to force a person to cause him good that's but in fact it's not like that. well, of course, you know, uh, bye, i was growing up. here in this experience of consulting. ah. mm. i have had a lot of personal disadvantage therapy. these things can influence this when you don’t see yourself and don’t understand, but a lack of experience. and now, i don't know, there's some kind of professional competence. uh, hmm notions of their roles as a psychologist. yeah, lo and behold, well, maybe just some kind of low self-esteem flaw. e healthy relationship, when all this is normal, then, in principle, everything is fine. here you are, when you share all this, it helped here, it was supported here, it often turned on, maybe not only as a specialist, but just as a person, what you were talking about, feeling sympathy, and you don’t feel any kind of exhaustion. but you give yourself to your emotions at work, then there is no feeling that listen in my opinion, i and so. you know eh? well, like this, there is

no single moment for this to happen. well, i'm trying to keep an eye on it. even when well me straight schedules have some kind of rest for myself, and time for myself, but i have a very wise body. here, if some personal stories to share, oh, i generally tend to recycle. uh, i really ca n't refuse sometimes, and i can't say that i do it unconsciously. this is proactive behavior. i, well i consciously agree there helps. yes, but, uh, sometimes i’m already sitting here, doing nothing, i’m consulting there or here, or just doing something there, i understand. now to get sick. i know very well that this thought means that i have been here for a very long time. yes, yes, and me very wise organism. well, the next day i have 37.1, i was formed, how to lie down, well, not a very good reaction. true , in order to relax, you need to get sick absolutely . seriously. and i had such cases. i already know such a story in myself, so, uh, well, i really introduced a lot of analysis myself, and i go to therapy a lot, i just set aside days for myself. in

order to rest, because otherwise, i do it this way , but you also feel that you are in this system. yes, you played an alcoholic in this scenario. you listen, a certain role one another. that is, you are in the absolute. well, in our less theater, well, yes, but i, according to the specialist, i find a lot of this in my life. even when there is no dependent on the character, when there is no nearby, adita. uh, me, it's all very cool. i reproduce in my family situation. when i went to you today, when i couldn’t find a studio, at first you were to blame, because you have a bad picture, and then, and then i had to find, i don’t know, good fellow who will let me call urgently, because i have a phone in the cold sat here. well, i really do. yes, it really seems that in different situations we play completely different roles. now i want to introduce you to the heroine of a face that you will not see, she is in a dark room, but she also takes part in this game called an alcoholic. we will find out what role was assigned to her and how she felt herself in it. now my

problem originates from my parental family. here i have abused alcohol and dad grandfather is now a man. i see clearly those behavior patterns that my grandparents had in my family, yes, as she told me, how they communicated, how he progressed, used this, how they ran away. here uh in my parental family. in general, there was some kind of similar scenario, because they were afraid of being aggressive personally. and he couldn't say anything against him, even in a general state of being in an armchair, because they were some kind of screams. like a saying, in

general, he could hit the table and so on, when dad came, drunk, you know, so i even by the movement of the key in the keyhole she could tell whether he was drunk or sober. and if he's drunk, because he got out. i learned that i need to be patient a little bit, and then it will be very good. here is my m-m behavior such patience. yes, that's how i would call myself a professional. e, terpily a victim, or something, yes, and it was formed and entrenched. eh, and not only stronger in this. i, uh, this behavior of mine began to spread to all areas of my life. here i am, for example, an employer of some kind of work. there, i really like it, but i'll be patient and, uh, they'll work there. yes? uh, for example, uh, well, my grandmother could still endure, but my mother still endured. and so, well

, okay, be patient, not everything will change very much. yes, when i failed to make my dad not drink. i then at some point decided that, uh, i definitely would not marry a person with alcohol problems. that's where i got married. my husband at that time, however, did not drink, he does not smoke now. but his parents consumed my husband, and at that time i was not embarrassed. for me. it didn't seem like i didn't see it as a problem. it 's okay. i think it doesn’t hit anymore, but i, too, everything. well, after some period of e time, beer appeared. so i didn’t notice at first, i would put some kind of problem in quotes, because well, it would seem to me that this is beer

, it’s okay. and then there was more. that's what i didn't see either. haven't seen this for a long time. so somehow i probably saw how you already became very ill. that's all my attention. i remember here, it was so focused on the use of my husband. i didn't see anything around at all. that is, it seemed to me that if he stopped using, yes, i wanted to either save him, or help, or, well, that's how yes, just like that. well, something similar . my mother, well, do something so that he does not drink when we all have it. well, somehow happiness friends. so it would seem that even some kind of line can be traced, my grandmother endured. my mother tolerated our heroes. i didn’t want to endure the dark room, but it still happened to me, i get the feeling that in this e girl they are experiencing some kind of discomfort. i know, joy, or something, maybe even

some kind of benefit, perhaps i'm mistaken ekaterina what do you say, yes, a secondary benefit. each of the participants in this game has it, but i also want to emphasize here. here it is very clear in this story can be traced. how it works? that is, she was a girl, and in general, this role was already predetermined for her. yes, and she is there, like a mother, like a grandmother, she must endure, she must suffer. yes, in general, this is the secondary benefit of suffering, and all participants have it. yes, what a benefit suffering? i can't understand, you're running. it’s bad that there is some kind of unhealthy, so to speak, attracting attention and love. yes, that is, if you take, and plunge somewhere further into childhood, then let's say where does it come from? that is, a child could, but receive love care attention only suffers, for example, fell ill. yes, how is the temperature, how will it suffer? i because at this moment in me to take care. well, in this case, i will probably take care of myself, or maybe. someone close will take care. yes, this is a common pattern. it turns out, that is, i'm used to it, my parents were busy working there. well, here we see that dad drank and there they had a confrontation between

some child in the family, it turns out that somewhere there is no lot without attention, and well, his way of attracting attention. but it will at least suffer, so that mom and dad will regret there and sympathize, and further, when a person grows up, he does not realize that he attracts suffering. uh, hmm wanting to get. here is the attention of love. we are in adulthood. it doesn't work anymore. yes, that is, there is a person, well, drank, for example, and it makes it unpleasant for others, that's how we saw it and the request. yes, people will not give him what he is looking for, but he does not realize that he is looking for it. yes, that is, on the surface, it turns out, sort of, like a pleasure, and the secondary benefit turns out to be, first of all, to throw off responsibility for everything else. that's how nadezhda you said, i'm tired, but i'm a responsible person today, but now, if i get sick, then, well, then i can be an irresponsibly little child, because we can all be there, well, really, a little myself let relax, and actually for the lifeguard. yes, that is for him. uh, on the one

hand, this is an increase in self-esteem. well, because i'm so good. i do care. i put all my strength there, yes, that is, this is an increase in self-esteem, but again, this is a victim, because as a result it becomes a victim, because if i don’t need your help. well then, of course, i will start to aggress doing something. yes, and besides, then i helped so much, he still drinks. so it's you again falling into the position of a victim, poor the unfortunate woman has wasted your whole life. i 'll save you all my life. and you still drink. that is, again, this is the position of the victim, yes, well, in the same way, the aggressor achieves this position of the victim, because by the fact that another person attacks. there begins to rescue as well. uh, let's say an alcoholic, if we take this structure, but as a result, then comes and gives catching up aggression. yes, that is, it also becomes in the position of the victim. and in general. here is such a cycle. yes, such a cycle, which is final. the search is actually the position of the victim, that is, well, as if at the expense of the other, such destructive relationships are obtained in this

valeria experienced something similar, such emotions, different or already i can’t remember. yes and no and yes and no. here i don't know how it is. you see, hmm vicious circle, this endless race has begun to sing. he asked for forgiveness, they forgave him for a while, he keeps everything again, but this is what they forgive you for as long as they forgive you, as long as they help you. as long as you have at least the slightest somewhere, somewhere, here is some piece there, some opportunity to drink. yes? here you go as long as people here help. here is this circle yes, for the time being, they regretted everything to say, get out of the money, but i won’t give it. yes, no, i don’t want to call you to the police in such a state and send you to vtb. and it

happened 2 years ago. so uh me actually, that is, i lived in the entrance for two months. at the entrance to the attic in the basement, wait, you were kicked out the very moment when you got out of here, yes, and as if i had nowhere to go, and i, as it were, well, here is march, the month they gave me plaid plaid didn’t give me some yes, it’s cold very. well, here i am with this blanket i went there in the area of ​​the komarovsky market. here and here already. well, you should have slept somewhere good. neighbors started calling the police. i was like, uh, well, i was furious, just, well, how is it at all? well, how? well, i'm sitting. here is my apartment. i'm sitting here on the ponezh, i don't touch anyone. well, yes, i smoke. well, yes, i'm dirty, but it stinks from me, but i'm sitting. here, i'm not bothering anyone. yes? quietly taken away once, the second was dismantled, the third was dismantled, but in total. i'm probably hundreds i was sitting

somewhere for about a month. and accordingly the court ltp was awarded a year ltp and, probably, a labor dispensary, so a dispensary. yes, a dispensary. so, i thought that everything, that is, this, well, for me at that time, a-and information is at least information, yes, that is, people, apparently, who are ltp. they don’t write anything on the internet, they don’t show them on tv. here it is for everyone. well, it's worse than prison. yes, i have not been to prison and i understand that it is bad there. i understand that if it's worse than in prison, it means that it's just everything , well, you get there, and i get there and i don't understand what's going on. i don't i understand what is happening, because i studied at the suvorov military school. i understand that at times it was more difficult at the suvorov military school and

i don’t understand why everyone is so afraid. why is it wrong? well, mode. well work, well work. yes, well, well, some there, well, clean up, well, clean up, that is. i was isolated from society, because i interfered with society, and how would i even have time to think, in general, yes, what am i in general, what do i do in this life, in principle, plus ah, the specialists who are there work. yes, this is a psychiatrist, a narcologist, these are psychologists. that is, at me they did to me just a colossal job that these people saved me actually live. i don't know if this is a miracle or not. i don't know, well, here's hope, judging by your experience, what is such a catalyst such a starting point. here

is the case with valery. it became an institution where he was isolated for a year , work was carried out with him. i nodded directly while listening, but of course a person needs to be from this environment. move somewhere. yes, but very much to me, uh, hmm, the yearness responded, just here is the cycle, uh, i don’t know my opinion. yes, what, how about as many times it takes to, uh, readjust. uh, some psychologists compare it to the experience of loss, that is, the biggest loss. this is how the death of a loved one is experienced for a year, but for an alcoholic and a drug addict. but this is actually a loss , the biggest in life, which is, because all areas in his life are connected with this. well, in general, uh, and uh, i am very grateful that somehow inside it became the people who helped, but because, well, there is an opinion that there is not a lot. there are very few psychologists of little social work of some kind, of course e v. uh, if just a person, but don't know,

move to argentina and leave the change of place does not change anything. he will bring only himself. there must be some drastic changes. but in principle, here it is important to think about why, in principle, a person needs to drink? yes, here and uh, here i understand, and what uh? well, let's say i had problems. yes, with use. i didn't know how to live soberly. i didn’t understand at all what was happening when i didn’t understand what was happening then others were to blame for all my states. you are the source what bothers me or annoys me or, on the contrary, pleases me, but this is not my reason. and you are some kind of emotional immaturity. this is some kind of irresponsibility that, in principle, is very suitable for the position of the victim. it is clear that i will also fall into other roles. but, when i say the source of everything that happens to me, i am not me, but someone else, someone already a sacrificial position. here. and then, when i already open myself as a feeling person. i understand what happens when. these are the events i do. these are some things, for example,

i blame, as i gave an example. there is an event going on right now. i think and feel in this way, what do they start doing? here it is. i probably notice causal relationships, and then i take responsibility, for this i can not act reactively. really. i feel angry at this moment when i can't find it. here is the studio, how i feel today, i do not deny, but this does not mean that i will call, the clock will yell. listen to your picture some kind of incomprehensible curve. i myself continue to choose the reaction and be responsible for my own feelings. here it is. well, this is some kind of fundamental starting things recovery. i take responsibility for the position in which i am and choose my behavior, agreed. now we are talking about emotions. yes, nadezhda told me about hers, as she sometimes happens, and consciousness can be in an aggressive state, or you, by the way, alexander the great, is also a drunkard, but somehow drinking with his comrades. eh, everything, like a very peaceful environment, was then suddenly experiencing some kind of tide. i do not know the energy of some kind of negative aggression perception of the world and could easily stab any of them. and it was considered absolutely normal. that's it. eh, this is to the fact that

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appetite mini kebabs are ready to serve. i will have them with rice. watch the culinary project for a week on belarus 24 tv channel and cook with pleasure. today we are talking about the psychological game of an alcoholic which peak in her emotional arousal the heroine of the dark room has reached, we will find out right now. the most interesting thing was also trying to do everything, as in my family, how did grandma do? my mother is to drink a loved one, that is, i persuaded. i begged, i threatened. i am i screamed, i cried, i manipulated. i did

n’t succeed in the same way, it didn’t work out, not with my grandmother and mother. now, if it concerns the relationship with my husband, yes, that is, i was a lifeguard from time to time. you want some psychotherapists there. i tried to take him somewhere. maybe, however, it was trying to convey some information, saying something when he refused. it was not good for salvation that wanted to save him yet. here he wanted to go astray. i say oh, so i'll put my hands in my hands. oh, well, that's it, i could be offended not to talk. well, at that moment i was aggression. here, too, i understand the hardest thing

for me and so bright is that i yelled at my children, and i hit the table so as not to turn over. that's what it is for me. i got scared myself. i was afraid of myself. yes, that is , to be honest, i was, uh, ashamed to tell someone about it like that, because i also considered that they were an educated person. no, no education. yes, i thought that cultural is something else well. when i did what i did, it shocked me myself, because the trunk is real. which did not take off. well, that is, he went through something that creaked and there was such a crack. well, in general, and the eyes of children are so big. this is what scared me a lot. well, of course, i am ashamed of that act. and then i caught you that, in general, just like a business dad. yes, that is, he shouted, there somehow insulted there

when he was not tress, that and so on. and i realized that i do it, well, without using it. let's put it this way, yes, that is, i was sober at that time, but this is a completely abnormal act. so i realized that when i at some point copied mother's behavior, and here i completely took over. uh. well, probably the video, probably, i don't know. papa's model. yes, i had chairs from me. it's so straight shook hard. i suddenly saw it so that everything repeats itself. it's simple and something needs to be done. i did not know that when i did not know, but i realized that i would be looking for something. how to find some way out, because this is such a repetitive pattern of behavior. i just saw the stereotypes with the family of the family. i understand that i will teach this to my girls. here if i don't

i will change something, because the example, as i understand it, is the best way to teach your children something personally by example and tell you how to lead correctly. there are people who feel such a problem or understand that it begins to appear, turn to the internet or to specialists. sometimes even incognito so, uh, some of our viewers wrote to us in advance with questions that worry them very much catherine these questions. today we will draw for you. let's start with the first one. how to understand addiction? am i on alcohol or not? by what signs can determine this, and the first is, of course, a loss of control over what you have drunk, that is, a person wanted, for example, how to drink everything, a glass of beer in a company. and everything has long ceased. he still continues. maybe somewhere already under the fence or there in the kitchen alone. yes, that is, this is the loss of control. and then there's the hangover syndrome. this is when uh man wakes up,

even if he's overdone, he knows he's got a job. he goes to work there. he bakes a pill, a pop, anything, but a person, if he is addicted, if it is already developing, then, well, he will hangover, yes, that is, he will find such a way, alcohol. then, a change of mood. uh, that is a man let's say. so, if he is not yet at the stage when he does not think about five or not to drink to him, well, he still restrains himself and does not drink, for example, from monday to friday, but for some period, then this interval , which is until that very friday. he may want to walk in a depressive, apathetic state, his hands drop. he is such a worker. yes, because well, as it were, well, that life is interested in this. he has something else. i don't have this cherished dose now. uh-huh, and at the same time there is a change of them, when that same again comes, because friday is even moreover, it has come. he knows what he's going to drink tonight, but he can redo everything

that he hasn't done all week, yes, that is, that's why it's better to call it yes, friday is a drunkard. yes, and one of the important signs of this is the denial of the problem. that is all around see. it's not even because he's just there, well, he doesn't want to admit it. he may not even admit it himself. he comes up with a bunch of different excuses for self-divorces. it can say there, all the brilliant people there. now, if here, given the photographer, yes, a creative person, all creative people drink, i don’t know what kind of things you have there, maybe some things of your own. yes, for example, yes, yes, yes. uh, if uh, if the actors don't drink, then it's amateur performance, yes, yes, that's why he finds it in denial. and this is the trouble because the first step is to start getting healthier to recognize the problems. that is , when this denial goes away and, uh, and of course, when there is already any reason to drink, that is, it doesn’t matter, something is there, all the days are marked on the calendar, then let’s move on to on the issue, my

husband is an alcoholic and endured for a long time. but when he started destroying everything in the house, i could not stand it, called the police, left him for six months, like, i realized everything stopped drinking. i gave him a chance, but now there are doubts, did i do the right thing and will everything return to normal? maybe, and so and so that they can no longer drink. we are already there, apparently, an example is sitting right in the studio. yes, and everything will return to normal too, maybe also depending on whether the person is recovering or not. but in general , it's probably there. uh, the only sane solution. she accepted, that is. in general, she left this game. she didn't play along with him. she didn't go there to save him. she called the police the same thing as our hero yes was also called. well, he got kicked out of the house. it became like this for him. stress. this stress, just when a person is deprived, and a comfort zone, when he already wants it, does not want to have to take responsibility. we must already take some action , even if only to save the family. and when a person stops, if he begins to change internally, again, i say, it doesn’t matter, it

will, in my opinion, work with a psychologist there. this will be work on the 12 step program of the ref-center. there is a monastery, anything. a, but if he a changes, really, then there is a big chance that he will remain in the game missions, and for life we ​​said. you know, family values, uh, the writer stephen king was already a drunkard by the age of thirty, yet for some reason he believed that without alcohol he would not be able to create anything. he will not be able to and everything will fall out of his hands. well, then his wife said, which means that either you are packing your things right now and getting out and then doing what you want, or you don’t drink, and we are still together. in general, it took me two weeks, he refused alcohol. and, of course, he began to lead a completely different image. life. but did she give ultimatums to her husband the heroine from the dark room. we 'll find out very soon. today we are talking about alcoholism as a process, a kind of social dependence of such a game in which everyone

has their own role. whether our heroine, the dark room, managed to get out of this vicious circle, we will find out right now. i once again went to my parents. she began to complain to poke me, maybe nailed it. here is such a situation. what an unfortunate kind of poor. in general, have pity on me, and there do not know what to do. and what do i need dad replied. you know, he says, you come, you say the same thing, and you also need to listen to how bad he is, some kind of good. how are you doing this. well, he says, i'm already tired. maybe we don't want to bother you anymore. basically, they said so, so well , i say to them, so and what do i say, i don’t understand what to do? he searched. try to leave. on the 12 by 12 steps program there are such groups to help relatives,

friends. well, friends of alcoholics. here, perhaps, they will help you there. at that time, my father had already entered the 12 step program. he hmm worked on it for a while and things started to change. that is, he began to change, he stopped using. and well, i would probably say that this experience that he appointed becomes different. i never thought that he would ever change in his life. it somehow spurred me to go try it for the first time. for me , the most important discovery, probably, was that i am not the cause of the disease, i have no cure, that i cannot change another person at all. i'm so used to it. it directly seemed to me that my goal was to save there to help. well get rid of this disease. well, now i clearly understand that a person can get rid of his problems. only if he wants it and the second

was the discovery that i also have. eh, it turns out the problem, that is, stereotypical thinking. i didn't want to change my behavior. it was hard for me to change. uh, well, it's still creaky, but it was actually worth it, and i'm going on now . the program does not want to be a victim will not be a rescuer. here i am on one side. well, if i really want to save someone, then i know for sure that i will fall into the position of the victim. that is, it is clear. or if i somehow don’t find myself, some kind of support will not work for myself, only no one will take care of me for sure. i had one, you know. the notion that, uh, if i

take care of someone, someone else will take care of me. here, instead of thinking that if i take care of myself, then i will be fine. so i came to the conclusion that it turns out that i can protect myself. it turns out that i have a choice. i can. if i don't like something, i can don't do it. i can express to say that and i will not do so, for example do i do not like it. and when you lead to yourself there, and if you continue like this, then, well, i taught me to set some kind of boundaries i didn’t have at all before. that is, there was no more patience. and now i no longer feel like a victim. you all know that i have a choice. and even if i choose some maybe . well, well, not the best choice, but i still understand that this is my choice. no one is forcing me to behave. so for some work. at least don't like to be. uh, in some relationship that does n't suit me. i began to get high to get high from my life. that is, if i hated her before, and now, when i was talking about mine,

i began to enjoy life from myself there for my children. well, i mean, i like what i do. it became tasty for me to live, after all, there is a way out. well, at least how it seemed? the story of our hero of the non-separated room friends. well, you are the experts, though everyone has gone their own way. yes, someone in practice as much as possible. uh, immersed in the process of someone you understand what to do with it, how to break out of this vicious circle, well, first of all, this, of course, is the most important thing. for everyone, it's, well, awareness. first of all, you need to realize that you are. it's in this game that you're involved in this system, right? it's the first step to being honest to look at the problem, what it really is yes, and then the most important thing, well, it's about responsibility. this is in principle, if we are talking for the victim, and since we talked with him that the victim is accepted by all participants in this game one way or another at some point, then is to take responsibility for oneself for one

's life, if one takes from here the protagonist of alcohol, who if i drank a glass? yes, i understand that later it is possible that the fifth, second, third, tenth will follow, whether i want it or not. there i lay responsibility on someone, or nevertheless i will try to do something myself, i will go to the same alcoholics anonymous, yes, there, or i will knock on the rap center. help me please. yes, there, and, if it’s about the rescuer, if we’re talking about roles, well, then it’s to stop saving, it’s to start increasing your self-esteem and uh, well, in general, it’s important there understand that uh, if the person does not ask you for help. yes, something is clearly possible, yes, that is, to take a quick look at myself there, what i really need, that is, to take care of myself. and in general, the same can be attributed. and as an aggressor, that is, this position once you know this series don't tell me there that i should, i won't tell you where to go. yes, that is, it is more likely to draw attention to yourself to understand, not to try to change someone there, to criticize, to demand something, someone should, but rather to think. what can i do without

this man? yes, and it is important for everyone to learn. well, if it’s just like a siege, then it’s very important to learn to build borders in order to speak to a person about borders. no , you know, i will not give you money, i understand where you will spend it, hope that you will add uh. well, you know, uh, in any case, well, in life one way or another there are such situations when , well, let's say someone messes up, someone gets angry, this is part of our life, but any of these roles, and any of these. well, i don’t know there, here, hmm well , yes, roles, but it can be in some more constructive course translate here quite obviously. why, when i don’t know there, my dad teaches physio with me. some kind of childhood , yes, he can be like an aggressor, or maybe a mentor, and i can be a victim who whimpers to run away to the toilet and complains to my mother, or i can be a student , and each of these roles has more some kind of constructive adult healthy option. yes, that's where the responsibility really is taken. that's great.

of course, the beginning will only be when i realize that i am constantly delegating their responsibility, or cram, or something else. well, they will start trying to take it. i think that one 100% way does not exist, in general in nature in the world, just as there is no pill for alcoholism? how different are we all? yes, each one has each individual person. this is a separate universe for someone, but coding will help someone, filing will help someone , a grandmother is some kind of whisper, but for someone, but anything for someone. ltp will help, but i don't recommend going there, of course. but in my case it helped me. i am i'm happy i have a life she's after all. i, as

i said, the heroine of life, she is cool and amazing and worth it to live, each of us always has a choice. we can continue to live in a world limited by certain roles, or we can take a risk and find a way out of a destructive game, outside of which there is a lot of bright and beautiful katerina was with you before we met outside the circle of illusion. their passion for what they have chosen as their life's work is inspiring, when i was 12 years old, i came here to the circle

plant physiology in the sixth grade. i studied and it was right here in this very room and the most important thing is to teach people who grow plants. ah, who are engaged in gardening, horticulture, and various crop production. teach them how to take care of nature. in progress. they do not talk about it, but every day they do everything possible to make tomorrow even better in our native country, there are really a lot of doctors. and we are very proud of this. this is absolutely consonant with what the inner world. i am very i love my profession in college. i went absolutely by calling, because i never doubted for a single minute in my entire life that i would be a doctor pain teacher of a biologist, she is colossal, because she, uh, teaches biology. how to live right, see the project in belarusians on our tv channel. we

will tell you about the unique miraculous icons, therefore, turning to the minsk miraculous icon with a prayer. blessed virgin, believing people try to arrange their lives, according to the commandment and the mother. god answers our prayers. let's get acquainted with the history of the greatest shrines of belarus, it will survive, because the church lives with the power of god, the power of christ, and indeed during the war, the great fatherland. the temple was open. e for prayer for worship. the divine liturgy began to be celebrated there. and after the war. temple gradually began to restore let's talk about the power of the faith for which there are no territorial boundaries and language barriers of god if we want to know jesus christ, then we must read his word to live by this

word. most importantly, we will help. find answers to various questions of the spiritual life of jesus , which the human race needs now, of course, first of all, looking inside yourself, it miraculously consists, probably, of when a person begins to change, watch spiritually, educational projects on belarus

24 tv channel. , native mova and mostatsky word praheta and not only a writer and publicist nabukhalperovich to farm themselves at home people of ukraine with a person that we do not just recognize now with my such quarrel. ali we'll talk about the anniversary of our slavutah. pesnyara, 14 years old, and yakub kolos and my today's guest, my today's all razmoutsa. this is irina vladimirovna, director of the yakub kolos memorial museum. the museum worker was born in the vitebsk

region. pomnik culture, worked in the literary museum of maxim bogdanovich branch kept a lot of museums of the history of belarusian literature overgrown is the director of a lot of literary moral museum. yakub kolas the specific number of clothes for international novelty conferences, stroking the width of exhibition projects, quote. your quote, the best practice in the museum teaches the aesthetics of the culture of intelligence. people visit museums in denmark, respectively, spiritually rich. but tell yak here in the understanding. that's what a museum is. you told me that here are the posts of the minavites and probably it was in your homeland that you lost the love and the good to work like that. no, this is connected with children with mentions of a jackal, my dad in one lazy

museum, a rut, he exceeded, yes, but collecting postcards, and badges stamps i could it was chikawa and caused leaks. i don't have the right to vote there. this is already a site of museum activity. and the red museum put on what the name day of the radio visited, of course, it was more like a childish one there, shushing the lively ones, of course, that there is also his own oleg. it broke off, because the ruts. eh, as if everything hangs there, i'll take you to the museum, then ruts. uh, the girl is taken to museums. this hour of eki is spent by the father with the child. and this rare chance was my military tata i could see so tense. i rarely went further than home, and in these moments of rut, we are both in the museum and the stat, and then it was put off in full memory, then we are a museum for me, this place and culture, these emotions, what the fuck and such a cultural atmosphere, where you can hem it and he, too, is now nourished in synergy. you are their raid show, there is a yaku girl yana, a rich

history enters, and maru didn’t have to become a mentor of the belarusian language of literature in i , slammed that mentor laid out at school for that hour and she showed love until belarusian writers. and not only the classic alice of private, and then, besides this , then he told him now, so i then read leonidas a smaller one, i didn’t want a kalak so much. these are stories, the history of polotsk and everything, the glory of the sorcerer. and i thought that i would be the most mentor of the albo of belarusian literature, an album of history, like this and the vedas for children alley, uh, i have already seen such a story that before my mother went to france in intensive care in the hospital, the director of the museum was all right, and she just told about what i like to kiss well in the museum is easy. ticking. no, fish do not always think of some mistakes. i liked my mother that you still have a story you love. uh, let's try it and, uh, we did it on our own. i was

made smoke that everything came off easy. maxim justifies the prediction in the primordial forest. and you choose what these kava are for you and go easy. i immediately entered, handed out everything i test and scored that score and the required one, and she studied one five in the data and tore it off. uh, red deplond. visited the presidential score. and here's the coat. it was easy for me myself, ticking me chiseled with pawns, at the university they loved their certificate so much, and in these this love for my right handed over to the family to that, i calitropized the museum, then its museum remained. well, they came from under the chat. we are already at the maximum and i immediately tell you how much you are ready to be proportional to the museum of maxim and bogdanovich 18 years old. so, of course, the museum has become the maximum of bogdanovich for you. let's say, uh, relatives and friends, and some sense floated on

us circumstances at the maxim museum bogdanovich, i know him as my future husband maxim bogdanovich himself, a poet over so many hypocrites, and such a person, as if calling out to anyone according to wah yes, literature and i want to improve the mistakes given, and well, there were no attempts to collect from museums to suffer ourselves to reduce. but no, it’s better that the soul still draws to creativity and that, i returned to the museum and my thirst is already full of this. each musical instrument has its own story, so don't be afraid that there are so many buttons on it. these are not buttons-something features of interesting and useful facts. imagine you are now on your own. take a load of two buckets

of water and you will stand. and wait with this load for an hour and a half on stage meeting with belarusian artisans and performers in different ways. musicians in different countries love different timbres of gold. we have learned to take this into account and do it. there are no untrained children. all children will play, after some period, with both hands. watch in the guk y project the cases on belarus 24 tv channel. we invite you to an exciting journey through the sights of belarusian cities. we are now driving along the longest in belarus bridge. by the way, this is also a modorian attraction, almost a kilometer of the road above the water. oh, the construction of the first wooden church of the holy apostle. andrey began back in 1490, the order at that

time was given by the polish king casimir the fourth gel-lonchik, because the trinity cathedral in the past, the bernardine church resembles massive walls and an octagonal tower, the bell tower, once it served as a defender, according to some reports, only on belarusian lands, it was established more than half a thousand monuments to lenin is an average it turns out about 7 pieces a year, see the program of the city of belarus on our tv channel. news maksim bogdanovich yakub kolos is, of course, volodya, our vermiose venison in maturity and for the curvature of my creativity and wishes in experience, i went out to the yakub kolas museum, alienated what you brought

dear maksim bogdanovich and what you took for yourself in the yakub kolas museum a literary museum and similar jaws because they are illuminated by one writer, and i would not say that they disagree on this because of the simpa of the internal system. and to her, of course, and they translucent to lesser classics. and in the museum kuba kuma makes a relative by the fact that this is one amir reality. adiba house is such a chance, we just lie down, i’m cup-cola with what this memorial was maxim you know, such real speech didn’t shuffle such attention, what for 7 is not enough, but the yakubok completely choked and he lived a long time to live everything, and i’m not completely different in you write pathomatoka and poles to your maxim bogdanovich yon young yunak hang the main and about kohane and makhchi, macrohu, there are also depressive and unhappy horses. they still seem to be so eternally true, and i'm a cop. he is already more so mastitis. yes, these tables

are near the house. yakub kolas you are present from a person. of course, i don’t have faith, but not energetically, yes, it’s off, because the haze phases portraits of cuba kolas objects have such photomocks. you go into the museum, then your, uh, not such classic potandas, many deep with a blanket. and he smiles and he smiles not only from the bag of aliyev jim, and i’m something early going to work in the winters of vitaly, a portrait, and it seems to me hookah no, and the third one is energetic with some secret smile, then the day will set a good sail on this separate place. a whole generation passed through one museum. uh, our chatkov yakubok voices and mikhailovich konstantinovich and maria mikhailovna and eight granddaughters and uh, the daughter

of vera danilovna, the rector of the museum, so self- appointed, then zhelki, supposedly voices. today , this was you. and i on them help you about your operation. yes, of course, to propagate yana . uh, doing a lot of local projects. and i need to help others to carry out these. for which i am open to suprations and we have them we ask for the holy museums and the beggars in the format i make our meeting. there at the libraries at the schools and for the truth hmm is that right our shatki yana i often go to the museum and the knees are numb with this and on my stomach with my special wiring and on vasilina valeryevna the hungry insurer of the museum on my great granddaughter and cuboks and wilmesh mats dey and i go help them force so myself i to the director already. to the memory of the capital for trying about you, i'm

an event that is running in the museum, but according to the memory of our songwriter yakub kolas, the first thing we invented them was a tutan library and presented the anniversary plan up to 140. k and broke the rule for all events. which are planned to carry it out in this course is already one of the foot. so there the museum fought back events to open all e exhibitions in the remains of portraits of yakuboks. this is me kup-ear of a creative mastakov. it became collaborative with museums. the yankee was bathed by the national mentor of the museum, and then we will have projects before our museums ali e those whom that this year's anniversary he is on the date of birth 140, cuba cola sienca. kupala is we now have entered dates, 110 entry is here walking meetings of two classics. kalina perspiration is not known and their ebrodism was born back. so you yourself are 55 years old branches

of nikolai shnur columns and all of this date we plan to start this in the summer. and the coldest is filmed in the third leaf fall. we will place already near minsk and on the radikum this year's deep horses. we have broken no promotions. this is e. 140 tickets at the museum, uh, free visits to some kind of special tickets hacked were over the sleeves yes, the anniversary of the yakub ear and uh, in your museum is connected with the living room, and on in columnar society, we would like to put the sabs themselves in order, we are still such drovlyans and yana’s memorial gardens are engaged in such a kind of, well, bad speech to grow old and poke around . we'll sleep to bring order to smolny and sochi, and such creativity is a meeting of m-m

energetic classics, and kostya is at this event. it will be less than the reporting date, we will calculate the collapse later. here is an olym event constantly planned together with the literary museum, yanka kupala and kolosovina none of them niko will cancel them this is a pledge of tradition, i'm going to reach out. we just refuse to feed our aptanka. say wing. in general, what does warm mean to you, but love your own. well, i love the industry yakub kolas here. # i, of course, love their literature belarusian literature belarusian language belarusian history to love museums, what three living rooms, belarus and you corrected to visit the skin harness, of course

, to the fact that we will soon somliva east lord, everything that we will repair them in this course and so the most, that is, one so important and energy-infected fish chambers of the house stage, and instead of sealing, although it is not completely reputable for the museum. they are a museum there. you can get in and not a day suppressed such hyped brand. you already our castles of the world are not swish, alleys, this is the very place some kind of grandfather hems with his soul. i can name shmat and polotsk okunakh this city will be like it to me, it enters such a story and the deep cherry festival is being served, vitebsk is a city. the track is already a corner of the bat, grodno can be seen i love it when the hallways the city and near minsky i forbid everyone to visit the cuba kolas museum and museums maxim bogdanovich and you had such a caliber, with whom would

you especially want to meet and talk with us murdered belarusian historical ones, if he is a sorcerer, these are true, what is the temperature? well, it's so hot, they are for truth to me remains. well , he’s so her, and the knocked-out person is a dated person, that his actions in the year passed by memory to injure thieves right here, what do you calculate and in order to properly read in our body for a summer residence, but overgrown and what is your kuba kolas and that it's time for her to read the things of yakub kolas yanka kupala and maksim bogdanovich, they have this ease of life and some of the treasures before. and where is such a philosophy, i am so eternal and most likely, you meet, then the opportunity to put a refusal on your diet. well, what is a jacuzzi for a farm? i think that perhaps our colleagues, bogovsky's dacha will visit the museum of yakub kolas a bagovsky, but shine with

their own event. what do you organize and learn more from the special director of the young director of this museum, and i i'll tell our tv dachas, that today's mine and the guests were the director of the memorial literary museum. yakuba kolas irina matias, because this is not up to her sister at all.