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the united states and the taliban are holding their first in—person talks as the us withdrawal from afghanistan. the us delegation will meet senior taliban representatives on saturday and sunday in the qatari capital doha. the us has remained in contact with the taliban since they seized kabul in august as us troops pulled out. the announcement of the talk comes after as many as 50 people are thought to have been killed in a suicide bombing in northern afghanistan in a mosque used by minority shia community. the group calling itself islamic state is behind the attack. the biggest overhaul of the international corporate tax system in decades has received widespread welcome internationally. it is hoped that within two years, the largest multinationals will pay a minimum tax rate of 15%. facebook, amazon and google, have spoken positively about the agreement.
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let us make it more now in the two journalists that have been awarded this year's nobel peace prize. maria ressa from the philippines and dmitry muratov from russia have been recognised for the importance of the right to freedom of expression. for the first time since 1935, the peace prize goes to journalists for their battle to tell the truth at great personal risk. to maria ressa and dmitry muratov, for their efforts to safeguard freedom of expression, which is a precondition for democracy and lasting peace. dmitry muratov is a russian journalist who has taken a stand against authoritarian rule. today, he dedicated the award to six colleagues, who, he said, were murdered for their work.
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speaks russian. naming each one of them, he said the prize belonged to them. their paper, novaya gazeta, has been highly critical of president putin and russia's ruling elite. its investigations have exposed electoral fraud such as the stuffing of ballot boxes as well as official corruption and police violence. translation: | don't know| what effect this nobel award will have on censorship of the media here in russia, with many investigative journalists being accused of being foreign agents. maria ressa from the philippines is the other winner, a woman described by the nobel committee as fearless. she's faced criminal charges and death threats. her work has exposed state abuses under the controversial president rodrigo duturte — in particular the extrajudicial killings that have come with his deadly war on drugs.
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thousands of people, mostly from poor communities, have been murdered. today, maria ressa spoke of the vital importance of telling the truth. when you don't have facts, you don't have a truth, you don't have trust. trust is what holds us together to be able to solve the complex problems our world is facing today. so when you attack the media, often times it is about shooting the messenger. two messengers in the spotlight today as the nobel committee says press freedoms are necessary for both democracy and peace, but are under threat around the world. caroline hawley, bbc news. now on bbc news it is time for buy me love. the coaching industry is projected to be worth $22 billion by 2022. it is one of the world's fastest growing industries. we
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the world's fastest growing industries.— the world's fastest growing industries. ~ , ., , industries. we stay our powers and regard _ industries. we stay our powers and regard our— industries. we stay our powers and regard our destiny. - industries. we stay our powers and regard our destiny. gurusl and regard our destiny. gurus aren't new — and regard our destiny. gurus aren't new but _ and regard our destiny. gurus aren't new but in _ and regard our destiny. gurus aren't new but in modern - and regard our destiny. gurus i aren't new but in modern times it has grown to include the practical... and the unconventional. now the business and lifestyle coaching industry has a lucrative addition, love. and more and more single people than ever are paying for advice to find love. butjust chasing a dream or is it really possible to buy love and happiness? robert, how are you? robert murali is one of can you —— can you's coaches. what do you think the women are hoping to get to this course? first of all they want to meet somebody who will be with them and they can live happily ever after but some are
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also broken and they want answers. and you are hoping to fix them? , answers. and you are hoping to fix them?— fix them? yes. the question is somebody _ fix them? yes. the question is somebody would _ fix them? yes. the question is somebody would say _ fix them? yes. the question is somebody would say i - fix them? yes. the question is somebody would say i think i l somebody would say i think i have what it takes, i have a good job and this and that but how come it doesn't happen for me? 50 how come it doesn't happen for me? , ., �* how come it doesn't happen for me? y., �* ., ., me? so you're owing to give them hard. _ me? so you're owing to give them hard, empirical- me? so you're owing to give them hard, empirical advice | me? so you're owing to give l them hard, empirical advice to get the guy?— them hard, empirical advice to get the guy? right, absolutely. some are making _ get the guy? right, absolutely. some are making crazy - get the guy? right, absolutely. | some are making crazy mistakes stop some because they believe the lie that when you get a 35 or a0... any the lie that when you get a 35 or40... any man the lie that when you get a 35 or a0... any man has come home, you rush home. i want to sleep with you, 0k, fine, he is a hunter, he got what he wanted, he has left. so as much as we will speak politely, my relationship and my business is called the naked truth. we also tell them hard things. the difference between manifestation and potential is information. what you take is what you give. allow me to invite you was a —— on a journey. invite you was a -- on a journey-—
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invite you was a -- on a “ourne. ., , journey. robert also hosts relationship _ journey. robert also hosts relationship and _ journey. robert also hosts relationship and life - journey. robert also hosts i relationship and life coaching videos which get hundreds of thousands of views. what happens in this room? this is asset where _ happens in this room? this is asset where people _ happens in this room? this is asset where people can - happens in this room? this is asset where people can do i asset where people can do digital productions, tv productions. but more so a place we can come as men as just sit and have our own time. i don't do my videos here, i do make dios from deep within me. when i look at the camera, i don't see the camera, i see a human being desperate for some word. to give them a jumpstart for their life. word. to give them a “umpstart for their [nah for their life. robert burale is holding _ for their life. robert burale is holding his _ for their life. robert burale is holding his event - for their life. robert burale is holding his event in - for their life. robert burale is holding his event in an i is holding his event in an exclusive hotel owned by can you's vice president. so this will be the stage. we will be looking, everything is happening here and they are sitting facing us. we will have
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a stage, we will have a dj... so you are going to be here? i'm going to be here. i’ll so you are going to be here? i'm going to be here.- i'm going to be here. i'll be one of the _ i'm going to be here. i'll be one of the women - i'm going to be here. i'll be one of the women sitting, i one of the women sitting, sitting on one of the tables looking at you from here. yes, exactl . looking at you from here. yes, exactly. lessons _ looking at you from here. yes, exactly. lessons is _ looking at you from here. yes, exactly. lessons is things - looking at you from here. yes, exactly. lessons is things menj exactly. lessons is things men wish women would know. very simple things like if i'm here with my woman, and there are ten other men there. i must be the centre of her. everything about me is what she wants. like i want her to acknowledge me, i want her to agree with what i'm saying. it could be right, it could be wrong, but thatis right, it could be wrong, but that is how man works. who right, it could be wrong, but that is how man works. who are the kind of— that is how man works. who are the kind of men _ that is how man works. who are the kind of men that _ that is how man works. who are the kind of men that feel- that is how man works. who are the kind of men that feel this i the kind of men that feel this way? where have you heard that men feel this way?— men feel this way? trust me, it doesnt men feel this way? trust me, it doesn't matter _ men feel this way? trust me, it doesn't matter the _ men feel this way? trust me, it doesn't matter the financial i doesn't matter the financial background, the educational background, the educational background, there is something that holds most men, if not all, it is the ego. the difference is, some react to it, others die with it but every man has an ego. the woman
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is the neck, the man is the head. the man sees where you are going which is a vision, the man here's, the man says this is where i want us to go. but guess what? the woman is the next, she has the power to turn weatherhead will go... that is from my big fat greek wedding. was there a time when you are not as good as you are now because it doesn't because i'm hanging onto everywhere that you're saying and i'm just wondering if you have always been such a good speaker. there is what you _ been such a good speaker. there is what you call _ been such a good speaker. there is what you call being _ been such a good speaker. there is what you call being a - been such a good speaker. there is what you call being a good i is what you call being a good speaker and that is all there is. but there is being a good speaker as you give life so when i speak, i speakfrom here. do i know how it feels to be hungry? yes, i do. do i know how it feels to own only one shut, yes i do. when i speak, i'm like guys, let's go on this journey. we have to rise up together.
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journey. we have to rise up together-— together. jane will be attending _ together. jane will be attending the - together. jane will be attending the course. j together. jane will be i attending the course. she is together. jane will be - attending the course. she is 32 years old and a single mum who works as a call —— at a call centre. she is also a part—time local model. what are you looking for, husband? if i local model. what are you looking for, husband? ifi get someone _ looking for, husband? ifi get someone who _ looking for, husband? ifi get someone who really - looking for, husband? if i get i someone who really understands my schedule and understand where — my schedule and understand where i'm coming from or maybe someone — where i'm coming from or maybe someone who is going through the same _ someone who is going through the same things that i've gone through. — the same things that i've gone through, and i think i can give ita through, and i think i can give it a shot _ through, and i thinkl can give it a shot-— it a shot. what if you learn nothin: it a shot. what if you learn nothing from _ it a shot. what if you learn nothing from it? _ it a shot. what if you learn nothing from it? what i it a shot. what if you learn nothing from it? what if. it a shot. what if you learn i nothing from it? what if you don't get to meet a guy at the end of this? would it feel like it is a waste?— it is a waste? no. 0k, it wouldn't— it is a waste? no. 0k, it wouldn't feel— it is a waste? no. 0k, it wouldn't feel like - it is a waste? no. 0k, it wouldn't feel like a i it is a waste? no. 0k, it. wouldn't feel like a waste because even if you don't get someone, _ because even if you don't get someone, at least you hear something that you will remember for the rest of your life _ remember for the rest of your life. ~ . . ., ., ., life. according to the global coachin: life. according to the global coaching federation, - life. according to the global coaching federation, an i coaching federation, an industry body, dating and lifestyle coaches have doubled in popularity and worth since 2015. a boom from an ever
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expanding online audience. robert burale is very aware of the power of his brand. this is what you _ the power of his brand. this is what you call— the power of his brand. this is what you call the _ the power of his brand. this is what you call the backdrop. i the power of his brand. this is what you call the backdrop. al what you call the backdrop. a huge one that we will put on stage. it is also brand positioning, brand visibility, but why black, you ask. um? but why black, you ask. why black? power. _ but why black, you ask. why black? power. what - but why black, you ask. why black? power. what does i but why black, you ask. why. black? power. what does this brand assay — black? power. what does this brand assay for _ black? power. what does this brand assay for women? i black? power. what does this | brand assay for women? west black? power. what does this i brand assay for women? west and bo must this _ brand assay for women? west and bo must this colour _ brand assay for women? west and bo must this colour is _ bo must this colour is acceptable for women. it is acceptable for women. it is acceptable —— first and foremost. i used my name in pink so they can trust me. laughter. are you joking? pink so they can trust me. laughter. are youjoking? trio. laughter. are you “oking? no, i'm not. laughter. are you “oking? no, m not. and h laughter. are you “oking? no, i'm not. and how_ laughter. are youjoking? no, i'm not. and how much - laughter. are youjoking? no, i'm not. and how much is i laughter. are youjoking? no, i'm not. and how much is the i i'm not. and how much is the cost? thousand _ i'm not. and how much is the cost? thousand 500 - i'm not. and how much is the cost? thousand 500 for- i'm not. and how much is the cost? thousand 500 for a i i'm not. and how much is the j cost? thousand 500 for a day seminar- _ cost? thousand 500 for a day seminar- it — cost? thousand 500 for a day seminar. it is _ cost? thousand 500 for a day seminar. it is that _ cost? thousand 500 for a day seminar. it is that an - seminar. it is that an expensive _ seminar. it is that an expensive course? i seminar. it is that an | expensive course? -- seminar. it is that an - expensive course? -- 4500. it is, for expensive course? -- 4500. it is. for one — expensive course? -- 4500. it is, for one day. _ expensive course? -- 4500. it is, for one day. normally i expensive course? -- 4500. it is, for one day. normally they | is, for one day. normally they would charge 1000 shillings, 2000 shillings the very top. so a500 is a very small —— but anybody who wants to grow must
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be ready to invest in themselves, knowledge is power. applied knowledge is wisdom. mary will also be attending robert burale's course. she is 35 and the oldest of five sisters. , ., 35 and the oldest of five sisters-— 35 and the oldest of five sisters. , ., , ., ., sisters. everyone else around ou sisters. everyone else around you would _ sisters. everyone else around you would expect _ sisters. everyone else around you would expect you - sisters. everyone else around you would expect you being i sisters. everyone else around i you would expect you being the fast one in your family you would expect you being the fast one in yourfamily —— first one. you are supposed to be married first. most pressure comes from the family, your parents, grandparents, uncles, auntie �*s, they don't even know i have ever had a boyfriend. want to know what i'm doing wrong or what is happening. um? wrong or what is happening. why do ou wrong or what is happening. why do you think _ wrong or what is happening. why do you think you are doing something wrong? i do you think you are doing something wrong?- do you think you are doing something wrong? i don't know because everyone _ something wrong? i don't know because everyone else, - something wrong? i don't know because everyone else, your i because everyone else, your mates, your friends and some people tell me i'm choosy. i don't know if i am choosy, i don't know if i am choosy, i don't know. 50 don't know if i am choosy, i don't know.— don't know if i am choosy, i don't know. so you're hoping that this is — don't know. so you're hoping that this is the _ don't know. so you're hoping that this is the answer i don't know. so you're hoping that this is the answer to i that this is the answer to finding your husband. i would say 50-50. — finding your husband. i would say 50-50, maybe. _ finding your husband. i would say 50-50, maybe. i- finding your husband. i would| say 50-50, maybe. iwouldn't say 50—50, maybe. i wouldn't give it 100%. it is worth a try, i would say.
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give it100%. it is worth a try, i would say.- try, i would say. three of mary's — try, i would say. three of mary's younger _ try, i would say. three of mary's younger sisters i try, i would say. three of| mary's younger sisters are try, i would say. three of- mary's younger sisters are all back at their parents�* home after the breakdown of their own marriages. so what do you think about marriage? do you think about marriage? do you think marriage is a good thing? no. ., , ., ., think marriage is a good thing? no. no, it is not a good ink. marriage — no. no, it is not a good ink. marriage has _ no. no, it is not a good ink. marriage has never - no. no, it is not a good ink. marriage has never worked l no. no, it is not a good ink. i marriage has never worked for us. we have tried. it has not worked. ~ ., ,, us. we have tried. it has not worked. ~ ., , ., ~' us. we have tried. it has not worked. ~ ., ~ ., worked. would you three like to net worked. would you three like to get married _ worked. would you three like to get married again? _ worked. would you three like to get married again? yes, - worked. would you three like to get married again? yes, if i i get married again? yes, if i can find _ get married again? yes, if i can find a — get married again? yes, if i can find a good _ get married again? yes, if i can find a good man. i get married again? yes, if i can find a good man. they. get married again? yes, if i i can find a good man. they are not all bad. can find a good man. they are not all bad-— not all bad. you would like to do the course? _ not all bad. you would like to do the course? you _ not all bad. you would like to do the course? you would i not all bad. you would like to do the course? you would do | not all bad. you would like to i do the course? you would do it? yes. at the top end of this billion—dollar industry, matthew hussey is one of the global— matthew hussey is one of the global stars who has amassed millions— global stars who has amassed millions of dollars across his social— millions of dollars across his social media. he millions of dollars across his social media.— social media. he is based in the us where _ social media. he is based in the us where the _ social media. he is based in the us where the lifestyle i the us where the lifestyle coaching industry is the largest in the world. hello.
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hello, matthew, how are you? a booking at one of his lifestyle coaching retreats can cost several thousand dollars. with covid currently putting a hold on these real world events, hussey and his team are hosting a 3d virtual retreat that will cost participants $800 to attend. what would be expected to see in the seminar? mr; attend. what would be expected to see in the seminar? my home has been turned _ to see in the seminar? my home has been turned into _ to see in the seminar? my home has been turned into a _ to see in the seminar? my home has been turned into a live i to see in the seminar? my home has been turned into a live set i has been turned into a live set and people will be tuning in. i have about 800 people coming in from all over the world. i am someone who became known very much for helping people in their dating lives but the reason people would come to the truth —— the retreat is because of the deeper reasons that their life didn't feel perhaps as an enjoyable as they should, they were making progress. for ou, they were making progress. for you. what _ they were making progress. for you, what would success look like? if you, what would success look like? ., ., ,, like? if someone approached me on the street _ like? if someone approached me on the street and _ like? if someone approached me on the street and said _ like? if someone approached me on the street and said i - like? if someone approached me on the street and said i am i on the street and said i am married because of you, that's
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rate, if that is what you wanted and that is what you got, amazing. by the way, i also want to make sure that through your work you are just as happy if you didn't find that. i'mjust as happy if you didn't find that. i'm just as happy for the breakup that i've been responsible for as i am the relationships i've been responsible for. at, relationships i've been responsible for.- relationships i've been responsible for. relationships i've been resonsiblefor. ., ., ., responsible for. a lot of women are still coming _ responsible for. a lot of women are still coming from _ responsible for. a lot of women are still coming from get - responsible for. a lot of women are still coming from get the i are still coming from get the suv- are still coming from get the guy. i think a lot of them are hoping that this is the key to finding a lasting relationship. i feel the weight of helping people, you know. i take it extraordinarily seriously and always have. do extraordinarily seriously and always have.— extraordinarily seriously and always have. do you ever feel pressure _ always have. do you ever feel pressure that _ always have. do you ever feel pressure that you _ always have. do you ever feel pressure that you might i always have. do you ever feel pressure that you might be i pressure that you might be selling some vulnerable women a dream? i selling some vulnerable women a dream? ., �* ~' selling some vulnerable women a dream? ., �* ~ ., dream? i don't think i am sellin: dream? i don't think i am selling a _ dream? i don't think i am selling a dream. - dream? i don't think i am selling a dream. for- dream? i don't think i am selling a dream. for me, | dream? i don't think i am i selling a dream. for me, i'm definitely selling vulnerable people but i can't myself as one of them. if vulnerable is defined as someone willing to ask for help or somebody who has something they want to solve in their life and is brave enough to try to solve it
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and that's my audience. and i don't believe that anyone can watch any of my videos and claim that i'm selling a dream. i think if anyone saw, if anyone actually watched my videos on youtube you'd see that i'm very, i'm very honest about what i think is possible stop but if someone comes to me from —— for dating advice, i want to help them be happy whether it works or not because it is not always going to work. backin back in kenya it is the big day. some women have come from over 100 miles away to attend robert's event. over100 miles away to attend robert's event.— robert's event. thank you for comint. robert's event. thank you for coming- today _ robert's event. thank you for coming. today we _ robert's event. thank you for coming. today we will - robert's event. thank you for coming. today we will talk i robert's event. thank you for coming. today we will talk to | coming. today we will talk to you ladies about relationships. some — you ladies about relationships. some of— you ladies about relationships. some of you realise you have been — some of you realise you have been single, because the men out there. _ been single, because the men out there, but others have been
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single _ out there, but others have been single because of your mistakes.— single because of your mistakes. , ., , ., mistakes. the day starts with a series of speakers _ mistakes. the day starts with a series of speakers in _ mistakes. the day starts with a series of speakers in occluding | series of speakers in occluding yes—men who kicks off with a group exercise to "expand your heart". 50 group exercise to "expand your heart", . group exercise to "expand your heart". . , , heart". so close your eyes... and i heart". so close your eyes... and i want — heart". so close your eyes... and i want you _ heart". so close your eyes... and i want you to _ heart". so close your eyes... and i want you to be - heart". so close your eyes... and i want you to be able i heart". so close your eyes... and i want you to be able to | and i want you to be able to breathe into your heart. breathe into that little being but keeps you alive. as you look around this room with full vulnerability, because you have taken the time to come back home. ~ �* ., taken the time to come back home. ~ �* . ., i. home. when burale asked me, you have women _ home. when burale asked me, you have women who _ home. when burale asked me, you have women who have _ home. when burale asked me, you have women who have been - have women who have been through so much in life, i want you to come and talk to them...
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i thought so hard about what i would talk about. so not only have i been coaching for nine years, worked on thousands of relationships, it was motivated because i went through a very similarjourney, and so after getting married i live with my husband for five years in a very emotionally, verbally, physically abusive relationship. and during that time, i started to learn who i was. and so after leaving my husband after these five years, i divorced him, and then we began dating again. yes. we began dating again. yes. we began dating again. yes. we began dating again, and he turned around and sort of came back home to the essence of who he was as a man. not who he thought he should be... but we never, ever realise, sometimes we come in broken and we are hoping someone else would fix us. but in myjourney... i
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found her story of returning to a partner who had physically and mentally abused her concerning, so i wanted to discuss it further with robert. so we have had a series of speakers this morning, what do you think about our first speaker who came on? shazmin is a extraordinary speaker. but she was speaking on stage with herformer abuserjust there. her former abuser just there. and do herformer abuserjust there. and do you know what, i cannot —— kept looking at him and he was nodding his head, like yes, you used to abuse her physically and mentally, that shows they have gone beyond and they have healed. but shows they have gone beyond and they have healed.— they have healed. but could someone — they have healed. but could someone think _ they have healed. but could someone think that - they have healed. but could someone think that the i they have healed. but could i someone think that the message from that would be, stay with your abuser and it might work out... because msi is a really big problem globally and people die from staying with their abusers. —— femicide. absolutely. and the power of
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her story, she was lucky enough to get out and come back in, certainly some never get out, and if they get out, it is through a coffin.- and if they get out, it is i through a coffin.- so through a coffin. right. so this is the _ through a coffin. right. so this is the power _ through a coffin. right. so this is the power of - through a coffin. right. so this is the power of her i through a coffin. right. so i this is the power of her story. we can never take away her story from her, but the one thing i was very impressed about and was very careful to listen, she did not come out to tell people to go back. in the message —— in fact the message i hope people take from shazmin is "i went out to find myself", and that is what ladies need to do. do they need to go back to some people, some, no. but for her, very lucky, has a great man who has turned around, and is actually like happily ever after. , . ., ., is actually like happily ever after. , _, ., ., after. the second half of the da was after. the second half of the day was the _ after. the second half of the day was the main _ after. the second half of the day was the main event, i after. the second half of the day was the main event, the after. the second half of the i day was the main event, the man himself. �* , ., ., , day was the main event, the man himself. �* . , ., himself. are you ready for this? i want _ himself. are you ready for this? i want to _ himself. are you ready for this? i want to tell- himself. are you ready for this? i want to tell you i himself. are you ready for i this? i want to tell you some of the mistakes you make. robert burale took to the stage
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to tell women what men want and what they don't. brute to tell women what men want and what they don't.— what they don't. we want to appreciate _ what they don't. we want to appreciate you _ what they don't. we want to appreciate you but - what they don't. we want to appreciate you but we i what they don't. we want to appreciate you but we also i what they don't. we want to i appreciate you but we also want to enjoy some things in private. to enjoy some things in private-— to enjoy some things in rivate. . ., ~ to enjoy some things in rivate. . ., ,, , private. once the naked truths had been dispensed _ private. once the naked truths had been dispensed with, i private. once the naked truths i had been dispensed with, burale calls women onto the stage to ask them why they felt the need for the course. mary starts. what is this that you can tell us, the ladies and anybody watching, that would help them, based on your own story? i dated someone back in 2012, who was very— dated someone back in 2012, who was very hot, but sixpack, good—looking, everything. after three _ good—looking, everything. after three months, communication went_ three months, communication went bad _ three months, communication went bad. so when i called him to inquire — went bad. so when i called him to inquire what was happening, this guy— to inquire what was happening, this guy told me, you know what. — this guy told me, you know what. my— this guy told me, you know what, my lifestyle has changed, my class— what, my lifestyle has changed, my class has changed, what would — my class has changed, what would that tell you as a woman? made _ would that tell you as a woman? made you — would that tell you as a woman? made you feel lower.— made you feel lower. very low. the tu made you feel lower. very low. they guy lowered _ made you feel lower. very low. they guy lowered my _ made you feel lower. very low. i they guy lowered my self-esteem they guy lowered my self—esteem
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to a point— they guy lowered my self—esteem to a point that sometimes... i never— to a point that sometimes... i never did _ to a point that sometimes... i never did date for so many years — never did date for so many years because ijudged every other man. years because i 'udged every other man._ years because i 'udged every other men._ years because i 'udged every other man. ~ , �* ., other man. why didn't you date, what did you _ other man. why didn't you date, what did you think? _ other man. why didn't you date, what did you think? i _ other man. why didn't you date, what did you think? i don't i what did you think? i don't know, what did you think? i don't know. but _ what did you think? i don't know. but i _ what did you think? i don't know, but i felt _ what did you think? i don't know, but i felt like - what did you think? i don't know, but i felt like i- what did you think? i don't know, but i felt like i was. what did you think? i don't i know, but i felt like i was not enough _ know, but i felt like i was not enouah. , know, but i felt like i was not enouah. a, know, but i felt like i was not enouuh. , a, a, know, but i felt like i was not enouah. a, a, , enough. based on what the first man had said? _ enough. based on what the first man had said? and _ enough. based on what the first man had said? and i— enough. based on what the first man had said? and i hope - enough. based on what the first man had said? and i hope you l man had said? and i hope you understand that those words are not meant for you because they are not true of you. but it is somebody who wants to bring you down to their level. jane somebody who wants to bring you down to their level.— down to their level. jane had appeared _ down to their level. jane had appeared to _ down to their level. jane had appeared to really _ down to their level. jane had appeared to really embrace i down to their level. jane had i appeared to really embrace the day's speakers, and when it was her turn to take to the stage, she clearly had something on her mind that she wanted to share. it her mind that she wanted to share. , ~ ., ., share. it is like a wound. the moment _ share. it is like a wound. the moment you _ share. it is like a wound. the moment you don't _ share. it is like a wound. the moment you don't let - share. it is like a wound. the moment you don't let it - share. it is like a wound. the moment you don't let it heal| share. it is like a wound. the | moment you don't let it heal it will continue being bigger and beer and it will affect your life. . ~' beer and it will affect your life. ., ~ ,, beer and it will affect your life. . ~ ,, y beer and it will affect your life. ., ~ , . life. thank you very much. before i — life. thank you very much. before i go. _ life. thank you very much. before i go, i— life. thank you very much. before i go, i would - life. thank you very much. before i go, i would like i life. thank you very much. | before i go, i would like to
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say something. i have known robert for quite some time, but i don't know whether he knows this, but now because i have the opportunity, let me confess something. there was a time i wanted to commit suicide, and that night i had bought the drugs and everything, and... he had a facebook live, and he was talking about... being on the ashes. so i was watching the episode, we were in bed, and the next day... i don't know whether it is by god's grace, in the middle of that facebook live, we fell asleep. and... the next morning, i didn't know
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where to begin. i was like, oh my god, i am alive. sol where to begin. i was like, oh my god, i am alive. so i took the drugs and threw them away, so i prepared myself to go to work and i prepared my brother to go to school. if you see me crying is not because i broken, it is because i am a strong woman. it is because i am a strong woman-— it is because i am a strong - woman._ continue woman. (applause). continue encouraging — woman. (applause). continue encouraging people, _ woman. (applause). continue encouraging people, robert, i encouraging people, robert, because you don't know, you are saving lives out there, with or without your knowledge. thank ou ve without your knowledge. thank you very much- _ without your knowledge. thank you very much. let's _ without your knowledge. thank| you very much. let's appreciate her~ _ you very much. let's appreciate her. �* �* ,, all right, thank you. we need to sanitiser please...
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i wanted to check in with jane after the event. she seemed to have gone into burale's event looking for tricks on how to meet a guy, but the day appeared to make her confront a lot more. i appeared to make her confront a lot more. ., ., lot more. i have a new relationship _ lot more. i have a new relationship with - lot more. i have a new. relationship with myself because sometimes tends to come from compromise, you know, we compromise a lot to take someone in and i got to learn that if i am not good for them they are missing out. yesterday after the function, i came and gave her a notebook and she wrote something from me, like mummy, you are beautiful, a great woman, i love you and i just go to bed and relax. it
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just go to bed and relax. it just made me feel good, it made me feel like i am the best, it made me feel at ease, it made me feel at peace with myself. yeah, and to know that she appreciates me, that made me feel like a superwoman, yeah. there are no guarantees offered when signing up for this kind of a course. but maybe it is not actually about the guarantee of love that people are signing up for. perhaps it is to stop the feeling of helplessness waiting for love to arrive, feel secure in who you are, or maybe even to stop looking altogether. so what have you learned from that course, how are you going to approach things differently? actually the most important take out from that course was... just be happy, make yourself happy, of yourself, give love to yourself fully. don't panic, there is still time, there is still time. i am still young.
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hello again. friday was another very mild day across the whole of the uk, even those places where it stayed cloudy throughout. however, there were some places where the sunshine popped out. northern england was one of the sunnier places. it was also one of the warmest places in the uk. the day's highest temperature — ryhill in west yorkshire, 22 degrees celsius. that's eight degrees celsius higher than the october average, so it was very, very warm indeed. now looking at this satellite picture, you can see those
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areas that had the clearest skies. we've seen some clearing skies across east anglia and south—east england behind this cold front because what we're seeing at the moment is cooler and fresher air starting to spread in from the near continent. and that's significant because as humidity levels drop, the clouds will increasingly break up, and that's happening right now across east anglia and the south—east. meanwhile, for northern england, wales, south—west england, southern and eastern scotland, still a lot of low cloud around, a few spots of drizzle, bit of mist and fog for some. and then there's this band of rain that's really pepping up at the moment. some heavy rain for northern ireland, western scotland bringing a risk of some localised surface water flooding. now, the rain will tend to turn a little lighter and patchier through saturday, and the weather front will finally, after a couple of days, start to move away into parts of the north of england and the north of wales. midlands, east anglia, southern counties of england should be much more in the way of sunny spells compared with recent days, and temperature still pretty high for october, 18—19 degrees.
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the second half of the weekend sees that cold front across northern areas pushing southwards. it's a weakening feature, so there won't be much rain left on it by the time it reaches east anglia and south—east england, but there could be an odd patch. for most of the uk on sunday, it's another dry day with plenty of sunshine around. however, there will be a fair few blustery showers across the far north and west of scotland. temperatures easing somewhat across northern areas, but still very warm for the south of england and wales. monday, well, it looks like we'll see another band of rain push its way into scotland, turning increasingly heavy, some fairly gusty winds with this as well. temperatures will be coming down further across northern scotland, just around 11—12 degrees for some here. but for northern ireland, england and wales, still above average, but those temperatures are getting a little bit closer to the seasonal norms. iii degrees, for example, is about right in london. and eventually we should get down there on tuesday. a lot of dry weather for many into next week.
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