ways invented by people, to say no and set boundaries, without falling into this anger and fury, it's not even anger, it's fury, you see, when she swings, it's already fury, when she writes this note, please tell me, how did you write in the text again in that note, well, i wrote please, take out the trash finally, yeah, because i always take it out, you see, even the way she speaks, then the word appears.

as if any feeling that we have, it always has two sides, we live in a polar world, there is always a plus and minus, there is a downside to this, you haven't looked at this downside yet, you just decided, well, a long time ago in childhood, that being aggressive and angry, but it's wrong, and you don't control this feeling, you just decided that it was wrong and decided, so you're angry and that's it, well, you go through this lesson and you can't pass it, the test is not passed, the test is not passed, the test is not passed. this situation appears again, where you need to pass the test, yes, i really don't like the feeling of aggression, i try not to let it get to that point, but i have i'm just really fed up, i say, i've been patient for many months, i kept quiet, but then i just, why did you keep quiet? this is exactly the question, the problem, i say, i don't like and i don't know how to make comments, it's just easier for me to keep quiet, excuse me, why the comment,

are we giving up? i should also express my point of view and come to some kind of joint decision, not one person decides something here, look at this game, your neighbors in the apartment, they decided something there themselves, how much they should wash, when they should take out the trash, you also decided something, but you have not agreed on anything, this is all the child's position, you need some part. you are stuck in some conflict in childhood, my toy, maybe give me my toy, maybe you will remember now some story from childhood, which could be traumatic for you, for a conflict to develop, there must be three conditions: some story must be unexpected, dramatic and isolated for you, that is, you could not tell anyone what kind of story it was, yes in childhood then, most likely with your mother there and history, well, what do you remember, well, with my mother , in fact, i don’t have a very... happy

family, that is, my parents, they were constantly arguing, fighting with each other, it all happened before my eyes, it was terrible, maybe because of this i immediately had such an aversion to aggression, these constant scandals that i saw, they both beat each other, she insulted him, she was very furious, she was terrible, that is, she said very offensive things, and what a vivid story from their scandal, which you remembered right away, something like that, that you shocked, well she told him, i hate you. i wish you would die, that is , it was just like that, and all this was in my presence, this is already, but at the same time, anechka, at the same time, at the same time they continued to live with each other together, yes, that is, the family remained, well now they have already divorced, but this is when i have already grown up, so before i was 18, they lived together, that is, this was their way of saying to each other: i don’t want this, yes, i don’t like it, this is how they sorted things out, it turns out yes, that’s how...

i love people, i trust the world, that is, with this i have no problems, thank god, you definitely trust the world, definitely 100%, on the contrary, even many people are surprised how i trust the world, i have no fears at all, by default i love people until they prove otherwise, that is, and you love people as you imagine some ideal, yes, probably not, i just love people in principle, with all their shortcomings, with the fact that she is in the bathroom for 2 hours with her long hair. yes, i wanted to be friends with her, i offered her friendship many times, she communicates with me herself i didn't want to, i didn't even know how to communicate with her, she didn't keep up the conversation, she could say something, yes, no, that's all. and did you understand that she could be in the bathroom for 2 hours and wash her hair, i didn't like it, i tolerated it, but sometimes i knocked, but you

love people, yes, i love them.