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the headlines. britain's tyson fury defends his heavyweight title against american deontay wilder, with an 11th round knockout in las vegas. uk business secretary kwasi kwarteng defends the government's handling of the energy crisis after suppliers said the system of having a cap on prices was not fit for purpose. i think it is a critical situation. i think it is a critical situation. i am speaking to industry is all the time. high gas prices, they have quadrupled, are making an impact. that is why i am speaking to people,
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listening and trying to find out a way forward. pay up to stop illegal migrants — the french government tells the uk to keep to its side of a deal to police the channel. scientists warn that the loss of biodiversity risks tipping the world into ecological meltdown. fountains of men and women from the caribbean came to serve in the royal air force in the second world war. many returned after the war to settle in britain. there is no public memorial to reflect their contribution and campaigners who would like to create one had been told it would not be inclusive. the efforts of the brave men and women who served in the royal air force during the second world war
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are well known. but there's some parts of the story that are perhaps less familiar. glenn parsons wants to highlight the contribution of thousands who came from the caribbean to train with the raf here in filey. the nazi peril was only 26 miles away across the english channel, and the americans, it was still 18 months before they came into the war. so the call went out, it went out to the small isles of the caribbean, and farmers, fishermen, women, answered that call and came here. and i feel very strongly, as do many other people in the black community, that sacrifice to help this country has never properly been reflected. two of glenn's uncles travelled from jamaica and were trained at raf hunmanby. after the war, they returned to settle in the uk and raise their families. they were both young men at the time, my uncle gilmore westcar and edwin samuels both came here from jamaica. they were both very young men, perhaps in search of adventure. they answered the call and were proud to do so. they helped as ground staff up here,
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and they wanted to give service to the motherland. the caribbean contribution to the war effort formed part of an exhibition in 2019, which celebrated the community's history. it was hosted by leeds�* jamaica society, and today they're backing glen's campaign. it would be good to have a memorial that, you know, we could visit. and we could say, yes, that is in recognition of our men, and some women, as well. we need to pass that history on to our young people. the memorial gardens in filey pay tribute to those who served in both world wars. this is where glenn would like to see something to commemorate the caribbean contingent who trained close by. he presented his case to filey town council, but they say a specific memorial wouldn't be inclusive. what we have been told is that while they will agree to a plaque, it can only say the allies,
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and recognise the allies. and of course it is important to recognise the contributions that were made by other countries. but "the allies" doesn't really reflect this particular group of people from the caribbean, because of course they came here not as conscripts, they came here as volunteers. filey town council says it will consider this again in november. campaigners hope it will finally agree to honour the memory of those who answered a call to protect the motherland in her hour of need. i will be back at 11. now, our gender and identity reporter reports from kenya on the controversial practice of love coaching. hello, everybody. this is robert burale, yourfriend. one minute with a coach. the coaching industry is projected to be worth $22 billion by 2022. it is one of the world's fastest growing industries.
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gurus are not new, but in modern times, it has grown to include the practical... ..and the unconventional. now the business and lifestyle coaching industry has a lucrative addition — love. what are you waiting for? the secret is start now. and more single people than ever are paying for advice to find love. but are we just chasing a dream or is it really possible to buy love and happiness? i am your coach and yourfriend, robert. robert. how are you? robert burale is one of kenya's most popular life and love coaches. he invited me to a day retreat he was hosting for women looking for a husband. what do you think the women are hoping to get from this? they want to meet somebody who will be with them and they can live happily ever after.
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but some are also broken and they want answers. and you are hoping to fix them? yes. the question is some would say i think i have what it takes, i have a good job, but how come it doesn't happen for me? so you will give them hard, empiricaladvice? yes. to get the guy? absolutely. because some are making mistakes. some because they believe the lie that when you get to 35, a0... that's it. yes, so any man who says come home, you rush home. i want to sleep with you. he is a hunter. he got what he wanted, he left. so as much as we will speak politely, my relationship angle of my business is called the naked truth. we will also tell them some hard things. information is power. what you take in is what you give out. allow me to invite you on a journey. robert burale also hosts relationship and life coaching
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videos which get hundreds of thousands of views. so what happens in this room? this is just like a set. people can come and do digital productions here. tv productions. but more so, a place we can come as men and just sit and have our own time. i don't do my videos from here orfrom just the head, i do my videos from within me. so when i look at the camera, i don't see the camera. i see a human being. i see a human being desperate for some word to give them a jump—start for their life. robert burale is holding his event in an exclusive hotel owned by kenya's vice president. this will be the stage. we will be looking... everything is happening here and they are sitting facing us. we will have a raised stage.
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you are going to be here. i am going to be here. and i will be one of the women sitting in one of the tables looking at you. exactly. the lesson is things men wish women would know. very simple things like if i am here with my woman, and there are ten other men there, i must be the centre of her. everything about me is what she wants. like i want her to acknowledge me. i want her to agree with what i'm saying. it could be right, it could be wrong, but that is how man works. who are the kind of men who feel this way? where have you heard that men feel this way? trust me, it doesn't matter the financial background, educational background. there is something that holds most men, if not all. it is the ego. the difference is some react to it, others die with it. but every man has an ego.
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the woman is the neck, the man is the head. the man sees where you are going, which is the vision. the man hears, the man says this is where i want us to go. but, guess what, the woman is the neck. she has the power to turn where the go. to turn where the head will go. that is from my big fat greek wedding. you heard that before? was there a time when you were not as good as you are now? i am hanging on to your every word and i wonder if you have always been such a good speaker. if you have always been such a good seaker. , ., ., , speaker. there is more to being called a good — speaker. there is more to being called a good speaker _ speaker. there is more to being called a good speaker and - speaker. there is more to being called a good speaker and that i speaker. there is more to being | called a good speaker and that is all there is. but there is being a good speaker as you give life. when i speak, i speakfrom here. do i know how it feels to be hungry? yes, do i know how it feels to own only one shirt? i do. when i speak, guys, let's go on this journey, we have to rise up together. jane
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let's go on this journey, we have to rise up together.— rise up together. jane will attend the course- _ rise up together. jane will attend the course. she _ rise up together. jane will attend the course. she is _ rise up together. jane will attend the course. she is 32 _ rise up together. jane will attend the course. she is 32 and - rise up together. jane will attend the course. she is 32 and a - rise up together. jane will attend | the course. she is 32 and a single mum who works at a call centre. she is also a part—time local model. are you looking for a husband? it is also a part—time local model. are you looking for a husband? iii is also a part-time local model. are you looking for a husband?- you looking for a husband? if i will aet you looking for a husband? if i will get someone _ you looking for a husband? if i will get someone who _ you looking for a husband? if i will get someone who understands - you looking for a husband? if i will. get someone who understands where i am coming _ get someone who understands where i am coming from, or maybe someone who has gone _ am coming from, or maybe someone who has gone through the same things i have gone — has gone through the same things i have gone through, i think i can do it. ~ ., , ., have gone through, i think i can do it. ~ ., ., have gone through, i think i can do it. what if you learn nothing? what if ou do it. what if you learn nothing? what if you do not _ it. what if you learn nothing? what if you do not get — it. what if you learn nothing? what if you do not get to _ it. what if you learn nothing? what if you do not get to meet _ it. what if you learn nothing? what if you do not get to meet a - it. what if you learn nothing? what if you do not get to meet a guy - it. what if you learn nothing? what if you do not get to meet a guy at l if you do not get to meet a guy at the end? ~ ., ., .,, ., the end? would it feel a waste? no. it would not — the end? would it feel a waste? no. it would not feel _ the end? would it feel a waste? no. it would not feel like _ the end? would it feel a waste? no. it would not feel like a _ the end? would it feel a waste? no. it would not feel like a waste - it would not feel like a waste because _ it would not feel like a waste because if you do not get someone at least you _ because if you do not get someone at least you will hear something you will remember the rest of your life. according _ will remember the rest of your life. according to the global coaching federation, an industry body, dating and lifestyle coaches have doubled in popularity and worth since 2015,
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a boom for an expanding audience. robert burale is aware of the power of his brand. this robert burale is aware of the power of his brand-— of his brand. this banner, it is brand positioning _ of his brand. this banner, it is brand positioning and - of his brand. this banner, it is| brand positioning and visibility. but why black, you ask? um? brand positioning and visibility. but why black, you ask? why black? power. but why black, you ask? why black? power- what — but why black, you ask? why black? power. what does _ but why black, you ask? why black? power. what does this _ but why black, you ask? why black? power. what does this brand - but why black, you ask? why black? power. what does this brand say - but why black, you ask? why black? power. what does this brand say for| power. what does this brand say for women? , u, ., power. what does this brand say for women? , . ., ., , power. what does this brand say for women? , ., , ., women? this colour is acceptable to women. women? this colour is acceptable to women- pink— women? this colour is acceptable to women- pink is— women? this colour is acceptable to women. pink is acceptable - women? this colour is acceptable to women. pink is acceptable and - women? this colour is acceptable to women. pink is acceptable and that| women. pink is acceptable and that is why we have used my name in pink so they can trust me.— so they can trust me. laughter. are ou so they can trust me. laughter. are you joking? _ so they can trust me. laughter. are you joking? i _ so they can trust me. laughter. are you joking? i am _ so they can trust me. laughter. are youjoking? i am not. - so they can trust me. laughter. are youjoking? i am not. how. so they can trust me. laughter. i are youjoking? i am not. how much are you 'oking? i am not. how much is the are youjoking? i am not. how much is the course? _ are youjoking? i am not. how much is the course? 4500 _ are youjoking? i am not. how much is the course? 4500 for— are youjoking? i am not. how much is the course? 4500 for the - are youjoking? i am not. how much| is the course? 4500 for the seminar. is that inexpensive course? it is for one day, normally a day function, they would charge 1000 shillings, 2000 shillings at the top. 4500 is not a small amount. anybody who wants to grow must be
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ready to invest in themselves. knowledge is power.— ready to invest in themselves. knowledge is power. mary will also attend his course. _ knowledge is power. mary will also attend his course. she _ knowledge is power. mary will also attend his course. she is _ knowledge is power. mary will also attend his course. she is 35 - knowledge is power. mary will also attend his course. she is 35 and - knowledge is power. mary will also | attend his course. she is 35 and the oldest of five sisters.— oldest of five sisters. everyone else around — oldest of five sisters. everyone else around you _ oldest of five sisters. everyone else around you would - oldest of five sisters. everyone else around you would expect. oldest of five sisters. everyone i else around you would expect you being _ else around you would expect you being the — else around you would expect you being the first born, you are the ones _ being the first born, you are the ones supposed to be married first. most— ones supposed to be married first. most pressure comes from the family. parents, _ most pressure comes from the family. parents, grandparents, uncles and aunt is, _ parents, grandparents, uncles and aunt is, they do not even know if i have _ aunt is, they do not even know if i have had — aunt is, they do not even know if i have had a — aunt is, they do not even know if i have had a boyfriend. they want to know _ have had a boyfriend. they want to know what — have had a boyfriend. they want to know what i— have had a boyfriend. they want to know what i am doing wrong. why do ou think know what i am doing wrong. why do you think you — know what i am doing wrong. why do you think you are _ know what i am doing wrong. why do you think you are doing _ know what i am doing wrong. why do you think you are doing something i you think you are doing something wrong? i you think you are doing something wron: ? ., �* ~ ., you think you are doing something wronu? ~ ., , , wrong? i don't know, because everybody _ wrong? i don't know, because everybody else _ wrong? i don't know, because everybody else is. _ wrong? i don't know, because everybody else is. your i wrong? i don't know, because i everybody else is. your friends. some _ everybody else is. your friends. some people tell me i am choosy. | some people tell me i am choosy. i don't some people tell me i am choosy. don't know. some people tell me i am choosy. i don't know. you hope this is the answer to finding a husband? i would sa 50-50, answer to finding a husband? i would say 50-50. may _ answer to finding a husband? i would say 50-50. may be- _ answer to finding a husband? i would say 50-50, may be. i— answer to finding a husband? i would say 50-50, may be. i would - answer to finding a husband? i would say 50-50, may be. i would not- answer to finding a husband? i would say 50-50, may be. i would not give| say 50—50, may be. i would not give
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it 100%_ say 50—50, may be. i would not give it 100% but— say 50—50, may be. i would not give it 100% but it — say 50—50, may be. i would not give it 100% but it is worth a try. say 50-50, may be. i would not give it 10094. but it is worth a try.- it 10096 but it is worth a try. three of ma 's it 10096 but it is worth a try. three of mary's younger _ it 10096 but it is worth a try. three of mary's younger sisters - it 10096 but it is worth a try. three of mary's younger sisters are i it 10096 but it is worth a try. three of mary's younger sisters are back| of mary's younger sisters are back at their parents�* home after a breakdown of their marriages. what do you think about marriage, is it a good thing? ida. do you think about marriage, is it a good thing?— good thing? no, it is not a good thin. good thing? no, it is not a good thing. marriage _ good thing? no, it is not a good thing. marriage has— good thing? no, it is not a good thing. marriage has never- good thing? no, it is not a good. thing. marriage has never worked good thing? no, it is not a good i thing. marriage has never worked for us. we thing. marriage has never worked for us- we have — thing. marriage has never worked for us. we have tried. _ thing. marriage has never worked for us. we have tried. it _ thing. marriage has never worked for us. we have tried. it has _ thing. marriage has never worked for us. we have tried. it has not - us. we have tried. it has not worked- _ us. we have tried. it has not worked. would _ us. we have tried. it has not worked. would you - us. we have tried. it has not worked. would you agree i us. we have tried. it has not. worked. would you agree that us. we have tried. it has not i worked. would you agree that to us. we have tried. it has not - worked. would you agree that to get married... , , ., ., ., married... yes, they are not all bad. married... yes, they are not all bad- you _ married... yes, they are not all bad. you would _ married... yes, they are not all bad. you would like _ married... yes, they are not all bad. you would like to - married... yes, they are not all bad. you would like to do i married... yes, they are not all bad. you would like to do the i bad. you would like to do the course? yes. _ bad. you would like to do the course? yes. you _ bad. you would like to do the course? yes. you would i bad. you would like to do the course? yes. you would do . bad. you would like to do the l course? yes. you would do it? bad. you would like to do the i course? yes. you would do it? yes. at the top — course? yes. you would do it? yes. at the top end _ course? yes. you would do it? yes. at the top end of _ course? yes. you would do it? yes. at the top end of this _ at the top end of this billion—dollar industry, matthew husseyis billion—dollar industry, matthew hussey is one of the global stars who has amassed millions of followers on social media. he is based in the us where the lifestyle coaching industry is the largest in the world. hello. how are you? a
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booking at one of his retreats can cost several thousand dollars. with covid putting a hold on real—world events, he and the team are hosting a three—day virtual retreat that will cost participants $800 to attend. what would we expect to see attend. what would we expect to see at the seminar? mr; attend. what would we expect to see at the seminar?— at the seminar? my home has been turned into — at the seminar? my home has been turned into a _ at the seminar? my home has been turned into a live _ at the seminar? my home has been turned into a live set _ at the seminar? my home has been turned into a live set and _ at the seminar? my home has been turned into a live set and people i turned into a live set and people will tune in. we have 800 people coming in from all over the world. i am someone who became known very much for helping people in their dating lives. the reason people came to the retreat is because of the deeper reasons why may be their life did not feel as enjoyable as perhaps it should, they were not making progress. it should, they were not making rouress. ~ ., ., it should, they were not making rouress. ., ., ,, it should, they were not making rouress. . ., , .. ,, progress. what would success look like for you? _ progress. what would success look like for you? if _ progress. what would success look like for you? if someone _ progress. what would success look l like for you? if someone approaches me and says — like for you? if someone approaches me and says i _ like for you? if someone approaches me and says i am — like for you? if someone approaches me and says i am married _ like for you? if someone approaches me and says i am married because l like for you? if someone approaches | me and says i am married because of you, that is great. if that is what
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you, that is great. if that is what you wanted and got, amazing. i want to make sure that through my work you are as happy if you did not find that. i am just as happy for the break—up site and responsible for as for the relationships. by. break—up site and responsible for as for the relationships. a, lot break-up site and responsible for as for the relationships.— for the relationships. a lot of women are — for the relationships. a lot of women are still— for the relationships. a lot of women are still coming i for the relationships. a lot of women are still coming and l for the relationships. a lot ofj women are still coming and a for the relationships. a lot of i women are still coming and a lot of them are hoping i think that this is them are hoping i think that this is the key to finding a lasting relationship. i the key to finding a lasting relationship.— the key to finding a lasting relationshi -. ., relationship. i feel the weight of helinu relationship. i feel the weight of helping people- _ relationship. i feel the weight of helping people- i— relationship. i feel the weight of helping people. i take _ relationship. i feel the weight of helping people. i take it - helping people. i take it extraordinarily seriously and always have. do extraordinarily seriously and always have. , ., extraordinarily seriously and always have. , ,, have. do you ever feel pressure you mi . ht have. do you ever feel pressure you miaht be have. do you ever feel pressure you might be selling _ have. do you ever feel pressure you might be selling vulnerable - have. do you ever feel pressure you might be selling vulnerable women | have. do you ever feel pressure you | might be selling vulnerable women a dream? i might be selling vulnerable women a dream? ., ., ~' might be selling vulnerable women a dream? ., ., ,, ., , ., dream? i do not think i am selling a dream. dream? i do not think i am selling a dream- for — dream? i do not think i am selling a dream. for me, _ dream? i do not think i am selling a dream. for me, i— dream? i do not think i am selling a dream. for me, i am _ dream? i do not think i am selling a dream. for me, i am definitely i dream. for me, i am definitely selling vulnerable people, but i count myself as one of them. if honourable is someone willing to ask for help, or has something to solve in their life and is brave enough to try to solve it, that is my
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audience. i do not believe anyone can watch my videos and claim i am selling a dream. if anyone actually watched my videos, you would see that i am very honest about what i think is possible. if someone comes to me for dating advice and want to help them be happy whether it works or not because it will not always work. backin back in kenya, it is the big day. some women have come from over 100 miles away to attend the event. thank you for coming. today we will talk to you ladies on matters of relationships. some of you realise you have been single and because the men are not there,. the
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you have been single and because the men are not there,.— men are not there,. the day starts with a series _ men are not there,. the day starts with a series of _ men are not there,. the day starts with a series of speakers _ men are not there,. the day starts with a series of speakers including | with a series of speakers including this one who kicked off with a group exercise to expand your heart. {lose exercise to expand your heart. close our exercise to expand your heart. close your eyes- — exercise to expand your heart. close your eyes- i — exercise to expand your heart. close your eyes- i want — exercise to expand your heart. close your eyes. i want you _ exercise to expand your heart. close your eyes. i want you to _ exercise to expand your heart. close your eyes. i want you to be - exercise to expand your heart. close your eyes. i want you to be able to breathe _ your eyes. i want you to be able to breathe into— your eyes. i want you to be able to breathe into your heart. breathe into that — breathe into your heart. breathe into that little being that keeps you alive. —— little bean that keeps you alive. —— little bean that keeps you alive — you alive. —— little bean that keeps you alive as — you alive. —— little bean that keeps you alive. as you look around this room _ you alive. as you look around this room with— you alive. as you look around this room with full vulnerability, because _ room with full vulnerability, because you have taken the time to come _ because you have taken the time to come back— because you have taken the time to come back home. when burale asked me that we _ come back home. when burale asked me that we have _ come back home. when burale asked me that we have women who have been so
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much _ that we have women who have been so much in _ that we have women who have been so much in life. _ that we have women who have been so much in life. i— that we have women who have been so much in life, i want you to come and talk to— much in life, i want you to come and talk to them, — much in life, i want you to come and talk to them, i thought so hard about— talk to them, i thought so hard about what i would talk about. so not only— about what i would talk about. so not only have i been coaching for nine _ not only have i been coaching for nine years. — not only have i been coaching for nine years, worked on thousands of relationships, it was motivated because — relationships, it was motivated because i— relationships, it was motivated because i went through a similar journey — because i went through a similar journey. after getting married, i lived _ journey. after getting married, i iived with— journey. after getting married, i lived with my husband for five years in a very— lived with my husband for five years in a very emotionally, verbally, physically— in a very emotionally, verbally, physically abusive relationship. during — physically abusive relationship. during that time i started to learn who i_ during that time i started to learn who i was — during that time i started to learn who i was. after leaving my husband, after five _ who i was. after leaving my husband, after five years, i divorced him. then_ after five years, i divorced him. then we — after five years, i divorced him. then we began dating again. yes. we began _ then we began dating again. yes. we began dating again. and he turned around _ began dating again. and he turned around and came back home to the essence _ around and came back home to the essence of— around and came back home to the essence of who he was as a man. not who he _ essence of who he was as a man. not who he thought he should be. but we never _ who he thought he should be. but we never realised sometimes we come in broken _ never realised sometimes we come in broken and _ never realised sometimes we come in broken and we are hoping someone
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else will— broken and we are hoping someone else will fix — broken and we are hoping someone else will fix us. | broken and we are hoping someone else will fix us.— else will fix us. i found her story of returning _ else will fix us. i found her story of returning to _ else will fix us. i found her story of returning to a _ else will fix us. i found her story of returning to a partner - else will fix us. i found her story of returning to a partner who i else will fix us. i found her story| of returning to a partner who had physically and mentally abused her concerning. i wanted to discuss it further with robert. we have had a series of speakers. what did you think about the first speaker? she is a speaker _ think about the first speaker? sis: is a speaker extra think about the first speaker? 5is: is a speaker extra in —— extraordinary speaker. is a speaker extra in -- extraordinary speaker. she was s-ueakin extraordinary speaker. she was speaking on — extraordinary speaker. she was speaking on stage _ extraordinary speaker. she was speaking on stage with - extraordinary speaker. she was speaking on stage with her i extraordinary speaker. she was i speaking on stage with her former abuser sitting there. i speaking on stage with her former abuser sitting there.— abuser sitting there. i kept on lookin: abuser sitting there. i kept on looking at _ abuser sitting there. i kept on looking at him _ abuser sitting there. i kept on looking at him and _ abuser sitting there. i kept on looking at him and he - abuser sitting there. i kept on looking at him and he kept i abuser sitting there. i kept on i looking at him and he kept nodding his head, yes, i used to abuse her. that shows they have gone beyond and they have healed.— they have healed. could someone think the message _ they have healed. could someone think the message from _ they have healed. could someone think the message from that i they have healed. could someone l think the message from that would they have healed. could someone i think the message from that would be stay with your abuser and it might work out? because femicide is a big problem and people die from staying with their abusers.— with their abusers. there is the
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ower of with their abusers. there is the power of her — with their abusers. there is the power of her story. _ with their abusers. there is the power of her story. she - with their abusers. there is the power of her story. she was i with their abusers. there is the i power of her story. she was lucky enough to get out and come back in. sadly, some never get out. if they get out, it is in a coffin. so this is the power of her story. we can never take it away from her story. one thing i was impressed about and careful to listen, she did not come on to tell people go back. the message i hope people picked was, i went out to find myself. and that is what ladies need to do. they need to go back to some people? sum, no. but for her, very lucky, has a good man who was turned around. it is like a happily ever after. the who was turned around. it is like a happily ever after.— who was turned around. it is like a happily ever after. the second half ofthe happily ever after. the second half of the day was _ happily ever after. the second half of the day was the _ happily ever after. the second half of the day was the main _ happily ever after. the second half of the day was the main event, i happily ever after. the second half| of the day was the main event, the man himself. pare of the day was the main event, the man himself-— of the day was the main event, the man himself. are you ready for this? i will tell man himself. are you ready for this? i will tell you —
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man himself. are you ready for this? i will tell you some _ man himself. are you ready for this? i will tell you some of— man himself. are you ready for this? i will tell you some of the _ man himself. are you ready for this? i will tell you some of the mistakes l i will tell you some of the mistakes you make. i will tell you some of the mistakes ou make. ., , i will tell you some of the mistakes ou make. .,, �* ., ., i will tell you some of the mistakes ou make. �* ., ., ., you make. robert burale told women what men want _ you make. robert burale told women what men want and _ you make. robert burale told women what men want and what _ you make. robert burale told women what men want and what they - you make. robert burale told women what men want and what they don't. | what men want and what they don't. we want to appreciate you but we also want to enjoy some things in private. also want to en'oy some things in rivate. . ., ~ also want to en'oy some things in rivate. . ., ,, ., private. once the naked truth had been dispensed _ private. once the naked truth had been dispensed with, _ private. once the naked truth had been dispensed with, he - private. once the naked truth had been dispensed with, he brings i private. once the naked truth had i been dispensed with, he brings women onto the stage to ask them why they feel the need for the course. mart; feel the need for the course. mary starts. feel the need for the course. mary starts- what _ feel the need for the course. mary starts. what is _ feel the need for the course. mary starts. what is this _ feel the need for the course. mary starts. what is this that _ feel the need for the course. mary starts. what is this that you i feel the need for the course. i— starts. what is this that you can tell us, the ladies and anybody watching, that would help them based on your story? i watching, that would help them based on your story?— on your story? i dated someone in 2012 he was _ on your story? i dated someone in 2012 he was very _ on your story? i dated someone in 2012 he was very hot. _ on your story? i dated someone in 2012 he was very hot. he - on your story? i dated someone in 2012 he was very hot. he had i on your story? i dated someone in 2012 he was very hot. he had a i on your story? i dated someone inj 2012 he was very hot. he had a six pack, _ 2012 he was very hot. he had a six pack, good — 2012 he was very hot. he had a six pack, good looking, everything. after— pack, good looking, everything. afterthree pack, good looking, everything. after three months, communication went bad _ after three months, communication went bad. when i called him to inquire — went bad. when i called him to inquire what was happening he said you know— inquire what was happening he said you know what, my lifestyle has changed. — you know what, my lifestyle has changed, my class is changed. what would _ changed, my class is changed. what would that— changed, my class is changed. what would that tell you as a woman? you would that tell you as a woman? you would feel would that tell you as a woman? gm. would feel though.
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would that tell you as a woman? you would feel though. he _ would that tell you as a woman? you would feel though. he had _ would that tell you as a woman? you would feelthough. he had made i would that tell you as a woman? you would feel though. he had made to l would that tell you as a woman? youj would feelthough. he had made to a oint when would feelthough. he had made to a point when sometimes... _ would feelthough. he had made to a point when sometimes... i _ would feelthough. he had made to a point when sometimes... i never- point when sometimes... i never dated _ point when sometimes... i never dated for— point when sometimes... i never dated for so— point when sometimes... i never dated for so many years because i judged _ dated for so many years because i judged every other man. why dated for so many years because i judged every other man.— dated for so many years because i judged every other man. why did you not date with — judged every other man. why did you not date with jamaat _ judged every other man. why did you not date with jamaat what _ judged every other man. why did you not date with jamaat what did - judged every other man. why did you not date with jamaat what did you i not date with jamaat what did you think? i not date with jamaat what did you think? ~' not date with jamaat what did you think? ~ ., , ., ., think? i felt like i was not enough. based on what _ think? i felt like i was not enough. based on what the _ think? i felt like i was not enough. based on what the first _ think? i felt like i was not enough. based on what the first man i think? i felt like i was not enough. based on what the first man has i based on what the first man has said. i based on what the first man has said. ., , , ., based on what the first man has said. .,, y., , ., .,, said. i hope you understand those words are not _ said. i hope you understand those words are not meant _ said. i hope you understand those words are not meant for— said. i hope you understand those words are not meant for you i said. i hope you understand those i words are not meant for you because they are _ words are not meant for you because they are not — words are not meant for you because they are not true of you but it is somebody— they are not true of you but it is somebody who wants to bring you down to their— somebody who wants to bring you down to their level. jane - to their level. jane had appeared to really embrace the speakers and when it was her turn to take to the stage, she clearly had something on her mind she wanted to share. it is clearly had something on her mind she wanted to share.— she wanted to share. it is like a wound. she wanted to share. it is like a wound- at _ she wanted to share. it is like a wound. at the _ she wanted to share. it is like a wound. at the moment, i she wanted to share. it is like a wound. at the moment, you . she wanted to share. it is like a i wound. at the moment, you don't she wanted to share. it is like a - wound. at the moment, you don't let it heal, _ wound. at the moment, you don't let it heal, it _ wound. at the moment, you don't let it heal, it will— wound. at the moment, you don't let it heal, it will continue to get bigger— it heal, it will continue to get bigger and it will affect your life. thank— bigger and it will affect your life. thank you — bigger and it will affect your life. thank you very much.—
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bigger and it will affect your life. thank you very much. before i go i would like — thank you very much. before i go i would like to _ thank you very much. before i go i would like to say _ thank you very much. before i go i would like to say something. - thank you very much. before i go i would like to say something. i - thank you very much. before i go i | would like to say something. i have known _ would like to say something. i have known robert for quite some time. but i _ known robert for quite some time. but i don't — known robert for quite some time. but i don't know whether he knows this but _ but i don't know whether he knows this but now i have the opportunity, let me _ this but now i have the opportunity, let me confess something. there was a time _ let me confess something. there was a time i_ let me confess something. there was a time i wanted to commit suicide. that night, — a time i wanted to commit suicide. that night, i— a time i wanted to commit suicide. that night, i had bought the drugs and everything. and he had a facebook— and everything. and he had a facebook alive. he was talking aboulm — facebook alive. he was talking about... being on the edges. i watched — about... being on the edges. i watched the episode with my daughter. god knows what the next step would be. i do not know if it is by— step would be. i do not know if it is by god's— step would be. i do not know if it is by god's grace, in the middle of that facebook alive, we fell asleep. the next _
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that facebook alive, we fell asleep. the next morning, i did not know where _ the next morning, i did not know where to— the next morning, i did not know where to begin. i was like, oh, my god, _ where to begin. i was like, oh, my god, i_ where to begin. i was like, oh, my god, lam— where to begin. i was like, oh, my god, i am alive. sol where to begin. i was like, oh, my god, i am alive. so i took the drugs and threw— god, i am alive. so i took the drugs and threw them away. i prepared myself— and threw them away. i prepared myself to— and threw them away. i prepared myself to go to work and prepared my daughter— myself to go to work and prepared my daughter to _ myself to go to work and prepared my daughter to go to school. if you see me crying _ daughter to go to school. if you see me crying it — daughter to go to school. if you see me crying it is not because i am broken. — me crying it is not because i am broken. it— me crying it is not because i am broken. it is— me crying it is not because i am broken, it is because i am a strong woman _ woman. applause continue encouraging people, robert, because you do not know you are saving lives out there.— saving lives out there. thank you very much- _ all right, thank you.
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i wanted to check in with jane after the event. she seemed to have gone into the event looking for tricks on how to meet a guy but the day appeared to make her confront a lot more. i appeared to make her confront a lot more. . . appeared to make her confront a lot more. ., ., ., ., , , more. i have a new relationship with m self, more. i have a new relationship with myself. because _ more. i have a new relationship with myself, because sometimes - more. i have a new relationship with myself, because sometimes we - more. i have a new relationship with | myself, because sometimes we tend more. i have a new relationship with i myself, because sometimes we tend to compromise. we compromise a lot to take someone in. i have got to learn that if— take someone in. i have got to learn that if i_ take someone in. i have got to learn that if i am _ take someone in. i have got to learn that if i am not good for them, they are missing — that if i am not good for them, they are missing out. yesterday, i came to give _ are missing out. yesterday, i came to give her— are missing out. yesterday, i came to give her a — are missing out. yesterday, i came to give her a notebook and she wrote something _ to give her a notebook and she wrote something for me. she was telling me, mummy, you are beautiful. i love you. me, mummy, you are beautiful. i love you i— me, mummy, you are beautiful. i love
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you i don't _ me, mummy, you are beautiful. i love you. i don't know, itjust made me feel good — you. i don't know, itjust made me feel good it — you. i don't know, itjust made me feel good. it made me feel like i am the best _ feel good. it made me feel like i am the best it — feel good. it made me feel like i am the best. it made me feel at ease, at peace _ the best. it made me feel at ease, at peace with myself. and to know that she _ at peace with myself. and to know that she appreciates me. that made me feelm _ that she appreciates me. that made me feel... ., ., ., me feel... yeah. there are no guarantees — me feel... yeah. there are no guarantees offered _ me feel... yeah. there are no guarantees offered when - me feel... yeah. there are no i guarantees offered when signing me feel... yeah. there are no - guarantees offered when signing up for this kind of course, but maybe it is not actually about the guarantee of love people sign up for, perhaps it is to stop the feeling of helplessness waiting for love to arrive, to be secure in who you are or may be to start looking altogether. what have you learnt from the course? the altogether. what have you learnt from the course?— altogether. what have you learnt from the course? the most important take from the — from the course? the most important take from the course _ from the course? the most important take from the course was _ from the course? the most important take from the course was that - from the course? the most important take from the course was that you - take from the course was that you have _ take from the course was that you have to _ take from the course was that you have to make yourself happy. love yourself _ have to make yourself happy. love yourself. give it to yourself fully. don't _ yourself. give it to yourself fully. don't panic. there is still time. i am still— don't panic. there is still time. i am still young.
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a fine story for the majority of the uk this— a fine story for the majority of the uk this afternoon and more fine weather— uk this afternoon and more fine weather in — uk this afternoon and more fine weather in the week ahead. we started weather in the week ahead. started the weather in the week ahead. , started the day with cloud in southern england and the weather front pulling away from the south—east in the afternoon. perhaps
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rain hanging back for kent. windy across scotland. the westerly wind could bring showers to west coast and some in the northern isles but a lot of fine weather and sunshine with temperatures up to 20 in the south. cool air with temperatures up to 20 in the south. coolair coming in on with temperatures up to 20 in the south. cool air coming in on a north—westerly will reach all areas of the uk on monday. a colder start than we have been used to with temperatures in single figures. weather front starting to push rain into western scotland early and that will travel eastwards, and more showers in southern scotland and perhaps in the north west of england. furthersouth, dry with more sunshine.
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