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the owner will not show up. hello ekaterina bogdanovna, hello. nikolai ivanovich, why so early, but your grandson invited you to visit. so jumped said. ekaterina bogdan, how did this woman get lost here the night before last, terrible dirty all in the ground. i washed her, changed her clothes with decoctions, gave her to drink, put her to bed, the paramedic was, he said that i did everything right
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. and what did you do, the bleeding with nettles quickly stopped. the paramedic said when he wakes up, take him to the doctor. yes, i was going to call you today. by the way, judging throughout. she gave birth. recently, i should have told you at once, it's easy to say the district police officer, and we have half of the village sitting for smuggling. and i have no one but my grandson. well, let's deal with your grandson. okay, i need to talk to him. i'm the main thing now. know where my child is and
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what's wrong with him? i know for sure that i gave birth to a healthy baby. heard him scream fantastic story so did i understand you correctly? you went outside and came to the gate. there they attacked you, put a bag over your head and took you to some house in the forest. there you were held by force yevgeny briginets and a certain svetlana, this woman. and she was silent the whole time. clearly , eugene told you that they are waiting for the birth of your child in order to get a ransom for him because of you. then you went into labor. did you
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hear the cry of a baby, but blacked out woke up in a grave underground? don't believe. i believe. if they told you the truth and your child is alive. then he will become an object of bargaining sooner or later they will demand a ransom for him. yes wait. the fact that you are alive must remain a secret for now. and if you suddenly show up, it’s not a fact that you can staying alive is understandable. and what is there to do? here you are safe no one knows who you really are, in the meantime, i'll reopen the investigation and try to figure out carefully, were there any ransom demands? for the baby you need
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to get better now. to gain strength your most important enemy now is weakness of health and physical infirmity ekaterina bogdanovna we finished i figured out everything you need. your guests while staying here until full recovery. well, i will bring you phones tomorrow and will call every day. sometimes i will come. get well soon. ekaterina bogdanovna i offer you an exchange, you nurse, treat. until full recovery your guest, and i will not plant your grandson for
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smuggling. we agreed not to talk about the village, the guests will ask, i will say my second cousin . good? tie smuggling go to work on a farm or in a forestry where people are needed. what about this woman? didn't ekaterina bogdanovna tell you? this is her relative. far to be honest, i'm not very happy to see you. i do not
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want to remember the events of those days. than i can be useful? perhaps there is some news, maybe someone blackmailed you or demanded? why is there no language? nothing like that. i honestly don't understand what he's talking about, tim. you seem to have dismissed the case closed or not. yes, there is a sense of incompleteness. not a doskannost, you understand? no, i don't understand. thank you for your time.
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nikolai ivanovich, please, we need to talk to the car. you put a bug, well done, do you even understand that this is illegal? i understand, it's good that you understand. by the way, why not do i have a day off from work? i can listen on the weekend or after work, you learned something new, a man burned down on my site in the house, it was established that this is evgeny briginets. i contacted the owner of the house. he received a good rent from a woman named svetlana. i threw him a photo of the bride, a brigin, it turned out to be a titan. your house is located 10 kilometers from the burnt house, it seems that brigin and lipovaya svetlana
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kept anna there for what? this version of the briginets will not tell us anything. this woman is the key to solve the mystery, nikolai ivanovich, do you think there is something that we did not notice, do you understand? a good researcher should notice what is not what is. and what is not? lisa, i need all of your mother's known contacts. those contacts that i had remained in the case file, and i don’t have access books, i’m sure that the list was kept by my mother’s friend and personal assistant irina kovalchuk, remember, contact her. i understand that you already have a new life, but i really need your help. i'm ready to
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help. i need my mom's contact list. what for? investigator titarenko, who was in charge of my mother's case, has resumed the investigation of her disappearance unofficially so far. why did he decide to resume this business on his site , a house burned down in a fire, yevgeny briginets died. this is the son of valentina stepanovna nikolai ivanovich. he believes that evgeny kept my mother in this house, and he also thinks that the woman who pretended to be evgeny's bride is the key to solving the whole crime. that's great alice, i'll be happy to help you. it seems to me that somewhere there is a file with your mom's contacts. bye.
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i need to leave you for a while. you will stay with the nanny, to be honest, i did not expect you to come to me, i called. lisa said you're still investigating. thank you very much. i would like to help. lisa said that you want to check your contacts again. i made a list and printed it out and decided to bring it to you personally. he enemies can follow you can hack mail. thanks a lot. you sit down. yes, of course, i myself wanted to
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offer. do you already have some versions of the idea, but suspect someone in particular? you know irina i'm not ready to answer all your questions yet. you eat. thank you, how strong is your tea, you can boil water.
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delicious, you have a clean cozy one, you can see that a person loves order. bad water
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they say that the kettle was full on the stove, the water boiled, spilled onto the burner, flooded the fire, but he didn’t notice he was breathing gas yesterday they found him at work today he didn’t come to calls didn’t
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answer him and even the door didn’t break open it wasn’t locked. strange, it talked to you, soon died. are you saying helping me is life-threatening like that? i want say i'm not scared. i promised the district police officer to put you on your feet and i will fulfill my promises. you go eat. dmitry alekseevich to you here without an appointment, but such guests. hello ira this is really unexpected guests. hello tea coffee in the evening how long have we not seen each other for a year,
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probably, right? well, how do you live? i live normally. i thought it would be unfair not to tell you the truth. this is our son.
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bread is a useful product for sure, not only non-dietary preventive breads that are present in that including in our production. uh, bread, especially rye. it is useful by definition. it contains a large amount of proteins, somewhere in the order of 30%, uh, the average daily protein intake. it is possible for a person to receive at, let's say, the normative consumption of bread per day, and, in addition, a porous system. here is the structure of bread, it enriches our stomach, and
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oxygen is contained in the fiber that is in the bread. it removes harmful substances, which means that substances that are formed during the life of human activity are large, and vitamin the complex contained in the breads is the vitamins of the group, huh? b app e de means, and specialized, e, these dietary, e, breads that we produce, which means they also have an addition. well, as a rule. uh, here's a healthy diet today includes bread. uh, those who use their recipes in flour. so whole grain means either whole grain or crushed grain bran pressure. eh, and not only say. so it's bran. uh, grain crops are familiar, but also corn. that's where the seeds are. uh, flax seeds. well , a little sunflower kernels, and nuts. e. today,
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these are various dried fruits, even seaweed today. eh, these e all or help us to enrich. uh, our bodies have magnesium potassium, which means a high content, which means iron, especially the battle is high in rye and rye wheat breads in the minsk industry, they produce a very wide range of a wide range of their products and a number of them are classics, for example, this is naroch classic razyavilov anniversary, which means e. beacon uh, a whole line, so uh magician of bread is a very popular lep. the water has the same norchan classic that is the e brand today. not only i think that the cities of minsk, but all of the republic our guests of the capital, the guests of the republic, are happy to take away as a present or from good memories. this bread is about belarus. well, it's been there for
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over 30 years. e, it is produced with virtually no changes in the formulation of the form. this is one of the first custard lions that began to be produced on an industrial scale on the territory of the republic of belarus, which means that this is true. to our classics, but in general enterprises have more than 250 items of their love, which are patented today, we have recipes, but in production, uh, basically, uh, at the moment about 100 items, 60 of them are involved. uh, those are sourdough breads. uh, and every year. we export quite a lot for bread, but they all take root in the market.
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today to say that you are not engaged in self-development. it's like admitting that you don't brush your teeth is not a crime. but it seems, as indecent, is it good to constantly pump yourself up or is it already a sign that you are on the hook of self-development, shall we deal with this today? hello well, for example, i invest 10% of the earned money in self-development. you will be wasting your time, your money, your resources. why do you let it be, if you want to become a baker, it didn’t work out for me here a little money and go further than the coast ran to the nearest police station wrote a statement to dad. uh, so dad taught me to write inner feelings, that it should be different, that my life should be different, that i should be realized deal differently with others or crises. something did not work out upset.
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wait, what kind of core is not so powerful inside, where does it all come from is a dangerous race for self-development and how to get out of it, we will talk about this today as our guest gestalt therapist victoria kovitskaya, who will help us figure this out, good afternoon victoria hello name of the winner. do you always count on victory? you know, i would like to always count on victory, but, unfortunately, in life everything is not always so perfect, when it turns out, and to defeat the craving for knowledge and self-development, in your opinion, an expert's opinion - is it good or bad? and in my opinion, uh, the craving for self-development is something very natural for a person that uh leads him to improve his life, his position in society. i don’t know about some material
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embroidered benefits of achievement, but and uh, but at the same time sometimes this lies, of course , such things when it’s impossible to stop in achieving a little more more and better more and more grandiose grandiose. it bad. and when it ceases to bring pleasure, but rather becomes a common process, or something, a process for the sake of a process, then this, of course, is bad, because a person will most likely lose more than gain. what is behind the desire for self-development with such a question , we turned to the people of minsk? let's find out what they think. self-development is again a natural human need. this is a test of something new. it's growth, it's moving forward. and up behind self-development is the desire to become
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better yourself, never stand still to ride somewhere to move in terms of work in terms of emotions of relationships. i think it's aspiration. eh, souls, and purpose is a buzzword that everyone is talking about now, that is, we came here to get some kind of experience. we always want to go into novelty, read books, communicate something else, receive new information. this is self-development. i didn’t have self-development, but here i will understand for a long time, like dinosaurs. do you agree with victoria's last statement, there would be no self-development, we would have died out long ago, and you know, i think that most likely it was would, because, but the desire for some kind of novelty is a new acquisition. eh, emotional acquisition by professional acquisition by social is, of course, some very important thing and part of our civilization. yes,
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we are civilized people. that's why the dinosaurs became extinct. perhaps they are still not complete. ah were able to socialize. and what is behind this desire for self-development, as a rule, what is it? ah, behind the aspiration is, in fact. this is dissatisfaction, dissatisfaction, however, if, for example, a woman, she is a mother three children, she is absolutely happy in this, she has enough emotions in this space. somehow she gets some e responses. yes , there from the children of the spouse of relatives. she has a good social life there. actually, why not. and why is this self-development there, yes, and if she is happy in this, well, that is a very important component for me, some kind of quality. yes, as a person, uh, this is what he feels like . hmm, but behind it, i think.
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still striving to develop. yes, someone is running there and i need to hurry, yes, here, but there is masha met the entrance. yes, but i don’t know there i learned how to do it, i don’t know there, and i also know how to stand on my head. yes, and then, of course, it creeps in. here it is, uh, some kind of feeling, mm, when it nibbles. yes, but i don’t know how, and then it’s more like this. eh, very good feeling. yes, when i can also improve something in myself. yes, modern hmm, such is the concept of becoming the best version of myself. seems kind of crazy to me. true, because masha knows how to sit on the twine, and the acquaintance speaks five languages, and someone embroiders beautifully. if you always strive to become the best, can you lubricate? it seems to me that even so to say, my life can be turned into hell. yes, therefore, there are also two extremes with which you need to be very careful. i want
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more to join our conversation. a charming girl, she is a blogger, she is the author of a youtube channel, made with love by the organizer of various events, a person who develops herself and tells how others can do it these are not just words. this is the meaning of it yulia runs her own youtube channel made with love organizes a media conference on tiktok. in general, it keeps up with the times and does not stand still, how does she manage to tell today? hello. julia tell us about the very development that you are striving for and how you also draw others into this story. hello, i would rather call self-development of self-knowledge that way, because in childhood, we probably forgot all this, who we want to be. well, someone was lucky, someone here has this left. here is the inner support
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this rod, and the rest i would say the majority. forgot what they want to be, what they want to do, the monk wanted to be. if yes, everyone wanted astronauts. and so i would call this process of development, as self-knowledge of oneself. you recognize yourself. uh-huh what do you like, what do you like. it doesn't like this way. tell us about your youtube channel. it's all from the same story. yes, my youtube channel, i interview experts who do their favorite thing, and it turns out that they are also engaged in different methods of self -development helping. here is such a technique of karmic management, too, how to improve your life. help someone else first, and then it will all come back to you. yes, there is a more modern one. here is the technique now than the constellation. this is a master of parsing even more. so i take such interviews from people, they tell hour-long interviews. hmm, and now their eyes are on fire. it is always important for me that a person does
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his favorite thing, and then he can talk about it. with love. he helps others with love. well, i've been looking for this for a long time. and found something to do, right? by education, it turns out that i am a pharmacist with a higher pharmaceutical education. yes, i worked in medicine for 6 years. uh, at first i had an average nurse who worked for 6 years , then also worked in pharmacy organizations for 5 years. and she said it wasn't for me. i do not like. in general, i’m afraid of the sight of blood, how i found my way, how i found my way by sorting out, i first went to courses with them as stylists who deal with clothes , i finished courses in a bunch, i also really wanted to help here. and i went to study at the organizer of the event. and well, somehow here and it didn't work. for some reason, i was upset every time, but i moved on. and i so wanted to say to yulia that it was great that
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it didn’t disappear, because i think it was important here that you were definitely able to somehow seed this knowledge. well, that is, to think somehow, well, the truth is, it didn’t work out, not my little money here, not to go further. yes, everything sounds. it will be a big crisis. here and here. i'm the next one, my kind of admiration, probably, there was some kind of environment that i was able to support. no, that is, this is your kind of turnover. he supported it, no one supported it. where did they get the strength from? then no one supported there were crises. something did not work out upset. wait, what kind of core is not so powerful inside. where does all this come from? well, here is an inner feeling that it should be different, that my life should be different, that i should be realized in a different way, engage in others and receive. here is more joy from life happy to be. they are there to endure suffering, yes, go to the unloved work hmm why do my parents definitely not support me, they have a blue dream that i continue to work in a pharmacy, you envy me and that's it. more then the pension will be good. yes, i know this
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story very well. yes, there was a husband nearby, yes, who, probably, endured and supported all this, and he sent you to these courses, but go ahead. well, try it, on the contrary every time, when i came, i found this course. help him pay nightmare and you know, if there is no one around to support you, many turn to different motivators, coach trainer, yes to people who well, that's what you see the very hope, they will support you, they will help. this is a story about a very famous coach. tony robbins says the phrase grow or die, tickets to his trainings cost about $ 7,000, but people are ready to give this money. well , because they see it. i don’t know any panacea, he will tell you, as you know, from a series of self-development for the sake of self-development, in order to be in this process. let's think about it. we will return to our conversation very soon. recipes
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self-development - is it good or bad with it? we will try to figure it out today ilya yermakevich joined our conversation. a time management specialist, an organizer of business courses, is a person who is constantly engaged in self-development. hello ilya good afternoon ekaterina what kind of self-development are we talking about? the theme of personal self-development, therefore, first of all, here it is development, which contributes to personal growth. well , specifically, i was reading there, yes, well, uh, from the point of view of my background, then this is coaching, training and consulting - this is time management, a lot of different practices, but i listened to your conversations. i really liked the stories that yulia victoria was
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told. i just took a slightly different route to it. and i clearly understood my goal, where i want to go. and therefore i chose training that contributes to the achievement of my goal, and therefore i need much less experimentation. and suddenly it will go, suddenly it will not go. still, life has a certain finiteness, and i would like to spend my time more efficiently. therefore first, i determined the goal, what i want, and then systematically moved towards this. well, this is a very reasonable approach. to be honest, i also believe many of my acquaintances. went to receive. higher education, why ask them? well, let it be. well, wait, you'll be wasting your time, your money, your resources. and why do you need let it be, if you want to become a baker, and you are studying to be an economist, maybe i need to talk about time management, and about competent planning of your time. here's how to schedule the right time so that everything i don't know how to make it. so wait, which one of us is an expert, but everything is very
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simple for me again, uh, i have, uh, a clear mindset in my head that it’s impossible to do everything, and from this mindset it’s very comfortable to live. here is a desire, just to be in time for everything, it interferes with life. and when you know for sure that it’s impossible to do everything. you begin to prioritize from those things that are closer to you more comfortable, money brings pleasure to you, but responds, otherwise it’s easier for you to prioritize. and you, of course well, something you can't do. well, the main thing is to catch what you have planned important, that's the whole story of development. communicated people who just wanted to get the next crust or the next knowledge. you somehow winked at them, they say, listen. to do or basically, you are like a business coach, but the money has come. let him do it very very much, uh, hit the spot right. uh, when i start doing consulting, it is to provide consulting services, that is, this is a consultation on business administration on time management , many business owners came to whom
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in general, consultations are up to the lantern, they are constantly trained somewhere. they are constantly off my course. there on the other from the other to mine and i knew that my services would be just, well, inefficient. and here, just the question of money was not, because always after e hmm, let's say, so the services rendered, the second moment comes. these are recommendations. e and some got a win didn't get a win for that very reason. i went to coaching courses in order to help people psychologically cope with certain difficulties, and often, they even consulting already did not reach, because they were just resolving issues. and why did they come to study figured out what they wanted to get? it turns out that this is not at all, therefore, in this i close from two sides, and as a consultant, my task is to show how to do a coach to help figure out what to do? i think it's just to brag. well, look, i have a whole shelf there 74 diplomas. and some of my friends even
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hang it all on the wall. you go to their house, such a house-museum. i say that because of this he says, yes, nothing rises self-esteem. yes, i can tell you a case, and my company was leaving a neighboring office and they threw out a lot of waste paper and the employee saw that there were so many certificates, and there were certificates for furniture. such and such a certificate for a surface of such and such a level, just a furniture certificate, and he hung them on his wall, such large ones and very close to thirty pieces, how did clients come to us and look and say about how many certificates? well, vitali said that yes it is and everyone admired for about a year and more than once uh, the client took something and stood and began to peer, and he saw something written there on the panel for cleaning and there, uh, such and such a surface. here he looks and says, wait. here, they are talking about some furniture, and vitalik is
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talking without being distracted from the workplace. well, probably one mistakenly hung the other and the client did not even twitch. well, it happens and even others did not check this one and that is, this is how it really worked. we all laughed. and i really liked this wall, the craving for self-development. even here the truth is manifested, in desire somehow look. which well done, i want to introduce you to the heroine from the dark room. her name is ksenia what she sees as the reasons for her craving for self-development, we will find out right now that she is addicted to constant study. more precisely, i would not say that it is an addiction. i just suffered from all sorts of things. to self-development it seems to me that it all started from childhood, because even now i am working with a psychologist and we are returning. ah, in the moments of some kind of childhood there is adolescence. and i was an excellent student, well an excellent student. i may be, i didn’t want to
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be, well, my parents built everything like that in a way that i enjoy. what would it be about, but they gave gifts with or without reason only for fives, but for them it was a reason, and did not stimulate me to study. and for me it was a joy, but at the same time a responsibility, well, thanks to this, i graduated from school, and it turned out perfectly for all fives. i enrolled for free in the university my parents were very proud of, and i myself am actually a dog. and for me to have, well, let's say everything is perfect. in a sense, it was. i entered the university for first year. we met my future husband, we learned together in the same year and the fourth year. he already
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proposed to me. that's what i wanted until i was 25. get married undress the child after university. i got a job. we lived wonderfully. that is, we had a family full of love, a small child, and my first daughter. she's absolutely such a docile child of problems with her absolutely no departments to work, but work, like any lawyer. she was not associated with any kind of creativity. regular paper work dealing with people's problems. ah, and at this moment. i know that i got pregnant with the second child of our second child. well, he was born not exactly a great boy, he has autism. he needs to pay much more attention than ordinary children. although i believe
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that any children are happiness, and well, unfortunately, i had to leave. work finally and to take care of children wanted to help. i wanted to contribute a penny to the house too. i looked at mommy's work on maternity leave, but all this didn't inspire confidence. and just there was such a boo, and work you crazy here is work on instagram and targeting uh on facebook is work. and where can you sit at home? it’s not necessary to go out about it, it’s not necessary to meet with customers. i completed one course, then i completed the second course. it still seems to me that this is not enough. i don't know everything about yet. i put a certain one there. cost for my services, but i still don't feel like i'm worth the price
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i've charged, uh, for my services, so i want to get more knowledge still want to course. i'm finishing the course and still the knowledge is not enough for me. such a man is a maniac, i also need knowledge. that's interesting. this is you as knowledge, perhaps, from childhood it somehow manifests itself already in adulthood. here such aspiration is constantly not entirely healthy. yes, i listen to the story so sad a little bit, of course, but like that. the truth is not quite easy some kind of fate for a girl, that's the truth. it's true, almost everything that happens to us has some echoes of the roots. eh, from our childhood it so happens that being born
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the child must survive and the first one next to him is. these are his parents. well, that is, if there are any situations, parents, no, in any case, this is some kind of adult. uh-huh and the child just really needs some positive reinforcement. yes , he was waiting for him there, he is needed and capricious and not capricious sick. yes and all sorts of these here hmm words hmm uh, not receiving, not hearing, which the child then. it forms within itself the so-called emptiness, and then this emptiness then, over time, there is no such direct dependency. yes the more trauma. e was a child. yes, at certain stages of its development, the stronger the harmful addiction will be, or there will be more of them, as if, i have not met anywhere yet, but for sure, dependence, they will develop in such a child who has
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not received enough love. uh, i didn’t receive recognition, and i didn’t satisfy them with some basic needs. i think, now, if a child is of the earliest years, then he sends it to one circle, then to another, then there to some kind of seminars, then there to defend some abstracts and engender in it. this is the desire to constantly learn something. is this good or not? just even following the example of his son, who does not want to go anywhere. he has a classmate who i just don’t know myself or under the influence of her parent ’s pointing finger constantly goes to i don’t know, that’s why we don’t have some small scientific conferences for sixth graders. she's already sitting in the front row. i think this chiku-tyug to knowledge. and what, probably, parents form it, or there are people who are born and directly here, and you know, i think that it happens, that it is born and it happens that the truth affects parents. it's more like something. true specific cases. yes, you need to consider, uh,
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but in fact, parents, and hmm, now uh , there is a lot of information about how to be with children, yes, how to help them there, or trends anti-trends, of course, there is everything. but, and the truth is, if listening to themselves first of all, parents can ask themselves such a simple question. this is what i want or want my child , and here, probably, there will be this root , the point of departure for what is really mine the child is so talented that he can attend, and there are conferences, but participate in them and express his thoughts there. either this is my desire, but to show what kind of child i am, what a good parent i am. how well did i raise or what kind of family do we have? that is, it needs to be true, a hmm, look, but it may also be that the child is afraid, and the parent too. and this is quite normal, he has more information environment. he understands more, but in self-development. yes, some
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path has already been passed, and he can say there is symposium. here is an exhibition. there is a competition there, well, let's go. yes, there is a story when, on the contrary, you don’t know what the same girl was thinking about, she leaves the music school and dances. some sports go. and all these, it means that they write their scientific works there in the evenings and draw some kind of maps and that's it. this is later and this is again a question for those management in the city, the parents downloaded the child. yes, not a minute of peace there per person. no. well, look at our heroine. she said off the key phrase from total. let's put it this way, there is a key phrase in speech, i am learning, because i think that i am not worth the, er, money that i declare, this is a key moment in general, and this is what you need to work with. and this is a story about a song, that is, it devalues ​​itself, but from the point of view that it is underestimated. let's just say they don't match
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anything. and this craving for one's knowledge is to prove to oneself or others that i am worthy, i can, i made a key point here from childhood or not from childhood. for this reason, for example, i did not go off course psychologists, and in coaching, because coaching is more about goals not forward, but psychologists - this is to be. yes, that is, this is a slightly polar thing. i still like to look ahead, but i was and was yes, to do something that i always do, because i meet a lot of theorists. this is why this is here and there, but to do what is here is the key point, by and large, what? uh, they asked catherine a question about ah? is it possible that they are parents or are they parents right away? well, i have some experience in this, in my opinion, not to guess absolutely not to guess also from parents who did not study much. children want to learn and you have parents who have learned a lot. children do not want to learn from rich parents. lazy kids , lazy parents. children mind. it 's not at all possible to guess my opinion in this,
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that the task of parents is to create opportunities for their children to create an environment. i really liked it. like, for example, julia says she tried this, this, this, it’s much better to try different sports in childhood, then there is not to take one year after year to gymnastics, but to the child. give the opportunity to fit there, give the opportunity to basketball, that is, different options to play the same thing. the older a person gets, the more attempts. he will take in different directions, the less upset or offended later, and since childhood. of course, udi. but when we talk to a lot of people, uh, who want to quit their jobs and change their lifestyle. they most often remember what they once did, what they once liked. and there so understanding, why not give children the opportunity to develop to the maximum right now, so as for our heroine. i 'd tell her. hmm. i'm not a fan of giving advice. let's just say it was a plus or minus in such a situation.
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helped me a lot. it's more practice often people who learn a lot. they apply this knowledge very little in practice, that is, learning for the sake of really learning. if you start to apply this temporarily, the theory for learning becomes many times less. these are just axioms, so the heroine would be more comfortable try it. it's just more practical skills. and, of course, the more she knows, the more she doesn't know. this is the logic in this, therefore, practice will replace these thoughts with her and what the matter will be busy with, and we will simply study more. what she already knows, and this will give her the opportunity to let go of this attention, or right here is a story about you. yes, when you have found what you like, you have already ceased to constantly improve yourself, always in a new business. need practice right? or i say you need to practice and you will become more sure. let's say. here, when at my first interview, if i look now, i was much less sure there, if we compare the interview now, but about the heroine.
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well, well, i felt sad and heard that her parents stimulated her studies, that they paid her for it for five. that is, they did not find those resources in themselves. yes, they found those words to support their child and did not come up with anything other than giving money, yes, or i'm in theory, everything is great. sounds real, but i know what you have a quarter of children correct and how do you use all your knowledge in practice. this is how it is used. in general, one phrase, one phrase of a very strong businessman helped me a lot at one time. he said. uh, kids don't listen, they copy, and i liked it so much. and with our first child, we were just taking to circles at the age of 5, already there she almost counted writing and we, uh, wanted everything better, better, bigger, but then we faced such a situation when she came to first grade. she was significant. eh, let's say i studied better than my peers. it became boring to eat, and therefore, in the second grade, she was
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already studying, in general, the third and fourth went with a creak, and one of the key reasons we could not maintain a constant regimen that would be comfortable for her, or well, or that advice, uh with the second child already we uh, on the contrary, decided to let go of the situation no household did nothing with it. himself just like that, you know, like that, my dad brought me a lake when i was a child. oh, i threw it in the water. i couldn't swim. uh swam as to the nearest shore ran to the nearest branch. share wrote a statement to dad. uh, that's how my dad taught me to write. here is that story. so we didn’t study at all from the point of view until the fourth grade. teacher. there is a school. yes, the teacher has a program, and he is a significant child better and easier to adapt to the third situation. it is very interesting what happened in the third. uh. so he absorbed everything that they did older, because they always work with him, they
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do older. uh, they have their own methodology for explaining older children to younger ones, by the way, he is much more accessible than his parents, and therefore the younger one grasps everything even faster. even more noisily . there in the second grade. history. just what the key point is, how to show it in practice with your own examples. if you want to teach your child to read, then you need to sit and read yourself. if you want to show your child that learning is cool. let's put it into practice ourselves and show that you have applied it thanks to what you learned there, if you communicate with interesting people, take your child with you. let him also listen and communicate with interesting people, therefore, my thought is also very simple. this demonstrate your values ​​and the children will absorb them. if parents strive for self-development completely, perhaps the child will also follow in his footsteps.
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but as you yourself said, even at the beginning of our conversation, there are no guarantees at all. uh, by the way , oil also said that only one percent of people really feel the need for self-development, the rest, judging by most likely experiencing some other needs. well, they just hide behind this, and sometimes someone pushes us towards this very self-development, in any case, there is something to think about. so don't switch. they are ready to surprise and win, as football is called the award, which is betrothed to the player who scored the most beautiful goal in the current year. at the same time football experts in which belarusian city is the extra league hockey club lokomotiv based? will they show their best quality, what
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is a zenitsa? well, stable expression zenitsa windows, so voice it, this is a musical musical juliana, i would listen to his lyosha. it seems that it has already let go after the fly agaric will fight for victory and the title of being the best. i think in soviet times. uh, the average dacha was six acres, if i'm not mistaken, and i thought that mm in the paint graphics editor, this tool would also be called an eraser. watch intellectually entertaining shows on belarus 24 tv channel. to eat this in the morning, so that you have enough energy for the whole day for breakfast, i always recommend fatty fish eggs porridge, well, a lot of products that are very cool for breakfast. athletes prepare their favorite dishes and share
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the secrets of their professions. today we will have quiche with an idea and cheese, but don't worry quish will be peppa i never overeat at night, so i always have breakfast with such pleasure. that is, here i wake up right, and my mood rises, because i understand that i am looking for breakfast. well , then it was time for a choice. i unequivocally decided for myself that without sports, without fitness industry. we started nowhere at all shaping today already. i think that young people have not even heard and do not know what it is. and there is a ban in the house in my house there is always a ban, because i have a husband at home. watch the culinary project breakfast of champions on belarus 24 tv channel. and the fate of famous belarusians, who we must accept the boy in any case, because this phenomenal musical memory. uh, a sense of rhythm and i was accepted into conducting the department. i always
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knew that i would be a singer, i always had no idea where i can still express myself find. here is the meaning of life, only eternal meanings are laid on the stage without them. it's 3 minutes to tell the story i was told. well, this is the weather. well, i decided to be in my own world. eh, at that moment i realized it and that's how you can express it to convey to the listener this emotion that is embedded in the song. here it is. basically, creativity. you know how, uh, i teach young artists when they call me or come on stage on the way. i say you must go so that you liked it yourself, see the program shots of life on our tv channel. we are talking about dependence on self-development today and right now we will learn the continuation of the
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story of xenia from the dark room. new programs appear new processing of those photos new trends should know everything, everything to be in time unfortunately, it costs money not so long ago i found courses on the realization of desires. they are very cheap. i asked my husband to help me financially. that is, there were already more esoterics of some kind of manipulations with our dreams. wish map how to guess correctly? how to set the right goal? i wanted it to be easier for us, that is, not just we would work like at work, but, perhaps, our dreams, which we did not
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realize during this time, but that they would help us increase income. i do not know why. i accepted this offer. now even i am telling. it sounds silly, but in fact, when i saw a huge hall that comes to these lectures, how they send balloons into space there. uh, they imagine that this is a dream and sent it to the sky at that time. i'm so charged this idea. what, well, that's it, it's not necessary. well, the courses turned out to be a scam, it's all not true. unfortunately, only the consequences. we can understand. what is quality education, what is poor quality education. this soil had a very strong fight with her husband. he said that i gave some money for you to just release the balls to me for