantado, no, que no me dejes plantado, no, escuchame bien, no hay chamuso, no es chamuso, es amor, pero hay ah

ya no me enamoro de vos de nuevo pensamiento

mi inspiración es así todos tropezamos con la misma well, that's not it mucho, es amor. hello everyone, with you tatyana gevarkyan and ne lykom shitaya, today we are talking about the relationship between cinema and fashion, recalling the most iconic images of cinematic differences from soviet films. with me in the studio is costume designer natalya konevskaya. soviet cinema is a treasure trove of iconic images. natasha, were you personally

acquainted with someone from. by costumes scanned every time admired, amazed, since childhood, here i had such an incredible opportunity to observe them. and who did you like most in their everyday image, so shall we say? well, anastasia vertinskaya has always been absolutely incredible. anastasia vertinskaya, she was called the soviet audrey hebborn, graceful, refined aristocratic appearance. she conveyed beautiful images

not only on the screen. but in everyday life, i was amazed then that she wore flat soles, which we all love so much now, with long skirts, men's boots, always some interesting headdresses, hats, caps, berets, and another amazing moment was that she wore one earring even then long, oh, how, yes, she was an absolute trendsetter, she outdid fashion, wore these huge jackets with wide shoulders, long... floor-length coats, what came into fashion in moscow, i think, by the end of the nineties, if not in the two thousandth. when i was going to the shoot today, i was talking on the phone with my mother, she asked me what the shoot would be about, i said, we will discuss soviet movie divas, my dad worked in the film industry, and we lived in other countries, he represented russian cinema there very often came soviet delegations with film actors, and my mother says to me, well, you remember lyudmila gurchenko came a couple of times, i say, no,

mom, you know, very... vaguely, i remember that she came, but for some reason the images did not stick in my head, she says, well , because when she came to visit us, we took your children to another room, because she was very sharp-tongued, and said a lot of words that were incomprehensible to children, that's how much - this brightness was reflected in the clothes of our film divas, it was noticeable that they were brighter, more provocative, there are like two images, there is an everyday image, there is a star image, very often they get tired of popularity, of recognition, on the contrary, they want to hide. allamidova, she was different in that i didn’t recognize her every time, also being a little girl, when she entered the elevator, i think who is this neighbor, and it’s allamidova, that is, she knew how to somehow hide her stardom, at the same time, if you look at her photos, look at some chronicles from festivals, of course she is incredibly stylish, a star with

amazing... sled, but one of the skills of movie divas to transform in life is to look like ordinary women, so that they are not recognized when they do not want to. well, by the way, today yes, today all famous actresses, they try to hide either behind dark glasses, or dress modestly enough in everyday life, so that no one recognizes them, then it was the same, of course i did not know and did not see everyone, but what i saw, it seems to me that it was the same, it is one thing to go somewhere in the morning to a rehearsal in the theater without... makeup also in dark glasses, hiding behind some kind of headdress, and another thing is to go to a premiere in the evening, somewhere where you should be recognized, everyone should talk about your image. and let's talk a little about movie images, from your childhood, whose images do you remember the most, for example, lyudmila gurchenko, what are the most memorable images for you? of course, probably everyone wants to talk about carnival night, but ...

and my favorite film with her is just such a calm one, probably this is film five evenings, there is a very interesting one - a transformation happens to her, she appears in the beginning, as far as i remember, in some kind of dressing gown, in these curlers with some kind of scarf on her head, so completely nondescript, and at the end of the film, by some very simple means, she simply becomes 20 years younger. lyudmila gurchenko was a real influencer-transitor of her time, namely. she popularized the famous christian dior new look silhouette among soviet fashionistas. after the release of the film station for two, women began buying up magazines with patterns in stacks, sew a dress and curl your hair like the heroines. paintings, and what do you think, these outfits of the carnival night, they were still inspired by the costume designers of the house of dior, definitely, i don’t remember, i think it was fifty-sixth year, yes, that is, it has already been almost 10 years since the moment when

christian duor proposed this wasteful nude with a huge amount of fabric that was spent on a dress after the war, changed the entire female silhouette in general and even somehow returned the corset to women. which they with such difficulty and with such pleasure they took themselves off at the beginning of the century, suddenly here again the fifties everyone is tightening themselves in a corset, this wasp waist in the soviet union also came a little later, but this is such an understandable desire of post-war women to look beautiful, feminine, somehow well this is a very popular silhouette today, i have a dress that i inherited from my grandmother, i even have a photo where she is at a reception at the soviet embassy in a dress just... in the style of dior in tallinn, it still hangs in my wardrobe, i am from it i blow off the dust, and even a couple of times i wore it somewhere, well, in general, the christian dior brand itself does not promote these silhouettes of theirs, they practically do not change from season

to season, the length changes, the texture of the fabric changes, but this new look is always present in their collections, now everyone very often looks at soviet cinema from the seventies, eighties and ... they say that modern collections of famous world brands are very reminiscent of an office romance, or a photo of lyudmila gurchenko in a suit, this is just a missony suit, where did they find outfits for movies at that time, were they some famous brands or was it made to order, how did it all happen? well , there weren't many famous brands then, then naturally it was all sewn, it was all costume designers who collected fabrics, found patterns. in fact, these are practically the first fashionable suits, because if you look at the movies of the twenties-thirties, even the forties, here - lyubov orlova, for example, she is considered the first soviet diva, yes, but try

recall some of her images. lyubov orlova - the diva of the cinema of the thirties-fifties, golden curls with a cold wave, an accent on the lips and elegant high eyebrows. she created her image together with her husband and director. orlova is often compared to marlene dittrich in image, in image yes, light curls, these thin eyebrows, red lips. clothes in cinema at that time were practically cut, because, well, somehow ideology was more important, it was more important to show that the heroine, a real soviet woman. she thinks about the public, and not about some kind of personal and in general all the remnants of the philistine style, all this - was more likely to be found in negative heroines than in positive ones. natasha, if we talk about actresses, about cinematic differences,

how sexuality was broadcast in cinema in soviet times and how today, negative heroines were sexy and fashionable and somehow eh so stylish, to say there that beauty is a terrible force could at best be faina ranevskaya, yes, but not the heroine lyubov orlova. and in what era does it become acceptable for a positive heroine to be stylish, sexy, bright? apparently, these were some kind of waves, the war ends, and strangely enough, some kind of western influence comes to the soviet union anyway, because trophy outfits appear, fabrics appear, some films appear, probably, too. here is the first image of a positive heroine, but at the same time fashionable, incredibly stylish - this is the same lyudmila gurchenko in the film carnival night with these new look dresses, so completely not soviet, but at the same time she is incredibly

positive and - truly soviet heroine, who everyone wants to rise in price. 5 minutes, 5 minutes, my watch will ring soon, make peace, those who are in a quarrel. then - after all , the eighties we also see such heroines, well, even here is the same irony of fate, all the heroines there are beautiful, bright, quite fashionable and independent, well, that is , as if at some point, probably somewhere in the middle of the seventies, probably, this is already after the thaw, as if a woman is allowed to be beautiful and stylish, and at the same time as if as if clothes do not have attitude to... characters who are fashionable, stylish, sexy, but these are historical films,

oddly enough, censorship is rampant, what is being filmed, fairy tales are being filmed, films about the future and about the past are being filmed, in all of this spectrum there are a lot of sexy heroines, this is naturally meredy, margarita terikhova, generally one of the sexiest, by the way, film dif, here is another name, and if you look at how she is dressed, there is nothing from the era of louis, but... a lot from the fashion of the seventies, from some fashion that it was impossible to show, i think, in soviet cinema, she is a real hippie, because even such a boho style, she has a badfort, tucked-in tight trousers, this shock of loose blond hair, fashionable arrows, well, that is, there is all the attribute belt, yes, they just made her a modern, sexy, very cool girl, another, by the way, one of my favorite films of the eighties is ... the film nameless star with anastasia

vertinskaya, who, by the way, being a diva and such a role model for many , never played modern heroines, well, if you list it like this, as she started practically from childhood, ola and parusa, amphibian man, war and peace and anna karenina, she is everywhere either a heroine from the past, or generally such non-russian ones like ophelia, all her heroines, they are all some kind of shakespearean, so historical, but at the same time there is a film , a nameless star. where she appears again in white in this dress - fashionable idlers, some furs, well, everything that a soviet woman can’t wear, the same curly light locks, that is, it seems like a historical heroine, but fashion seems modern, you don't tell me only about men that they fall in love. valentina titova is one of the most beautiful women in the soviet screen, she always gave the impression of a socialite, a woman who is surrounded by care and love. her famous men, but it turns out that the impression is deceptive,

men were always afraid of me, and my husbands had no influence on me, move away from someone else's husband, how basov reacted to your pregnancy, disappeared, who accompanied you to the maternity hospital, i don't know, his assistants, me in everyone felt sorry for the maternity hospital, how valentina titova left vladimir basov and what the director wrote in the statement to the court, filed for alimony, why didn't you take the children with you, to confession of valentina titova mother cuckoo or a victim of love, can a beautiful woman or actress be happy at all? no one can stand it when a person hunts only for you, a knife in his hand. exclusive with dmitry borisov. premiere next saturday, on the first, in the new season on the first.

what happened there at the end of the war, and anything could happen there, photos if you don't have it, it's strange, where are they, were they here, oh my god, how similar they are to my son, you are the only real witness, the only person he came to openly, well, major, the hunt has begun, confrontation, the premiere of the legendary book by yulian semyonov, it's not a treat, today, together with

costume designer natalie konevskaya , we analyze the wardrobes of the heroines of the most iconic soviet films. in general, in recent years we have been watching our old cinema with a completely different look, that is, then we really followed the plot, ideology, songs were remembered, but the images somehow did not stick in the head, now first of all everything. it was rather the other way around, that is

, such a dress appeared, such a bright heroine appeared, all the women around tried to repeat this image, because there is no no...

we see a lot of these negative, but very attractive sexy beautiful heroines in white in the movies, the same thing in the film ivan vasilyevich changes profession, there are two heroines, there is the main heroine, who is always like that red and white, and there is a girlfriend of the director, she generally wears not just white, but an unheard of white top with feathers, which you can easily wear today and no one will notice that these are... things from the early seventies. the images of natalia selezneva in the film ivan vasilyevich changes profession, made a real splash on soviet fashionistas. and it is not surprising, the outfits for selezneva in this film were made by fashion designer vyacheslav zaitsev. now, if we talk about how fashion is connected with cinema, then there were not so many moteliers, but vyacheslav zaitsev is above

worked on this film. and here you can also see that these are silhouettes from ivsanlar and silhouettes from. impressive, yes, who else from the famous designers of that time collaborated with cinema, there was a fashion house in which these models were generally developed, here is vyacheslav zaitsev, i think that this is the most famous name, of course, there were many fashion designers, many designers, but somehow fashion and cinema... at that time were separated, and costume designers came either from the theater, or there were artists, directors, and costume designers, so on that same carnival night, it is so interesting, there the production designer, eh, i think his name was konstantin efimov, he was also the costume designer in the film volga-volga and in

some other films with lyubov orlova, that is , these are the same people who could make both costumes and sets. and workshops worked, a whole sewing workshop worked at musfilm, they found these fabrics with difficulty, they found patterns somewhere, templates in magazines, these magazines somehow got in from abroad, then they were reworked for many years, that is, it was all very difficult painstaking work, because well, the period of shortages just like that you couldn't go to a store to buy not only clothes, but even fabric, how much easier is it to work in film today, huh? and easier and more difficult, well, let's say it's very interesting to work on historical projects, because it's a whole hunt, a hunt through vintage shops, in search of some authentic things, sometimes one thing can create the image of a whole heroine, like from some found one suit

you can push off and come up with a whole life. in the office romance this brown suit, they say that alesa friendly herself found it, we climbed through all sorts of costume shops. musfilm or not musfilm we were looking for something so horrible, shabby, i don't know if it's true or not, once upon a time the image of lyudmila prokofyevna was considered monotonous, gray and unremarkable, but love is the best makeover, the transformed mymra became a standard for all women in the country. well, firstly, it's huge, it's very big for her, and secondly, it's some kind of the most horrible soviet fabric, that is, it's such a thing that no actress would want to wear. only you? dress gloomy, without gloss, hmm, i didn't notice, but there was an actor who put it on himself, do you remember this story 2 years ago, when brad pitt came out in a lyudmila prokoevnaya suit, no, it was on the red carpet, i know that this is always compared to all sorts of prada exits and

brown suits, but i think that if you put them side by side, it will be just heaven and earth. natasha, what would you do? today i would dress a business lady, if a remake of an office romance were filmed, probably in a hoodie, jeans in a hoodie, this is a business lady working remotely. while working remotely and after working remotely, it seems to me that people now allow themselves not to follow the dress code, well, we won't come up with this plot now, but it seems to me that it's great to first show a person in something shapeless, huge. we were also talking about images in films in the studio, and they told me a story that it turns out that we have female actresses who are forbidden to bring things, and... mass-market, that is, they must necessarily be expensive brands, have you encountered this in your work? no, i think that this is more the work of stylists, not artists.

costumes, because in the cinema, well, you can't dress everyone in couture clothes, because, well, let 's start with the fact that the heroines are different, if this girl always plays - the wives of oligarchs, then perhaps, but then she greatly limits herself in the possibilities of roles, but i heard that it was not dictated ... i was terribly worried about how i would run into such superstars with them and i did not

meet more easy-going and open to experiment actresses for a very long time, and in general this whole generation of soviet cinema stars, maybe because they are not spoiled, maybe because they already have such a huge life experience, they never look at labels, they never look at, oh, i won’t wear this, this is some kind of wrong fabric, they try it on right away. it’s meeting your director, getting into the right role with this director, without unnecessary modesty, i’ll say, maybe

meeting the right costume designer, well, as examples, i don’t know, audrey heborn and givenchy, if it weren’t for that little black dress because of breakfast at tiffany’s, there would have been audrey hebron, audrey hebron, well, there would have been a wonderful, talented actress, but she would be such a super diva, who is still quoted by everyone, this image with black glasses with a manchuk and a long. we pay, this is a combination, it seems to me, this is some kind of luck, and what other images are often used? marilyn monroe, of course, she has already become such a legend that it is probably more difficult to list the films in which she starred than to list some of her stage images, there everyone knows the naked dress, the pink dress straples, this one with long gloves, yes from ... men prefer blondes, well, naturally, a white flowing dress, that is, this is like a woman who is immediately associated with her looks,

which of the modern actresses could you call a diva? tilda, definitely, yes, she is, of course, a diva, she somehow creates and carries this image, she transforms every time, very cool, she has an absolutely alien appearance, yes, but she could be imagined in different ways, she... works very well with her. natalie portman, you can say that she is a diva, on the red carpet yes, in life, look at the photos of the pairing - this is an ordinary woman with children in ordinary clothes. well, that is, of the foreign actresses today, few can really be called divas, because thanks to social networks we often see their everyday life not only foreign ones, all ours too, any wonderful actress who knows how to show herself and become a diva on the red carpet, she is still in ordinary...

reflected in modern cinema, with costume designer natalia konevskaya we discuss the images of soviet film divas. it seems that earlier those actresses who were called divas, they played very different roles, lyudmila gurchenko, vertinskaya, and well, practically all of our actresses had very different roles, they could be some kind of provocative beauties and village women, and today.

a large film crew is sitting and discussing that elena yakovleva will play shapoklyak, then by the roles she is remembered for, you can understand how old people are, because someone remembers her as komenskaya, these are thirty-year-old people, someone remembers her as an intergirl, these are forty-year-old people, well, that's it now a new generation is growing up, in intergirls there were also some quite unusual ones, i remember from my childhood that wow for soviet cinema it was so very provocative, very opportunely one.

project, when you look at these historical costumes and images from films, then suddenly you rethink, you think, this is the same thing, this is the same thing we wear now, so this is where it came from, that is, it is always such an endless process of understanding the origins of who was inspired by what, and new images are born from this, well monde it's really very cyclical, the same

office romance is very much in line with modern collections... for example, miu-miu, but at the same time it is complemented by some bright, provocative details, for example, on top is the mymra costume, on the bottom are these panties embroidered with rhinestones, yes, this is wonderful, it's absolutely interesting how this will go to the people, panties embroidered with rhinestones, i'm waiting for this, and how do you, by the way, like this trend, i, for example, really like it, i'm waiting for when it will really be possible, but there was also a story before, for example, my mother, when she was studying at the institute, she says that she was the only one who was the first to wear jeans, yeah, yeah... it was considered not very decent for a girl to wear jeans, it was just so daring, in general, well, since i'm now going to make a film about the olympics, it seems to me that this year of the eighties, it generally changed the fashion coordinate system very much, and how sports fashion entered life, so gradually trousers and sneakers came into use, because before that these were things for

sports, and shorts began to be worn on the streets cities. just this sportswear, t-shirts, tell me a little more about this era of the eighties, when there was the olympics, because it was such a mixture of cultures, when a huge number of people from all over the world came to the soviet union, you want to say russia, the soviet union, yes, and there was such a penetration of new culture, everything fashionable, how it influenced soviet fashion, it influenced very much, i see it in all the references and photographs. that there was a direct transition, but in general it happened, there was a transition from the seventies style to the eighties style, and these are completely different silhouettes, yes, there were these flared ones.

probably this story with aerobics , programs are recorded, i forgot her name , this main american actress who did aerobics, my god, jane fonda, yes, she also brings this sports fashion from that side crawford was also there, but this was later, this is already i think, even the nineties, maybe the end of the eighties, yes, oh, this is the style of jane fonda with the bandages, yes, this a belt on a swimsuit, these bomber jackets that you are wearing, this is also this. tracksuits with bomber jackets, leggings, short shorts, sneakers, trainers, we didn’t wear trainers before, natalia was our ambassador of this sporty style, yes, yes, but she was still like on a hike at

that moment, of course, this and this for that time was also such a breakthrough and it seems to me a special kind of sexuality this checkered shirt, tight trousers, and these trainers, anyway, here she is in a skirt in a blouse, yes, i wonder what kind of shoes she has there, well, that’s for sure no... and what kind of footwear could there be? high-heeled shoes, small heels or pumps without heels, that's the maximum they allowed themselves with skirts, sneakers - that was absolutely purely sports footwear for sports. and what other trends came to us with the eighties? high -waisted trousers with tucks, that is, flares are leaving , bananas are gradually appearing, broad shoulders, after these narrow shirts. which are narrowed at the back with tucks, these are just silhouettes, but in general oversize, oversize - this is style that came to us from the eighties, it is difficult to find vintage things at all now,

on the one hand, every year it is more difficult, well, not even more difficult, but let's say, more expensive, because when i started - these clothes from the eighties, they were not valued at all and you could haggle for 100 to 200 rubles at any good market for all these things, now these ... men's suits from the bolshevichka factory are considered a fashionable unisex style, they are sold by bloggers and they cost just zero more. tell me, what else is really expensive on the resale market now, well, besides, say, bags from famous brands. yeah. vintage jewelry, probably, right? you know, oddly enough, i came across the fact that all the soviet symbols, real soviet things, are very expensive.

this is clearly not due to revealing clothes, but only charisma, just getting into the casting, because i'm sure no one can predict some story, like - sharon stone, who crosses her legs

in a white dress and is quoted for 20 years this image is the sexiest, the most daring, although it would seem, and from modern russian actresses, who would you name, how sexy now is such a dangerous one... such a one is walking, well, you know, maybe you didn't remember someone, here you named someone, someone you understand, that you all now, with pleasure i can remember the whole cast of kept women, i think that there was this magic, when everything coincided, the images, and the actress, and the casting, the script coincided, and of course, there is a lot there sex in every image, well dasha moroz, she is a very good dramatic actress in general, but it is after. for marina zudina,

but it is precisely due to charisma, yes, it is due to charisma, because all the same things put on some other actress without her appearance, without her posture, and nothing will work. thank you very much, natasha, it was very interesting, and i wish you as much interesting, bright work from different eras as possible and of course, success in your difficult work of finding the right, necessary things, i realized that this is really very-very difficult task. it's true, you don't know what to watch, a win-win option would be the classics of soviet cinema, and, of course, all the releases are no slouch and the podcast lab, which you can find on the site of the first. this is a psyche podcast, and we continue to sort out. our boxes of troubles,

problems, failures, well, or just ignorance of how to behave in a given situation. our heroine today, a young, beautiful, outwardly self-confident girl, in fact cannot say no, she cannot set boundaries, so very often, as it seems to her, loses, well, in the most simple everyday conflicts. at least, that's how the situation looks from her point of view. hello, anna. hello. today, psychologist olga gelman is with us, and we will try to discuss this situation of yours, these stereotypes of yours, or maybe the wrong algorithm so that you ultimately feel good, confident and happy. so what's going on - what are your difficulties with setting boundaries and saying: no, i don't want this. my difficulty is that i don't know how to behave in conflict situations, i i just don't know how to fight back, i've had this problem since... childhood, that is, when

some kind of aggression or pressure comes my way, then i just shrink back, that is , i generally run away, yes, or just clamp up like that and i take the position of a victim and the aggressor sees this and attacks even more, and if i try to somehow defend myself, then it turns out badly and it gets even worse, and can you give some examples, well, such real cases from your life, when you behaved, as it seems to you, not very well effectively, well, for example, i lived in a communal apartment with neighbors, they were, well, this is a big test, yes, they were evil, it all started, at first they did not know me, they probed me, they made everyday comments about every little thing, about each there, for example, what comments, there i did not remove the plate from the common table, i did not clean the unicaza in line, i did not even have any major mistakes, that is, for example , my hair is lying somewhere, that is, my hair just fell out and it was lying somewhere there, she, here is your hair. or there why do you have a washing machine

it works loudly or the most murderous thing was that your kettle spoils the view, these comments became more and more, gradually, there was one neighbor who made a comment, another was just very impudent, she never cleaned, she just spent whole hours in the bathroom, that is, i wanted to go to the bathroom, but i had to wait 2 hours, because she was there, i just don’t know what she was doing there, and what feelings arise in you when all this happens to you, even now you remember this situation, and some feeling, yes, what, well i feel confusion, sadness, well, for example, when there is never, confusion, sadness or you are angry, well at that moment, you are telling, you are even now you are angry, at that moment i was angry, yes, for example, when she was already completely violating the boundaries, for example, she sits there for 2 hours in this bathroom, i timidly knock on her there after 2 hours, that is, i wait and wait, then i knock, she comes out and attacks me, why are you knocking, are you completely, what? well, do i understand correctly, anger

it's growing, but you're holding yourself back, you 're holding yourself back now, you're even telling it very emotionally, great, you're holding yourself back, and you're approaching this door and trying to politely ask her to leave the bathroom, yes, but she's not being aggressive, but she's being aggressive towards us, she's being aggressive, yes, there was a situation with the bathroom, and there was also a situation with the trash, she's very sloppy, there was a lot of trash from her. we had a common trash can, 90 percent of the trash was from her, but she never took it out, she took it out it's me all the time, it was easier for me to bear it myself all the time than to make a remark, it's very difficult for me to make a remark at all, it's uncomfortable, it's easier for me to just keep quiet, be patient, resign myself, so sometimes i scold myself for this, then, when the moment comes when i finally make a remark, this already becomes the norm for a person, that i endure everything, keep quiet, and he begins to be indignant, why the hell are you suddenly making a remark all the time? they know how to be

sincerely surprised, and why don't you keep quiet anymore? in childhood, too, yes, it was like that, because everyone behavior strategies are laid down in childhood, yeah, yeah, i didn't know how to fight back against children, that was the same thing there, for example, remember some situation, well, i don't know , they pulled my braids, my parfels, yeah, there were all sorts of things like that, well, i was just upset, i cried and that's it, that is, i didn't know how to fight back at all, and why you didn't know how to fight back, that's a good question, i 'm interested in that myself, it's just that olga and i will figure it out now, yeah. we'll try to get to the bottom of it, it just so happened that you learned to react like that, we learn this, and in my childhood this strategy was the one that brought you security, and if in adulthood some

alternative strategy is not offered, then the basic one will always work, which in childhood was recorded as successful, because once you experienced some stress, and it was a successful strategy, yeah, yeah, i can tell you why? for me and in all situations she intervened, that is, if someone offended me, she herself went to sort it out, she also liked to transfer me to a new team, that is, when somewhere something went wrong, she says: so that's it, we're changing schools, that is , olga, it turns out that when anya was still a child, her parents, well, probably her mother, based on certainly...

not to resolve the conflict, but to get away from the conflict, but you're not a mother, and you somehow want it differently, i want it differently, i don't like all these situations, like, for example, in that same communal apartment, that i was simply afraid to leave the room once again, this is not normal, and you didn't immediately agree on some rules, that's how it was, so i just want, you know, to look at this whole situation now from the very beginning started, yeah, so you come to this communal apartment, yeah, these girls are already living there, as i understand it, yeah, well, one. there was a woman, the second one, the one who didn’t clean the bathroom was sitting, she moved in later, and she moved in later, okay, that is, you came , this woman lives there, yeah, and you basically came to someone else’s monastery, although formally you have the same rights, of course, that this is a woman, yeah, yeah, but she

said that she was the boss here, because i was renting, she is the owner of her room, so she apparently perceived us in such a way that we are walking around her apartment, well, from her point of view, of course. and how did you feel when you came from the very beginning, what was your mood? well, i am generally friendly to people, i had a neutral mood, that is, i don’t make any noise at all, i don’t throw trash around, that is, i am neat in everyday life, that is, i can not wipe the dust somewhere in small things, but these are very small things, but in general i well, you expected that they would do the same as you, they would behave neatly like you, right, but they turned out to be well yeah, i'm not demanding at all in everyday life, for example, this woman, who, well, she was already so old, she was fixated on cleaning, she was always making all sorts of such household comments, and how did you end up in this communal apartment, you moved out from your mom, and i moved out from my husband,

got divorced, you moved out from your husband, yeah, before that i also lived in communal apartments, before, i lived in a dorm before that and lived in many places with my mom as a child or what? as a child i lived with my parents, then 18. i went to a dorm somewhere since then i'm well, that is, you are like this experienced in fact, the inhabitants of places so to speak of public use yes and that is and before that you did not have conflicts there were also before that i also lived in communal apartments but there were different neighbors were better were worse in general it was bearable i understand correctly the feeling that you are going through such an experience how should you be in different groups do you fit into these groups or not in childhood your mother showed you that during conflicts

there was a real scandal, well i endured, endured for many months, and then when it was and what happened, what kind of scandal it was, well tell me it was because of the trash, well when i wrote the note, please take out the trash, i thought i...

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uh, there is such a traditional series of reactions, yes, in a stressful situation, fight, run, freeze, yeah, and i just can't figure out what does our heroine, because she runs, hits, at the same time freezes, when she gets stuck in some kind of conflict, she uses everything, she first freezes, and then, when she can no longer, she generates the last resource and attacks, that is, she for now...

yes, she definitely doesn’t want to be like her mother in her subconscious, someday, if we dive into it now, you’ll dive into some kind of childhood story that you’ll remember, you ’ll remember somewhere what decision you made there, we made some decisions later, it seems like we made them in childhood, but up to 7 years old, in general, especially there is no critical thinking, it comes later, we just make some decisions, draw conclusions, and since

the child's psyche comes out of some stressful situations, and all this is recorded in the database. then it automatically becomes a reaction, if not from the awareness of an adult, you do not give other reactions, you say, no, i will not act like this now, i will act differently, then the basic one will always work, what is the basic one, the conflict escalates, escalates, escalates, then you speak out , leave, escalates, escalates, you speak out, you leave, it was the same with my husband, with my husband, thank god, there were no conflicts, that is, in life i am not a conflict person, well, that's a separate story, i left him.

months, yeah, that is, he did not want me to try to say, no, it lasted a little long to let go, and some part of yourself inside yourself, you seem to not accept, this part of you, which can also say no sharply and boldly, also be aggressive, you decided that this part of yourself is wrong, you suppress this part, and then, when you can no longer suppress it, it breaks out outward and you even wave your hand, you are angry, but there is nothing wrong with anger. no, in fact, it is a very such feeling that gives energy to move forward, make new decisions and go somewhere further, yeah, well, look, it turns out that our heroine, as we have just figured out, yes, knows how to say no, does it quite harshly, harshly, aggressively, yes, and although anina complains about the aggression of others, in fact she pays

exactly the same coin, exactly the same aggression, and because the mirror, yes, and because the mirror, but there are probably ways in the world invented by people to say no and set boundaries, without falling into this anger and fury, it's not even anger, but it's fury, you see, when she swings, it's already fury, when she writes this note, please tell me, how did you write in the text again in that note, i wrote please, take out the trash finally, yeah, because i always take it out, i wrote to the icon.

anger, it's as if any feeling that we have, it always has two sides, we live in a polar world, there is always a plus and a minus, there is a downside to this, you haven't looked at this downside yet, you just decided, well, a long time ago in childhood, that being aggressive and angry, but it's wrong, and you don't control this feeling, you just decided that it 's wrong and decided everything, well, you take this lesson and you can't pass it, the test is not passed for... not passed, the test is not passed, this situation appears again where you need to pass the test, yes, i really don't like the feeling of aggression, i try to avoid it altogether it didn't get to me, but i was just really fed up, i say, i endured for many months, kept quiet, but then i just, why were you silent? this is exactly the question, the problem, i say, i don't like and don't know how to make

comments, it's just easier for me to keep quiet , excuse me, why a comment? if you need to come to an agreement with a person, the ability to communicate is the ability to talk, listen, hear the person's point of view, also say your point of view and come to some kind of joint decision, not one person decides something here, look at this game, your flatmates, they decided something there themselves, how much they should wash, when they should take out the trash, you also decided something, but none of you agreed on anything, this is all the child's position, you vamgu. some part of you is required, here it is, stuck in some conflict in childhood, maybe my toy, maybe give me back my toy, you, maybe you will remember now some story from childhood, which could have been traumatic for you. for a conflict to develop, there must be three conditions: some story must be unexpected, dramatic for you and isolated, that is, you couldn’t tell anyone what kind of story it was, yes, in childhood

then, most likely with my mother there was a story, well, what do you remember? well, with my mother, in fact , i don’t have a very happy family, that is, my parents, they were constantly arguing, fighting with each other, all this happened before my eyes, it was terrible, maybe because of this i immediately had such an aversion to aggression, yeah. constant these scandals that i saw, they both beat each other, she insulted him, she was very furious, she terrible, that is, she says very offensive things, and what a vivid story from their scandal, which you just remembered, something that shocked you, well, she told him, i hate you, i wish you would die, that is, it was just like that, and all this happened in front of me, it's terrible, but at the same time anechka, at the same time they continued to live with each other , yes, that is... the family remained together, well, now they have already divorced, but this is when i was already an adult, so before i was 18, they lived together, that is, this was their way say to each other: i don't want it like that, yes, i

don't like it, they sorted things out like that, it turns out yes, it's as if they didn't just agree, they just expressed claims to each other, but they beat each other, each other figuratively , literally, yeah, yeah, that's right. they defended these boundaries like that, and did you see it? i saw it and i had few friends, i was embarrassed every year, that you were embarrassed in front of your friends, that such parents, that they have such a relationship, no i wasn't embarrassed, well i don't know, why is it possible because my mother constantly transferred me to new schools, i just didn't have time to make friends there, and you also moved or just lived in one and that's not it, we moved sometimes too, but we didn't move that often my mother just changed schools for me. that is, it turns out that my mother didn't know how to resolve any conflicts, even pre-conflict situations, he had such a way, that is,

to beat her husband, to pull her daughter out of a situation that could be resolved, and the whole world, this is one big threat, yes, the whole world, this is something, yes, by the way, i am very happy, pleased with myself, proud of myself, that i grew up. a kind person, i love people, i trust the world, that is, i have no problems with this, thank god, you definitely trust the world, definitely 100%, on the contrary, even many people are surprised how i trust the world, i have no fears at all, by default i love people until they prove otherwise, that is, and do you love people as you imagine some ideal, yes, probably not, i just love people, in principle, with all their shortcomings, with the fact that she is in the bathroom for 2 hours with... her long hair, yes, i wanted to be friends with her, i offered her friendship many times, she herself did not want to communicate with me, i did not even know how to communicate with her, she did not support conversations, she could

say something there yes, no everything, and you accepted that she could be in the bathroom for 2 hours and wash her well i did not like it, i endured, well , sometimes i knocked, but you love people, yes i do, but she is like that, well, i had to go to the bathroom, and talk, say, what is her name girl? dasha, let it be dash, listen, you when it's convenient to take a bath, you can first, come on, maybe i'll wash myself, quickly, and then you, how much do you need, yeah, well it was just or it would have been a defeat for you, it wasn't a defeat, it's just that she, well, she was already there, she was already there constantly, it seems to me, she spent most of the day there, that is, it's already a fact that i 'm getting ready to go there, she's already sitting there, so i am accordingly, and why are you getting ready to go there when she's sitting there at that very moment?

i was offended by the fact that my mistress, i had a good relationship with her, she was kind, understanding, but then she also told me, that you, she made a claim to me that why am i dasha making a remark? she says: shut up with your substitutions, i asked her, why should i keep quiet with my comments, i can't even go to the bathroom, help yourself, greet me like kings, and what is yarchalli? yarchalli is the tatar name for the city of naberezhnye chelny? these are the only above-ground remains of structures before the mongol period in our republic. what century is this? the 16th century. ice cream. ice cream from local sour cream, berries brought. a couple

of hours ago, what a beauty, where are we? in a beautiful kitchen, now we will do what, cook something delicious, i will cook pasta in the form of candies, inside i will have stewed duck, i will add a little local flavor, this is smoked horse rib, wow, premiere, cooks on wheels, tomorrow on the first, this is a podcast psyche, our heroine today anna believes that

she raises, yes, a dominant position, yes, i know how to do it right, i am right, they are wrong, you are right, why do i need this say, my last word, my best, i have decided for myself, i am a good person, and you, well, this is how to say, prove to me that you are good people, you said that if they do not show that back, then it seems like showing yourself from the other side, yeah, yeah, but in fact, in order to build. this communication, you need to remove the barrier, remove the dominant position, otherwise it's as if you are in the role of a teacher, i know how good it is, i will teach you how to behave correctly here, no, this is not you who say this, but this is the message like that, is it just me, it seems to me , on the contrary, this is not at all typical for me, okay, dasha doesn’t want to get out of the bath when someone else needs to, dasha doesn’t want to take out the trash, she doesn’t want to, it’s her right, it’s her

life, she... doesn’t want to take out the trash, you didn’t initially agree on a trash removal schedule, each of you has your own concept, each of you has your own truth of life in this situation and you didn’t agree on who will wash when and for how much? well, it seems to me that it’s obvious that if you live in a communal apartment, then sitting in a shared bathroom all day long is not very good, well, in my opinion it's just obvious and it seemed to me that it should be, that's exactly what's obvious to you, you need to learn to negotiate very simply. endured, endured, then a conflict happened, this model was recorded, you do it similarly, but if you are not a mother, you are not a father, the parents decided, they decided them, when they are you, it is you, and you can choose, don't look at it like that anymore, those decisions that you saw, how to do it, like them, and this is your conscious adult choice, that i don't want to do it like that anymore conflict, because i know that

i also have this energy of anger. somehow in a game something nasty does to me, i get really angry, i scream, but it's not toxic, in the game it's nasty, well in the game, well in board games there 's a fight, there we can kill each other somehow, that is, this energy is not realized in life, it is realized in such an incorrect way, where else can you apply it, because first of all it is also the energy of movement, how much sport

exists in your life, so that...

home, yeah, they would say, girls, let's go let's have some tea, yeah, let's get acquainted, i wanted to ask, let's say, how is it better for me, how is it better to... to take the bath with you, yes, i need to somehow warn you there, yes, let's say that i need to wash my hair, i'll sit in the bath for an hour and a half, or how do you, what obligations, kitchen duties can we distribute, would that be a bit of humiliation for you, or, on the contrary, you are such an adult and a good girl and you offer - some kind of correct management plan, or would it still be awkward for you, for me it would not be that... that humiliation for me would be some kind of stress, it's stress for me for some reason, that is, to discuss, to ask - it's stress, to knock on the bathtub and write notes - it's not stress, it's also stress, i hoped that it wouldn't come to this, you hoped that they

themselves would simply somehow understand you, what you want, as it is convenient for you, that they would silently understand you, but it's not so, they will teleport, well, no, well , somehow people for the most part do not read your thoughts, alas, alas, or maybe it's good, yes, i just tell her. yeah, perhaps, yes, that was our common a mistake, because in the previous communal apartment where i lived, there was a strict schedule of duty

, but here there was none, here no one really needed this schedule, that is , mainly this elderly woman cleaned, yeah, i cleaned sometimes, dasha didn't clean at all, she was only a garbage man, where did you get this from, what? at first you tolerate it, why right away, well, because you didn't agree right away, and then you start to tolerate it in the hope that someone will understand that you do more than the tasks that should have been distributed to everyone, well, probably, because i judge by myself, i thought that she also has a conscience, that she understands obvious things, well, it’s just that in my opinion these were obvious things, there is definitely a conscience there, it’s just not obvious to her, what is obvious to you, well, i just hinted to her that she sits for a long time, i... naturally , i didn’t immediately pounce on why you sit, i hinted to her, i said, dash, you wash for a very long time, you know, in psychology there is such a rule, it is very often recommended in a variety of psychological practices,

speak from the i position, yeah, i know, let's try, it even turns out that our heroine, she kind of departed from this rule altogether, let's try to play out this situation retrospectively now speak with dasha, from this i position, well, say dash, i often have to wait a very long time in line to go to the bathroom, i usually wash in the evenings, sometimes i have to, for example, go to bed later because of this and then not get enough sleep, no, she doesn't even hear this at all, no, the next option won't work, although i think it's gotten better anyway, and what else? tell me about what you feel? dash, i often have to wait a long time in line for the bathroom, sometimes it bothers me because it ruins my plans, when i wait a long time, i can be late for something or go to bed late and not get enough sleep,

yeah, that's easier, but i still want something, even more kindness to dasha for myself, or some kind of sincerity, let's try again, dash, i would, unfortunately, have... i often have to wait a long time for me, for the bathroom to be free, but i go myself there very quickly, so it would be great if you didn't sit there for a long time in a row, exactly, that is, i quickly olga gave you a hint-hint, anya, about myself, i say, i wouldn't want to wait for a long time, that's a complaint, i wouldn't want to, and what do you feel, well, i feel. irritation, if i'm late somewhere, i have to be late because i'm irritation, another feeling, well, mainly irritation, that or let's say, i need to wash my face there, wash my hands, and i can't do it, because

there, besides irritation, well, what could it be other feelings, well, for example, resentment, bitterness, well, it seems to me that resentment is resentment and disappointment - it's something more personal, that is, if i had some kind of relationship with her. then it would be resentment, so, since well, we didn't communicate, i rather perceived her simply as an obstacle already in the end, that is, i wanted to be friends with her, i really wanted to be friends with her, i took steps to get closer, she didn't want it and i didn't want it either...

in childhood i wrote down that this is a strategy survival, mom and dad did it that way, they survived, but you survived too, a great strategy for survival, but in fact, you are an adult, and you see that people can communicate differently, and you, therefore, have the opportunity to choose, but how would i like to communicate, that is, if i don’t want to, then how would i want to answer the question for myself, because from what you are telling me, i didn’t hear, for example, what you would say, i would like. for my life to be like this, like this, like this, you often say, i don’t want,

for it to be like that, i don’t want it to be like that, yes, this is a different position, it seems to be the same thing, but in a different way. well, friends , it seems to me that our heroine anya has a lot to think about, it seems to me that it wasn’t a useful conversation, yes, useful, yes, although you didn’t always agree with our wonderful psychologist, olga gelman, who immediately , practically from the first minutes of our conversation, understood what... the reason found the root of this communication flaw, but it seems to me that everything is fixable, you will think, reason, and maybe yours the ability to say no, which you actually have, will become softer and less traumatic for you, yeah, yeah, thank you, there really is something to think about, some things surprised me, this is generally a very unusual point of view, i will... about this friends, it was a psyche podcast, in which we discussed

how to say no correctly, because sometimes it seems to us that you can only say no aggressively and furiously, but this is not always the case, if you want to take part in our program, fill out the form on the website 1tv.ru.

girl, we were making noise, they will call you for a long time.

the hall is ready, well, let's go, yes, a funny story, please.

you don't want to reconcile with your wife, not the slightest desire, the main reason is that i hate her, i can't even be in the same room with her, there is a woman whom i will marry immediately after the divorce, she knows this, because the incompatibility of characters pulls, how many years have you lived together, existed, 7 years, will you refuse to ... marriage, for nothing, he does not love you, so what, and how many families do not love each other and live, at he has another woman,

everyone has another woman, how long have you been apart from each other? six months, probably 3 weeks, shame on you, the man hates you, why do you need this, he will say whatever you want to the court, if he was not ordered to file for a year, we could have made up during this time, i will not go to her, i will not let her come to me, how can we make up in this year, well , okay, well, not a year, well, give me 2 months. the court, deliberating on the spot, decided to postpone the decision of this issue for 2 months with the purpose of reconciliation of spouses, well, what did they say, they said,

wait, they'll call. did you love each other before? did you come together out of love? mironov, do you promise to pull yourself together?

no, i don't promise, why? it will be hard for me. there are two roads ahead of you. one is to be glad that your daughters are growing up and that your wife is happy, and the other joy, the villain with a sticker, as we say, is there really no way to return to a human state? listen, lend me some money.

we're living like cats, no, no, no, sorry. what complaints do you have about your wife? i have no complaints. what then is not compatibility of characters and how is it expressed? comrade judge, this is a difficult question, psychologists write about this work, you have a son, this is my son, my husband adopted him, in general he is

an adult, his father has a normal relationship with him, that the stepfather has a normal relationship with him, wonderful, wonderful, you see, everyone has a wonderful relationship, so what happens, does nikolina agree to a divorce? agree, agree, agree, and then you will bite your elbows, you have lived together all your life, and now you are left alone, i do not know, there are no grounds for divorce, how not, i have indicated the reasons, this is not a reason, it's an excuse, okay, we wanted to do without details, but if it is so... necessary, please, i met a woman,

many years ago we had a strong feeling, we realized that we needed each other, that we still love each other, it's a different conversation with... a woman, you say that you had a strong feeling with her, what prevented you from getting married, that's how the circumstances turned out, i married my current wife, we had known each other since childhood, she lived alone, she had a two-year-old son. so, and now you met your friend, when it happened, about a year ago, she also

filed for divorce, she has no children, you see, two families are falling apart, but is it worth it, after all, how is your life with your new friend going, after all, no one knows, neither you nor her, let's still wait, put off the decision of this case, forgive me, please, i don't know how this should be formulated for the court's decision, but i ask you to satisfy the claim, the fact is that we live in the same house, well, just like strangers, it is very, very difficult for me to see a person, that is, well, to see my husband every day, who, who loves another woman, just for my sake, i... i ask you to resolve this matter now, if it is possible, of course, the shumilovs,

listen, what are they asking there? well, who, when, with whom, why, in general, will i say that you drink, that she drinks, that in general you all drink?

you claim that shumilov swore obscenely. in every way inclined, it was, it was, but, truth be told, i swore to myself to myself and no one heard, perhaps she heard, how could she hear you, after all, colloquial speech you weren't there, no, but maybe there was conversation, your wife claims that you beat her in public places, threw a kettle at her, do you confirm this? i

threw the kettle just for fun, just on the floor, like another time, i kicked her in the thigh, just because of the child, since she spoils him with her upbringing, they grabbed the iron, grabbed it, why? just to hold it, did you have to iron it or what? i didn't have to iron it, who took the iron? neighbor, and you better tell me how you tore my shirt? and i cut up the shirt, because there were daily reproaches, you drink, i have a beer, but i never lay around and was not picked up by anyone, there will be peace between you.

there have been no scandals lately, but i hit her once, when the date, i remember, i don’t remember exactly, was her birthday. lavrovs, please, have you ever thought that you could have children, no, you should have thought about it, lavrov, tell the court what happened to you there, what is the main reason,

it is impossible to start a family, and in general there is nothing in common. lavova, does he drink? not really, actually he doesn’t drink. did he beat you? what? so, on you don't complain about your husband's behavior. he locked the room and didn't let me spend the night. well, where did you spend the night? i climbed in through the window. we had scaffolding then. how could he not let you into his own space? he even brought a girlfriend. did they have an intimate relationship? no. how do you know that? they had a silent agreement, maybe there was some reason after all, he thinks that i cheated on him, he thinks right, it doesn't matter, how does it not matter whether you cheated on him or not, i answered this question i refuse to answer, it is your right, but keep in mind that you are doing this to your own detriment, maybe we should not rush, lavrov, your wife

objects to the dissolution of the marriage, i object because it is stupid. let's postpone the decision on this issue, no, i have decided everything finally, there will be no family here, let's do it now, let's do it right away, go, we are being sorted out. surname, nationality, russian, were previously married, tsvetkov yuri, reason for the dissolution of this marriage, does nothing himself, does not work anywhere and does not study anywhere,

often insulted me, and we lived poorly, said that... i am a prostitute and that i can be bought for 3 rubles and in general all sorts of insults that i do not deserve. defendant, stand up, there is telling the truth, i could not say this. i earn like all soviet people, a thief judge, not bad, she is a very good girl, i loved her now i love her, here her mother

is sitting, these are all her words, she said to her daughter: there will be a cooperative, you will live, there will be no cooperative, you will not live, you will go to tsvetkov, where will i get a cooperative, she thinks that if he is georgian, then he is rich. plaintiff, he is telling the truth, he does not love me at all, but he claims that he loves you, no, he does not love me, no, i love you, and you know it, no, i don’t know, you know, through the calls that i called you, yes, kereloshvili, why do you think that she wants to go back to her first husband, because he listened to the phone conversation and built all his nonsense on it, no, it is not she who wants it, she is not a bad girl. it is all her mother, and then there will be three unhappy people, no, she loves svetkova yuri, and left him frivolously, here he comes back, at least there will be no lies, and

kirilloshvili his father promised before the wedding that there would be a cooperative, you do not know how to behave, leave the room, if he loved me, then at least he would have thought of something so that we would not live together with mom. theft judge, i ask for an addition, please, i do not accuse my wife of anything, if larisa has three hearts, one for her first husband, the second for me, and the third for someone else, citizen judges, i ask you to satisfy her petition.

forgive me, please, vadim is home, please, wait a minute, they came to see you, let them wait. yeah, he's busy now, wait, fix it yourself, just a little, wait a minute, well, what's up, great, hello, ah, let the man go, get dressed, how are you living with the cherries? drunk, or what? and did you pour me a drink?

your job? happiness, oh, who do i see, a spouse, ah... so how modestly, why are you pestering me, but get out of here, cretin, well... you can't do that, you can't do that, this is not a toy, this is a bladed weapon, and he's drunk, and let's decide this way, drink, but remember the point, for causing less serious

bodily harm article, from two to six years, and now go home, well, i'll get you, you scared me. close the door, watch out that the door doesn't close behind you.

so what, what? go away, disappear.

so what, so what, go away, disappear, what do you think, am i jealous of you or something? you ruined your life. what for, poor thing?

hello, hello, is this, is this mitya speaking, remember? mitya, and i thought you'd just say, it's me, that's it, where are you now? i'm calling from a pay phone. the pay phone is by the post office, where is the post office, what street is it, komsomolskaya street, so don't go anywhere, wait, i'll be there in 5 minutes, no, i you see, i'm calling just to make arrangements, well , i'll come and we'll make arrangements,

oh, hello, and i was wondering, would you call or not? if only you knew what happened to me after that evening, when everyone was sitting and joking. they got up and went, i also got up

and went, i did it mechanically, and then i came to my senses, came back and thought, what a dirty trick, he left without even saying goodbye, well, why did you say that, we didn't even say hello, but i said it anyway, anyway, and then it turned out that you didn't leave, i completely lost my mind then, and then you suddenly say, just don't leave, i'm always the last to leave, well, you had engineers all with higher education, so you know everyone at the plant by sight, and so, and didn't you notice there? half of them were fools, one smart one was sitting in the corner, better yet, he was also a fool, you excuse me, please, i just called to make an appointment, now i have things to do, okay. you always tell me honestly, my things have gone downhill, well, you know, how is this actually not right, it's like this, you need to find one person, or maybe let's look together, it's not worth your own conversation, for a long time, well, how it will work out, and i have time, i can

wait, okay, let's go, next? we'll do it, next, we'll act, we've arrived, well now we'll wait,

how interesting, yeah, me! irisha, excuse me, please, go, go, i'll call you, go, missya!

i'll get some more tugat', you calm down, mitya, you, irish, you go, i'll call you later, go , you'll call, you won't disappear, call, i'll call.

really, well okay, i'll go. hello, hello, i'm here according to the ad.

very large 30 m, but partitioned off by a capital partition, so practically it turns out, two rooms with isolated entrances.

you,

listen, maybe this is not interesting to you, but you know, we are so similar to each other, it's just curious, sometimes they just confuse us, you won't guess where i am, where my sister is, it's you, no, this is my sister, yes, and this is me, this is also me, one of the last pictures, well, it would seem. they didn't take it, and now, in order to break it, you need to get permission again, they don't give it to us,

so i have to go to the inspector, and he will refuse me, listen, why go to the inspector, if you know that he will refuse you, to get a refusal, why, and then, that when i get a refusal, i can go further, but i can’t go further right away, no, i can’t go further right away until i have a resolution, wait a second, what? well, if you want, well , let me come to you on sunday and they’ll break down the partition, how are you going to break down a capital partition, they don’t build to break it, i’ll tear it down with my hands, what are you, where are you going to put the logs, logs like these, i’ll throw them out into the yard, no, they’ll clutter everything up there, someone will pick them up, who will pick them up, put up a partition, yes, but in general you know, this idea, really, just didn't occur to me? if he decides to just take, break everything and sweep it away, really, and maybe really?