this is the house i grew up in. notjust me. also my brother and sister. you guys cuddled up on the sofa. we then had to get a new sofa because you put your foot through it. and for a few years, my mum's best friend and her daughter lived with us too. hello. 0h, hi! my mum called it the single mum's mansion, but others call it a �*mum—mune'. it was two adults looking after four children. and you divide and conquer. it was just so lovely for me to be in something again. it was great that we had each other. and just like my mum, many single parents

around the world are choosing to live together. these gave me the possibility also to be kind of seen - asa parent, as someone who knows| what i'm going through. it's really a healing space. the famous scooter loop. i have wonderful memories of my childhood, so i want to find out how single parents and their children are coping, notjust in the uk, but around the world. and if living together is really the answer. my name is lilla and i'm 21, studying psychology at university. but when i was five, i lived in a mum—une. when i think back on the mum—une, ijust remember lots of people being in this house. ijust remember it being fun. mum was going through a divorce and feeling lonely,

and vicky, her best friend, was going through the same. i guess it's not the most traditional thing to do, but it makes so much sense when you think about it. when people need help with their kids and single parents, they don't think, "0h, i'lljust move in with my best friend "who's also a single parent." but i don't know why. today we're back in the house where once we all lived together, because i want to understand, now as an adult myself, how it all came about. it was a very natural occurrence. organic. yeah. it was. i was trying to not say organic. _ it was a really natural occurrence. i needed somewhere to live. you had a spare bedroom? yeah _ ijust said to vic, "save your money and just move in with me for a bit with daisy "and stay till christmas." yeah, stay till christmas and see what happens. and then i stayed for a few more christmases because it worked!

we made it work without any fuss or fight that you might have if you were in a romantic relationship. and what were the first couple weeks or months like? how was it suddenly going from you having a newborn baby to then also having three more kids living with you? i moved in with a suitcase, a rail, a bag of clothes for daisy, a couple of towels and a cot. yeah. and my life suddenly became very simplified, but i had people to talk to and be part of something again. whereas being on my own, i found really hard. because i was feeling so rubbish about, you know, going through a divorce is hard, whatever. but ijust...i just... my brain couldn't concentrate. ijust felt i got up, did child care. i was trying to work as well. and then it would be bedtime and then i'm here on my own. being responsible,

the responsible adult, it's really hard. so when there's two responsible adults, the load is shared. and i think that's how we we shared. as how we we shared. the emotional load as well. yeah, we shared, we cried. how we we shared. i mean, this isn't the sofa, but the sofa was here. and we sat on the sofa a lot and cried and laughed, drank some wine and watched some romcoms. oh, yeah. romcoms. but we were... we wouldn't necessarily be speaking. no, but we were... we didn't need to. you're here together. ijust think it's nice. yeah. it's like a warm fuzzy feeling. yes. we made our own little family. what was the overall reaction? everybody just thought what a great idea. but then, they kept on thinking it was... amazing. but then, they kept on thinking it was amazing. i think ourfriends saw us both quite broken. yeah. and picked up the pieces. and then when we when we started living together,

they saw that we were getting better and that it was a good thing. it's hard being a single parent. especially when you haven't chosen to be a single parent. that was my... i would never have done this on my own because i know how hard it is. it takes a village. it's that. yeah. it takes a village. it takes a mum—une! yeah! it was really nice having two adults, i guess, in the house, because they were both very different. mum was obviously my mum, so she could boss me around and tell me what to do. and then vicky would be the one that would give me sweets and, um, let me put sugar in my tea and stuff like that. mum was describing it the other day as a good cop, bad cop kind of vibe that they had going on. um, but it was, it was really nice because itjust... i think there was a lot of nice female energy in the house. it was like vicky was like another parent back in, in the day, really. my mum and vicky formed a collective, along with their localfriend nicola, who was also going through a divorce.

so, it was three mums, six kids making it work all together. so, obviously, this is my room now, but who used to stay in here in the old days? this was my room and i had the superking—sized bed in here. nice. and the desk was on the other side because that's where i used to work. and when it was a busy weekend, so when nicola and both her kids were here, and vicky and daisy and us, nicola would be with me in the king—sized bed. it was the only way we could fit everybody in, so we were a bit sardines. this was the mums' room. the mums' room. yeah. studies show that while single—parent families are at a higher risk of financial hardship, they are also more likely to suffer from poor mental health, often feeling isolated.

in a survey in the uk, 43% of single parents reported low self—esteem, compared to 30% of coupled parents. so do you guys have any thoughts on why it's seen as an unusual thing to do, and why more people don't do it? having a spare bedroom... having a spare bedroom. without that, we could never have done it. it is something that's a bit more of a movement now. but i believe in america, it was actually... in so many communities it'sjust what happens. but, yeah, ithink people are wary, but people are doing it because what are the alternatives? it's quite harsh, there's the housing situation. yeah. and it's easy for me in my ivory tower to say that, but i know that it is. yeah. — life's expensive. life's really expensive. and having a baby is really expensive. yeah. but friends moving in together with kids...

..it works. it worked for us. how much do you reckon goes on one? like how much of a jar? so i normally do it... i start at the top. i do have a systematic approach. well, you should have showed me that first. sorry. i'm really excited to meet some other people that have done similar things to what mum, vicky and nicola did, because i want to see how they're set up and experiences similar or different to what i know and what i can kind of remember. is the switch on the right setting? yeah, it's hot. i'm a bit nervous to, um, interview people cos i've never done, but i'm hoping that it's going to be ok. but mostly i'm excited and...curious. i'm curious about what everyone's gonna tell me. right, this is it.

this is... they're definitely done. yes. perfect. the word mum—une was actually coined by a mum in california called carmen boss in 2002, and it's definitely more of a thing in america than it is in europe. hi, i'm brooke, - a single mum of three living the lake life . in small—town texas. hello. hi. i caught up with brooke and herfriend jamila, two mums who literally built their mum—une with their own two hands. so how did it all start then? how did you guys meet and how did you decide to set up living together? so it was kind of like an organic thing - that we weren't expecting to really be _ a long—term thing either. actually, brooke used to have a coffee shop in town, - and my partner at the time, which i was living with in texas, _

he had sold her some services for her coffee shop. _ shortly after that, we separated - and i was like, _ "i can't do this anymore." it was a very toxic environment. - and then he tells me, "i'm leaving. - "you could tell that brooke lady - "that i'm not gonna fulfil the work- "that i charged her for." and so i reached out| to her and i was like, "hey, so i will fulfil the work for you, just if you can, - "like, give me a second "because i don't have anywhere to live." . yeah. and that was kind of something that i had personal experience with. when i was younger i was in a really, really abusive relationship and was able to get out through some social services. and after that, i always wanted to be able to provide that for someone else. and the timing just worked out in that i had just moved out of the rv into the cottage. and so i was living there

and i had an empty rv, and i was like, "well, hey, if you need a place to live, um, you know, "i'm a single mum too, and i've got this space. "do you want to come check it out "and see if it would work for you and your daughter?" how was building your own house? because that's pretty incredible. it hasjust been, like, just a whirlwind, um, | of trying to learn how to do it. - laughing so i have some building experience. i've been doing, like, furniture and carpentry for about 15 years. i live in a converted shed and i did all the finish work myself. it took about a year of work after work to get it to a point where i could move in. and withjamila's, we had this cover over the rv and one day we were just sitting outside and we were, like, "this would be a really cool house." and then we just did it.

we just started going. i we had the audacity to try. yeah _ it's been really great for ouri children, especially the girls, because we have three girls to watch their mums create their homes. i we have this kind of little i tiny collective of two houses where we get to live next. to each other and cooperate and have a little community and also have our own separate spaces - where we canjust kind of, yeah, live our lives - and have — some peace and heal after all of the all of the - life that happened between us. and we've got four kids - that share this space with us, and we're really excited to keep growing. - brooke and jamila have built something special. when i spoke to them, they said they thought they'd been lucky. that was also a word my mum used. so i wanted to speak to someone who helps mums that aren't so lucky. you work with single mums, right? and what kind of things do you help them with

with this charity? so the main thing that's coming up a lot is housing. so i get enquiries from, like, the perinatal teams, the community midwives, a number of mothers on their caseload that are homeless, are in temporary accommodation, unsuitable accommodation as well. to me, your basic need is food, shelter and water. like, you need a roof over your head or somewhere to lay your head, especially if you've got children or a child. isolation as well. mothers are very, very isolated. everybody needs a network. and i think in the times that we're living in now, parenting doesn't come with a manual. so it's important to find a mother, even if it's just to bounce things off to say, "yeah, me too." setting up communal living, like what mum and vicky did, but maybe on a bigger scale — do you think that could help with all these problems? because it sounds like they all come down to housing. yeah, it really does. and support. yeah. you know, and support.

so setting up something where not only you've got a roof over your head, but you've got on site support — i think that's every mother's dream. you know, being able to just call on somebody or somebody, say, "i'll hold the baby "while you, you know, take a half an hour nap." everybody uses the saying, ""it takes a village. that's your live—in village when you think about it. and if the dynamics are right, it can work. and you're a by—product of that, clearly. a survey in the uk found that 47% of single parents live in poverty compared with 24% of couple parents, and with the average cost of rent rising at record levels, it's no surprise to learn that housing is one of the biggest problems single parents face, particularly when they're competing against two—income families. but there is one company in france that rents exclusively to single parents. hello. nice to meet you. i'm lilla.

i'm tara. commune is a property business which has just started. so i wentjust north of paris to see how it could make a difference for single—parent families. so in this commune, we've got 13 units. so every unit can accommodate one family. here we go. whoa! and so, here we're in a trio unit. so it's a unit that can accommodate a parent and up to two children. so here is the child or children's bedroom. and here is the parents' room. the whole idea started right before covid when i was headhunted by a co—living company, and that's how i discovered the whole thing about co—living and shared housing and so on. a couple of months later, covid hit _ and with it,

the loneliness pandemic. and i realised that co—living was super interesting for isolated groups of people. the largest demographics with the most unmet needs were single parents and their children, who are systematically competing with dual—income applications when they're searching for housing. and it became very obvious that co—living, as a fully inclusive housing and service solution, was something that had great potential. and, surprisingly, i realised that no—one else in the world had thought about it or launched a company around that successfully. so i decided to take up that challenge. and now it's been almost eight months that we've been accommodating families and their children. what's the feedback you've received from people living here? people are very excited to find the community

and the village, basically, they were looking for. and even if it's not easy to, like, adapt to a new way of life. _ learning to live with tons of neighbours with whom you share your laundry and your dishes and having this playroom where you've got lots and lots of kids making lots and lots of noise. obviously, it has its challenges. but, mostly, people are extremely happy and so far they're staying, so it must be working. did you learn in school? yes, i learned in school, but... i caught up with one of the parents, euna, who moved in with her two—year—old son. how do you find it, living with other parents?

this commune is a good example of how single parents can help each other. of the ten parents currently renting, nine are mothers and one is a single dad. because of course, it's notjust mums who are single parents. so what about the dads? hello. lovely to meet you. welcome. come in. thank you. artworks. beautiful! back in the uk, i went to meet two dads,

leonard and simon, who two years ago had never met. i wanted to see what they had created for themselves. leonard's son luca and simon's daughter frida. did luca get frida the dragon from ljubljana? yeah, they went on holidays and they came back with this for frida. so it's a little dragon that protects her during the night. so she's very keen on it. i was wondering if you could tell me how you guys met and how this all started. i was looking for a new place. i was already sharing a house with other two, um, flatmates, and i had my daughter, which was four at the time, and ifound it very hard, uh, being a single parent, to find a new place. i can't afford a place for myself, so i had to share. and so after months of research, i, uh, decided maybe it's worth trying to find another parent to buddy up with and to find a house together. so i started looking around,

and then i found out on this website where you can find rooms, there's a section for that purpose for budding ups. and there i found a few single parents. i got a phone call. i was very surprised because my profile was there for about three years without any contact. but, yeah, after the phone call, there was a few quick coffees, kind of got along. the idea of living together seemed reasonable. then the kids met. they got along very well. they started playing instantly. they didn't squabble, they didn't bicker. so that was also a good thing. and then ijust started looking for available flats. so how long has it been going on for now? we've been in this place for a bit over a year. the kids, they get along very well. we do as well. we are a similar age. also, the kids exactly the same age. they are two months apart. so they basically live with one of their best friends, and it's sweet. they're always looking forward

to meet each other. yeah, and, obviously, you know, we help each other. we help where we can. and sometimes the day is just too long and a 20—minute distraction for the kids where you can do something is is worth its weight in gold. it sets you in a different kind of mindset. and you feel much more at home and at ease. it's a home. yeah, it's a home. have there been any challenging aspects of it or has it been pretty smooth sailing? compared to, you know, to, um, a situation where you would share anyway, i don't see really any particular challenge in this. one thing which might be difficult sometimes, you know, it's kind of understand each other�*s boundaries when you are dealing with a child, uh, because we're both parents, we both, you know, love each other�*s kids. and sometimes maybe you want to kind of intervene or do your own things,

but you have to respect, you know, the other parent's way of doing stuff. so that's something that can be challenging sometimes to, to understand, you know, where your kind of limit is. um, and that requires a bit of communication, obviously, between the two of us. what are the best bits then of living together? peace of mind, like, you don't feel you have all the responsibility on your shoulders. and, also, it is nice to see the impact he is having on my child. so here we have you... and this is... luca. she loves having a friend to live with and also kind of an uncle or i don't know how to, you know, call him, but that cares about her and loves her. it's kind of a new, uh, role. am i holding luca's hand? yes. nice. we're all holding hands.

oh, that's lovely. what's your future plans then together? is it going to continue in the long term? yeah. it briefly talked about next steps which would be put the little ones in their own room. yeah. upgrade, not change. yeah. nice. and sometimes when my daughter asked me if... if "can we can we live together forever? " uh, so i feel like, oh, no! i have two yellows and you have two yellows as well. after going over to simone and lenart�*s today, i came away with such a warm feeling. they've created such a lovely space for their children and the way that they were talking about their kids and their relationship together as well, it was really special. iwin! you win. idid it.

it reminded me of how my mum—une was just as lovely and how dealing with my parents' divorce was balanced out with so much joy and fun. we had our own little family. it was all good. i know lots of friends that can remember when their parents were separated, quite a negative experience. but from my memories, you and dad have always been friends. yeah. which was obviously very lucky. and if it's because vicki helped... totally. it's because vicki was here. it totally is. because vicki was here. because half the time when you're a parent going through something like that, you do lash out. you are angry. but i had someone who had my back and also, yeah, your dad and i are friends. we're good friends. and i would not want it to be any other way. yeah. cos it's what's best

for everybody, really. and i do think being in the mum—une had a huge part to play in that, massively, yeah. being a single mum can be really challenging when you don't have a back—up, and we've been able to give each other that backup. we're just here - to support each other and raise the kids and make sure that they have the best lives - that they can possibly have. i think if there was a situation where i was a single parent, i would definitely do it. i think it's a wonderful thing that it helps people heal and rebuild new relationships. it's who you choose to love and care about and rely on and to have a supportive relationship with. community is so important, and we're quite an individualistic society, and it's nice to see people relying on and getting help from other humans as well. really lovely to see.

hello there. as we push into part two of the weekend, it looks like we should see that fog issue lifting. that's because the stagnant air associated with the area of high pressure is pulling away into the near continent, and we're picking up a fresher westerly breeze through sunday. that should help disperse the clouds to give more sunny spells. but it will stay unsettled across scotland with this weather front bringing persistent rain. you'll see more isobars on the charts for sunday, so that breeze will be strong, especially for the northern half of the country. here, it stays cloudy and wet pretty much all day, but southern scotland, northern ireland and large parts of england and wales will see the sunshine breaking through as we head into the afternoon. so a grey start and then a brighter afternoon. temperatures still in single digits across the southeast. a bit milderfurther north — up to around 11 or 12 degrees in central—southern scotland.

now, as we head through sunday night, it stays wet across the northern half of scotland. some cold air engaging the system could turn some of that rain into snow over the hills across northern scotland, so a real wintry mix there. but elsewhere, further south, it'll be drier with clear spells. but throughout monday into new year's eve, with further rain and hill snow across scotland, we're likely to see some travel issues. it could be bringing some localised flooding to places, so stay tuned to the forecast to keep up to date with all the weather forecasts, and head online to check out all the latest weather warnings. this is the picture, then, for monday. we've got low pressure to the north of the uk. active weather fronts across scotland bringing heavy rain, further hill snow here. could see some showers pushing into northern and western england and wales, but i think much of england and wales will see the sunshine and stay largely dry throughout the day on monday. but more of a breeze and a milder day to come for all. cold in northern scotland. as we head out of monday into tuesday, which is new year's eve, another area of low pressure moves through to bring a blustery, windy day for all. outbreaks of rain, particularly

in the north and the west. once again, there will be some hill snow across the north of scotland, so some travel disruption is likely. so that rain moving across england and wales later on in the day on new year's eve, so you have to stay tuned to the forecast if you have travel plans, of course. another mild day to come away from northern scotland. another low—pressure system hurtles across the country on new year's day, and as it pulls away, it allows the floodgates to open to a northerly arctic air flow. so after a disruptive day of weather on new year's day, the first week of january 2025 is looking colder, sunnier, with some wintry showers and frosty nights.

live from washington. this is bbc news. reports are coming in of a plane crash in south korea, where a news agency says 62 people are dead.

vladimir putin apologises for a plane crash in kazakhstan that killed 38 people but stops short of saying russia was responsible. gaza's health ministry says medical staff are among hundreds of people held by israeli forces who raided the last major hospital in the north of the territory. hello, i'm carl nasman. we begin with breaking news out of south korea. fire authorites say that at least 62 passengers have been killed after a flight carrying 18! people crashed at south korea's muan airport. two people have been rescued from the crash, according to the country's national fire agency. the authority says 80 firefighters are on site to extinguish the fire and thejeju airflight, which was returning to south korea from bangkok, reportedly crashed into a wall off the runway and caught fire. witnesses reported hearing a large explosion