i will have details for you at ten. now on bbc news, it takes a village. this is the house i grew up in. notjust me. also my brother and sister. you guys cuddled up on the sofa. we then had to get a new sofa, because you put your foot through it. and for a few years, my mum's best friend and her daughter lived with us, too. hello. we might be on film! 0h, hi! my mum called it the single mum's mansion, but others call it a �*mum—une�*. it was two adults looking after four children. and you divide and conquer. it was just so lovely for me to be in something again. it was great that we had each other. and just like my mum, many single parents around the world

are choosing to live together. these gave me the possibility also to be kind of seen as a parent, _ as someone who knows| what i'm going through. it's really a healing space. the famous scooter loop. i have wonderful memories of my childhood, so i want to find out how single parents and their children are coping, notjust in the uk, but around the world. and if living together is really the answer. my name is lilla and i'm 21, studying psychology at university. but when i was five, i lived in a mum—une. when i think back on the mum—une, ijust remember lots of people being in this house. ijust remember it being fun. mum was going through a divorce and feeling lonely, and vicki, her best friend,

was going through the same. i guess it's not the most traditional thing to do, but it makes so much sense when you think about it. when people need help with their kids and single parents, they don't think, "0h, i'lljust move in with my best friend "who's also a single parent." but i don't know why. today we're back in the house where once we all lived together, because i want to understand, now as an adult myself, how it all came about. it was a very natural occurrence. organic. yeah. it was. i was trying to not say organic. _ it was a really natural occurrence. i needed somewhere to live. you had a spare bedroom? yeah _ ijust said to vic, "save your money and just move in with me for a bit with daisy "and stay till christmas." yeah, stay till christmas and see what happens. and then i stayed for a few more christmases because it worked!

we made it work without any fuss or fight that you might have if you were in a romantic relationship. and what were the first couple weeks or months like? how was it suddenly going from you having a newborn baby to then also having three more kids living with you? i moved in with a suitcase, a rail, a bag of clothes for daisy, a couple of towels and a cot. yeah. and my life suddenly became very simplified, but i had people to talk to and be part of something again. whereas being on my own, i found really hard. because i was feeling so rubbish about, you know, going through a divorce is hard, whatever. but ijust...i just... my brain couldn't concentrate. ijust felt i got up, did child care. i was trying to work as well. and then it would be bedtime and then i'm here on my own. being responsible, the responsible adult, it's really hard.

so when there's two responsible adults, the load is shared. and i think that's how we we shared. just the emotional load as well. yeah, we shared, we cried. i mean, this isn't the sofa, but the sofa was here. yeah. and we sat on the sofa a lot and cried and laughed, drank some wine and watched some romcoms. oh, yeah. romcoms. but we were... we wouldn't necessarily be speaking. no, but we were... we didn't need to. you're here together. ijust think it's nice. yeah. it's like a warm fuzzy feeling. yes. we made our own little family. what was the overall reaction? everybody just thought what a great idea. but then, they kept on thinking it was amazing. i think our friends saw us both quite broken. yeah. and picked up the pieces. and then when we when we started living together, they saw that we were getting better and that it was a good thing.

it's hard being a single parent. especially when you haven't chosen to be a single parent. that was my... i would never have done this on my own because i know how hard it is. it takes a village. it's that. yeah. it takes a village. it takes a mum—une! yeah! it was really nice having two adults, i guess, in the house, because they were both very different. mum was obviously my mum, so she could boss me around and tell me what to do. and then vicki would be the one that would give me sweets and, um, let me put sugar in my tea and stuff like that. mum was describing it the other day as a good cop, bad cop kind of vibe that they had going on. um, but it was, it was really nice because itjust... i think there was a lot of nice female energy in the house. it was like vicki was like another parent back in, in the day, really. my mum and vicki formed a collective, along with their localfriend nicola, who was also going through a divorce. so, it was three mums, six kids making it work all together.

so, obviously, this is my room now, but who used to stay in here in the old days? this was my room, and i had the superking—sized bed in here. nice. and the desk was on the other side because that's where i used to work. and when it was a busy weekend, so when nicola and both her kids were here, and vicki and daisy and us, nicola would be with me in the king—sized bed. it was the only way we could fit everybody in, so we were a bit sardines. this was the mums�* room. the mums�* room. yeah. studies show that while single—parent families are at a higher risk of financial hardship, they are also more likely to suffer from poor mental health, often feeling isolated. in a survey in the uk,

43% of single parents reported low self—esteem, compared to 30% of coupled parents. so do you guys have any thoughts on why it's seen as an unusual thing to do, and why more people don't do it? having a spare bedroom... having a spare bedroom. without that, we could never have done it. it is something that's a bit more of a movement now. but i believe in america, it was actually... in so many communities it'sjust what happens. but, yeah, ithink people are wary, but people are doing it because what are the alternatives? it's quite harsh, there's the housing situation. yeah. and it's easy for me in my ivory tower to say that, but i know that it is. yeah. — life's expensive. life's really expensive. and having a baby is really expensive. yeah. but friends moving in together with kids... ..it works. it worked for us.

how much do you reckon goes on one? like how much of a jar? so i normally do it... i start at the top. i do have a systematic approach. well, you should have showed me that first. sorry. i'm really excited to meet some other people that have done similar things to what mum, vicki and nicola did, because i want to see how they're set up and experiences similar or different to what i know and what i can kind of remember. is the switch on the right setting? yeah, it's hot. i'm a bit nervous to, um, interview people cos i've never done it before, but i'm hoping that it's going to be ok. but mostly i'm excited and...curious. i'm curious about what everyone�*s going to tell me. right, this is it. this is... they're definitely done. yes.

perfect. the word mum—une was actually coined by a mum in california called carmen boss in 2002, and it's definitely more of a thing in america than it is in europe. hi, i'm brooke, - a single mum of three living the lake life . in small—town texas. hello. hi. i caught up with brooke and herfriend jamila, two mums who literally built their mum—une with their own two hands. so how did it all start then? how did you guys meet and how did you decide to set up living together? so it was kind of like an organic thing - that we weren't expecting to really be _ a long—term thing either. actually, brooke used to have a coffee shop in town, - and my partner at the time, which i was living with

in texas, _ he had sold her some services for her coffee shop. _ shortly after that, we separated - and i was like, "i can't do this any more." - it was a very toxic environment. - and then he tells me, "i'm leaving. - "you could tell that brooke lady - "that i'm not gonna fulfil the work- "that i charged her for." and so i reached out| to her and i was like, "hey, so i will fulfil the work for you, just if you can, - "like, give me a second "because i don't have anywhere to live." . yeah. and that was kind of something that i had personal experience with. when i was younger i was in a really, really abusive relationship and was able to get out through some social services. and after that, i always wanted to be able to provide that for someone else. and the timing just worked out in that i had just moved out of the rv into the cottage. and so i was living there and i had an empty rv,

and i was like, "well, hey, if you need a place to live, um, you know, "i'm a single mum too, and i've got this space. "do you want to come check it out "and see if it would work for you and your daughter?" how was building your own house? because that's pretty incredible. it hasjust been, like, just a whirlwind, um, | of trying to learn how to do it. - laughing laughing so i have some so i have some building experience. building experience. i've been doing, like, furniture and carpentry i've been doing, like, furniture and carpentry for about 15 years. for about 15 years. i live in a converted shed i live in a converted shed and i did all the and i did all the finish work myself. finish work myself. it took about a year of work it took about a year of work after work after work to get it to a point children, especially the girls, to get it to a point where i could move in. where i could move in. and withjamila's, and withjamila's, we had this cover over the rv we had this cover over the rv and one day we were and one day we were just sitting outside just sitting outside and we were, like, "this and we were, like, "this would be a really cool house." would be a really cool house." and then we just did it. and then we just did it. we just started going. i we just started going. i we had the audacity to try. we had the audacity to try. yeah _ yeah _

it's been really great for ouri it's been really great for ouri children, especially the girls, because we have three girls to watch their mums create their homes. i we have this kind of little i tiny collective of two houses where we get to live next. to each other and cooperate and have a little community and also have our own separate spaces - where we canjust kind of, yeah, live our lives -

the community midwives, a number of mothers on their caseload that are homeless, are in temporary accommodation, unsuitable accommodation as well. to me, your basic need is food, shelter and water. like, you need a roof over your head or somewhere to lay your head, especially if you've got children or a child. isolation as well. mothers are very, very isolated. everybody needs a network. and i think in the times that we're living in now, parenting doesn't come with a manual. so it's important to find a mother, even if it's just to bounce things off to say, "yeah, me too." setting up communal living, like what mum and vicki did, but maybe on a bigger scale — do you think that could help with all these problems? because it sounds like they all come down to housing. yeah, it really does. and support. yeah. you know, and support. so setting up something where not only

you've got a roof over your head, but you've got on site support — i think that's every mother's dream. you know, being able to just call on somebody or somebody, say, "i'll hold the baby "while you, you know, take a half an hour nap." everybody uses the saying, "it takes a village." that's your live—in village, when you think about it, and if the dynamics are right, it can work, and you're a by—product of that, clearly! a survey in the uk found that 47% of single parents live in poverty compared with 24% of couple parents, and with the average cost of rent rising at record levels, it's no surprise to learn that housing is one of the biggest problems single parents face, particularly when they're competing against two—income families. but there is one company in france that rents exclusively to single parents. hello. nice to meet you. i'm lilla. i'm tara.

commune is a property business which has just started. so i wentjust north of paris to see how it could make a difference for single—parent families. so in this commune, we've got 13 units. so every unit can accommodate one family. here we go. whoa! and so, here we're in a trio unit. so it's a unit that can accommodate a parent and up to two children. so here is the child or children's bedroom. and here is the parents' room. the whole idea started right before covid, when i was headhunted by a co—living company, and that's how i discovered the whole thing about co—living and shared housing and so on. a couple of months later, covid hit, and with it, the loneliness pandemic,

and i realised that co—living was super interesting for isolated groups of people. the largest demographics with the most unmet needs were single parents and their children, who are systematically competing with dual—income applications when they're searching for housing, and it became very obvious that co—living, as a fully—inclusive housing and service solution, was something that had great potential, and, surprisingly, i realised that no—one else in the world had thought about it, or launched a company around that successfully. so i decided to take up that challenge, and now it's been almost eight months that we've been accommodating families and their children. what's the feedback you've received from people living here? people are very excited to find the community

and the village, basically, they were looking for, and even if it's not easy to, like, adapt to a new way of life. _ learning to live with tons of neighbours with whom you share your laundry and your dishes and having this playroom, where you've got lots and lots of kids making lots and lots of noise. obviously, it has its challenges. but, mostly, people are extremely happy, and so far, they're staying, so it must be working. did you learn in school? yes, i learned in school, but... i caught up with one of the parents, yuna, who moved in with her two—year—old son. how do you find it, living with other parents?

this commune is a good example of how single parents can help each other. of the ten parents currently renting, nine are mothers, and one is a single dad, because, of course, it's notjust mums who are single parents. so what about the dads? hello. lovely to meet you. welcome. come in. thank you. artworks. beautiful! back in the uk, i went to meet two dads, leonard and simone, who, two years ago, had never met. i wanted to see what they had created for themselves,

for leonard's son luca and simone�*s daughter frida. did luca get frida the dragon from ljubljana? yeah, they went on holidays and they came back with this for frida. so it's a little dragon that protects her during the night. so she's very keen on it, yeah. i was wondering if you could tell me how you guys met and how this all started? i was looking for a new place. i was already sharing a house with other two, um, flatmates, and i had my daughter, which was four at the time, and ifound it very hard, uh, being a single parent, to find a new place. i can't afford a place for myself, so i had to share, and so after months of research, i, uh, decided maybe it's worth trying to find another parent to buddy up with and to find a house together. so i started looking around,

and then i found out on this website where you can find rooms, there's a section for that purpose for buddying—ups, and there i found a few single parents. i got a phone call. i was very surprised, because my profile was there for about three years without any contact. but, yeah, after the phone call, there was a few quick coffees, we kind of got along. the idea of living together seemed reasonable. then the kids met. they got along very well. they started playing instantly. they didn't squabble, they didn't bicker. so that was also a good thing, and then we just started looking for available flats. so how long has it been going on for now? we've been in this place for a bit over a year. the kids, they get along very well. we do, as well. we are a similar age. also, the kids, exactly the same age. they are two months apart. so they basically live with one of their best friends, and it's sweet. they're always looking forward

to meet each other. yeah, and, obviously, you know, we help each other. we help where we can, and sometimes the day isjust too long, and a 20—minute distraction for the kids, where you can do something, is worth its weight in gold. it sets you in a different kind of mindset, and you feel much more at home and at ease. it's a home. yeah, it's a home. have there been any challenging aspects of it or has it been pretty smooth sailing? compared to, you know, to, um, a situation where you would share anyway, i don't see really any particular challenge in this. one thing which might be difficult, sometimes, you know, it's kind of understand each other�*s boundaries when you are dealing with a child, uh, because we're both parents, we both, you know, love each other�*s kids, and sometimes, maybe you want to kind of intervene, or do your own things,

but you have to respect, you know, the other parent's way of doing stuff. so that's something that can be challenging sometimes to, to understand, you know, where your kind of limit is, and that requires a bit of communication, obviously, between the two of us. what are the best bits, then, of living together? peace of mind, like, you don't feel you have all the responsibility on your shoulders, and, also, it is nice to see the impact he is having on my child. so here we have you... and this is... luca. she loves having a friend to live with, and also kind of an uncle, or i don't know how to, you know, call him, but that cares about her and loves her. it's kind of a new role. am i holding luca's hand? yes. nice. we're all holding hands. oh, that's lovely.

what's your future plans, then, together? is it going to continue in the long term? yeah. we briefly talked about next steps, which would be put the little ones in their own room. yeah. upgrade, not change. nice. and sometimes my daughter asked me if... if "can we can we live together forever? " uh, so i feel like, oh! no! i have two yellows and you have two yellows, as well... after going over to simone and lenart�*s today, i came away with such a warm feeling. they've created such a lovely space for their children, and the way that they were talking about their kids and their relationship together, as well, it was really special. iwin! i you win. idid it!

it reminded me of how my mum—une was just as lovely, and how dealing with my parents�* divorce was balanced out with so much joy and fun. we had our own little family. it was all good. i know lots of friends that can remember when their parents were separated, quite a negative experience, but from my memories, you and dad have always been friends. yeah. which was obviously very lucky. and if it's because vicki helped you... totally. it's because vicki was here. it totally is. because vicki was here. because half the time when you're a parent going through something like that, you do lash out. you are angry. but i had someone who had my back, and also, yeah, your dad and i are friends. we're good friends, and i would not want it to be any other way. yeah. cos it's what's best for everybody, really,

and i do think being in the mum—une had a huge part to play in that, massively, yeah. being a single mum can be really challenging when you don't have a back—up, and we've been able to give each other that back—up. we're just here to. support each other, and raise the kids, and make sure that they have the best lives - that they can possibly have. i think, if there was a situation where i was a single parent, i would definitely do it. i think it's a wonderful thing, that it helps people heal and rebuild new relationships. it's who you choose to love and care about and rely on and to have a supportive relationship with. community is so important, and we're quite an individualistic society, and it's nice to see people relying on and getting help from other humans, as well. really lovely to see.

hello. the weather will continue to have impacts for some on this last day of 202a. we still have a met office amber warning, for instance, at around fort william, inverness and aviemore for heavy rain. but actually, conditions, weather conditions, will slowly improve here. we'll see the persistent rain ease into the afternoon. there will be some heavy showers, though. the most persistent rain will be in the far north of scotland with strong and gusty winds. southern scotland and northern ireland continue to brighten up and turn a bit drier and less windy. northern england, north and west wales deteriorating weather through the afternoon, more in the way of persistent rain, especially in the north west of both and strong and gusty winds. further south, it stays dry, blustery and for many, a mild end to the year. we'll see that rain, though, persist across parts of northern england,

wales and the north midlands into the midnight hours. we see in the brand new year, strong and gusty winds with it and to the south. to the north of that, we'll see in the new year on a colder note. rain, sleet and snow here, which means icy conditions to start new year's day. that colder air pushing its way southwards. but at least for much of the day, south wales, central and southern england, a spell of heavy rain, gusty winds pushing its way southwards and temperatures dropping throughout. so whilst it does brighten up from north wales, northern england northwards, with a few wintry showers around, it will feel much, much colder to end new year's day. and that is the start of a spell of really cold air to seize the rest of the week out. arctic air coming down from the north to all parts as we head through into thursday. so it does mean as we start thursday, after a very cold start, there will be a widespread frost and the risk of some ice around, especially where you see the wet weather clear latest and indeed you've got wintry showers to start the day.

snow showers, in fact, northern scotland, some close to these eastern coastal counties of england, northern ireland and maybe one or two into north wales and the isle of man, as well. for many, though, thursday will be a bright and sunny day, but in the wind it will feel cold. this is what it will feel like out there exposed to the wind, as low as —6 wind chill in parts of the far north east of scotland. that cold air sits in place, then, through thursday night into friday, so anotherfrost and ice risk. but with a few weather fronts coming down that northerly flow, there'll be a bit more cloud, greater chance of some showers inland, scotland, northern ireland, northern england and north wales. again, a mixture of rain, sleet and snow giving a slight dusting over the hills. further south, it stays sunny but, for all, friday another cold day.

live from london. this is bbc news. medics in gaza say six newborn babies have died from hypothermia in a two week period. south korea'sjeju air says it will "strengthen" safety measures after one of its planes crashed on sunday killing almost everyone on board. the ambulance service in wales declares a critical incident after an increase in demand causes significant delays.

severe weather warnings across the uk. stormy weather has already led to the cancellation of edinburgh's famous new year outdoor hogmanay events. and it's arise sir gareth and sir stephen. former england football manager gareth southgate, and actor stephen fry are among those recognised in the new years honours list hello i'm nicky schiller, welcome to the programme. and a happy new year to the 16,000 or so residents of christmas island in kiribas in the indian ocean who have just welcomed in 2025 — one of the first inhabited places in the world to experience the new year. we start in the middle east. injust over a week, six babies in gaza have died from the cold weather — that's according to hamas—controlled health authorities.