good afternoon father of agape. tell us how you help. first of all, everything that i help people realize that there is a problem. uh, for example, confession comes a woman who tries that she does not have swans of children to break loose on her husband. always somewhere. that's what a lot of annoyance is anger. accumulated in it. uh, and it's noticeable your face is tired, so exhausted and leading questions and help to find out that there are certain problems in the family. often related to addictions or other dysfunctions. i am i carefully suggest that, perhaps, the state depends not because it is so bad. but you simply exhausted yourself, giving yourself to other people without a trace and losing yourself, that you have become, like a discharged battery. here's

a laptop for example, here you just don't have resource love, because you haven't been fueled. and when a person realizes this and accepts, then it is possible to help to emphasize the spiritual attitude. i will normalize with god, let's say, and send it to specialists. i'm still not a psychologist, but not psychologists, psychotherapists. usually needed or groups most helper, such as alan or adult children's alcoholics, that is, in any case, at first it is such a time in the sincere yes , to share your problem with a person who is ready to listen to you in particular with you. and then you, with a kind word and the right advice, send somewhere something like this, yes, they feel that i have some kind of mental problems. here are the sins of the sins. fire anger, too much irritation on people who should love, sort of like the whole family. actually. i hate myself. and once upon a time, how flaws are obeyed and explained that they are just a sin, it’s more likely that you

have some roots of this reason, we’re starting to sort it out, then often here we are, uh. tom stays after the service. i have a separate office for receiving people. we, i spend such consultations there sometimes work as word of mouth. people have already come even a few, namely, directly to meet me, and then we have such lively conversations. so you said that the main thing is to identify the reasons, and what are the most common reasons? here in such codependency in the family? uh, different it happens, but as one of our teachers grigory grigorovich said, a little girl we all come from childhood, or rather from adam and eve, the first dysfunction was born there, when there is a feeling of poor disunity, and all this distorted relations, and then under the growing, how they say vulgarly, probably, there are no healthy births of absolutely happy one hundred percent. yeah , there are families that somehow work on themselves,

probably, somewhere they develop spiritually and mentally, but there are those who go down. here is mine the task is to help. here, uh, here come out of the peck. let's say. so, probably, and a little, it means to climb back up. i suggest that right now we look into the dark room and hear the story of marianne how she got hooked on this codependency. the whole addiction started before i was born from some parental family of my father. well, according to my fantasies, to a lesser extent, my mother. during grandpa and grandma's wedding, grandpa cheated on grandma that very evening. well, for me it's like some kind. well, it's true slightly unhealthy unhealthy start.

family life and relationships in general. although, in principle, then it was the post-war period. and, probably, it was somehow there, maybe more the norm, but grandma lived next to us. mom left with me, my sister was already older, she left, and my father went with me to my grandmother, where my grandmother poured something on him from the window so that he would leave. well, in general, everything was not very healthy, and once i got my father out of

the noose. that is, just like that, i accidentally walked there with the school. before he came there with work, and i just found him a noose around his neck , and then, as if hmm, for me, it’s just some kind of breathing, trembling emptiness. if today well some adult language to translate some sense of the explosion of the world, that is, like this. probably from that moment on, it just became not the norm for me, that is, it feels like even, probably, i was not in the family . well, that is, some kind of my presence has already become impossible. here i am, as i suspect, today, trying to relieve trauma. i had to meet rescue. and in many things there, yes hmm

well, for example, there, i don’t know to control where he is yes and come and tell my mother. yes there, what is he doing there, what is there, but for himself? naturally, i still remember that i constantly caught his mood. yes, what is his level of aggression, the level of intoxication. or he just talks, although hmm on an adult head today, i have very warm feelings for my father, but at that time, ah, in my kind of childish head, yes, it 's more like saving the family was . well, and, accordingly, the father was that bad person who, uh-huh, destroyed the family, or what? does the dish always turn out to be as

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they also started talking about alcohol, apparently, which is also in this family is present. here's an interesting codependency. it occurs more often in families where there is alcohol and drugs, or it is absolutely not an indicator. this is not an indicator. in fact, just unconditionally our by the community it can be seen it is, yes, it is bad alcohol addiction. well, such obvious visible addictions, where the family is, and it is already being said there, yes, something is bad in the family, but there are hidden e where there is violence, physical sexual happens when relatives of violence. oh, and the most one of the hidden invisible psychological emotional abuse. when parents or well, as we said, or aggressively shout at the child, swear, criticize, or vice versa, they coldly

leave contact with the child and this is psychological violence. and this is what causes it. uh, that hidden codependency. well, that’s what passes into adulthood, then e is transferred like this. yes, the hero said that she realized this devastation at what age of her childhood, when she was faced with a situation with a trauma from her dad . this is very sad. it's very tragic indeed. but emotionally it is also closed. the family seems to be doing well. everything is fine. visibility. these can be excellent students, in fact, and now there is such a big trend for anorexic teenagers. i, well it's body mass loss or vice versa, body weight gain. and this is, uh, but if it’s for teenagers, then uh, this is a

question for parents, what happens in the family, when i worked with such families, then i start with children as teenagers, and immediately there was a question for parents. so you said parents should not, but address the child, there somehow move away from him. and i, frankly, if my child there is something wrong, i can do it like a mother. sorry and mount. maybe not quite right, or vice versa, when i 'm in a bad mood. i think it's better. i am i will not approach you, otherwise now i feel that you will receive all my emotions. well, that 's okay. yes, this is some kind of healthy place, there is a healthy place, and when healthy, when i came, i, well, something happened to me. i am a man, yes, you are talking about any i am a man. well, i feel now that i'm angry, but something is there, yes, and i say, so here i am. i just don’t come close, i’ll rest in the room right now. calm down guys you are my loved ones. you are nothing. uh, well, i need to

calm down myself, that is, i need to be myself. and here is the importance that i i'm not angry at you, but i, uh, well, now in such a state, because i have such such events, and i or i will tell you later, uh, but i love you with a semicolon. uh-huh, but let's add. yes, yes, here is your story. uh, she 's talking about what your kids know to love. that's the thing, and there the seed is the same , maybe, but it's not felt there. no, no cheating, no alcoholism. no, there is no drug addiction and violence, maybe even, but there are small squirrels, some kind of crafts, petty ridicule of some interests, but there is simply no time. here, if the mania of the emotional world. and he feels abandoned, that is, kostya sneakers you have a laptop, as they say, don't bother us here, uh, coldness indifference.

eh, then, in fact, from a person and an eternal thirst for a lebo, because a person, brs, god tells me the scripture is me and about this god is love, then me and, as it were for god, there is a need to enrage and be loved. but if in my childhood i don't get my vessel of love, how hot such a well-known specialist he is, then i'm forever still love, but i don't even know his bite. where is she who what is any field tastes and therefore i am constantly poisoned by some sorogats. i am always hungry and hence the problems, co-dependent or dependent relationships. maybe i was listening to svetlana and father agapiy, and a picture appeared in my head, and such a professional picture to the fact that i work with children and bring children to me, of course, from prosperous families. well, so-called, yes. when do children start drawing? and reflect their inner world on paper. it's like an illustration

of what happens to them. i'm certainly not a psychologist. i just work very hard with children over 15 years of age. and sometimes when i look at some topic, sometimes they can draw just some bunnies or a landscape there. i just see in this in color in the plot such a colossal one. loneliness and i immediately have a question what is happening there, and what is in the painted bunny? maybe even a concern? well, lena said about the color? yes , the color scheme, the bunny, can be generally black. suddenly it suddenly got dirty. yes, you are asking a question here. yes what is a bunny? well, what are you, well, if he says messed up, yes. and what can be developed here, too, and what got dirty. and what are your feelings ? yes, plus a bunny, maybe. e, like, a bunny, but the monster is a bunny uh-huh, that is

, huge in volume yes, the scale involved, a bunny, what, uh, a bunny, not a bunny? uh-huh and here then specialists work, yes , psychologists, where do they start asking. well, how do you feel, but what is it about, eh? well, where is it? where did you feel this somewhere? you saw, that is, different questions, suggestive, based on the answers of the child questions, finding out. hmm where is this from, maybe he 'll mention it. and this is me there, uh, suddenly insight there is this intersection. and this, it turns out, is there, oh, someone scared me there, yes, this is this cowardly, bunny. what are you afraid of? and, the bunny can still portray itself. eh, it's me, a bunny, it turns out, i understood, it's still such a big deep work , everything is right, therapy is a wonderful

option, as a way of helping, the father of agape. and i will add. yes, probably, here, uh, one of the frequent topics. handled by the monastery is eye piston. believe me, there may even be two formations. here they spoiled us, they climbed, like particles from this evil spirit, and they start there all the daughter-in-law near the father-in-law or how he is at work or someone else is blamed. well, i remember a few examples when i was still younger, but already worked in this area as an addict. but a family arrived in which the child was often sick, but the doctors couldn’t find anything indiscriminately. well, our eye is to blame, of course, and they just hit, just right on me uh-huh that's uh. yes family, no the split was perfect, but other than that i ask there was no one drinking. no, he doesn't even smoke. and as they say, they don’t

swear with obscenities. well, everything is fine, and i somehow intuitively somehow just asked this child somewhere 5 draw your family without prompts. so poke, that is, from here. just asked to sit here. here she drew. i'm showing them. look how he already has money so you have some kind of conflict, he is in fact, yes, in this banking loaf. we love you, go for a walk, if we love a person, let's play together, if take a walk relationship. and ours to be cursing, most likely a child. here he could not express the feeling of motsb, and so they turn to psychosomatic diseases and at the same time. here you even, in order to help a child, they took a rumble from work. uh-huh and the place these children arrived with their illness. families are trying to reconcile with each other. that's the root cause, most likely, uh, your child's problems for the most, unfortunately, this

time. i didn't generally lack just heroic competence. and at the same time, i did not know specialists who could be targeted direct and therefore, because i could not either this family fully. that's what we, unfortunately, then i try, uh, to be friends with psychologists, psychotherapists, educators, because when a person becomes attached, they stay close so that in practice someone specifically. yes, it's certainly a lot of work. and this topic of relationships and parents is also very important. i don't know if you know such a great film actress, judy denche, she achieved a lot in the cinema art, but it's true the role of the mother, i somehow didn't succeed at all, but her daughter's pregnancy, judy found out when she was already eight months old, perhaps she never said anything in an interview, but her relationship with her child, but in one of the early ones she still said that he really was not the best mother, that she lived and spent her whole life in the theater, but grandmother was engaged in upbringing how

family relationships developed in the life of our heroine from a dark room, we will find out very soon dependent families. we are talking today and again, returning to the story from marianne from dark room about some. again, i repeat for today, awareness, but co-dependence of the parental family. eh, i felt it. probably then when my mother died i was 12 years old. and i became instead of her. well, that is, such a small adult farm, what is there that we lived in a country house? we had rags, they have tomatoes. as i

remember now, i grew seedlings. it was somewhere, probably about 40 tomatoes, no, there were a lot. yes, and there from the grain and up once, uh, she left. well, i didn’t burn them and they just wilted. i remember my repurchase anxiety. good? then my aunt worked there somewhere. i gave it to me, and something to climb something. ha-ha tomatoes from lived, but this is an incommensurable responsibility, uh, which was included to me, of course. well, there, i don't know, but hmm, cook soup there, heat the stove. yes, there somehow e bring firewood there, well, that is, some generally abnormal things, and then also my father gave me a salary in my hands. well, i have such cells. a salary. and for me, of course, now it's just some kind of shock

thing. i represent there. after the ninth class in another city to my aunt, but uh with such a major injury for 3 years. i managed to get a good one. e. well, i think, of course, the most important thing was not the question of relatives in relatives, but in my father, who , er, without taking responsibility for himself, changed the situation. he handed it to me, of course , while the responsibility was on him, he preferred to drink. and it's not like it's some kind of drinking, it's also, uh, it's normal to bring someone to your house. and now i remember such a case when i once i open it at night, my

neighbor is looking at me. i'm 13 years old there. i sleep. and here is the opposite face. i've been there for a very long time. uh-huh like today, yes, this situation is probably the terrible fear that could ever be dreamed there, that is, safety is a responsibility. she was completely completely absent in my life and there is an adult who was supposed to do it. hmm , this was transferred to my family, of course, not by such a serious algorithm, but i, for example, have always worried me how much to drink? my husband exactly the same as i was worried about. how much will the letter father. from this, accordingly, his father's mood depended and depended on it there. well, i'm security. yes , this is exactly the kind of thing. i started to turn everything in the family, although my husband was not an alcoholic, for example, some things when my personal control turned on. well,

when it was just possible to harass there. where , when, why, why don’t you do it there, why don’t you do it, and here it’s just constant tension. i don't know there, probably everyone can e start to hoot. i don't know exactly to tell. well, the truth is, when they hold you there at gunpoint, this is actually what i did, but there, and for a child, you need to put it like this. it needs to be like this. but here it shouldn’t be different, if i left, then i, uh, leaving the child to my husband, that is, completely ah, didn’t understand that an adult can take responsibility just like i didn’t see about you adult person. although there my husband is a completely different person. do you feel any echoes of your history when, as a little girl, you had to become

adult mistress of the family, right? of course, i’m right in front of me right in front of some kind of picture , i remember that ah, i had to go there almost from the first class with a list to the store and bring some bunch of products that were needed and even take some deciding what to change here, what else i can buy home, what the family needs yeah, there is already being, there a little girl. i had to take responsibility for the production of food there. e look again is responsible for my brother, for whom i am younger and was from me, but they asked me, as from an adult already. although, it's all a small difference was there in 3 years, this is your relationship. they were reflected not only in your children, but in your husband, too, somehow here is the story that i began to control my husband. i thought that i was the main one to tell you how

to do it. do you tell your husband what to do? well, now, of course, i behave differently, because i understand where the root of the problem comes from in general. but i certainly understand that i also had such control that my husband had to come home from work by a certain time, and i immediately began to worry why he was not there. and where did he stay? and what happened, although in fact, he could just meet some acquaintances there or go to the store. or there to linger in the queue, but this is the mechanism of endless inclusion in another person. yes, he was present in the same way as with the lessons of the children, he constantly had some kind of control, what did he get? hey, are you well prepared? and all this is no longer my area of ​​responsibility, if this child is no longer a first grader. now my son is already a teenager, and he does it on his own. he studies not for me, but in order to gain some knowledge and

apply it further in life. it's great that elena realized everything, changed her structure and her thinking, but there are people who still can not take either this step or do not know how to help their loved ones, we have questions. e from the internet, which svetlana will draw for you. i have not been drinking for 8 months, but my wife constantly controls me and calls a hundred times during the day he checks the bags, to be honest, he got tired of it and writes. here again, grab a bottle . how can i explain to her that i changed? well , i'll say i sympathize with him. but he does not want to meet, but she has not yet understood. she needs this. maybe more time dependent. here he is not about fears. she is not recovering. well, how much is he recovering there. well, if he, for example hmm, in the community, really, uh, or work with specialists there or in the community of anonymous alcoholics, for example, and he has already taken the steps, he moves there and realizes uh,

here e. well, you know before that i can i uh it turns out, he is the fastest not an authority. it's all the same for his wife to try to find authoritative people. which may not try to try to convey something. maybe the curator of that group? where does he go? well , maybe this group can be specialists, if it was, well, there was a problem with alcohol, but there are narcologists, yes, psychologists working, that is, even in the center of state, uh? well, honey, let's go. come on, because, well, something 's getting bad for me. here i take care of the family, then have, well us about our relationship. i want us to be fine. he can offer. e. well, how far will it go? i do n't know, yes, and here, uh, maybe there will be an option when a person wants to recover , he will have to leave the family. uh-huh. well, because he will have a choice. or start drinking. indeed, because everything is already no urine

no but she doesn’t hear e, she doesn’t accept her, she lives in her state. it's really cool there. well, in quotation marks cool kills. i can no longer tolerate my husband's drinking, but leave him. i'm afraid he's without i'm completely pissed off. what to do? that's about it , uh, you know how to do it. well, what to do? this is right. she can't leave. why because the emotion is dependent on him? yes, and she, what do i get from the fact that i start to save him? yes, the pleasure of the fact that without me the world would collapse. yes, i am god. yes, if here, probably, the father will add my phrase. yes. by the way, this is it, and why? let's just do it, but in fact there is a violation of the first commandment of the law of moses, i am the lord your god, and someone is full of feeder, which i am irreplaceable, which remains

as a buffer between god and man. letting god act in the lives of these people and the second commandment, do not dissolve your idol, and in odessa he just gave a sacrifice to which health brings finances, if relationships with friends and girlfriends are many, many. and therefore, people can even pray a lot to submit notes there for healing. come to the monasteries there to read some kind of akathists there. there is a religious procession distortion of the spiritual realm. and just here i mean, to help people figure it out. it is in this that they are deceived into this trap. and the final question, if i worry about the child all the time. the child is 4 years old, so that luke does not step on the stairs, does not fall, does not let go. it's okay. and then my psychologist friend said

that i was an anxious mother, well, i agree with my psychologist friend, because this is what i said about how a child learns to walk. yes, give the opportunity to fall. but as he will understand that it is not safe. he will understand only when he hits, well, of course, there are boundaries. yes, there is from the stove or something, but there is when you can give the opportunity or that hot iron, but not make it hot, but it is warm there. caution well, that is, with the awareness of an adult position. and as far as it can safely. and then what? yes, what will happen to you , and here, too, give the child the opportunity to make mistakes, and mom puts everything under the arm. well, every time a child. child, of course, that falls into a co-dependent relationship or dependent or dependent freedom and gets addicted, as the mother

of one of our rehabilitators at the center with alcoholism said, the diseases of excessive motherhood. by the way, but sometimes excessive fatherhood. yes, there are dads, they are exactly the same, of course, yes. you know, by the way, actor michael douglas. surely you know such a father has never been such a father himself says that he raised his son poorly, perhaps that is why in 2010 his son was imprisoned for excessive drug use. and uh, other disgrace that he did when his son was in prison. dolgos was even glad about it, firstly. he admitted that he was a really bad father. and, secondly, he said that this is an opportunity for him to come to his senses and not die. this is now, of course, about the son, how relations developed in the family of our heroine, we will find out very soon. what do you know about

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work to work, if you sing to sing to have fun, then to have fun, but if god forbid, his grief is also all sense, aptem. i live honest policy. look in the project of the same name on belarus 24 tv channel. today we are talking about addiction in the family. whether our heroine managed to get off this hook from the dark room, we will find out right now the most serious crisis. it was when the second child was born. just started leaving for the night. you see, alcohol is more than normal, and when i didn’t know it, i didn’t see the echo silencer

from me. well, just sat there. and when it had already reached such a culminating moment, when some kind of danger threatened him, but i understood this completely different man, and these two stories didn’t fit in with me, what was happening there, but i got into psychotherapy and took responsibility for many things happening in my family, that is, i sent my part to myself. well, this is control control with alcohol. uh, the inability to understand that a person is independent and has the right to somehow experience everything, well, then some of his difficulties in the way he wants, if he considers it necessary not to set. ah, there are family relationships of some sort . important there some moment of his life then

force. this doesn't make sense either. and even more so to save, as you really wanted. i actually did it. yes, there is somehow to say to teach that in life there is a friend of friendship something else. well, look how good it is. well, it's kind of persuasive. well, if you don't want it, then you don't need it, you don't need it, i need it. yes, i suffer from it. no, it hurts. but if you don't care so then i'd rather live through this pain than i'll damn it there i'll do it. well, i really liked the expression to suffer is easier than deciding to experience pain and end it. survive it. here, in fact, probably like this with the help of huge support. i probably did, among other things, the support of people close to me, who did not tell me how i needed and what i needed to do, but simply listened to me.

the husband or they said that this is how he sympathizes and quietly. we then went to family therapy, and these things of sticking in dependent relationships, when i can not be with you, but also without you. i can't be either, but they began to resolve. well, when i became freer there, yes react to what, well, he walks. well, that's how it should be, well, i have nothing to do with it. yes, i didn't do anything on purpose. i already understand that i didn’t do anything, i didn’t control it on purpose, i didn’t look. it's just that for me it became some kind of indicator that a person is ill. and i have nothing to do with it. he somehow survives it. yes, and then it became freer outside became calmer. calmer to him, he seemed to have the right to experience his difficulties as he sees fit and

the problem with alcohol, respectively, relations in the family are developing. actually , as some disputes developed conflicts with some kind of something there, but all so different, yes, and good, and there somehow. if you polarize, yes, she is good and bad sex is completely different stories somehow, but for sure. and i can definitely say that it became possible to simply be and live and breathe in them. that is, these are some two adults who are anew, and there they look at each other in all things. here is such a story. this is the end, this is the way. well, you are exactly like specialists and people who have experienced all this for themselves. can you give good advice off that codependency hook in your family.

can you jump? well she said how she applied. well, she obviously reached the bottom when she turned to, uh, a psychotherapist, but if, uh, at least, well, a psychologist to a psychotherapist, but at least start with the fact that well, again, this is about studying this literature about what it is ? how? it's about me? yes? a and uh further these self-help groups alan, he's in yes well uh on the wound. he uh, where you can, well here to get support. here is how she says, it was enough for me that they just listened to me and she was not they evaluated her, accepted her feelings with acceptance, and this is what a person lacks in order to simply even speak out and get out of this state of loneliness. here is this terrible

state of co-dependence, and as if i already have a status. get down that i'm not god uh, where to look for help look for help, but further, of course, work. well, some heroine she has a lot of injuries from her story, working with a specialist, i definitely work here, those copies, it’s probably important, yes, to listen. yes , let me add. uh, personally, i'm afraid to give a ready-made recipe for all this impossible, probably, and it seems, i still live life differently, different methods. so i try to refrain from the soviets in absentia. that is, i just need a person who can work live, and not through someone, but in any case. i've also said a psychologist remarkably, but from my point of view. i recovery begins with the three

most beautiful words in the world. help me please. help me, please, when i wake up and prepare help to understand that i am not god, i am not perfect and ready to accept help, and then help. she will certainly be found somewhere. elena the father of agapi said the three most important words, and from you, solely from your own experience, the three most important recipes. how to jump off? i was listening and i immediately came up with well, such a thought, again to myself, and creativity helped me a lot in life, being a creative person i have been painting and in general drawing right from childhood. this is just a the place where i could redirect all my experiences so that i don’t get included in another person, namely in creativity and e hmm i i think that if a person has some kind of

favorite thing, that he likes a hobby, and it can certainly distract in addition to psychotherapy, of course, work on oneself, but distract from these thoughts that weigh on a person and draw him into it's all addiction. this is the first council, and even the two most recent ones from my own experience. well, i certainly also began to read literature and listen to lectures. i started, and hmm switches to the body to my body, that i am out of my body, that i am not only my thoughts and inner experiences, what else do i have body. and i feel it, i started doing physical education. i started to walk, and then i started to run and feel that i have the muscles of the leg of the arm, and this is one piece of advice, turning into the last one. and in order to run for a reason, i included lectures on codependency. and when

i listened, i thought, well, this, of course, is not about me. this is for my mother to listen, it would be to listen. there was someone else and at some point, when i was running some distance and stopped and realized, stop. lena is just the same everything about you and from now on started my work, yes it's time to turn to yourself, listen to yourself and start changing something in order to jump off the hook of codependency, you don't need so much, first of all, look from others to yourself and start to know your own, not someone else's world . there is hidden, so many interesting things with you. was ekaterina bardo see you.

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hello, health is expensive health care is even more expensive, but the social course of belarus is unshakable, the president took part in the opening new children's polyclinic in minsk and answered journalists' questions. he asks for hunger for a million inhabitants of the planet. how to prevent a dramatic development of events the belarusian leader had a telephone conversation with antonio guterish and the ministry of foreign affairs of belarus is sounding the alarm regarding the construction of a fence in belovezhskaya pushcha by poland and appealing to the world community, the picture of the day is additional. all for the sake of the health of little belarusians, the president opened the ninth city children's clinic. what tasks were the first to set before physicians by the answers in panorama symbol of peace and interethnic friendship in grodno, a festival of national cultures is taking place, we will show it live and sum up the results of the first day. poland's new weapons will soon be covered with fresh paint near our borders in a way that it has never armed before. why would

we talk about this from the european reality sanctions against opponents bring a lot of problems to allies media experts discuss the hottest topics of the week. historical heritage and sporting achievement, the festival continues to march across the country today it is hosted by the stolin district, and its historical riches, we will tell from a panorama of the voluminous program that started the draw of the league of nations in which belarus will also perform, we will also have details of bright matches as part of the sports day, we will discuss the prospects for the ska minsk handball club there with ambitions everything is in order. first of all, it is necessary to develop the state healthcare system, the president said at the opening ceremony in minsk of a new building of the ninth belarusian city children's polyclinic. the leader noted that it is time not only to build a large number of buildings, but also to develop

the technical equipment of a separate attention. about work with personnel money that will be freed from construction. the first proposes to direct , among other things, to increase the salaries of medical workers. in general, the president's visit turned out to be largely programmatic. alexander lukashenko noted the most important tasks for the future not only for doctors, but also for the country, our political observer alexei volkov, with details. 8.000 m² of area capacity of 400 visits per shift and the title of one of the most modern, it's all about the new building of the ninth children's clinic. in minsk , over 15,000 children use the services of leninsky zavodskoy and partizansky districts of the capital at once. waited. especially since we live right across the street. in general, it was very good for us, so it was necessary and you can get there by intraleibus bus or by tram. and now it's close. yes, you can cross the road and already on the spot, the specialists are all in place, all of

their own, it has become very comfortable and convenient. we really like a lot of toys. that someone else pause. yes, help a big clinic at the opening of the nine, the president personally came warm words of gratitude from the first builder to doctors and a kind of strategic postulate from alexander lukashenko for the future. health is expensive health care is even more expensive, but the social course of belarus is unshakable, in general, in the social sphere. we direct most of the funds from the budget, the biggest money. we spend on social programs, this is not the case in any state. well, we took such a course, and this amount of money that is sent part of health care goes to the construction of facilities, the purchase of equipment. uh, medicines and wages, including healthcare workers. here she is, this amount of pie, what is

it called? please, share it is necessary to understand where to get this money? in order to raise the wages of our healthcare workers in general, doctors on average square medical junior staff. and then i said that we should probably tighten up a little with the construction of new buildings. and this is not just knowledge, this is the palace of the president's speech at the opening polyclinics. these are not only plans for the future, but also a passionate analysis of the present. yes , the first one was told a lot in the kitchens, now sanctions are on their lips, but the coronavirus has fallen before the belarusian model, milk, restrictive measures have also gone, so alexander lukashenko is the winner in the situation. can safely say. i warned you that this time of frenzied sanctions shouted that all healthcare workers will not touch the medicine. that's it, there's a technique like that to spit on

our people, we can handle it. let's do without them there are enterprises, where we can buy the spare parts we need, uh, equipment, as you can see, there are many problems, but nonetheless. we are not single task. her decisions were not suspended, and this building is evidence of this. remember pandemic pandemic lactowns stop life and don't breathe. we have not stopped life. we breathed and even contrary to what you wanted. well, where is the pandemic today, by the way, the nine were equipped already in the post-covid era, hence the equipment at the ultra high level of x-rays, dental units and devices monitoring are ready for everything by the nineteenth, twentieth or even thirty-third kind of requirement, of course, were imposed quite strict on everyone that formed red zones.

e requirements of sanitary epidemiology. by a separate entrance for patients, that is, these are such filters for reception - these are gateways, and so on, taking into account. generally. all, uh, the necessary requirements have been created, and a special infectious block has been created. we have an infectious disease unit, where there is a filter cabinet with a separate entrance for receiving patients separate infectious diseases room. that is, in principle, everything will be convenient and respected, but let's return to the general picture of minsk, and over the five-year period, the pediatrics of the capital has noticeably strengthened , many institutions have been opened and repaired. now the task is to shift the focus to the filling equipment and personnel. they decide everything, but not everywhere the staff is staffed. even in the new building nines. there are open positions. however, these are not even flowers, they also survived a much more global shake-up that we gritted our teeth for these two years after the elections. that

we tried to arrange our lives, since we want to arrange it. it turns out today, well, a tolerable life, i will not say that everything is fine, everything is fine, but tolerable. may god keep it that way. the main thing is that we do not turn over to understabilize the country. this is the main thing, and we will build everything else – polyclinics and hospitals and stadiums and so on, maybe not festive. i said this, but i think it's more important than i'm going to say that our efforts were successful, that we spent a lot of money here, you all understand this very well that it's just not given, but i want to promise you that we will do everything to protect our children. first of all, you know that we are on all counts, starting. god forbid, from infant mortality and ending with the treatment

of children, we are in the first five countries of the world, not a rich country, you know, i am maternity capital. you know , we provide such support to children, and we have not reduced a single program. the only thing i will ask you to the belarusians. it's time to start moving a little and think about yourself earning opportunities for yourself enough, especially now the sanctions period. when from russia well, partly with us we , of course, do not particularly notice this. some western companies are leaving someone leaving the business of entrepreneurship. it is necessary to occupy this place and more, so that it is absolutely for you, i see, i’m a statesman, i’ve probably noticed this already, and i will do everything to develop public healthcare, first of all, because i’ve already eaten private food, wherever you throw it everywhere, wedge and everyone wants to make money on people's health and especially

they suffer from it. you have probably noticed that we have begun to look so closely at very tight control, not because i don’t like it, there is no private enterprise, including healthcare, but because we need to work honestly and no one will make money on people’s health, everyone knows. we are building a welfare state for the residents of the partizansky district, our own children's clinic, of course, a holiday at the opening ceremony, the president was given a symbolic key alexander lukashenko does not go empty-handed the institution will be replenished with a rehabilitation simulator for children. as soon as the president enters the building, he will immediately note that

the information panel is a distinctive feature of the belarusian healthcare system, a modern one that is very convenient for ordering coupons for viewing the work of doctors to determine the time of the day and so on, and then we have a school without a woman, where yes, the most difficult thing for them usually, well, everything, women, women, directors of managers, other things, poor women, happy and all the demographic hole, when they give birth, give birth. now we will tell two. per 1,000 boys 941 finally, the development of specialized universities to reduce child mortality. here our country has come out, far ahead in the world ranking of 2.6 per 1,000 births, and the

long-term trend of belarus when girls were born many times more than boys is coming to an end. here is what we said 51% boys 49 girls and at all ages, which is interesting, why there are more boys, because the dynamics of child mortality has decreased in our country, but still promotional trauma was in the first place. you see what a sharp break a sharp break in in a good way, uh, including death rates, so here you are not like nine to 19 blood on the program. that's how infant mortality is also two and three of us, two and three, you can't attribute it, infant mortality is lower than ever, yes, yes, well, here you have pandemics and so on, he said. what do you need to live? and all of you, come on, let's check out people close. here is the result, so six floors, stuffed with the latest technology and the best children's specialists

in the country, all this is about nine. on the whole, for there are now 21 children's polyclinics in minsk. well, reports and posters - this is, of course, good, but journalists know alexander lukashenko wants to see everything with his own eyes. and, of course, to communicate with little patients. well done show. how to properly brush your teeth does not show the doctor. let's be careful. what is your name matvein or motive? matthew so you matthew will tell. thank you, dad is your grandfather. in the village