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when you stretch we bury him 2 more for right. now we both of them still working here is a 24 hour a day 7 days a week job to do but the amount of stress that we experience sometimes is immense i can still hope to maybe go on these balls. in a whole different look up but. i'm glad i'm a muslim funeral director here in london. i've now part time and i'm letting the young people take over. so what will happen now is we have to take and miss valentino in front of the most plays this personality has come in and we have another female happening today so after the play is finish move will take the deceased down to the money and sometimes i have

said to the tall not in full building at the back that we must open and she lets the germans over will take you down to the money and center and one of the rooms when to quit if you look at this is your signature ready my colleagues will take it to the rest of. the ladies as to who passed away was mostly in the. nephew and the people that came to i don't feel that they're christian. i believe that a bit vague in terms of what happens in the muslim funeral as in a sonic muslim is very basic and simple in that sense but you'll recall for the men explain what's happening.

now my grandson in college so i know he's coming in the last 6 months and we hope that we can train him to take over for me to carry on to do shrooms to carry on the service for the people here in london. it's a. moment i'm young and has a long mind and i sort of went off. to what do you i want. to be judged on my dad and. mom my dad and i. like it and. other stuff. i think. this will give it.

my whole family is for my birth who is going to this so i've been around. the idea of death and death is an everyday thing. that's. carried on my family's legacy. long to our copper to. my mum dad she went into the company because my great grandfather wonder a little bit help so sure for we can then he turned the years and she just carried on. but she decided she wanted to go back teaching. i was quite surprised you wanted to do this and i didn't know whether it was just because it was an easy

option because you're like. ok you really want to do it to. really enjoy doing nothing so my dad's a big character i was really difficult because for 20 years over 20 years we sort of stopping father and daughter and became business partners which challenge to stomach leigh how i was dealing with him and talking to him and there's this very much disrespect thing. and we deal with things very very differently i was in partnership with my dad only up until recently. who know was here for 20 years and she decided that she would stand back for a while because maybe she wanted to direct your nose and i was standing in her way we have women come here their husbands have died and they can relate to a woman better than they can a man especially with asian women so we need

a woman's touch here and i think it will be coming back. we have about $30000.00 plus muslim population here in the white chapel east london area and this is always been the kind of melting pot of southern england. you know did not prepare you paula visit the mosque every now and then and not only did i go. to the extent the most trouble that bit of a turn over the islands. lovely little towns because increase. they came here the day was a good. 5 i think it was it was the other night. for what brits 1st was privileged to be in london i was speech she might arrive in belfast this summer. but you only see it's because the kids in exact incidentally working

quite straight was closed off because you had to find the same time i'm sure it was developed by now friend. and you know i don't live in the area. moment though i thought it's a pretty you know they're an issue we work together we go on to give a what. i want to for some in the media well what we all respect one another's views yeah to a point of we disagree sometimes but we don't ram have used them please push fronts . the way i do you can't be fearful just in case you have you know that. when they're down am not ok's and i think we're going to happen is you going to have a yeah especially when you got to kate's. what i could. to get the original yes you have to give them the original green

certificate last year which is slow in this country you have to have the green to pick up the original ok i do problems give me a ring but i think you're going by. you only bury somebody once and people remember things when they go wrong weddings and funerals and if you do it right there where my dad used to do it then that's good and if you do it wrong those people will never forget you and what always kills you. today. this is a picture of dad and me. yeah when i was about 5 years of age because my father that wasn't very happy about having photographs taken. when mothers in the sari and i'm sure this was about 1956 this was taken. ringback ringback around about the mid sixty's when there was an influx of muslim people arriving

here in east london mainly bangladeshis or at that time it was east pakistan ringback. the need for a funeral service group so my father purchased a black ambulance van and started to do the funerals here in london ringback. tasneem army was only 17 is anyone he deputized as far as father was away on pilgrimage to mecca i grew up here in this area and we had this phenomena called bashing we had right wing groups coming along looking for asians to beat up just for the sake of it. my father was beaten up ringback and. it wasn't wasn't a good time in east end of london ringback ringback ringback. my mum was welsh she converted to islam too in the 2nd world war with my father she was a coal miner's daughter can you imagine the stigma of a white lady marrying

a dark person but she didn't care but i'm also proud to be a bangladeshi as well. oh yeah that's my dad that's my dad roughly. 4 weeks before he died and is now when he graduated. and muna when she graduated she sees the world in a different way because being younger than me she can maybe project forward where i don't that's why i think politicians shouldn't be allowed to be politicians after 65 that some young blood a far worse away because they've got better ideas and see things better than we do we're always thinking in the past and they're thinking in the future and it's important. so i do miss her yes.

today we have the you know gratian of the strong room for the 1st british muslim archives and guests from more different books of life have come to join us in this and the patients of this kind of pivotal moment. i get the sleeve setup the country's 1st and indeed it was europe's 1st muslim burial service we're hopefully going to see and the family members coming in. we're starting at $530.00 so fingers crossed the ocean for make it on time just go 15 minutes.

that's a very good move you should call. i can just misstep i will tell you this finished significantly different timing. ok so where is this that gary this is going to go in the marriage and my it is before you go down to be struck by how many can see me do when i get in my guide to pray to hell that play. 30 funny because i didn't realize and i said the almighty why i sat here but now we're all maybe you can take a photo and i can send it to dad. we know i. but sad to say that i was expecting it

given some of what went on. a bit of excitement in the room very very little come to say may. but the mayor of london said it's to be called. quite sure. the bama stop explaining how my granddaughter became they can tell you kathy a fellow i'd love in the room for him so many people to i didn't actually know that knew of me or knew who i was came up to speak to me on this one here because my dad was at the meeting up. at my grandad's. after some heated discussion the bill was approved impulse the payment. at the time is to test it out he was requested not to do any burial something off of the phone before getting prior consent from me on all charges found that my grandfather someone died for them quickly to that's what you made today so i think what if i know you need to make sure you get permission but you're going to get the money.

flow to the. from the law so your family and your contribution go to building this room with true. history this is great. so he was a sailor last. you can see like all the ports of engagement ports discharged i pulled away from calcutta to london to thank god they were from calcutta to close go back to calcutta right to grab bassinette my gran that. really got lifted holding my dad and i so it started him respect the kids. because my dad was but you know back then there were many makes up of a but i've seen the muslim community go. and so much specially in the day and to

what he is now and i was fine grandfather could see this now and my children will have no idea where the struggles my granddad had you know when he 1st came over here trying to get how make you know where would you this sort of thing it shows how people came over and then just you know the struggles they probably had. 'd just passed away literally in the. 79 year old. and in the mean. he suffered for 3 to 4 months but does mean this country for many many years so my

dad went for a look you have a lot because the best person has a son but the last 5 years of change 10 years of change so kind of a lot to a dean both of us father son brothers sisters and this is going to be a big time in our lives saw i mean it's going to bring us close to a law bring us close to our family members and in the future people people recognize how how precious people are around them especially a fall victim of it and when they go they go and say this is not a place of nice is no place been brought up money and in the book is see this is the time you know that you need you to be stand up and i commend that because it improves your chances is good for your father is not only for your years whatever your that is but so i have just look after you mark up after you see is this a lot of these are you busy for him and much you can just turn for your father or

the current don't become of the apprentice. very. much on our my you can go for the 5 minutes sometimes the government can do with that motion. i want to say every day it sticks out for you somebody. something you walk in there and you can take lightly every single day you meet somebody that makes you feel. your loved ones to hear. it's the way you view die and then how you deal with your family and your friends. there and i'm. just feeling for. the man that the whole trip place. animal she added from. so we can see $45.00 in the

stand up for itself. stands in book for 4. thank you. for this good question because of all that talk that's what you get they don't really know what. we have 5 funerals be a goddess of peace since i love. you do and the sentiment. numbers 246. they told me in today because a we've got so many funerals so they need to live as i'll be at the cemetery and kind of making trying to close down well. because there will be pandemonium.

death is such a level and i see it all the time. to meet people from baker to came. and it gives me a big insight into life itself every day is a bonus i want sisters please don't go on the roads and do what your heart tells you to do the kind the kids maybe the last case the anger maybe the loss and you show somebody forgive quickly don't hold it right. it is this is my one year ok brother this right place is where this wave scares me please. we are all god's creatures whether we are muslim gentile jew it doesn't matter scuse me please sorry ok you stay the side you stay decide your brother you don't decide ok from underneath lift up please was not you know i long. slowly please slowly. thank you both as we left. at the end of the day we go back to our korea and.

i know when my grandfather sussed a force on and a mom will come in i'm a surely the business to run smoothly you know everything starts puts me. there in the past niceties of him more similar than they realize. how a granddaughter how are you. i'm a life and what about you. have you broken up from school. ok are you on your own no are you with your mother. ok we loot will you ask a kindly to give me a ring could i need to know what time should be at the most more because i want to make sure i'm here at the same time. ok. ok bye bye bye side.

it is going to speak. to the species or the teaching and stuff. to be nice to see in the office. i would like to add right. it took us i just saw him let my son go through with the mocha you had. how you learned

during that i'm going to have kids has one. 2 thing in and out of it this is me look this is b.s. that makes more sense i think was listening so this is another like she really you go this bit is well you know i said throw me back then move. or you know you come back or you are not that of a moron so we have a you only come one gun people. coming from an asian family do you try to leave your parents trains very often do what pleases them and i think i did that to a certain extent and it wasn't until i was sort of in my forty's i went back to teaching thinking maybe i should have done this and. it really pulls you know doesn't feel that way so clear behaving himself. he's a lovely girl. my man isn't boy he's a bad yes. and if the i think this is good this man is really the

case is developing a family i. know you're in the marriage proposals we still waiting for. that actually. probably go and. have a nice crime with mummy. you know where you're. going . i've always wanted to come back but she said she'd come back part time but this is not a part time job. i need her to be here like 5 days a week. so unfortunately not ready for that yet so. with my grandson with my guidance and his mum's support he can monday do what i do body language is so important expressions on people's faces this is also an education and i need someone to steer the ship in the future and i think he will be

very successful. because you're so full of the actual call to what is going on. i don't call that go it's something that we've been doing since 1967 just can't let go. of a. war mind is active on the borders that are i want to help and assist. i want to return now. just part time. but i think ollie retire when i die.

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al-jazeera. where every. let's bring you some breaking news coming out of new delhi india's top court has given its verdict on the disputed odia religious site which is claimed by hindus and muslims now we understand it's ruled muslims should be given 2 hectares of land for a mosque at an alternative site the central government is to take control of the land and prepare a road map in 3 months to set up a board of trustees possession of in there and now the land is to be given to the government appoint.